Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

MaJiG_GarDen · Unread post by **MaJiG_GarDen** » Wed Aug 19, 2009 12:29 pm

jewel wrote:I was on facebook and he went from in relationshiop to single... That doesnt look like a good sign..

think of it this way its only a social networking site dont let that affect the energy your putting into your work.. see that as a positive as it should make you more determined to get hime back into your life!

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 9:41 am

Just thought I'd share my experience with a poppet for love today. I decided not to pursue the guy anymore and burnt the poppet, when the target happened to be outdoor. Somehow he got disproportionately sunburnt and a heatstroke. It certainly wasn't my intention to cause him any harm!

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sat Aug 22, 2009 10:37 am

cabriellenil wrote:Just thought I'd share my experience with a poppet for love today. I decided not to pursue the guy anymore and burnt the poppet, when the target happened to be outdoor. Somehow he got disproportionately sunburnt and a heatstroke. It certainly wasn't my intention to cause him any harm!

Did you call him out of the doll before you burnt it?

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Sun Aug 23, 2009 9:44 pm

Last year, I had a lover who was deeply in love with me, and at that time, I was not too focused on him, because I got other things to do. He ended up getting disappointed at me, for not showing equal affection, and backed off. We reconciled back in May 2008, I visited him at his town (we had long distance relationship). I was sad for not having his usual affection anymore, so I decided to do a little working to win him back.

One day before going to his place, I baked a chocolate cake with my menstrual blood in it. I cut the cakes and place it in a tupperware container for him. During our time together, he never touched the cake. I placed the cake in our small fridge (mini bar) in his bedroom. Even though I reminded him to have a piece of the delicious cake, he never touched it. (Could it be, that he know ..at that time.. I did some working on the cake?) At that time, the atmosphere of our togetherness was filled with tension. Because he was still upset at me.

My mistake (This is the mistake I regret until today) :
After he laid with me that night (which I didn't cum), he asked me to roll out his condom and throw it in the bathroom bin, because he was so exhausted and wanted to get back to sleep immediately. So I rolled it, and knot the condom rubber so it looks like a little sack of semen now, and place it in the bathroom floor, behind the toilet seat (the spot is quite hidden). I didn't immediately throw it out because I was still shaking because of my plan (I got scared that he find out). I planned to keep the condom and the semen inside & take it home with me. But somehow I got scared..I am afraid that he might found out or suddenly wake up to pee and find that knotted condom in his bathroom. To avoid suspicion, I threw the condom away.

I still regret this until today. Because it turned out that he was deep asleep and didn't even wake up at all that night. The morning he left all day and return in the evening to fetch me up and drive me back to my town.
That means.., I had plenty of time to pack the rubber sack and place it in my bag for me to keep and put in my Nation Sack. When I arrive home, I can place it in a container and freeze it for further use. Now it's too late.

So, all I have now is his handwritten letter he wrote for me, also his photograph.
Can I use those ingredients to win him back? Opinion please.
My other question is :
Could it be that, during that time, he was also suspicious about t he cake?

After our last meeting on May 2008, he dissapeared and I never heard from him anymore. He changed his number and never replied my emails. I was broken hearted and it still hurts when I think of it until now. I want him back.

From this lesson, I learned to always collect when you have a chance and be aware of everything. Always be prepared!

keeperoftherubyshoes · Unread post by **keeperoftherubyshoes** » Sun Aug 23, 2009 9:51 pm

Hi Golda,
First, let me say that there is no use crying over spilled milk. Yes, that used condom would have been very handy, but it's gone. So now you have a picture & a letter to work with. Neither of these are the strongest of links, but are better than nothing. How long has it been since you saw him? If you haven't seen him since May of last year, I would suggest a Cut & Clear and move on. If you have consistent contact with him, you can work a love spell of your choosing- love me, return to me, etc. with the personal items you have, but realize that it will take a lot of work to make it happen. I'm not saying it's impossible, just that it won't be the easiest spell you've ever worked. It is possible that he was suspicious about your cake, especially if you were pushy about it, but again, don't worry about the past, take what you have today and go with it.
Best!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:18 am

I agree with reply above...time to move on and stop dwelling. You have no contact with this man...no current phone number, emails he doesnt answer back and so on. Cut and clear is in order here no doubt about it.

mabel · Unread post by **mabel** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:25 am

If you decided to give it a try before going into cut and clear, maybe u can try doing honey jar on him first? I did not have any of my ex personal concerns, only his handwritten note + picture and so far it seem to be working well between us....

