Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Feb 17, 2014 8:28 pm

Hello, Deelish85,
I am so sorry that this happened.
I have moved you r post to the appropriate subforum with 16 pages of advice and great spell work to get him to want to commit to you.
You may also want to try some spells on yourself to make yourself more attractive to him: Look me Over; bewitching (my favorite), come to me, and the sorts.
http://www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome/html
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
And here is a page on love spells: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
You might also want to consider freezing her and/or putting her in a vinegar jar to sour their relationship http://www.luckymojo.com/bottlespells.html
Wishing you the very best
Take care

deelish85 wrote:Hi everyone its my first time posting been reading up for awhile.

I need to know what i should use to get my boyfriend to want to marry me again and to actually want to be in a relationship with me again.
We live together but from last September he met this girl at work and October everything changed. I got a spiritual reading and was told that she tied him. I have been praying and trying and every-time he says lets work it out he changes his mind. He is like a different person around her and its like he hates me and draws to her. He even said He loves me more than her. he keeps lying to me and he tells her things about me and he isnt that type of person.

Sorry for the long story but we were to get married n since she came in the picture that was a struggle. we still live together but he says I have 3 months to find a place he is now in the other room. but i know he is my soulmate please tell me what to do to get Him back from under her spell and so we can get married by next month please thank you

supernova88 · Unread post by **supernova88** » Sat Feb 22, 2014 3:33 am

Hello!!!

So, I've done the resistance remover with the cubeb and red candle a few times. Let me tell you all, IT WORKS!!! And my guy can be resistant at times, so I have to make sure that I do this a few times so that he can be receptive to my honey jar and anything else. I've had readings and found out that he is the one for me, but he can just be a bit stubborn. But when I do this resistance remover, its like some of his walls come tumbling down. Thank you CM!!! You gave me hope with this one

. In order to remove any obstacles that might be in the way, could I burn a black candle on him with uncrossing oil? What kind of herbs could I use? Could have this going in the background while I'm doing my other stuff?

~SuperNova~

conjure moon · Unread post by **conjure moon** » Sat Feb 22, 2014 1:55 pm

Hey everyone

So I tried conjureman Ali's first spell to break my targets resistance, I have not spoken to my target for 3 months now and my target has the tendency to crack and agrees to see me but then changes his mind. This is the 3rd day of my spell and one of my targets good friends who I have only met twice messages me, as far as I was concerned I never gave him my phone number so I did not know who it was at first. But he was trying to come onto me and when I spoke about my target he said that he contacted me to tell me that it was best for me and my target to stay away from eachother. I thought that the fact that my target talked about me to his friend showed that he is weakening? Any suggestions?

Conjureangel · Unread post by **Conjureangel** » Sun Feb 23, 2014 4:30 pm

Hi Conjure moon

I'm not an expert but maybe his friend wants you to stay away from your target so that he has a better chance? He sounds like an unsavoury character, isn't that breaking man code?! Anyway signs are personal but it may well be a sign for your work as the timing is pretty much on point! Good luck!

conjure moon · Unread post by **conjure moon** » Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:50 am

Hi Conjureangel

Thank you for your advice, have you performed this spell before? What were your experiences? Has anyone else any experiences that the could share from performing this spell too?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:38 pm

Hello, conjure moon ,
Have you considered a reading to find out what is actually happening?
It sounds like the guy who text you may be an obstacle or may be lying. You might want to banish him from the picture: www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html
Nevertheless, if it were me, I would like to know EXACTLY what is going on. And if you have a chance of getting your desired results, have any obstacles, etc.
http://readersandrootworkers.org
www.hoodoopsychics.com
Wishing you the very best

conjure moon wrote:Hey everyone

So I tried conjureman Ali's first spell to break my targets resistance, I have not spoken to my target for 3 months now and my target has the tendency to crack and agrees to see me but then changes his mind. This is the 3rd day of my spell and one of my targets good friends who I have only met twice messages me, as far as I was concerned I never gave him my phone number so I did not know who it was at first. But he was trying to come onto me and when I spoke about my target he said that he contacted me to tell me that it was best for me and my target to stay away from eachother. I thought that the fact that my target talked about me to his friend showed that he is weakening? Any suggestions?

conjure moon · Unread post by **conjure moon** » Tue Feb 25, 2014 11:12 am

Hi Miss Aida

Thanks for your advice, I definitely feel that this other guy is an obstacle and I will banish him! Also I would really like a reading I am just waiting for pay day as I am pretty broke at the moment

as soon as I get my salary I will book a reading, until then I find comfort in reading other peoples experiences and hearing other peoples opinions

