How to Use Honey, Sugar, and Sweet Jars Questions and Answers

[MelodyMaker]

With regards to results, there can be a few reasons that you're not seeing very much including:
1 - You're not working anything but a honey jar. In love work it is common to work from a number of different angles such as working a honey jar, working a doll baby, performing contact magic, feeding him menstrual blood and wearing appropriate oils or taking appropriate spiritual baths.
2 - If you aren't already having on-going intimate relations with the person, it's harder to do the work. The more you have a sexual bond and the stronger the personal concerns you have (read semen here) the easier it is to perform the work. The more casual the bond, the more work it's going to take to reel him in.
3 - If you're a beginner, you may need some more practice or may benefit from magical coaching.

It would be a combination of these three, I had a reading and nothing is blocking us from being together, except his selfishness, which is why I chose the honey jar, to sweeten that out.

We were physically intimate for awhile, until recently, when he called it off, because he didn't want to ruin our friendship with such things, even though it was never an issue before.

I had attempted with the menstrual blood, but it's very hard to sneak it in his food or drink, when I see him. We normally meet at his house, because there's more room. Besides that, I wasn't aware that you could do other things along side the jar, most people I asked said concentrate on the jar and not to distract myself by doing too much at once.

Thank you very much, this was very informative. I will practice a bit more and maybe get a few books in on the subject, to know a bit more and in the mean time will try to do a few other things along side the jar like you have suggested. I have bath salts for love, as well as red candles, so I can do a spiritual bath and by wearing the appropriate oils, is this the annointing oils? I have Adam and Eve oil, as well as Come To Me oil, so I can wear them. Are there other things I can do? And is there ways of sneaking menstrual blood to him?

[aura]

Hi MelodyMaker,

I think that working with spiritual baths and anointing yourself with condition oïl (yes that's the anointing oïl) are both excellent alternatives. Start with just that and feeding him menstrual blood on a regular basis and see how things develop.

For getting the MB into him more easily, there's a long thread on the subject which has a number of different techniques, great stories and lots of excellent advice: menstrual-blood-questions-and-answers-t ... 5b#p132102

[MelodyMaker]

I will try that, then, and have a look at the forum. Thank you very much for all your help

[Sharon Athena]

Hi there.

I'm posting this because I did a couple things that are working right now, both sweetening jar spells, and I'm making some observations while I'm watching them work that have led me to form a few theories that I'd like to share and ask if they're correct or not. So I'm gonna describe exactly what I did, what the results are and then explain my theory, and hopefully, if I'm right, then I can help because all of us who didn't know before have just learned something new and we all benefit

Ok.

1.] The DFH (dear future husband) Sugar Sweetening Jar.

Things I used:

One of my hairs
His semen, dried on a tissue
Piece of blank paper
Red ink pen
16 ounce size, clean preserves jar with metal lid
Plain granulated sugar
Adam and Eve conjure/condition/anointing oil

First, I tore all the machine cut edges neatly off the sheet of paper, which started its life as ordinary computer printer paper. Then I wrote his full name three times, then crossed it by simply signing my name over his three times after turning the paper. Then came the intent, which, in a list, here's what I wrote in an unbroken line to form a circle around the name block:

Love me
Trust me
Forgive me
Open your heart to me
Stay with me

That only needed to be written once, as I don't do short and I wanted/we needed these things to happen to work as a couple, as his divorce really messed him up and it was destroying us.

I anointed the petition paper with a tiny tiny bit of Adam and Eve oil to get the effect that Adam and Eve oil's supposed to cause: "a condition of ideal love, where the couple feels as if being together is as natural as Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden." Or words to that effect.

I then put that little tissue with some of his semen on it and that I'd wrapped up in one of my hairs on the paper and began folding it towards myself, folding it again and again til I couldn't get it to fold again, and each time verbally repeating my intent plus, May he act in accordance with my will as stated in this petition paper, and as I will it, so mote it be. (I'm a Druid, sorry.)