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:55 am

Again, there is no contact here. Contact has been lost. plain and simple. I am not a dream killer here...i like to remain optimistic but he is gone too much time has passed with no answered emails or anything. You would be wasting your time, and money. This is another lesson under your belt...take it and learn from it.

I am sure there is another man just waiting for you...you just have to get over this,and let him in.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:31 am

Cut & Clear is in order. Anything else would be a waste of time and money. A year with no contact means he has probably moved on too. A black walnut bath would be good too.

Mary

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 11:03 am

Literarylioness wrote:Cut & Clear is in order. Anything else would be a waste of time and money. A year with no contact means he has probably moved on too. A black walnut bath would be good too.

Mary

I must wholeheartedly agree with Mary, reconciliation is very hard work and it gets harder as time passes, I usually advise people to move on a after a month, a year with no contact? Its just not going to happen.

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:23 am

Thank you all for the advice & suggestions. Looking back, I remember early May 2008, I did a reconciliation working before our final meeting. I did the SIGIL magick. 1 day after, he called and texted and asked me to visit him for the weekend. That was my last visit, and I had the chance to collect his semen, but was too afraid for him to find out, so I threw it away. Now I regret it.

I realize it's a bit too late to do reconciliation work again after 1 year. The sigil magick worked fast because it was done not long after our argument. Lately I have a notion that he might think of me still. I found his old letters again. I might try the honey jar spell and let you all know how it goes. Wish me luck.

Golda

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:25 am

mabel wrote:If you decided to give it a try before going into cut and clear, maybe u can try doing honey jar on him first? I did not have any of my ex personal concerns, only his handwritten note + picture and so far it seem to be working well between us....

Thanks mabel, I think I will give this a try.

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:27 am

keeperoftherubyshoes wrote:Hi Golda,
How long has it been since you saw him? If you haven't seen him since May of last year, I would suggest a Cut & Clear and move on. If you have consistent contact with him, you can work a love spell of your choosing- love me, return to me, etc. with the personal items you have, but realize that it will take a lot of work to make it happen. I'm not saying it's impossible, just that it won't be the easiest spell you've ever worked. It is possible that he was suspicious about your cake, especially if you were pushy about it, but again, don't worry about the past, take what you have today and go with it.
Best!

Last time was end of May 2008, date was 27.
We don't have consistent contact anymore. Emails are unanswered, phone number changed.
Thanks for the advice and encouragement, keeperoftherubyshoes!

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:28 am

starsinthesky7 wrote:I agree with reply above...time to move on and stop dwelling. You have no contact with this man...no current phone number, emails he doesnt answer back and so on. Cut and clear is in order here no doubt about it.

Thanks
But I will still try with the honey jar spell.
Because I still have hope.

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:30 am

HailDiscordia wrote: I must wholeheartedly agree with Mary, reconciliation is very hard work and it gets harder as time passes, I usually advise people to move on a after a month, a year with no contact? Its just not going to happen.

I know..a year is very long.
But..trying is better than not trying at all.
It's been a long time since I did a working on him.
Let's see how it goes. At least, I have tried

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:30 am

Literarylioness wrote:Cut & Clear is in order. Anything else would be a waste of time and money. A year with no contact means he has probably moved on too. A black walnut bath would be good too.

Mary

Mary,
Thanks for the suggestion. Can you explain more about the black walnut bath and its purpose?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 10:28 am

Yeah trying is better than not trying at all. I said that myself somewhere on this forum BUT you have no contact with this person at all. It has been a year, and frankly you are wasting your time, and energy. It would take way more than a honey jar to help this situation. I'm sorry but its really time to move on. I know it hurts, but you are just living in the past. But best of luck to you, and i hope you eventually find someone that wants to be with you.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 10:39 am

golda wrote: Mary,
Thanks for the suggestion. Can you explain more about the black walnut bath and its purpose?

I'm not Mary but I think I can answer this. A black walnut bath is to cut away old influences and relationships and cut people out of your life. It is as you may have guessed part of a Cut and Clear spell a very very good one you can read about on the Cut and Clear Page. found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

I say go ahead and try one more time, you might not have a snowballs chance in hell but, giving it that one last try before calling it quite often seems to help with closure.

