Reconciliation Spell Kit Honey Jar Kit and Painted Bottle Spell Questions and Answers

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Nov 15, 2014 7:50 pm

I am strongly considering going to a great clips near my exes house and tell them I will pay anyone there $50 if my ex Andrew comes in for a hair cut and they save me some of his hair....lol

Good idea? Should I do it?

I hope they don't end up giving me someone else's hair :/

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Nov 15, 2014 9:40 pm

Hello, ILoveMyExAndrew,

Be careful with going to a shop like that.

I heard on television last year that someone paid the hairdresser to get some hair. The target found out, sued the hairdresser and won the lawsuit.

You can use the ribbon.

And remember, honey jars take quite awhile to work.

Take care

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Sun Nov 16, 2014 12:13 pm

Hello eveyone,

My Honey in the jar is decreasing. When I started it I filled honey 3 quarters, but now It has little down half of bottle. few times when I burns candles, some of candles burned nothing left and the lid was very very hot and had bump and I feel honey was around the jar and bottom of the jar. When I put it away i feel the jar is sticky and saw some honey outside bottom of the jar. I didn't change kept burning candles. Now when i heat it (with warm water ) I feel no enough honey there. But still I can move honey in it. What should I do? Keep doing this or start new one? Any suggestions.
Thank you, Blessed be

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Sun Nov 16, 2014 12:19 pm

ILoveMyExAndrew wrote:Hey Natstein,

Do you think the main reason for honey jar failures is due to a lack of personal effects like hair? :/

I don't have any contact with my ex since April so I don't have any of his hair either......I am not sure how I can possibility get one! :/

Any recommendations? I just have a red ribbon he has touch before along with a COPY of his handwriting....that's it. sigh...I feel pretty hopeless.

Hi use his photo. get it from facebook, get a picture with a camera and print it. This work for me. Its take time and you have to put a lot of energy. Good Luck

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Nov 17, 2014 2:48 pm

I would kindly add it takes a bit more than a photo sometimes unless the person is a professional spiritual worker.
It depends on the specific situation, how long the person has been gone and other matters.

Thank-you for posting.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Nov 18, 2014 3:29 pm

Wow Ms Aida,

Thanks for the warning! I can't believe that actually turn into a lawsuit! :O How did the target found out? I won't do it b/c I just can't trust anyone to give me my ex's hair! LOL...it would most likely be some random person's hair and NOT my exes....I can't trust anyone.

kiyoki,

Thank you! I have pictures of us together for my graduation. I will use of of those pictures!

I have a copy of his handwriting AND a red ribbon that he has touched before. I will use it all!

Susan Barnes,

I know!!! That's why if I don't see any movement in a month or two I will get Deacon Millett to do a honey jar for me and a few of his other spells too and I will also get him to set candles for me too.

You told me before to do a sugar box spell. Can you tell me what that is? Is that sold on LuckyMojo?? please tell me what that is and I will do it. Thank you!

barbie16118 · Unread post by **barbie16118** » Tue Nov 18, 2014 6:33 pm

So i started my honey jar nov 3 i have had no contact w my husband and out of the blue he calls me tonight. He was very sweet and considerate. Im very happy as our friendship means the world to me. Im not sure what his intention were im a bit confused. He was concerned if i was happy. I am. We talked divorce a lil and he told me to call him anytime i need to he will always answer me. Im not sure if he is still w that other yucky girl i didnt ask. He is gonna come to my house this week to help me fix my door. Now lucky mojo how do i make sure he is not w her and how do i get him back w me. I only have a few days so please help.
Thank u lucky mojo and all the wonderful saints, angels gods, goddess my ancestors, blessed mother mary, jesus and god my father for all ur help.

barbie16118 · Unread post by **barbie16118** » Tue Nov 18, 2014 6:34 pm

So i started my honey jar nov 3 i have had no contact w my husband and out of the blue he calls me tonight. He was very sweet and considerate. Im very happy as our friendship means the world to me. Im not sure what his intention were im a bit confused. He was concerned if i was happy. I am. We talked divorce a lil and he told me to call him anytime i need to he will always answer me. Im not sure if he is still w that other yucky girl i didnt ask. He is gonna come to my house this week to help me fix my door. Now lucky mojo how do i make sure he is not w her and how do i get him back w me. I only have a few days so please help.
Thank u lucky mojo and all the wonderful saints, angels gods, goddess my ancestors, blessed mother mary, jesus and god my father for all ur help.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Nov 18, 2014 8:23 pm

Hello,

I decided to buy this reconciliation bottle http://www.luckymojo.com/bottle-fixed-r ... ation.html and work it along with my honey jar!