kyuss27 · Unread post by **kyuss27** » Tue Feb 25, 2014 11:18 pm

Sorry I'm also new. My situation seems to go back and forth so much I don't know what to believe anymore. I was with this man for 5 months. We broke up 6 months ago.I have a bubbly personality and he has trust issues. He never called me his girlfriend but he introduced me to his family, his friends, his coworkers, and his son. 3 months into the relationship I felt like he would never commit and an ex of mine from 3 years ago message me asking to hook up. I was tempted to leave him for this guy but ultimately said hell no, a month later my ex found the message. he said he couldn't trust me and he broke up with me. The next day we got back together and he said he would try to get past it. And we were together for a month after that. Then again when I asked for him to call me his girlfriend after 5 months of being together he said he couldn't trust me and he wasn't going to be with me anymore. For the first 3 days I begged for him back, it was pathetic. Then 2 weeks after we broke up a personal item of his went missing and he thinks I took it, which I didn't. For two months after the breakup we were still hooking up and then I left him alone for a month. During that month he sent me a message once a week finally when I asked to see him for a drink he said he couldn't because he was seeing somebody. I got angry we had a fight and he told me to never talk to him again. I apologized to him almost everyday for a month and then he answered my phone calls and said that if I called him again he would call the police. 3 days after I stopped calling him he called me ask me to come over. We agreed to be friends and we were talking for a week and I couldn't hold my emotions in so I asked him to stop seeing her and come back to me. He said No and told me never to talk to him again. A week later I sent him a message saying that he was right and that I wish we could be friends but its not my choice anymore. He sent me a text message saying happy birthday and asked me if I wanted anything for my birthday. For the past month we've been talking like friends just friends I haven't said anything to him about wanting him back and I don't even mention his girlfriend. So then 4 days ago he asked me to come over which I did and we talked again. He said I was a distraction and he has to break up with his new girlfriend now which he did. He didn't blame me but said that he couldn't play around anymore and that he was still attracted to me. so again we just went back to texting and 2 days ago he said that we didn't need to talk on a daily basis and that he knew what I was trying to do. Then I sent him a message asking if we were still friends and he said yes. So I texted him and he told me that he was with his ex his baby mama and that he was going to try and make a family for his son. I don't believe this because I think he just said it to get me to leave him alone again. He is a little superficial and his baby momma gained a lot of weight. I have been to two readers and they both have said that he likes me, but he is emotionally immature and he is fighting his feelings. when I did a honey jar spell he called me 3 days later. I'm asking if anybody out there can suggest a spell something to help my situation because although my goal is to get him back I know that my first obstacle would be to break down his wall. Right now he told me never to talk to him again this is the 4th time. honestly I don't know what to do. I do want him back. But I don't know how effective my work will be because I'm emotional. My faith and my hope are really wavery right now.

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Wed Feb 26, 2014 9:09 am

kyuss27, there is so much that I want to say here, but I am going to keep it as simple as possible. Right off the bat, I think that you need to do some healing work. Not for the relationship, but for each of you as individuals. He is wounded and so are you (http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html).

Then you can look at some Reconciliation work to bring you back together. This can be done in tandem with your honey jar (which sounds like it was working for you). http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

If you are feeling too emotional or like you can't do the work on your own you might consider working with a rootworker, like someone from AIRR or Hoodoo Psychics. (http://www.rootworker.com or http://www.hoodoopsychics.com)

Best of luck!

kyuss27 · Unread post by **kyuss27** » Wed Feb 26, 2014 9:25 am

Thank you. I would love to work with someone but maybe I should heal first. I'm not a positive person or patient. It's really hard for me to keep faith since I'm always in doubt. But thank you for replying

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Thu Feb 27, 2014 8:41 am

kyuss27, I totally understand and being impatient or not trusting/having faith in the work that you are doing is a sure fire way to NOT get what you want. Trust and patience are some of the key ingredients in rootwork. Clarity and healing will help you see the truth about this situation and what it is that you really want.

Best of luck and hang in there, no matter what, it will get better.

BlakPrincessUK99 · Unread post by **BlakPrincessUK99** » Fri Feb 28, 2014 5:40 pm

Hello Roops

I would second the advice and get a reading first before you proceed with any spell work. Long distance can be very tricky. If he has filed for a fiance visa you can check by requesting the file number and then verifying with the embassy.

Best of luck to you

Amandabrooks75 · Unread post by **Amandabrooks75** » Tue Mar 11, 2014 2:02 pm

I'm new to the site, yet so grateful I found it! My love and I live together, sharing everything together. However, he has yet to propose marriage. He has taunted me with it, showing rings he's picked out, talks about it and our future together constantly. He's called Jewelers and whatnot yet he's not purchased a ring nor dropped to a knee. His fear I feel is holding him back. It controls him! He's admitted to almost doing it four times since Nov. of last year. He puts it in my face a lot and it's driving me crazy and making me depressed. I need help! He also wants us to have a baby and we've been trying for a long time with no results. We need help with that as well!!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Mar 12, 2014 8:21 pm

Hello, Amandabrooks75 ,
Sounds like he's got a full blown case of: "Cold Feet"
Have you considered couples counseling? Maybe talk out his fears.
And, an the Hoodoo side, sounds like he needs some courage spells: www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Wishing you the very best and hoping that you marry soon!
Take care

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Mar 13, 2014 8:09 am

Try Marriage supplies, and you could add Compelling too. Other products for long-term relationships and marriage are Chuparrosa and Dixie Love.

maliceinhell · Unread post by **maliceinhell** » Sat Mar 22, 2014 11:11 am

I am trying to convince my girlfriend, who is currently living in an abusive situation, to move out of her house and move in with me. She will not listen to reason. I have begged, pleaded, and cried while trying to get her to move in. Would I use a skull candle for this? What color? Which oil would I use, if any? Any help is greatly appreciated. The situation is becoming quite urgent.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Mar 22, 2014 5:57 pm

maliceinhell, influence spiritual supplies are used to "influence the thoughts or actions of others" Read about it here (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-influence.html)

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Mar 22, 2014 9:18 pm

I can vouch for the Influence oils from LM. I have had great success with them.

As for whether a skull candle would be appropriate, I would say yes and a white one would be the right color. You can see all of the different Influence skull candle recommendations here: http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Wed Apr 09, 2014 10:32 pm

Hello! I have a few questions that I didn't see addressed in the thread so I thought I'd run it by here.

