Spells to Make Someone Think of Me Desire Me Be Obsessed With Me

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Wed Apr 16, 2014 4:35 am

Miss Aida wrote:Kaboodle and The Bestest,
I have edited both posts in which Kaboodle had mentioned someone's name not affiliated with Lucky Mojo, AIRR, or Hoodoo Psychics.
The Bestest, you had just quoted Kaboodle (and I'm sure you didn't see it)
Kaboodle, PLEASE read the forum rules. This is a form of advertising someone else (which is against the forum rules).
Thank you

I apologize, no I didn't see it. Thank you for not chewing me out. All I saw was that she needed help. Again I apologize

winkaway · Unread post by **winkaway** » Wed Apr 16, 2014 5:03 am

Hello...

Looks like this thread hasn't had much love in awhile so I'm hoping somebody sees this.

I have a ex I'm trying to get back with. He is currently with someone. I actually did a break up spell on them, and was told by a couple psychic's that they will break up.. but they didn't say when. I have a feeling it will be awhile. He seems really into her. I'm also concerned because I know he wants a baby, which was one of our dreams together. I know they have been intimate, so I'm afraid of that happening with them before they break up.

So I was wondering if it's okay to do a honey jar spell on him and maybe a red couple's candle before he has even ended his relationship. I see him drifting farther and farther away from me and I feel helpless. We used to talk and Skype daily, now it's maybe a 10 min phone call every three days.

I want to get his mind off her and to thinking more about me. I've looked at different spells, but nothing really fits my situation. There's also so many different oils, I wouldn't know which to pick. Any idea's would be great. Something to get him thinking about me, maybe even obsess over me..
I know that sounds horrible, but I feel like I'm losing him.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Wed Apr 16, 2014 10:41 am

winkaway,

Well you continue your breakup work, but I would consider skull candle work to put thoughts of you in his mind along with Bewitch, and Follow me boy work. All of these methods have somewhere caused obsession for some.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 17, 2014 9:16 pm

Hello, winkaway ,

TheBestest has given you VERY good advice.

Also, sometimes, you have to keep working spells.

Note that you are working TWO types of spell at once. One you SAY is for attention and obsession -- the subject of this thread -- but it is actually for return and reconciliation. The other is a break-up spell. There is a useful thread in this forum that may be more on point for you than this thread is. It is about working a break-up at the same time as a love spell. It is in the break-up section of the board:

Break Up and Love / Reconciliation at the Same Time
break-up-and-love-reconciliation-at-the ... 8s120.html

Additionally, here is a vast array of love spells that Miss cat has generously provided for us at her web site:

Love Spells
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

I am sure that you will find something on this page

Take care

winkaway · Unread post by **winkaway** » Fri Apr 18, 2014 10:42 pm

Thank you to you both Miss Aida and TheBestest!! Much appreciated

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Sat Apr 19, 2014 3:01 pm

winkaway wrote:Thank you to you both Miss Aida and TheBestest!! Much appreciated

Your very welcome and good luck and if you haven't done so already, remember to set a time frame for all of your spell work! Please give us all a update

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Sun Apr 20, 2014 1:39 pm

Hm, so I've been told that I should remake my picture box once I get better personal effects from my man. How should I lay or dispose of the old one?

Unread post by **deaconmillett** » Mon Apr 21, 2014 9:22 am

I like burying love work under a living tree or bush, so that the energy can continue to "grow."

In your case, Ravenmaven, placing it in a potted Rosemary plant would be a nice choice.

Many blessings,

Deacon Millett

Pwincess Buttacwup · Unread post by **Pwincess Buttacwup** » Thu Apr 24, 2014 2:39 pm

What a fun and interesting spell.

Should one work this spell for a set number of days - for example, like novenas or other spells that are prescribed for 9 days, 7 days, etc.
Or like, say, honey jars and shaking bottle spells, is this picture spell worked indefinitely until one feels ready to ritually dispose of it?

lily-ana · Unread post by **lily-ana** » Fri Apr 25, 2014 10:39 am

Hello,

What LM products do you recommend to make a man who is a serial cheater become someone's "love slave" (infatuated/obsessed) that they cannot eat/sleep or be in peace without that person in their lives. I want him to basically kiss my ass - he really hurt me and now I want to give him a taste of his own medicine.

