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Hello sn7,
You can take it and dispose of it the way you did with the rest of the remains.
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You can take it and dispose of it the way you did with the rest of the remains.
Peace~
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Yes, of course I would have done this, but the disposal site is very far from my home. Do I need to go all the way back there and keep all the "parts" together, or is there an alternative or can I consider "leftovers" not a part of the spell materials?
Thank you again.
Thank you again.
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Sn7,
Yes take it to another crossroad and dispose of it, if it was for love drawing bury the left piece in the front yard, if money or luck drawing put in front yard.. if to rid put at a cross road. No its not going to kill the spell because a piece was left over. Stop worrying and have faith in the work.
Yes take it to another crossroad and dispose of it, if it was for love drawing bury the left piece in the front yard, if money or luck drawing put in front yard.. if to rid put at a cross road. No its not going to kill the spell because a piece was left over. Stop worrying and have faith in the work.
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Thank you. I don't mean to be overly fussy but I saw on the forum where Miss Cat warned against making certain mistakes in doing these disposals (like looking back over your shoulder) so I wanted to be sure I didn't mess up what I was doing out of carelessness. Thank you!
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The idea of not looking back is also found in European folk magic.
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Hi, coastwitch,
You are so right!
Also, in other various magical traditions throughout other continents.
Take care
You are so right!
Also, in other various magical traditions throughout other continents.
Take care
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ok so i had a vinegar jar i made about 2 weeks ago and today my infant pulled it out of the cabinet and busted it. i know, i know. i am new to this and wondering what i should do since it busted in the house.
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Clean everything off and use either Chinese Wash or some Jinx Killer or Van Van Bath Crystals or Oil in your clean-up scrub water. That will settle any mess that is left over.
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Quick Question. I've been having some general bad luck lately. I ordered some uncrossing bath crystals. I wanted to know is .....everyday that I take a bath do I need to walk it down to a crossroads? or can I collect the bath water and save it in a mason jar for 13 days and take it down to a crossroads altogether instead of going everyday right after the bath.
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El707,
I would go everyday, why would you want to keep a cup of what you just washed off of you laying around for 13 days!
I would go everyday, why would you want to keep a cup of what you just washed off of you laying around for 13 days!
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Thanks j82
I live in the city, so the crossroads where I'm at are always very busy.
I live in the city, so the crossroads where I'm at are always very busy.
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Even if the crossroads are busy El707, there are discreet ways of disposing of the water. Tossing it over your shoulder out of a coffee cup (disposable or re-usable thermos-type) as you cross the street for example. No different than lots of others who toss what's left of their drink out. If there's a will there's a way. If you want an excuse not to do it however, you'll always find one as well.
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Thanks for the advice aura. That's what I have been doing.
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Hi,
I'm new here so I apologize if this is in the wrong section.I'm going to be performing g the dressed letter love spell tonight and having read the section on deployment of spell remains it seems most love spells are buried or kept in the home/ on the person. I have no back yard, and no front porch since I live in an apartment, and I feel strongly about not wanting to hold onto the remains in a bag/box for fear of losing the bag and the spell being destroyed.
I wanted to use a crossroads or would that "kill" the love spell? Could I throw it over my shoulder into a river or would that destroy it?
Thanks in advance
I'm new here so I apologize if this is in the wrong section.I'm going to be performing g the dressed letter love spell tonight and having read the section on deployment of spell remains it seems most love spells are buried or kept in the home/ on the person. I have no back yard, and no front porch since I live in an apartment, and I feel strongly about not wanting to hold onto the remains in a bag/box for fear of losing the bag and the spell being destroyed.
I wanted to use a crossroads or would that "kill" the love spell? Could I throw it over my shoulder into a river or would that destroy it?
Thanks in advance
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Hi Rainbow-Topaz,
If you have no where to bury it, you van get a garden pot and bury in that with a nice house plant in it. The following link for Theory in Practice and practice web version will help you a lot.
www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Good Luck!!