1. I have my love's t-shirt and a pair of underwear that I've been cutting up into small pieces to use in various spells. The problem is they're black and grey, respectively, which isn't appropriate colors for a love spell. Should I sew a red heart onto the doll's heart? Will that be enough to associate "red" and "love" with it?

2. Is it better to use a photograph for the face, or should I sew one?

3. I have LM oils, but no incense powders and can't afford to buy them or the Doll Baby kit in time to make it and work it as soon as I want to (i.e. during the Venus hour tomorrow, or first thing Friday morning). If I anoint rose petals with all my LM love related oils and Come to Me and Follow Me oils, and then stuff them in the doll baby, will that work?

4. I don't have any cotton stuffing lol. Should I use some of my personal effects, perhaps, like old underwear? Or should I try to make the doll baby kind of small and then use his shirt (it's oversized so there's plenty of material)?

Thank you all!

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Wed Apr 09, 2014 10:47 pm

I also have a pre-made blank plain cotton cloth doll with long arms and legs just like him, so I could fashion a small t-shirt and underwear out of his actual t-shirt and underwear, would that also work? Or is it better to make the doll from scratch?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:49 pm

Hello, serafin ,
It sounds like your spells are starting to manifest. Slowly but surely. They sometimes work this way.
My suggestion to you is to give it a little more time before giving up. Especially now that he's conversing with you.
Take care.

serafin wrote:hi..wednesday..i saw him online and to break the ice i ve said hello..i did..
he answeared me..saying hi..and howi am.i said im very well..and he said to me that he ve been arested in a club for fighting..and he have court on thursday..he asked me to look after my self and after ..ok i ll talk to u other time!
I still work my doll..but nothing happening..i was thinking if i break the ice and say hello it might make him say..i ll call u or..i dont know anything..
I miss him..but as i gived my worka dead line i ll stop working the doll on sunday..will be last day.Not sure what i wanna do with the love honey jar and his doll..i ll migh put the doll in a black box..but not sure about the honey jar.any advice will help.
thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:51 pm

Hello, ravenmaven ,
You are definitely on the right track! CONGRATS!!! Very proud of you!
The answer is YES to all of your questions. The last question: it is ingenious to make the doll from his underwear! Good creative thinking!
Take care

ravenmaven wrote:I also have a pre-made blank plain cotton cloth doll with long arms and legs just like him, so I could fashion a small t-shirt and underwear out of his actual t-shirt and underwear, would that also work? Or is it better to make the doll from scratch?

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Mon Apr 14, 2014 3:06 pm

Thanks for your encouragement, Miss Aida! I'm definitely feeling even better about the work I did on my love's doll baby, though I didn't do quite what I said because I was just really ready to go and ended up making it a few days ago, before I saw your sage advice, d'oh! I need to learn to be more patient.

That being said, I'm fairly happy with my work! I decided to go with re-stuffing the pre-made muslin doll, because I tried to make a simple doll with the underwear and messed up twice lol. I'm good at mending clothes but not very good at making plushies! However, I still have enough material that if it's okay to make two doll babies I could, though I don't know if it's less effective that way? If it's okay to make two I'll make a super small, simple one of him that I can carry in my purse at all times, and then keep the larger muslin one in my underwear drawer until the photos I've ordered to make its "house" arrive. I'm going to line the inside of a shoebox-sized box with photos of me and the two of us together sharing happy moments and store it inside there.

Here is what I DID do!
- sewed a photo of him onto its face - it lines up so perfectly that the shoulders match the doll's shoulders, I didn't even mean to but it looks great! on the back of the photo I wrote the petition that every time he looks into a mirror or sees his reflection he'll think of me, and in the doll's head I stuffed a photo of me with a petition on the back, and in the doll's heart I stuffed another photo of him and me together in a happy, intimate moment, with a petition on the back, and wrapped it around two matched lodestones I got as a present with magnetic sand and cinnamon powder. I anointed both those petition photos with the LM oils by five spotting them.
- I stuffed the doll with a cinnamon stick for the spine that I anointed with the 7 LM love-related oils I have, a bay leaf, rose petals, powdered cinnamon, catnip, star anise, cloves, cumin, coriander seeds, rosemary from my garden, lavendar, and lemongrass leaves. I looked up all the herbs on the Lucky Mojo site to see what kinds of intent they correspond to!
- I carved the doll a penis out of fresh ginger, anointed it with the seven oils and fluids from my sexual arousal while I thought of him, rolled it in powdered cinnamon, wrapped it in two large pink rose petals, and tied it with spare red thread from sewing the doll. I'll probably have to replace it once a week or so since the ingredients are fresh but that's okay!
- I made the doll underwear from his underwear LOL! I managed to do it so the elastic band even matches and it fits the doll right and tight, so I tuck the penis in there and it looks and feels great.
- I anointed every stitch of thread I used on the doll with the LM love oils.
- Until I build the house I keep it wrapped in the pair of really nice, elegant panties I wore the last time he and I made love and a red cloth bandana around all that.
- I got holy water from a nearby church that was blessed that morning and made, baptized, and activated the doll this past Friday. I sewed the photo on its face today and just baptized it again.

