Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Dec 24, 2014 10:40 pm

Hello, ImABalloon,

I don't know the exact conversation but I'll try to help you here.

Since you're using red (passion), you're going to have to give the skull candles an idea that has to do with passion.

So, I would say something like: "No matter what I say, you will forgive me because you are passionately attracted to me".
OR
"When you see me, You're thoughts will be about passion and not about anything said in the past"

I hope tis helps

Happy Holidays

Jess-Belle · Unread post by **Jess-Belle** » Thu Dec 25, 2014 10:55 am

Miss Aida, yes that is a HUGE help - thank you. I'm going to jot down all the ideas on a paper so I can repeat the same ideas over and over each night. Thanks so much for getting back to me, even during the holidays. Hope you're having a lovely one.

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Sun Jan 04, 2015 1:50 pm

I met a new lover a few months ago. We weren't friends beforehand, like with my other two lovers (full disclosure: I'm nonmonogamous and date multiple people with every party having full knowledge, and I try to only date people who are also nonmonogamous so I know we're closer to being on the same page) but our compatibility was immediate and electric. We started falling mutually in love, and were building what felt like a great relationship together.

However, he has four other lovers, and with the stress of the holidays he started doubting whether being with me would be a stable force in his life, because he wanted to meet all of our emotional needs. He said he thought about what he wanted to coming year to look like, and realized that feeling for me what he did probably meant he would overextend himself and end up hurting us both. A couple days ago, even though it hurt him to do it and it hurt me even more, he broke up with me.

I've spent some time thinking it over and I've decided I want him to change his mind and take me back. The ending was not a natural, mutual decision, and given our compatibility and growing feelings it felt very premature. I'm starting to make a plan to do work to make him change his mind and take me back, for a long-term relationship, but I'm running into one difficulty: unlike the work I do with my other lovers to reinforce our bond, I have limited access to his personal effects. I started a honey jar with his hair while we were still dating, but sadly I don't have any more hair and I'm unlikely to get it. The next best thing I have is a Christmas card he wrote me with his handwriting, but I know that's less effective.

Additionally, I'd like to work some concurrent breakup and/or freezing spells between him and his other lovers, but for them I have even less - no personal effects aside from their photos and names.

Do you have any advice for what my game plan should be? I'm hesitant to take apart my honey jar for him to get the hair and cut it up into more pieces to use, unless a trusted rootworker specifically advises me to. Also, in tracking my successes over the past year I've noticed that my love work seems to have slower but surer movement and outcomes, while my cursework is more sporadic (e.g. breakup work still has no outcome close to what I want, so I'm going to make a new jar; but a personal curse I put on one person took effect when she was unceremoniously and unexpectedly fired with no severance from her job right before Christmas and she has yet to find a new job). Any advice?

Thank you all!

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Sun Jan 04, 2015 2:30 pm

Edited to add: I found some hairs! I was sorting my socks for laundry and not only did I notice several of my ex lover's hairs attached to it, I found two of one of his other partner's hairs as well! I've stuck each one individually in a folded-over piece of scotch tape, for safekeeping.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jan 04, 2015 11:30 pm

Hello, ravenmaven,

I would do a freezer spell since there's so many rivals.

On page 17 of this subforum, I have reposted Miss cat's petition to get rid of all rivals. Check it out: freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676s60.html

For him, I would do a return to me spell (as opposed to reconciliation because you really didn't fight) along with a come to me spell:

www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html

www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

Start with these spells and see how they manifest

Take care

ravenmaven · Unread post by **ravenmaven** » Mon Jan 05, 2015 11:22 am

Thank you as always for your wisdom, Miss Aida! I'm drafting how to write the petition so I can make the spell tomorrow. (The lemon tree in my yard is finally bearing fruit so I have plenty to use! I feel like that and finding the hairs when I thought I didn't have any personal effects are all good signs to be optimistic about my work.)

Edited to add: I found a post that answered my own question so I decided to modify my post. I hope it wasn't too confusing!

hoplessromatic · Unread post by **hoplessromatic** » Mon Jan 05, 2015 1:10 pm

natstein wrote:Hello hoplessromantic,

The give space but not to much is space I am not sure on. I think that depends on the person you are working on and you may be the better judge even if you do not think you are. (you might be able to ask Deacon Millet to clarify that for you).

For tricking the card, I would recommend sprinkling it with a little Reconciliation Powder and maybe some Love Me powder. YOu can read about those specific powders at these links.

(http://www.luckymojo.com/products-reconciliation.html)

(http://www.luckymojo.com/products-love-me.html)

and read about how to use the powders at this link.