If you have no where to bury it, you van get a garden pot and bury in that with a nice house plant in it. The following link for Theory in Practice and practice web version will help you a lot.
www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Good Luck!!
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Thanks for your reply. My problem with burying it in a pot is the same as keeping it in a box. What if the plant was lost? Or if the plant died, I would assume the spell had too. I don't like the thought of any possible interference with the spell once its been cast, just in case. Is there any way I could fully get rid of the remains without having to worry about sending the spell *away*?
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Sheesh! My vinegar jar just broke! I pulled it out, shook it, set it on the coffee table with intent to get a candle ready.., and it broke just sitting there. It's only a day old... Silly thing. I don't think I should read too much into it, I really think it was the pressure and a thin jar. It was a cheap jalapeno jar. Also, the bathroom is colder where it was being kept and I put it in the living room.. near a heater... didn't even notice. I will make a new one tomorrow. Anyone else have that happen before?
Either way, I've wiped everything down with just paper towel. I know the clean up Miss Cat has just replied on, but I'm thinking the products will take time to get to me. Anything I can do right now or should I not worry too much? I'm not too bothered by it, I'd just clean it with some dish soap n cleaner if that was ok... ?? Thanks for any replies
Either way, I've wiped everything down with just paper towel. I know the clean up Miss Cat has just replied on, but I'm thinking the products will take time to get to me. Anything I can do right now or should I not worry too much? I'm not too bothered by it, I'd just clean it with some dish soap n cleaner if that was ok... ?? Thanks for any replies
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I just saged the heck out of my table
it felt great, love my sage ... I put everything in a plastic bag outside... so what to do with the bag of ick...(paper towel and all the remains) there is a crossroad or a railroad track my target goes thru everyday ... should I throw it at one of these places? I shouldn't throw it in the road, I don't want to pop tires haha but I can throw it into the grass at one of the corners or toss it on the railroad... or should it just go in dumpster? I'd have to be stealthy, but there is a graveyard that I could bury it in as well...

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Hi SunMoonStars,
Disposal is symbolic as part of the ritual you perform, so it doesn't have to be the entire garbage collection. I would probably just throw away the ancillary stuff - used paper towels, burnt matches, etc. and just dispose of the things like the herbs and wax. Even then if it's a huge amount, just use a representative part. If it's something mild like that, then I'd actually put it in the road to drive over, if you think it would cause problems burying it or putting it in the grass alongside the crossroads is entirely do-able.
Best of luck!
Disposal is symbolic as part of the ritual you perform, so it doesn't have to be the entire garbage collection. I would probably just throw away the ancillary stuff - used paper towels, burnt matches, etc. and just dispose of the things like the herbs and wax. Even then if it's a huge amount, just use a representative part. If it's something mild like that, then I'd actually put it in the road to drive over, if you think it would cause problems burying it or putting it in the grass alongside the crossroads is entirely do-able.
Best of luck!
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Thanks ProfessorAmes. So you're saying don't put the actual jar in the road? Throw it away? I thought I'd have to drop off the whole bag, which is why I was thinking that couldn't go well haha
Paper towel, the jar with needles n my cayenne n everything is in a bag inside another plastic grocery bag. That would make sense to just put the wax and herbs in the road but I only had a chance to burn a candle on it one time so a small dime size of wax. I could wait til night time and dump the juices from the jar out in the middle... (??) I'm sorry, I haven't done a disposal before so I'm like what?
Paper towel, the jar with needles n my cayenne n everything is in a bag inside another plastic grocery bag. That would make sense to just put the wax and herbs in the road but I only had a chance to burn a candle on it one time so a small dime size of wax. I could wait til night time and dump the juices from the jar out in the middle... (??) I'm sorry, I haven't done a disposal before so I'm like what?

