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orion · Unread post by **orion** » Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:05 pm

Ah, I see.
Given that the skull candle will burn for about 20 hours.
When doing a 7 day spell, for instance, is the candle burned for a few hours a day then on the seventh day let to burn all the way down?

I've been gently baby-sitting the skull candle and telling it affirmations for hours.
I have a beautiful crystal mala so I count off the affirmation repetitions with the beads, then move on to the next affirmation.

orion · Unread post by **orion** » Thu Apr 04, 2013 6:17 am

I left the candle burning overnight and it seems to have become a four day spell.
Ironically I asked St.Expidite and Jupiter for assistance.

I trust this will still work.

I did have an interesting vision coming home of a red candle on top of the sugar/skull jar tonight and to reach out and initiate some contact.

Perhaps I will reach out to Freya and Aphrodite with a red candle at midnight and let it burn till morning.

Very interesting vision. I guess this skull candle was supposed to be concluded as it did.

I will start the next skull on Monday.

orion · Unread post by **orion** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:23 pm

Hello MissMichaele,

I've been trying the PM feature to no avail. The messages seem to sit in my outbox. I'm sure it's just some sort of computer error.

Here's the message I tried to send, I hope you can help:

I'm really happy with the suggestions that you have given me and I would like to work together with you on my special case.

I was just wondering if you would like to do the same and what times are you available?

I will then plan accordingly and set up a booking.

Thank you MissMichaele,

orion

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 4:06 pm

orion wrote:Hello MissMichaele,

I've been trying the PM feature to no avail. The messages seem to sit in my outbox. I'm sure it's just some sort of computer error.

PMs sit in your outbox until the recipient has seen them. I simply haven't had time to look at them -- but I will now, ASAP.

Miss Michaele

orion · Unread post by **orion** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 5:27 pm

So a little update:
As guided I took a red candle dressed it in oils and Damiana and placed it on top of the sugar jar that the skull was on the night before.
I did up a similar candle and placed it on our honey jar.

At first the candle wouldn't light as the wick was wet. Both candles lit nicely and I went about my business.
About an hour later both candles burned with nice tall bright flames and at the same length. I checked another hour and the candle on the sugar jar was almost done! WOW!

These are 6" candles and should burn for about 4 hours. I'm not sure what happened, maybe part of the candle fell off as there was a glob of wax at the base of the holder. Regardless when the candle finally finished it "sucked up" the wax leaving very little residue!

I'm taking this as a very good sign!

orion · Unread post by **orion** » Fri Apr 12, 2013 8:41 am

Update:
I finally got the nerve to send an email.
Lo-and-behold, she emailed me back and said she's glad to hear from me.
This is the first communication received in 3 months!
I'm still trying to breathe at this point!!

I will continue to work the skull candle and pray to all the Gods, Deities, Saints and Ancestors that I've been working with.

A special thank you to Miss Michaele and Deacon Millet for supporting me.

Now I'm just wondering how long to wait before sending the next email.

Unread post by **blinn** » Thu May 23, 2013 12:51 pm

Hey I performed a cut and clear spell and I am now dreaming about him.

I still find my self fixating on him. Now I have been stuck on him for over two years of what was a 2 and a half month dating relationship.

This is driving me crazy, I just want to let him go emotionally and mentally.

What else can I do to break these ties?

Unread post by **blinn** » Thu May 23, 2013 1:04 pm

Hey, how would I cleanse my a self if I swallowed my exes semen and I still have a kind of link with him and I want to get him out of my mind body and soul.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 24, 2013 10:58 am

--blinn,

I merged your topics into this thread, since both concern your current situation.

I think it's safe to say that the Cut & Clear didn't take.

Based on the information you've given, I'd recommend treating it like a crossing.

I'd suggest a proper uncrossing, and perhaps an egg cleansing:

Lucky Mojo's Uncrossing Kit would do the trick: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-uncrossing.html

I would follow this by the Black Walnut spell (which you apparently did not do) and another Cut & Clear, if needed, using the Lucky Mojo Cut and Clear Spell Kit.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri May 24, 2013 2:18 pm

blinn,

Dr. Hob has suggested some good work. Before you get too deep into it, however, you might want to pause for some magically assisted self-analysis.

Doctor Hob wrote:I'd suggest a proper uncrossing, and perhaps an egg cleansing:

Lucky Mojo's Uncrossing Kit would do the trick: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-uncrossing.html

After this point, I would insert a bath of King Solomon Wisdom combined with Cast Off Evil. Rather than just pouring it over yourself, I would actually soak in it for a while. Light a blue or white candle for wisdom, dressed with the same formulae you are bathing in. Meditate until you know exactly what it is that is making separation so difficult.

Somehow, your ex-boyfriend is pressing one of your joy buttons, or one of your panic buttons. When you know what it is, you will be able to focus your Cut and Clear work.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri May 24, 2013 5:37 pm

Interesting and I am taking notes.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat May 25, 2013 12:32 am

I recommend Power products to build up your personal power and self-esteem.

http://www.luckymojo.com/power.html

Unread post by **blinn** » Mon May 27, 2013 9:34 pm

Thankyou for your replies,it helps to now have a course of action to go with and go something with this. I ordering the supplies.

