Break Up and Love / Return / Reconciliation at the Same Time

bshan8 · Unread post by **bshan8** » Sun Mar 24, 2013 12:55 am

I'm having trouble finding the correct spell for my situation.

What I'm aiming at here is separating the man I'm attracted to from the woman he's currently seeing. I want him to finally leave and forget her, she's caused him so much pain. They aren't exactly together but I have no doubts that they soon will be. He shows interest in me however. He's told me that if he wasn't seeing her that he would be with me.
Should I cast two different spells or one and how should it be done? What oils on which candles, and should I use "Come to Me" or "Love Me" for me and him?

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Mar 24, 2013 3:18 am

Hi bshan8 and welcome to the Forum.

Usually the best bet in this case, short of hiring a rootworker to take the case for you, would be to work a break-up spell kit on him and her and a Come to Me spell on him and you. The spell kits have the advantage of coming with all the materials you need to do the work as well as detailed instructions for use. Furthermore, you'll no doubt have left-overs that can be used for work in the future should you so desire. Here are the links to those kits:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html

Blessings and success in your work.

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Mon Mar 25, 2013 9:19 am

Hi Everyone,
First of all its my first time here, so I hope im doing this correctly, forgive me if I'm not
I want to know about somthing I am planning to use, if it will be sucessful. what is your opinion on it.

I am planning to break up a couple and make the guy mine. I do have break up oil and love me oil and one black and one red candle which i bought from Lucky Mojo here.
Someone said i should put both names of the married couple on the black candle and make a cross with the break up oil using my index finger, then write his name on the red one,( not sure if i should writ my name too on this red candle?) make a cross on the red one with the Love me oil and then light both for an hour each day. Im wondering what the effect will be? am i doing it right and will it have a powerful effect like i want?
I would be grateful for any help as i'm new to this
Thanks
Marie

bshan8 · Unread post by **bshan8** » Mon Mar 25, 2013 11:33 pm

Hi aura, thank you for the reply and suggestions.
Do you have sources to any recomended root workers?

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:38 am

Hi bshan8,

we always recommend AIRR workers here on the Forum. Since the Association has an Ombudsman and a Code of Ethics, you can be assured a high standard of quality as well as recourse should you have a problem along the way. You can look through the AIRR members here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri Mar 29, 2013 12:46 am

--marie2,

I can't make an assessment of the outcome of your work, in general. That would require a reading, and we don't offer those, through the forum. That said, a reading may be the best place to start. Breaking up a married couple can be heavy work, and ultimately futile, if it isn't justified. If you wish to consult a reader, check out the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

You haven't given us much data, on the situation. Do you have any personal concerns, for the people involved (hair, blood, handwriting, foot tracks, etc.)? Without some connection, you're going to have a hard time separating them, or drawing him in. Dressing and lighting candles may not have enough oomph, on its own, for what you're after.

I'd recommend you read up on candle magic, in the hoodoo tradition. It might help you understand how this kind of work is assembled.

http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html

You could also consider hiring a professional rootworker, to do the job for you.

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Fri Mar 29, 2013 10:25 am

Thanks so much for your reply.
First of all, I'm still involved with this guy but he hasn't been in contact for a week now. ya we are seeing each other in secret. At the moment I have no personal concerns from him, but I do have a picture of him and one of his wife too.
Should I put this picture on the black candle? will it make it more powerful, along with the names of them?

On the subject of a rootworker, yes i would absolutely hire one to do the work for me. but I have hired a few online, obviously I was scammed as nothing happened only I lost all the money and left me with no results at all, obviously they were scammers. I would hire one to do the work, but I don't know who would do this for me? I know alot of rootworkers won't take on this type of work, I really don't know why not.

do you think my pictures of them will be strong enough to break them up? If I do go ahead with what I'm planning, will it have an effect on them?
maybe I could get some semen if that would help?

I look forward to any help again from you
thanks
Marie

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri Mar 29, 2013 7:51 pm

marie2 wrote:I know alot of rootworkers won't take on this type of work, I really don't know why not.

Each worker chooses what work they are and are not willing to take. Some are morally uncomfortable with this type of work, and some may just not be gifted for it. I won't undertake breaking up a marriage without a reading, and even then, I have to see some justification.

You don't seem to be very familiar with the hoodoo tradition. I would, again, suggest that you read over the above article on candle work. It will give you an idea of how to go about the work. You might also look at Lucky Mojo's Break Up spell kit. It contains the supplies you'd need, and detailed instructions:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html

If you would prefer to hire a professional, go to AIRR, and read through the members' profiles. It says what kind of work they are willing to perform. I'd venture that most of them are going to require a reading, before taking on a job, like this. If that's the case, schedule the reading, and be sure to fill them in on what's going on, and the results you'd like to achieve.

http://readersandrootworkers.org

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 11:17 am

Thanks Dr Hob

I completely understand what you're saying and any root worker is entitled to do this work or not to do this kind of work. I have in the past email many of them and I couldnt find any that would be willing to help. Is there any way you can find out for me one that would take on my case, If you can't it's ok not a problem.