(http://www.luckymojo.com/powders.html)

For the honey jar it size can be whatever is convenient. The first honey jar I did was in one of those tiny simple sized mustard jars I had cleaned out. It is really little (and still working I might add!) Also you do not have to burn candles on it. You can just pray over it. Though if Deacon Millet told you to burn candles on it I would do it as soon as you can. You might be able to get away with burning little birthday candles on it if any other kind of candle is to large. If you use a birthday candle it will burn itself down completely and go out on its own.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

Thank you for your reply, I'm sorry I have not thanked you sooner, I've been very busy (but still doing my honey jar)

I do have a few further questions if that is ok?

My parchment paper despite folding it twice as instructed has started to unfold it's self and rise to the top of the jar, should I be worried / have I done something wrong?

Secondly, I had that wonderful reading from Deacon that really did shock me due to things I never even mentioned to him came out.
my question is how long is it best to wait between readings and does it matter if I have Deacon again (or Catherine if Email reading is possible) as being in different time zones & working shifts I can never guarantee as to when I am free and the email reading was perfect?

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Jan 06, 2015 5:20 pm

Hello hoplessromatic,

I had a honey jar whose little petition paper unfolded a bit. It did not seem to hurt the jar or the work, but since then I have started tying my honey jar petitions with some red thread (you could also use whatever color is appropriate to your situation) to keep them closed.

Secondly, it is perfectly fine to get another reading from Deacon Millet (or Miss Cat) again. If you already had a reading with him you might just ask him how long is good to wait. I would not get one to soon but if you had some quick or major changes occur sometimes it is good to check back in right away. Otherwise I have found a couple weeks to a month is a good time in general.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

StarDreamWeaver · Unread post by **StarDreamWeaver** » Wed Jan 07, 2015 9:11 am

I'm working on Reconciling with a Lover. A Reading by an AIRR Rootworker indicated that there was still something there so a Reconciliation could be affected. What are some Recommendations of things to do while waiting for Manifestation? (Magical & Non-Magical.)

I have LMC Reconciliation Powder (but not the Kit.) Can I use Reconciliation Powder on my Lover & on anyone who shunned me due to their loyalty to my Lover or is it only for Love? What about putting some Reconciliation Powder on a picture of them (separately) while speaking my Intent? Any thoughts on how to make sure that the Powder influences only the Intended Target? (Reconciliation between me & a Lover.. not the Lover & someone else.)

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Jan 07, 2015 4:06 pm

Hello StarDreamWeaver,

The things you mention are all good ideas. Ultimately I would suggest doing whatever it is that your rootworker suggests you do. If you only got a reading and no rootwork advice the reconciliation spell kit is probably the best way to go as it will give you all the tools you need to do a solid bit of rootwork.

The way to make the powder influence your intended target is to tell the powder exactly what you are wanting and to get your target to come into contact with the powder in some way, whether its walking on it, touching it on a door handle, handling a Christmas card, what have you!

Peace~

Nathen

nunu531986 · Unread post by **nunu531986** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 1:12 pm

How do i make my husband forgive what i said and did to him and makr him come back to me?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jan 08, 2015 7:43 pm

nunu531986,

In another post you asked about using Commanding oil to make him return. This was in the Commanding Oil thread.

But think -- you ought to decide first, are you asking forgiveness or are you commending him?

These are very different emotions and one can hardly hold both in one's mind at the same time.

For forgiveness, use Return to Me and Reconciliation. If you were wrong, admit it.

Jess-Belle · Unread post by **Jess-Belle** » Mon Jan 12, 2015 4:24 pm

Hello all. A bit of an update (this is formerly ImaBalloon). I'd been having nice progress over the past 20 days, had some solid signs, as well as movement. Especially last week - there were two particular days where he finally was the first to initiate contact, and he was acting totally different, asking how was work, etc. He even recommended a book for me to read. I was like wow, this is awesome. But it's like he caught himself and now he has withdrawn again. As you can imagine this is immensely painful, I thought things were finally going to turn around... Not that he is the wiser. I've played this all like a champ if you ask me - I haven't mentioned a thing about our relationship, nor have I chased him or plied him with my adoration. I've just been doing what I can to be a good friend and be positive and supportive about what he shares with me, etc.

Maybe this is the kick in the rear that I needed to stop obsessing about him and the work I'm doing on him, and just let the spells do their work. I love him and miss him so much it hurts, but I am just so tired of living every second and making every movement calculated to the millimetre to be about him. I've eaten a chocolate pop tart and am trying to keep my chin up.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:27 pm

Hello, Jess-Belle,

That's a good policy! Usually when you forget about it, that's when things really start to manifest.

But, if they slack, then go back to your work.