I poured about 1/2" of sugar in the jar, dropped my lil bundle in, then filled it to the shoulder of the jar, and then I took a pinch of sugar out, put it in my mouth, and verbally said, "As this sugar tastes sweet to me, may (my man's name) be to me." I repeated this *eleven* times, because that's when I felt the spell activate. Obviously you don't have to repeat that eleven times, the spell only calls for three times, but I repeated it until I actually felt the spell "wake up" and begin its energy output.

I observed the spell's first effects within nine hours, and that was right on about two months ago. And I'm here to tell you, for an allegedly slow-acting spell, this took noticeable effect faster than I've ever seen a spell work before. Also, while the effect's strength is immediate, it also titrates (like a rose blooming), so it gets better with time as it builds itself.

One of the reasons I used sugar (instead of honey) is because he loves Kool-Aid. He'll go through two quarts of it in as many hours. It takes a cup of sugar to make Kool-Aid, and so I've used the trick sugar that this jar's generating to sweeten it a few times. Very interesting observation: Trick sugar tastes sweeter than plain sugar; it makes you literally want to drink more of it, and it's very effective.

Another reason's because all I need do to make more trick sugar is replace whatever sugar I've used from the jar, shake it up to mix it, and within three days (minimum), I have more.

Okie dokes, this jar saved my relationship. What did I get right? What am I doing right?

2.] Cindy's Work Honey Jar.

My sisterfriend Cindy gets treated like crap at work. A day without her being threatened with being fired for making the most trivial mistake's like a day without sunshine for her immediate supervisor, who apparently has groupies.

What I used:

One hair from Cindy
Green ink pen
A piece of blank paper
A pay stub from Cindy's work
A list of four names (her chief tormentors)
Honey
A small prescription bottle that belongs to Cindy
Four Band-Aids

Once again, the paper's straight from the printer, unused, machine-cut edges neatly torn off. For this one, I wrote, "All my fellow employees at the office, both above and below me" for the target's name, then crossed that with Cindy's full name.

I then turned her pay stub over and used that as my collective name paper, writing each name she'd given me nine times on it. I figured since they're a group at her office anyway, might's well group them together here, too.

I put the pay stub/name paper on top of the intent paper, laid Cindy's hair down in the middle, then folded it towards me 'til I could fold it no more, each time stating Cindy's intent as if I were Cindy:

Respect myself and my abilities as a medical professional
Really listen when I talk
Treat me with respect and authority

& then, after all that folding, I made sure I'd be able to get that bundle into its container, a small pill bottle that was a Naprosyn prescription of Cindy's before its recycled repurposing as a container for Cindy's work Honey Jar, by sealing it to keep it folded shut with a Band-Aid.

I popped that into the prescription bottle (where it only just fit with very little excess room for anything else), and then filled the bottle with honey, did the three tastes/three verbal recitations of Cindy's intent, then screwed the cap on. A little honey did leak out, so to make sure no more would, and to make the spell safe to handle so it can be held in Cindy's hand to work it, I sealed it around the cap with two more Band-Aids.

Then I guided Cindy, step by step, as she worked it with her intent, then labelled the top of the cap with the title, "Cindy's Very Basic Sweetening Spell," then popped it into the pantry.

Within six hours, her immediate supervisor called Cindy to see how she was doing (she had allergic conjuntivitis). Within three days of deployment, Cindy told me she'd never had a better day at work at any time during her career as a CMA (certified medical assistant).

Her chief tormentors have been being very nice to her ever since

She likes her job much better now and feels as if she's now been accepted as part of the team. This spell seems to have leveled the playing field at work and (the best part) fostered a team atmosphere between Cindy and her co-workers to where they're all now working together as actual co-workers rather than rivals.

I did not have any personal concerns of any of the office staff, just the pay stub that I also used as the collective name paper. Did I essentially take an item that could be used as a personal concern of the entire office as a whole and have it do double duty as a name paper? It's the only way I can figure that this spell's actually working.

With my Sugar Jar: I noticed that the addition of the conjure oil sharpened the purpose, direction and all-around intent of the spell. Believe me, it's working. I got up to go to the kitchen to grab a Coke and DFH woke up, complaining I'd "left" him. He settled down after I sat back down and he went back to sleep.

What all did I do right here? I'm asking because of the theories I've developed after having deployed these sweet jars and seeing their effects.