I've been kissing it and whispering to it, holding its hand, propping it up in between the picture box and honey jar I'm working every time I burn candles on either, telling him that he doesn't just love me but he's passionately, devotedly, faithfully, and joyfully IN love with me and he knows it and just has to say it and name it so we can start building our lives together with each other at the center. I wish I'd thought to add the photo from the get-go, because it really helps me focus my work - when I look at his face I can feel the love we share welling up inside and really pouring into the doll.

You guys are the best, and Miss Aida, I feel so encouraged and empowered by the positive things you say about my creative instincts! I'm still pretty new to hoodoo and witch working, but sometimes I just feel an instinct to try something and it's really nice to know that someone as expert as the rootworkers at LM think the ideas I have are good ones haha!

I'll keep you guys updated as things develop.

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Mon Apr 14, 2014 9:53 pm

Oh shoot, I just realized I made a mistake with one of the herbs - I mixed up what I thought was coriander seed with cardamom seed. Will that mess me up? They're both for sexual attraction, but with coriander it's with a known lover and with cardamom it seems more effective for a new lover. Is that still okay? Should I add coriander to the doll's underwear or the ginger I use for his penis?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Apr 15, 2014 8:53 pm

Hello, ravenmaven ,
Just add the coriander.
And thank you for your kind words.
Take care

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Thu Apr 17, 2014 3:21 pm

I did so! I rolled the new penis in my custom love herb mixture with LM oils - I think tomorrow I'm going to buy some more fresh ginger and dry it in the sunlight of my work room, so I don't need to constantly refresh and replace it lol. But I put in extra coriander in the mixture when I dressed it!

Last night I slept with the doll in my pillowcase, so it rested under my head. I dreamt a little about him, and this morning when he texted me (he texts me good morning and goodnight every day) he said, "Good morning, love," which isn't something he says very often in text. (He's very affectionate and demonstrative when we talk on the phone or in video chat or in person, but sometimes he feels self-conscious over texting.) That felt really good. I can't help but feel like the doll helped. Does sleeping with it in your pillowcase work better than storing it in an underwear drawer?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 17, 2014 9:54 pm

Hello, ravenmaven ,
Wonderful!
Yes, sleeping with it is more personal.
But, when you're not around, store it in your underwear drawer.
Congrats!

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Fri May 02, 2014 7:13 pm

Hello, all!

I'm going to be remaking my love doll baby once I receive more LM love herbs, and I'd like it to coincide with the full moon (the 14th). My question is: in your experience, do you think it's better to wait until a Friday, since that's a good day for love work, even though the moon will have started to wane? Or should I make the doll on Wednesday?

I have ideas of how to pray in each case. If I make it Friday I'll ask to banish and decrease barriers to our love and communication and connection, to reflect the waning moon; but if I make it on Wednesday I'll ask to exponentially increase our loving, needful communication.

How would you proceed, given the choice between the day of the full moon (but not a Friday) or two days after?

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Fri May 02, 2014 7:27 pm

Well I would have thought Wednesday was a great day anyway because it's the day of communication and you need communication in love.

Hmmm looking forward to this answer.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 02, 2014 9:17 pm

Hello, ravenmaven,
Every practitioner is different. Some use the moon phases, others don't.
I personally use moon phases.
If this were me, I would wait until the first Friday of the waxing moon. Venus rules Fridays and she is the Goddess of love.
But, this is just what I would do
Take care

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Fri May 02, 2014 9:47 pm

Thank you, Shantilly Lace and Miss Aida. Too bad the next first Friday in a waxing phase is all the way at the end of May! I'll mull over whether it's better to wait until then or start sooner. It's very tempting to go for it on Wednesday the 14th to try to work under the power of that big ripe full moon, but I've also been adhering to Friday being Venus' purview and the first one coming up in a waxing period is only two days after the next new moon, which I understand is pretty powerful, too. Any other opinions? I have a little time (all my supplies aren't even here yet) so I feel comfortable weighing more thoughts before I decide.

Unread post by **aura** » Sat May 03, 2014 6:16 am

The main thing is to work when needed ravenmaven; wait if it can wait - but work if it's necessary. Consider working with the clock hands rather than the moon phases as discussed in the forum thread here: spell-timing-time-of-day-or-night,-cloc ... fcd0b869d3

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Mon May 05, 2014 1:22 am

Oh, I hadn't considered clock hands! That's fascinating, I'll have to read up on that.

Right now one obstacle I'm running in to is that for all my work - breakup and love work both - I find my focus is best any time at night, after it's dark. Something about working only by candlelight so the spell is all I can see, and there aren't as many neighbors outside talking and distracting me. But I live with a friend and I know it comes off as odd that I hole up in my work room "randomly" (except for Tuesdays and Fridays, when I work multiple hours, I try to stick to daily work during appropriate planetary hours, but not for too long so it doesn't interfere with homework) and it's a change from our routine where he and I just hang out together in the evening.

Newby29 · Unread post by **Newby29** » Tue May 06, 2014 1:51 pm

I have been seeing this guy for three months basically just to have sex but I started to really like him. He said he didn't want a relationship because he was moving soon. Well I had a Stay with me candle set on alter at MISC and it burned clear. I burned it in February his soccer contract fell through and he didn't move! Yay! Things between he and I still have not been going anywhere he won't even say he likes me when I say it to him he always says "you're sweet". So I had a follow me boy and love me candle set on alter. Both candle reports were excellent. I started dreaming about him a lot and seeing his name or something related to soccer everywhere!!! Well it's May now the candles were burned in early March and he is more distant than ever now!

