Menstrual Blood Magic Questions and Answers

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 10:06 am

Macbaby wrote:How do I address the root of my problem? What should I do? Is there anything I CAN do? He's stuck because of his 'responsibilities'.

Well, the root of your problem is that he is still with his wife and you don't want him to be. You could break up his marriage but you'll probably have to do that yourself as most professional rootworkers won't touch a situation like that. Frankly, his reasons for staying are copied straight from the adultery handbook and I highly doubt he feels any responsibility or sympathy towards this woman or his children.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 10:07 am

Several years ago, I was involved with a married man. We were both in the military in Germany; I was stationed there and he had managed to get temporary duty there three years in a row. His wife was in the US. He kept going back and forth as to whether he wanted a divorce. I finally told him that his wife was probably filing the divorce papers; sure enough she was and left them under the Christmas tree for him. Not only that, but she had spent the money he sent home instead of paying the bills, so he was stuck with those too. I wasn't the only one he was fooling around with either.

A married man will say anything like "my wife and I haven't had sex in months," "she let herself go," "I'm only staying married for the kids," "I love you," etc., etc., etc. Take Mary's advice and kick him to the curb. Do a Cut and Clear NOW, and start building up your self-esteem so you can find a real man who is free to have a real relationship.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:10 pm

I agree with everyone. What someone will do for you...they will do to you. Why would he leave his wife now... I mean he pretty much is having his cake and eating it too. I mean if it didn't bother you before then why would it bother you now. Not to mention....you are probably not the only one. I mean menstrual blood is not only for binding, it actually adds power to spells such as love spells, and power spells. But in this case it might take more work than it is worth. I mean you could spend an substantial amount of time doing break up spells, but really it would be wiser to just move on. I know thats not the answer you are looking for, but it is the best thing to do.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:32 pm

Eh...I doubt it will take much money or time to actually break up the marriage. Once the wife finally catches him, she'll kick him out. If he's been doing this kind of thing for years, it's really only a matter of time.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 8:11 pm

I have tried to move on but he refuses to let me go. I know this sounds incredible, but it's true. This is even after his wife "found out" about us! Of course he denied the whole thing and she desperately believed him.

He tells me he wants me in his life to any degree, whatever I'm okay with and whatever I'm willing to give him. I don't understand that!! We are not even having sex anymore, but he is in regular contact with me and we see each other platonically once a week. We have a long and complicated 2 year long story of being on and off...I just don't understand what he wants or needs from me.

Without any judgement, what could the effect of feeding him my menses possibly be in a situation like this?? Some effect? No effect? I almost want to bind his nature to only me to make him realize what he has done! It's not right to play with someone's emotions for 2 long years. I asked this question in another thread, but I do have a paper towel with his dried semen on it. I wonder how I can use that?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 11:18 pm

Well...that might be true. But most women know what kind of man they have when they get them. I am sure this woman has caught him a time and again, but she does not want to leave him for the kids sake or whatever it is. So just because she catches him doesn't mean she will leave him. Some woman that have low self-esteem, or think they can change a man because he says he is sorry...stick around unfortunately.

thelightfantastic wrote:Eh...I doubt it will take much money or time to actually break up the marriage. Once the wife finally catches him, she'll kick him out. If he's been doing this kind of thing for years, it's really only a matter of time.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 11:26 pm

Honestly, I can not say why he wants you and "needs" you. But if you want to teach him a lesson....cut him off. That is how you teach a person that plays with a person's emotions. But I do not even think that is your true intention considering you want to bind his nature to only you, and use his semen. I mean feeding him your menstrual blood could have any one of those effects, but without you stopping him from physically keeping them apart, its just going to be the same thing.Him beening with you and whoever else. I mean binding his nature to you...thats just the sexual part...and that might very well work. But that does not do anything for him leaving his wife...on a physical level nor does it do anything for him being willing to ask for any kind of separation from his wife. This is why I said in my previous response it could take a while to remove him from his wife, and whoever else he is dealing with.

To be frank...this man does not want to leave his wife. What he wants from you...is whatever he can get that the wife is not getting. Stand up strong...and leave him alone. You are strong enough to do it. I would suggest doing a clear and cut, and a crucible of courage to give you the strength and courage to move on and find the love that you deserve. You are worth more than one petty night a week. He may very well love you, but to me this kind of "love" is not enough.