I don't even care if he has other women with the spell - now he becomes my "b*tch (buys me things, whatever) with the help of LM products. I want revenge!

Note: I can see him, go to his home etc., but I no longer have any personal concerns - but can get them if necessary.

Thanks!

P.S. I know it would be healthier to just "forget and move on", and I will - but right now, I want him to know what it feels like to be treated the way he treated me and women in general.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Fri Apr 25, 2014 3:30 pm

lily-ana,

Honestly you have to be really careful with the obsession work, but if you are dead set on this then. you can work some skull candle work using Follow me boy, bewitching, and compelling oils, honey jar spell, work with Saint Martha to dominate him.

Nrmally I wouldn't recommend this so please as a LAST RESORT you can try intranquil spirit BUT again please use that as a last resort bwcause that can turn all types of bad for you.

Hope this helps.

BlakPrincessUK99 · Unread post by **BlakPrincessUK99** » Fri Apr 25, 2014 5:45 pm

Great advice Bestest,

I would add Bend over products. I would disagree with IT as this is a spirit that will torment your target until he returns to you unchanged and highly pissed. IT may also affect you as well. Jezebel, Cleo May and bendover products would probably serve you better.

Keep us posted

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Apr 26, 2014 8:39 pm

Hello, Pwincess Buttacwup,
I like to work things until I FEEL (which is spirit talking) that it's ready to be deployed/disposed.
When I light candles on things, I deploy once I get good wax symbols.
Take care!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Apr 26, 2014 9:46 pm

Hello, lily-ana ,
You got GREAT advice from TheBestest and BlakPrincessUK!!!
Wishing you the best on this!

winkaway · Unread post by **winkaway** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 12:04 am

In all honesty, I want the same results. The man who I mentioned above in previous posts is who I want to target. Without going into detail, he is deserving of it.
My questions are this..
I am thinking of doing a honey jar spell. I wanted to go off a spell I've seen on youtube. She added a little honey to the bottom of her jar. She took part of a cigar and wrapped pictures of both people face to face around the cigar with their names written on the back. She then took some snake skin and wrapped it around the pictures. I don't have snake skin, so wasn't going to use it. She took red twine and wrapped it around all this real good and tied three knots in it. She then put this in the jar. Then she added 7 cloves, magnetic sand, almond essence, rush oil, ground cinnamon, faramones and an attraction oil. Then she covered it all with more honey.
So I wanted to kick it up a notch so I get the same results as this person above me. I wanted to add follow me boy, bend over, bewitched.. and is come to me an attraction oil? Oh and would reconciliation oil be good since we were once together?
As for herbs, any suggestions? I was thinking rose buds?

And with the saint, is there a prayer that needs to be said to that saint, or simply mentioning it when I state my intention?
Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 4:33 am

winkaway,

Regarding following Youtube vids from unknown people, please take caution. As for the original question I have never heard of this method being used for a honey jar.

Come to me is an attraction oil and the three oils you mentioned (Follow me boy, Essence of Bend-Over, and Bewitchng), are fine! Oh and try Catnip, Lavender, and Balms of Gilead and the Rose buds are great too.

As for the saint, are you referring to Saint Martha? There is a thread on here that shares the prayer/novena to Saint Martha with much added info, but remember her Novena is to be said for 9 consecutive Tuesdays, so patience is a must when working with her or any other work.

I wanted obsession once. At times still do, but I'll l think this can go very wrong so when you make out your petition please be careful as to how you word things. Obsession can leads to stalking, and worse rape and murder.

Just my two scents but I hope some of what I shared helps.

winkaway · Unread post by **winkaway** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 9:28 am

Thank you for the response. I appreciate it.
I figured if I didn't give a youtube link I was okay, but I wont mention it again.
I'll give that a shot.

winkaway · Unread post by **winkaway** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 3:28 pm

The only oils I don't have handy are Essence of Bend-Over and Bewitching. I do have Follow Me Boy and Come To Me. But I got the balm of gilead buds, magnetic sand, catnip and rosebuds.

I'll give this a shot. I had a reader tell me that I might need something stronger than a honey jar. In her words.. "you need something to hit him like "pow" lol. So I don't know, but I'll give it a shot. He's worth it to me.

