How to Use Lucky Mojo Conjure Oils Questions and Answers

Eric1974 · Unread post by **Eric1974** » Mon Jan 05, 2015 12:18 am

What type of oils can I use to stop people from knocking over my mailbox? This has got to stop.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Jan 05, 2015 10:31 am

Run Devil Run comes to mind Eric1974. You might also want to use Reversing to send their actions right back at them.

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Tue Jan 06, 2015 2:58 pm

Can you blend oils and sachet powders??

Unread post by **Ruth** » Tue Jan 06, 2015 3:01 pm

Yes. I do whenever I dress a candle. I'll coat the candle with oil and then roll it in the sachet powder if I'm not using herbs.

Ruth.

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Tue Jan 06, 2015 3:23 pm

Oh great! Thanks Ruth

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 06, 2015 10:42 pm

Hello, Moonlightdream ,

I personally don't do that

Here is a link about powders: www.luckymojo.com/powders.html

Take care

felicityrompers · Unread post by **felicityrompers** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 1:30 pm

I am a freelancing wardrobe stylist that works from my apartment and I am either working with clients online or in their homes. I have purchased Influence, Steady Work, Fast Luck, and Money House Blessing Oils hoping to influence my clients to listen to my suggestions(leading to more appointments, commissions, and referrals), quick and steady appointments with new and existing clients( I just spent a lot of money on re-branding website and blog ), and to keep nothing but growing positivity, love and wealth in my home ( so my marriage remains happy and stress-free, when it comes to financial strain do to my business not making money ).

Can I use any oil while I am at a client's home and leave it on the inside of a drawer, on a hanger, or on a garment?

I also have an attraction kit that I haven't used yet. I am not sure if the entire bottle of attraction oil is required for the kit, but if not I can use some of that as well.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 9:48 pm

Hello, felicityrompers ,

Yes, you can do that.

Just state your intentions when applying the oils to their belongings.

Don't use the attraction oil until you 're done with the kit. Otherwise, you may not have enough

Take care

felicityrompers · Unread post by **felicityrompers** » Thu Jan 22, 2015 6:35 am

Thank you Miss Aida,

As for my online clients, I have seen different things that suggest line my screen with different oils with my intentions. I have also seen different things to do with the Money House Blessing Oil including making washes with Peace Water or Pinesol. And "sealing" rooms after washing rooms. I am not sure what "sealing" means. I clear my apartment with sage and Florida Water. But, I am limited to what I can do since I live in an apartment building. So, I am happy to use a wash or oil.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 3:36 am

Hi felicityrompers,

''Sealing'' a room is using the oil to place a five-spot in the four corners and center of the room's windows and/or door - the openings through which intentions can move in and out.

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 11:22 am

Something strange just happened. I was on the catalog creating my huge shopping cart I was on the kiss me now oil and I just stared at the picture of the oil thinking of what I wanted this oil for. Out of nowhere my husband came to kiss me. Now mind you he has told me theres no love for me anymore and has been hinting at a divorce. It kind of threw me off I wasnt sure if that was a sign telling me to order that oil it really gave me hope though. As I shop i visualize whether the product is something that I really need. Right before that I was looking at the boss oil also and i can swear my boss just called me asking if i can come back to work. I had quit my job because of all the stress. Is this possible? Im freaking out right now. I knew I had a little gift because I once told someone that her children would die in a house fire because of her. 5 years later she fell asleep with a cigarette and her home caught on fire with 3 of her children dying. After that incident i prayed hard to God that i dint want that gift because it scared the crap out of me i mean i was only 12 at the time. Im freakin out right now. I swear.

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 3:38 pm

I was wondering has anyone else had to wait 3 weeks for oils? I just called and this is what I was told. Really anxious to get my oils. :/

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 3:43 pm

hapinys,

Yup, depending on how many you ordered, if they were all made and ready at that time etc. LM is an international business and the best oils in the market, its not surprising.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 8:58 pm

Hello, queenofheart,

That's awesome about the oils.

And you have a gift. Don't be scared. If this were me, I would be asking these spirits for help with your matter.

Take care

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Mon Jan 26, 2015 10:47 pm

I can't wait to submit my order on friday I'll definetly keep you guys updated. Btw is it possible to just have a gift in white magic, I only ask because Ive tried doing a black arts candle I believe it was and poked nails and rubbed red peppers of the figural candle and it never worked it seems as if I never get anything when I do that type of work.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:20 pm

Hello, queenofheart,

Perhaps you don't have that gift.

