Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri May 17, 2013 9:07 am

I moved your thread to the "Love, Romance" section from the "Domination, Coercion" section, and re-titled it. I think that you really just want to get her between the sheets. Instead of domination, try a sweeter approach.

Carry the root with you. You can dress it with JTC oil or whiskey. Dress a red candle (plain, figural, or skull) with Follow Me Girl and Kiss Me Now! oil. Since she visits often, you can probably get hair or something she has touched that you can use.

Another trick is to put your semen in her food. Doesn't need to be a lot and it can be dried. Another thing you can try is a honey jar or sugar box. You can make a honey jar yourself or order one from Lucky Mojo.

http://www.luckymojo.com/followmegirl.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/johntheconqueror.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/kissmenow.html
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Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Fri May 17, 2013 9:51 am

How do I use an item she has touched such as my shirt or a piece of her hair?

I will give these things a try.

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Fri May 17, 2013 10:23 am

Hi
I need something less noticeable than a honey jar is there something else that can be used like a honey jar with no candles on it so u can just put it in a drawer so no can see it...and maybe just burn a colored candle with oils on it elsewhere?

Mzcee

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri May 17, 2013 10:29 am

You can put them in a honey jar or dig a little hole in a candle.

You may also want to try vigil candles. Lucky Mojo has Follow Me Girl, John the Conqueror, and Kiss Me Now! They come dressed with herbs, oil, and prayer, and may be simpler for you to use.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Fri May 17, 2013 10:53 am

If I were to choose to dress the red candle how long must it burn? I feel comfortable working with candles.

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Fri May 17, 2013 11:36 am

Mama Micki wrote:You can put them in a honey jar or dig a little hole in a candle.

You may also want to try vigil candles. Lucky Mojo has Follow Me Girl, John the Conqueror, and Kiss Me Now! They come dressed with herbs, oil, and prayer, and may be simpler for you to use.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

I will try all of this.Thanks

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri May 17, 2013 2:11 pm

You can put honey on the candle itself or burn a candle surrounded by honey.

thatgirl · Unread post by **thatgirl** » Fri May 17, 2013 4:05 pm

Sounds like you're playing with fire here lol. If she's already a neighbor who comes over after you request she doesn't... consider what might happen when you do sleep with her. lol just saying. Some women will play on their sexual attractiveness to get what they want, but what they want isn't necessarily sex. If your offer is only sex she may be hoping that you eventually offer something more lol. Just something to keep in mind!

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Sat May 18, 2013 11:08 am

thatgirl wrote:Sounds like you're playing with fire here lol. If she's already a neighbor who comes over after you request she doesn't... consider what might happen when you do sleep with her. lol just saying. Some women will play on their sexual attractiveness to get what they want, but what they want isn't necessarily sex. If your offer is only sex she may be hoping that you eventually offer something more lol. Just something to keep in mind!

I believe that I will be fine with the consequences of this spell.Im so sexually attracted to her that Im actually wondering whether or not she has done some hoodoo spell on herself to make men this way.I have my suspicions because she has offered me food a few times.And me and my friend were joking that maybe she put some menstral blood in it.

I believe she knows what she's doing.We've talked about each others feelings.She knows that I am in a high state of arousal and still she comes over wearing practically nothing.She has even said that she is a tease.My conversation and my charm are not working.Im going to need something else.

IsisQueen · Unread post by **IsisQueen** » Sun May 26, 2013 8:48 am

I want to get my long long time boyfriend to ask me to marry him, and stop cheating. How can I get this comittment out of him and what type of things do I need to do. I am tired of dating.

Please help! I am desperate for help.

PinkButterfly13 · Unread post by **PinkButterfly13** » Sun May 26, 2013 1:36 pm

ConjureMan Ali wrote:Definately want to get a reading. It will tell you what you need to do first before you spend time on a particular approach that may be the wrong one.

To get him to committ to you, approach it in two ways, with two targets: his mind, and in between his legs .

First, light his fire by working a red penis candle with Fires of Love, Follow Me Boy and Love Me. Work Juniper, Ginger, Rose, your sexual fluids from masturbation (thoughts only of him), Rosemary, Queen Elizabeth Root, and Catnip into your spell work. You can use thread anointed with the previously mentioned oils and dusted with the corresponding powders to tie at the base of the penis candle, leave a little loop for you to hold on to. Light the candle and grasp it by the loop while telling him that he is hot only for you, that he desires you, that he's on fire wanting you etc. Burn it down and bury it in your front yard.

Next, work a skull candle to get the fires to burn into his mind. Change up the line up a bit to Follow Me Boy, Love Me, and Stay with Me (this can be used after he gets with you). Work this skull candle to keep you on his mind. Carve your name onto his forehead and write loving thoughts on the skull. Use heated pins to drive the thoughts into his mind as you burn the candle down.

Finally, create a honey jar that you can use to keep the work going. Get his sexual fluids and yours and add to it with your petition and herbs. Work this M, W, F to keep the fires going. Follow Stars' advice and read up a bit on the honey jar.

Remember reading first as it will tell you if Healing is needed first and how much of it.

Hi ConjureMan,

I really want to try this but I had a few questions

1) I already have a honey jar for him, is that ok?

2) I already burned a skull candle for him but I didn't do it like you have it on here, can I still do another one,they way that you have it on here?
should I still have a name paper and the petition written on their?

3) all the herb described on the Penis candle spell, do they need to be all powder form and do I need all of them? and do I really need the fires of love oil? can I just use love me and follow me? and finally, can I anoint the candle with all of the oils and herbs? or will just anointing the thread be enough?

4) does it matter when I do the spell? or should I wait until the moon is waxing?

Im sorry for the many questions, I like to get all my info together and gather my supplies prior to starting anything
Thank you sooooo much for your time and I greatly appreciate any advice or response

snowbud · Unread post by **snowbud** » Sat Jun 01, 2013 12:30 pm

Is there any recommendations on spell kits for getting a man to commit, and open up? Not just want casual sex, the man Ive been seeing on and off is scarred from his ex wife.....is very stubborn, we keep being on and off....its awful for me as I have feelings for him. There is a good man in there, but damage and issues, any help please???