I will of course be reading up on candle magick, is there any assistance you can give me with this?
I have Lucky Mojo Break up oil and Love me oil and a black and a red candle
Marie

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 11:18 am

Also I will of course consider Lucky Mojo Break up spell kits

Do they come with full instructions and can anyone use them? are they easy to use?
would they definitely work?
Marie

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 1:24 pm

The spell kits come with instructions, and anyone can work them. There are no guarantees, in magic. There are too many variables. The spell kits will allow you to perform the intended job properly, in the hoodoo tradition.

I can't offer much more than what I've already said: go to AIRR, read through the members' profiles, and find one who does breakup work. You'll have to contact them, to arrange things from there. Just because they do the kind of work, doesn't mean they will take your case. That's ultimately up to their discretion.

Again, read about candle magic, in hoodoo. The above link os from Miss cat's free, online book: Hoodoo in Theory & Practice. Understanding the fundamentals, will help.

Search this forum for break up situations. There are a lot to be found,and may give you further insight.

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Mon Apr 01, 2013 2:37 pm

Thank you so much, You're very kind. Any more help would be appreciated
thanks

Marie

canaria · Unread post by **canaria** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 1:51 pm

I have received my package from lucky mojo now and have been working on a break up spell kit for three days. Yesterday, second day of the spell i heard a glass breaking outside. For a moment i was thinking that i have no items of glass on my terrace and continued working my spell, not thinking about it. A bit later i was looking out of the window and saw a candle and a broken candle holder on the floor that i had forgotten i had. It was windy but the candle was big and heavy, besides it has been standing on the same place during much worse storms throughout the winter. Not sure though because it could still have been the wind...Today i had to pack my sons things as he is staying there for tonight and all day tomorrow. I packed his things in a canvas bag and below that bag, inside the canvas i mixed hot foot powder and oil, inflammatory confusion oil, break up powder and oil. I was thinking that they will put the bag on the floor at home and some of the powder will fall on the floor. It would be better than throwing hot foot powder outside their apartment block right? Also i put brek up oil and inflammatory confusion oil on the handles of the bag. It sure smells but as they know nothing about hoodoo they wont get suspicious. The worse they could do would be leaving it on the terrace where they would still be walking barefoot. I have goofer dust too but didnt want it near my son. I prayed for protection for my son first and then i prayed that the other woman would go away and that they would hate each other and break up. I had their photo in front of me that really helped me to feel the anger. I still havent received my reading though, its been more than a month and it seems i am losing valuable time and could be on a wrong path altogether. I have sent 3 e-mails to Conjureman Ali but have received no response...

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sat Apr 06, 2013 2:35 pm

Hi Everyone.

Further to my posting above, I am now waiting on the oils to arrive but I'm wondering if I use Essence of Bent over Oil would it help? I was going to put it on his picture would it help me at all? If i do this what would the effects of it be?

Marie

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sat Apr 06, 2013 2:37 pm

Forgot to say in my posting above that I already have Essence of Bent over oil, that i got from Lucky Mojo before so would it be any benefit to my situation?

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sat Apr 06, 2013 8:23 pm

Hi Everyone,

I have been involved with this married man for some time and I love him so so much.

I want to break them up and be with him.

I already have Essence of Bent over oil, but I now have ordered Break up Oil and Love me oil, also a Black Candle.

1) I'm wondering will I get any effect if I put the Essence of Bent over Oil on his picture and maybe light a candle while I'm waiting for the other oils to arrive?

2) Do I have to light it daily?

3) Do i need to put the oil on maybe the ground where he walks, would this help at all?

4) If i put the couples picture on the black candle with their names and light it, how long before it starts to have an effect on them, do I need to say anything while I'm making the cross with the break up oil, like "You love will grow cold for each other and fight so much now" ? I was going to put his name and mine on a red candle also and make a cross with the love me oil.

I would be so grateful for any help.

thank you all so much

Marie

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Thu Apr 11, 2013 1:56 pm

Hello,

I got a reading from two different psychics and they both told me that a jealous woman put a Black Magic Spell on myself and my soulmate to Break Us Up cause she didn't want us to be together and i know they're telling the truth.