Thanks in advance!

[Miss Aida]

Good Afternoon, Sharon Athena,
Well, congratulations! You put a lot of thought and energy into these spells!! Wonderful!
What I find most intriguing about your spells is that you added your own "special touches" to them! Makes them stronger. And you did them with confidence!
They're working so, obviously, you did everything right.
I really have nothing to add to what you have done. A little different, nevertheless, very effective!
Again, Congrats and thanks for sharing!

[CaptainConjure]

Hi every1,

i have decided to start a Honey Jar to try to save my failing marriage. I been reading the forum and learning that a personal items that have to do with the person one is working on. My wife and I are already separated, so gathering items from her not easy.

My questions are:

1) I like to know if the items I am listing below are usable?
2) what else do I need to make the best honey jar?
3) Do i just ask the jar for what i want or is there an actual prayer I need to say?
4) I read that soiled underwear is good, but is it a must? I can't find any.

These are the things i have:

1) I have a lot of my wife's hair from her hair brush
2) I have her wedding ring, although the diamond fell off of it a while back ago. (Maybe that was a bad sign at the time).
3) I have 1 of her hats that still has her sent on it.
4) I have her cigarette butts that has her saliva. I am not sure about putting a cigarette in a Honey Jar, cause it stinks and its far from sweet.
5) (the hardest question to ask) Should I also put my some of my semen in the Jar? (Sorry, I didn't intend to sound like a pervert!)

If the honey Jar works, I can get her underwear with body fluids. Can I add it to the Honey Jar later?

Thanks,

[poeticone]

I started a honey jar about two months ago, but being a newbie to them at the time I had one of those awkward jars and lids that made it a fire hazard to burn candles on it.

Today I transferred the contents of it to a new jar that can safely have candles burning on top of it. I added new personal concerns and herbs along with some more honey. I basically did the "as honey is sweet to me, so will XXXXX be sweet to me" several times and licked my fingers with the honey. Then I put the jar into a bathtub and burned an appropriate colored candle with the appropriate oil and the person's name carved into the candle.

Hope I did it right! I wasn't opposed to starting over, but I didn't want to disrespect the effort I had previously made.

[BrotherChristopher]

well, there is a whole topic about honey jar spells that has every question that anybody has every asked about honey jars in this forum. I imagine this question will get moved over there shortly.

You have her hair, that is more then plenty and considered a pretty intimate personal concern. More intimate then the cigarette butts, or the ring, or the hat or I think her worn panties. If you can actually get some of her sexual fluids, that would be the only more intimate thing, I would think.

No, you don't have to use your semen. You can also use your hair. If you do get her sexual fluids, then you would want to add yours as well to the jar. Yes you can add things to the jar later. Asking about that here doesn't make you a pervert in this forumn in this particular type of question.

Have you gotten a reading about the marriage yet? If not you should do that. Contact one of the AIRR members for a reading.

Should you decide to work with candles on top of the jar, you would want to use pink candles, dressed with Reconciliation at the beginning.

I also get an intuitive thought you would be benefited by doing an Uncrossing ritual on your self as well.

You should definitely

[Miss Aida]

Good Evening, Poeticone,
If you have looked through the forum on the honey jars, you'll see what others say about opening the jar.
I suggest that you continue the work. If it's not as effective as it has been in the past, then start a new one.
Hope you get all of your heart's desires.
Take care

[Littlestar]

From what i've read and some people i've spoken with honey jars are slow working because it just sits there. people like to use tealights to warm the work up vs like a 4" candle. i have a honey jar kit i bought that ive been working which i keep on the window sill and let the sun warm the honey when im not working it. But could one also put a honey jar on a candle warmer not hearth to keep the work going in between candles? I feel like the work is so much different energy wise when the bottle of honey and herbs are warm and flowing as im working it, vs cold honey that just sits there. thoughts?

[aura]

You could go with a candle-warmer insolong as you're careful with regards to fire safety and don't boil or burn the honey. Other alternatives are to work with a different, thinner liquid like pancake syrup (which remains flowing) or something that's crystalline like sugar. I rarely work with honey as a sweetener unless I'm doing an apple spell that will be buried under a plant.