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jun 01, 2013 12:37 pm

hello, snowbud,

Yes, there are many such spells. This thread on "Spells For Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage" is at present 13 pages long and it may contain spells that will be of help to you in your work.

Good luck.

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 1:12 pm

I have another post on here that is titled "How to get her to stop playing games and have sex with me" It is about the same woman I am about to write about.She is my next door neighbor and I am very attracted to her unlike any woman I have ever been attracted too in a long time.At first I thought maybe its because she is so fine.She is an ex beauty pageant winner.

But I have been reading Hoodoo in Theory and Practice by Catherine Yronwode and some surprising things came up.Here is an excerpt from the section on BODY FLUIDS IN HOODOO:

MENSTRUAL BLOOD,
SEMEN, and URINE

"Because men are thought to be so susceptible to the magical deployment of women's menstrual blood, vaginal fluids, and urine, in some cultures they are taught to avoid eating anything served to them by an unmarried woman which might contain these bodily fluids. It is common for a man to refuse or only warily accept dark-coloured beverages like coffee or tea or foods with brown or red sauces such as barbeque, lasagna, or spaghetti from a woman.

Some folks believe that the power of menstrual blood is inherent -- that is, it will work just the same whether it is deliberately added to foods or beverages as a magical act or ingested accidentally. For those who feel this way, any contact with menstrual blood may result in bewitchment."

Ok one of the first things that struck me as odd about this woman is she would always talk about her period.And we had only just met.But she would constantly mention her period.So much so that I even told my friend about it and he said"why is she always talking about her period?"

Second,she IS an unmarried woman.

Third,she HAS come to my door offering me a serving of sphaghetti. And I ate it.Not knowing hardly anything about hoodoo at the time.She said she just made it and asked me if it was good.

And fourth,sometimes she'll come over with a beverage and when she gets up to use the bathroom she'll say"I'm taking my cup with me because you might pee in it! or she' ll say "don't pee in my cup!.It was so strange to me that she would say that,but when I read that that is a spell a man can do on a woman to get her sexually attracted my eyebrows almost raised to the top of my head!

All I know is I have never been more sexually attracted to a woman as I am to her.Do you think this woman knows some hoodoo? Do you think she put a spell on me?I'm just asking for your opinions.

Unread post by **Jenny** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 2:56 pm

I think she knows very well about hoodoo and some more in that field. Her behavior and comments are quite a hint. I would think exactly the same. The more you get to learn and know about hoodoo , the more you will notice actions of others.
First posts about this same woman described pretty good the whole situation and now you ( and me lol ) understand that she is the one after you actually

Just playing hard to get and securing your attention and attraction only for her. Now, I don't know are you interested just sexually in this woman... or you see something more happening... Anyway, just make sure you use protection because eventually stuff will happen... protection sexually and protection spiritually. You might just return the favor... make her favorite food or drink and pee in it ... make sure she absolutely loves it and cannot refuse the offer

I would definitely make sure she does't know that you know about hoodoo...
If you would do some cleansing and uncrossing ... and after you remove all the tricks she ( might have ),put on you - do you think you would still be attracted to her? The reason I'm saying this is that after almost 5 years - 5 years

!!! I realized that the guy I used to be so madly , insanely attracted to was using - Lucky Mojo Follow me Girl oil, Love Me oil and one more I still can't figure out because I can't remember the color of the oil... He kept it in his wall locker and all I could see were 3 little bottles, no label so it wasn't obvious or suspicious.... And I was always wondering why is he using all 3 of hem at the same time and then why there is no label when I know for a fact he has the money for any perfume he wanted.

Oh ,and no sex when I had my period

Oh well... better late than never

Just my two cents. Good luck!

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 4:17 pm

Jenny wrote:I think she knows very well about hoodoo and some more in that field. Her behavior and comments are quite a hint. I would think exactly the same. The more you get to learn and know about hoodoo , the more you will notice actions of others.
First posts about this same woman described pretty good the whole situation and now you ( and me lol ) understand that she is the one after you actually Just playing hard to get and securing your attention and attraction only for her. Now, I don't know are you interested just sexually in this woman... or you see something more happening... Anyway, just make sure you use protection because eventually stuff will happen... protection sexually and protection spiritually. You might just return the favor... make her favorite food or drink and pee in it ... make sure she absolutely loves it and cannot refuse the offer I would definitely make sure she does't know that you know about hoodoo...
If you would do some cleansing and uncrossing ... and after you remove all the tricks she ( might have ),put on you - do you think you would still be attracted to her? The reason I'm saying this is that after almost 5 years - 5 years !!! I realized that the guy I used to be so madly , insanely attracted to was using - Lucky Mojo Follow me Girl oil, Love Me oil and one more I still can't figure out because I can't remember the color of the oil... He kept it in his wall locker and all I could see were 3 little bottles, no label so it wasn't obvious or suspicious.... And I was always wondering why is he using all 3 of hem at the same time and then why there is no label when I know for a fact he has the money for any perfume he wanted.

Oh ,and no sex when I had my period

Oh well... better late than never

Just my two cents. Good luck!

Thanks for the reply.
I agree with everything you said but what I cant figure out is why would she hoodooo me to be so attracted to her and then play hard to get?

I would be attracted to her regardless.But this feels diffrent.I have not been attracted like this before.And now that I think about it.Sometimes she'll ask me to go the store and I'll say yes even when I'm tired or I'm mad at her.Then I'll go why am I doing this I shouldve said no.So, she could be using something else as well.Holy crap! I now just remembered that she once asked me for my last name.And I remember having the feeling that she was up to something.I said what do you need it for? she said it was for a list of business contacts she's making.But I now know in order to work some spells you need the persons full name.