WHATITDO · Unread post by **WHATITDO** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 3:07 pm

HELLO EVERYONE

HI I AM NEW I HAVE BEEN READIND AND STUDYING ALOT OF THE FORUMNS AND OHTER SITES WITH DIFFRENT EXMAPLES BUT I THINK I NEED A ONE OR ONE DETAILED EXPLANATION BASICALLY A SIMPLE (WALK THRU) ON WHAT TO DO CORRECTLY. I WANT SOMEONE TO CALL ME AND FOR US TO BE TOGETHER I BROKE UP WITH HIM VIA TEXT AROUND THE BEGINING OF JUNE, I MISS HIM AND I WANT TO BE WITH HIM BUT I DO NOT WANT TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE WE HAVE DONE THIS BEOFRE USUALLY IT IS I THAT DO THE BREAKING UP CAUSE HE DOES NOT COME TO ME ON THE TIME FRAME I WOULD LIKE TO SEE HIM, THE ONLY TIME IS ON WEEKENDS.. WELL THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR TWO YRS. WE HAVE TALK ABOUT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP AN HIS ONLY \RESPONSE IS I DO NOT WANT THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A RELATIONSHIP. HE HAS NO CHILDREN AN NO OTHER GIRL AS FAR AS I KNOW YET HE SAYS HE HAS FRIENDS WELL SO DO I IM NOT CONCERN WITH THAT. I JUST WANT TO SEE IS THERE A POSSIBILITY OF GETTING HIM BAC USING THE SUGGESTIONS AN THEN WORK ON OHTER ISSUES TO GET WHAT I WOULD LIKE FROM THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. I AM INTERESTED IN THE CALL BACK AND THE HONEY JAR SPELL. FIESTA, CARRIES CANDLES AND SOME LOVE BATH, I HAVE SOME JOHN THE CONQUER OIL CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW TO DO THE BASICS AN HOW FAST WILL I SEE RESULTS ALSO DO I NEED TO DO A RECOLLECTION SPELL ALSO ANY ADVICE WILL BE APPRECIATED.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 3:24 pm

Using capital letters is considered yelling on the internet. Can you redo your post so others can read it properly?

Read about reconciliation spells here. The spell kits come with instructions.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 4:10 pm

If you have been doing this back and forth between you and him for TWO years, then I would say its time to move on. He is telling you straight out "hey i do not want the responsibility of a relationship" that speaks volumes. He broke up with you via text message, and that shows a lot too. I am not trying to be a dream killer here, but if you do not want to make the effort to call him and contact him then what do you expect.

I know a lot of people come on here expecting "fast" results and if you are going for that, then you are setting yourself up for failure.

But if you insist on getting him back, then I would recommend getting a reading because he just might have another girl, and whatever else. ALso, please make sure you do a search through this forum to get some advice on getting someone back. This topic has been talked about a lot before already.

WHATITDO · Unread post by **WHATITDO** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 4:21 pm

thanx star, i broke up with him via text it is always me breaking up cause i can't get my way

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 5:00 pm

Well first off, if its been like this for this long you should really think about stopping these games and moving on. But you probably won't listen to advise you don't like anyways lol

So for root work take a look at Reconciliation and Return to Me. Put the both of you in a honey jar with two Balm of Gilead buds two red rose petal, two cloves and of course a personal concern from him and one from you,make sure they match. Hair for hair,blood for blood or whatever you get. Fold all that up in a petition paper and make sure to fold it towards you. Burn white then pink then red candles on it dressed with Reconciliation and Return to Me Oils. If you can't get anything of him its just another nail in the coffin of this relationship.
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliatio ... kers.org
Send him a letter saying that you are sorry and telling him how you feel, dress the letter with Reconciliation and Return to Me powders. Seal the envelope and attach the stamp not with your spit but with your vaginal fluids if female or semen if male.

None of this will be cheap or easy, and of course before you do any work cleans yourself, I like the Thirteen Herb bath its under the Herbs link, and do a divination, or have one done. The reading may well say that you are not going to get this man. I truthfully don't think you will.

WHATITDO · Unread post by **WHATITDO** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 5:48 pm

Thanx for your advice maybe i will leave it be, i dunno i just wanted totry one of those things a least to see if he calls come or would it come tru just for the contact..

LaReina · Unread post by **LaReina** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 6:06 pm

search the forum, but there is an easy bottle spell used to call a lost lover back.
It's pretty easy for someone who is a beginner, some people have had immediate results others take a while.

if not, just give up on this guy and do a spell to bring a new lover.