Is this a good idea?

What else should I put in this bottle?

Does this bottle spell work much faster than the honey jar?

Is it just as good as the honey jar?

How long should I work this bottle spell?

barbie16118 · Unread post by **barbie16118** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 4:46 am

My jar was covered in wax when I got up this morning nothing the wax from all the candles was gone . What does that mean

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 10:02 am

Although it's hard to tell without pictures and a reading would be recommended (since it will take into account the complexity of your situation barbie16118), it may indicate a breakthrough or old obstacles being swept away.

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 2:11 pm

Hello eveyone,

My Honey in the jar is decreasing. When I started it I filled honey 3 quarters, but now It has little down half of bottle. few times when I burns candles, some of candles burned nothing left and the lid was very very hot and had bump and I feel honey was around the jar and bottom of the jar. When I put it away i feel the jar is sticky and saw some honey outside bottom of the jar. I didn't change kept burning candles. Now when i heat it (with warm water ) I feel no enough honey there. But still I can move honey in it. What should I do? Keep doing this or start new one? Any suggestions.
Thank you, Blessed be

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 19, 2014 9:10 pm

Hello, kiyoki,

I would deploy that jar and just start a new one.

Take care

barbie16118 · Unread post by **barbie16118** » Fri Nov 21, 2014 6:51 am

let me start off by saying honey jars are extremely effective and very quick (in my case). where i didnt hear from my husband for 3 weeks, he called me 2 nights ago and he again called me last night, convo was short and sweet but the texts afterwards were very aggressive and mean. i chalked it up to him just getting some hurt (which i caused)off his chest. my candle last night didnt burn completely down , approx under 1/4 inch remaining this never happened before. i know this would mean we have some unfinished business (obviously), i started my jar w the intent of him coming back to me and fixing our marriage, i know this is possible once we work on getting past the hurt. my question is do i continue to work w my honey jar? start a new one or something different ? the communication between us is this movement not completion?

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Nov 21, 2014 2:42 pm

Hi barbie16118,

The communication is movement. Keep working on the honey jar. Even once you make it through the obstacles - keep working on the honey jar. Right now, given the situation, you may want to back it up with some lets set by MISC. A Reconciliation light would be a good choice given the situation, Love Me and Return To Me could be added for an action-packed trio.

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Fri Nov 21, 2014 7:49 pm

Miss Aida wrote:Hello, kiyoki,,
I would deploy that jar and just start a new one.

Take care

Thank you Miss Aida.
My situation is getting bad again. My boyfriend's Ex want to get back with him, She wants to go counseling to get back with him. This make me so upset. He said he want to go make happy his sons, so he can tell hi tried. He said I am going to counseling thats mean not I am going back to my ex. But I afraid. He went to Cuba with his brother. Is it ok to I work with honey jar and vinegar jar. Will this effect as he is out of country?? I there are anything I can do for my current situation. I got L M love me oil.
Thank you , Blessed be

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Sat Nov 22, 2014 9:10 am

Hi Miss Aida,
I am so frustrated. My boyfriend is in Cuba now with his brother. Last week his sons met him and talked about going to counseling, they told him mom (his Ex) want to go to counseling and they want mom and dad go to counselling. That lady sent them to make my man go to counselling. She is using his sons to get him back. He left his house ,wife to be with me. Now he is very upset about what to do. On one hand me other hand his sons. He want to go to counseling to make sons happy. So he can tell he tried. That's what he told me. But my question is what will happened if counselor said go back live with her and try or go on holiday. We were planing go on holiday on Christmas time or January. He said counselor cannot decide I want. I feel he is saying these things to make me happy and keep me with him. Now I don't know what will be his plan. I worked on my jars more than year and still going on. Spend a lot of money had lot of stress time. Even though he moved out, still things are not working. I did everything I can do have this relationship work. He loves me. I know i can feel it. But still he cannot decide what he want. I waited two and half years for him. This is time of my life. I would like to know as experience root workers what should i do. Keep going with him with heart ace or leave him. Other thing is I don't feel deploy my honey jar, I love it, it is now like part of my life. When you told me deploy it and start new one, I was sad. I worked on my honey jar last night(Friday) And I am looking at it now I cannot let it go. I was looking at it thinking how I deploy it and bring tears in to my eyes. I love my honey jar if he come or not. May be this is my stupid thinking. Is there are anything i can do? What is your- yours opinions? I am so stress now.
Thank You , Blessed be

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Nov 22, 2014 5:00 pm

Hello, kiyoki ,

Oh, boy, I am so sorry.