Lastly, I would get a reading on this manner to see if there is any kind of chance to do this work, and to help guide you in what you should do.

Macbaby wrote:I have tried to move on but he refuses to let me go. I know this sounds incredible, but it's true. This is even after his wife "found out" about us! Of course he denied the whole thing and she desperately believed him.

He tells me he wants me in his life to any degree, whatever I'm okay with and whatever I'm willing to give him. I don't understand that!! We are not even having sex anymore, but he is in regular contact with me and we see each other platonically once a week. We have a long and complicated 2 year long story of being on and off...I just don't understand what he wants or needs from me.

Without any judgement, what could the effect of feeding him my menses possibly be in a situation like this?? Some effect? No effect? I almost want to bind his nature to only me to make him realize what he has done! It's not right to play with someone's emotions for 2 long years. I asked this question in another thread, but I do have a paper towel with his dried semen on it. I wonder how I can use that?

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Sat Oct 10, 2009 7:53 am

Look, this guy has managed to get away with having two women at once for two years. He'll be thinking how awesome he is, and that he's some kind of mega stud. He'll be hanging around because it boosts his ego to think that neither you nor his wife will leave him, because he's too freakin' awesome. He hasn't left his wife after two years of shagging you on the side, and he isn't going to do it now. Best thing to do? Tell him to f#!k off. Tell him you don't want to see or speak to him again. Hot foot him out of your life. Then get a better guy, one that understands simple concepts like 'monogamy' and 'fidelity'. This guy doesn't love you. he's using you to make himself feel like a big man. You're better off without him

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 10, 2009 9:37 am

Macbaby, we're not judging you. We know how easy it is to find yourself in to these types of situations; that's why I told my own story. We're on your side. Cut this guy out of your life and start meeting some new friends and getting involved in some social activities where you can meet someone decent. You deserve it.

Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland. Isaiah 43:18-19 (NIV)

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sat Oct 10, 2009 9:38 am

The original poster asked for 'comments without judgment', so I'll respond from that point of view.

I've fed my red to three guys with varying results. One is an ex. boyfriend. After he had the fixed drink, he became a lot more open and affectionate, both physically and in terms of attitude, though we didn't reconcile. The other two are good friends where there're a history of mutual attraction and moments of intimacy. One was single and he came over more often afterwards. The other was married; he stayed attracted and was a good friend and helped me out with things, but our relationship didn't develop (I wasn't hoping for that).

So your menstrual blood should have an impact, but it will not turn the relationship around if there's a reason why he doesn't want to be with you. It won't bind him to you and it won't change his mind.

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:38 pm

I'm not judging you either, you have to live with whatever situation you're in, but it's been said again and again on this forum that all the magic in the world won't change a person's basic nature. So if you think he really wants to leave her, and just needs a push, working on him might do it. If he is perfectly content having his home and hearth and a piece on the side, that won't change. As for the semen question, it's considered one of the stronger body fluids, so if you're going to do a honey jar, love me, or whatever, you would definitely want to use it.

MrsGemini · Unread post by **MrsGemini** » Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:15 am

i'm married to my husband for 3 years been together for 13 and now he has did a 360 on me he use to be kind sweet loving and attenative. now he wants a separation and is cheating with multiple woman this has all started when i was 3 months pregnant on bed rest. now he spends the nights out and doesn't want to spend time with me or the children all he says is he wants to be by himself and this has been going on for months now. what will help me?

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Sun Oct 11, 2009 10:21 am

1) Break up spell
2) Love Spell
3) Binding Spell
4) Spell to make sure he stays loyal to you, tying his nature etc

And if all doesn't go well, a cut and clear, forget the feller.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 11, 2009 1:29 pm

Was he like this before the pregnancy, and the children? I mean you could do a tie his nature to you spell such as a nation sack. I would even get a stay with me spell, and a stay home spell. i would actually get a reading to see what is causing him to go astray. I mean it could be you (for example if you were nagging or just plain pushing him away at times) or he couldve been cheating the whole time. I would go for the nation sack though, and a stay with me spell. considering you are 3 months pregnant...menstrual blood is out of the question.

I would recommend getting a reading to see if any spells will be effective in this situation.

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:44 pm

I would say do a break up spell of some sort and then bind him to you, and a love spell just for good measure

theredc6 · Unread post by **theredc6** » Sun Oct 11, 2009 7:51 pm

I agree with starsinthesky: do a stay with me/stay at home spell but I would add a spell to repell other women from him.