Wishing you the very best

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Jan 13, 2015 7:49 pm

Jesse Belle,

I feel the same way! My ex sent me a book to read and than later on ask me if I had read it! Then yesterday he texted me to ask me about my taxes....not very romantic at all but he iniated the text so it's better than nothing.....

I am doing the Triple Red Skull spell on him by Deacon Millet.... I want to follow it with 13 of Deacons red skull vigil candles too.... I can't decide to do 13 red skull vigil candles afterwards or 13 reconcillation vigil candles....which one should I do????

If I really can't make up my mind I may just run all 26 candles! Or I have a reading with Miss Cat in Feb I'll ask her then. This is complicated!!!!

My exes birthday is on 2/1!!!! I am soooooooo tempted to ask him to hangout or ask him to come over and help me do my taxes....etc....but sooooooo scared that he will turn me down!!!! Not sure what I should do....most likely best to wait for him to ask me out.....sigh.

snowqueen · Unread post by **snowqueen** » Mon Jan 19, 2015 12:17 am

Hi!

So my ex and I broke up and I received a reading saying we would get back together within the next two months. I asked the candle ministry to burn come back to me and reconciliation candles for me and the readings came back positive! Clear and no residue... However... I know you are not supposed to be in contact with your target when burning a candle and sadly him and i are in a bit of a moving pickle as we were sharing a house... His mum and sister hate me and they have forced him into the break up... Therefore him and i have been in constant contact during the candle burning regarding packing and moving my stuff out of the house... I am wondering if I should burn again? Because although the readings say we will get back together and the candle reading are positive... We are far from being in good terms... Any thoughts or advice? Many thanxs! Bless u all!

SQ

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Mon Jan 19, 2015 3:30 pm

Hey SnowQueen,

I would definetly do 13 sets of candles. I know I would.

I got Deacon Millet to do the Red Skull spell for me....then I'll get him to do 13 red skull vigil candles for me....I may ask the church to do 13 reconcillation candles for me too....depending on how everything goes after the red skull spell and candles.

Who told you you can't have contact while the candles are burning? Is that true? I didn't know that.....good thing I haven't started my candles yet! Lol....so really no contact while the candles are burning?

Xoxolove · Unread post by **Xoxolove** » Mon Jan 19, 2015 7:54 pm

Hi guys!
I am totally new to this so I am going to ask for your help in getting my ex bf back.
Me and him were dating for two years. For the last 10 months together we were in a long distance relationship, we lived 3 hours apart. Needless to say we saw each other once a month due to being in college. He started being very different with me a month before we broke up. In October we broke up and he later told me he was seeing another girl when we were still together. Less than a week after breaking up he got with his now gf. Is there anything I can do, candles, honey jars, etc that can bring him back?

Also I would love to hear any success stories that you guys have from using candles, honey jars etc that brought back your lover.
Hoping to hear soon!

-xoxo

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 19, 2015 8:58 pm

Hello, snowqueen ,

This is news to me also! LOL.

But, it never hurts to burn a few more candles.

Take care

snowqueen · Unread post by **snowqueen** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 1:50 am

Thanx guys! I don't want to take the coercive road.... However a big issue between this man and myself is his controlling mother.... Any spell to get her out of the picture so she doesn't get involved in his thoughts?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 5:45 am

Lucky Mojo has a Reconciliation spell read about it here http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Some people might get a reading before using spells to ensure that is what is needed for the situation. Good Luck!

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 8:39 am

Hi snowqueen ,

You can Hot Foot his mothers thoughts away from him. You need to make your petition very specific though.

www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html

Good Luck!

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 9:32 am

Hey SnowQueen,

Have you ever considered trying to make his mother and sister like you? Do they have good reason to dislike you?

Getting a person to break contact with their mother is pretty hard. I know I would never stop talking to my mom we are very close! If a guy hates my mother I would drop him in a heartbeat!

I would suggest doing a honey jar on his mother....it's better to make her sweet towards you then to tell your boyfriend to choose you over her....you know what I mean?

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 9:38 am

Okay now my question!

I already paid Deacon Millet to do a couples report for me along with the red skull spell and I also got him to burn 13 red skull vigil candles for me afterwards....I just paid him so the work will take awhile to finish.

I am also thinking about getting the Luckymojo church to burn some reconcillation vigil candles for me too....is that a good idea? Is burning two types of candles at one time too much or ok?

Xoxolove · Unread post by **Xoxolove** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 9:41 am

Do you think it might be too late?
Since it's been over three months?
The thing is I don't see him at all we live three hours apart. And I cut the communication off with him as well.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 1:16 pm

PreciousCC,

The best person to ask this question to is Deacon. You are paying him to read for you, paying him to set candles for you but you dont give him the dignety to ask in his professionalism if its ok?