[Sharon Athena]

Good Afternoon, Sharon Athena,
Well, congratulations! You put a lot of thought and energy into these spells!! Wonderful!
What I find most intriguing about your spells is that you added your own "special touches" to them! Makes them stronger. And you did them with confidence!
They're working so, obviously, you did everything right.
I really have nothing to add to what you have done. A little different, nevertheless, very effective!
Again, Congrats and thanks for sharing!

Hi there Thank you, Miss Aida. I didn't realize that I'd ultra-personalized them, actually (although I do understand exactly how that would make a spell more powerful). I literally scavenged the spell parts from things I had around the house already. Like Cindy's prescription bottle that became her honey jar spell container? It was sitting on top of the fridge, clean and empty and it already had Cindy's name on it (bonus). Notice I've not used candles? That's directly because I've read Miss Cat's pages. Somewhere on her page about Honey Jar/Sweetening Spells, she examines in depth the answer to the question, "Do I have to use a candle?" And Miss Cat says unequivocally on that page, No, you don't, and then goes on to explain exactly why. Since I had no candles nor the money to buy any, I decided I'd be able to live without the candle wax divination (helps that I was born psychic & a natural witch -- literally).

I honestly needed someone, anyone, with like maybe a minute more experience than myself to tell me (basically) that "It's ok, Sharon, when you do everything right, spells don't have hiccups," because in my almost 40 years on this planet, I've seen some bad spellwork where the intent's fine, the spell's just delivering its results in mad-whacked ways. Not only that, but I'm of Irish descent and was raised Irish-Catholic, and in that culture, Murphy's Law is what you use to define the word "luck" and that light you've been seeing at the end of that tunnel? It's an oncoming train. So having these spells work perfectly because I executed them letter-perfectly was quite a shock. So having things go right and work right because you did them right in the first place is actually kinda unusual. That's why I needed someone to "reality check" me for me and I do thank you, Miss Aida, for having done so...(Although I still wonder what could go wrong, I'm feeling pretty okay about this).

So, a thousand and one thank you's! Much appreciated

[Miss Aida]

Sharon Athena!
Don't say: "what could go wrong". NO!
It's working beautifully and you're a great root-worker!!

[Joe49]

Hi everyone I'm a female with a silly question I never did a honey jar don't even no how to start one I'm very interested in some guy please help I do have love me oil from lucky mojo but I'm also waiting for herbs like lavender and rosemary

[aura]

Hi Joe49,

begin by reading the instructional page here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html followed by all 64 pages of this thread. If you have specific questions after that, we'll be happy to help.

[Mezan]

How much hair should be included in the name packet? Would only a couple of the target's hairs suffice?

[aura]

A couple is fine. You could even just use part of a hair and keep the rest for another work in future

[Mezan]

Thanks. Do I have to cut mine so that it's the same length. My hair is much longer than my target's :-p

[aura]

No you don't.

[Joseph Magnuson]

Mezan: Make sure you don't over-think things. We all tend to get caught up heavily in our work, but remember it is the hair itself acting as a physical link, rather than the length, color, or amount, that is the most important thing.

[CaptainConjure]

Hi Everyone,

Started a honey jar to reconcile my marriage with my wife. I am not certain if I have done it correctly?
1) I printed a photo of the 2 of us standing side by side holding each other from a happy event.
2) I neatly tore it into a tore it into about a 4” x 4” square
3) With a Red pen, I wrote her maiden name across the front 7xs and turned it c/w and wrote my full name 7xs
4) I wrote Love me, want me, dream of me, around the perimeter without lifting the Red pen
5) I took some of my semen and placed it on her image
6) I put a few drops of Love me oil and reconciliation oil
7) Basil,
8) Cinnamon
9) ground Lodgestone
10) Thyme
11) White powdered sugar
12) Red chili powder
13) Some of her hair and mine
14) I took the picture with all this on it and folded it toward me so that our bodies faced each other. Turned it c/w and folded it again and again until I could not make it smaller
15) I took this small 1” square and put “Love Honey” on it.
16) I took pink rose peddles and wrapped it and tied it with pink tread, then the same thing over the pink with Red and again with white
17) I opened the honey jar and eat from it and placed the square packet into the honey with some Love me oil, Reconciliation oil, white powdered sugar and ground Lodgestone
18) I took a Pink Candle and engraved her name into it 7x and my name 7x
19) I rubbed Love me oil and Reconciliation oil all around the candle

I did all of this while praying for what I wanted the whole time. I lit the candle early this morning saying “ in the name of the father son and holy spirit”. And again asked it for what I wanted.