........we don't even talk. Did my work fail? Love work never comes through for me seems like the Gods want me to be alone forever

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue May 06, 2014 8:10 pm

Hello, ravenmaven ,
If it feels right, then go with your feelings
Take care!

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Wed May 07, 2014 1:33 am

Thank you, Miss Aida! I'm gearing up to make and baptize my Love Doll Baby 2.0 on the upcoming full moon, and I'll post my notes here to make sure everything looks good to your (and others'!) expert eyes!

Blessings!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 09, 2014 8:15 pm

Hello, Newby29,
Please don't say negative things about yourself. Negativity brings in more negativity. Easier said than done, but you MUST think positive!!!
Sounds like you need a reading to see why he's behaving like this. Then, either et some magical coaching for spell work and/or have the root worker perform spells.
You can find them here:
http://readersandrootworkers.org
or
www.hoodoopsychics.com
It just seems suspicious that the spells were working and then they stopped. That's why I a strongly recommending a reading on this
Wishing you the best

SARAH123 · Unread post by **SARAH123** » Sun Jun 01, 2014 4:59 am

Hi i need my bf to propose to me are there any good spells i can use. Has anyone done one before??

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jun 02, 2014 9:00 pm

Hello, SARAH123,
Here you go: www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html
Thanks to Miss cat!!
Take care

Lelu2012 · Unread post by **Lelu2012** » Tue Jun 17, 2014 2:01 am

Hello. Let me introduce myself. My name is Jess, I'm 34 years old and I've been in a sort of relationship with the man of my dreams for the past 2.5 years, however I have been in love with him for over 10. The only problem with this relationship is that works a ton and uses that an excuse to why I barely see him. I would like to find a simple spell that will really work so that he will either make a commitment to us (moving in together or getting engaged) or work less so we can see each other more often. Thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jun 17, 2014 9:29 pm

Hello, Lelu2012,
I understand what you want but really would hate to interfere on this person's ability to make money (especially in this economy).
Here is an array of spells for your first query. Some are VERY easy: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Wishing you the very best

dabbling enchantress · Unread post by **dabbling enchantress** » Thu Jun 26, 2014 2:09 pm

Hi guys

I have read through the forum already and have a general idea on how to go about making a baby doll but there are a few things that I am still unsure about please assist me. My first problem is that the person who brought my products through had to package some of the things creatively to bring them to za so I don't have the original packaging firstly and secondary they have been handled by someone before I used them. The come to me and fire of love powders were in make up packages - like blush and eye shadow. The oils were confiscated at customs but I have a bit of attraction oil that spilt into a medicine container. Sorry for much information in case it's useful

I have a hand towel with his dry sperm but it's relatively large I would think. I also have a piece of toilet paper with some sperm a nail and a few hairs from a razor. I have his photo and writing. I also have a pair of underwear but here I have two problems. 1) it was washed and 2) it's black

I want to use a teddy bear to make the doll. I saw a teddy bear that I think I'd like to use. I know pink or red for love. But it's for a male and I'm so drawn to a little blue bear that I could think of as him. Can I buy that or rather just convince myself to consider the pink one as him.

I have these ingredients: War water. Four thieves vinegar. Sulphur. Florida water. Dragons blood ink.

I have these spices : Cloves, cardamon, cinnamon powder, star aniseed.

Can I stuff teddy with black washed underwear
I don't know where to start although I've read the forum
I have pink candles also
Please help me

I have a honey jar already which seems to be working so good. Except for one occasion this morning when a glass candle holder broke but I'll post that in the appropriate forum and it really was a poor quality holder and I was being fancy putting the powders on the candle fire of love and come to me. I read now that they ignite so poor careless Ness.
I'm only getting a reading from airr in 5 weeks but in the meantime I got a local reading saying things r working and I see good positive signs to. That's all thanks to this forum that taught me from the start.
Guide me please. May u all be blessed with the best

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:00 pm

The underwear isn't a good link because it's been washed, unfortunately, but the other effects you have sound great! Sperm is the strongest link you can have for love work. I believe you can cut up the towel to use pieces, rather than the whole thing.

LoveFlows2Me · Unread post by **LoveFlows2Me** » Thu Jun 26, 2014 4:19 pm

Best light or lights to have set for a man who's a workaholic & a tad commitment phobic? I have a LM Love Me vigil candle going at home currently. Been reading a lot about Dixie Love on here but not sure if that's right for me. We've been dating for over 6 months roughly now & things are great except we haven't made that step to the official 'title' of Girlfriend & Boyfriend. He's 'married' to his career you could say & I sense he's on the fence about any long term commitment. To be clear, I'm not at this point looking for a marriage proposal (so don't think the marriage candle would be appropriate yet) Just would like to make things more exclusive and move beyond the casual dating thing....I'd like to be able to finally intoroduce him to fam & friends as. Boyfriend..officially. We care about each other deeply but he's just so focused on his career. Not looking to do a spell, I'm going to have a light set for me. Any suggestions?? Dixie Love? Maybe Road Opener?
Thank you in advance for any help.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jun 27, 2014 8:34 pm

Hello, dabbling enchantress ,

I agree with ravenmaven.

Also, if ths is a love and commitment spell, as you indicated, do not use War Water. It is to make people fight.