In general yes its ok to have the church set candles , but its also important the worker knows what you are doing so you work together not against one another.

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 8:24 pm

j82 wrote:PreciousCC,

The best person to ask this question to is Deacon. You are paying him to read for you, paying him to set candles for you but you dont give him the dignety to ask in his professionalism if its ok?

In general yes its ok to have the church set candles , but its also important the worker knows what you are doing so you work together not against one another.

Good point! Lol.... I will ask him now!

Xoxolove · Unread post by **Xoxolove** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 8:45 pm

jwmcclin,

Do you think the spell kit will still work since it has been a little over 3 months?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 10:36 pm

Hello, Xoxolove ,

The only ways of knowing is to try.

You have nothing to lose by trying

take care

Xoxolove · Unread post by **Xoxolove** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 10:42 pm

Miss Aida,

I just purchased the honey jar. I've seen a lot of posts in the forum saying many positive outcomes after trying it. Fingers crossed it will work. Would you recommend any other products to return an ex lover after a long period of no contact?(:

-xoxo

PreciousCC · Unread post by **PreciousCC** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 2:07 am

Xoxolove,

I am also trying to get my ex to return! There are quite a few things you can try to get your ex back:

Honey jar, bottle spell, mojo bag, reconcillation powder sprinkle around his house and back to yours, light vigil candles by the church, etc.

You can also hire people to do magick spells for you. Just be careful! Tons of scams online! :/

I hired Deacon Millet and a good trustworthy friend of mine too. I would recommend hiring someone to do some spells for you while you work on a honey jar and light some candles etc.

Good luck

snowqueen · Unread post by **snowqueen** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 3:11 am

Heya guys!

Had an amazing and insightful reading this morning... I don't actually care about working on him or his mum at this point... Why?! Because I have so much more to look forward to! His mum doesn't like me because I wont be manipulated or controlled easily, I am my own free mind and soul... My spirit can only be tamed by myself... This is WHO i am and this HOW I will be... So screw them! I am happy and free if I can be ME!

Thanx for ur tips though but I'd rather be alone and a FREE me than with him and controlled by his control freak of a mum!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 9:49 am

Hello, snowqueen,

Happy that you feel liberated!

Congrats!

hoplessromatic · Unread post by **hoplessromatic** » Thu Jan 22, 2015 2:19 pm

natstein wrote:Hello hoplessromatic,

I had a honey jar whose little petition paper unfolded a bit. It did not seem to hurt the jar or the work, but since then I have started tying my honey jar petitions with some red thread (you could also use whatever color is appropriate to your situation) to keep them closed.

Secondly, it is perfectly fine to get another reading from Deacon Millet (or Miss Cat) again. If you already had a reading with him you might just ask him how long is good to wait. I would not get one to soon but if you had some quick or major changes occur sometimes it is good to check back in right away. Otherwise I have found a couple weeks to a month is a good time in general.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

So despite having a fantastic reading in November, me carrying on doing my honey jar, and my ex actually communicating with me again when i've seen her (she's lit up each time), I had another reading done and it was pretty negative, a whole contradiction to the previous and went against the good signs I was getting from her.
Well today my world has now been completley shattered. I've been informed by her friend that she's now seeing someone and has been for the past couple of weeks (taking it slow, but really into him) - her friend had said to me previously on a couple of occasions the past two weeks that she's been "trying to make her see sense" but has also told me that she knew then that she was seeing someone.

Am I still ok to continue doing my honey jar. I'm not the type of person that want's to force her to breakup so I dont want to know anything like that, as at the end of the day I have only ever wanted to see her happy. (but of course with me)..

hoplessromatic · Unread post by **hoplessromatic** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 8:22 am

Oh the honey jar has crystallized around the parchment - is that a good thing or bad thing,. i've tried googling to find out and some say it locks the job in place and others are saying to warm the honey - I live in a very cold country.

karma_13 · Unread post by **karma_13** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 8:52 am

I just placed a HUGE order with LM; however, it won't arrive for about two weeks. (I'm so excited to start I can't wait!)

The thing is...I just started my period and want to lay some tricks in my ex's apartment with my menstrual blood in his food. Is it okay if I do that now, before the rest of my order arrives? Or should I wait and do it all at once? I have a key to his place so I can enter anytime, any day...that's not a problem about going back and doing tricks a second time. I'm just worried that my 1st round of menstrual blood won't be effective without the rest of the oils and powders working in conjunction.