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Mon Oct 12, 2009 12:53 am

Honestly and without judgment, I would like to say that I think you should really do some clarity work to decide what it is you want to do, because while your attitude in your posts seems fairly ambivalent, your ideas, however, (feeding him mens, tying his nature) sound more like reconciliation/lovebinding work. Honestly, if you want him to feel as badly as you did for those two years, cross him and then move on. You'll be stronger for it, and he'll get what's coming to him, though that can often be cold comfort when you think about all the time and love you gave to this man. You can try to force his hand, drive him into your arms using spellcraft (that's been discussed ad nauseum in other threads) but I don't feel 100% sure that's what you're after. I suggest a clarity ritual for yourself (to help you sort out your feelings on the matter) a divination, and perhaps a general honey jar with your mens, a petition for the "right" kind of love, and the appropriate herbs/curios.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:43 am

Is he under any other kind of stress? Could somone else be working on him to cause him to behave like this? Why he is behaving this way will affect the kind of work needed to tie him to his marriage. Have you asked him the reasons why he wants a separation? If he feels trapped, for example, binding him further is likely to make him even unhappier. If he's having a mid-life crisis, binding is more likely to make him settle down. Don't forget mundane options like counseling. Best of luck.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Mon Oct 12, 2009 7:28 pm

Thanks for all the input and advice. I am going to get a reading done to guide me towards how I should handle this situation. I'll keep you all posted!

Prettykila · Unread post by **Prettykila** » Tue Oct 13, 2009 12:57 am

Been there, done that. I was involved with a married man, casted a few spells on him and got him to ingest my menses blood. He became obsessed with me and wanted to be around me all of the time even tho he had 4 kids and a wife at home. He even caught a whiff of my pheremones so strongly that he would sense when I would start my periods, knew them like clockwork and would enjoy the smell of it. (strange I no) The end result? I didnt keep him with me, he ended up moving to the east coast, left his wife and kids and sends emails that he still loves me. In effect, I have/had him but its just strange now...

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Tue Oct 13, 2009 8:22 am

Prettykila, what changed your mind about him?

Prettykila · Unread post by **Prettykila** » Tue Oct 13, 2009 8:24 pm

I have no thrill in it anymore. I loved the attention from him, but gradually as he became more connected to me I pulled away. I found that I became apathetic towards him as he began to show more affection. The pheremones lingered in his psyche but I was the one encountering boredom with the relationship. He just got too obsessively clingy on me. He would always assume that I was being unfaithful, would assume that every text or call that I received was from "my other man." and became very attached to me to where literally everything I thought in my mind he would say vocally. He felt like my soulmate because of this, but deep down I knew tha he wasnt because the relationship and his attitude turned bleh. He emails me things like, "when I see beauty in a sunset I think of you," sort of things to make a woman swoon but im just done with him.

ogriv82 · Unread post by **ogriv82** » Tue Oct 13, 2009 11:16 pm

Hi all...I would like to know if this will work for lesbians as well?

blackforrest · Unread post by **blackforrest** » Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:38 am

i was wondering if feeding menses that has turned brown and its about one month old make a lover repulse u??

from what i know is that the olden days they had no fridge

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:50 am

I keep my menses powdered, and it's great to sneak into snacks like popcorn or crisps.. But I've realised a loophole in my plan- I LOVE eating junk food, and my boyfriend well knows it- we often share a bowl of popcorn while watching the TV, so if I added in my menses and didn't eat any, it may arouse suspicion.

So my question is: Is it alright to take your own menstrual blood? Will this affect me magically in any way?

Thank you

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:12 pm

I don't think it will...you set the intent.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:54 pm

It will not affect you magically how it is going to affect him. The only thing it is going to do is give you more power. Menstrual blood is good for personal power as well.

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Thu Oct 15, 2009 5:56 am

Thank you, it's good to know that it is even beneficial, although the idea of eating my own menses is a *little* disconcerting, lol

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Thu Oct 15, 2009 11:32 am

hiighpriestess wrote:Thank you, it's good to know that it is even beneficial, although the idea of eating my own menses is a *little* disconcerting, lol

This reminds me of great story of a woman who put her blood in the church coffee and her target's family drank it! They LOVED her from that time on. She did not expect the family to drink her special brew, but they did.