If that doesn't work, do you have any suggestions on something with "more pow"? lol

Tuesday (tomorrow) is a new moon, so I wanted to do it then. I was told it will be at around 4:45 am MST.

I'm also doing a red couples candle (forget what its called) rubbed with follow me boy and come to me. And would I only rub that on his side?

And a glass encased candle dressed with both oils and the herbs I have.

3 spells for him at once.

I was thinking next thing would be a spell kit since everyone here raves about them.

This guy told me he doesn't think we can ever be more than friends...which hurts.

I want to try...really try before giving up on the one man I ever truly connected with.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Apr 29, 2014 9:32 pm

Hello, winkaway,
I've never heard of this spell so can't advise you on anything about it.
Additionally, we don't sell some of the products that you have mentioned. And, as you know, this forum is to advise folks on how to use Lucky Mojo products. So, please heed the forum rules regarding this arena.
Therefore, I will agree with you about Lucky Mojo Spell kits. They are WONDERFUL. www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
Take care

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Wed Apr 30, 2014 8:05 am

winkaway,

I too have been told for my situation that I need something stronger and here is some advice that I want to pass along to you. If your guy is an Alpha male, you may barely get thru to him or maybe not at all. That sucks to hear that as well as repeat that.

Also too set up a time frame of how long you want to work on this guy. For me, Im just going at it three months; after which if I dont see my full manifestation I am happily willing to move on.

The products you mentioned are good, and I would DEFINITELY look into LM spell kits as I've been told they are GREAT. Work with them, Saint Martha to help dominate his actions, domination products, and also skull candle. Thats probably the best choices for your situation. Good luck!

erclvrb18 · Unread post by **erclvrb18** » Mon May 05, 2014 9:09 am

would a man using semen on a red skull to anoint for a ex male lover to return work?
simular to how women use there blood for it?

what types of stuff do you need to tell or say to it?
and what kind of prayer?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue May 06, 2014 8:17 pm

Hello, erclvrb18,
Yes, that will work.
If you're talking abut reconciliation work, there are 4 pages of posts to help you here: reconciliation-spell-questions-and-answers-t14715.html
Here is a webpage (written by Miss cat) on reconciliation: www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Here is a information for: "return to me" using-return-to-me-and-reconcile-oil-on ... 4s150.html
www.luckymojo.com/retuntome.html
And here is another link for gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender (13 pages of marvelous posts and help) gay-lesbian-bisexual-transgender-inters ... 4s510.html
Take a look at thee pages. Then, if you have any questions, please feel free to ask us. We are always here for you
Take care

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Wed May 07, 2014 12:11 am

Thank you for the advice, Deacon! I actually have a potted rosemary bush in my garden, so I'll put my current picture box in it once I'm done (and maybe my honey jar, too?)

I actually have some questions for y'all since I'm planning on making a new jar either the day of the coming full moon or roughly two weeks after, during the waxing Friday closest to the next full moon!

1. Is it okay to use a metal tin rather than a glass jar as the vessel? I want to burn candles on it and use its light alongside a honey jar, to work my love doll baby as well as pray over and work in the usual way. This time around I went all-out and ordered full color photos to glue in the picture box, but realized that they probably won't stick as well to glass, especially if I have to apply the glue to the front. So what I'd like to do is glue the backs to something, but a round-ish mason jar like the ones I use for most of my spells might prove too tricky and messy. I have a tall metal tin that has some text on it, but I could paint it red/pink first and then let the outside dry, affix the photos all inside (my plan was to trace the top, bottom, and each side of the tin onto paper and glue the photos onto paper, and THEN glue the paper pieces onto the inside of the box, so it's less fiddly). How does that sound to those of you with more experience with this spell?

2. I was also thinking of powdering the love herbs that I have and some which I'm still waiting on receiving (basically a mixture of coriander seeds, cumin seeds, violet leaves, periwinkle leaves, orris root, calamus root, catnip, cinnamon, rose petals, ground ginger, lavender, juniper berries, lemongrass, and hibiscus; I'm also waiting on some damiana and red clover flowers from LM) and coating the backs of all the photos of me and him+me with the powder, as well as the backs of the two photos of him I'll be using to make the disc. Is that overkill?