Well, keep up the spells you are doing and also incorporate the break up spell.

On the page that I am about to give you, there are pictures of a great spell. You'll see it on the right hand side. There's scissors in the picture and it is also a moving candle spell to get him away from her and to you.

Here it is: www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

Also, use the freezer spell. Use as much ammunition as you can at once: www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

I hope this works out for you

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Sat Nov 22, 2014 6:54 pm

Thank you Miss Aida, Could you please give me or explain how to do freezer spell and what i meed. I checked the site But I am confuse its has different spells for different things. Could not find which one for us and how. Please give me details. Is it ok to work with my jars as he is out of the country?
Thank you for all your kind information.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Nov 23, 2014 3:40 pm

jayfox,

In a situation like yours I would set candles around the jar that support the work. Example for the honey jar a candle dressed with come to me, a fiery love and a candle with follow me girl. Really pick any oil that fits your cause. Also a LM mojo to carry with you regularly as you work the jars would also help. My fav way with freezer jars is to collect rain water from a heavey storm ( to cause fighting), black pepper to cause a fight, poppy seeds to confuse and alum to silence. Write the petition then dress it in a 5 point spot with oil I have used crossing and or break up. Pray over it. Take a lemon, cut it away from you ..pray for them to sour.. take the petition, sprinkle with the herbs, fold away and rotate to the left 3 times as you say your petition. Stick it in the lemon. put the lemon together and seal it with 13 needles dressed in the oil. Put the lemon in the water add the rest of the herbs, seal the jar. after praying put it in the freezer, then light a black candle dressed with the oil and prayed over on the top of the fridge to burn. throw its wax at a cross road. Best of luck!

j82

jayfox · Unread post by **jayfox** » Mon Nov 24, 2014 7:00 am

Thank You for your suggestion.

I need to buy some more candles, I currently have 3 block red ones and one currently burning, I've ordered 10 pink ones which are on the way. As well my oil and herbs. I currently don't have any oil and herbs (that won't cause the opposite effect), so I'm using something I made myself, it's not ideal but it's better than nothing. My rootworker is also running one. I completely forgot about poppy seeds also! The water I used was from my refrigerator, as it was already cold and then I froze it. She seems to be cutting people out of her life, from my observation, but this one guy in particular isn't working. Today will be Day 3 of my redoing freezer spells, so maybe I should look out for signs. I have a fiery love candle on the way, I could perhaps burn it with the two oils.

I had a reading done, and my reader said she will ruin it by herself this week, but I'm not so sure. It's not that I doubt my reader, it's just I was told she has no interest in any other men right now and this guy popped out of nowhere so I'm confused. Other than that, all her other readings were dead spot on.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 9:08 pm

I just received my honey jar from LuckyMojo and a bunch of candles and oils etc.

I have burn my first candle yesterday and it left pretty much NO WAX!

The jar was a lot smaller than I thought and so some honey came out when I put EVERYTHING I had to put inside in! I hope that is okay....after I burned my candle on top some more honey came out (just a little but still...) I put a picture of US and his handwriting inside along with a petition and herbs etc. I hope that is okay.

My question is...do I have to watch the candle and pray the ENTIRE TIME it is burning or not? Can I go take a shower or cook while the candle is burning? or I must watch it and pray the entire time???

Lastly, what should I pray? My prayers has always just been MY WISHES! For my ex to FORGIVE ME, LOVE ME and COME BACK! I speak from my heart and want my ex boyfriend back....but is that good enough or do someone else have a set of prays that they recommend I say?

I will be burning the candles EVERYDAY until I run out and I order 14 dozen candles and lots and lots of oil.

I also got the bottle spell...how often should I pray to it? once a week? with the same prayers?

Thanks!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 10:46 pm

Hello, PreciousCC ,

It's OK that some of the honey came out. Not to worry.

And you don't have to sit there and watch the candle burn.

Have you looked at this page for prayer ideas? http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... _of_Psalms

Or, you could pray the Song of Solomon

It would be a good idea to continue your own prayer and just add a formal prayer to it. It can't hurt. But your petition prayer to forgive you, love you, etc., is very good.