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I tend to only dispose of the stuff that is biodegradable, non-toxic and not dangerous to vehicles or to wildlife. So, needles and broken glass might be a problem, but liquids, herbs, wax, etc., is usually pretty okay. The rest of it you can throw away. If you have liquid in a glass or jar you can also take that to a river or stream that flows out of town and dump it and rinse the container in the river water. I'd probably still throw away the jar, but all of the contents have been cleared out by the river. So, a river disposal is another option for you. Or even a combination.
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Thank you so much ProfessorAmes! I felt the same about the ingredients going in the road but I was reading people break their jars in the crossroads... so I was confused. I opened up my plastic bag if Ick and pretty much all the fluids are soaked up. So I've pulled out almost all of my pepper slices and there are two pieces of paper towel that are covered in cayenne and pepper juices, I'm on my way to give it to a crossroads. I wonder if it's ok to "rub down" the road with my paper towels and jalps despite the "over the shoulder" method since there is no liquid...
I'm not far from a river at all, I will possibly try the combo move next time. Thanks again for your time ProfessorAmes!
I'm not far from a river at all, I will possibly try the combo move next time. Thanks again for your time ProfessorAmes!
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Hello, MoonSunStars ,
I wouldn't "rub it down". It would still go over the shoulder.
If you follow the rituals according to Miss cat's instructions, they are recipes for success because there's good reasons for those particular instructions.
Wishing you success with your spell work
I wouldn't "rub it down". It would still go over the shoulder.
If you follow the rituals according to Miss cat's instructions, they are recipes for success because there's good reasons for those particular instructions.
Wishing you success with your spell work
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Thank you Miss Aida!
Hmm.. Well, I strongly felt the over the shoulder was important too but, for some reason, I also wanted that red pepper goodness off of the paper towel since I didn't have much to deploy. So I went to my crossroad and first ran out and took the two paper towels and got off as much red pepper as I could. I had, in a brown paper bag, my jalp slices and some more cayenne/red pepper remains so I finished by throwing the remains over my left shoulder. Made sure to not look back, even though I did glance slightly to the right to check for traffic, I said my prayer and feel good about it. I hope I didn't mess with tradition too much with my paper towel. But again, I said a quick prayer and also a prayer as I pulled away.
If that happens again, I'll be more mindful of how I clean it and what I do with the remains ...
I am buying Kosher Salt as we speak!
thanks for all your help Miss Aida and ProfessorAmes!
Hmm.. Well, I strongly felt the over the shoulder was important too but, for some reason, I also wanted that red pepper goodness off of the paper towel since I didn't have much to deploy. So I went to my crossroad and first ran out and took the two paper towels and got off as much red pepper as I could. I had, in a brown paper bag, my jalp slices and some more cayenne/red pepper remains so I finished by throwing the remains over my left shoulder. Made sure to not look back, even though I did glance slightly to the right to check for traffic, I said my prayer and feel good about it. I hope I didn't mess with tradition too much with my paper towel. But again, I said a quick prayer and also a prayer as I pulled away.

If that happens again, I'll be more mindful of how I clean it and what I do with the remains ...
I am buying Kosher Salt as we speak!

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Hi there, using LM products I performed some work on a former partner of to success. I did a:
Honey Jar
Love spell
Love doll
Due to him becoming verbally abusive, I no longer wish to continue working on him, HOWEVER (due to him threatening to reveal certain secrets I confided in him) I would like to "keep him sweet", so to speak? How can I end the influences of the work I've done on him, while ensuring that, even though we are no longer romantically involved, he keeps my secrets to himself?
My Grandmother used to practice hoodoo, but sadly she's gone to glory, so I thought I'd ask for help here. I know that we say to destroy a spells influence you should "burn it", but that won't work with leftover candle wax, doll poppets, contents of honey jar, etc? I can burn the petition papers no problem, but what about everything else that was involved in creating the love Spells?