3. Last time when I made the photo disc of him the rootworker told me I didn't have strong enough personal effects to tie me to him in this spell or the others I'm working. So I managed to get a pretty generous lock of his hair (at LEAST a couple dozen strands, hooray!) and plan on gluing some in between the two photos. Should I also add some of my menstrual blood of sexual fluids, or do I want only HIS personal effects in this spell? I couldn't find a definitive answer when I searched this thread or the forum/site in general. Also, should I glue one strand or three? Does it make a spell stronger to use more quantity of a personal effect?

Thanks, all!

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Wed May 07, 2014 12:27 am

Oh, I am also writing petitions on the backs of the photos that I'm using to make the picture disc and five-spotting them with LM love oils like Follow Me, Come to Me, Fire of Love, etc.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 09, 2014 8:41 pm

Hello, Ravenmaven,
I'll just answer your questions after the respective question

1. Is it okay to use a metal tin rather than a glass jar as the vessel?

--What you described sounds too complicated and I don't quite understand what you want to do with this tin vessel. What is the purpose of it?

2. I was also thinking of powdering the love herbs.

-- That's fine

3. Do I want only HIS personal effects in this spell? Also, should I glue one strand or three? Does it make a spell stronger to use more quantity of a personal effect?

--Your personal concerns are not relevant in this spell. I wouldn't use glue. I would use honey as the glue and then bind them with pink or red thread. I'd use three hairs.

Zooma · Unread post by **Zooma** » Mon May 12, 2014 11:31 pm

Hi

1) I'd like to know if there are herb and candle spells I can use to have my attorney to like me romantically?

2) Also is there herbs to put in my cologne to have women's attention?

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Tue May 13, 2014 1:26 pm

What is the best food to use in anointing a candle to make someone horny for you?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue May 13, 2014 10:12 pm

Hello, Zooma,

I am going to merge your post to the appropriate thread so that you can see all the recommendations given earlier in this thread.

After that, take a look at this page too:
www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

If you want to learn more about sex and love spells in general, these books are a help:

BOO-GRI-WOWO
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$12.00

Home-Style Hoodoo Spells for Marriage, Sex, and Motherhood.

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://luckymojo.com/womenswork.html

BOO-GRI-DHSM
Down-Home Sex Magic: Hoodoo Spells of Bodily Love by catherine yronwode
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You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://luckymojo.com/downhomesexmagic.html

Finally, if you want to hire a reader or a rootworker, start with these two sites and look them over:

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR)
http://readersandrootworkers.org

Hoodoo Psychics at 1-888-4-HOODOO (HP)
http://hoodoopsychics.com

AIRR and Hoodoo Psychics have their own Facebook pages and you can follow their feed by going to these page and LIKING them.

AIRR Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/ReadersandRootworkers

HP Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/HoodooPsychics

There are two pages at the AIRR site that are also very helpful if you are looking for a reputable root doctor:

Suggestions For Clients
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... or_Clients

Questions to Ask Your Reader, Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ure_Doctor

Also, to avoid scammers, read the HITAP page on

"Readers, Rootworkers, and Black Gypsies"
http://luckymojo.com/blackgypsies.html

and the AIRR page on

"Fake Psychics"
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... e_Psychics

Good luck!

If you have any questions thereafter, please don't hesitate to ask

Wishing you the best

Take care

LaadyLoove · Unread post by **LaadyLoove** » Thu May 15, 2014 5:14 am

Hello, everyone! A few days ago I started a Picture Box Spell. And I need to know if it matters, that the pictures I glued to the box are placed horizontally. They look as if I were lying down. And they are all the same pic. The good thing is that they are really big & show my upper body & face. Can anyone please tell me if those pics are ok? Also, I only put four Reconciliation Oil drops on my target's photo instead of five.

I would be very greatful if someone could solve my doubts. I feel very confident about it, but just have to make sure that I have done it right...
I have been puting a lot of mental energy when praying over it, that's why I feel confident.

BlakPrincessUK99 · Unread post by **BlakPrincessUK99** » Thu May 15, 2014 6:03 pm

maduro01 wrote:What is the best food to use in anointing a candle to make someone horny for you?