When I went to take a son to school, a family member saw the candle and thinking I just left it she blew it out. I re-lit the candle and again it is burning solid and normal. I am not certain if I have to do something to it since it was blown out?

Could someone please tell me if I did this correctly?

Thanks,

[aura]

Hi Imnewatthis,

I'd suggest that you purchase the Reconciliation mini-honey jar spell kit until you are more familiar with your ingredient choices: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

Deacon Millett's book on working sweetening magic would also be a good choice for you: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyandsugarspells.html

A magical coaching session to help you learn more about the honey jar spell and how to best make it for your purpose would also be a possibility: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ual_Advice

With regards to the honey jar you crafted, the petition paper sounds fine as does your choice of Condition oils and preparation of the candle. Now in the herb and curio department:
-basil is more a peaceful home, money and protection herb than it is a reconciliation herb
-cinnamon is more of money and fast luck herb than it is a reconciliation herb
-although you can use magnetic sand from a trained love lodestone pair and/or lodestone grit in many types of work in a honey jar for lovework it would be more customary to use two matched small lodestones or matched pieces of grit
-thyme is used for money and health, it isn't used at all in love work in hoodoo
-red chili powder (or red Pepper powder) is very rarely used, if at all, in love work, and usually never by a beginner unless under specific guidance from an experienced rootworker - as it can actually worsen the situation and inflame the two parties rather than bring them together.
So in short, there isn't much in there to help your marriage.

When you choose ingredients, you can consult the herb and curio quick-lists to give you a hand: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html & http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatherbs.html

[Joseph Magnuson]

I fully agree with aura and was going to post the same recommendation regarding your choice of herbs and curios. You have a good idea of the work needed in general, but will benefit greatly from some further guidance. Make sure to take notice of the above links that aura has provided you with.

[CaptainConjure]

Thank you Aura and Joseph,

So what do I do? Should I start all over again? If so, what do I do about the one

Thanks,

[Miss Aida]

Good Evening, Imnewatthis,
Yes, I would start a new one if this were me.
Disposal: www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Have a great weekend!

[CaptainConjure]

Thank you for the great advice,

I am ordering the honey jar from LM. It takes them 10 days to prep and send it. in the mean time, how do I respectfully dispose of this one? Or should I just take it apart and replace the packet with the chili and wrong herbs for now until the one from LM arrives? I was also wondering how much hair should I use?

[Miss Aida]

Good Evening, Imnewatthis,
Yes, I would start a new one if this were me.
Disposal: http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Have a great weekend!

Imnewatthis,
Proper disposal is under the link I gave you (laying tricks)
I use enough hair to have some left over for other spells. Whatever feels right to you
Take care

[CaptainConjure]

Thank You Miss Aida

[CaptainConjure]

After I read the posts, I went to put the candle out and found that It has a huge amount of tears on 1 side completely covering the jar and the other side actually pealed and curled away. Granted it was a huge candle, about 2" wide and 12" tall. The candle had burned almost to the bottom is about a total of 12 to 13 hrs. Is this a bad sign? Or is it just due to not making a prepare Honey Jar and the candle being so large?

I also noticed that when I saw her that evening she was a bit out of touch.

Thanks,

[Joseph Magnuson]

Imnewatthis: I think you should look into some proper and further training, hands-on, for making and working proper sugar jar. The huge pillar candle you are using seems quite a bit too large. The majority of workers I know are comfortable using the 4" candles that Lucky Mojo recommends for honey jar work and includes with their kits.

Aura has previously suggested coaching and I would have to agree with her.