Take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jun 27, 2014 8:42 pm

Hello, GypsyAnn ,
You will have to decide what the priority is.
What is it?
What is he phobic about? Does this phobia have anything to do with commitment issues?
If so, I would certainly work on that issue first.
Or do you want him to be more tranquil and see things clearly?
Think about it.
I would do, in this order:
Tranquility; clarity, and then love candles.
Wishing you the very best on this. You sound like a great person who has this type of patience. I truly admire you
Take care

dabbling enchantress · Unread post by **dabbling enchantress** » Sat Jun 28, 2014 1:54 am

Thank u raven and miss Aida. Love and light

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Sun Jul 13, 2014 7:53 am

Hey guys, I have been working on this one guy for almost three months now. Communication has picked up and Friday evening we had sex. I have been working on a honey jar for almost those three months, did a novena to Saint Martha and I also did a skull candle but it would appear that maybe that may not come into full fruition seeing as the string kept tipping over. Here is where I need the help... what can I do to make him want more than just being friends and friends with benefits, and what can I do to make him want me and no other woman? I also want more communication, to be on his mind 24/7 and to see him more. Any suggestions? BTW, I was going to do lust work but I was in fear that sex will be the only thing he'll end up wanting and I want more than just sex, I want us to be a passionate couple straight out of a romance novel (hehe).

Dragonfly72 · Unread post by **Dragonfly72** » Sun Jul 13, 2014 12:02 pm

Hey, TheBestest, I can relate to you fully! However, what I realized is that we cannot get everything quick enough, correct me if I'm wrong. I was working on this guy more than that, and the work ig just now getting somewhere. I realized that I should focus on one thing at a time, starting from the most urgent/important one...I know it will takes a lot more time still, but I'm ready to work more and to be patient, as long as I am heading in the right direction. I am seeing it as a pyramid, laying out the base and going higher and higher, one step at a time... It's impressive where you are right now, so don't stop, but continue the good work you are doing as I believe you're getting a lot closer to your goal...Good luck and keep us posted!

Thank you so much, St-Anthony, you're great!
Thank you St-Martha!
Thank you St-Jude!
Thank you St-Peter for opening up the roads!

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Sun Jul 13, 2014 5:21 pm

Dragonfly72 wrote:Hey, TheBestest, I can relate to you fully! However, what I realized is that we cannot get everything quick enough, correct me if I'm wrong. I was working on this guy more than that, and the work ig just now getting somewhere. I realized that I should focus on one thing at a time, starting from the most urgent/important one...I know it will takes a lot more time still, but I'm ready to work more and to be patient, as long as I am heading in the right direction. I am seeing it as a pyramid, laying out the base and going higher and higher, one step at a time... It's impressive where you are right now, so don't stop, but continue the good work you are doing as I believe you're getting a lot closer to your goal...Good luck and keep us posted!

Thank you so much, St-Anthony, you're great!
Thank you St-Martha!
Thank you St-Jude!
Thank you St-Peter for opening up the roads!

Thanks for your reply. I actually am pretty impressed wuth how far I have gotten with this love work because normally Im not the most gifted in this area, BUT with this situation I told myself I CAN DO THIS. HE'S GOING TO BE MINE! I hope your situation comes into fruition and you get everything you want with the situation

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Sun Jul 13, 2014 6:28 pm

A little bit of non magic here...
Tease, tease, tease. Work him up but don't let him have all the goodies for a little while now.

Meanwhile magic wise, another skull candle, a poppet, Picture box. Lots of things like that. But I do agree with Dragonfly, work out which is most important and work that first.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Sun Jul 13, 2014 8:02 pm

Shantilly Lace wrote:A little bit of non magic here...
Tease, tease, tease. Work him up but don't let him have all the goodies for a little while now.

Meanwhile magic wise, another skull candle, a poppet, Picture box. Lots of things like that. But I do agree with Dragonfly, work out which is most important and work that first.

Thanks Shantilly, and Im still unfamiliar of how to do a poppet and picture box.Can you give me tips on them?

Dragonfly72 · Unread post by **Dragonfly72** » Mon Jul 14, 2014 2:54 pm

I do agree with you, Shantilly, but what to do if someone is lazy to start with? Definitely tease them, but don't expect them to run after you...;(

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Mon Jul 14, 2014 5:02 pm

Dragonfly72 wrote:I do agree with you, Shantilly, but what to do if someone is lazy to start with? Definitely tease them, but don't expect them to run after you...;(

Yea see now this I agree with! Sometimes even the person has a very busy schedule but then again I feel like if they really want you no matter what they will come running unless their pride gets in the way.

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:37 pm

Ok, that is where the magic can help, the Follow Me Boy and things like this.
Ugh I also tend to believe that if us ladies chase, then the male tends not to value us as much, we are not the prize. We should be the prize.
I also know that if someone really wants us they will find a way to contact us. Always no matter how busy their schedule is they will find time to flick us a text even if they can't phone us.

Take for example my Dear One. I am not even trying to reconcile with him anymore, he is with another, BUT he cares for me. He managed to phone me while he was away with his GF. He lives with her and yet is able to find time to text me, or send me IMs. He had to unfriend me on FB so he created another account to be able to be able to contact me. When I have been out with others and they have been interested they are able to make time for you no matter how busy they are.

You want them interested and you want them to like you but you also need to be the prize. Look at the names 'Follow Me Boy', 'Come to Me', 'Love Me' you make yourself available for them but you aren't chasing after them. They come to you, they follow you, they love you (hopefully you love them too...). If they work for your "affections" then they will want them more and more likely value you.

Tease any man the right way (using the Luck Mojo products to assist) and he will follow you and be blind to anyone else.