Do you mean the best herbs ? Ginger is supposed to spice things up and catnip will make you more alluring.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu May 15, 2014 10:17 pm

Hello, LaadyLoove ,
If you're confident, than spirit is telling you that all is well!
I don't see any problems here. Don't fret over the 5 spot with the oil. At least the oil is on there (and you'll remember next time)
Good luck and please keep us posted with the progress!

LaadyLoove · Unread post by **LaadyLoove** » Sun May 18, 2014 4:22 am

Thank you so much for your reply, Miss Aida! It's very appreciated.
And yes, I will keep you all posted...!

and Blessings

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 18, 2014 5:41 pm

If you only have a picture of the target, will the spell still work with no personal concerns?

Also, if you make it with just the picture, could you add a hair or fingernail later? Thanks.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon May 19, 2014 9:45 pm

Hello, SweetLady ,
If this is all you have, use it. The spell won't be as strong. personal belongings are the strongest links!
Yes, you can add personal belongings later.
Wishing you the best
Take care

Michigangirl75 · Unread post by **Michigangirl75** » Tue May 27, 2014 2:48 pm

Hi I too would like someone to be obsessed with me and desire more ..the guy is not speaking with me right now. I was wondering if I could order Saint Martha candle services through MISC Services and would that be effective as well ..to get him desire me more..Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 28, 2014 9:51 pm

Hello, Michigangirl75,
Absolutely yes!!!!
Wishing you the best

Simplyme · Unread post by **Simplyme** » Thu May 29, 2014 9:18 am

I met a real good guy that at a point we was together every day now just see him everyday some times for a few hours or not even that but not like before. We use to talked several times with us calling each an equal amount of time. I now I will call and then he will take several hours to call me back.

Im going through an divorce and he know I don't want to be back with my husband but sometimes I think he do. He don't come visit we visit at my friend house or his home or just hanging out.

I don't want him to get away with an totally single female unlike myself.

Okay now the bad part is my friend we hang out with was introduced to one of his friends which she protray to not liking him but really showing she like the guy that im seeing. I havent gotten an airr reading but every reading I do get on him says he is crazy about me. Now friend know this but still try to push up on him.

I need a spell to keep the sparks going and to have him thinking about me all the time and always wanting to be romantically involved. I want him to start coming to visit like we do at my friends house. I been knowing him for 20 years dated him before when I was much younger. With all the cheating my husband did. We started seeing each other again 2 1/2 months ago.

I want my friend to stay out his face and to stop calling him. She flirts with him and he constantly puts her in her place but she continues to do it.

Please help me!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat May 31, 2014 7:32 pm

Get an AIRR reading, while you do that put you and him in a honey jar to sweeten each of you to each other. Try and get some personal item such as cum and look into a nation sack. For the friend I would put seperation products on her to keep her and him seperated. I would also do a candle spell with her and a new candle for a new man to draw her to.

hedylamarr87 · Unread post by **hedylamarr87** » Wed Jun 04, 2014 10:53 am

Hello. Here is my situation. Last year, I found this guy online, whom I liked, real time, long ago. Initially, he seemed intrigued by me, but other women who are attracted to him keep trying to sabotage him and me...quarreling with me, and/or him, trying to talk me out of liking him, etc. Other circumstances, i.e. a death of someone close to me, which made me seem so ditzy, the first time we ever chatted, have also made him lose interest.

A month or so ago, we had already agreed to hang out, but he suddenly changed his mind, with a flimsy excuse, and I'm now too mortified to take him up on his alleged "rain check."

I want his initial interest in me revived. He really seemed to be into me, in the beginning. I want him to be obsessed with me. I want us to get involved.

We only communicate online, though. I've not seen him in person for many years.

What products/spells should I use? Thanks so much.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 8:07 am

maduro01

What is the best food to use in anointing a candle to make someone horny for you?

Why would you want to anoint a candle with "food"? I do not understand the reason behind the question.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 8:13 am

Zooma,

1) I'd like to know if there are herb and candle spells I can use to have my attorney to like me romantically?

Yes there are, but you need to assess the situation more deeply: first as with other queries here about engendering lust in a person who is in a professional relationship with you (personal trainer, boss, physician, supervisor, student -- any kind of relationship with firm social and/or legal boundaries -- you may be not only engaging in a spell f enchantment and glamour, but you may have to overcome the target's social and economic reasons for suppressing desire. Try a Fire of Love candle and see what happens. If there is movement, proceed from there.