What do you think? Thanks!!!!!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 1:38 pm

karma_13,

Why would you think the blood is not enough? If you go in with that attitude then yes you are right it wont be, but old time workers and women past and present have used that as a very powerful method to keep and hold a man. I would not add oil or powders to something you want him to eat, first he will notice that!!! Often people ask more powerful, most powerful, .. I wonder compared to what? What is your comparison to determine if something is stronger or weaker? What method did you use to determine what to use on him? My point is dont be so worry-sum about the best this or that, do the work that you have the best you can and have faith in it.

karma_13 · Unread post by **karma_13** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 5:41 pm

Hi j82, thanks for your reply! I wasn't planning on adding oils or powders to his good per se, I was going to lay tricks throughout his apartment, you know on his bedsheets and in his shoes, on his doormat and in his shampoo. Only the blood was going in his food.

I just wasn't sure if I should have all tricks work in conjunction with each other or no, if you've got the blood, go forward with that! Ive read a woman's blood is extremely powerful but if it made more sense to hold off for some reason I would!

Im going into this fully believing, no worries, but since its my first time I thought I'd run it by the pros and see what the consensus is.

With that said, Monday it is!!!!

Thanks again!

karma_13 · Unread post by **karma_13** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 5:46 pm

One last thing I should clarify...he's my ex so I don't necessarily have him . I read that menstrual blood is for binding, I'm using it to bring him back! So when I lay my trick, I plan to phrase my intent like that. Is blood really only for binding when you're actually together or can it be used in my situation?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 6:03 pm

karma_13,

Prayer is for him to be attached to you to think of you and love only you. You are making the person obsessed, stuck, in love, eyes for only you.

I would use the other products lightly so he wont notice them, and dont get caught . Also the moon is in taurus on monday which is a great sign for long term work things you want to last and not become undone also great for love work. Dress a candle with your blood and oils and burn it on his photo as you pray and do it every time the moon is in taurus.

karma_13 · Unread post by **karma_13** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 7:42 pm

Thanks j82! I will definitely follow your suggestions. I didn't realize you can dress candles with the blood too!

Monday sounds like a great day to do it, the sooner the better! I don't know anything about moon phases, but if you say a Taurus Moon is a good moon for love work - sounds good to me! I just looked up online and found a calendar for moon phases...any other moons good for love spells? And how about for revenge or banishing/break up work?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jan 23, 2015 9:11 pm

Hello, karma_13 ,

I suggest that you consult an AIRR member who also works with Astrology for more in depth questions: http://readersandrootworkers.org

But here is a page with more insight on phases: www.luckymojo.com/zodiacal.html

Take care

help_her_return_2me · Unread post by **help_her_return_2me** » Sat Jan 24, 2015 11:36 am

Like many others I am trying to win my ex-girlfriend back.
Our breakup was caused by authorities getting involved despite my gf and I knowing the truth.
She stated last year after I wrote to her, that we couldn’t have a future together due to what went on, as her teenage (soon to be 18) son would kickoff and not accept me.
Despite this I do know there is still something there. (optimistic / hopeful)
In Nov, I had a wonderful reading that stated that we would be back together, that she’d see her son being a petulant teen who should not rule her life and an ALLY would reunite. I was advised to do a honey jar, which I have been doing. Parchment states “Love me return to me” and I light a candle (evgraved with her name, love me, return to me) every Mon, Wed, Fri. – though the honey has now crystalised.
Dec, I send a Xmas wishes text, and I got the same back instantly. New Years bang on midnight I send “Wishing you and [son’s name] a happy new year” instantly I get back “thank you, You too” and then again an hour later.
I started another honey Jar, again with the same information, and again burning a candle the same time frame – but this too crystalised the same time as the other jar.
5th Jan, I see ex, and she lights up and we exchange hi’s. This continued for a week, with her friend also telling me that she’s trying her best to get us back together but my ex is not having any of it, due to her son’s attitude and that he wont accept me.
2nd week again lights up when she see’s me, we had a little conversation as to how each ones christmas holidays went, again her friend telling me that she’s trying but not to get hopes up due to her son.
This is the 3rd week, I had another reading it was very negative apart from the summing up of “Survival, the instinct to survive despite all obstacles. This card shows a factory spewing out pollution in a barren landscape, while one small flower pushes up from the rocky earth”
day after this her friend tells me that she’s now seeing someone else and has been for a couple of weeks (despite her knowing this she still continued to fight in my corner” but this time she has said that she’s quite into her new guy… I gave her friend a Birthday present (silver love heart) that had been in my car for 8mths to give to her. (her birthday happened 2wks after we split).
Yesterday, I spoke to my ex, she thought the gift was lovely, she mentioned how much time had passed over the court case, I mentioned the dates we did things before splitting up, she was smiling. I then said – [her mate] told me you are seeing someone else and I am happy for you, she looks at me and says she’s sorry and I could tell she was getting upset so I gave her a little hug (she did not pull away), I then said she had nothing to be sorry for as it was nothing she could have done, she again mentioned her son’s attitude, and then I also said look as long you are happy.. she replies with an “errrm”, I said “you are happy aren’t you?” her reply was “he’s’ a nice man” long pause so I say “but?” she finishes off saying “it’s all new at the moment so I don’t know” she then got called away. I later sent her a text saying “I meant what I said earlier. DON'T ever be sorry for anything especially being the love of my life.” – no reply.
So that’s my little story and where I am, I have done the following:
Time we split to time I won case no contact and again Sep to Dec No contact (after letter)
Had two readings an extremely positive one and a negative one – with a glimmer of hope as summing up.
Doing two Honey Jar’s Burning candle every Mon, Wed, Fri – with Love Me Return To me around our names. Also her name, Love Me, Return to me engraved into Candle. But these have both Crystalised.
My question is what further can I do, especially to reconcile, have her see her son is being a petulant teen, and have her return to me?
Are the two honey Jars working against each other? Is the crystalisation the problem to the change in fortune?