I would not mine having sex with her and if she has done hoodoo spells on me it seems like she wants me to want her and do her bidding and yet not have sex with me.So I am fixing to do my own hoodoo work on her.As you have read in the post.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 4:57 pm

Sounds like the chick knows her bizz and is working you. You would be smart to play stupid like you know nothing so she wont suspect, stop eating and drinking her stuff and use a van van to clear it all from you. then see if you still feel the same..of course you could do a reversing candle LM sells and send it back on her to feel. You assume she wants you for the same reason IE to sex or date.. but have you thought of the negatives of your feeling..you will do her bidding, what she wants, when she wants, pay for thigns.. you are like a spiritual sugar daddy to this girl and nothing more.. don't mistaken her work as love, it controlling for her sake and not yours. Fiery wall of protection would be a great addition to the work. PPL have to remember that hoodoo is Christian based, but it does not mean all work is right..you can use a good solid spell for the wrong reasons too.. and lastly just because you feel it does not mean its real.. IE she made you feel it not that you would or she does. sex with her can be bad because you ultimately give her free range to your personal concerns and why would u want to give a person working against you that?

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 5:56 pm

Ali,

Can you please clarify for me these few things: I was looking through Lucky Mojo website and cant find
Juniper,
Ginger,
Rose,
Rosemary,
Queen Elizabeth Root, and
Catnip.

Are they all oils ? or some of them are roots and herbs ?

Also,by M, W, F, did you mean only to work it on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays ?

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 6:00 pm

j82 wrote:Sounds like the chick knows her bizz and is working you. You would be smart to play stupid like you know nothing so she wont suspect, stop eating and drinking her stuff and use a van van to clear it all from you. then see if you still feel the same..of course you could do a reversing candle LM sells and send it back on her to feel. You assume she wants you for the same reason IE to sex or date.. but have you thought of the negatives of your feeling..you will do her bidding, what she wants, when she wants, pay for thigns.. you are like a spiritual sugar daddy to this girl and nothing more.. don't mistaken her work as love, it controlling for her sake and not yours. Fiery wall of protection would be a great addition to the work. PPL have to remember that hoodoo is Christian based, but it does not mean all work is right..you can use a good solid spell for the wrong reasons too.. and lastly just because you feel it does not mean its real.. IE she made you feel it not that you would or she does. sex with her can be bad because you ultimately give her free range to your personal concerns and why would u want to give a person working against you that?

Thanks for the advice.I will look into these items.It's really ALL just speculation.I don't like to assume.It's just too much coincidence that alot of her actions and things that she has said coincides with things that have to do with hoodoo.But it could be she is naturally magnetic and able to put guys under spells.I'm sure there are people out their like this.A natural "Hoodoo worker"

Whichever way it is I know her work is not love.That is why I am attempting to turn the tables on her

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 6:13 pm

Primal_The_Learner wrote:what I cant figure out is why would she hoodooo me to be so attracted to her and then play hard to get?

Yeah, coming over late at night in her bathrobe and saying she'll never have sex with you and she likes to tease?

That made me so mad I thought: I'd burn a Reversing candle on her and follow it up with HOT FOOT. So she falls madly in love or even lust with you and then for some reason has to leave town for good.

... And now that I think about it.Sometimes she'll ask me to go the store and I'll say yes even when I'm tired or I'm mad at her.Then I'll go why am I doing this I shouldve said no.

That's why. She wants the power -- and freedom and respect go out the window.

SMH,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 6:27 pm

My name is ConjureMan Ali. Please include my appellation when you address me.

Juniper Berries, Ginger Root, Rose Petals, Rosemary, Queen Elizabeth Root, and Catnip are herbs, roots, and plant material you call upon as your allies in your work.

The items are for sale here:

http://luckymojo.com/mojocatherbs.html

If you are unfamiliar with what these are, you'd want to familiarize yourself with hoodoo a bit more. I highly suggest Miss cat's book Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic which can help you learn more about this tradition and how it works with plants, roots, herbs, and minerals.

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 6:55 pm

ConjureMan Ali wrote:My name is ConjureMan Ali. Please include my appellation when you address me.

Juniper Berries, Ginger Root, Rose Petals, Rosemary, Queen Elizabeth Root, and Catnip are herbs, roots, and plant material you call upon as your allies in your work. If you are unfamiliar with what these are, you'd want to familiarize yourself with hoodoo a bit more. I highly suggest Miss cat's book Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic which can help you learn more about this tradition and how it works with plants, roots, herbs, and minerals.

Sorry about your name.

I had Ms. Cat's book. I just wasnt sure which ones of the recipes you mentioned are oils or roots or herbs.

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Sun Jun 02, 2013 7:27 pm

Yes,she has put me through alot of emotions.I have just bought a reversal candle

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Tue Jun 11, 2013 1:01 pm

I have just received my LM items and I am about to do a working.It is a working to get my neighbor who is a female to stop playing games and have sex with me.I will use a red candle,Follow me girl and kiss me girl oils.I also have some of her saliva.

Following the advice of another worker,I will dress the red candle with Follow Me Girl and Kiss Me Now oil.My first question is do I let the candle burn completely out??? Do I need to use her full name in some way such as carving it into the candle?

My second is how do I use her saliva in the working? And is any prayer necessary?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Jun 11, 2013 1:46 pm

Yes you should burn the candle down completely. You can do it in sections if you prefer, some each day. Use as much of her name as you know and her birthdate if you know it. Rub a little of the saliva on the candle.

I recommend Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) in the Bible for all love work. Read it through and select the passages you like.

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Tue Jun 11, 2013 7:12 pm

Mama Micki wrote:Yes you should burn the candle down completely. You can do it in sections if you prefer, some each day. Use as much of her name as you know and her birthdate if you know it. Rub a little of the saliva on the candle.

I recommend Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) in the Bible for all love work. Read it through and select the passages you like.

Thanks alot.I'm going to get to it!