Dear One doesn't fully understand why that even though he is with Miss "Hot Body" that he still wants me in his life. He has had plenty of women over his time, he is quite charismatic but he thinks of me and is drawn to me. We may never be together again, but I am the one he won't forget, the one he will always wonder about because I am a mystery to him and I do still tease him a little. I value myself.
I am absolutely there for him as I care for him and love him but he also knows I won't take his nonsense and he has to treat me well. he respects me.

Now I'm not saying don't have sex, that is one of the fun things, lol, but having sex with a male will not generally tie them to you the same way it binds us to them emotionally. But make him work for it a little. Turn him on and then walk away, laughing lightly. Then watch how lazy he is...
Do that candle work, use those oils have that mojo, but don't forget your best secret weapon... YOU.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Tue Jul 15, 2014 6:48 am

Shantilly Lace wrote:Ok, that is where the magic can help, the Follow Me Boy and things like this.
Ugh I also tend to believe that if us ladies chase, then the male tends not to value us as much, we are not the prize. We should be the prize.
I also know that if someone really wants us they will find a way to contact us. Always no matter how busy their schedule is they will find time to flick us a text even if they can't phone us.

Take for example my Dear One. I am not even trying to reconcile with him anymore, he is with another, BUT he cares for me. He managed to phone me while he was away with his GF. He lives with her and yet is able to find time to text me, or send me IMs. He had to unfriend me on FB so he created another account to be able to be able to contact me. When I have been out with others and they have been interested they are able to make time for you no matter how busy they are.

You want them interested and you want them to like you but you also need to be the prize. Look at the names 'Follow Me Boy', 'Come to Me', 'Love Me' you make yourself available for them but you aren't chasing after them. They come to you, they follow you, they love you (hopefully you love them too...). If they work for your "affections" then they will want them more and more likely value you.

Tease any man the right way (using the Luck Mojo products to assist) and he will follow you and be blind to anyone else.

Dear One doesn't fully understand why that even though he is with Miss "Hot Body" that he still wants me in his life. He has had plenty of women over his time, he is quite charismatic but he thinks of me and is drawn to me. We may never be together again, but I am the one he won't forget, the one he will always wonder about because I am a mystery to him and I do still tease him a little. I value myself.
I am absolutely there for him as I care for him and love him but he also knows I won't take his nonsense and he has to treat me well. he respects me.

Now I'm not saying don't have sex, that is one of the fun things, lol, but having sex with a male will not generally tie them to you the same way it binds us to them emotionally. But make him work for it a little. Turn him on and then walk away, laughing lightly. Then watch how lazy he is...
Do that candle work, use those oils have that mojo, but don't forget your best secret weapon... YOU.

Now when you put it all like this, I FULLY UNDERSTAND! I have been the one always contacting HIM with the exception of the few times I heated up my honey jar, and the day after we had sex (HEHE). I havent really worked with straight Follow me Boy workings but I did use it on my skull candle and in my honey jar but I can see I need stronger. So far the magick has been coming along great but more of his attention, and for him to chase after me is what I need. I feel like I am making profress but still an amatuer with this because this is the first love work I have ever done for myself that is working successfully. Lust forsme reason has akways worked but never full blown love. Also in my honey jar I petitioned for him to cobtact me first daily and wrote about it in the honey jar post or one of the posts regarding love amd someone told me "Who cares who contacts who first??" BUT THIS IS THE REASON WHY... I WANT HIM TO CHASE AND FOLLOW AFTER ME! Thanks Shantily and I would like to PM you because I really could use all the help I could get!

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Tue Jul 15, 2014 8:18 pm

Oh look, I have contacted Dear One, I just don't do a lot of the initiating. And it is hard, very hard.
For instance he has had a fight with his GF, she hates me, really hates me. He has told me he will cut communication for a while. Ok. I don't argue I don't get upset about it. I would never let him see me flustered at that thought.

I will not contact him until he does me first. unless there is an emergency of course. I do not get angry about it.
I laugh and tell him have fun. I will not make comment on my FB about it. I will continue to carry on as I normally do. When he contacts me. I may even wait a little while before answering (don't want to appear too eager lol) ad when I contact it will be light hearted or answering his text.
I am a contrast to any female he has ever been with. I still get mad, I get teary but I do not do the same tricks other women do.

Dragonfly72 · Unread post by **Dragonfly72** » Wed Jul 16, 2014 5:36 pm

Lucky girls then!!! Not the same situation for me! I'm chased bdon't care and the ones that I do are not moving their finger on, because of several (valid) reasons... The lust I saw, bur never has blown fully either, got scared before going further... Still working, one obstacle at a time, having faith that I'll succeed, as I got enough always to be satisfied with what I'm getting, not what I want and need...If you got something strong and powerful, please share, need more speed on that...Life is going on, but without him the magic is gone...it's all emotional, never got close enough for something more...but just him I need, and I won't satisfy with something less...so if you got any advice, please share...teasing is a go

Thank you so much, St-Anthony, you're great!
Thank you St-Martha!
Thank you St-Jude!
Thank you St-Peter for opening up the roads!

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Wed Jul 16, 2014 10:28 pm

Well you have something happening there, and yes working on the obstacles is the way to go, using the spells to remove those issues, working on yourself to become the best you can be for yourself.

Need comes across poorly, Dragonfly. You should WANT him, there is a saying it goes something like (and excuse me if it's not quite right) "I don't love you because I need you, I need you because I love you"

It sounds the same but it isn't. One is saying I can't be whole right and happy without you, while the other says I am good but you add to my life.
Grief is terrible as is fear.