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:32 pm

Hi All -

If there's a better thread to post this in, please feel free to move it...it felt like this was the right spot...

I'll try to keep this as brief as I can, but it's complicated, and it's pretty clear it's hoodoo help that's needed here... I have a friend who has been awash in and denying her grief since the death of her wife 8 years ago. Her late wife had lived with a chronic illness, and 12 years prior to her wife's death, my friend had to put her into a nursing home for care. The last half of their marriage was daily visits to the nursing home until her death.

My friend has not cleaned her home -- both physically and spiritually -- since committing her wife to the home. That's 20 years of not cleaning her house. It's so filthy no one can enter without getting sick (I can't breathe in her house), and it is affecting her health on all levels too. She has been hoarding, depressed, and while we all know she needs professional help and have encouraged her to get it year after year, she always resists to say she's fine...

...Until two weeks ago, when she broke down in front of me over dinner and said she had no reason to live. I immediately hauled her in to a local spiritual healer and a reader. Helped for a bit, but the pattern is recurring. The sad thing is that her other friends are just throwing up their hands & giving up on her. I can't do that.

I'm thinking -- since we eat together a lot -- of slipping something hoodooed into her food or drink that would give her the courage/healing she needs to finally realize she needs to clean her home and embrace her life again. Everyone always says people have to want to help themselves.. well yeah... but sometimes they need a magical push.

I'd be grateful for recommendations for hoodooing her food/beverage to bless, heal, and help empower my friend toward cleaning up her life so she can be happy. If there are other suggestions besides food tricks that folks have, I'd be much obliged, too. (I do have a prayer in to the Crystal Silence League for her.)

Thanks,
Murphy
St. Paul

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Jun 09, 2013 4:43 am

Hi magicmurphy

Your friend needs to see an actual therapist or at the very least a councilor along side any magical work you might do. You can not magic away 20 years of grief, neglect and mental stress, nor can you hoodoo her into suddenly being able to get over it. Do your work, but if she doesn't see a psychiatric professional, well, you will have at the very least a much harder fight, if you can do it at all.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Jun 09, 2013 10:06 am

magicmurphy,

i agree with Turnsteel. There are serotonin-mediated brain-chemistry factors with respect to hoarding and disorderly living that are best addressed through psychiatric medical means in tandem with talk-therapy.

Hoodoo can be supportive and even transformational, but it is not a cure for a medical condition.

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Sun Jun 09, 2013 12:44 pm

Thanks, Turnsteel and Ms Cat, for your responses.

Oh, yes, I and all her friends are fully aware that she needs professional help; we have been working on her to pursue it for years, and she simply won't do it. I simply wondered if a hoodoo kick-start might have been one way to reach her where handing her grief resources and encouraging her to stay in therapy hasn't.

I do respect the perspective and experience of the experts here on the forum, though; if you agree that this issue is not really one hoodoo can or should address, I get it, and won't pursue it. But I will be online soon to order up a candle for MISC to burn for her.

I am grateful for the feedback.

Much obliged,
Murphy
St. Paul

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Jun 09, 2013 12:58 pm

magicmurphy,

As long as you are getting her medical help and are working on cleaning up her living situation, i am free to prescribe hoodoo work.

i would employ any of the following spiritual supplies: Van Van / Chinese Wash, Clarity, Tranquility, Healing, and Blessing.

For instance, since there will be a lot of physical cleanup to do, you will need cleaning supplies.

One 4-ounce bottle of Chinese Wash
One 4-ounce bottle of Peace Water
One 4-ounce Rootworker's Special Oil (Clarity, Tranquility, Healing, and Blessing)

Make up scrub water with the Chinese Wash, adding a few drops of the other two.

Use the Peace Water as a room spray.

Add the blended Rootworker's Special Oil to the person's bath products, lotions, and other personal toiletries, and also add it to any cleaning supplies that are used to wipe down wooden furniture.

Good luck.

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Sun Jun 09, 2013 5:01 pm

Much, much obliged, Ms. Cat.

Best,
Murphy
St. Paul, MN

sanyraichard · Unread post by **sanyraichard** » Mon Jun 24, 2013 12:43 am

Good luck to you!

KrystalK · Unread post by **KrystalK** » Sat Jul 13, 2013 2:40 am

My Ex hates me or rather he is blaming me for "making him stay" in the the relationship which he now says that it feels as if it was all a waist of time.

There have been numerous amounts of things that has happened during the relationship. I suffered from deep depression and even tried to commit suicide early in the relationship and I finally realize that that have may been what he was referring to when he claims I made him "stay"when we had a convo today that ended with him once again blaming me . In no way I ever wanted him to see my pain, I actually tried to break up with him when I felt that I was falling for him to fast and tried to push him away before I did let him see me down. He hates that fact to this day and claims that I never love him. It's like he hates rejection. However, still he stayed, did things that made me questioned wether he loved me or would understand. I gave him several deep things about me when we first met that I told him I was trying to let go of being that I had just been getting out of an abusive relationship a year prior to meeting him. I did not want to be jealous, did not want to doubt my lover or think my lover was cheating, did not want aggression, or anything that would hurt me at the time. Wanted love and affection. I got exactly what I did not ask for with him ...he tried to make me jealous of other women, has even threw up a lover of his in my face when we broke up once, has saught attention by walking out knowing I would follow him to try to make things work, and as time went on the verbally & emotional abuse became physical with him. I was always the one to blame. With all the things I told him I did not want being thrown into my face by a man I had strong feeling to once marry I did come to the point that I tried to attempt suicide but he is the ULTIMATE victim. He see's no wrong in the things that he did.The testing . Or he just see's but doesn't want to accept the responsiblity.