My soulmate and I DON'T live in the same State however, he always stayed in contact with me. We conversed every single day BEFORE the evil workings of this jealous hearted woman. The last time I spoke to my soulmate was by phone and he kelp begging me to come get him. He wanted us to be a family. I blame myself beacause i knew that the women who live in his small town area believe in voodoo. I didn't act quick enough and the woman the psychics spoke of has broken communication between my ex boyfriend and i. The evil woman knows that we are soulmates and that he was getting ready to come back to me and she quickly put a stop to it. I know his heart is still with me but his mind isn't.

My ex boyfriend and i had a love that was so strong even when we layed eyes on eachother or touch one another we felt it. It was so powerful! And this is what we would openly speak about. I can't go a day without thinking about this man, we WERE inseparable.

This evil woman has pictures of me and she knows my name and I know that's all she need to work against me. Fortunately, I have the same info about her.

He currently lives with this woman and I know she has access to his personal belongings that I Don't have. The only thing I have is pictures of him and I together from when we were kids as well as some recent pictures i got from one of the social network sites of him. I tried to seek help from one of your AIRR: ASSOCIATION OF INDEPENDENT READERS AND ROOTWORKERS but since my ex and I have been separated for a year, i think she felt like she couldn't help me and that's totally fine. I appreciate her time.

I've been in this situation before and I know the spell on him can be broken. The problem is when I broke the spell that a previous woman put on him to stop our communication, I didn't go get him I know to immediately take Action next time and protect the both of us from the affliction of evil in the future.

I would like to know should I perform a "Fiery Wall of Protection Spell" Or an "Uncrossing Spell" on him and/or the both of us. I also saw the "Return to Me Spell Kit". I'm thinking maybe i should perform one of the cleansing spells BEFORE i perform the "Return To Me Spell Kit". What do you'll suggest?

I want to do the mirror box spell as well cause I know once I get my soulmate back (I have faith in God that we will reunite) the evil woman will try to pull him back. The only problem is I'm skeptical about burying the box in a graveyard in the end. You have to expect the unexpected when dealing with graveyard spirits.

Please help me decide on a spell to get to Bring my man back home where he belongs!

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sat Apr 13, 2013 2:58 pm

Hi
I just thought I might put a posting here, I hope someone will be able to assist me

I want to perform some work on a couple aswell as love work on myself and the guy involved. I am involved with a guy who is with someone else, I love him to bits and want to be with him.

I have Essence of Bent over Oil. Love me oil and Break up oil. I also have a black candle. I am wondering if I put the couples name on the black candle and then light it, then make a cross with the break up oil and light it for a little while each day or whenever I can. will it cause an effect on them? will it make them fight, its what I want.
I want to make the guy come to me, so I was going to get a red candle and put the guy's name on it then light it and put the love me oil on it. I''m wondering do I need to put my name on this one too or just his? Is there any need for the Essence of Bent Over Oil to be used aswell. I would love to hear from anyone who has had success with these Oils. I would be extremely grateful for help with this.

How long will it take to take effect on them and what will the effects be on me and him? will he get obsessed?
Marie

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Sat Apr 13, 2013 4:40 pm

The kind of results you are asking about are unpredictable and can not be given as a guarantee. Everyone has a different experience.

It sounds like your work is in the right place, but these kinds of prediction can only be given in a reading. Even then it is not a guarantee, but rather can be seen if it is a possibility.

Perhaps the best way forward for you is to contact a Professional Practitioner for a reading at either of these sites:

http://www.rootworkers.com
or
http://www.hoodoopsychics.com

Best of Luck to You!

marie2 · Unread post by **marie2** » Sun Apr 14, 2013 6:28 am

ok thank you very much

Anyone else who can help, or tried oils like this would be appreciated
thanks
Marie

ShivneelSingh · Unread post by **ShivneelSingh** » Mon Apr 15, 2013 12:04 pm

I've somewhat done this before.
Do not use Essence of Bend Over, it mostly likely will have a negative affect. (I'm telling from experience).

Light the Break-up candle and the Come to Me candle at the same time. This will cause that couple to break-up and will make him come to you while they're breaking up. Then light Love Me candles. After Love Me candle, maybe look into Stay With Me. Stay With Me will help him stay with you and not think about going back to his ex.
Afterwards, look into Follow Me Boy, it works wonders. But, do not light Follow Me Boy until you two are officially together.

Also, think about doing a honey jar throughout the whole process.

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 4:21 am

Hi hawkness,

Hopefully things have openned up in your favour with the object of your affections since you posted. If you haven't yet had MISC burn a set of candles for you, one idea would be to do a series of burns to put and keep heat on the situation and get things moving more quickly as a result. The following is one possible set of burns that could help your situation:

Series 1:
Cut and Clear burnt on the lover so he gets over his ex
Road Opener burnt on you and the lover to get the obstacles in the way of the two of you cleared
Come To Me burnt on you and the lover so he moves closer to you

Series 2 & 3:
Clarity burnt on the lover so he sees the situation and you clearly
King Solomon Wisdom burnt on the both of you so you can make mature and wise decisions with regards to your bond
Chuparrosa on the both of you

Blessings and do keep us updated on how things develop.