I want to end the love work I did on him once and for all, as it seems to have made him become obsessed with me to the point that he has gotten irrationally jealous of any men being around me. I've stopped seeing him now, but I feel the work I've done on him has put heat on his underlying issues with possessiveness. A lesson learned, be careful what you wish for!
Now I know how to lay tricks and have even buried items at the graveyard before, I'm aware of how/when to deploy/dispose of items, but I feel this situation is a less straightforward...
Can someone help me on how to dispose of all the materials used in a love spell, when one wants to destroy the love work you've already done once and for all?
Is there a way to do that, but also to keep him from betraying my confidences either?
Thank you for reading and I look forward to any help/advice anyone can give me please, thanks again
Honey Jar
Love spell
Love doll
Due to him becoming verbally abusive, I no longer wish to continue working on him, HOWEVER (due to him threatening to reveal certain secrets I confided in him) I would like to "keep him sweet", so to speak? How can I end the influences of the work I've done on him, while ensuring that, even though we are no longer romantically involved, he keeps my secrets to himself?
My Grandmother used to practice hoodoo, but sadly she's gone to glory, so I thought I'd ask for help here. I know that we say to destroy a spells influence you should "burn it", but that won't work with leftover candle wax, doll poppets, contents of honey jar, etc? I can burn the petition papers no problem, but what about everything else that was involved in creating the love Spells?
I want to end the love work I did on him once and for all, as it seems to have made him become obsessed with me to the point that he has gotten irrationally jealous of any men being around me. I've stopped seeing him now, but I feel the work I've done on him has put heat on his underlying issues with possessiveness. A lesson learned, be careful what you wish for!
Now I know how to lay tricks and have even buried items at the graveyard before, I'm aware of how/when to deploy/dispose of items, but I feel this situation is a less straightforward...
Can someone help me on how to dispose of all the materials used in a love spell, when one wants to destroy the love work you've already done once and for all?
Is there a way to do that, but also to keep him from betraying my confidences either?
Thank you for reading and I look forward to any help/advice anyone can give me please, thanks again

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Hi conjure_woman_,
You'll want to dispose of all the love work and then either make a doll with appropriate herbs to bind him and keep him from speaking and/or a sweet jar to keep yourself in his good graces (given his violent streak, the doll may be a better idea). You may also want to smoke the new doll in a combination of Uncrossing incense and rose petal to Uncross any love work done on him.
To get rid of the honey jar, emptying it out into a river of running water moving away from where you live would be appropriate; the jar can then be washed and reused as you please. Candle wax can also be thrown into a running river away from you or burnt up in a fireplace if you have one. The poppet can be burnt, although it would be advised (much nicer) to call the spirit of your ex out of it and remove the personal concerns first (and then use them in the binding doll).
Follow this up with a Cut and Clear spell and a Black Walnut bath to break up any left-over ties on your end.
Also make sure to get a restraining order or other appropriate support if there is a risk to your personal health and well-being.
Blessings.
You'll want to dispose of all the love work and then either make a doll with appropriate herbs to bind him and keep him from speaking and/or a sweet jar to keep yourself in his good graces (given his violent streak, the doll may be a better idea). You may also want to smoke the new doll in a combination of Uncrossing incense and rose petal to Uncross any love work done on him.
To get rid of the honey jar, emptying it out into a river of running water moving away from where you live would be appropriate; the jar can then be washed and reused as you please. Candle wax can also be thrown into a running river away from you or burnt up in a fireplace if you have one. The poppet can be burnt, although it would be advised (much nicer) to call the spirit of your ex out of it and remove the personal concerns first (and then use them in the binding doll).
Follow this up with a Cut and Clear spell and a Black Walnut bath to break up any left-over ties on your end.
Also make sure to get a restraining order or other appropriate support if there is a risk to your personal health and well-being.
Blessings.
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I have a quick question.
If I spell didn't do well, should you still bury it? I burned a candle for steady work it turned pitch black, i know that's not a good sign. I am going to do it all over, but should i still bury the candle?