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 6:10 pm

This is the bottle spell topic: "call-someone-back"-spell-lol-t1038.html

WHATITDO · Unread post by **WHATITDO** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 6:48 pm

Thanx i jus don't know, some is saying to leave it be some saying do, but thank you all for whatever replies i want to do a reading but i am leary about that cause i am a christan an we or not suppose to consult meduimns and so forth or what im trying so i don't know but i like reading the answers so keep em coming

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 7:01 pm

WHATITDO wrote: Thanx i jus don't know, some is saying to leave it be some saying do, but thank you all for whatever replies i want to do a reading but i am leary about that cause i am a christan an we or not suppose to consult meduimns and so forth or what im trying so i don't know but i like reading the answers so keep em coming

Most root doctors are Christian. Just putting it out their that hoodoo is a Christian based folk magic system.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 7:04 pm

Well, I am sure there are a lot of people that are different religions on here. Honestly, I think its sort of contradictory to say you do not want a reading, but will do spells because of your religion. There is a reason why this man wont commit to you, and that this has been going on for several years. 2 years is a long long time to be going up and down. I mean you have been wasting so much time on this guy...when you could be with someone that truly loves you. If you have to break up with someone via text message, then your heart and intuition is telling you that this isnt a great relationship.

mmcpower · Unread post by **mmcpower** » Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:29 pm

OK so my husband and I are separated and he has a new girlfriend, I am trying to get him back and fix our marriage and have been doing a break up vinegar jar, no signs as of yet tho, but something really pissed me off tomight, he told our daughter that he will pick her over our daughter, now I am pissed beyond belief and I want her to pay and get out of his life and disappear. I don't have any money to get the spells cast or to do any spell kits, can anyone recommend anything that I can do right away that may help the situation right now. No one messes with my daughter. I know I am asking for something to happen immediately and I know it doesn't always work that way but any help woul be so appreciated.

Thanks

Marie

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:40 pm

I'm sorry but after that why would you want this man back? Well we all have our reasons. Break Up and Crossing are the way to go.

http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:50 pm

yes Marie, why would you want this guy back to be around you and your daughter, given the way he's treating you two?

I'm also sending you a private message.

mmcpower · Unread post by **mmcpower** » Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:57 pm

I do understand, but I was the one who drove him away and then the girlfriend came into the picture and I went through a lot of counseling and have made peace with myslef and I jsut want a chance as I feel very connected and in love with him. We have been togetehr for 26 years and I am just not able to let go as of yet, I have given myself a specific time period and then I will do my cut & clear if nothing has happened. In my heart and soul I need to try for me and our daughter. He is going through a mid-life crisis and she is what I wasn't to him so she is perfect right now. But I appreciate all of you so much and your feedbacks.

Marie

Apo · Unread post by **Apo** » Fri Aug 28, 2009 11:49 am

Why make her pay? she hasn't done anything. Shes giving herself a chance in life, this woman owes you nothing. Your problem is with your husband. She's not responsible for any of this mess. It's your husband the one making the decision to be with her. Deal with him.

Brake-up magic? ok, fine, but crossing and cursing this woman? She's not forcing him to be with her, he is the one choosing to.

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Fri Aug 28, 2009 7:47 pm

HailDiscordia wrote:
I'm not Mary but I think I can answer this. A black walnut bath is to cut away old influences and relationships and cut people out of your life. It is as you may have guessed part of a Cut and Clear spell a very very good one you can read about on the Cut and Clear Page. found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

I say go ahead and try one more time, you might not have a snowballs chance in hell but, giving it that one last try before calling it quite often seems to help with closure.

Thanks Hail
Will look at it. I am busy with exams now and will try the honey jar once I am done with exams. The last spell before I quit trying with him.
I will also post the results here. Golda

keirith · Unread post by **keirith** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:56 pm

Personally, I would give it a shot...what have you got to lose? And put all your energy into it...then let it go, forget about it. If it is meant to be, the universe has your request and it will happen if it is meant to be. You have to live your own life and at some point forget about it and move on.
Perhaps the missed semen opportunity and the refusal of the chocolate cake meant something? Perhaps the Universe was telling you 'no' to this man? Just a thought....as I said, if it were me, I would give it one more GOOD try and then tell yourself if it does not come to fruition, move on.

gvalen4 · Unread post by **gvalen4** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 2:25 pm

Hello to all!

My name is Jerry. I am wanting some advice and help on how I can bring back my ex boyfriend. We have been separated since March. It was more of us taking time "apart" and then I just decided to leave... biggest mistake ever. I am now single and still talk/see my ex boyfriend. I have asked for him back many times. I have written letters and apologized many times. I do have strong faith in my "work" (magic) when I do it. I need some advice. I've never re-united lovers or brought someone back to me. What do I do?! I feel he still loves me, he says he does (more in a friendship way)... What do I do??? I need to get him back... I appreciate all responses...

Msg33 · Unread post by **Msg33** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 3:22 pm

well the contact is still there, so that's good.
what have you done so far when it comes to "magic"?
have you tried a honey jar spell?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 4:17 pm

we have discussed this topic many of times in the forum. Please do a forum search which is located in the top right hand corner.