And yes, you can do the same with the bottle spell. Remain consistent and don't scatter different prayers and petitions. Get one flow of energy out to the universe

take cre

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Dec 06, 2014 5:22 pm

Thank you Miss Aida!

I HOPE I didn't mess up my bottle spell....I followed everything...but I added a petition and a picture of me and my ex! The picture was actually pretty big and took up most of the space of the jar....I can't see anything now except for the folded picture of us..took up almost the entire bottle! Is that okay? I will still shake it every week...but I hope the HUGE picture didn't mess it up. Maybe I should have just added the petition paper alone?

Thanks for the Psalms...which one do you recommend for me???

Where is the Song of Solomon?

Do you recommend I write down my entire prayer on a piece of paper? along with the formal prayer too? I will write EVERYTHING DOWN on a piece of paper and say the SAME THING every single night until my 14 dozen candles run out. Good idea? I have been saying similar prays every night but they are NOT identical everyday....granted I have only been doing this for 3 days only. Tonight will be my fourth day.....

So I should write down my entire prayer on a piece of paper and say the same thing every single night? is that better?

By the way Catherine Yronwode is an AMAZING person and reader! I enjoyed her reading so much!

It's so detailed I can't tell everything but my reading of the future is marriage and she told me I will feel blessed and at peace and I will be happily married and find love!

My future reading was so positive!!!! She also told me I still have a chance with my ex....my chance is NOT zero. I have a chance...however it's not very high...so I need to work on it. It's about 25% chance of getting him back.

If my future is so blessed and happy and I am married. I can't imagine not working out with my ex!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Dec 07, 2014 10:06 pm

Hello, PreciousCC,

I think you'll be OK with the pictures as long as everything else fit in.

You can just Google The Song of Solomon. I am not sure if AIRR has it posted (although if we don't, we might want to do that!).

You don't have to recite the entire passage (it's very long) but find the passages that apply to you. Although I do indeed pray the entire passage.

I always recommend that people write everything down to remain consistent. So, that's a good idea!!

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Dec 08, 2014 9:33 am

Thank you Miss Aida!

Should I do the Song of Solomon or Pslam 32? The reconcillation spell kit recommends Pslam 32. Is that the best one to do for my case which is getting my ex back?

In general how long should my prayers be? I wrote out my own prayer already and read it three times out loud as my honey jar was burning....I will pray the ENTIRE time the candle is burning if that will make my spell stronger! What do you think? Although sometimes I get home very late like after 10:30pm....I always do my honey jar at night so I might not have a lot of time if I have to work at 8am the next day and need sleep! So what should I do? :/

Also should I read my prayers first or should I read Pslam 32/song of Solomon first?

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Dec 08, 2014 4:20 pm

Dear PreciousCC,

Read the entire book of psalms.

Then yours.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Dec 08, 2014 8:00 pm

What do you mean entire book? Just all of psalm 32 enough?

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Dec 08, 2014 10:24 pm

My candles have been burning clean...a little bit on the jar but pretty much NOTHING ELSE left. Day 5 now....hardly any wax ever left after a burn...first two days left a little bit of wax on the jar...the 3rd and 4th day NOTHING at all....Good sign?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Dec 09, 2014 2:41 pm

PreciousCC,

You have a lot of post in a lot of topics which is normally a sign of a person who is new or a person who is frantic. Your case I think is both. My advice is to settle down, read the LM forum so you can learn how things work in hoodoo. Their is a lot of information (free) and a lot that can be learned through reading and listening to those on the forum or cats other pages. There are books I would say you should get such as Cats herb magic book or some of the 96 page books made my the missionary indepedant church, such as the use of the bible in hoodoo, the honey jar , candle burning baths, the LM black folder which includes handouts made by LM over the years. This will give you a foundation to start working from and understanding. The books are not expensive, you could own all of them for 100 bucks or less.
Now your question, you would read the pslam 32 not the whole book of pslams. Also you can read the parts of the scripture that support your work to enhance it with Gods word. Gods word is power.
In hoodoo they dont really used scripted prayers rather pray from the heart and call on the spirit of the work, the spirit of the elements that you are working with and ancestors to help you.
No wax is a good sign.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Dec 09, 2014 8:34 pm

Yes I am new and miss my ex terribly! I am so sorry for asking so many questions! :/ I promise I am not trying to be annoying....just trying to learn!

I will read Pslam 32 and I have hand written out my own prayer from my heart telling just how much I want my ex back and how I feel! I will read that every single night! I have 14 dozen candles and I will burn them all...one everyday!

