Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Sep 02, 2013 5:53 am

Hi someone,

You probably won't like what I have to say, but if you've had readings from AIRR members that have all told you the same thing: that this guy is no good, then I would consider Cut and Clear rather than work to get him back. I feel like you that the future is mutable and that you can influence outcome, but that being said a bad guy is a bad guy and beating at a dead horse won't make it start moving. There is a time to move on.

If you do decide that you absolutely want to work at getting him back, then please set yourself a firm time limit past which you will Cut and Clear, move on and find yourself someone worthy of your attention and love. You deserve better.

If the sock you have from him is dirty, then it is good to use as a personal concern. You can cut small sections out of the heel and/or toes and use them in a honey jar or doll baby, in a mojo, or in other types of conjure. There is no ''more powerful spell'' for getting him back, there are just different approaches to the work. A good way to go if you're relatively new to the practice of hoodoo is with a spell kit since it comes with all the supplies you need as well as detailed instructions. If you don't currently have contact, then you'll want to start with a reconcilation spell kit here: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

For the cleansing bath, VanVan with a midnight timing wouldn't do much to uncross you - at least that's not its specific use. VanVan changes bad luck to good and does clear away some ''crap'' but is more used to open roads and clear obstacles than to get rid of a mess. Your case sounds like a 13-herb bath taken before sunrise would be a better fit. You'll find all the information and details you need regarding bathing in the following threads which I suggest you read:
general-questions-about-lucky-mojo-bath ... d3529d6044
13-herb-bath-questions-and-answers-t925 ... d3529d6044
cleansing-the-home-and-person-questions ... d3529d6044

As mentioned below for your your mantra recitation, it's outside the scope of hoodoo and thus you won't find much insight here on why or how the spell worked, or didn't.

Blessings

financialsuccess2013 · Unread post by **financialsuccess2013** » Wed Sep 11, 2013 12:14 pm

Hello everyone,

Bottom line is that I want my boyfriend to ask/let me move in with him... What can I use/do?

Unread post by **Power** » Wed Sep 11, 2013 12:49 pm

Greetings financialsuccess2013,

I would try a skull candle spell to put the thoughts you want in his head. And you can dress the candle with anything from Influence ,Commanding, Compelling, Controlling, Domination, Do As I Say, or Essence of Bend Over to get what you want. The type of oils you want to use is up to you. Also you can get some licorice root for controlling.

http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/controlling.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/doasisay.html
http://herb-magic.com/licorice-root.html

Good Luck!

Unread post by **Power** » Wed Sep 11, 2013 1:06 pm

You could also try a honey jar to sweeten him to you!

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Sep 11, 2013 2:38 pm

Hi financialsuccess2013,

In addition to starrymoonlitnight's advice, I've merged your post into the long existing thread on matters such as the one you are asking about. You'll find lots of spell ideas and information that can help you by reading through the many pages.

Blessings and Success in your Work.

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sun Sep 15, 2013 12:42 pm

Hi,
Does the orange blossom water go into the the honey jar or where?

Lovebird

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Sun Sep 15, 2013 2:08 pm

Hi lovebird, here is some information on orange blossom water to get you started: http://www.luckymojo.com/esoteric/occul ... rwater.txt
http://www.luckymojo.com/baths.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/floridakanangawater.html

Best of luck!

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sun Sep 15, 2013 3:19 pm

Ok thanks Miss Phoenix

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 8:30 am

I'm dangerously close to falling in love with a great man I'm dating who isn't ready to open his heart yet. We care about each other deeply, but our issue has been his level or readiness (not willingness) to open up to me completely. He has some healing to do.This is all due to an emotionally abusive involvement he had some time before we met.
What can I do to keep myself calm until then? I would hate to fall in love with him and not have him be "there" with me. I know it's not something you can just pause, but maybe something can help until he heals and can be ready for what I am.
My reader suggested I use Road Opener and Healing vigil lights, and to wait at least a month between this and love work. Check! Others here have suggested helpful tricks that I will put to use (thanks!). I just want to be able to have a bit more control over my emotions, so he and I can fall in love at the same time. Is that possible? If not, what would be a good alternative?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 11:54 pm