2) Also is there herbs to put in my cologne to have women's attention?

Yes, John the Conqueror root chips are used for this purpose by men. Other herbs include Catnip, Damiana, and Patchouli.

Good luck!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 8:21 am

hedylamarr87,

It seems to me that before you can work a spell of obsession or desire on this man, you will need to establish a firm foundation of private space, including keeping these "other women" out of the picture. There are spells for that, of course, and you can find them in the Break Up section of this forum.

In addition, you are talking about wanting to bring about a renewal of lost affections and attention. That is last-ditch work, not the work of desire and obsession. There are spells for return and reconciliation in this love and romance section of the forum, but they are in their own thread, not this one.

Also, if you are "too mortified to take him up on his alleged 'rain check'" then it seems that you are not fully intent on gaining your objective. In other words, something that a strong strategist and long-term planner would view as a temporary set-back, you see as a complete stoppage of your work, which is to allure and entrance him into obsession.

It may be that you do not actually understand what spells for desire and obsession are. They are not a switch in someone's mind that you turn on or off to your advantage. They are states of mind that you cultivate and bring to the fore through selective works of allure, bewitchment, enchantment, sexual innuendo, scent or verbal cues, binding, tying, and mental suggestion. It's a big job of work, and it is not for those so faint of heart that they will not "take him up on his alleged 'rain check'".

I could give you a list of products and spells, but i think that at this oint you are insufficiently self-empowered to undertake the requisite work. Here's a list:

Bewitching: http://luckymojo.com/bewitching.html
Come To Me: http://luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Commanding: http://luckymojo.com/commanding.html
Essence of Bend-Over: http://luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html
Fire of Love: http://luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html
Follow Me Boy: http://luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
I Dominate My Man: http://luckymojo.com/idominatemyman.html
Love Me: http://luckymojo.com/loveme.html

Work with any of these or a mix of 4 of them in a Rootwork's Special blend on a series of skull candles. Use them to dress gifts you give him. And, above all, if you want more than internet contact, you will have to seize you courage and get in physical contact with him.

Good luck!

hedylamarr87 · Unread post by **hedylamarr87** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 5:21 pm

For Ms. catherineyronwode

Thank you very much for your reply.

I believe I need to explain a few things, so my earlier post would be taken in the right context.

You see, I'm from a different culture, where it's the men who are seen as the pursuers. It's not "normal" for women to ask men out. I will explain re: the "alleged" rain check, below.

One time, he was very sick, and asked me to accompany him to have a snack and buy some stuff, and I was trying to persuade him to stay home, for his own sake. He ended up going alone, instead, and I felt really bad I didn't accompany him.

So I took him up on that, but as I had mentioned, he cancelled. I say "alleged" rain check, because his excuse was so flimsy,
that I felt he was just sugar coating it. He changed his mind. He never brought it up again, even though we had talked about other things.

He doesn't want to see me.

I don't know if I said or did something, aside from what I've mentioned, or if someone poisoned his mind against me. I can't know for sure. I can't trust our common friends, especially the women, who also seem to fancy him. I will check out the "Break Up" section you mentioned, thank you...although I don't know specifically who might be interfering, or whom he might be seeing. I hope I'll find the answers there. Thank you very much for the info.

It's not that I'm "faint of heart," it's just that I need to work within the structure of our culture, and to what he
is accustomed. He enjoys my sense of humor, and we have many common interests, but he hasn't indicated that he wants to see me again. He's quite old fashioned, and set in his ways. If I try to ask him out, I know he would say no, and I would be humiliated.

I can't go to places where I know he goes. A woman I knew who was smitten with him tried this, and he didn't bite. He even changed his schedule, and where he goes, just to avoid her.

He is headstrong when he wants something, conversely, also when he *doesn't* want something.

I'm really determined. I really like him, and no one else. He is the one I want.

This is why I was hoping to find some way to make him like me again, like in the beginning, and hopefully have him
be the one to take initiative, to want to see me again.

I hope this clearer picture would be helpful. Please tell me if this changes the approach you suggested I take.