Just to let you know I did get help. It has been over a year since I got help for my depression.

And once I came back from getting help. I had my defenses up against him. He was still testing me . One of the things he still tried to do was to do the "walk out and leave to get attention" tactic. I would just let him go without a fight I was stronger now. Things took a turn I was feeling happier and it seem that the same behavior with me was showing up amongst his friends and family. Friends begin to question him on why he was going back and forth living with them and then back with me. He panted this picture of me to them that I was cheating on him, I never loved him, I hated him all due to the fact that prior to my breakdown I was already fighting against his harshness. He would start an argument, leave or so call move out and be right back days sometimes even minutes later. It became a pattern with him. That same "leave for attention tactic". Whenever I did not give in or he would call before he came I would not answer his calls. He would keep calling and texting while I was trying to move on on several occassions. That is when "I was cheating" or " I wanted him out of the way to be with other men".." I wasn't **** and that is why men always left me" lol...he was the one who ALWAYS left. Now he was the VICTIM.

Anyways, the relationship ended with moving on. He would not an still will not let go . I even once had a restraining order on him to stop harrassing me over the phone via text, etc...he never got served and was unable to be served in the state of GA because he didn't have a stable residence. Since then (7months later) He has stated he understand and forgive me. So I tried to resume the FRIENDSHIP. I have made it clear that I am wanting more and if anything negative shows up in my life I am quick to cut whatever is causing it out of my life. Friends, family , lovers. But once again...the negativity has shown up. . We have been intimate once again (BIG MISTAKE I KNOW), he started to want to resume things in a way but it felt empty to me on the other end because I once wanted to marry him . He started trying to bring up the past I would interject and change the subject cause it will only start with him blaming and bringing up things that really should not be there if we are able to make a fresh start. I have told him I would like to also be married and with child in my future, but I don't think he is ready and is on the same page and path as me. I also brought up that if he is ready to move forward than to let me know, he will not. So with that I have made it clear the past two times that we are not getting anywhere and finally need to let go even as friends if necessary and if the universe allows things will heal in time and if we are meant to be together it will be so. He has flipped because he see's the changes. I refuse to sleep with him. I constantly am standing my ground. I have owned up to the fact that the biggest mistake was playing "wife" to my lover and even to him, and that in return leads them to not have anything to really respect or work for in return. Therefore,either we could resume on a clean state but take things slow or possibly leave each other alone.

It's hard to let go but I have to . I have even tried to perform a HOT FOOT on him (4 months ago) but he just wont go. It was said by a reading I got done that he will always be apart of my life because we are soulmates . I believe highly that we are because we have learned a lesson. I have changed and he has changed for the better too he just seem to be fighting his a little more. He doesn't want to let go but I know that we both have to for things to continue to manifest in our lives that need to.

My next move is to keep pushing into a better past...I have even done a Cut and Clear (without walnut bath) but I think calling for a new lover is not the right course of action because my ex wont let and I still do have feelings for him. I know asking for him to see my side of things is kinda hard, but is there any way i can get him to forgive and forget while the Cut n Clear is manifesting. I would like for him to get over the past so that he can stop being so bitter toward me ...I know that friendship is even not the answer as of now. I am willing to work on healing our connection since we do have a strong one...and that could take more time...

I'm up for the fight not only because of the love of him but for the love of myself...if we are both healed from all of this we have a better light for our future even if it means not being together.

thanks LuckyMojo in advance for any suggestions... *hugs*

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Jul 13, 2013 5:07 pm

If this is a man against whom you took out a restraining order, I think you need to do the black walnut bath and completely cut him out of your life. I know you feel for him, I know you have a history together, but this man is dangerous.

I would recommend to do the black walnut bath, cut him out completely, and do work to build up your own self-esteem and confidence; also, some protection work since he seems unstable. Keep a record of any threats, crazy emails or phone messages so if you have to build up another case for a protection order you have the paper trail (or, see if you can get the original one served to him).

Good luck,
Mary Bee

MAGUS2311 · Unread post by **MAGUS2311** » Mon Jul 29, 2013 6:49 pm

This should be on of my first few postings. I was reading up on cut and clear candles and spells. I wanted to pose a question regarding cut and clear. Is it possible that the work of cut and clear whether vigil candles, spell and so forth work to the point that the person you are severing ties with wants to continue the emotional connection, friendship, relationship and so forth? Furthermore, is it possible that my heart of hearts is responding to something greater at work with our friendship? I know I have a divination request with an AIRR member so I am interested in finding out what direction to go with this in order to mitigate the matter.