Good Evening, Mezan,
My advice to you is to do exactly as your reader advised. Your reader knows the root of the problem and is prescribing the work for it (i.e.: Root Work).
If you had a prescription for an ailment, you wouldn't go out and get other pills from everybody else, right?
But I do think you're right about staying calmer in order to focus better. That is VERY true. Not only that but, because your target has been through so much, you need to have a strong shoulder for when your target needs to lean on you.
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Hope this helps and wishing you the very best.

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Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Sun Sep 22, 2013 7:57 pm

Thank you, Miss Aida. I'm already a good shoulder for him to lean on, but I definitely think I need to back off a bit. The fact that he isn't there for me all the time, like I am for him tells me I need to be less available. It also tells me that my current work is still taking time to manifest. He may work like crazy (16hours/6days per week) but I think me being so selfless and giving has made him "comfortable," so he doesn't think he needs to try. Tranquility work would help me focus on me and worry less about him. I think that in turn, my target would seek me out more since I would be busier (usually works that way with men!). What is a good way to keep someone with you while you do love work on them later on? To better word it, would burning Stay With Me candles be a good idea if I want to keep him around for when I do love work?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Sep 22, 2013 9:37 pm

Hi, Mezan,
I don't know if I would play it that way.
A good root worker keeps their targets close. A good root worker constantly collects personal items (semen, hair, nails, skin, dirty clothes, signatures, etc.).
I had just told someone else earlier almost the same thing. Sometimes our efforts seems over the top but, in the end, it's worth it. In the end, you got enough to do exactly what you want.
That's just me. Different root workers have different ideas toward the same goals.
Take Care and Wishing you the very best

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Mon Sep 23, 2013 7:27 am

Thanks for your response. I just feel very depleted of energy lately, and I think it's because of the time and energy spent thinking about the relationship. I need my energy back in order to be able to perform any work, which is the main reason I'm taking some space and time from him. If that has the added benefit of having my target miss me and want to be closer to me, great, but I don't want to worry anymore and want to focus on myself for a bit of time until I have my energy back. Your Tranquility Oil suggestion will help with this

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Mon Sep 23, 2013 7:58 am

Mezan, I think that you are right on the money with taking time to focus on yourself a bit. If you are depleted and weary you won't have the reserve of energy that you need to really make your working be effective. I often feel that taking a step back and focusing on yourself can also give you some perspective on what you really want anyway, which is only going to help with your current situation. Miss Aida has offered some really smart advice. I hope that things shift for you soon and that tranquility returns.

Best of luck!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Sep 23, 2013 2:49 pm

Some of the leaps and bounds made by clients happen during times when they take "breaks" from the work. By being able to simply let go for a short time all that pent up power they've been building in their magic gets released and suddenly movement and action happens. It has happened time and time again with clients I had been coaching. A little break can go a long way.

In a romantic situation taking a nice cleansing and healing bath, something with Violet Leaves to ease the heart and Queen Elizabeth Root for power.

Purplehaze8 · Unread post by **Purplehaze8** » Tue Oct 01, 2013 5:47 am

Hello! I'm new I this and I need help! Here I the situation me and my boyfriend agreed to move in together. I live with my parents and he lived with his aunt. The house we were suppose to move in took longer to get inspected than I thought and he had to end up moving with his brother because his aunt and uncle were selling their house. Him living with his miserable brother and sister will be disastrous. They cause problems in our relationship but he had no choice he had to move. I can no longer stay with my parent as they are moving into senior care. I have to move ASAP. The house will be inspected this week and I need to move but can not afford to move by myself. With my car note and other bills and my son. I need a spell to convince him to move in with me still. He made a mistake when was younger and has been paroled to the brothers house. Please don't judge me or our situation. I am trying to move on and have my family intact. He help me a lot with my son as far as pickin him up from school when I'm at work so I need the support system because his father doesn't help. Please help me with a spell! Thank you!