See here for the candle sizes and descriptions:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#altar

[BarbaraAnn]

I started my honey jar in the month of May. I only burn candles on it Mon. Wed. and Fri. Only red. However today I burned a white candle on it. Is that o.k.? When I first started the honey jar the second bag of herbs I did not see until I had put the petition paper and the hair and the other herbs in the jar. So I put the other packet of herbs on top of the paper. Has that effected the power of the jar?

[BarbaraAnn]

I started my honey jar in the month of May. I only burn candles on it Mon. Wed. and Fri. Only red. However today I burned a white candle on it. Is that o.k.? When I first started the honey jar the second bag of herbs I did not see until I had put the petition paper and the hair and the other herbs in the jar. So I put the other packet of herbs on top of the paper. Has that effected the power of the jar?

[CaptainConjure]

Yes Joseph, I totally agree with the advice that's been given to me by you, Aura and Miss Aida. And I'm also super grateful for it. I am doing exactly what’s been suggested. My question was more to know if I have caused more harm than good?

Thank You so much for all the good advice

[CaptainConjure]

Wow, I’m amazed! Took my son to wife’s this evening and she warmly visited me in we seat in the back yard relaxing and had a nice long warm conversation. Could a wrongly made honey jar work? Would it work so fast? Or is it just a coincidence?

[Miss Aida]

I started my honey jar in the month of May. I only burn candles on it Mon. Wed. and Fri. Only red. However today I burned a white candle on it. Is that o.k.? When I first started the honey jar the second bag of herbs I did not see until I had put the petition paper and the hair and the other herbs in the jar. So I put the other packet of herbs on top of the paper. Has that effected the power of the jar?

Good Evening, BarbaraAnn,
The white candle will not hurt anything. White is purity and is often used as an all purpose color.
As for your second question. I will answer that with a question: is your honey jar working? If it is then, don't worry about the other packet.
Hope this helps.
Take Care and wishing you the best

[aura]

Hi Imnewatthis,

I think that the movement you're getting already answers your questions. That said, do make it again properly nonetheless. When it comes to ''how fast'' a honey jar works - there are no rules. Sometimes they work very quickly, sometimes not so much. The main thing is to keep working it wether things are going well or not: they are a piece of on-going work that can help maintain closeness and sweetness in the Relationship and the best time to start one is when things are going well!

Blessings and congratulations on the work: keep it up.

[Sharon Athena]

Hi again.

Question:
If I were to create a sweet jar to deliberately make DFH (dear future husband) love any other woman BUT me, and then anoint the petition/intent paper with Adam and Eve, Bewitching and DOUBLE CROSS oils, and add Lucky Mojo's love herbs blend to it, would that automatically fix it so that the sweet jar's normal effect would be completely the opposite?

Need to know as that's my current plan. Thanks in advance

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Sharon Athena,
I'm sorry. I don't understand what you are trying to do.
What is your intent here?
You want a future husband but you don't??
Could you be more specific, please?

[Sharon Athena]

Ok, the purpose behind fixing up a sweet jar to direct DFH to love other women, then anointing the petition/intent paper with Adam and Eve, Bewitching and DOUBLE CROSS oils is that any sweet jar with just the intent written to direct him to love other women would normally do just that. The idea in using the Double Cross oil is to reverse the effect of the sweet jar, making him hate the idea of loving any other woman but me and to make other women ignore him off the face of the earth, as (this is how I understand it) Double Cross oil reverses the effect of *any* spell it's used with.

So, essentially my question is, is my logic correct? Will the Double Cross oil make the sweet jar act in a completely opposite fashion than a sweet jar usually works?

Reason? I'm a Libra Sun, but a Scorpio Ascendant, Moon and Venus, and all that lovely Scorpio's in my 12th house. I'm extremely jealous and possessive...plus, I'm in love with a man who was once upon a time the biggest manwhore in South Omaha, and I'd rather head off potential problems that would make me wanna hurt semi-innocent other females for even looking at DFH in an even mildly interested way. My own temper frightens me, so I'd rather just not allow it to be provoked...because that brings out the Russian Jewish soldier (my last past life) in me and I was NOT a very nice person then. So, therefore, this.

So...will it work?