AprilRaine · Unread post by **AprilRaine** » Fri May 10, 2013 5:03 pm

Please pardon me for starting a new topic, I was just not sure where to ask this question. I am in a long-term relationship with a man who's married. I've done break up work. The divination that I've done (tarot) consistently tells me that I'll reach my goal (which is to see that union end and become his wife) BUT there is a great deal of work left to do and that I need to also be doing work that draws him closer to me. I am going to order a spell kit tonight from LM of that type, but in this kind of circumstance I don't know which one makes the most sense. I appreciate any guidance in that and any additional ideas, as well. I have a honey jar working in this situation and we are very close and affectionate with each other.... just in case that information helps.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat May 11, 2013 9:17 am

To draw someone to you closer who is already in your life consider Follow Me Boy, Fire of Love, Stay With Me.

Follow Me Boy (http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html) to keep him coming to you.
Fire of Love (http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html) to keep long term relationships strong and hot...(I've found)
Stay With Me (http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html) to add a level of security...

AprilRaine · Unread post by **AprilRaine** » Sat May 11, 2013 10:21 am

Thank you for that answer..... think I'm going to choose all three and work one each month for three months.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sun May 19, 2013 4:41 pm

Hi Gods Child,

Sorry to hear you are going through this.

I have to ask though, you said he called and was begging for you to come and get him? That kind of thing doesn't sit well with me unless its my son or a friend. But a man who's been your lover is calling and begging for you to get him? He sounds like he needs to man up. You can do better. And a year is pretty darn long.

First and foremost, get some rosemary plants and put them in your front yard or in little pots by your front door. If you're strapped for that, get some Rosemary in the spice aisle of the grocery store and sprinkle it on the some plants near your door. Rosemary is for strong woman and you need some shoring up here to stop being preyed on energetically by this guy. Let the other woman have him is what I would say, she'll probably kick him out anyway. Either way, You are obsessing about him and that's not good for you dear one.

As far as the "Black Magic" spell that you said 2 psychics said was put on him, did the AIRR reader/rootworker say this to you? And did you speak to one who specializes in jinxs, hexs, black magic and the like? Like any Doctor there are specialists and the AIRR lists what each reader/rookworker specializes in.

Go back, you mentioned you spoke to a woman, speak to a man reader/rootworker this time. A man Doctor will be able to tell you from the man's perspective and he'll also address the magical aspect. Plus the Doctor men on this site are Herculean Energetically and they'll be able to tell you one way or another if its even worth moving forward or not.

I like the cleansings baths first, you're right on about that. Then the protection baths and spells ( these are for you) you might also look at the Clarity spells and products to get some insight into this situation for your peace of mind.

Online the clarity oil is under: OIL-HOO-CLAR and if you go to the Lucky Mojo you'll see that there's a coupon for the King Solomon Wisdom Spiritual Supplies, I love the King Solomon supplies because they enable you to make wise decisions and increase your mental powers. People use them for school and tests but they are truly great for wisdom in all things.

Also then you want to do some protection work for yourself such as Fiery Wall of Protection protection or St. Michael products.

You can also do a Return to me Spell on the ex. Do you have anything with his sweat on it?

And a dollbaby on the witchwoman. Go to the thread on dollbabies, there are excellent posts on that subject.
You could also do a dollbaby of her and another man ( different from the man you want) and bind them together and stuff them in a coffee jar. That would put her in another man's path and make your man open to the possibility of reuniting.

Last but not least, set a time limit on how much longer you're going to do work on this thing. When the time is past, do a cut & clear spell, then buy some bewitching products or look me over products and attract a new man into you life.

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Sun May 19, 2013 5:17 pm

Thank you for your honest opinion Miss Olivia! You're greatly appreciated.

I received readings from independent psychics in which i found online. They both told me they can resolve my issue for a fee. I will contact one of the male readers/rootworkers from AIRR this time.

I don't have anything with his sweat on it. I have pictures only. I've pulled him back from a witch woman before and we were separated for at least 3 years with any communication at all, so i believe i can get him back again. I know i can do better but i know he can be a better man if he wasn't being held up. That woman doesn't want him to work, he's under her control. She don't trust him herself. I'm older and not playing games with him now. I know what i want and the consequences for my actions. I believe if i get him back i can fix him with my hoodoo work.

I've decided to do a dollbaby on the witch woman to send her to another man. I appreciate your suggestions and i will do what you recommended. Thank you so much for your time?