prayerandwill · Unread post by **prayerandwill** » Tue Oct 01, 2013 7:54 pm

I suppose that sounds bad, but the whole situation is a little difficult to sum up in a title. I've been seeing someone for two years now. It began as a committed relationship-- his first following a very bad break-up (two years previous). I broke up with him when it seemed like I was too invested in a relationship he had no strong feelings towards, six months after we started. Maybe three months later, we met up and started over-- something different, this time. I felt like I was safer this time around, that I'd cut loose the feelings I had. I was right.

Over a year, we've been in a casual, open relationship. We're very close friends-- probably best friends. We've been through a lot in just the last year, together. We're always there for each other. The sex is fantastic. We tease, we cook, we game, we adventure-- everything is perfect. And I care a lot about him. He cares about me. Two big problems remain:
1.) He isn't in love with me. He has said he doesn't have strong feelings for me, or anyone. He doesn't say "I love you"-- has said it maybe a handful of times.
2.) He sees other women. Five so far, over the year-- a single night each, and nothing further-- but that's still too much.

I want him to fall in love with me. Truly, deeply, passionately, exclusively. To commit, want commitment, to BE IN LOVE.

I've bought Love Me Now! oil and Follow Me, Boy oil, both from Dr. E, and some LMN powder. I have access to plenty of personal effects. I can't afford a rootwork consultation or even really a spell kit. I also have some trouble concentrating, just generally. Please, any help? Thank you for reading through.

Unread post by **Colette** » Wed Oct 02, 2013 3:58 am

What is LMN powder? Is it a Lucky Mojo product?

Given the other women (occasionally) in the picture, the lack of commitment to having a real relationship (for over a year now?) and his own admission that he doesn't have strong feelings for you, it does sound like you'd need a reading to determine if the obstacles could be overcome. This might not be what you'd want to hear, but I'd actually suggest that you do a bit of money drawing work for yourself first. You can check out this archive for money and love spells. See if there's anything you could do.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Oct 02, 2013 4:19 am

Hi greenregret,

I've merged your post into the existing thread which contains spells for Commitment from a lover, which is ultimately the goal you have. You may find some interesting spell ideas here by reading through what others have written and asked.

Purplehaze8 · Unread post by **Purplehaze8** » Wed Oct 02, 2013 5:13 am

Hello! Can some please help me? This situation has made me very stressed. Please see my previous post below. I do not want to violate any forum rules. I need a spell to make my boyfriend move in with me. I also would like to know a good honey jar spell or spell to sweeten him up so he can for give me for something I did in the past. It was not intentional or to hurt him but he will not let me forget it. Every time we get into an argument. I just want to move on. I know he loves me genuinely. We have history and were high school sweethearts and reconciled after 16 years. I always still loved him and he says he always still loved me. I have done small spells on him. Candle spells and things like that. If I do some type off move in spell is that considered him not doing it of his free will? I just don't want anything to back fire on me and things get worst or out of hand. Please help me! As I stated before I am new to this.

Unread post by **Colette** » Wed Oct 02, 2013 11:37 am

Purplehaze8 - sorry no one saw and responded to your post earlier. Your situation sounds urgent and somewhat complex. You might want to get a quick reading and see if there's anything you can do to turn things around:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/

prayerandwill · Unread post by **prayerandwill** » Wed Oct 02, 2013 6:05 pm

aura wrote:Hi greenregret,

I've merged your post into the existing thread which contains spells for Commitment from a lover, which is ultimately the goal you have. You may find some interesting spell ideas here by reading through what others have written and asked.

Thank you for seeing and replying to my post, but I've been up and down this thread looking

I'm not terribly internet-savvy, ad this is my first time on a forum, so I suppose that might be why I'm having trouble. I'm very sorry!