I would recommend getting some divination done to see if this is worth pursuing. You can also try a return to me spell kit, or a reconciliation spell kit.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 8:00 pm

ariella wrote:Personally, I would give it a shot...what have you got to lose? And put all your energy into it...then let it go, forget about it. If it is meant to be, the universe has your request and it will happen if it is meant to be. You have to live your own life and at some point forget about it and move on.
Perhaps the missed semen opportunity and the refusal of the chocolate cake meant something? Perhaps the Universe was telling you 'no' to this man? Just a thought....as I said, if it were me, I would give it one more GOOD try and then tell yourself if it does not come to fruition, move on.

Here is the problem with the "one more shot" theory, people don't stop at "one more shot." They get literally addicted to working on a goal that is pointless, which is why ethical workers are honest with people when they ask questions like the one Golda posted. An unethical worker, there are many, would say "give it another shot, what do you have to lose?" More of your time, energy, and soul, that's what you have to lose, not to mention money. Time and energy that could be put to meeting someone who can truly love you.

I know of a worker who is quite famous who makes her entire living off people like this. She sounds like a sweet loving woman, but she is feeding on people's misery and becoming wealthy off it. She has people have been working years on hopeless cases. She continues to encourage them.

This is not about the target, but about Golda. Golda wants to go back in time and correct something that cannot be corrected. If she wants to find a good love, she must make peace with her actions and move on.

As an ethical worker, I stand by my original advice. Heal and move on.

Mary

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 8:09 pm

Oh boy, I hope that worker isn't someone we (the members of this forum) get to work with...

salmyrcrr · Unread post by **salmyrcrr** » Thu Sep 03, 2009 12:00 pm

Hi, All

I need advice he came into my life when I was very vulnerable. Both my parent had passed away with in days of each other. (my parent were not together they had broken up when I was a baby) Before my mom passed away I have told her about him, she knew who he was (I met him through my mom) if my poor mom would of never gotten sick I would of never met this guy. I still remember my mom words, "You should call him, you never know he might be the right person for you". My mom seem so please that he show intersted in me. My mom passed away with in days of the day he gave me his number

I call him with in a few days of my mom passing and one thing let to another. The beginning of our relationship was beautiful I never wanted it to end. I felt as if my mom gave me one final gift. We even talk about were he would take me for our honeymoon. I was in sky number nine... However, after a while I started catching a lot of his lies. I confront him all the time and he would get very upset with me. One day out of the blue he broke up with me. I was so devastated ! I cry, for days. After the week went by I got drunk and call him. (bad idea) We got back together but it was different this time around. He no long wanted the committed relationship we once had. One Sunday after noon I went to his home and he ask me for a favor. He wanted me to married his friend for citizenship. I was extremely hurt when he ask me for such favor. I thought to myself I really do not mean nothing to this person... Of course I refuse to marry his friend. I would not go to jail for no one. Even with all this I still remain in this roller coaster relationship. Two weeks ago I was suppose to meet up with him however because of his fasting (he make believe Muslim.) He cancel on me. At that point I had enough of his junk. So, I broke up with him. I told him I could not continue this. I am the only one that is in love and love is a two way street not a one way.

So, here I am. Is he worth my time and money to try to get him back through spells ? Can I really make him feel what I feel for him ? If so, what spells should I work on first ? I already purchase INTRANQUILITY spell kit. The kit have not come in yet so I have not done no spells. I am forever thinking about him and just wish he call to tell me how much he misses me..

PLEASE HELP

THANK YOU

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Thu Sep 03, 2009 10:28 pm

Dear Salmyrcrr,

First, let me just say that I absolutely know where you're coming from. It's the most painful thing in the world to love someone with your whole heart and not even get so much as an "I miss you" text from him. That being said, given the information you've given us, I would not be inclined to do any work on this man unless it was for revenge. He sounds like an incredibly selfish person, and to do any sort of reconciliation work on him would be futile. As Miss Cat has said numerous times, you can draw a man back but you can't change who he is. That being said, the heart wants what it wants. Miss Cat has written a wonderful assortment of love spells you can look at via this link: http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#red

But were you my client I would suggest a cut and clear and a good long period of cleansing/healing. Only after that time would I suggest a love drawing spell for an unknown lover and hopefully you'll find someone better suited for you.