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Sun May 19, 2013 5:28 pm

Miss Olivia,

Can you please send me links to the dollbaby products i will need to send the witch woman to another man. I did a Hot Foot Spell on her and she moved out of town immediately but he moved with her cause he is under her control. I need to take care of her in order for him to reach out to me again. Thanks in advance.

HopelessRomantic415 · Unread post by **HopelessRomantic415** » Sat May 25, 2013 10:17 am

My situation is a weird one. I'll try to keep it short.

I had a friend that I was friends with for at least three years, strictly friends, we'd see each other at social gatherings and talk once in a while when she needed advice. As of last September we had both started actually hanging out, both single, and we completely hit it off in 3 weeks time, completely inseparable, huge connection beyond just intimacy. This went on for about 5 months nonstop. When we were dating she told me she'd never been with someone so nice and genuine and that she loved me a lot.

They her ex pops up making promises, mind you they'd broken up twice already from her ex cheating and they'd barely been together a year. Her ex has been abusive mentally and physically. Her family wants nothing to do with her ex. As I on the other hand am very close to her family and friends.

She became confused at her exes advances, as me being heartbroken I of course distanced myself and since my love is unconditional I told her I support her but have to back off for my own sanity because I was so in love with her as she was with me. She wanted me to still be with her but I couldn't with the ex in the picture. She would still contact me over the next two months.

The third month I seen her and we became intimate and quickly understood it was wrong. But it's been a month and a half since then and she still casually texts me or we might hang with a group.

I hung out with her alone for the first time in a while last night, and all she talked about was not being happy in her relationship and she doesn't know what to do because she thinks she loves her gf but they've barely been back on and it's already falling apart.

I just want her back, so she can finally see what a good relationship is and I miss her. We still have a huge connection. Please help.

Petpet · Unread post by **Petpet** » Sat Jun 01, 2013 4:06 pm

Hi everyone!

Just a question for anyone that can help me.

Im working on getting my ex back.

Is it ok to work on his break up with new friend. And reconciliation work for him and I? At the same time?

Example... Vinegar jar for them and honey jar for him and I. And back them up with break up vigil candle for vinegar jar and come to me vigil for honey jar.

Or should I focus on break up first?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jun 01, 2013 4:11 pm

Welcome, Petpet:

This is the "breakup while i get my lover back" thread, and plenty of people have asked the same question that you have -- about getting your lover back and breaking him or her away from his or her new lover -- with various replies.

My inclination is to work both spells at once, but at different times of the day (morning to drawing, evening for sending away) and either on different tables or altars, or at different ends of the same altar (East for drawing, West for sending away).

Good luck with your work.

Petpet · Unread post by **Petpet** » Sat Jun 01, 2013 5:05 pm

Thank you so very much! I love your product.

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:18 am

My soul mate and i are now back in contact!

It took about 5 months for me to uncross him from the witch woman's spell.

He lives 10 hours away from me and the only items i had to work with was pictures of the two of us from when we were kids. He reached out to me with love and he's ready to leave her to come visit me.

All I can do is try to see if things will work out between us. If not, i am going to perform a Cut and clear spell on myself cause life goes on.

ibelieve1 · Unread post by **ibelieve1** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 9:32 am

I burn my love candles in my living room on the hearth by the pellet stove and I burn my dark candles in the bathroom the break up ones. But my question is I have LM white glass candles and I am going to back up the love and the break up but I only feel safe leaving them burn on the pellet stove area is it ok to burn love on one side and the break up on the other? I am sure I sound silly but I have looked and don't see this in the forum. Thank you.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 1:35 pm

Yes you can, lots of ppl only have one area to work and they separate the work as you suggested..others with more room may have table for love one for break up etc. Besides its better to be safe then sorry.. what good is it if you stress all day that it will burn down... go with your gut

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 3:02 pm

This topic deals with any kind of spell for ...

Break-Up Plus Attracting a New Love at the Same Time

Break up Plus Reviving an Old Love at the Same Time

Break Up Plus Reconciliation with Ex at the Same Time

It is located here:

break-up-and-love-reconciliation-at-the ... -t228.html

This thread is just an announcement and it is locked to prevent further posting, so to read about or post on this topic, please go to the URL above and post there.

Thanks!

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 4:52 pm

Hello,

I recently received a reading from an AIRR member. He recommended that i goof up the evil witch woman since i know where she lives. She has done the ultimate harm to me and/or tried to.

She's manipulating the man that i love to stay with her again. I was told by the male reader that as long as she isn't manipulating him, he will return to me.

I have faith in my work and i need her to be put down as soon as possible, so that she will not be able to go pay any other root worker to do her dirty work for her. I want her to lose everything she has.