If I spell didn't do well, should you still bury it? I burned a candle for steady work it turned pitch black, i know that's not a good sign. I am going to do it all over, but should i still bury the candle?
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Hello El707,
You should still dispose of the components of a spell in the proper way even if it did not go well. If there is glass container left over from a novena style candle you can also wash and recycle those.
Peace~
Nathen
You should still dispose of the components of a spell in the proper way even if it did not go well. If there is glass container left over from a novena style candle you can also wash and recycle those.
Peace~
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Thanks for your advice aura!aura wrote:Hi conjure_woman_,
You'll want to dispose of all the love work and then either make a doll with appropriate herbs to bind him and keep him from speaking and/or a sweet jar to keep yourself in his good graces (given his violent streak, the doll may be a better idea). You may also want to smoke the new doll in a combination of Uncrossing incense and rose petal to Uncross any love work done on him.
To get rid of the honey jar, emptying it out into a river of running water moving away from where you live would be appropriate; the jar can then be washed and reused as you please. Candle wax can also be thrown into a running river away from you or burnt up in a fireplace if you have one. The poppet can be burnt, although it would be advised (much nicer) to call the spirit of your ex out of it and remove the personal concerns first (and then use them in the binding doll).
Follow this up with a Cut and Clear spell and a Black Walnut bath to break up any left-over ties on your end.
Also make sure to get a restraining order or other appropriate support if there is a risk to your personal health and well-being.
Blessings.
Could I bind the love doll that I currently have? As I know it has a very strong link to him, would the fact it has my sexual fluids on it be an issue if I wanted to use the love doll for curse work now? Also, the same goes for the Honey Jar, maybe I should keep that going to "keep him sweet" ?
I have no emotional ties to him now whatsoever, only regret that I wasted my time on an unworthy individual in the first place. Ahh well, we live and learn don't we

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Hi conjure_woman_,
I wouldn't use the current doll especially if you have your own personal concerns on them, you don't want to cross yourself or bind yourself to him. I would make a new one of him.
You can continue the honey jar, but he may want a relationship with you again. I suggest to make a new jar for friendship only.
Good Luck!
I wouldn't use the current doll especially if you have your own personal concerns on them, you don't want to cross yourself or bind yourself to him. I would make a new one of him.
You can continue the honey jar, but he may want a relationship with you again. I suggest to make a new jar for friendship only.
Good Luck!
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Hello! I have a break up candle spell I'm finishing. I know of the options for deploying my candle remains but I'm curious here. I thought maybe I should take it off my property to a crossroad and throw it over my shoulder or bury it at the crossroad... then I had someone tell me I should take the remains off my property, break the wax, and throw it in a receptacle and don't look back. Any thoughts on breaking the wax and tossing it in the garbage? If I do #1 should it be near the targets, a crossroad they go through often? If I was to break it and then throw it away, I know of a spot further out of town that has a garbage at the crossroad so I could break and throw away there. So, thoughts... bury at crossroad near targets? Break and throw away in the boonies? In my mind, I was going to break in road, throw in garbage over the shoulder. Also I figured, since I'm not supposed to look back, that the remains should be further away from me but if they should go near target, I can do that too. Hopefully this isn't too confusing ... thanks for any advice!
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I'd go with the cross-roads burial where they'll walk over it or burial on the property of one of the two parties (preferably the one you want out of the picture).
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Thanks aura.
I can't.do that though, can't bury on either property and can't bury where they'll walk over it.
I'm thinking I'm not sure what to do here. I've thought about the burial, I can bury at a 4 way near his house, but I don't want him gone, I want her gone. (She lives out of state) And they won't walk over it, only drive by it. I could bury at a cemetery? I was originally going to take the candle wax and throw it over my shoulder in the road. Then I wanted to break it and throw it away. Right now I want to break it by throwing It over my shoulder in the road. Breaking it seems safer, faster, wouldn't make me nervous... but If the burial would be a better way to finish my break up spell, then I will quickly bury it. But again, near his house even tho he won't walk over it and even though he's not the one I want gone?