karma_13 · Unread post by **karma_13** » Sun Jan 25, 2015 7:47 am

Thanks Miss Aida! I just bookmarked that page.

Appreciate your help!

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 4:56 pm

Hi

I posted a few months ago. I just recieved my wonderful products from LMN after a reading with Conjureman Ali! I I ordered reconciliation honey jar, return to me candle, unfixed baby doll and follow me boy spell kit. I have not had communication with my ex since sept other than me checking on him in light of whats been going on with police officers. And on New Years eve..... That was one text. He responded kindly but I didn't say anything mushy.

Anyway I've done the honey jar, the return to me candle is burning clear and popping loud. I have been dreaming of him and seeing other signs. My question is when do I start with the doll baby and follow me boy spell kit. I know they require fluids which I don't have at the moment. I do have papers with his signature and cards he's given me and photos. I do not want to do to much at once. Also, I have some herbs left from the honey jar kit. Can I use those in the doll baby? Also, should I contact him? Please advise... Thanks a bunch !

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 9:38 pm

Hello, blessedlady,

I'd start on that doll as soon as possible. And, yes, you can add those herbs.

Use what you have and you can always add more to the doll later when you get more personal belongings.

If you're uncomfortable doing all at once, I would wait until I was ready (you will know) to perform the Follow Me Boy spell

Wishing you the very best

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 9:56 pm

Thank you. Should i wait for him to contact me first ?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 9:58 pm

Hello, blessedlady,

I'd wait a little while first and if he doesn't then, use your judgment on that one

Take care

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 10:06 pm

Lol. Im going to wait for him to initiate contact. Thanks again!

help_her_return_2me · Unread post by **help_her_return_2me** » Tue Jan 27, 2015 10:00 am

help_her_return_2me wrote:Like many others I am trying to win my ex-girlfriend back.
Our breakup was caused by authorities getting involved despite my gf and I knowing the truth.
She stated last year after I wrote to her, that we couldn’t have a future together due to what went on, as her teenage (soon to be 18) son would kickoff and not accept me.
Despite this I do know there is still something there. (optimistic / hopeful)
In Nov, I had a wonderful reading that stated that we would be back together, that she’d see her son being a petulant teen who should not rule her life and an ALLY would reunite. I was advised to do a honey jar, which I have been doing. Parchment states “Love me return to me” and I light a candle (evgraved with her name, love me, return to me) every Mon, Wed, Fri. – though the honey has now crystalised.
Dec, I send a Xmas wishes text, and I got the same back instantly. New Years bang on midnight I send “Wishing you and [son’s name] a happy new year” instantly I get back “thank you, You too” and then again an hour later.
I started another honey Jar, again with the same information, and again burning a candle the same time frame – but this too crystalised the same time as the other jar.
5th Jan, I see ex, and she lights up and we exchange hi’s. This continued for a week, with her friend also telling me that she’s trying her best to get us back together but my ex is not having any of it, due to her son’s attitude and that he wont accept me.
2nd week again lights up when she see’s me, we had a little conversation as to how each ones christmas holidays went, again her friend telling me that she’s trying but not to get hopes up due to her son.
This is the 3rd week, I had another reading it was very negative apart from the summing up of “Survival, the instinct to survive despite all obstacles. This card shows a factory spewing out pollution in a barren landscape, while one small flower pushes up from the rocky earth”
day after this her friend tells me that she’s now seeing someone else and has been for a couple of weeks (despite her knowing this she still continued to fight in my corner” but this time she has said that she’s quite into her new guy… I gave her friend a Birthday present (silver love heart) that had been in my car for 8mths to give to her. (her birthday happened 2wks after we split).
Yesterday, I spoke to my ex, she thought the gift was lovely, she mentioned how much time had passed over the court case, I mentioned the dates we did things before splitting up, she was smiling. I then said – [her mate] told me you are seeing someone else and I am happy for you, she looks at me and says she’s sorry and I could tell she was getting upset so I gave her a little hug (she did not pull away), I then said she had nothing to be sorry for as it was nothing she could have done, she again mentioned her son’s attitude, and then I also said look as long you are happy.. she replies with an “errrm”, I said “you are happy aren’t you?” her reply was “he’s’ a nice man” long pause so I say “but?” she finishes off saying “it’s all new at the moment so I don’t know” she then got called away. I later sent her a text saying “I meant what I said earlier. DON'T ever be sorry for anything especially being the love of my life.” – no reply.
So that’s my little story and where I am, I have done the following:
Time we split to time I won case no contact and again Sep to Dec No contact (after letter)
Had two readings an extremely positive one and a negative one – with a glimmer of hope as summing up.
Doing two Honey Jar’s Burning candle every Mon, Wed, Fri – with Love Me Return To me around our names. Also her name, Love Me, Return to me engraved into Candle. But these have both Crystalised.
My question is what further can I do, especially to reconcile, have her see her son is being a petulant teen, and have her return to me?
Are the two honey Jars working against each other? Is the crystalisation the problem to the change in fortune?