I recently purchased a Cut and Clear vigil candle to be set on the alter at LM. I needed to cut ties with this person emotionally, spiritually, and energetically, however, I did my own C/C candle with sachet powder and van van oil early this year Jan 2013 and things were great but then May 2013 came around and she wanted back into our friendship. I would appreciate any feedback on the matter as I want to remove any emotional ties and or feelings for this person as I know it has not worked out. I understand that I do sincerely love her however I also understand that she doesn't and has other things going on in her life.

LuckyLittleLady · Unread post by **LuckyLittleLady** » Fri Aug 02, 2013 8:55 pm

When I'm in a situation that involves being in a group of two or more people that I don't know, I completely shut down.

I'm going to an event in less than two weeks and I'm already anxious and nervous about it. It's an awful cycle of intense thoughts that I have about myself that I won't really get into. Lets just say there's a lot going on in my head. I'm going with a bunch of the boy's friends and I don't want them to think badly of me.

This is something that I've been living with my entire life and I'm so so tired of it. It's not something that affects my daily life in such a way that I can't function. But it's enough to cause sometimes major anxiety. Thinking about it makes me want to cry. I know I'm a nice person. Once I start to open up people really like me. I'm just desperate to skip the awful anxiety part.

I can't do anything major like burning candles for long extended periods of time.

Help?

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Aug 03, 2013 3:45 am

Hi LuckyLittleLady,

A combination of John the Conqueror and Tranquility products can be useful. Wearing the oils as your personal scent or taking a long bath with the crystals for two or three days prior to the event is one way to do it: http://www.luckymojo.com/johntheconqueror.html & http://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html. Working the John the Conqueror spell kit is another: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-john-the-conqueror.html

In addition to this, you may want to consider seeing a therapist for a short while - particularly someone who does behavioural work. They can teach you how to cope with the anxiety and offer methods you can practice for that beginning part that's so difficult.

Blessings and Success to you.

MoonSunStar · Unread post by **MoonSunStar** » Wed Aug 07, 2013 4:07 am

Hi,
I was wondering if it's possible to do a spell for someone else?
My sister is in tremendous pain because her boyfriend just cheated on her. She's been taking care of him and has sacrificed her personal life for him for 4 years. She's a very fragile person with a weak heart, and she easily gets emotionally unstable. Is there any spell I can do for her to make her heart feel less pain, to heal her wounded heart and make her happier, stronger??? Or maybe help her find someone that deserves her unconditional love. Please help me. My family means the world to me. I need to help her ease the pain as soon as possible...Thank you so much. God bless.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Aug 12, 2013 11:30 am

You can absolutely do this spell for someone else. While generally this spell is worked for self-healing and a bit of self-love, you can do this by proxy for someone else. I would suggest mixing the bath for her and gift it to her as a gift as a soothing herbal bath good for skin care

amynguyen84 · Unread post by **amynguyen84** » Mon Aug 12, 2013 2:25 pm

Hi, can anybody show me what i need to use to stop love to my current boy friend?

I live with him now, but seem like i'm the only one who care and take care of our love. He do not care about me or my feelings,so i want to stop love him while i still live with him..

I don't want to break up with him yet (not now), i just want to not love him anymore.

I'm very new about this so please teach me what to buy and how to use it in detail.

Thanks a lot and have a good day.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Aug 12, 2013 3:42 pm

Hello, Amyguyen84.
Try this out. I have used this Walnut bath on clients and it works beautifully.
After he leaves, you can do more spell work. But while he still lives there, you can do this bath without him noticing.
Good luck to you!
http://www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html

Unread post by **Zola Kathryn** » Mon Aug 12, 2013 4:11 pm

You might also look into Cut & Clear work, amyguyen84: http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Also, please avoid posting the same message across multiple sections on the board. This is a rule here on the LM forum. Thank you for understanding!

MoonSunStar · Unread post by **MoonSunStar** » Mon Aug 12, 2013 11:48 pm

Thanks Conjureman!
But she doesn't have a bathtub

What other methods can I do? Or maybe some kind of candle spell?
What can i engrave on the candle or write on the petition paper? Thanks!

winter4me · Unread post by **winter4me** » Mon Sep 02, 2013 5:46 pm

I read many posted story on your website about my situation, one post stands out the PENIS must DIE into 2010 it hit home, I have set (3)clear and cut candles for myself but < I still broken down and cry. My feeling and pride are hurt after 13 years he cheated on me with his ex and made my life a living hell. After I found out I did try to make it work but every time he touched me I felt dirty and nasty. Becz I knew he was still seeing her and I was right. I called him &*what I got out of the conversation was I played you to get the things( nice clothes car/truck) etc I needed cause she did not have a job to help get the material things need in life.
He made the statement why start over with someone new ; when I have known her for over 30 years . I got who I want so never call me again, now that bull hurts( That conversation left a large blk hole in my heart) Such much happen between 2009 and now.