I'm very indecisive and am suddenly finding myself questioning this. My gut says throw over shoulder in crossroad and walk away... I don't know why Im having so many questions run thru my head about this
I can't.do that though, can't bury on either property and can't bury where they'll walk over it.
I'm thinking I'm not sure what to do here. I've thought about the burial, I can bury at a 4 way near his house, but I don't want him gone, I want her gone. (She lives out of state) And they won't walk over it, only drive by it. I could bury at a cemetery? I was originally going to take the candle wax and throw it over my shoulder in the road. Then I wanted to break it and throw it away. Right now I want to break it by throwing It over my shoulder in the road. Breaking it seems safer, faster, wouldn't make me nervous... but If the burial would be a better way to finish my break up spell, then I will quickly bury it. But again, near his house even tho he won't walk over it and even though he's not the one I want gone?
I'm very indecisive and am suddenly finding myself questioning this. My gut says throw over shoulder in crossroad and walk away... I don't know why Im having so many questions run thru my head about this
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Maybe it's because I spoke with someone who told me to throw it away after breaking and I thought I would just throw it over my shoulder in the road and leave it.... so now I'm requestioning the whole plan
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The crossroads I was going to put it in is near his house so I thought he or they would drive over it once broken. But again, I don't want him gone. Only her. Maybe it's because I spoke with someone who told me to throw it away after breaking and I thought I would just throw it over my shoulder in the road and leave it.... so I think that's what started the requestioning
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Hello, MoonSunStars ,
Then bury it at a cemetery so that the termination of their relationship is permanently dead.
Wishing you the best with this spell
Take care
Then bury it at a cemetery so that the termination of their relationship is permanently dead.
Wishing you the best with this spell
Take care
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Thanks Miss Aida and thanks for the positivity! I went to a crossroad and threw it over my shoulder... I ended up not being able to do the cemetery and not really able to do a crossroad burial so I went with my 1st gut instinct. I'm working with someone who is a bit stubborn and thought another break up candle might do some good. Not that I'm not satisfied with my 1st candle, but I'd like to keep it going by doing another in a week or two. Also with a 2nd one I will be able to plan a cemetery burial a little better ... hopefully my crossroad was an ok alternative.
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Tried to post this earlier, wouldn't let me:
It has started snowing here... so the burial idea is more difficult than before. So I was hoping the crossroad was ok, even though both of you (aura and Miss Aida) suggested a burial...
It has started snowing here... so the burial idea is more difficult than before. So I was hoping the crossroad was ok, even though both of you (aura and Miss Aida) suggested a burial...
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Hi MoonSunStars,
If you're working with a glass-encased vigil light, don't throw it into a cross-roads: broken glass + cars = bad mix. If it's a glass casing, simply recycle it. If it's just the wax you threw over your shoulder into the cross-roads, it's a pretty all-purpose/neutral disposal site and should be fine. Also keep in mind, this is a break-up candle, not a hot-foot; you want it to affect BOTH parties since it breaks them up, it doesn't get them gone, so him walking over it is fine. If you're doing Hot Foot work - then it's another story.
If you're working with a glass-encased vigil light, don't throw it into a cross-roads: broken glass + cars = bad mix. If it's a glass casing, simply recycle it. If it's just the wax you threw over your shoulder into the cross-roads, it's a pretty all-purpose/neutral disposal site and should be fine. Also keep in mind, this is a break-up candle, not a hot-foot; you want it to affect BOTH parties since it breaks them up, it doesn't get them gone, so him walking over it is fine. If you're doing Hot Foot work - then it's another story.
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Thank you! It was a free standing candle that I threw over my shoulder. Glad that was an ok choice... it felt good to throw it and hear it break! And good point, it's a break up, not a hot foot...
Thanks again!