Who is the spirits of the work?

My ancestors????

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Dec 09, 2014 9:56 pm

Hello, PreciousCC,

Spirit guides, guardian angels, ancestors, angels, Saints, God, etc.

Also, there are spirits in herbs, minerals, animal curios, crystals, etc.

take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Wed Dec 10, 2014 9:15 pm

Day 6 today.....my candle has been burning clean leaving no wax....

Because of Christmas and me going out of town from 12/24 to 12/28 or 12/29 I will not be able to burn candles on my jar on those days because I will not be home and def don't wanna bring it on the airport!

Is it okay that I won't be burning candles on the jar from 12/24 to 12/29???? Will my spell not work as well? What should I do during those days? Just relax?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Dec 11, 2014 2:18 pm

PreciousCC,

the world will not end if you cant burn a candle on it for 3 days do to traveling. Trust the work. When you return, start it off by lighting it for 7 days in a row to start off the new year. while off please do relax and enjoy yourself. thats what its about during the holidays.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Thu Dec 11, 2014 7:54 pm

Thanks you J82,

I have 14 dozen candles I plan on burning one a day till I am out!

I will try to relax but deep down I am very sad... even when Cat did a reading on me during my present state she could tell I am crying and dying inside. I miss my ex so much. Last year we were together for Christmas....just typing this makes me cry. *sigh* I don't know how long this pain will last or if it will ever end.

it hurts so bad.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Dec 12, 2014 12:42 pm

PreciousCC,

Did cat say in the reading if he would return or not? Its a good idea to set a date and stop working at that point. the reason its not getting better is because you are not trying to get over it. YOu are holding on. It will end and it will pass. Holding on to him so tight and thinking about it soo much is not getting your ex back, and it didnt work for anyone else on this forum either. Do the work and move on with life, go on dates, meet people, hang with friends. Dont think work work work, ex ,ex ex.. that is toxic and it will kill the work by obsessing over it.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Dec 12, 2014 9:23 pm

Hey J82!

Catherine told me I still have a chance with my ex, but it's not very high. She told me my ex is afraid of me more than anything else and doesn't trust me. There will be big changes in my exes life and it will happen in the beginning of next year! If he doesn't take me back and there is NO movement at all by June 2015 then I should move on for sure. My ex still cares for me...he is caring by heart and he is still single right now.....She told me I can try up to 4 spells....my first one was the $6000 SCAM I fell for. My second one is from my friend. Black magick love spell....suppose to be very strong...involves lamb scarfice etc. took a week to finish the rituals etc. My third spell would be ALL the spells I do myself on my ex....She told me one of these could WORK and my ex could return to me. My spell could work or my friend's black magic spell could work....or my fourth spell I am going to hire Deacon Millet to do a few spells for me (honey jar, red skull, light 13 or 26 vigil candles etc.) that would be number four....Cat told me if NONE of that works and it's June 2015 and my ex still does NOT want to see me at all or talk to me etc. Then I need to move on. :/ But he could very well return to me.....Catherine never gave me a guarantee YES OR NO as to whether he will come back or not. She says I have a chance but NO guarantees either way...

However Catherine told me my future reading! She did a reading on me too....my present state is sad!!! I am crying and dying inside. And that's 100% true! However, she saids my future is peaceful and a blessing! She told me I will find love. She told me I will be married and very happy and blessed. She told me I will be expecting a baby too! She is for sure that I will be married and happy and peaceful. she told me my future is very positive and peaceful.

That makes me happy! SO HAPPY! And I know I am NOT the type to jump into a new relationship just to move on....I went on dates and NONE of those guys I liked at all. I try to force myself to like them, but I do NOT. Sorry.

I can't force myself into something I don't like. I def won't just marry anyone just to be married too.....so I am HOPING this happy marriage and blessing is with my ex! I know I am NOT the type that will just marry anyone just for the hell of it. SO let it be with my love. Only one in the world.

My question is should I contact him at all? I purchase almost the entire reconciliation line from LuckyMojo....should I text my ex once in a while or NOT? I actually text him today and told him it's a good time to sell his stocks b/c it's at a all time high!!! He didn't respond.

And I started crying. LOL.... So I don't know....should I continue to text him or don't? should I text him once a month or not at all???? what is your opinion J82? I am getting mixed opinions from my friends.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Fri Dec 12, 2014 9:29 pm

I will get a reading again from Catherine in June next year regardless.