Well they are now living together with the material things we accomplish together and she still does not have to work. I guess he truly love her. .
H to the yes, I am angry /bitter bz he played me for a wicked woman of the south. I don’t want to cause them any physically harm but I hope discord and fighting starts between them and the pit he dig for me I want both of them to fall into that same pit and feel the hurt I felt. I want healing for myself . I need to move on with life and pray their relationship goes sour . What type of healing can I get to help with. I know I talk about vengeance and healing at the same time but o that's the way I feel since I found out all the things above & more It is what it is . I am glad to be out of the relationship now but I need help to get over the pain.
I took me over 3 to 4 days to get this much out about my feeling

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Sep 02, 2013 6:18 pm

Hello, Winter4me,
My heart goes out to you. I am so very sorry that this horrible man did these terrible things to you.
Is there any way that you can get an attorney? If you can't afford one, maybe call your state and see if any will do legal work for you for free. Why should he walk away with your money and assets? I strongly advise you to do this as soon as possible.
For your self-healing, please read the webpage on Cut and Clear. www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html Also, after reading this page, consider he spell kit (which would be perfect for you)
www.luckymojo.com/spell-cut-and-clear.html
Additionally, a walnut bath is also in order to help your emotional wounds. www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html
I would do all of these things first and then later, think about revenge spells.
You can also contact an AIRR member for a reading and further Hoodoo advice. OR sign up for the radio show where you can get a free reading by 3 experts. Just go to the main page and you'll see the radio show thread and sign up.
I hope this helps. Please let us know how it's going. My thoughts and prayers are with you and for you.

Unread post by **Power** » Mon Sep 02, 2013 6:58 pm

winter4me,

For revenge, you could try the "Crossing Spell Kit" or the "Break Up Spell Kit"

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-crossing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html

quietwisdom · Unread post by **quietwisdom** » Tue Sep 10, 2013 11:24 am

I have been looking on the forum for several months now trying to understand what is the best direction for me to move forward in with regards to work. I had a reading and was told my husband is not the right person for me to be with. I believe the reading, however am really struggling with letting go. A brief summary of the sitation...

My husband has been having an affair for over 2 years. I kicked him out after learning about the affair the second time. I was doing really well and moving forward with my life and taking care of my daughter while he moved in with his mistress. A few months ago he came back wanting to reconcile and now I feel as though my world has been turned upside down. While he said he wanted to reconcile he continued to keep her on the side. She showed up at our home and her mother called the police on my husband (she is only 24 and my husband is 33). I told my husband that I needed some time to process everything because it always seems like something dramatic happens and I need some peace. He is now upset with me and is not speaking with me. His mistress sent me a text stating that she never meant to hurt me and is afraid of her safety because he has threatened her to not speak with me. She recently posted a vulgar post saying something to the tune of if my man keeps going back to her then I need to learn about what she has in order to keep him at home. I agree with my worker that he is not healthy for me or our child, but I am finding it so hard to let go.

Is the Cut and Clear Spell for this situation or do I need something stronger? Also, is there anything I can do for the mistress?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 10, 2013 2:44 pm

Hello, Quietwisdom,
I am so sorry that this is happening to you.
My cousin was in a similar situation as yours. I don't know what your reasoning is for putting up with this man. But, in her case, she was afraid of losing what she was used to. She was afraid of what was out there (fear of the unknown) without him. But, when she FINALLY cut the strings, after 20 years, she is one of the happiest people I know! She is working, popular, laughing, and not alone as she has a zillion friends!
I think that you're absolutely right abut the Cut and Clear. That is one of the best things for you. You will see what's really going on and you may even see more (things you didn't know).
go to www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
I also highly suggest for you a walnut bath. www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html
If you really want to work on the gal, we can suggest more. But, please do what I have suggested first.
Please keep in touch.
Wishing you health, wealth, and happiness

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Sep 10, 2013 3:00 pm

There are seven billion people on this planet. Plenty of fish in the sea. If your husband is threatening his girlfriend, she needs to call the police. Her mother was out of line; if she's 24, she is an adult. Don't bother doing any work on her; concentrate on taking care of yourself and your child. Cooperate with your state agency to get child support, if you aren't already receiving it. Pay Me can help in that area.

When you're ready to find someone new, let us know.

jane · Unread post by **jane** » Fri Sep 13, 2013 6:49 pm

I've always had a problem with depression and anxiety, feeling overwelmed with circumstances to the point of feeling paralized and unable to function.My 25 year old daughter has been going through this herself, and I was trying to console her, but her screaming has left me shaking, maybe I should compose myself before posting, but I'm feeling a sense of desperation. She's upset about lack of money, we've always been poor, I hate to say it here here,poor, because I've been trying to remain positive. I''ve actually been feeling better the past few weeks, been focusing and trying to get organized and apply myself towards making money. I've noticed things are starting to improve but I've been in such a deep hole, that the improvements don't mean much to her right now. She is home from attending university overseas, my parents were able to help her the first year, but, knowing she didn't have the money for the 2nd year weighed down heavily on her, she spent last year feeling so anxious about this 2nd year that she had a hard time focusing and did poorly with her studies. We've got her an apartment (in that country) with first months rent, and ticket bought for her flight, but we don't yet have money for everything else, it's dribbling in with each sale I make. she doesn't believe that I can come up with the rent and tuition she needs this year, because I've never made that much money before so she's right to doubt me. She is considering quiting and letting go of the unrefundable money we've spent
so far, because she's afraid she will be go through what she went through last year with the paralizing fear of running out of money. She didn't look for a summer job, she said she felt she couldn't get through a job interview without crying. She's having severe social anxiety, she's inherited my shyness and problems relating to people, and I'm very upset right now. I have some sea salt and a sage smudge stick and have been planning to take a cleansing bath of sorts, and hoping to persuade her to do the same, but right now she is screaming and raging. I had planned on working tonight and making progress, but now I'm shaking and having the same difficulty focusing that she has been having. I appreciate any advice. Is there something I can do right now, and cheaply to get us through this night? I pray regulary to my ancestors,I believe they are there for me. I can take a cleansing bath for myself, but what can I do tonight for my daughter? Something special and powerful?