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Hello again! Since we last discussed the hot footing aspect, I thought I'd ask. In regards to a break up candle with hot foot oil on the female and break up oil all over... would it not be appropriate to dispose in a crossroads where both parties will go over the wax remains or will he not be affected since the hot foot was placed and directed towards the female?
I've read of the idea to cut the wax in half? Would you then dispose of each wax piece at separate crossroads? Or should the whole thing be taken to a crossroads and disposed whole where neither party will go over it since hot foot oil is involved and the target is not someone intended to be hot footed?
I've read of the idea to cut the wax in half? Would you then dispose of each wax piece at separate crossroads? Or should the whole thing be taken to a crossroads and disposed whole where neither party will go over it since hot foot oil is involved and the target is not someone intended to be hot footed?
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If you called in his name for Break Up only and called in her name for Hot Foot and Break Up, you could dispose in a crossroads if you cannot at his or her house. Remember always the old advice to quote in the name of each party and to plainly ask for what you intend -- then you will never be in doubt about crossing up your own intentions.
Luke 11:11 -- If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
The key is to ASK for exactly what you wish in the first place and then disposal will follow logically from that.
Luke 11:11 -- If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
The key is to ASK for exactly what you wish in the first place and then disposal will follow logically from that.
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Thank you for the reply Ms. Cat!
When I burned the candle, I asked for break up. Towards the last couple days I asked for her to go away... never directing the feeling of "go away" towards him. I will dispose of it all in a crossroad. Thank you again! Thanks for the reminder of plainly asking for what I want. Always such a help!
When I burned the candle, I asked for break up. Towards the last couple days I asked for her to go away... never directing the feeling of "go away" towards him. I will dispose of it all in a crossroad. Thank you again! Thanks for the reminder of plainly asking for what I want. Always such a help!
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No so much a ritual disposal but I accidentally broke a mirror today, it broke on carpet so I sprinkled the area with salt and vacuumed. I plan on doing a bath with chinese wash and going over the area again with a little of the bath and a broom then dumping the bath water and the vacuum contents at the crossroad. What do I do with the big shards of glass? I read that I could bury them or put them at the crossroads, neither one is appealing because the ground is frozen and I don't think leaving glass in the road is entirely safe. Of course if there's no alternative I'll have to find a less frequented road i guess.
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Hello, ConjuringCat,
Usually, when you throw things in the garbage, it signifies that the work you did was garbage.
In this case, I would suggest throwing in the garbage so that you are ritually stating that this was garbage too. Get what I'm saying? If there's any bad luck that was imposed from breaking this mirror, you are saying: "Garbage". And, hopefully, nothing will happen.
Take care
Usually, when you throw things in the garbage, it signifies that the work you did was garbage.
In this case, I would suggest throwing in the garbage so that you are ritually stating that this was garbage too. Get what I'm saying? If there's any bad luck that was imposed from breaking this mirror, you are saying: "Garbage". And, hopefully, nothing will happen.
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How i can disposal with the items i have in mojo bag after the person die for whom you had that mojo. I m talking from lover. He passed away last week and i know what i can do with the honey jar, thanks Miss Aida, but i dont know with the mojo. Im very sad
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You have a choice here, you can bury it with the honey jar. Frankly, when I have a question, I turn to cat's knowledge base (http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html).
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I live in a state that gets real winters, to the point where the ground and water are completely frozen and covered with snow. Do I just not cast any spells during those 3 or so months, or is there an alternative?
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Store it in the woodshed until spring or use a butane torch to thaw the ground.
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I live in an apartment and don't have a woodshed or any place where I could safely use a torch.
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Hi Willowsunstar --
I live in MN and have the same issues right now, and have been chatting with my root worker about this. If it's remains for a positive outcome and you can't bury it, you can likely still find a tree or hollow stump to set it in. Otherwise, I wrap them in brown bag paper and keep it someplace safe indoors until the ground thaws enough to bury it, or until it's safe enough to go outside (as it frequently is not here in the MN winters.)