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Wed Jun 12, 2013 2:20 pm

I have made a blunder.I have dressed the candle with Kiss me now and Follow me boy instead of Follow me girl.I had ordered the wrong oil by mistake.I didnt realize it until today.The candle is already fixed and partly burnt.What should I do?

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Jun 16, 2013 3:01 pm

Primal_The_Learner wrote:I have made a blunder.I have dressed the candle with Kiss me now and Follow me boy instead of Follow me girl.I had ordered the wrong oil by mistake.I didnt realize it until today.The candle is already fixed and partly burnt.What should I do?

Dispose of it at a crossroads.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Jun 24, 2013 8:40 am

Hi allheart777,

This thread contains many posts thay may be able to give you some ideas for use with the Marriage products as Miss Cat suggested above. Additionally, this thread on Marriage Oil may help:

marriage-oil-questions-and-answers-t17292.html

Blessings and best of luck.

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 10:16 am

I have this female neighbor who is still giving me problems.She is still teasing and torchering me by not giving me sex when she knows I want it. She still knocks on my door, comes over my home, still asks me to go to the store for her. And some times she asks me to buy her small things. On top of this she is very rude to me. She tries to put me down. And is disrespectful sometimes beyond belief. This womans behavior towards me at times is completely out of control. And I am not exaggerating.

I have done love spells on her they are not working. I was all open for love. But this woman doesnt know love in that way. This womans relationships with men is all about her gaining the upper hand and using men. Can a person that doesnt seem to know love respond to a love spell no matter how powerful it is?I do believe that the love spells will work but I believe this person needs to be brought under control first.

I think this woman needs to be dominated. Her will needs to be completely taken away from her and placed under my control. I think this is fair because she has tried to make my life miserable. And she has played so many games.

I will be using Domination, Controlling,and Influence oils. I would like to know what candles to use with them: Vagina candles, skull candles? And what color candles for the spells Im going to be working?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 12:00 pm

Primal_The_Learner wrote:I have this female neighbor who is still giving me problems.She is still teasing and torchering me by not giving me sex when she knows I want it.

Either you haven't yet learned, or she rooted you to forget, an essential life lesson:

NOBODY OWES YOU A HOT CHICK.

She still knocks on my door, comes over my home,

And you're still answering the door?

On top of this she is very rude to me. She tries to put me down. And is disrespectful sometimes beyond belief. This womans behavior towards me at times is completely out of control. And I am not exaggerating.

I have done love spells on her they are not working. I was all open for love. But this woman doesnt know love in that way. This womans relationships with men is all about her gaining the upper hand and using men. Can a person that doesnt seem to know love respond to a love spell no matter how powerful it is?

No. You're trying to show neon and tie-dye to a severely colorblind gal. She's not interested in the egalitarian, Golden Rule love that is the basis of every happy marriage.

I do believe that the love spells will work but I believe this person needs to be brought under control first.

I think this woman needs to be dominated. Her will needs to be completely taken away from her and placed under my control.

And then you'll have a SLAVE, not a lover.

I think this is fair because she has tried to make my life miserable. And she has played so many games.

I will be using Domination, Controlling,and Influence oils. I would like to know what candles to use with them: Vagina candles, skull candles? And what color candles for the spells Im going to be working?

Pink and blue candles - both kinds - but drop those toys for a minute and THINK.

What you're planning is not love, but war. I don't care what you saw at the movies or on YouTube, read on the Internets, or saw your parents do, but happy marriages don't start this way. You don't get someone to love you, look forward to your company, and TRUST you, by BRUTALIZING them. Let me repeat:

NOBODY OWES YOU A HOT CHICK.

The only time to wage war against the disrespectful is when they have more power than you and will not go away. Save the Domination and Control for Congress and the state governments that are trying to defund Planned Parenthood and food stamps.

All you need to do about Miss Thing is:

Remember that God gave you two hands for a reason.
Refuse to play her games. Demand respect - not sex, but respect! If she won't respect you, SEND HER AWAY.
Seriously consider Cut and Clear work.
Google "rape culture."
Goodle "Doctor Nerdlove."

Seriously,

Miss Michaele

Jasmine11 · Unread post by **Jasmine11** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 2:28 pm

Hello all!

I recently reunited with my childhood love (we are each other's first loves from the 4th grade, fast forward to now, we're both 26) and we are doing wonderfully well.

My issue of concern is that he has not yet officially asked me to be his girlfriend because as he puts it, because of his past experiences with his last 2 former relationships, he wants to move slowly and not run before we walk.

His exes were very hurtful (cheating, lying, lots of trust issues for him as a result) and tried to alienate him from his best friends and family among other things. While he does know that this is not my nature whatsoever, he is still scared because he says to lose me for any reason, to lose our history, our bond, our connection and our love, would devastate him to no end and he wants to take it slowly before officially labelling us and making us an official committed couple.

We are, at this point, exclusive with each other (emotionally, intimately, etc). Everything is going wonderfully well; I had asked him over the weekend why it seemed like he had pulled back a bit from me emotionally and he straight out said because he's falling in love with me all over again (he always carried a torch for me all through our lives growing up into adulthood) and that he wanted to slow down because he's afraid of being vulnerable to me as I'm his only weakness.

So I definitely know his feelings are strong and present as mine are. I just want to be sure he officially commits and makes me his girlfriend publicly, to the world so to speak. I'm patient with him as need be, just want some assistance in furthering us along.

Can you please advise me as to what oils, powders, kits, etc. are best suited to my concerns? I would love for him to become absolutely enamoured with me as he was before he scaled his expressions of emotions back, to constantly call me, text me, profess his love to me and "the world" as it were, and know that his love and heart are safe in my hands and of course vice versa. I would also love, as a side to remove any potential obstructions in the forms of other women from his life to ensure he only wants, loves, needs, desires and cares for me.

Thank you all so much for your time and guidance!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 2:52 pm

You have been working on this woman for over a month. I tend to agree with Miss Michaele; refuse to play her games and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. Don't let your "little head" overrule your "big head."