Thank you,
Jane

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 13, 2013 7:24 pm

Good Evening, Jane,
I am so sorry about all these problems. Depression can be so paralyzing (as you've said). Just a terrible, helpless feeling...
My very first advice to you is to seek professional counseling and/or a physician. There are so many medical achievements in this arena. It might even be a simple prescription. Whatever the solution, medical attention is of the utmost importance.
Also, just as important, is prayer. This is always helpful in an emergency (as well as for everyday). I am an AVID follower of the Psalms and I am extremely grateful to AIRR for making this page available to all of us in a clear and concise manner. http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... _of_Psalms
Please go to that page and browse through those that apply to your needs.
Lucky Mojo has Clarity oil and I suggest that you browse this page to see if other oils might also help (such as King Solomon and Money oil, steady work, etc.): www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html
And, there are COMPLETE spell kits such as: Money Drawing Kits and Steady Work kits on this page www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
I hope this helps. I wish you and your daughter the very best. My thoughts are with the both of you

Romani52 · Unread post by **Romani52** » Fri Sep 13, 2013 11:37 pm

I agree she certainly needs medical help for her depression. Also maybe some sort of counseling to help her to realize that at 25 he needs to be supporting herself not screaming and shouting at her mother to pay for everything. If she lived overseas by herself for a year she can't be too debilitated, I think blaming everything on you is a form of emotional blackmail. My daughter behaves in the same way but she is only 17, I certainly will not still be enabling her behavior when she is 25. I use Peaceful Home, Van Van or Clarity oils on candles when I feel a tantrum is brewing up. Don't allow her to blame you for everything in her life, you sound as if you have done a great job. She just needs to accept responsibility for her own problems.

cat ninja heroe · Unread post by **cat ninja heroe** » Sat Sep 14, 2013 6:19 pm

Hello Jane,
I sympathize with your troubles, and I hope you are having a better day today.
I have had a bit of luck with Success Oil and also Power Oil, which you may find will give you both the strength to carry on. I might also suggest Cast Off Evil Oil. You might find some comfort in making a simple daily ritual of burning a candle with the oil (I often use a tea light) and just say your prayer/petition along with a suitable psalm as you light it. Keep it simple, keep doing it, and you will soon find that it makes you feel good when you do your ritual.
There are also ways to "lay tricks" to treat your daughter with these oils, if you are not in the open about hoodoo with her. I would suggest making her some special bath salts by mixing a few drops of the selected oil with epsom salts; put the oil into her shampoo and into the hand soap at the sink; use the appropriate bath salts in her laundry.
There are lots of ideas, so search this forum . . .
Lastly, I would suggest that you submit a prayer to the Crystal Silence League, and they will pray for you.
All the best,
catherine

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Sep 14, 2013 6:47 pm

Dear Jane,

cat ninja heroe wrote: put the oil into her shampoo

Not unless it's one of those pearly or milky-looking shampoos. If it's transparent, even a little oil will make it cloudy, and she's sure to notice. Use a spoonful or two of dissolved bath crystals instead.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

jane · Unread post by **jane** » Sat Sep 14, 2013 7:53 pm

Thank you all! When after I posted and saw it needed moderation approval, I thought well, that's going to take awhile, maybe a day, I was surprised to
find later that it went through and replied to so quickly! I should of known that my post was being seen, because I must of gotten some prayers sent
my way last night! An hour or so after I made the post, my daughter was calmed down, and today she said that she wanted to stick with her plans. I don't know if she is going to waver again and say the opposite tomorrow, she knows what she wants, but the lack of money makes it scary. Right now she is calmer and talking about going. Right, now I'm grateful for where we are in this. About counseling, its hard to find for the right price, and its harder to get her there. When she was a teen she would lock herself into her room whenever I had any kind of Doctor's appointment for her, or she would lock herself into the car, when reaching the Doctor's office. Last year while at university I could not convince her to get counseling even though they provide 6 free sessions for students. It seems that "laying tricks" as described would be helpful, if all goes to plan and she gets on the plane I still have almost 3 weeks to try some things. After she calmed down, I was able to relax and focus on work, and also take that cleansing bath I had planned to do with the sea salt and the sage. We are living with my parents, and we are not allowed to light candles or incense, (I admit I do at times) anyways the sage fragrance wafted out of the bathroom, and afterwards my daughter and I could smell it all around, but neither of my parents noticed it which was weird, I was expecting my mother to notice and to have to come up with some explanation but didn't have to. Yesterday, my daughter refused the bath idea, today she is open to it, and hopefully she'll do it tonight. Miss Aida, thanks for the links to the oils, I didn't realize they had so many.