Worked wonders actually.

Mary

Avatar · Unread post by **Avatar** » Thu Oct 15, 2009 6:59 pm

Hello High Priestess:

How do you get your menses powdered? Thanks.

blackforrest · Unread post by **blackforrest** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:05 am

so anyone could help answer this?

will foul or 'rotten' blood cause the opposite than to tie him, and cause him to repel??

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:21 am

No it will not have the opposite effect. but you do need to keep it in the fridge. It might still work,but not as strong. I would recommend sticking it in the fridge next time for another use at another time.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 12:22 am

I'm not sure if it will "repel" the target, but if it's rotten or foul, they'll probably be less inclined to consume whatever you try to put it in. I'm also not sure what they did in the "olden days". My guess is they worked with what they could when they could.

blackforrest · Unread post by **blackforrest** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:47 am

cant communicate and he just cant make amends and we are both waiting for one another to make things up.... filled with bitterness but love and longing at the same time.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 2:12 am

Have you gotten a reading about this? The importance of a reading has been stressed upon this forum. I would really recommend getting one to see if this relationship is worth pursuing,and why he went the opposite way rather than reconciling i mean that is what you need to figure out. The spellwork did not cause him to go completely a different direction.

If you believe you are helpless, then you should not be performing your own work. Perhaps you should find someone to give you a reading, and help guide you on what you need to do next.

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 4:34 am

Literarylioness wrote: This reminds me of great story of a woman who put her blood in the church coffee and her target's family drank it! They LOVED her from that time on. She did not expect the family to drink her special brew, but they did.

Worked wonders actually.

Mary

Does that mean her target's family are all sexually attracted to her, since menses blood is meant for love/lust..? haha, such a disturbing thought..

Avatar wrote:Hello High Priestess:

How do you get your menses powdered? Thanks.

Hi there

I collect it using a mooncup,
(similar to a tampon in that it's inserted, but collects the blood instead of absorbing it, which is a god-send when you're trying your damndest to harvest menstrual blood! You can drop me a PM if you're interested in hearing me rave over why it's so awesome

)
then pour it into a dish/bowl to dry (I like using a hairdryer, although it's frowned upon, since it's not a natural process..) then finally scrape it out and grind it up, the whole time focusing on infusing the blood with your intent. I keep the powder in a bottle with some drying agents (silica gel packets) to ensure it doesn't go bad.

It's a lot more convenient to sprinkle just a pinch into your target's food, won't be as pungently-scented as it is as a liquid (I'm sure anyone who has used menses will know what I mean!) and will be more hygienic since it won't rot or decompose..

I hope this helps!
Annabelle

charminmuse · Unread post by **charminmuse** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 7:08 am

...bindings spells are tricky. Binding spells doesnt mean you'll neccassarily enjoy a sweet cozy relationship...his spirit usually senses its trapped and he will start to resent you, and will do everything to stay the hell away from you, he does have free will. In addition, binding spells may bind you on so many levels...psychically bound the two of you may not physically be together, but you think each others thoughts. You two may even be bound together in the next lifetime...or you may break up now, and 5 years later he'll come popping back up...bindings, be careful! Ive never heard of binding spells to turn out quite right...even with putting stipulations on the binding...let me know if there are any bindings that work well....

Prettykila · Unread post by **Prettykila** » Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:36 pm

I honestly, would wait until the next cycle has started to feed him your blood. However, if you have already let him consume you, I would suggest that you wait for him to come around. Though the blood may have been brown, it was still your scent that has entered his psyche. However, if the blood had an odor to it, such as when our menstural blook hits the air, it may have left an indelible imprint in his mind that may have been repulsive. Truth of the matter is that this spell wont work overnight. He needs to recognize your pheremones. As to getting a reading done, make sure that you go to a reputable source, Id recommend you find someone on here that can do one for you and not go to those hippies on the internet that say, "someone has put the evil eye on your love life."

blackforrest · Unread post by **blackforrest** » Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:09 am

i had 2 readings done
and i did a reverse.
doing uncrossing bath everyday

well he wanted to reconcile, we wanted to and was going thru 'working' the issues....
then argued, and shut me out.
so i will just wait and continue honey jar...
i know he still feels for me.
just that we cant communicate.

how nice if there is an oil for communication and one for calming tempers
i know there is a peaceful home, but i wonder if i can use it for relationships...