Jasmine11 · Unread post by **Jasmine11** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 6:09 pm

Hi again all,

I'm not sre if I posted this in the right section, so please accept my apology if I made a mistake!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 6:15 pm

Hello, Jasmine11 --

Since your post was about getting someone in a pleasant relationship to become more committed, i have moved your post into this thread -- and no problem, by the way, we do this all the time, as the forum is large and complex.

This thread is currently 19 pages long, at 30 posts per page, so there is a lot here for you to read -- many spells and ways of working, as well as many products, are mentioned in this topic thread on the subject of getting someone to become more committed.

So start at the beginning, read along, and see if by the time you get back to this post you still have some questions. If you do, we'll be glad to reply.

In the meantime, i would suggest Love Me and Marriage products as the most suited to your situation.

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:15 pm

Maybe your right.I will not start these kinds of workings

Jasmine11 · Unread post by **Jasmine11** » Sat Jun 29, 2013 11:55 am

Hi Catherine!
Thank you so much for your detailed insights!
I've read over this entire thread of posts and am so excited to put these treasures into effect in my relationship with my true love. In addition to the love me oil (which, just to confirm, will work to get him to officially ask/tell me he want to make us official with a title, so everyone knows we are in a committed exclusive relationship) I would also like for him to basically be all over me (calling me, texting me, asking to see me daily, wanting to share and spend all of his love and time with me). We see each other very often, about 4 times a week and we mostly text but he calls when necessary. I'd like him to call me several times a day and maintain his texting habits. As well, I'd like to make him not want or desire to flirt or think of any other woman romantically or sexually in any way; I'm fairly certain he doesn't do this as of now but I want to be absolutely covered in all areas! Lol.

For this areas, what oils are best in addition to the love me oil? I was thinking of come to me, stay with me, follow me boy? And will the oils combined together be enough? I've read such great reviews on the oils alone and hope to attain the same results!

Lastly, about the Marry me oil, do you feel it is realy required at this point? I know that him and I will be married eventually, we have talked about all of these things extensively though it will happen a few years from now hehe.

Thank you so much! Can't wait to hear from you!

Jasmine11 · Unread post by **Jasmine11** » Sat Jun 29, 2013 12:02 pm

One more thing! Lol (sorry if I am being a pest! ❤)
I also want for him to be more expressive in his affections towards me through kissing, cuddling, holding me, touching me, etc. in public and in private. He is actually pretty good in this area, although he has as I explained pulled back a little because of worries of looking vulnerable in my eyes so it's usually me initiating those affectionate things and then he lets his guard down. I want for him to basically not be able to keep his hands off me, both in a romantic and passionate way lol. Would the kiss me oil be best suited?

kitadst · Unread post by **kitadst** » Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:41 pm

Hi, I didn't know where to post this question but I hope this thread is befitting:

My question is that I've been having some candles placed on the altar for marriage, road opening and follow me boy and eventhough my relationship is pretty good except for the fact that my boyfriend is married to the military therefore it dictates much of our relationship, however, he's good to me, my kids, my entire family for the most part, but he's up for deployment in a few months so the distancing and detachment has begun, I feel it should be the opposite, I understand his position, but I think there could be an equal ground, so do you all think my workings are causing him to rebel and fight the workings internally because it is really working or do I need to do more, I can't do any work at home being my reason for the altar of the church pkus I'm not that confident in my personal ability. Any thoughts? Recommendations?

Primal_The_Learner · Unread post by **Primal_The_Learner** » Thu Jul 04, 2013 10:32 am

Their has been a new turn of events.The love spells I did at first which seemed not to be working maybe working afterall.For the past 5 days she has been like an angel. She has not been rude.She has been very sweet to me.She has given me a jewelry carrying case which she says I can give to my sister and a brand new thermal server she says she does'nt use.Yesterday me, her, her daughter and her niece rode to get some fireworks which we let off outback.She's laughing at my jokes.And she has been calling me "honey "alot and I have been calling her "baby".

She had me write a text message to a guy that she was hanging out with for awhile.She told him to "get lost and to lose her number"Lastnight we hugged with a strong embrace for the first time in months.Today she wants to take me to see fireworks at a local college.As far as the love-making,I think its a strong possibility if things continue progressing the way they are.

Also I have been using the Fortune teller fish that came with my LM products.I asked it today if she was in love with me?Its head and its tail curled up unmistakebly.That is the indication that she is in love.Before it would curl up fickle.

Their is something positive working here now and I believe it will continue

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jul 04, 2013 1:50 pm

Sometimes when you just let go, things start working. Maybe she's starting see that you're not such a bad guy after all, and "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush."

Miss Lola · Unread post by **Miss Lola** » Sat Jul 06, 2013 4:27 pm

Hello All,
In the hopes to aviod sounding like a broken record & posting a question that may have all ready been asked I apologize in advance if I miss information during my research process.

Briefly I have a younger lover who I believe is my soulmate and which I gave up on after several attempts at true love only to be disappointed let down and scarred like so many others out there.

I met him 2 months ago. All my true friends know I practice magic and do tarot card reading. When I saw my lover the first time I saw his pain of being lost. After his girlfriend of 4 years had enough of there past together. Something whispered in my ear I had to do a reading on this stranger. So a week later I did just that. Something odd occurred he reflected me in my reading of him the cards where both for me & him. Never has this happened. Long story short he now lives with me we are so closes, that we finish one anothers sentences, say the same things at the same time and we make eachother laugh all the time. Again I gave up on finding my match because I am so different.
My question is this he is super cute a bit of a flirt has a reputation of a ladies man. He is. not my spouse so stay with me is out. He is still inlove with his ex. though we no we love eachother. I just want him to be with me I do believe we are ment to be to gether are gifts or abilities are stronger together then apart. We tried a love spell together frist time for me was so fun Thank You Miss Cat for the free spell achive.
Other than a love me honey jar tieing his nature to me as well as feeding him my blood is there anything else that I can do?