The best advice I can give, (and I'm not a professional root worker, just a sympathetic ear,) would be to have a divination done by a professional. Really try to get the heart of the matter and decide if this man is worth it. The Intranquility kit is a powerful one for sure (I'm a little afraid of it) and he'll be tormented until he comes back to you, but ask yourself this: Are the purposes of your spell casting for revenge or for reconciliation? If they're for revenge, (that is, to make him as miserable as he's made you) then you're better off to cross him and be done with it. If you're interested in reconciliation then you have many other avenues to look into before resorting to the Intranquil Spirit. (Honey Jar, Come to Me, Love Me, Reconciliation Kits, just to start!)

I hope that was somewhat helpful. I don't remember the link for professional root workers (maybe someone else can help me out?) but, honestly, before you do anything, have a divination done. Be certain of what you're doing before you do it, because it takes a lot of money and time and energy to bring two people back together who have already parted for one reason or another.

Good luck, and I hope all works out for you.

L

LightTheWorld · Unread post by **LightTheWorld** » Fri Sep 04, 2009 5:24 am

Oh Salmyrcrr, my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry that you have been put through this.

Lucylookingskyward has given you the best advice anyone could, in my view. Just from life experience, it sounds to me like this man is heartless and simply taking advantage of your loving nature. If so, then you really are asking for him to be transformed into an entirely different person, and I don't believe any spell is going to help you with that. Do you think there truly is a good and loving man in him, or is it possible that the beautiful start of the relationship wasn't a true reflection of how he is?

Lucy you asked for the link for professional rootworkers - here it is http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

I'm sorry I can't be of more help, but I wish you all the best, Salmyrcrr.

salmyrcrr · Unread post by **salmyrcrr** » Fri Sep 04, 2009 10:30 am

Good luck, and I hope all works out for you.

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Hi, L

I want to thank you for your heart felt reply.
Yes, I ask myself "what do I really want"? It is him or it is revenge that I want ? To be honest with you is a little bit of both... If only I was able to erase him out of my thoughts..but I cannot. I wake up in the middle of the night with thoughts of him. I get so angry because I know he not thinking about me. I miss him so much. I will do anything to be with him. He played me for a fool and yes, I do want him to suffer as much as I have suffer. As you can see is revenge with love. There is a saying, love and hate come hand in hand. When I get my spell kit I would put it away. Give it some time and see if that what I really want. No one should do a spells while angry. I know my anger sooner or later would go away. I do not want to do such a hard spells on someone while in anger. If after my anger has gone away and I am still madly in love with him than I will do love spells on him. I decided that INTRANQUILITY SPELLS kit would be my last resort...let see what happens.

Thank you again

Sally

Ulti · Unread post by **Ulti** » Mon Sep 07, 2009 3:54 pm

Ok, so I snooped about the boards for at least two hours trying to find something appropriate to begin with..I think maybe something I read from luckycharms, the user, about writing a letter asking for forgiveness, or maybe that cinnamon bath, and other paper note workins...But maybe not, but anyway, here's the story..

In short, a guy that I love, basically broke up with me. Recently, too. But he still holds my hand, prepares me food, travels around with me, makes plans with me, calls me at night, and texts during the day. Makes sure I get home safely, and all of that good sweet stuff. When I advance, like call him his pet name, he backs up. He says this holding my hand thing is a habbit and he shouldn't do it.

I don't favor the idea of dominating him or controlling his will, but even if I had to, I wouldn't be able to abuse that. If there was just something simple for him to forgive me for making him feel he had to seperate us, or if I could call him back into how we were, I'm sure I could naturally be the best me I could be for him,

but I need help on the first steps to take, something to buy, maybe I know too little to take any steps at all, whatever the case, I'm ready to hear it!

I just hope I don't sound stupid..

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Sep 07, 2009 4:09 pm

Put the two of you in a honey jar to start to keep things sweet, then take a look at reconciliation. After of course you have a reading done. Once that's done, if the reading says you are meant to be doing this get the Reconciliation spell kit

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org The AIRR main page where you can find a reputable reader.
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html Honey Jars
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html Reconciliation
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html Spell Kits

NessaNessa · Unread post by **NessaNessa** » Sat Sep 12, 2009 3:55 pm

I have a question about which kit or spell I should be using.

I'm interested in getting back the ex, he's not an easy case and he tends to resist but I'm determined to bring him back. Would a return to me kit work fairly well or perhaps the intranquil spell fit the bill? I guess what I'm asking is in your experience, anyone who has tried the different spells, which one did you find to work the best? I do realize that products work differently for different people but I'd still like to know when it comes to broken relationships and retrieving an ex what seems to pack the most punch?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Sep 12, 2009 6:24 pm

First, I would recommend getting some divination done first. To see if this is work pursuing, and any possible obstacles that can be standing in your way of getting him back. For example, he might have left you for someone else, or their might have been a 3rd party that talked him out the relationship with you.