You can chuck stuff to the crossroads in any weather. And if it really needs to go to the river asap, ask any ice fisherman how to break open the ice.
Or buy a potted plant for your home, and put remains in there.
Hope that helps. If I had to wait until Spring to do magic, it would never get done!
Doc Murphy
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I live in MN and have the same issues right now, and have been chatting with my root worker about this. If it's remains for a positive outcome and you can't bury it, you can likely still find a tree or hollow stump to set it in. Otherwise, I wrap them in brown bag paper and keep it someplace safe indoors until the ground thaws enough to bury it, or until it's safe enough to go outside (as it frequently is not here in the MN winters.)
You can chuck stuff to the crossroads in any weather. And if it really needs to go to the river asap, ask any ice fisherman how to break open the ice.
Or buy a potted plant for your home, and put remains in there.
Hope that helps. If I had to wait until Spring to do magic, it would never get done!

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Thanks. I'm in MN also. It's a hot-foot spell for an incompetent coworker where conventional means aren't working. While I probably should get a potted plant, I think it will have to go to the crossroads. Will plan to drive out of town a ways some weekend.
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Cross roads..... I accidently looked back while throwing something at the cross roads what will happen because someone was in front of me and I looked back by accidently because I wanted to go pass him omg what have I done?
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By the way I didn't look at the actual items I threw out just the actual road.
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Hello, HappinessRules,
I believe that as long as you didn't see the items, it might be OK.
I've done that before where someone beeped the horn at me and I looked but didn't see the items. The spell still worked
The whole idea is that you're second- guessing the spirit of the crossroads (which you did not)
Let's just wait and see what happens.
Take care
I believe that as long as you didn't see the items, it might be OK.
I've done that before where someone beeped the horn at me and I looked but didn't see the items. The spell still worked
The whole idea is that you're second- guessing the spirit of the crossroads (which you did not)
Let's just wait and see what happens.
Take care
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I have read this whole thread, and am wondering something. For which kinds of spells is recycling wax appropriate? I would assume anything you want to stay in your home?
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Hello, karma_13,
I personally don't practice that technique. Deployment is just what it means: it deploys the spell.
People recycle the glass containers. That's fine.
Sometimes, people will melt wax remains from spells and then re mold them to make another candle spell (usually with love spells) and light that candle. It does work for some people but I am personally not a fan of that.
Take care
I personally don't practice that technique. Deployment is just what it means: it deploys the spell.
People recycle the glass containers. That's fine.
Sometimes, people will melt wax remains from spells and then re mold them to make another candle spell (usually with love spells) and light that candle. It does work for some people but I am personally not a fan of that.
Take care
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I am burning break-up candles to break up the man who I had sexual relationship with for two years and the girl he is seeing right now. I just finished up the second candle.
I know sometimes they see each other at his house. I was told that instead of disposing it at a nearest crossroad where they would cross. It is better and stronger for the spell if I just drive by his house, then throw the remainder on his front yard or his car or on the street in front of his house. This way it would influence them worser to break up faster.
Is it right ?
I know sometimes they see each other at his house. I was told that instead of disposing it at a nearest crossroad where they would cross. It is better and stronger for the spell if I just drive by his house, then throw the remainder on his front yard or his car or on the street in front of his house. This way it would influence them worser to break up faster.
Is it right ?
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Hello, Alexan,
I would prefer disposing this at a crossroad closest to where they live. The man at the crossroads will help you with the deployment.
Here is a ilnk o disposal and deployment and your best options: http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Take care
I would prefer disposing this at a crossroad closest to where they live. The man at the crossroads will help you with the deployment.
Here is a ilnk o disposal and deployment and your best options: http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Take care
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So, next time if I dispose it at a crossroad, should I pray should I take a few minutes and pray for the man at the crossroad to break them up and to thank him and ask him what to do to increase the strength of spell ? would that be better ?
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