Thanks again for your time.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 8:31 pm

Hedylamarr87,
What are you talking about?
If you're talking about a private message, you are on the WRONG thread.

hedylamarr87 wrote:Hello. I got a notification that I got a new reply, but I can't seem to find it. Please point me in the right direction. Thank you very much.

hedylamarr87 · Unread post by **hedylamarr87** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 11:54 pm

Miss Aida

Hello. I must have received a notification on this thread, for my own later post/reply. I didn't realize that it would notify me re: my own post.

Apologies re: any confusion I may have caused anyone.

Charisma · Unread post by **Charisma** » Wed Jun 18, 2014 12:18 pm

Hi everyone had quick question has anyone used Fire of Love products and what was the outcome. Looking for some sort of idea on how long after a successful burn to see results (shouldn't I see a sign durning the burning or after the burn) and what should I look for on a stuborn person. Prior to Fire of Love I have worked Attraction & Come to me but not noticing much change. In the past I have see actual movement shortly after a burn. All candles & reading his pointed in my favor as being successful but this is a very headstrong older gentleman and I'm wondering is this why I see veryyy slow movement in the natural.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Wed Jun 18, 2014 1:09 pm

Charisma,

Everyone is different. As you know you should usually see signs from 3 days, 3 weeks to like 3 months. im being older and stubborn as you put it may be the reason why its taking a little longer but you still have to give it time. I have not used Fire of love but I believe its used to ignite loving feelings, and lust so to speak. Good Luck I wish I could give you more info but seriously just give it more time. If you still unsure as to whats goibg on, then get another reading.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Jun 18, 2014 3:46 pm

You are correct TheBestest and Fire of Fire is so much more. With the name "Fire" it is used to "heat up" matters of love. Further, reading its label inspires "attraction, romance, desire, love, passion, etc etc all leading to empowered sexual satisfying relationships.

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Best of luck.

patientlywaiting · Unread post by **patientlywaiting** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 12:56 pm

starsinthesky7,

I will be doing the same, I am hopeful for the same outcome!

coastwitch · Unread post by **coastwitch** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 1:01 pm

As far as I know, when it comes to spells of desire, the best ever ingredient is sexual fluids -- semen if you are a man and vaginal fluids (in which menstrual blood is included, but is not the exclusive one). Feeding these directly to your lover is powerful. Such spells will not overcome a bad temper, depression, or a tendency to cheat, but they certainly increase desire, in my experience.

Pink kisses · Unread post by **Pink kisses** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 5:05 pm

Hmm.
I made a picture jar for someone to think of me. I have no idea if it's working. I'd like to thinki it is, but I just realized (after reading this thread) that I should be living candles on it, and shaking it/talking to it. Oops.
But I'm scared to light a candle on top of the hat I have because it's heart shaped. And with the aluminum foil, the top isn't very flat. I don't want to light a candle and then have the candle fall.

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 6:27 pm

Melt a little wax on top and the candle will sit just fine.

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Mon Jun 23, 2014 9:38 am

I would have started a new thread, but I wasn't sure if it was going to end up attached to this one or not.

Basically, I divulged my doings here to my best friend and now she wants to do some things. She's in a similar situation to me, which is why I told her. Buuuuuuuuuuuuut. She is VERY different than me and doesn't want to do things in a shall we say "a nice way". She wants this man to come back to be with her ASAP, put her up in an apartment, take care of her in all ways and be crawling around on the floor if he's away from her for 2 minutes. Now that said, she doesn't want him to leave his wife or break him financially (he has plenty of money), she just wants the satisfaction of making him do all of this for a year or 2, she doesn't care if he truly wants to be there or not.

That said, how would she do this? I'm doing a Picture Box Spell, a Come to Me Spell and a Red Skull Spell (I like my guy, however, lol). What same/different would she do to accomplish her goals?

TIA!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jun 23, 2014 9:39 pm

Hello, lattequeen,
I can't speak for her and tell you exactly what she is doing.
But my educated guess is that she's doing commanding spells: www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
Controlling: www.luckymojo.com/controlling.html
www.luckymojo.com/doasisay.html
www.luckymojo.com/domination.html
Etcetera, etcetera.....
She may even be working with St Martha the Dominator.
Just a guess here
Take care

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Mon Jun 23, 2014 10:13 pm

Thank you, Miss Aida. Am I correct in thinking that slow, soft and easy wins the race and will get her what she wants long term?