Second, I would tell you to do a forum search we have talked about this topic many many times. And I am not in the least trying to be condescending, but it is sometimes helpful to look up situations so that you can see how others approached the situation.

Also, you need to take into consideration how long ago this relationship ended, and if it ended badly. All those factors matter. Now not to be negative it is going to take probably more than one spell to get your lover back. Getting someone to return to you is hard work, but it is not impossible. Some people expect instant results, and for that you are setting yourself up for failure.

So I would recommend getting the divination done first so that you will not be wasting your time, on doing spells that might not work or hit the goal because there is an obstacle you did not see. But I would say get both spell kits. As for "pack the most punch" that depends on you, and how well you can not over think, obsess, or harrass the target. I have talked about this numerous times already in several threads, and if you have any questions feel free to PM me about that if it still remains unclear. Also, it depends on the proximity you have to the target like if you can leave something on his property, if you have a foot track, a personal item, etc. These things matter because the more you can do...the more you can hit him hard on a physical, emotional, and mental level.

suzyparker · Unread post by **suzyparker** » Sun Sep 13, 2009 3:39 pm

Mary, you speak so often of how cut & clear helps you move on, to get to where you need to be, etc. once you do the cut & clear spell, should you feel something and how soon? Peace, maybe or just peace of mind. I also am curious because you say sometimes the other person gets closer because they feel the disconnect. Guess I"m just trying to figure out what to expect in my feelings and if the other person tries to get closer again will Cut & Clear make me somewhat immune from falling again?

Thanks

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sun Sep 13, 2009 5:07 pm

i would like the answer in that question, too

lonelyma · Unread post by **lonelyma** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:16 am

Hi everyone

Please help I need a spell to get my husband back he has left my home for like a month now and he is living with another woman. I want a spell to break that union up and to remove her from his life forever and I also want a spell to win him back. We have 3 kids together and life is not the same for us since he left. We have been together for 17 years. I found out that this woman is someone hes been seeing on and off for a couple of years now. I had my cards read from a spiritual advisor and was told that he has a spell cast on him thats the reason he is distant. I have cleansed myself and my home. Can anyone provide a spell that I can use. I light candles all the time and I have been prayering and making wishes.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Sep 16, 2009 2:00 pm

You need a break up Spell Kit to break them up:
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

Then a reconciliation Spell kit to bring your husband back:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Good luck,
Bri

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:31 pm

I am trying to get my ex back; we were last together on July 31st, but we are not on speaking terms since August. I started a honey jar, started the Intranquil candle this past Saturday (yes, I want him tormented like I am, which is a lot - all I think about is him!!), and when I see movement on Intranquil, I will start the "Love Me" and "Stay with Me" LM kits, per a previous thread I've seen here

I am a newby but have read a lot on this forum these past few months and I really want to hit this guy full force, bind him to me. I will do my best to try and feed him menstrual blood but I will have perhaps a 5-second window of opportunity, which means I won’t be able to whip out a tampon and swish it!

I did a search on menstrual blood threads but have not found an actual “minimum amount necessary”: I am afraid to do too little (is a drop enough? Or putting some blood on my finger and swishing on a drink?), and I am afraid of doing too much (several drops where he will notice the taste). Does anyone know what is considered “enough” to make it take effect?

Thanks in advance for your help!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 6:49 pm

A drop of menstrual blood is enough. I would not overwhelm the drink or whatever you are using as the mode of transmission here to get him to ingest the blood.

I think you are doing enough with the intranquil spirit and the sweet jar. I can tell that you are a little anxious, which is okay, but just be calm and patient things for things to take some effect.

I am not sure why you re doing the intranquil spirit spell if you really want this person to love you and the like. But that is up to you. Here, I would do the sweet jar. And since you are in close quarters with this perhaps bathe in follow me boy bath crystals. But perhaps you should try talking to him. It would be more advantageous (in my eyes) if you and him were on speaking terms. He does say hello to you...so it seems like you are the bitter one here. As for the booty call, well I am a true believer in you teach people how you want to be treated. But if he just sees you as a booty call, and you want more, I would try a reconciliation spell kit, and then proceed with some love me. I just think it would be better to be on speaking terms. He does want to speak with you its just you keep pushing him away. I have a feeling he is waiting for you to talk to him. So do the reconcilation or burn a pink candle on top of the sweet jar with some reconcilation powder/oil, and then try to talk to him.