Or you might be doing something wrong

No way of telling without a reading.
But, if you're good with what you do, stick to that.

There are things that I can't do either and I've been practicing spell work for over 40 something years.

You never see medical people practice every specialty, do you? No! they have specialists for different areas of the body. So, kind of a comparison here for you

Take care

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Jan 29, 2015 1:14 am

Miss Aida wrote:Hello, queenofheart,

Perhaps you don't have that gift.

Or you might be doing something wrong

No way of telling without a reading.
But, if you're good with what you do, stick to that.

There are things that I can't do either and I've been practicing spell work for over 40 something years.

You never see medical people practice every specialty, do you? No! they have specialists for different areas of the body. So, kind of a comparison here for you

Take care

Makes sense, thank you. I've never thought of it that way. You are so awesome I swear lol

felicityrompers · Unread post by **felicityrompers** » Sat Jan 31, 2015 7:28 am

aura wrote:Hi felicityrompers,

''Sealing'' a room is using the oil to place a five-spot in the four corners and center of the room's windows and/or door - the openings through which intentions can move in and out.

Thank you! I appreciate your help. Do you know about floor washes with Money Blessing House Oils? I had mentioned I only had Florida water and it calls for Peace water and I wanted to know if it can do the same thing with Florida water.

Thanks!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Feb 01, 2015 9:52 pm

Hello, felicityrompers

I don't recommend putting oils all over your floor. You might want to try a dissolved bath crystals as a floor wash: www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbaths.html

Peace Water and Florida water are 2 different things with different intentions

Take care -- and compare:

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You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
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alicewhit · Unread post by **alicewhit** » Wed Feb 04, 2015 9:34 pm

What oils do I use to help my 10 year old do better in school? She made the honor roll all last year but this year she seems to have a harder time catching on to her work and she misses the honor roll by a few points. I definitely want her to be able to pass her end of the grade tests this year. Also, do I need to pray when I use the oils on her?

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Thu Feb 05, 2015 10:30 am

Crown of Success & King Solomon Wisdom oils are excellent for students.

alicewhit · Unread post by **alicewhit** » Thu Feb 05, 2015 2:18 pm

Is there a prayer or anything that i need to do when i use the oils on her?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Feb 05, 2015 9:31 pm

Hello, alicewhit

Psalm 23 works very well.

But please read this page to find one that you may prefer

http;//readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Category:The_Book_of_Psalms

Wishing you success with this

Spider47 · Unread post by **Spider47** » Tue Feb 17, 2015 1:56 pm

Adam an Eve oil
Crown of Success oil
I dominate my Woman oil
Kali oil
Fast luck oil

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Feb 18, 2015 10:55 am

Hi, Spider47,

Thanks for your order. If you have questions about any of these oils, there are threads for each one here, by name, and each also has its own web page.

starlight1 · Unread post by **starlight1** » Sat Feb 21, 2015 11:26 pm

Idk if this is the right place to post this or not I was trying to find the right forum..

I've tried ordering oils,powders, and bath crystals but everytime I do it doesn't go through because of an address error..I only have one card and it works when I have a candle lit and other online shopping but just not to purchase from mojo website I even made sure the address was right with the card company..

What can I do to fix this problem I'm about to move and some of the products wiIl help well with a smooth transition for the next couple months to make my life easier.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Feb 22, 2015 10:37 pm

Hello, starlight1,

Please call the shop.

We don't handle these queries on the forum

Take care

greentea · Unread post by **greentea** » Mon Feb 23, 2015 6:30 pm

I had an opportunity to drop off something the guy needs at his doorstep while he wasn't home. So I used the opportunity to dap some fmb oil and love me oil on the guys door step and hand rail. He picked up the stuff when he returned home but asked if I went up the stairs (not supposed to as he lives with another woman so my presence near his place is usually a big no no). He noticed some oily stuff and asked what time I drop off and if I went on the stairs. I denied and said only left the stuff by doorstep and didn't walk up the stairs. He said he could smell it and it's sticky he thinks it's Vaseline or some sort. My question is when I dap the oil I did recite a spell (just in my own words). Does this consider as the spell is broken and a bad sign? Careless mistake. .. I should have dap the oil on another day cuz now he's suspecting me of having something to do with the mysterious oil. Thanks everyone

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Feb 23, 2015 9:40 pm

Hello, singskyle ,

This is not a bad sign.

You did a good job so, don't worry.

Take care

niknak · Unread post by **niknak** » Wed Feb 25, 2015 9:40 am

Hello! Here is my situation...