One semi good news.....It's my 9th day doing my honey jar....so far the burns have been pretty clean. Nothing left at all.

Yesterday when the candle was ALMOST done burning (but not quite) there was a piece of wax in a shape of a heart!!! It looked just like a heart....I was so shocked to see that! usually it just burns clean but yesterday I saw a heart but when the candle finish burning everything was GONE again. No wax left.

Heart can't be bad news.

But I text him today at 7pm and got no response at all. So I don't know. :/

Should I continue to text him once every week or two or month or no?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Dec 13, 2014 9:08 am

PreciousCC,

hearts are good signs. I would not contact him. He knows you want him, he knows you are trying to get him. Stop. Let the work stop, let the work do its thing. OF course you are getting mixed ideas from friends. If you ask 10 people you will get 10 different tips of advice! My opinion is that chasing someone or being needy to them will only chase them away. Walking away and getting yourself together will increase the chance they will want you back again. If you both got back together right now you would probably coddle him to death because you have been thinking of him so much more. Set the work and forget it, no contact do the work.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Dec 13, 2014 8:20 pm

Hey J82!

I got a heart yesterday too!!!! I got hearts two days in a row now!

But NOT sure why he did NOT respond to my text....well technically I just told him it's a good time to sell his stocks b/c they are HIGH right now. That was all I said....it wasn't a question....so it's okay that he didn't respond??? Just like Happy Thanksgivings was NOT a question either....when I text him questions on finances he always respond right away....:/

But you are right and YES OF COURSE I prefer that he contacts me first!!!! That's very obvious but so scared that he will NOT. I will wait to see if he contacts me first.....but I will do the reconciliation spell kit and send a letter to him if I have to....I won't give up till that is done at the very least! I haven't bought the kit yet b/c I am PRAYING TO GOD that I won't need it that all my other spells will make him willing to at least talk to me! I HOPE I WON'T NEED THAT KIT!!!!

I placed my fifth order with LuckyMojo....LOL...it would have been smarter to just order everything at once! I followed your advise and got 3 packets of deer tongue for my spell, one packet of Balm of Gilead Buds, One bottle of Chinese wash and I got a glass encased fixed reconciliation vigil candle just to see how it is....I have everything from the reconciliation line now....you can't say I didn't try! hahaha....

2 more questions

1) should I put any reconciliation oil and return to me oil on his door knobs or anywhere at his house when I am there...I will be there once to put out the sachet powders and crystal baths....should I put any oil on the door knobs or anywhere at his house?

2) How do I use the chinese wash?????????????

I wanted to do Cats "make him think about me spell" with Hoyt's cologne but I don't have any of his hair at all or any part of his body or DNA....so I didn't get a Hoyt's cologne...maybe I should have? :/

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Dec 14, 2014 6:49 am

PreciousCC,

Dont put the oil on his knows you dont want him to touch oil and then realize it and smell it.

Use the wash to clean the floors of your home, Put a cap in a bucket it water.

I think you are doing enough spells that maybe you should wait for them to manifest before doing new other work

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Dec 14, 2014 8:46 pm

What is the difference between Florida Water and Chinese wash? Are they both for cleansing? What is the difference? which is better? I have some Florida Water from my friend...just a little bit left only though.

My spells so far 1) the black magick love spell by my friend 2) my honey jar 3) bottle spell and 4) I will be going to my exes house when I receive my sachet powders from LuckyMojo. Oh and 5) I ordered one reconciliation glassed encased vigil candle from LuckyMojo too....Mainly just wanted to see it and pray over it. Another thing I can pray on. I already pray everyday to the honey jar....my 11th day today.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Dec 15, 2014 7:48 am

Preciouscc,

Use Chinese Wash to cleanse and clean then you can burn insence to set a new tone in the house like blessing or reconciliation

barbie16118 · Unread post by **barbie16118** » Mon Dec 15, 2014 12:52 pm

I will be deploying my honey jar this weekend in the ocean. we have reached our completion. my vinegar jar will be buried the following day in the cemetery,it has broke my husband and his mistress up and he now wants to work on our marriage. however after meditating in front of candles nightly i have realized , i can do so much better. lol nope i dont want him back, for now. i dont know what the future holds but im in a good place with me right now. im glad the other female now has her eyes open to what he is and that no matter what he will always come back to me whether i want him to or not

. she is moving on

thank u very much ur site is very helpful, im sure ill be here for more info and other things

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Dec 15, 2014 10:02 pm

Hello, barbie16118 ,

WONDERFUL !!!!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 10:22 am

My ex did end up texting me back! He obviously disagreed with me about money bc he email me a book to read on money.....he saids I should take it to heart what this book has to say about money. I will read it no problem.