Or can her hard and fast approach work?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jun 24, 2014 3:39 pm

Hello, lattequeen ,
They can both work.
Maybe she ought to perform the spell both ways?
Take care

LoveFlows2Me · Unread post by **LoveFlows2Me** » Sat Jun 28, 2014 8:59 am

Thank you Miss Aida, I never thought about Tranquility or Clarity...He's long term commitment shy because he thinks it'll hamper his progress with his career which has been his main focus the last couple years (he's a singer/songwriter) So he's on the road a lot but only for couple days at a time. He worries that I'll be unhappy because he doesn't have the time to devote to me in a relationship. He's not good at balancing work & personal life. I fully support him & been very understanding...he just needs a little nudge to remind him you can have both, a successful career and a relationship. Thanks so much for the reply! I will go read about the Tranquility & Clarity candles.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jun 28, 2014 6:54 pm

Love the post and Cats spell using the jar with photos and herbs. Question I have is what bible versus would one use for this type of jar ( rec jar with the ex pic in the middle and pics of you around it with love herbs at the bottom). In general what bible versus do ppl use for rec work would be helpful! Thanks!!

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Tue Jul 01, 2014 10:29 pm

I really like this version. I guess I just like the jar better than the box. Personal preference. But this version makes no reference to personal effects. Are they needed? I probably won't be able to get any until the weekend and even then it's not a guarantee so I can start sooner without them but if it will hurt the effectiveness to not have a hair or two I'd rather wait.

catherineyronwode wrote:spellyshelly, don't do that. These items are so easy to make -- just make another one!

Here is a really simple way to make a picture spell in a screw-top Mason jar. Punch a hole in the lid with a nail before you start. Keep the nail you used to poke that hole. You will need it later on. A headless finishing nail is best, and it should be no longer than the lid of the jar is wide, as you will see.

Inside the jar you will make a representation of your target. It can be a waxen doll or, more simply, two photos of the person glued back-to-back with a loop of string coming between the two pieces of paper, like the way kids make simple disc-shaped Christmas tree ornaments out of construction paper. Cut out a circular view of the target's face. Use digital print-outs or photocopies, not original photos. Both sides are the same image. Remember that the disc has to be small enough to fit in the mouth of the jar.

The string is a loop, tied at the end. It is positioned on the back of one paper, which has been covered with glue, so that the loop of string sticks out at the top. The second piece of paper is then pressed onto the first and the disc is put under a book to dry nice and flat. What you end up with is a double-sided picture of the person on a hanging-loop.

While the picture-disc is drying, collect images of yourself. Collage them together all over the outside of the jar, and the bottom of the jar and inside the lid of the jar, but if you cover over the hole you poked in the jar lid, you will need to poke trough that again with your nail, to keep it open. And hang onto the nail; you will need it again.

Once everything is glued and dried, take the little "ornament" disc and thread the loop through the hole in the jar-lid, from the underside to the outside. Wetting it with spit may may this easier. As soon as the loop is outside, run the nail through the loop, which will prevent it from falling back inside the jar. This is why a headless finishing nail it best -- it lays down flatter than a nail with a head on it.

Now you can put some love-herbs, influence herbs, or sugar in the jar -- but not too much. This is optional. For suggestions on herbs, please see the web page Hoodoo at a Glance, here:

Hoodoo at a Glance
http://luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

Now wrap the entire jar, including the lid and the fastening nail, in tin foil, shiny side inward. The jar is now sealed and ready for you to use. Shake it around and the disc will jump around inside the jar in such a way that the target will see only you.

Good luck.

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Jul 02, 2014 11:25 am

Hello Kmew1315,

I would definitely get some personal concerns if you can. The closer the personal concerns you can get the stronger the link to your target. You could also dust the pictures you use with powders. Use some Come TO Me powders or Look Me Over powders. Look through all the love drawing type powders and see which ones seem best suited to your situation. You can (I would) use more than one type and mix them together. Follow Miss Cat's "Narrative of Intention" she outlines on this page. http://www.luckymojo.com/oilblends.html

Hope this helps!

Peace~

Nathen