My fiance has lost his sex drive completely (I had a reading and am told that he is the one, there is no other woman and it is stress and insecurity - he recently started a new career as a fireman and it's been quite the adjustment both in physical demands and in the crazy work hours - when we do try he cant keep it up which I know mentally messes with him so now there's nothing and hasnt been for quite some time). He has turned to porn which is concerning me.

I've purchased the following on 2/6: Kiss Me Now oil, Chupparoa Oil, Bewitching Incense, Cast off Evil and Follow Me Boy and am still awaiting for the items to arrive but have some questions:

1. If I sprinkle the Cast off Evil powder on his laptop and into the lotion he uses (sorry to be graphic

) would that help break that porn habit?
2. I plan to burn the bewitching incense in our apt but is there anything more I should do with the incense?
3. I plan to wear the KMN and Chupparosa but should I also place it on his clothing or personal items?
4. How should I use the FMB? Is that something I can also sprinkle in his lotion or bodywash?

Thanks so much for reading this and for all that you do!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Feb 25, 2015 11:45 am

Don't use the powder on anything but paper or to mix with local dirt where he has to walk by. On computers use VERY small quantities of oil or dissolved bath crystals. Don't sprinkle -- make a big X all across the monitor with damp or very lightly oiled fingers. Do the same for the keyboard. Repeat weekly or even daily if you feel the need.

Put a few drops of the dissolved bath crystals or oil in the lotion bottle, too.

If he's turning to porn, he's still interested in sex -- but either there is some other underlying issue, which Clarity and/or King Solomon Wisdom would help you address, or Real Sex just takes energy he doesn't have.

You could also add Nature products to your love work.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

niknak · Unread post by **niknak** » Wed Feb 25, 2015 2:58 pm

Just for clarification would this be a mixture of all or is this just in reference to the cast off evil?

Thank you

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Feb 25, 2015 9:49 pm

Hello, niknak ,

I would personally use the Cast Off Evil separately and make it my first spell.

Then, follow with the rest of Miss Michaele's advice

Take care

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Feb 26, 2015 12:36 am

niknak wrote:Just for clarification would this be a mixture of all or is this just in reference to the cast off evil?

Thank you

Cast Off Evil for the porn issue; the rest is for your love work.

You could, of course, put King Solomon Wisdom or Clarity in everything. I personally think King Solomon Wisdom is as essential at the altar as flour is in the kitchen. You don't put flour in Jello or lemonade, but by God you sure do use it all the time.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Mon Mar 02, 2015 12:28 pm

Can one dress and fix oils on others? My sister is having problems at work with her boss (a psychopath that many people now dislike and have issues with). It has gotten to the point where she actually wants to quit working there

I want to mix blessing oil, protection oil and van van oil and dab it on her purse/shoes/jacket. Is it possible to do so on someone else rather than yourself? What should I state when I do so for best results? Thank you so much.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Mar 02, 2015 7:02 pm

Moonlightdream ,

Yes it is possible, people have been working for others for ever. Its normal and a great way to grow spiritually by helping others. I would dab it in her shoes so she wears it with her all the time. I would also add a charm and slip in her purse. Mixing the oil in a bottle of lotion, hand sanitzer is another way to get it on her. A stop gossip oil and slippery elm would be great for what she is dealing with. Petition wise, speak from the heart, Lord my sister is being harrassed and I pray you protecter and heal her from their tongue and let her be cleansed and white as snow from their lies. Amen

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Tue Mar 03, 2015 11:47 am

J82! I just wanted to let you know what happened today. I visited her place early this morning before she went to work. They had an emergency meeting at work today to talk about all the issues with the boss. It was obviously quite serious. Anyway, I was sneaking around her place, dabbing blessing oil and protection oil everywhere on her handbag, jacket and shoes. Bummer when she decided to wear another pair of shoes! Lol Luckily enough, I managed to fix those too. I also touched her hair with a mix of the oils While doing so, I kept mumbling and chanting in my head: Lord please protect my sister from harm and evil. May good things come her way, may good things happen the way she wants it to, etc...Guess what happened when she got home! I rushed to her place to ask her what happened at the meeting and she said that things Went really well. She said that the boss suddenly became gentle and didn't dare to say anything to offend her and the other employees. She granted their wish regarding a few matters! Wowww!

I don't know if it's a coincidence or if I'm somewhat gifted with LM Products...! LOL =D Just wanted to share my experience!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Mar 03, 2015 5:03 pm

Moonlightdream ,

Great thats positive feedback and one of the benefits of using LM products they are real and genuine. Keep up the good work.