Sort of an update, more specifics: So far, I've been lighting household candles dressed in Follow Me Boy and Love Me oil every night over a petition paper-- his name in black ink seven or nine times beneath mine in red ink the same number-- also dressed in those oils, with personal effects of each of us. I've buried some of the leftover wax at the fence between our places, and some in my potted plants. I've used a red candle, a pink candle, and a black candle so far, and I plan on using one white, two red, and one pink more (I was thinking this would be a seven-day trick). I'm also dressing some of his things in these oils and wearing them regularly (wrists, inner elbows, feet, neck, and behind the knees-- is that right?) On Friday, I intend to start a honey pot. (Friday for love, as well as the very middle day of my seven-day vigil candle thing.

With the candles, I carve his name and my commands into them and then dress them with the oils and some personal fluid of both of us before burning them over the paper. I read Psalm 23 over them, a section from Corinthians, and the Song of Solomon. Then I speak to them and watch them as they burn, all present tense, using his name. Is that right? They always burn very quickly at the beginning, a tall bright flame leaning to my left. They burn at a more moderate pace towards the end and linger a fair bit, though these candles have always sort of done that regardless of their use. They also weep a bit, and have left wax in the shape of heart, male genitalia, and most recently, what looks like a couple embracing. I take that as a good sign, I think?

I'm sorry for the details, thank you so much for your help! Is there anything else I should do? Is all of this correct and okay? This is my first time with any of this, though I have some background in both Wicca and Catholicism. (A funny mix, I know.)

prayerandwill · Unread post by **prayerandwill** » Wed Oct 02, 2013 6:14 pm

Also, two more things-- 1.) the thing that I see as the biggest problem is the lack of strong feeling on his part for me. Love, but not in love.

2.) Every time I do this sort of work, at the end of it, my throat is dry and my head aches and I am exhausted. Is that normal?

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Oct 03, 2013 4:23 am

Hi greenregret,

The way you're working your candles sounds just fine. For more info on how to divine them (as well as work with them) you can check out the following links: http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html & http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

The honey jar is also an excellent way to sweeten him up. You probably also want to start feeding him your menstrual blood if you haven't already since this is a literal way to get yourself ''under his skin''. It is one of the best tricks a woman has in her arsenal and it would be a pity not to use it. You can read more about it here: menstrual-blood-questions-and-answers-t ... f3#p135593

For the effects you seem to be having from the spell-work, you can read through the following threads and post there if you still have questions: spiritual-fatigue-and-burn-out-t25383.h ... df40cb33f3 & normal-to-feel-personal-energy-surges-w ... df40cb33f3

butterfly · Unread post by **butterfly** » Tue Oct 15, 2013 11:29 pm

Hello,
I unsure what step should I take next. My boyfriend technically didn't left me but we are now just friends with benefits. I already working a honey jar and had a love me candle burned for me. There seem to be a lot of confusion and obstacles along the way. So I was wondering: Should I burn a roadopener to remove the obstacles? Or maybe Clarity candles for both of us? Maybe even both? I also would like to burn another candle for love... but unsure which. Would be return to me ok? After all he never really left.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Oct 16, 2013 6:53 am

Return to Me would be used if he actually left you. Apparently now, he just wants just a sexual relationship without any commitment. Is another woman involved? (I assume you are a woman. Please go to the User Control Panel and indicate your gender.)

A honey jar might help. You can also burn a Chuparrosa (Hummingbird) candle or a pink candle dressed with Chuparrosa oil for a lasting love.

butterfly · Unread post by **butterfly** » Wed Oct 16, 2013 7:46 am

Yes I am a woman and as far as I know there isn't a other woman involved. He wants sex but also my friendship. Whenever I push for something more commited he push me away.

Thank you, I hadn't considered a Chuparrosa candle.

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Wed Oct 16, 2013 7:57 am

a reading from a member of AIRR would probably help sort things out.

I think Clarity and Road Opener combined would be good. Combination.

Love me and Come to me make for a good combination of love candles and products to work.