I don't want too much time to pass cause this woman just had another spell put on him and i spoke to this man a week ago. Now she has got him again after she discovered he was about to come back to me.

I have a current picture of her, her full name, a female image candle, goofer powder, double crossing oil, etc. I'm getting a black skull candle, black arts oil cause i read that is a powerful spell.

1) What candle spell do you recommend?

2) What root and/or powder can i bury in her yard to be more effective?

3) Do you have any other suggestions?

Thank you in advance for your time.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 5:26 pm

Im sure many will respond with great ideas and workings to do..but to me one that stands out as an ASAP is protection work on you and the man to stop this womens interfering.. Look into LM firey wall of protection spell kit, comes with everything needed. Id also look into protecting your home as well.. LM has spells on the free site for that. Could you tie this person up in double mirrors to make all their negativity to come back at them etc. Good lucK!

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 5:44 pm

Hello J82,

Thank you so much for your response. Since he has a controlling spell on him again by the witch woman do you recommend that i uncross him with spell breaker products first or just do the FWOP spell.

Yes, i can tie her up if i knew the complete spell instructions and supplies needed to do so. I will look into it. Thank you again! You are greatly appreciated.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:04 pm

I would definetly uncross you and him..do a cleansing of your entire home car yard etc.. I seen using st Michael packets to bury in the 4 corners of the yard, or LM has rail nails to nail down for protection.. after you and him are cleansed then you do the firey wall as its protecting you then from it.. the spell kit is great cuz it uses protectors wherther real like cops or ppl or spiritual like sprirts or st Michael

here is the link, the mirror box is in the middle : http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Iv seen ppl take two mirrors never looked in, washed with revenge or anoter bath then take two pics of the person put em back to back then stick the mirrors looking inward and seal it shut but wrapping it with black thread. All the time praying for it to reverse on them, this also works to send negativity back, or make a person see their true selves. you can burn a reverse candle along with it as you work it. Alternative is to take a picture of you put em back to back and stick the mirror part shining outward and seal it shut like glue it shut.. add to the glue before sealing it protection herbs, pray that any evil or what not be sent back to its creator. . yes you can make one for him also... yes I would uncross first to get rid of the mess....

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:24 pm

Thank you!

The only issue i have with the mirror box spell is that you have to bury it in a graveyard. I am terrified to do such a thing. Do you know of an alternative to bury the box in the end?

Question, if i have already performed a spell on the witch woman in the past to do harm should i still do the reversible spell? I don't want to harm myself. Again, i thank you!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:25 pm

You don't need to burry one. the two I mentioned don't need to be buried, like the protection one can be hidden in your home to keep protecting. the one to reverse id hide away in a dark place

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Tue Jun 18, 2013 9:32 pm

I recently uncrossed my ex man, he reached out to me, and unfortunately now he's crossed up again.

His current woman is a witch woman and has him under her control. I almost had him back.

I'd hate to get him that close to leaving her again and all of a sudden have to go through the entire uncrossing procedure again. I'm trying to think smart this time.

I'm going to uncross him and myself again but this time I want to put a protection shield on him so that this witch woman will not be able to manipulate him again. Any powerful suggestions? Candle spell recommendations...

Thank you for taking time out to read.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 8:55 am

God's Child,

I have been following your posts here at the forum, and have bundled them all together into this one thread, because even though protection is part of the issue, the basic goal is to break them up and to get him back, hence it is a break-up / reconciliation situation.

The fact that you got him back most of the way after 5 months of candle magic is a win for you. The fact that she then reeled him back into her clutches (whether or not she also has another man, as was unclear) means that she is indeed a powerful worker.

However, he has a voice in this situation as well, and my sense is that he is not just a helpless pawn in her game of rulership and control. There is something about him that speaks to "taking the easy way out" that allows her to work on his head, even when he tells you he wants to resume his relationship with you.

You are at a distinct disadvantage here because you and he live so far apart. Candle magic is powerful, but it will never take the place of contact magic when it comes to love and family work.

Since you wish to protect him, but must do so from a distance, and you have stated a preference for candle work, i suggest the candle, water, and photograph spell i published in my "Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic" book under the title "A Mother's Guiding Light for Her Children." This spell can be used to protect distant adults, lovers, friends, or even celebrities and politicians. It is not as powerful as providing the person whom you wish to protect with an actual amulet or talisman of safety, but it provides significant benefits, in my experience.

The book also contains full instructions on how to perform a classic figural candle spell for return-reconciliation with an ex while simultaneously breaking him/her away from his/her current lover.

Here's the information on the book:

BOO-GRI-AHCM
The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic by catherine yronwode and Mikhail Strabo
$12.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

Good luck.