My question is does the honey jar and all the other spells etc work better if you have some contact with your ex (texting once in awhile) or NO contact at all????

I know J82 told me not to chase my ex and I agree 100% but is NO contact at all with your ex really better than a little bit of contact once in a while?

What will make the honey jar work better???? I just want to do whatever makes the honey jar work better....a little contact or NONE at all???

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 2:48 pm

Hello PreciousCC,

This type of thing tends to vary from situation to situation. If the little bit of contact is happening naturally and not forced it is probably fine. In general at some point you do want to be talking to the person again if you are trying to reconcile. Are you working with a professional on this? if so I would suggest asking them what they think.

Peace~

Nathen

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 3:32 pm

PreciousCC,

When I told you no contact its because the ex ( as well as most of us on here) can tell the reason you are contacting him is out of interest and wanting to be with him still. So to him you seem desperate. People dont want something that is throwing it self at them. Also if you did get back together right now, I would bet it would crash and burn.. not because you dont love eachother but you are not over it. SO when I say dont talk I mean take a break, enjoy life, get to the point where you are living life and it does not revolve around thinking of him and what he is doing, THEN you are ready to send a "how have you been".

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Dec 16, 2014 10:01 pm

Nathen,

I am NOT working with anyone right now....what kind of professional do you recommend that I work with? Is there actually people that can HELP ME get my ex back? lol...I read TONS of books on how to get your ex back....but I didn't know there are actually people that I can hire for this...really?

J82,

Okay, I will try to relax and enjoy life.....I honestly work 90% of my time anyways. I make very good money, so I don't mind working a lot! So most of my time is occupied by my job so I am NOT bugging my ex or anything. I don't have much time for meeting people or hobbies b/c I work so much...

Anything else you recommend that I do? I think I am doing ALL that I CAN to get my ex back in regards to spell casting and work..... what else is there to do? :/ I will relax now! lol

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Dec 18, 2014 9:10 pm

Hello, PreciousCC,

There are AIRR members who work with Reconciliation.

Just go to this page and look at their profiles. OR you can look up reconciliation on the AIRR pages and then t will tell you (on the left hand side) which AIRR members do this type of work

http://readersandrootworkers.org

Take care

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Dec 20, 2014 1:55 pm

Thank you Miss Aida! I def will get a rootworker if I don't see any movement in a month or two.

I have great news though! I mention before that I saw hearts while my candle was burning for two nights in a row! This morning when I got up there was wax left after the burn from last night and guess what???? It's TWO HEARTS!!! One big heart and a small tiny heart beside it!!!! But two easily recognizable heart left from last night! I am gonna take a picture of it!! Super excited!!!!! I am soooooooo shock to see that actually! I can't believe my eyes!

However the bad news is.....sigh....my ex texted me and told me to read a book about money. He wants me to learn from it and become better with money etc. I responded a day later with thank you for the book etc. then I told him I am going to email him answers to the CEs I have already done for our pharmacist license renewal....we both need to do CEs but I gave him answers to the ones I already did myself and told him I will send him more answers as I continue to do them. And guess what???? It's been 3 days now and NO response!!!!!! That is pretty rude of him and he isn't usually rude!!!! Even if a complete stranger gave me answers to my CEs and save me hours of time doing it myself I would at the very least say thanks for the CEs! But nothing!!!! NO response at all! That's just flat out rude and unlike him! Even for a stranger you would at least thank him! So I honestly am confused my signs and his actions aren't matching up! :/

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Dec 20, 2014 4:11 pm

PreciousCC
OMG how do you not see this? You offer to send him the answers he does not respond, not because he does not want the answers but because he knows why you are doing this and sending them. To him it is you "trying" it is you "pushing" it is you "buttering him up", he dont want that now. You have been doing this all along and have got no results if not negative, so how long will you chase him and expect results? how long will you coddle him and get no results before you change your behavior. His signs and actions are perfectly fine the issue is you. So you got a heart in the wax, does that mean he runs to you today? NO it means he still cares about you, hence hearts = love. Dont mean he wants to be with you or be with you right now. You see a sign and expect results. The longer you stick to this path and dont make changes to the work and behavior, you will push him away further. So again please get a reading from an AIRR worker, talk to them about your behavior and pattern with him, how you contact etc so they can advise you properly, they can tel you what work to do.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Dec 20, 2014 7:35 pm

Okay, I will NOT contact him anymore....I wasn't going to anyways bc he didn't respond to my last text!!!