If there was any discord or disagreement that led to this situation, you might want to use Reconciliation products.

Follow Me Boy might also be beneficial to the situation.

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Wed Oct 16, 2013 8:00 am

butterfly, you might also look at getting a reading to see if there is more than meets the eye with this situation. There are many talented readers in AIRR and on Hoodoo Psychics. A reading could also help you to pick a direction on spellwork and determine what might be the most effective steps for you to take.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Oct 16, 2013 2:57 pm

There are a number of herbs used to promote fidelity and stop running around.

Comfrey, so he'll flourish where he's planted -- with you!
Dirt Dauber Nest, to keep him at home
Rosemary, to keep you in charge
Spikenard, specifically for marriage

But personal concerns, especially menstrual blood, will sink the hook, as one of my clients rediscovered recently. Next time your period starts, invite him over for a good time. Clean up really well beforehand and don't tell him what time of month it is.

You can dry some of that blood on a piece of cloth to save for later. To use it -- in some very special romantic dinners, for instance -- soak the cloth and use the water.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Wed Oct 16, 2013 8:52 pm

Hi,
I have a quick question. I am going to do the resistant lover spell and you have to use a jumbo red candle and a John the Conquer root and dill seed and follow me oil. I have the John the Conquer root but it not the whole root to put under the cup. Should I maybe it a whole John the Conquer the root or is it cool what I have

butterfly · Unread post by **butterfly** » Thu Oct 17, 2013 3:29 am

Thank you all for your suggestions, especially the menstrual blood.

I also will definitely get a reading since I have the feeling there might be a lot going on with him but I have to wait until i get my next salary.

About the candles: I wonder if it's enough when I have the MISC setting the candles for me or if I should also burn candles at home.

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Thu Oct 17, 2013 7:41 am

Hi butterfly, it is totally acceptable to just have MISC burn candles for you, but I believe that all working is magnified when you are doing the work too. Burning candles at the same time as MISC burns them is a highly effective way to get your desires to come to pass.

Best of luck!

Unread post by **Colette** » Thu Oct 17, 2013 8:35 am

I'd get hold of a whole High John Conqueror root for that purpose.

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Thu Oct 17, 2013 10:53 am

Hi,
I would just like to verify the the planetary hr of Venus is 1:00 pm and the Venus planetary day is Friday. This is to do the Spell for the resistant lover with the Red jumbo candle and the cubeb berries.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Oct 17, 2013 1:38 pm

Hello, Lovebird,
I know for a fact that it's 8:00 pm on Friday.
However, I am not sure about the 1:00 pm (but do remember seeing that somewhere).
Take care

butterfly · Unread post by **butterfly** » Sat Oct 19, 2013 5:53 am

Thank you, Miss Phoenix!

I did some digging in his past. His last girlfriend hit him multiple time when they had a fight and in my opinion manipulated him emotionally. So right now I feel it I should also do some healingwork for him. Is that even possible or has he do it himself?

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sat Oct 19, 2013 6:49 am

Hi butterfly,

Miss Phoenix mentioned for you to get a reading to see if there's more that meets the eye in this situation.
You've received excellent advice from professionals here.

Now that you've mentioned his last gf was abusive to him and manipulated him it seems to me it is even more important for you to get some professional guidance with this.
A professional reader/rootworker can get to the root of the issue and help you with it. You can receive magical coaching from a professional as well. Coaching that is individualized to your case.

http://www.HOODOOPSYCHICS.com
www.readerandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Oct 21, 2013 3:13 pm

Dead on Susan!

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Oct 21, 2013 3:44 pm

butterfly,

You are dealing with a lot of professional individuals here.
Listen. Listen. Listen.
Do the healing on yourself, he has own time to make up for things.
This is about you and your blood family. Heal yourself first.