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sat Oct 17, 2009 2:09 am

I think Starsinthesky mentioned mercury oil for communication in another post, but that's more for making someone talk to you. I've been taught to burn a pink/red candle dressed with a bit of honey, when I get talking with a reluctant target.

If you have your target's hair, try putting it in tranquility oil. Also pray to Angel Raphael for healing of the relationship. Honey jar should work to calm tempers though

Emese · Unread post by **Emese** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:21 am

Hello everybody, first i want to excuse me for my English ( i am beginner)
To: catherineyronwode
Please help me. I meet my husband in my apartment in next 3-4 days. I have mestrual blood in frozen, but he drink just orange juice. I think i can introduce 9 blood drops in one big glass, and he not be observ. But i need some "magic spell" ? I look your site, but i don't see. I try to find a book or some internet site with spells, but i not find. I am from est Europe, here nobody heard magic with blood, so cant help me. Please help me, write that spell, because i am desperate, in august he said he want to move home for some weeks, and now say he want to divorce. I love him, i am housewife, we don't have intimate problem, but i think he have a new girl where he work. I don't know what to do, i love him very much, with all my heart.
Please write the magic spell which i need to use. Or tell me how and were could buy your book in 3-4 days. Or if you don't want public for everybody the magic spell, write me, and i give my personal email-address. But please help me !!!

Emese · Unread post by **Emese** » Tue Oct 20, 2009 10:06 am

Hello,
can somebody help me?
please write to me the magic spell which i say when i introduce the blood in his drink.
thanks.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Tue Oct 20, 2009 12:36 pm

A drop or two of your red would be enough. You don't need a spell to go with using your menstrual blood.

I'd do a cleansing bath if I were in your situation. Get (up to five spoons of) honey, milk and cardamom (either fresh or dried is ok) Heat it, let it cool, then mix it with a bathtub or bucket of water. Pour the water over your head, but rub it upwards on your body. Do it five times. Air dry, put on clean clothes and dispose some of the bath water at a crossroad, if you can. Do it before dawn.

For his upcoming visit, write his full name on a piece of brown paper, preferably torn from a paper bag. Put it in a bowl of sugar or honey. If you can get charcoal disk, burn a bit of cinnamon and honey on it, cense your flat before he comes. It'll give a soothing vibration to your home. Also burn a pink candle dressed with a bit of honey, pray over it, keep it burning when he's there. Don't be all desperate because it'd affect your focus.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Tue Oct 20, 2009 12:37 pm

...remember to pray when you're taking a bath, and when you're disposing the water towards the east (the rising sun).

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Tue Oct 20, 2009 1:34 pm

So, I have had my reading with a worker postponed twice now due to extenuating circumstances. I am going to make my final decision only AFTER the reading at the end of this week, but I have, as of now, decided what I want to do. I need help as to how to go about it!

I know a lot of you have said to get this guy out of my life because he is only going to do to me what he is doing to his wife, but I am also in a relationship. We are both unhappy in our primary relationships and have been getting what we need from each other. And this is NOT only about sex. We just have a strong connection, almost like we are bound to each other, and it was there from the second we met. Now, here is the problem: while I have been consistent in my choices and behavior for as long as we have been seeing each other, he hasn't. He gets really into me....and then he completely pulls back...he gets really into me again....and then he pulls back. I have been riding this roller coaster for 2 years! When he 'pulls back', I have suggested many times for us to just end things if he is so guilt ridden and can't handle our situation, but he says he has to have me in his life. This has been driving me crazy!! If you want me in your life then give it your all and not be so half-assed about it. I understand that giving himself to me completely will tear him in two, due to his family, he has told me before that his kids 'deserve' time and love from him...so I KNOW he is torn. I love him and I have been asking myself what I really want from this situation.

I had seen a psychic about a year ago, who was eerily accurate, and she said that he was completely genuine in his feelings for me, but has his "responsibilities". She also said we were soul mates. If breaking him and his wife up can not only be done, but also justified in that they are not in a good marriage, then that is what I want to do. I need all the help I can get with that. I also want him to completely 'get past' protecting himself and his feelings from me, meaning that I want him to be vulnerable with me and just give himself to me. I want him to be able to only be with me sexually. No more roller coaster!