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 10:23 am

Can one anoint Pictures of a person with for example compelling or commanding oil and speak to the Picture with commands like "you shall stay at home" etc? Can one work with oils and Pictures in that way?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 10:43 am

Moonlightdream wrote:Can one anoint Pictures of a person with for example compelling or commanding oil and speak to the Picture with commands like "you shall stay at home" etc? Can one work with oils and Pictures in that way?

Yes, that's an old way to work. Sometimes you can work even more simply if you must. There's an old spell which you will find in Hoodoo Bible Magic which calls for a photograph, a little olive oil, and Psalm 23. You make nine little dots of olive oil around the person's head in the photo while praying the psalm, to make them love you.

You could certainly use Stay With Me and Proverbs 5:18-19:

18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

Commanding's a little dicey for soft, inviting love work -- but sometimes that's the kind of thing you need.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 2:33 pm

Oh thanks MissMichaele! I tried it right away!

I used love me oil and stay with me oil instead !

Blessings to you!

LA1985 · Unread post by **LA1985** » Mon Mar 09, 2015 11:46 am

Hi!

I have some questions, if you could please help me, I would appreciate it very much...

My goal is to save enough money and to move to Los Angeles and hopefully get a job in the entertainment industry, so I guess I should start with Road Opener & Van Van oil for clearing all obsticles (should I add some Blessing oil so that my new path is blessed?) I also want to have enough money to move so I I should get Money Drawing and Fast Luck?
I want a steady job as an actress, and I already read what oils are great for auditioning & networking (and I also have Crown of Success spell kit). So my question is I right about the oils I mentioned? Do I use them/blend them all at once? Road Opener + Van Van + Money Drawing + Fast Luck + Attraction oil + Steady job + Crown of Success...you get what I meant

Also if I use my Crown of Success spell kit for succeeding as an actress do I do it now while I'm still in Europe or do I do it when I'm in LA?

I hope my questions weren't too dumb. Please recommend oils I might have missed. Thank you so much!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Mar 09, 2015 10:25 pm

LA1985, your choices sound good, but if you use all those oils at once it's going to be a mishmash that might smell like bug spray.

You certainly can blend several oils together, but restrain yourself. Less is more (well, sometimes).

You have the materials for not one, but several blends here.

I've had experience with all the oils you mention, so let me regroup them by scent families -- that is, similar fragrance:

LEMON/CITRUSY:
Van Van
Road Opener

SPICY:
Fast Luck
Attraction

FLORAL:
Blessing

MILD AND HERBAL:
Steady Work
Crown of Success
Money Drawing*

*Folks, I may be confusing this with Money House Blessing, which I use more frequently. Feel free to correct me if needed.

The Mild and Herbal oils would cooperate politely with the stronger, Spicy or Citrusy groups.

When you're blending oils, don't think of a thousand voices shouting in unison. Rather, think of a choir singing in harmony: each voice contributing something different to the music.

One more thing: Fast Luck has a mysterious and irresistible sugary note -- strong and spicy but not as sharp as Attraction. Use it where you will -- if nothing else, to put a spring in your step.

YOu'll fund many thoughtful comments about the art of oil blending in this thread:

blending-two-or-more-lucky-mojo-oils-qu ... 4-480.html

Also if I use my Crown of Success spell kit for succeeding as an actress do I do it now while I'm still in Europe or do I do it when I'm in LA?

Why delay? The sooner you start using it, the sooner it can help you.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

LA1985 · Unread post by **LA1985** » Tue Mar 10, 2015 12:12 am

Thank you so much Miss Michaele!

I'm heading to the oil-blending thread!

misskitty49 · Unread post by **misskitty49** » Wed Mar 18, 2015 1:30 am

I'm not sure if this is the correct place to post, but I guess this question is mostly about oil.

I'm waiting on my first LM order to arrive, which mostly consists of oils. I'm thinking now that I should have gotten a few items from the same line, as opposed to a bunch of different oils. I just figured they're the most versatile of all the products I could choose.

I guess what I'm wondering is how effective the oils will be if I'm not backing them up with the matching candle, sachet, etc. I'm doing spellwork that matches the intention, and I think the oils I purchased will blend together nicely, but I haven't employed the use of any single line of products.