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 10:36 am

Hi Starry Moonlit Night,
About the skull candle is it suppose burn one time or more

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu Oct 31, 2013 6:01 pm

Hi lovebird. With the Skull Candles you would want to work it a certain number of days. With the suggestion starry moonlit night mentions above is to place your thoughts into your targets head, and this will need some time to work. Best times to do such working is when your target would be asleep. Be sure to check out the Skull Candle Questions and Answers thread for more details on working with skull candles.

BeniSoit · Unread post by **BeniSoit** » Sun Nov 03, 2013 11:12 pm

Hi all! I'm gonna need your help on this one: I just moved into my new apartment and it's just interesting that the numerology behind my apartment has to do with new relationship and nurturing them. My guy and I have been on an interesting journey. I feel that once he moves in we will have the time and space to really learn, grow and explore one another. This will be our first male/male relationship and I know just from my own intuition and readings to back me up that this guy is the one. 50 miles have us at andistance right now. It is interesting when I got the keys to the apartment the Landlord gave me 2 keys... I mean I have 2 doors but most places when I've had two doors it was always one key that opens all the doors. Anyway I took the second key as a sign that my man is moving in eventually... What can I do spiritually to pull him in to move in? I don't have access to personal belongings at this time like hair and nail clippings. Can I do a work with the key perhaps? Maybe dress the key with come to me oil put it in an enevlope with his photo and burn a come to candle on top? Or the key, lodestone, magnetic sand and a photo? Or is there something I can put in front of my doorstep??? Your guidance in appreciated.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 3:31 am

Hi BeniSoit,

Congratulations! This is exciting news! I'm happy to hear he is moving in! Yea!
Yes, you can certainly dress the key with come to me oil and use come to me products.
cometoeme
you can also use Stay with me products.
staywithme
attraction

You can also do a honey jar or sweetening spell:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyandsugarspells.html

It is always best to have some of the person's personal things. Once he moves in, get his fingernail clipping, sexual fluids, hair clippings. Those items have a stronger tie to him than a key that he hasn't touched. Although you can begin using the key and working it.

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html is a great place to read up on love spells.

I'm sure someone else here will have some great ideas to add!

Best to you!

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 5:03 am

Hi BeniSoit,

In addition to Susan's excellent advice, you'll find a number of ideas on how to work to move him in in this existant thread on the subject that I've merged your question into.

BeniSoit · Unread post by **BeniSoit** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 7:09 pm

Ooh ok perfect! I love coming on here you guys give such amazing advice and encouragement. I will definitely check out the rest of this thread! Thanks again!

mac · Unread post by **mac** » Tue Nov 12, 2013 2:38 am

hi guys, I am new here in terms of membership, but I have always read and appreciated your forum.I have joined your community with hopes of having great advice.I have been with my current boyfriend for over 5 yrs, and we have been engaged for 4, I have changed many things he asked me to change because I enjoy him as a person and I see great things happening between us. however he keeps promising to marry me but won't. he keeps giving me excuses for not setting a date.I am getting frustrated. I have left many times and he promises he will marry me but he jus lies. everytime I am back and comfortable it's the same thing. please help me. please.

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Nov 12, 2013 5:35 am

Hi mac,

Please begin by reading the long and extensive thread on the subject that your post is in. It will give you some ideas to start from. After that, feel free to ask us how to customize the spell for your specific needs. You may also want to consider getting a reading on the subject to assess what's getting in the way of the proposal. There are many reputable readers at AIRR and Hoodoo psychics that can help you in that regard:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/
http://hoodoopsychics.com/

hopefulgal14 · Unread post by **hopefulgal14** » Wed Dec 11, 2013 7:14 am

We are both divorced. Both pretty much in the same situation relationship wise. A little timid, nervous, but there's excitement and definitely attraction. There's an insane amount of attraction. It's a "Hi, how are you?" and then clothing starts flying. We've been out on a few dates. We're both learning about each other.
There's just a ridiculous amount of sexual tension.

I've done a good bit of praying, staying positive, cleansed myself. I am about as ready as it gets. He is literally everything I have ever wanted in a man a good majority of my life. He is just so sweet to me. Not like I've ever had before. And he says I make him happy.
We have slept together...which was absolutely amazing. I did save some semen on a tissue.