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Thu Jul 11, 2013 5:50 pm

Hi Everyone!

I have been with a guy for 4 years. I have used a follow me boy kit, honey jar and doll baby, and picture box with huge success.

I moved and began taking on more responsibilities with work and school. So I stopped working with the items I had. Things were still great between us.

I started to notice a change in him when I moved into my own place and working more often. In February, I went for a reading with a family member and I was told the relationship is good and marriage is in our future. but I needed to be cleaned that was where some of the blockage was with the relationship.

I was cleaned in a huge service. I took baths as well. She then made a huge honey jar for me similar to the one I made, which she called "tying him up" in April. Also I have a honeycomb with oils that I put our names in with oils.

Since this was done, I have not seen any improvement. I have actually seen him become more distant since I was cleaned by her and the Jar was done.

I still have my own supplies mentioned before. I am off work for the summer, so I have more time to dedicate to working on the relationship. Also, he lives with his parents. We live about 10 minutes away from each other.

My questions are:

1) Can I still use the old supplies that I have or should I start over?

2) Should I get rid of the stuff that was made for me by the reader in April?

3) Spell kit or a bottle spell?

4) Is there something I could place in front of his (and his parents') home to bring him to my home?

Thank you so much!

SugarLoveHoney · Unread post by **SugarLoveHoney** » Thu Jul 11, 2013 5:53 pm

Hello! I'm new here and would appreciate some help!

I have been seeing someone for a few months now, and we have been friends for almost a year.

We have always had amazing chemistry/connection and get along perfect, he tells me he's never gotten along with someone so well before and he really does like me romantically and care a lot about me and loves having me around he says that my energy I give off is like a "drug" to him...and one night recently he told me he asks himself why he just doesn't start a relationship with me.

he's always been a little hesitant towards me, and I finally got him to tell me why, although we share all this chemistry and great things and like one another he told me he's never been able to look at me and say "yes she's the one" and that he keeps waiting for that "magic moment" where he can feel that with me and share with me and develop those feelings for me on the next level.

it was a bit shocking and unpleasant for me to hear because we would be so compatible together just that special feeling for him is missing.. but I do not want to give up because I did have a 10 minute reading with an AIRR member, because that's all I can afford at this time, and I was told I can triumph and have success with him magically but it can take some time.

Ive read about the honey Jar and will be starting that, I currently have Love Me Oil, Adam & Eve Oil, Fire Of Love Oil, Stay With Me Oil, Come To Me Oil, Bewitching Oil and Look Me Over Oil.

Any suggestions on what products or actions to use/take besides a honey jar that could possibly help him feel that magic moment with me and bring out those special feelings for me and see me as a long-term partner to share a future with?

Thank You!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jul 11, 2013 6:47 pm

jasmine,

Kiss MeNow! is good, and Marriage Oil is not yet needed for what you are doing.

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Kitadst,

You should get a reading on that question. Call Missionary Independent Spiritual Church at 707-887-7808 and get a 10 minute reading with one of the people there who is already familiar with your situation from having set lights for you.

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Miss Lola, The honey or sugar jar and feeding him are great. Try using Stay With Me Oil as a dressing for the candles on your jar.

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blessedlady:

1) Yes.

2) If it is still not working after three months from when you received it, get rid of it

3) Either one, but for me, the kit. That's just my personal style.

4) Follow Me Boy Powder mixed with local dirt until it is invisible to wye, and get him to step over or through it.

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SugarLoveHoney

The honey jar is a good idea, or a sugar jar if you intend to cook for him, but i would also be working him more for intimacy than for mere sweetness. Having him sweet is the best foundation on which to start, but there is a lot more to getting a life-partner than having him sweet. Feed him your period blood, use some of the oils on your person.

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Thu Jul 11, 2013 6:56 pm

Thank you so much? Which kit should I order?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jul 11, 2013 8:07 pm

blessedlady,

You aid that you used a follow Me Boy spell kit with success. Perhaps you should try a Love Me one now.

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Fri Jul 12, 2013 7:07 pm

Thank you Catherine!
If I wanted to purchase a bottle spell in addition would that be too much? He goes into moments when he ignores me n shuts me out. Would the shake bottle bring him out of that? Or maybe the scull candle?

Jasmine11 · Unread post by **Jasmine11** » Sat Jul 13, 2013 1:15 pm

Can someone tell me how much shipping to Canada is?

sakura · Unread post by **sakura** » Sun Jul 28, 2013 6:01 am

Hi all,

Long story short, I have been dating a guy for about 16 months. All along he has insisted he doesn't feel love, doesn't fall in love, etc. At first I was upset about it, but he was so nice and sweet I decided it really didn't matter, especially after the horrendous relationship I suffered through for five years before him.

I was doing a honey jar on him, and I really felt it was working, but I didn't bring up the topic of his feelings because way back in November I I brought it up and he sort of got annoyed. Then over the past two or three months, since I added Clarity candles to the mix, he said a few things that really made me wonder if maybe he DID love me but didn't want to say.

So about six weeks ago I talked to him, and asked if he remembered he had promised that if he ever felt love for me, he was supposed to tell me. He said he remembered and that he would.

So I figured, ok, guess I was wrong.

Then about two weeks ago I became really depressed that he didn't love me. It had not bothered me before, because he acts like he loves me, and his behavior is much more important than the words, but I knew he DIDN'T love me, so it sort of felt empty. (He's a former Eagle Scout, so he is "well -trained.")

So, since I always bring up issues with him, I talked to him and said I was thinking I needed to break up with him because it had started to bother me that he didn't love me. He didn't want me to break up with him and talked me out of it somehow.

Then Monday night of this last week he came over to hang out. As he was leaving, I hugged him and said, "I love you." He said, sort of mumbled really, "I love you too."