My plan is to NOT contact him anymore....(Does that mean NO Merry Christmas and NO Happy New Years text????)

And continue praying and doing the work (Honey Jar, Bottle spell, tobacco and I also order Deer Tongue coming soon!) and PRAY he will contact me first.....If NOT and it's Feb or March I will get another reading and see what to do from there.....I will get Deacon Millet to do some work for me if I see NO movement at all by Feb or March and I will get another reading etc.

What do you think J82?

How about you Miss Aida? Good plan?

I mean seriously what else can I do? Beside WORK HARD on my spells and PRAY everyday like I am doing now!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sat Dec 20, 2014 9:15 pm

Should I do a quick 10 or 30 min reading with Cat and see what she thinks about the heart shape wax? I got two hearts! One big heart and one small heart!

I am really excited about this sign....just wish my ex would talk to me now!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Dec 20, 2014 11:07 pm

Hello, PreciousCC,

I agree with J82.

Now, here's a post I just wrote to someone else and this can apply to you: post160021.html#p160021

You need to leave him alone until he comes to you.

I also think that if you don't wish him a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, it will get him wondering if you're with someone else. Or why he wasn't important enough to give him these wishes. Make hi =m wonder and guess. Don't be so transparent. You're not helping your spell work with these behaviors. You got to play it SUAVE.

Take care

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Dec 21, 2014 5:57 am

PreciousCC,

Amen to Miss Aida!! No contact means no christmas or new years. I am sure in your head you think, but then he thinks I dont care? No honey he knows you care you made that very obvious. Have you ever heard the saying, "Absents makes the heart grow fonder". It applies in this case.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Dec 21, 2014 9:44 am

Thanks guys! I want to thank you guys for all the support on here!

Okay no contact for at least a few months then...I will be patient and wait for him to contact me! Very hard though!!!!

Miss Aida thanks for sharing that post!!!! Luckily my ex is still single.....if my ex had a new girlfriend I would give up and not try anymore personally. :/

Do you guys think I should get a quick reading on my heart shape wax right now or continue to work hard on my jar and wait a little bit for movement first? It's only been two weeks since I started the honey jar should I wait at least a month or two before another reading?

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Sun Dec 21, 2014 8:16 pm

My ex texted me back today (3.5 days later)....he told me he didn't need my CEs bc he already have them done. He told me the book is very important to read and learn about etc. then he ask me how much money I still owe on my student loans and how much money I spend each month. Well that is very nice of him to care....I will respond in a day or so to answer his question....I will try my best to stop texting him bc it would be nice to see him initiate a text first now!!!

Well I am still so happy to see heart shape wax!!!! Deacon Millett told me that's a great sign!

better than nothing!

kiyoki · Unread post by **kiyoki** » Sun Dec 28, 2014 8:52 am

Hi everyone,
My new situation is now he went to counseling and refer ( lady) to the sex therapist. My boyfriend told me he is going to tell he does"t want go counseling again and end everything. But came with this another therapist to go. I am so upset now and decided to stay away from him. I am still working with my both jars. I have an question, Is it ok to start another honey jar with his personal stuff.( have a used underwear. thinking cut around private aria of that underwear and use my new honey jar) I didn't had any personal things for my previous honey jar except his hand writing.
Is that ok to work on my both honey jars at same time. Do I have to light two candles on it or i I light one then which jar I should light candle on? New one or old one?
He sill wants me, saying he doesn't want go back. But he has no courage to tell them. Is there are anything I can do make him o do that?
Thank You very much all of you and all the support, advice, information and encourage.
Blessed be

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Sun Dec 28, 2014 6:29 pm

Hello to all! So I've worked up a reconciliation honey jar with all lm products, plus some other tidbits from these forums. Bless all of you! Almost a whole year of no contact from my live after he walked awsy from me and our kids : ( well, i've been working my jar for almost 3 weeks. He posted an ad for me online! I found it : ) i replied, and we emailed back and forth on fri eve. He diced right in begging for him to take him back. Then, he stops writing. Today (sunday), emails agsin, apologizing for how he treated me. Begs for us to work things out. I talk to him about the kids, him being a part of them, how they need him, how we can figure things out together. Then, he stops talking again : ( what am i doing wrong? Why does he do this? Confused.