And I do have some supplies on hand but ordering more.

The problem is that he...one day he knows what he wants, the next day he's timid. My gut instinct and dreams have me thinking he really is afraid of caring for someone. He wants to let me in but then he just as quickly pushes away. One day he will tell me everything that's going on and what's wrong and then just as quickly he is clammed up. It's almost like he can't believe someone wants him.

I started a honey jar. I've used pink candles so far. I tried red and within a day he was about as spooked and clammed up as it gets. Should I use white or blue to bring him peace to this? Maybe he would be more accepting?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Dec 12, 2013 8:08 pm

Good Evening, hopefulgal14
Welcome to the forum!
If you get a chance, please go to the introduction thread so that we can formally meet you!
Something is definitely going on. But, what could it be? I am wondering what his astrological sign is and other factors.
I am also wondering what outside stimuli is making him behave in such extreme manners.
You're doing the right thing with all of your spiritual work. I would just stick to the pink candles. Red is for passion and who knows what is going through his mind?
I would highly suggest Stay with me spells. It's great to do them now while he's with you. www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
You may also want to consider a reading to get more insight into why he is behaving this way. http://readersandrootworkers.org or www.hoodoopsychics.com
Wishing you the very best

hopefulgal14 · Unread post by **hopefulgal14** » Fri Dec 13, 2013 7:03 am

Thanks!

He is a Scorpio. He is very intense, a bit of a loner, but really honest with his feelings. He sugarcoats nothing.

I will definitely be getting a reading.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Dec 14, 2013 8:10 pm

Hello again, Hopefulgal14,
Thanks for the info on his sign. That would explain something about him!
Glad you're getting a reading! Good route to go with all of this ambiguity going on
Wishing you the best
Take care

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Wed Jan 15, 2014 5:52 pm

hello everyone.

well I wont make this long, at least I hope not. I have been w/ my bf for four yrs. we started living together about 3-4 mos ago. he's pulling away a little and cant fully commit to saying we "officially" live together but he stays EVERY night. he does stay w/ a family member on wkends he has his kids most of the time but comes home after. but it's not like me and kids don't get along. we do very well...wat do I do to get a full commitment and would like to have him open to moving out of town as well. and yes I have thought of the scenario of the kids. there are several very reasonable and doable options there to make sure he spends plenty of time w/ them still. your advise is greatly appreciated. thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 15, 2014 10:56 pm

Hello, Cherry4,
My suggestion is to try a Stay with me spell. www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
Once there's that commitment, you can try other spells to convince him to move. I LOVE the influence skull candle spell: www.luckymojo.com/influence.com
Also, try this page for more ideas. They're an array of love spells to chose from but, you do want that commitment. And the love www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Wishing you the very best.
Take care

roops · Unread post by **roops** » Fri Feb 14, 2014 8:41 pm

Hi ,

I am girl from India.
I am in relationship with a man in US from past 1.5 years.
I met him on matrimonial site in nov 2011 and had been to US on work related issue and happened to meet him in person and we stayed with each other for 2 months and since my project got completed i flew back to india . He promised me he would come back to india and get married to me . He came in june 2012 met my parents but since he said he had very few leaves he flew back to US . I am divorcee and he is also a divorcee . I have a kid from my previous marriage but he doesnt have any kids . His family was like not that happy he marry me coz i have a kid. So maybe he took few more months to convince them .Now everyone seems to be convinced , but he somehow is not coming to india and he says he has applied for my Finace visa but i am not so confident he has really applied , i somehow feel he is buying time and he needs to marry me soon, coz i had options of marrying people who were better than him when we started this relationship but since i loved him soo much i never did anything like that . He talks to me everyday from US , he likes me but not finalizing
i would provide you our birth details can u help me get him to marry me soon and do my visa soon. I am tired waiting from past 1.5 years .my only goal was marriage and since i met him in matrimonial website i thought he would surely marry me but somehow he is trying to buy time and not finalize but he is keeping me as a option too which is very painful. Can anyone here cast spell or do some ritual so he is compelled to marry me and do my visa . He is talking to me everyday through phone . So it shows he is interested in me but fro some reason buying time.