My reaction? To laugh, smack him, and say, "No, you don't." Why did I react that way? Because he just insisted a couple of weeks ago that he didn't love me, and because there was one other time he joked about being in love with me, and when I said,"No, you're not," he laughed and said, "Oh yeah."

Anyway, he tossed off something about its being an automatic response, the sort of thing you always reply back to. It could have been, because I don't often say "I love you." I said, "I told you never to say anything you don't mean." (I have told him that many times.) He said, as if he were ashamed, "I know."

Well, I really don't know what happened there. I felt confused about it later. I wondered if he really had meant it and was trying to tell me, or if it was an automatic response/accident, or if he only said it to keep me from thinking about breaking up with him.

I did ask him later. He said he wasn't sure why he said it and was sort of surprised he had. So I said, well, if you did mean it, then say it again some time when I say it, otherwise we won't worry about it.

So, if he did mean it, how do I get him to say it again? I realise my reaction to his saying it seems utterly bizarre and uninviting, but it really isn't in the context of this relationship. He's been insisting for 16 months that he doesn't feel love and isn't in love with me, so ...

Unread post by **Flora** » Sun Jul 28, 2013 3:15 pm

Dearest Sakura,

My first advice is to not smack the man the next he says he loves you. But until then I am going to suggest that you wash this bummer experience out of your energy field. I would suggest a Love Me cleansing salt bath so that your little smack does not stick in your memory or his. Keep working that honey jar. I would light a little Love Me incense in the house before he comes over and wear a little Love sachet power before you see him. Finally start burning some Love Me candles on your honey jar. If you use a small honey jar and small candles anoint them with Love Me oil.
When I wear a little Love Me sachet powder, I find that my husband professes his love unexpectedly all day long. Plus I get phone calls from my favorite family members on those days. I believe surrounding yourself with the Love Me essences it will solidify your soul to soul request for your man to fess up his love to you.
Please let me know how it goes for you,
Flora

Serene523 · Unread post by **Serene523** » Thu Aug 29, 2013 5:47 am

Hello, you very knowledgeable and compassionate people!
I desperately need help!
I am writing from Italy, and I am an absolute beginner.
I have been stuck and very, very unhappy for over two years now.
Two years ago I met again this guy that was once (fifteen years ago) my lover and it ended pretty badly back then.
This time round he sounded so sweet, he apologised for everything that had passed, and he was, for the first two or three months, all passion and fun and desire. Then he got cold feet. Following the exact same pattern he followed fifteen years ago, he started being really cold and he used his ultimate weapon, his extreme defence: he said he was sure he did not love me. I plunged into depression. Also because (and this is the maddening part) he is one of those people that says one thing with their words and a totally different one with his actions and body language. I was sooo confused I did not know anymore if I was going crazy. I could feel his love, but my reason was telling me his words were denying it.
Little by little, instead of running away (like any sane person should have done!!!) I stayed and swallowed anything that was to come, including the fact that he keeps this relationship with a Chinese lady that comes twice a year to see him for a week or two.
They have this agreement that when she's not there, he can do whatever he wants. When she comes over, she is the queen. (but they don't have sex together, apparently). And I get shunted aside.
He once told me that she is like a symbol, the reassuring factor that would keep him from having a proper relationship.
Yes, I do want him to dump her! Or her to dump him, it does not matter. I want them never to see each other again!
Also I want him to stop denying me! He says he doesn't love me and he says we are not in a relationship. But he got me a ring last christmas, and when we go out I always stay at his place for the night and he's told me several times that he hates the idea of me disappearing from his life!
He's told me he simply doesn't want a loving relatioship because of all the emotions and the responsibility it comes with. He is so scared that he stopped having sex with me as well. Nowadays it happens rarely and only when he's drunk and doesn't have all his brain barriers functioning. And yet everytime we are in bed together and he holds me tight, i can feel his excitement, but no, he won't yield.
I got a lady to read the Tarot for me. She said I am the empress of his heart.
One day in a perfume and body care shop, a kind-of-famous Seer (without me asking), told me he loves me to bits.

Tell me, girls, if I am right in thinking that, to start with, I need the complete kit to separate them. (But I have nothing that belongs to her: I saw her once in person ages ago, and I remember her face because I saw her picture a few times. Would spells work even without a personal item?)
And what else should I be doing? I want him to commit to me, properly, I want to be his one and only woman, and in the eyes of the world too!
I don't think I need the Love me, because he does love me very much, or so it seems! Is there a spell to make him want a proper relationship with me? Maybe a spell like "Marry me" or "Get me pregnant" or "Stop Being Afraid of Love"?
I do have a hair form his head and one from his body. Would the kit explain what to do with it?
And do you think it is worth the while? Maybe I should get a reading from someone really good, that would tell me if his heart is ever likely to connect with his brain

or if I should give him up entirely... Please, sisters, help me out! I am so unhappy and confused!
and sorry for this long post...

Unread post by **Zola Kathryn** » Fri Aug 30, 2013 8:59 am

Hi Serene,

This statement in your post made me wince:

He says he doesn't love me and he says we are not in a relationship. But he got me a ring last christmas, and when we go out I always stay at his place for the night and he's told me several times that he hates the idea of me disappearing from his life!

I know you came here looking for spellwork advice but honestly, it seems to me like he is taking you for a ride. I don't get a good feeling about this situation, and I don't want to give you advice to keep you in an unhealthy relationship bordering on emotional abuse.

I would recommend getting a reading from one of the reputable readers of the AIRR, the Association of Independent Readers & Rootworkers: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers to give you honest insight into the situation. Once you have an objective look at the situation, your reader can likely suggest courses of action for you to take.

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Fri Aug 30, 2013 4:14 pm

Hi Serene, Zola nailed exactly what I was feeling too. Even if doing a working or a spell is the right path for you, a reading is going to help clarify things and an AIRR worker will be able to discern what the right approach would be. There are so many things that could be going on here and so many different ways to deal with it. My heart goes out to you my dear.

Best of luck!