Little update (whilst I anxiously wait a reply) I've found one of her hair's the coat I was wearing when I hugged her.. I was about to throw it in the wash and something just clicked and said look under your sleeve. and there it was one single strand.

It's like the last card on my reading "Survival"
I've been advised by Deacon Millet to bury the two jars and begin a new one
Now I have a little problem - my head is shaven bald, so I can not use one off my head to tie

does it matter if it comes from your head or is it anywhere on your body? Like chest?

Also:
when using a candle do I really need to use oil?
What colour candle should I use, I have load's of red (14 x 4inch and 4x12inch) when we were together we were very passionate (to the extent on wanting to turn it into something more beautiful --- a child or 3)

Thanks

Jess-Belle · Unread post by **Jess-Belle** » Wed Jan 28, 2015 5:33 pm

Hello again to all... I'm here to post an update and also to get a third-person perspective. So currently, there is a pattern going on where one day he will text me quite a bit, and then the next day or so, he will be real quiet and won't initiate contact. Then the following day he is chatty again. Tonight I am concluding a 3-day figural candle spell for reconciliation (his candle melted way faster than mine) which I am coinciding with the 3-day Reconciliation spiritual bath for forgiveness delineated on this site. On Friday I will begin a moving candle spell with the pink figural candles.

So here's the thing, I have been trying to devise a way to get to see him and it's been tricky. Just some background info, the last time I saw him was 5 weeks ago; I'd gotten him something I knew he wanted and I'd used it as an excuse to see him. However it ended very badly because I got emotional and it led to a huge argument. So, it was his birthday last Friday, and since I was out of town that day, on Monday I asked if I could "drop off" (so he would feel like I wasn't going to stay and cause drama) a little birthday present for him. He seemed receptive but he didn't give me a day or time and then he changed the subject. He was all happy and chatty after that so I figured my offer didn't seem to make him feel bad, at least. I thought he was going to be dead against it because of how things went last time. So today, I nonchalantly brought it up again. His response was that he didn't know because he has tests and quizzes and some school project and that this would take up the rest of his week - not terribly logical with regards to just dropping off a gift. And I said that was fine, it could wait. I feel like we're talking in code. The thing is, I think if he absolutely did not want to see me, he totally would have just said to stick it in his mailbox - he actually said that the last time I went to see him. The things he is saying now make it sound like to him, getting the present involves seeing me; and it sounds to me like he wants to but is afraid or anxious. Am I being blind, or do you guys get the same impression?

Any advice?

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Wed Jan 28, 2015 7:53 pm

Hi I have a follow up question. I just found out my ex's dad passed away. I really want to reach out but I am scared. I also don't know if I should Still do the doll baby now and csndle burning? I really want to be there for him. Please advise. Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 28, 2015 10:59 pm

Hello, www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html,

This is difficult for me to answer because Deacon Millett is your rootworker.

My suggestion to you is to follow his advice. Any advice that I give to you may contradict what he is doing. I'm sorry.

To answer the question about hair, you can use hair from any part of your body. I particularly like pubic hair.