His date of birth :- 19/November/1969 TOB:- 6:30 AM
My date of birth 25/feb/1979 TOB:-10:30 PM

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Feb 15, 2014 11:45 am

You can use Marriage or Adam and Eve products to move him toward marriage. You could add some Compelling too. However, you do not have to wait for him. You said there were other men who are interested in you. Maybe you should consider one of them.

deelish85 · Unread post by **deelish85** » Sun Feb 16, 2014 2:05 pm

Hi everyone its my first time posting been reading up for awhile.

I need to know what i should use to get my boyfriend to want to marry me again and to actually want to be in a relationship with me again.
We live together but from last September he met this girl at work and October everything changed. I got a spiritual reading and was told that she tied him. I have been praying and trying and every-time he says lets work it out he changes his mind. He is like a different person around her and its like he hates me and draws to her. He even said He loves me more than her. he keeps lying to me and he tells her things about me and he isnt that type of person.

Sorry for the long story but we were to get married n since she came in the picture that was a struggle. we still live together but he says I have 3 months to find a place he is now in the other room. but i know he is my soulmate please tell me what to do to get Him back from under her spell and so we can get married by next month please thank you

roops · Unread post by **roops** » Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:45 am

Can anyone here cast spell for me , I can do everything as guided by you all.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Feb 17, 2014 8:19 am

You can contact a member of AIRR:

www.readersandrootworkers.org

BlakPrincessUK99 · Unread post by **BlakPrincessUK99** » Mon Feb 17, 2014 4:15 pm

In one of the other posts there was some discussion on how to break someone's resistance for some flat out domination work. While the spell is great it isn't ideal for reluctant lovers. Instead here are a couple tricks using Lucky Mojo products that can be used to help overcome the resistance and reluctance of potential lovers.

If your your love target is resisting your work you can try this:

1) Red Candle with Cubebs

Make a name paper of your target and fold a John the Conqueor in the paper. Place this under an overturned cup.

Take a jumbo red candle or a 6 inch and carve it with their name, along with the command "unable to resist me." Dress this with Follow Me Boy/Girl then take Cubeb Berries and push them into the wax of the candle. You might need to use a nail to make small holes then stick the Cubeb Berries in them. Stud the candle with Cubeb Berries, then dust it with some Dill Seeds. Set this on the overturned cup and burn it down while praying for them to be unable to resist you any longer.

2) Red or Pink Adam and Eve Candles plus a Black Candle

Another neat trick involves a moving candle spell. Take one each pink or red Adam and Eve candles. Carve them and load them. Dress them with Follow Me Boy/Girl, Love Me, and Compelling oil. Place a John the Conqueror root in front of the Adam candle and a Queen Elizabeth root in front of the Eve candle. Dress the John the Conqueror and the Queen Elizabeth and the two candles with your sexual fluids. Have the candles facing one another. Sprinkle Calamus, Rose petals, Juniper Berries, Damiana, and Catnip in a ring around the candles. Place this set up on your altar close to you.

Behind this set up place an undressed 6 inch black candle. Carve "So and so's resistance" an the black candle.

Behind your altar place a bucket of dirt gathered from a crossroads or water from a river.

Light all your candles and pray that as the black candle is moved away that your target's resistance becomes less and less.

Over 7 days move the black candle further and further back on your altar until you can push it off the back edge and into the bucket of dirt or water. Toss the remains of the black candle in a crossroads or a river, as appropriate, and bury the love candles at your front door to attract your lover. Gather the herbs and roots from the altar and put them in a mojo bag and feed weekly with a love oil.

Greetings ConjureMan Ali

Can I use sea water in lieu of water from a River ?