Serene523 · Unread post by **Serene523** » Fri Aug 30, 2013 11:27 pm

oh, dear.

It's true that he said he would suffer very much if I want to leave, but he won't try and stop me.

...Only, the first time that we had a love affair (15 years ago), just a couple of months after I left him, he was in hospital with gallstones in his gall-bladder, and he actually risked his life, and he kind of told me that that had been his way of atonement for refusing his own feelings for me.
But, I guess, even if this is true, and he really goes to that extent in order to avoid love, than what is there to be done?
And if it isn't true... You must be right, he is not serious. It must be that, that almost constantly gives me this dead weight in my stomach.
Oh, I wish I hadn't bumped into him again two years ago!

Ok I shall follow your advice and get a proper reading.
Thank you so much for your kind words and your help!

Luckbewithme876 · Unread post by **Luckbewithme876** » Sat Aug 31, 2013 9:11 am

I really like the description for the Chuparrosa products. It pretty much describes what I'm looking for. But does it really use the power of a Native American deity for the magic? If it does, is there another product that produces the same effect for pure and honest love?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Aug 31, 2013 3:34 pm

Good Evening, Luckbewithme876,
The chuparrosa, from what I understand, is both a deity and a symbol of the deity (itself). But, there are not a bunch of Native Americans gathering around Lucky Mojo summoning this deity to make the oil.
However, if you're uncomfortable, may I suggest that you take a look again at that exact webpage because it lists other oils that it is similar to. www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html
Also, take a look at all the oils and see that may fit your needs. And, you can always mix love-drawing oils to pinpoint your desires. www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html
Hope this helps. Take care

someone · Unread post by **someone** » Sat Aug 31, 2013 7:20 pm

1.I was with a man that was worshiping me but after his ex-wife saw me, he became a monster, i dont think his ex has done any spell as she is religious but I am suspicious on his sister or maybe evil eye. I dont have any hair or nail from my love, is there still anyway to put some spells on him? to love me or obey me?
also, i have used menstrual blood but it didnt work when i was with him.
2.I also before was reciting some names of god to bring a man close to me but i noticed that every time i was doing that, it worked only for the time that i was not period and as soon as i became period, the guy was leaving me or hated me or cheating on me.is there anyway to stop it?

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Sep 02, 2013 4:09 am

Hi someone,

1. If you got no personal concerns from the man in the time you were together, then it will be very difficult to work on him now unless you have some kind of contact. You can use a photo and his name but it isn't nearly as effective as working with the personal concerns. If you're still seeing each other, one option is to work the Follow Me Boy spell kit with what you do have as personal concerns: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-follow-me-boy.html. If you're both split up, you'll have to work reconciliation and get the love going again before you can reasonably expect any obedience. It may well be worth getting a reading to figure out the best actions to take.
Now if have been crossed (again a reading can clarify that), you can get it off you using Uncrossing, Jinx Killer or Rue (if it's the evil eye) Bath Crystals or going with a multi-purpose deep-cleansing formula like 13-herb bath. That work should be done as quickly as possible and is good to do periodically to stay mess-free throughout the year.
For working with menstrual blood, which is a very effective technique, I suggest you read through all of the very extensive thread on the subject here: menstrual-blood-questions-and-answers-t ... e7#p132102
2. I haven't had a spell voided by my period, but I also don't know what spell you are using and what tradition it is from. If it isn't hoodoo (which it doesn't sound like although I may be wrong) I suggest that you address your question to someone familiar and well-versed in the tradition you are using. Many AIRR workers offer services in diverse magical traitions and would probably be able to supply magical coaching as required. You can look through the AIRR site here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... Traditions

someone · Unread post by **someone** » Mon Sep 02, 2013 4:33 am

aura wrote:Hi someone,

1. If you got no personal concerns from the man in the time you were together, then it will be very difficult to work on him now unless you have some kind of contact. You can use a photo and his name but it isn't nearly as effective as working with the personal concerns. If you're still seeing each other, one option is to work the Follow Me Boy spell kit with what you do have as personal concerns: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-follow-me-boy.html. If you're both split up, you'll have to work reconciliation and get the love going again before you can reasonably expect any obedience. It may well be worth getting a reading to figure out the best actions to take.
Now if have been crossed (again a reading can clarify that), you can get it off you using Uncrossing, Jinx Killer or Rue (if it's the evil eye) Bath Crystals or going with a multi-purpose deep-cleansing formula like 13-herb bath. That work should be done as quickly as possible and is good to do periodically to stay mess-free throughout the year.
For working with menstrual blood, which is a very effective technique, I suggest you read through all of the very extensive thread on the subject here: menstrual-blood-questions-and-answers-t ... e7#p132102
2. I haven't had a spell voided by my period, but I also don't know what spell you are using and what tradition it is from. If it isn't hoodoo (which it doesn't sound like although I may be wrong) I suggest that you address your question to someone familiar and well-versed in the tradition you are using. Many AIRR workers offer services in diverse magical traitions and would probably be able to supply magical coaching as required. You can look through the AIRR site here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... Traditions

Thanks Mrs. Aura,
I just have his picture and a sock from him, can i do any spell with his sock that works?
I have recited different names of god (im monotheist) by some hindus mantras and islamic zikr, when I was period I was stopping reciting , because it is ordered especially in hindu tradition not to recite mantras during period. As soon as I was stopping it in period, all the benefits I acquired, gone.
I also have used van van crystals and did bath three consecutive midnights but still in the same spot with same problems.Is 13 herbs more effective? how should i do that? immerse? or pouring on my head 9 times? do I need to recite any psalms when i do that?
I also should mention that i did reading with some readers in the website you introduced me, they told me he is not good for me and will go, but I really want him and I want to return him back. He is the best man I met in my life, I am sure it was just her sister spell and his friends and ex-wife evil eye that ruined ourt relationship and maybe because of spells readers told me he is not good for me. I am sure we are able to change what cards predicted by our inner power.
Thank you