Thanks everyone!
Jane

cat ninja heroe · Unread post by **cat ninja heroe** » Sun Sep 15, 2013 12:39 pm

MissMichaele wrote:
Not unless it's one of those pearly or milky-looking shampoos. If it's transparent, even a little oil will make it cloudy, and she's sure to notice. Use a spoonful or two of dissolved bath crystals instead.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

Thank you Miss Michaele, that is a good detail for me to know.

quietwisdom · Unread post by **quietwisdom** » Mon Sep 16, 2013 3:58 pm

Miss Aida and Mama Micki. Thank you very much for your responses. My Black Walnuts arrived today and I am so excited. I am looking forward to this process.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 6:07 am

Good Morning, Quietwisdom,
So happy that you're going this route!
Keep us posted.
Praying for you.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 6:17 pm

jane wrote:We are living with my parents, and we are not allowed to light candles or incense, (I admit I do at times)

You don't always need candles and incense -- you can do many effective things with powders and oils.

How To Use Conjure Oils, Hoodoo Oils, Ritual Oils, Dressing Oils, and Anointing Oils In The Hoodoo Rootwork Tradition
http://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html
How To Use Sachet Powders in the Hoodoo Rootwork Tradition
http://www.luckymojo.com/powders.html
Foot-Track Magic in the Hoodoo Rootwork Tradition
http://www.luckymojo.com/foottrack.html
Hoodoo in Theory and Practice
http://luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html

Yesterday, my daughter refused the bath idea, today she is open to it,

Which is why you spike her grooming and laundry supplies; she doesn't even need to know.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

silvershades · Unread post by **silvershades** » Wed Sep 18, 2013 1:07 pm

Years ago, I was involved in a relationship with a man and performed a honey jar spell. The jar contained hairs from each of us tied together, with the wish that he would love me and be faithful placed into the jar. I worked the jar for many weeks and it seemed to produce the results that I was after.

Long story short, I broke up with him a few months after working on the jar and I foolishly threw the jar out (unbroken) into the trash. This was years ago but I cannot stop thinking about him. I am married to another man, but the other is constantly on his mind. He recently reached out to me and told me that he thinks of me constantly and has "never loved someone the way that he loved me" since we broke up.

I love my husband and wish to put the past behind me, but no matter how hard I try I simply cannot get this other man out of my mind. I am very doubtful that a honey jar spell could have such an effect after so many years, but at the same time I have no explanation for my feelings.

Is it even possible that the spell is still at work? How can I break it without the jar in my possession? Please help--any advice is welcome. I want to move on with my life.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Sep 18, 2013 4:10 pm

Hi there:
I would suggest doing Cut and Clear work:

http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

I'd also do some work to keep your relationship with your husband strong. Use something like Love Me or Peaceful Home, or a combination.

Good luck!

quietwisdom · Unread post by **quietwisdom** » Mon Sep 23, 2013 4:05 pm

Thank you Ms Aida. My Black Walnuts finally arrived and I am anxious to move forward. I was wondering about the discarding of the bath water. Do I only need to fill a small basin or do I need to put all of the bath water in a bucket. Also, I live in the suburbs and cannot walk naked anywhere without being seen. Is getting into my car naked and driving to a cross-roads sufficient or is there a different alternative?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 24, 2013 5:56 am

Good Morning, Quiet Wisdom,
So happy you're moving forward with the walnut bath! I'm just so HAPPY!
OK, you only need the little basin for the water (not the entire tub full).
What I do (because I live far from a crossroad), is drive and then park about a block away. Then walk up to crossroad (FULLY clothed) and do the disposal ritual (find disposal rituals here: www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html ). Then walk away and not turn back. So, I am walking to my car.
Hope this helps.
Have a wonderful day!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Sep 25, 2013 7:09 pm

MoonSunStar wrote:Thanks Conjureman!
But she doesn't have a bathtub What other methods can I do? Or maybe some kind of candle spell?
What can i engrave on the candle or write on the petition paper? Thanks!

I'm sure these herbs can be used as candle dressing - and you could also:

poke holes in a bar of soap and stuff pinches of herbs in (best for someone who is already conjure-friendly)
Make a very concentrated tea of it and add it to liquid soap in a pretty bottle
Grate up a bar of good-quality soap, mix the herbs into it, and sew it up into little terrycloth scrubby-pillow things

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Barbaramcnair · Unread post by **Barbaramcnair** » Sun Sep 29, 2013 6:58 am

Thursday the man I have been dealing with for four years ask to me to come to his house. I came a little earlier. He had another woman there. They were on his porch. The porch is close in porch so I guess he did not see me. I walked in the porch. Him and the lady was surprised. I know who she is. I asked her what she was doing there and he jumped up and punched me in my face. I ended up going to the hospital. Not only that the woman had a nerve to call me and say. "I am sorry he hit you but he thought you were going to hit me. I did not know he loved me so much but now I do." All I could say is really. I despise these two people. I would pay anything to bring them down. However, I want to heal my heart and move on. To get the love I deserve. I am a good woman. How should I proceed?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Sep 29, 2013 8:49 am