[aura]

Hi Sharon Athena,

I'd say you're kind of going about this in a far too complicated manner. Work a sweet jar to keep him sweet to you, and then make a FREEZER jar of any rival you have. Make sure you're sleeping with him ASAP and make a nation sack on him to keep his playmate in his pants. The intentions you're sending out that way are FAR clearer. Meanwhile, do Clarity, King Solomon Wisdom and Tranquility work on yourself to help with the jealousy. Cast Off Evil can also be useful in that respect.

Also be realistic: most players will always retain some of that tendency no matter who they're with and no matter how much they love them. In French we say ''Le naturel reviens au galop'' which basically says that given time, a person's innate nature will finish by returning. Particularly once the ''honeymoon'' phase of a Relationship yields to true intimacy.

The Double Cross jar you're suggesting would be good in the following context: Woman X goes to see friend Y for a spell to make the man you're involved with favour her. Friend Y tells you about it and asks what to do. You make up the Double Cross honey jar to have friend Y give to woman X. You include a bottle of ''Love Me'' oïl that's been emptied out and replaced with a mixture of Double Cross, Break-Up and Crossing oil to anoint her candles she'll be burning on the jar.

[oceanmermaid]

hello! I have accidently opened my honey jar spell. I was trying to remove too much wax from top to be able to place a new candle and I realized I opend the jar. I quickly closed it though. Have I ruined my spell?

[Susan Barnes]

Good Morning oceanmermaid,

No. The way you've described what happened isn't indicative of ruining a honey jar spell.
Here's some more great info on Honey Jar spells: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Scroll down to, "How can I learn more about sugar and Honey spells?"
You'll also find a treasure of information in the Honey jar thread on the forum.

Have a beautiful day!

[oceanmermaid]

thank you Miss olivia!! I am so relieved

[mauler]

I always speed of these forms all about the money goes on with your pic into them but honestly how many of you have had great success peace I just started having a good show I'm very curious it seems that my honey jar and my sugar jar are doing quite well

[Susan Barnes]

You are most welcome oceanmermaid! Beautiful name btw.

Keep us updated if you feel inclined.

[CaptainConjure]

After I read the posts, I went to put the candle out and found that It has a huge amount of tears on 1 side completely covering the jar and the other side actually pealed and curled away. Granted it was a huge candle, about 2" wide and 12" tall. The candle had burned almost to the bottom is about a total of 12 to 13 hrs. Is this a bad sign? Or is it just due to not making a prepare Honey Jar and the candle being so large?

I also noticed that when I saw her that evening she was a bit out of touch.

Thanks,

Hello Everyone,

I took a picture of my wrongly made honey jar when I first lite it because the wax pealed away so strangely, I thought it might be a sign. Just now, I was looking at the photo and I can see clearly a face of a lady in the wax. This photo has not been enhanced or altered in any way.
https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/oGn-t ... -h225-p-no

Should I relight it and continue using it?

Thanks,

[aura]

What happened to the candle is significant. You can read more on candle divination in the following threads:
candle-divination-flame,-wick,-wax,-gla ... 9c12dcd758
http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

How to deal with the remaining candle now is up to you. You can:
1 - Dispose of the accumulated wax and old honey jar (since if I understand correctly, this is the one you won't be using)
2 - Dispose of the old honey jar but finish burning the candle on the new honey jar
3 - Dispose of the old honey jar, melt down all the accumulated wax and make yourself a new candle from it
No option is ''better'' or ''more right'', it's simply a question of personal choice.

[BarbaraAnn]

Thank you Miss Aida, Yes it is working.

[CaptainConjure]

Hi Aura,

Thank you for the link. I read the page, but it does not mention anything about a face of a person formed in the wax. This is a very clear face of a lady looking at the honey jar with a nose, 2 eyes and hairline, a mouth (that seams to be smiling) and all the features that a face would have. I'm wondering if anyone know's the meaning of this image or the kind of image? Has anyone else had an image of a person form in there Honey Jar?

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/oGn-t ... -h225-p-no

Thanks,

[Miss Aida]

Good Evening Imnewatthis,
The tea leaf symbol interpretation books will tell you what that means. They are EXCELLENT books
You'll need to scroll down to find them on this webpage: www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbooks.html
Take care and have a great evening

[CaptainConjure]

Thank you,

I'll check it out....