I was heart broken when Dear One left me (still am some days), we are soul mates but not meant to be this time round or maybe much much later in life. Sometimes I wonder about that but in all honesty if it's meant to be it will happen when it's meant to be.

Putting pressure on another to fulfil your life and make you happy is a terrible pressure. It's a terrible thing to have to live up to.
Dear One is learning a terrible lesson that no one outside of himself can make him happy, putting that pressure on another isn't good. The relationship he is in now is abusive, awful hard to watch and watch I do, as our link is strong he comes to me to tell me all about it. Weird, weird man. lol

I am something he has never encountered in this life. Love. Real love. Not fairy tale stuff, but the love that will carry through years of separation arguments, other partners. It's the deep love of caring and wanting them to be happy even if it is without you there. It is the one where we may not speak for lengths of time and when we see each other it won't matter. He tells me he feels lost without me, he hates the idea of me not being there. So I will be. As his friend and confidante. I will help him with this relationship, I will get mad (because wow she says some things about me, I have seen the texts) and tell him he deserves better, but if he chooses to stay with her I will also roll my eyes and help him through that as well. meanwhile he looks at me and wonders how come I am happy, alone. He wonders why I haven't started dating but am good with that. I could if I wanted but I don't want. He knows this, very aware I could have males hanging off of me (sounds vain but it is also the truth, I may be cuddly but men tend to swarm around me, no clue why). I tell him one day when I get a new man we will sit glaring at each others partners thinking we each deserve better...

So if you NEED this man in your life to make it better, then I am sorry you should be working on yourself so that you don't need him, but you would like him to add to the already full life you have. You want to attract him, you want him to want to look after you but need isn't attractive. Most people do not want that responsibility of keeping someone else happy. It's hard enough when it's your own children let alone an adult.

Dragonfly72 · Unread post by **Dragonfly72** » Thu Jul 17, 2014 3:31 pm

I completely agree with you, Shantilly Lace. And yes, my life is full without him, but he IS my twin flame, and I hurt terribly as he is pulling constantly away... Unfortunately he is not realizing it, at least not like me, so he shares less and less with me, shutting me literally down, which results in me hurting more and more, and needing him. I need him as I love him, and I have enough of satisfying myself with others which are not suited well for me, which I DO know, but being with them as they are loving me...And the worst is that when he cracks (which happens periodically) and shares with me how insatisfied he is with his GF, and I ask him exactly that, arent't we deserving enough to have each other now, in this lifetime?! He says that he is not there yet... How much more should I wait, how much more work is required by me to be together for good?! I am feeling that he is pulling away...and still I believe, I am feeling that we are destined to be together in the future, but in the short term it doesn't look this way...And I am leaving him drifting further and further, and I cannot lose this connection, so I am still the one which keeps the flame going, but trying at least not to push him... I've heard that sometimes men are afraid of strong emotoinal connection, so they are pulling away to resource themselves, and come back. I don't know if it is true or BS, as I've never wondered before, didn't cared enought...So, some bad days I am wondering if there is not a better solution, to cut and clear everything, and to go away from him (which I tried in the past without success several times, it was as if the Destiny brought me back to him!). If there are so many obstacles, but we are destined to be together, then why HE is not doing something for me too, why things are not going the right way?! Maybe because this is NOT the right way, and the doubt creeps...And, afterwards, just happening to look into his eyes, I'm seeing my other half, and I remember again how important all this is to me. Oh, I can live without him at all, but at the same time, there are some financial obligations that attach me to him, that I cannot ignore. And every time that there is a way for me to sever all ties, he ties me to him again, by blocking my exits himself, with actions. So I wonder if he is so cruel to keep me close to him just for his ego when he should feel how much I hurt. So, yeah, it's kinda complicated. I am doing readings constantly, checking them against another reader just to ensure that I'm objective enough, but all of them point that we will be together somewhere in the future. I hope not before our deathbeds, as it will be quite late to enjoy life as soulmates! My happiness level is quite low, which weakens my work, I know that, and I feel quite exausted lately, physically and psychically. I wonder if it's possible to curse someone ith a very strong curse to make him feel what I am feeling, which he is responsible for. He is shielding himself from all responsibility and tries seriously to convince himself that he is not doing any wrong by playing this "yo-yo" game with me...I've read also somewhere that for both twin flames to shine, one is playing the chaser, and the other is the runner, and that quite often the chaser is the woman. I have enough to be the chaser! That's why I tried to dominate him and to show him what a real love is, as his heart right now is completely locked. I know that he is very strong, a lot stronger than me, but I believe that where there's a will, there's a way, and I'm searching still for the way to go. I agree that neediness is not sexy, so I'm trying not to show any, but I believe he is "picking it up" from me somehow, as he is feeling my sorrow and my happiness... I am working with St-Anthony to find him and bring him to me, St-Anthony is helping me and giving me constantly signs, but it doesn't look like it will take 3 months, and the movements sems like regressing...Still I am working a honey jar and a break-up jar... He looks like hoodooed by his GF, I believe it was unintentional from her part, as she is not into Hoodoo or anything else. Also asked St-Peter to open up roads/avenues for me; to open his heart to my love, if it's feasible (never heard of St-Peter doing this, but why not? His name is constantly popping out in front of me). So please advise what else to try or who to petition, quite open minded right now...

Thank you, St-Anthony, my gentle keeper! Blessed be your name! Please continue your wonderful work!