Then follow up with love me, and follow me boy steps. And yes you can do the menstrual blood. But he is responding to you...you just seem like you are pushing him away or perhaps you are saying "hello" but I do not know that from what you wrote. But in this situation is better to be on speaking terms with him that way you have access to more personal items....not to mention you can hit him harder.

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 7:14 am

Thanks, Starsinthesky. I agree we teach people how to treat us... I didn't want to bore anyone with the story, but he was my bf; we broke up in January and at that time I did a honey jar, which worked except it never turned things into a "relationship" again. We flirted heavily for months, he was acting "sweet", and finally I started sleeping with him over the summer hoping it would move things along. I know it would be easier if we were speaking, but I feel that if I were to start a conversation then he gets the "upper hand". I want to talk to him but I need him to be the one to initiatie an actual conversation, and apologize (tall oder, I know!); that is why I went with IS. Sounds like I am cutting off my nose to spite my face, but I just need to be able to retain some dignity.

Thanks for all your suggestions and information on the blood, you are really an incredible asset to this board!!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 8:16 am

I did not say anything about you apologizing. If that is how you felt (i.e. a whore, taking advantage of, and not appreciated), then you have every right to feel that way and should not apologize. I would work with St martha here, and dominate him into giving you an apology. You can buy a fixed candle from lucky mojo, or you can get the st martha oil, and dress a red candle. If you need the prayer, I can send it to you. I would work with her because she loves to dominate rather than doing the IS. I know you want to make him feel how you felt, but really the IS is a last resort kind of thing, and sense I do not see this as a total hopeless or last ditch effort situation, then I would use her. Then when he comes back continue to work with her so that you can dominate him. You can bath in "I dominate my man" products. Now that I understand your story, I would not apologize, but I would engage in a conversation between him and explain to him in an adult manner how you felt. I would not do this in the first conversation, but I would just keep it light. Then you can bring on the heavy stuff later. He is only doing what you told him to do, and that is never talk to you again. So you kind of shot yourself in the foot there, but just keep the conversations light enough to suck him back in. Then once you get him thats when you can really get what you want.

Thank you for the compliment. I appreciate it. And I hope your situation works out.

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 10:04 am

Thanks so much, Stars - I will order the candle from LM. The IS candle is still lit, though (since Saturday) so what happens with that? BTW, I saw him as I was waiting for an elevator and I kept in mind what you wrote, so... I swallowed a big gulp of pride and said hello. He said hello back, then laughed and shook his head; followed by a very awkward elevator ride. So, let's see -I think that's as far as I can go to engage in conversation!

As for the compliment - I've spent the last couple of months going through threads, and you are very very helpful to the posters in these kinds of situations (where ppl want something a bit stronger), so it is well deserved and I am sure many would agree. Thanks for all your time!!!!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:24 pm

It was ONLY the first conversation that you initiated Im sure. He did smile AND said hello back. So that is a good start in my eyes. Its the first step so just keep saying hello, and maybe ask about just something neutral like "today we are busy at work right?" i dont know something with work. I mean of course its going to be awkward the first go around but just keep at it. Until you get that St Martha candle, you can write his name 3 times on a piece of paper, and then turn it once to the right and cross it with your name. Here, you can put a dab of honey, or bend over oil, domination or controlling oil. Then fold it toward you turn it again to the right and then fold it towards again. Then put it in your left shoe. You can do this until you get the candle.

As for the IS, you might as well continue the candle, or you can stop doing it. That is up to you.

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Fri Sep 25, 2009 11:06 pm

I agree with Apo. When someone cheats or strays in a relationship, they are doing it by CHOICE. Tempted or not, he made his choice. This "other woman" is not at fault at all. Why should she have to pay for his choice not to be with you. You said it yourself, you drove him away to begin with. This other woman is not your problem, HE IS; and by driving him away, you have contributed to him being your problem. Solve your problem, don't crucify someone else because you chose to drive him away.

Just think, what if YOUR daughter grew up, met a guy, and they fell in love? Then his ex who drove him away to begin with casted spells to hurt her when all she did was meet someone and fall in love?

In my humble opinion, magic is something to be cherished, and used wisely. It can and I will bet a million bucks that I don't have that it will come back to haunt you in one way or another. I would do a cut & clear, and focus on my own life with my daughter and creating our own happiness. Life is too short to be playing games.

My heart does not go out to you or your ex...my heart goes out to your daughter who will suffer the consequences for adults making selfish decisions...and then we wonder why our kids act the way they do when they become adults.

Good luck, and may you have guidance!

hugs,
Brida