[greeneyes2]

I have a honey jar that has so much wax build up on top of the jar to around it, I was wondering if I should leave it as is or take excessive melted wax and bury at our front door area and step up my jar workings?

This honey jar is for my estranged husband and I am working on our reconciliation and him to return to our home.

[Miss Aida]

Good Morning, GreenEyes,
I usually put a small, disposable, cloth underneath my jars. Then, if any accumulated large amount wax flows onto that, I dispose of it (the way that you had mentioned).
But I usually leave what's on the jar right there.
This is all up to each individual root worker.
I can't see what's going on but if it's occluding any possibility of visual symbols (or if it's presenting a fire hazard) then, please use your own discretion.
Take Care. Have a great day

[Joe49]

I did a honey with lavender rose petals rosemary love me oil patchouli oil and van van oil
I did put my petition and a pic of both of us into it I want to no if the pic needed it to be just him or both US like I have it

[CrystalClear]

Hi All,

I cannot seem to find the longer thread about honey jars. I wanted to search on the candle flame I placed on my honey jar. On top of the honey jar is the wick of my pink candle with a small flame and it does not seem to die off. This is the first time this happened, usually the candles die off easily and leave a puddle of melted wax on top of my honey jar. Now, the melted wax on top (from previous lightings) of the jar melted away bec the wick is melting it away and the wick still has flame (although smaller).
Is this a good sign or is this a sign he is resisting my honey jar work?

Thanks All.

[greeneyes2]

Good Morning, GreenEyes,
I usually put a small, disposable, cloth underneath my jars. Then, if any accumulated large amount wax flows onto that, I dispose of it (the way that you had mentioned).
But I usually leave what's on the jar right there.
This is all up to each individual root worker.
I can't see what's going on but if it's occluding any possibility of visual symbols (or if it's presenting a fire hazard) then, please use your own discretion.
Take Care. Have a great day

Thank you very much,
in this jar is our concerns..everything you could want in a reconciliation and marriage honey jar is in there.. how can I post a picture so you can see what I am talking about the wax buildup?

At the strong advise and direction of my root worker ..to restart working this jar asap. Everything has been in this jar for going on 18 months. I have not worked this jar in over 1year, the wax is still as it was. This jar has honey,brown sugar,karo syrup..it is super sweet!!

For the record... I restarted my work on the jar Monday(after not working the jar for over 1 year) Tuesday night out of the blue at 11p he called and stayed on the phone with me for about 30 min. Everyone..this is a HUGE deal...has not happened since he left our home in Jan2012.
My Jar is active!!!

[Susan Barnes]

Hi Green Eyes,

To figure out what the wax build up means go to: http://www.candlemagicdivination.html

I don't think you can post pictures here in this forum.

Show the picture to your rootworker, ask him or her to read it and to teach you how to read candle wax. Most rootworkers offer magical coaching. It is well worth it.

Sounds like your honey jar is doing great! Keep working it.

I'm excited about the good news!

[Mezan]

That is such great movement, greeneyes2!!
Maybe this is a bit of an odd question, but since some of us are already "sweeter" on our targets than they are on us, and honey jars sweeten both parties toward each other, do they serve to have the other party catch up to you as far as feelings are concerned? I mean, I would want a level playing field as far as how bound we are to one another, not to become even more attached/fall in love, while he is still moving towards more sweetness and attachment, but not quite as much as me since I'm already pretty much "there". I hope that makes sense.

I still need to receive some oils so I can start mine, and I'm really looking forward to it because they're quite powerful.

[Miss Aida]

Good Morning, Mezan,
I see what you're asking. And that's why we use stronger magic once the honey jar has achieved it's goal and stabilized (but keep it going anyway)
Spell kits are terrific facilitators for your ultimate desire. www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
And more love spells here: www.luckymojo.com/spells.html
Hope this helps.
Have a great weekend

[lovebird]

Hi
My honey jar is not working so I want to just be done with it all. Do I just empty the jar or just throw it away?