So, I am wondering all the steps I have to take to make this happen. I have already fed him my menstrual blood a couple of times in his drink (which he actually said both times that it tasted really good!). I have pictures of him and his wife, his business card and his semen dried on a paper towel...I think that's all I have for personal concerns. Pleeeeease help me!!

Emese · Unread post by **Emese** » Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:51 am

cabriellenil, thank you very much. I will try.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Wed Oct 21, 2009 2:26 pm

No one has any suggestions as to what I can do?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Oct 21, 2009 4:34 pm

Well, I see two things from this reading you had
A) The reading wasn't productive since you are still wondering what you should do. (And no disrespect to the person that read for you...Im just saying it wasnt productive in terms of getting your questions answered or perhaps you didnt ask the right questions).

OR

B) The reading told you to leave him alone, and to move on but you do not want to as you are still referencing the reading you had a year ago. Honestly, a year ago is a long time for a reading, and things change especially if you have done some spells against him. Not to sound negative, but just because he is your soul-mate does not mean you will be with him in the long run.

As for advice, you have already gotten a lot of advice already about your situation. I dont see what would have change the situation to get different advice. You are on a emotional rollercoaster, and have been for the past 3 years. If you want to stay on, and continue the same stuff then go ahead. On the other hand, it would be wise to get off while you can. Two years this behavior has not changed, and right now seems you are on the fence about things, but deep down you know what is right.

Magically we have already given you a plan that was outlined for you in the previously in this thread if you would like to do the work on them. Be advised though, this is going to take work, and is probably going to take more than a couple of spell kits. And I can tell the break up part of things is definitely going to take some work.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:43 pm

Here's what I think: Take the first step and dump the person you're in this socalled 'primary relationship' with. Why the heck should he leave his family and his wife if you won't put yourself out there and be completely available? If you want to break up the marriage, fine. You've been given advice upon what to do and how to go about it. But you can't have your cake and eat it too. You should be performing this work as a single woman who is ready to accept a completely committed lover into her life. Not as a hypocrite who is hedging her bets each way. You have no right to complain that this man won't commit to you and only you if you're also in another relationship that you haven't left. You have to pick, and you need to do it before you start working on breaking up this guy's marriage. If you feel that strongly about this man, leave your relationship and start some love work to welcome him into your life. I strongly object to doing work when your actions are at odds with your intent. It WILL blow up in your face.

MrsGemini · Unread post by **MrsGemini** » Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:38 am

i don't stress him never have hes 30 i dont know if that is old enough for a mid life crisis. he is just acting different. i think someone may be working him. i'm going to use the nation sack and stay at home stay with me . if you have any more suggestions please tell me

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sat Oct 24, 2009 9:00 am

If you suspect someone is working on him, definitely get a reading to determine if that's the cause.

30 isn't old enough to have a mid-life crisis, but it's old enough for many to feel "Now I'd really start to live my life after I spent my twenties doing whatever I did". A selfish thought, given the circumstances, but to find out what's really going on, get a reading.

Prettykila · Unread post by **Prettykila** » Sun Oct 25, 2009 8:02 pm

Yeah, I agree with NotDorian. Quite honestly, when I did it, I had no idea what I was getting myself into karma wise. I am bound to him, unfortunately. I did so many spells on the man that I confused his psyche once and he went crazy for me. I recommend that you do something along the lines of a true love spell or a meant to be spell or look into an attraction spell. If you are keen on getting him, well, you should perform a breakup spell on him and the wife. I suggest, as all the others do, that you just do a cleansing of yourself and a road opener so that you can be open to the new and better relationships that may be longer lasting for you. It is no good to hold onto someone that is already attached...after awhile it becomes a chore.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Tue Oct 27, 2009 4:51 pm

So, I had my reading done from one of the readers/rootworkers on AIRR. Given my difficult situation, I was expecting to hear the worst, but the results of my reading were a lot more favorable that I thought they were going to be! I'm almost having a hard believing it, although I don't question my readers ability for a second. She used a regular deck of cards to help answer some of my questions. My question is this: Can what the cards show, or reader interpret or what the spirit guide says ever be wrong?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Oct 27, 2009 5:06 pm

What cards and spirits and other forms of divination show are the most probable futures given the current circumstances. What actions one takes and what decisions are made (and that other people involved in the situation take and make),can shift these probabilities into alternative futures that were not originally forseen.