Yes, you really need to use oils on your candles. Here's a page about oils that Miss cat wrote: www.luckymojo.com/oils.html

I would use a pink candle. But, if you want the passion then red is good (pink is more for romantic/emotional love)

Take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:03 pm

Hello, Jess-Belle,

I am sorry but I have no idea why he's behaving this way.

You may want to consider a reading on this to get spell advice and to see what is going on in is head:

www.hoodoopsychics.com
OR
http://readersandrootworkers.org

Wishing you the best

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:05 pm

Hello, blessedlady,

There's an old Arabic saying 9that was told to me by an Arab) and I'll never forget it for the rest of my life:

"The eyes of the mourner misses nothing"

I would definitely, positively, reach out to him and be there for him. Bring him food, etc. He won't forget it.

And continue your spell work!!

Take care

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Jan 29, 2015 12:57 am

Hello, not sure where to stick this so Im going to put it here. My husband and I are getting into a big mess. He has now since asked for a divorce once again. Everything was perfect until his family came back into the picture.

Ive ordered some sachets and I really need to get them in our bed before he moves out which he really doesnt want to. He seems as if someone is playing tug of war with him and Im actually starting to feel bad for him.

In the meantime while i wait on sachet what can I do?
Im waiting so patiently but Im scared my opportunity is running out. One min he tells me we are going to counseling and then the next monute he says he cant do it. I'll be sending off an email read for ConjureMan Ali tomorrow but what can I do to help this poor man of mine.

I did mess up on something which I shouldve known but I was so angry which Im working on my anger but i did a destruction candle and a dume candle to the enemies that were against our marriage. I shouldve waited on that. I need to get to work I do get some signs when i actually think of my intentions but i like to be hands on. I have a huge order that Im trying to put together for Friday and I have work planned out for some special people. I just want to know what can I do now while i wait. I called the shop and they said they were on the 21st orders and I placed my order on the 24th. I'm so scared this fight we are in will just get deeper and deeper.

Please help!!!

blessedlady · Unread post by **blessedlady** » Thu Jan 29, 2015 2:17 am

Thank you! Ok.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jan 29, 2015 4:44 am

Hi queenofheart,

Sounds like putting his family on ice might be a plan. It doesn't have the aggressive and inflammatory energy of the DUME & Destruction work, but it does cool things off and keep them from moving against your husband and relationship.

For the two of you, while you're waiting for your supplies to arrive, consider having MISC set a Reconciliation, Return to Me and Healing light on your relationship and perhaps a Tranquility light for you. Depending on what you have at home, consider fixing his laundry and your sheets by washing them with a whole Dixie John root, if you don't have that then a weak tea of marjoram, basil and cumin.

I've also moved your question to the thread on reconciliation that has many other suggestions on how to work you may find useful.

Blessings.

help_her_return_2me · Unread post by **help_her_return_2me** » Thu Jan 29, 2015 5:11 am

Miss Aida wrote:Hello, http://www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html,

This is difficult for me to answer because Deacon Millett is your rootworker.

My suggestion to you is to follow his advice. Any advice that I give to you may contradict what he is doing. I'm sorry.

To answer the question about hair, you can use hair from any part of your body. I particularly like pubic hair.

Yes, you really need to use oils on your candles. Here's a page about oils that Miss cat wrote: http://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html

I would use a pink candle. But, if you want the passion then red is good (pink is more for romantic/emotional love)

Take care

Can you advise on which oil, for reconciliation, love , return/ comeback to me? I'm in the UK and having liquids shipped from USA has been quite difficult recently, I've had aftershaves held at customs (at LA) this week..

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Jan 29, 2015 7:38 am

aura wrote:Hi queenofheart,

Sounds like putting his family on ice might be a plan. It doesn't have the aggressive and inflammatory energy of the DUME & Destruction work, but it does cool things off and keep them from moving against your husband and relationship.

For the two of you, while you're waiting for your supplies to arrive, consider having MISC set a Reconciliation, Return to Me and Healing light on your relationship and perhaps a Tranquility light for you. Depending on what you have at home, consider fixing his laundry and your sheets by washing them with a whole Dixie John root, if you don't have that then a weak tea of marjoram, basil and cumin.

I've also moved your question to the thread on reconciliation that has many other suggestions on how to work you may find useful.

Blessings.

Thank you!!! Im on it right now. I dont have any supplies at home but Im going to see if any reader is available for the 3.99 a min. He did come to bed with me last night which tells me that there's still hope.

Every morning tho I wake up with this feeling in my heart like a true feeling and S
something is telling me that there's some magic being done on me. I need a reading and answers asap so Ill be online waiting for airr rep to come available. Thanks this is really scary this feeling I have.