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 4:01 pm

Hello Ms. Cat,

Thank you for replying. I am indeed purchasing your book! My ex and the witch woman currently live together and i don't know whether or not she has a man on the side. I spoke to a psychic who informed me that the witch woman tried to put an black magic spell on me herself to cause me harm and also perform a spell on him but it didn't work. I was told that she is paying a root worker to keep him. Although i am distant from him i do know where they live.

I am going to visit the city where they live and perform your Break Up Spell Kit. I know nothing is guaranteed and if it's God's will, he and i will reunite.

Do you think the Break Up Spell maybe more effective if i perform it close by where they live? I have recent pictures of them both to work with.

Thank you for your knowledge!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 4:29 pm

Gods Child, you speak of readings you had, were they AIRR readers , if not we cant really take their reading as sound advice.. sure many do exist out of AIRR but this is a site run by LM and AIRR workers have to through a process with Cat.. that being said reach out to an Airr worker. I also worry because it seems you are doing a lot of readings and shopping around to hear what you want and need. I been in those shoes in a break up before, its ugly. Id really like to see you sit down with an AIRR worker and see whats up and burn a clarity candle on you. That being said, yes you can burn the candles at home but if you can get the powders and stuff on them soo much the better IE their door step, etc. send her pic away (from her mailbox and take his photo home with you) best of luck!

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 4:59 pm

J82,

Yes, i've received readings from Mr. Lou Florez and Mr. Deacon Millett.

I just was wondering what else i could do myself to make things more powerful.

I don't know which apartment exactly they live in but i know which complex. It's only four apartments in the complex. Hopefully, i can choice the correct box to put the picture in or just not do it at all. Thank you for the advice.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 5:14 pm

You can always have LM set candles on their alter for you while you do the work. Um I would not leave their pics at the apartment that is a dead give someone is working on you. you can sprinkle the mix in front of the four entry ways so you got em covered. id burn her picture with a petition on the back stating what you want ( her to leave) then mix it with hot foot powder and start from the complex and go the opposite way of your home and drive a good distance distributing a little powder and picture ash at each major intersection ( or highway entrance if you really wana go far). then burn his pic with a pic of you and your petition mix it with a love drawing powder and from the road drop a little each way till you reach your home. more powerful? asked a lot on here, well personal concerns or them contacting it helps otherwise God so pray!

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 6:09 pm

Okay thank you!

They used to stay in Marianna, Arkansas and i performed a Break Up spell using break up oil, hot foot oil and lemon verbena in the past. Then they moved 5 hours away to Fayetteville, Arkansas immediately after i performed my spell. My intention was to make her move and not him move away with her, lol. I just want to ensure that i don't hot foot her away with him again. I was burning two black image candles facing the opposite direction. It didn't work out the way i wanted it to.

Thank you again for the suggestion. I'd feel better if i go to their home cause i know they will cross the path i lay the trick.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 6:12 pm

well dress the back of his candle with break up oil dress the whole candle of hers and dress her feet with hot foot powder

Gods Child · Unread post by **Gods Child** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 6:32 pm

Sounds good. I put Hot foot oil in both of the candles last time. Silly me.

janie913 · Unread post by **janie913** » Sun Jun 23, 2013 7:09 pm

I have been crushing on this guy for maybe a month now. So I ordered a Come to Me candle and the glass came out clear except for two hearts in opposite directions. I ordered another Come to Me one as a reinforcement to the prior. Apparently, I found out he is dating a girl who I think has/had a boyfriend who is in the army recently. For some reason, if he cannot be with me, I think he deserves someone better other than her. I have been trying to get him to notice me. Is there a candle or a rootworker who could do a 'break up' work?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Jun 23, 2013 7:29 pm

janie913,

I have merged your request into the long thread on breaking up a couple so that you can attract or re-attract one of the people in that couple. In your case, you want to break them up to attract new love.

Candles: Breal-Up for them abd Look Me Over or Attraction for yourself.

Rootworkers: Not too many will breaka couple up under these circumstances as all you have is a crush on him, with no sign that he cares for you.

Read over the thread -- there is a lot of good advice in these pages -- and if you have further questions, just ask.

janie913 · Unread post by **janie913** » Mon Jun 24, 2013 11:45 am

Thank you.
Is there a rootworker who can do working for the guy to be attracted to me or someone else other than her?

catherineyronwode wrote:janie913,

I have merged your request into the long thread on breaking up a couple so that you can attract or re-attract one of the people in that couple. In your case, you want to break them up to attract new love.

Candles: Breal-Up for them abd Look Me Over or Attraction for yourself.

Rootworkers: Not too many will breaka couple up under these circumstances as all you have is a crush on him, with no sign that he cares for you.