That being said, if you get a good reading, don't inject a bunch of negative energy into it by doubting it, or over analyzing the info, or by talking to too many people about it...especially if you are going to be working on the results of that reading. Keep the energy clean, work with the advice given by the reader, and trust in the process.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:27 pm

Devi Spring wrote:What cards and spirits and other forms of divination show are the most probable futures given the current circumstances.

So whatever she read about the PRESENT should be taken as absolutely true?

p.s. I am also a fellow Torontonian! I moved to the States a while back now.

gcn2u · Unread post by **gcn2u** » Wed Oct 28, 2009 1:01 pm

I am in a gay relationship and and we broke up, but we recently got back together. He said he loves me and in love with me and said we will work it out together. For some reason 7 days candles seems to work better for me certain time than images I don't know why, but at times the 7 day candles do work better for me. Even though we recently got back together there are 2 concerns of mine. One of them is that he use to live with me, but now he lives back at his family house which at times there is always something going on at his family house and my other concern is trying to bind him to me.

I want him to live back with me and I want to bind him to me

Someone mentioned to me to bury his underwear in the backyard to keep him faithful, bind him, and for him to stay with me and I wanted to know:

******** Have anyone did that before and can they share the experiences, please!

******** Are there any 7 day candles and/or oils, incense, roots, to be suggested to use so he can live with me, again?

******** Also, what 7 day candles and/or oils, incense, and roots will be good to bind a gay lover to me?

I appreciate it all help is greatly appreciated.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Wed Oct 28, 2009 9:48 pm

If you want him to move back with you, I'd make a doll baby, stuff it with his porsonal concerns, and baptise it for him. Then keep it around your house, and talk to it as if it were him and as if he lived there with you. You could try a skull candle rather than a 7 day vigil light, and dress it with Come To Me/Compelling/Attraction oils to put the thought into his head that he should come back and live with you. Once you get him bak there, you can use Peaceful home and Stay With Me products.

As for binding him to you... You could tie his nature. Upon which subject I bow to HailDiscordia, who has managed it successfully in the past and has more experience in this area than I do.

Try a forum search on tying a man's nature.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Oct 29, 2009 2:29 am

NotDorianGray's suggestions are good ones. You wanted personal experiences, so i can tell you that i have had good results with burying underwear (tied in a knot). One of my friends at the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers had success using underwear to actually sew a doll baby -- and she will do it for others, but there is a charge, of course. Her name is Ms. Robin and you can find her at the AIRR site:

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To bring him back to your home, there are many spells, but i like best the ones that have you create a sort of "trail" for him to follow and in which your bed, bedroom, house, and property are all dressed at the four corners. Also, feed him some of your personal concerns. Read more about that here, in "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice" on "Body Fluids":

I suggest you read this free web page which i wrote on the subject:

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gcn2u · Unread post by **gcn2u** » Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:18 pm

catherineyronwode wrote:NotDorianGray's suggestions are good ones. You wanted personal experiences, so i can tell you that i have had good results with burying underwear (tied in a knot). One of my friends at the Association f Independent Readers and Rootworkers had success using underwear to actually sew a doll baby -- and she will do it for thers, but there is a charge, of course. Her name is Miss Robin and you can find her at the AIRR site:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

To bring him back to your home, there are many spells, but i like best the ones that have you create a sort of "trail" for him to follow and in which your bed, bedroom, house, and poperty are all dressed at the four coners. Also, feed him some of your personal concerns. Read more about that here, in "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice" on "Body Fluids":

http://luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html

Enjoy!

Wow...that is body fluid thing is deep and can it be used for gay love as well?...

Also, when burying the underwear in the backyard do I need a picture of his or do I write a petition of what I want of him to wrap around the underwear?...

What does burying the underwear in the backyard do really?

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Fri Oct 30, 2009 2:33 am

Of course body fluids can be used in gay love. Actually, I think gay men have fewer hang ups in certain sexual areas, so it may be easier to feed him your fluids than it would be for a woman.

Burying his underwear in your yard is essentially tying a piece of him to your home. It symbolises him being tied to you and your home.

Here's something fun: Dress your sheets with Come To Me powder, lie on the bed and think of him, and jack off onto his underwear. Then bury it so that you're tying him to you sexually as well as just to your home.

Underwear is a better personal concern than a picture, but you can certainly include a petition when you bury them.