Dearest Barbaramcnair,
This is SHOCKING! Are you physically OK? Did you file a police report? I certainly hope so. And I am so very VERY sorry that your heart was broken. But, not sorry that your future has been saved.
Sometimes, God, our Guardian Angels, Spirit Guides, etc. make these things happen for a reason. Ultimately, to protect you.
As I recall, you wanted to break up these people and get him back, Didn't you order products to get him back just recently? Thank God you didn't have enough time to complete these spells. You are DEFINITELY protected, lady! Wow.
ANY man who hits a woman (other than to save a life) is a coward. And, you can rest assure, this isn't the first time he has struck a woman (and certainly NOT his last). His LAME excuse of saying that he was protecting the other woman is....INEXCUSEABLE!!!
Do you really want to bother breaking up these 2 people? He will ultimately start beating her, you know. This is NOT a psychic prediction but a "Human Nature" prediction: he is a woman abuser.
As you had said yourself, get over him and get on with your life. <--this sounds crude and abrupt, I'm sorry. But it's what you have to do to save yourself)
The 2 immediate things that I recommend for you are 1-Walnut bath to break the power of the past and fall out of love: http://www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html
And, the cut and clear spells: http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
These will help you to move on.
When you're ready, you might want to consider a reading and either root work and/or magical coaching to help you attain the man that is right for you. http://readersandrootworkers.org.
Take Care of yourself, Dear Lady.
My prayers are with you and we are here for you

jane · Unread post by **jane** » Sun Sep 29, 2013 3:54 pm

Thanks!!!

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Mon Sep 30, 2013 1:22 am

I agree with the above recommendations, including that it is long past time for a) her to step up, and b) you to make her. You are the parent, not she. She is low man on the totem pole in your household. She is getting a huge advantage in being able to study out of the country. She needs to take advantage of the free counseling there, and study hard to get return on the value of your investment in her. She is 25 and should have more of her stuff together by now, at least a general direction. She has been allowed to get away from uncomfortable situations by removing herself to her room, to within a car and now, to another country! She has responsibilities that she can't keep locking herself away from. Keep working with her, and NOT letting her squirm out, and you both will be successful. Good luck!

Mary T
HRCC #1398G

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:09 am

Someone I care about was emotionally abused by someone he was involved with. He was really broken at the time, and thought that what was going on was ok, as is often the case with people who experience this. The person he was seeing was seeing someone else the whole time. She loved that other guy, but he did not love her. Since that guy did not love her, and my friend did, she would just see both of them and took advantage. She lied to my friend time and time again, and he stayed like an idiot because he was in love with her, but if he had loved himself more, he would have left. He knew about the situation with the other guy, but she denied a lot of it and he believed her, or wanted to, I guess.

Manipulation, threats, and all sorts of ugliness happened. She really had him by the balls and didn't care about him one bit, except for what she could get from him. She never gave him his place, and he never took it. Somehow, she made him believe that it was all ok. (Sometimes she would leave after they had had sex, after getting a text to go with the other guy) She had caught him at a vulnerable time, since my friend had just left his (loveless, passionless, staying-for-the-kids) marriage. This went on in some shape or form for like a year and a half. Long story short, my friend is too wounded to fully open his heart to anyone and of course hasn't healed since it was really bad. Pain from unrequited love is one thing, but from that plus moral and emotional abuse is far worse.

I realize my friend was messed up to begin with. He wouldn't have accepted this involvement otherwise. I guess he has low self-esteem.

Just to clarify, he is more than functional and has a very good career. He's a happy, driven, intelligent person. It's not like he's stuck being depressed about this. He hardly even has time to think about it (which is both good and bad). I just know that this really affects him inside. It must. I can't imagine going through what he went through.

What is the best way to heal from the remnants of this? I was thinking about Crucible of Courage, to help him face the situation for what it really was. Power products, for his self-esteem, and Healing. Am I on the right track? Are there any specific tricks or spells that could help with this? Thanks, in advance.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:13 am

Hi Mezan,

You're on the right track in the product lines you're looking at. For a man, John the Conqueror is also quite excellent and for his situation generally, Clarity can be good. You can work with a dolly or get the products directly on him by fixing his laundry or smoking your house with the incenses when he comes over. Fix any items he's likely to touch with oils or powders and if he's a bather, you could make him a custom mix of bath crystals re-bottled in a pretty but glass jar that doesn't give any clue as to the contents.

If he's able and willing, the best however would be for him to do a full Cut and Clear spell. Probably on both his past relationship and his ex-marriage since it sounds like there's unfinished business from both sticking around.

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Mon Sep 30, 2013 5:12 am

Thank you, aura.
The dolly is something that I hadn't thought of. It may be a stronger angle to work from than others I had considered. I guess the more different types of work I do, the better. My lists for upcoming orders keep growing. I doubt he would be willing to do the full Cut and Clear spell, unfortunately. Either way, this gives me lots of ammo for the work.

(By the way, I had used a fake name to protect his identity, but thank you for removing it anyway. I had originally wanted to avoid using one, but since there was another male being talked about, I had wanted to avoid confusion)

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Sep 30, 2013 9:27 am

Mezan, next time just use initials to avoid confusion.

Healing products would be a good choice. Call on the Archangel Zadkiel, the angel of emotional healing.