Read over the thread -- there is a lot of good advice in these pages -- and if you have further questions, just ask.

ibelieve1 · Unread post by **ibelieve1** » Mon Jun 24, 2013 4:19 pm

If I made a honey jar on someone and it worked and I put it away and quit working it and I see us drifting a little can i get it out shake it and burn candles on it or do I have to start over?

WildChild · Unread post by **WildChild** » Wed Jun 26, 2013 6:23 pm

Hello,

I'm sorry to abruptly ask another question, but I'm not sure where else to post. I'm going to be doing the break-up and reconciliation/love spell with the figural candles soon. I was wondering if I could use clarity oil on a helper candle to have my partner see his relations with his ex (the rival) is so unhealthy. If I can do this where would I put the helper candle with the clarity oil? Next to him or between him and the rival? I also saw in the forum somewhere that there is a way of him seeing the rival's bad traits and at the same time something I could use about him not even thinking these thoughts are brought on by anything but his own mind.

Also he does have many other casual lovers but this particular "ex-lover" is the one I'm trying to get rid of. He is very confused in general about women and how he treats them in his personal life. So with all these other women, should I somehow represent them in the break up spell as well? Or would I have to do another? And can I make him look at commitment in a more accepting light with the clarity oil?

I'm pretty new to all this so any and all help would be appreciated! Thanks!

secretkeeper · Unread post by **secretkeeper** » Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:56 pm

HI,

Im new to this site and need some advice as im feeling over whelmed with all the information.

i tried some love spells to bring my ex back. long story short he cheated on me again and left me for someone else, who he left after a week to get with the girl he is with now.

Basically im looking to help seperate my ex from his current girlfriend and get him back with me. I still feel something between us.

Oh also he turned mean when we split and we dont talk (his choice) but i forgive him. He asked for us to have no contact - and i have abided. but this is 1 year later now and he is still asking about me so i know he is curious and i know he must still care. he is with this girl still but he constantly asks friends about me? to me this is showing that he still cares/thinks about me and has feelings. I want to play on these feelings and get him to come back even after this year.

I have been told he sees me as the safe choice and ill always be there and that he does still care for me. I want him to leave this girl and for him to come back to me for good as i dont feel our paths together have finished.

Ive done some spells to bring him back but not any luck.

Can anyone help please? Can anyone advise.

Thanks

janie913 · Unread post by **janie913** » Tue Jul 09, 2013 5:18 pm

catherineyronwode wrote:janie913,

I have merged your request into the long thread on breaking up a couple so that you can attract or re-attract one of the people in that couple. In your case, you want to break them up to attract new love.

Candles: Breal-Up for them abd Look Me Over or Attraction for yourself.

Rootworkers: Not too many will breaka couple up under these circumstances as all you have is a crush on him, with no sign that he cares for you.

Read over the thread -- there is a lot of good advice in these pages -- and if you have further questions, just ask.

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The break up candle didn't work as planned and I was told to look for a different approach. Although I'm not sure what.

simplyme09 · Unread post by **simplyme09** » Sun Jul 21, 2013 10:42 am

Hey all. I'm new here and hoping for some help/insight.

I need help breaking up a relationship. This woman is as evil as it comes. She's casted against my marriage and broke my family apart.

I'd worked with previous casters to no avail, but after working with a local caster, we managed to bring my husband back within a month and a half. Unfortunately the caster was not able to get this woman out of the picture and she kept on casting upon us and bring us problems and we finally broke up again. The caster has since moved and I don't know where to rely on so I'm hoping to self cast.

I've tried freezer spells and I only get a temporary fix, I have also tried the vinegar jar spell and it only seems to get them closer.

My husband says he loves me and wants to be with me, but she convinces him that I will hurt him and I won't make him happy, so he decides not to come back to me.

She's very into the occult. I feel like I'm at a spell war with her.

All the readings that I have ever gotten all say the same thing, that he does love me, that he doesn't love her, that she's a bad person and that he will come back to me, but we will be facing a lot of obstacles because of her.

ANYONE PLEASE HELP!! My children really need their daddy home!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jul 24, 2013 12:38 pm

In a situation where you are dealing with another spellcaster or rootworker who has engaged in a magical battle with you over your husband what you need to do is change the positions of power. Right now you are clawing at her from a disadvantage only getting temporary respite. What you need to do is change the playing field.

Start by a serious cleansing of yourself and your home. Follow up by protecting yourself and your home. You can try to bring back your husband if your house is filled with all the negativity and evil she's sent. Then after you're protected, make a doll baby on her, bind it, blind fold it, gag it, and put it in a mirror box and bury in a deep dark hole, preferably the cemetery at the grave of a spirit willing to aid you. This will strip her of her power so that any further attempts she makes against you will be rebounded.

Then do your break up work on them and draw him back to you. This time it will stick.