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Mar 18, 2015 8:51 pm

Hello misskitty49,

It is not a requirement that you use other products with the oils but many people do. This type of thing kind of depends on what kind of work you are doing and your personal talents in this kind of work. I like oils a lot and use them on candles all the time, but I seem to have a lot of success using powders for things. I am not sure why this is but I get a lot of traction out of powders. Other people probably experience that with oils.

Another thing to consider is to use the different kinds of products deepening on the task. Oils are good for putting on candles, anointing people's forehead if you are doing hands on work, putting into oil based hair care products things like that. Oils are not so useful for laying down where some one would step on it. While you could do that, powders are really much better suited. So I would not worry that you are not using all the different kinds of products. Just look at what your trying to accomplish and pick the products best suited to the task!

Peace~

Nathen

Priya1220 · Unread post by **Priya1220** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 10:55 am

Hi, are there any oils I can use that will ensure that my ex will not see others during the time we are broken up? (I know we will get back together due to readings)

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 7:47 pm

Hot Foot Oil is used to drive people away.
Break Up Oil is used for making two people break up.
Separation Oil simply separates them gently.

You can combine these oils.

You can also combine them with an oil to rule and control him, such a s I Dominate My Man Oil.

Priya1220 · Unread post by **Priya1220** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 8:57 pm

Okay thank you. What oils will keep his eyes and interest on me only? He is not seeing anyone else yet and isnt interested in anyone else either. I just want to take precautions to make sure he never gets to this point because a reader told me that he might see someone else before we get back together and that isnt okay with me. He is also very strong minded, so does this mean i have to use coercive oils, or can I still get great results with him with influencing ones? Or do i need a step up from that? I haven't wanted to use commanding/dominating oils as it bothers me, but I am trying to find a way to justify it to me now IF he does infact see someone else eventually. Hopefully I dont sound insane. I just dont want any of this to happn. A nd maybe it wont even happen if I dont take precautions, but I dont want to risk it.

BlueBunny · Unread post by **BlueBunny** » Wed Apr 08, 2015 5:19 pm

Hi there, long time since I've been here and I miss this forum & its wealth of information...I hope to god I have posted this question in the right section.

and yes I know the caveat get a reading before performing any kinds of "love" spells but I am on a bit of shoe string budget and I will NOT ever be able to afford any readings cause I have a lot of questions and I feel readings get expensive when they go past a half an hour and they get sketchy when the advice I seek overlaps into how do I get this man's attention, when will we be together and is he right for me & before I know it the reading turns into reading with extra added services/advice and then a small reading turns into a pricey one of which sadly I will never be able to afford & I'm totally OK with that. Unfortunately, I'm going to have to bypass that part of the process and go straight to experimenting slowly with trying to gain this man's affections & look for signs/movements on my own.

So my question here is ==>
Can someone please decipher the difference of I Dominate My Man vs Domination vs Commanding vs Do As I Say vs Essence of Bend Over regarding me trying to gain the mental & physical attention of a specific man that I care for tremendously in another state? Which is the right oil? And I've ransacked for every minutia of a description of all these oils that sets them apart but still a bit muddled as to which is very strong to which is strong but the correct one to get this guy's attention on me fast, steady and completely get his shy side enamored with me if at all possible.... I know this is NOT an easy feat getting a man's attention who lives in another state and I'm not a teenager, this is not a game between him and I but I know his feelings for me are there but I really need to coax it out of him and see where this leads.....

any advice or help is deeply appreciated. Love the oils and powders they smell wonderful and have worked for me on varying speed scales but I am grateful for all the lessons I've learned with each spell I've worked on my own.

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Wed Apr 08, 2015 6:15 pm

Maybe you should dial it back on all the domination products. Start with Come To Me or Follow Me Boy, but I think Come To Me would be better for an out of state situation. It is also possible to read cards for yourself, but reading for yourself can be sketchy because your judgement of the cards will be skewed based on how bad you want a certain outcome. I've had reading with Ms. Elvira that have went over a tad & she didn't end up charging me, I felt like she really wanted to help me & her readings were accurate. The first one that I had, she told me things were done with my ex, & that he had betrayed me deeply. He comes back to our home & utters that exact phrase; "things are done between us." Her readings & magical coaching helped me out tremendously & also helped me learn a little bit about card reading because she explained the cards to me.

BlueBunny · Unread post by **BlueBunny** » Wed Apr 08, 2015 6:27 pm

AlyssaH wrote:Maybe you should dial it back on all the domination products. Start with Come To Me or Follow Me Boy, but I think Come To Me would be better for an out of state situation. It is also possible to read cards for yourself, but reading for yourself can be sketchy because your judgement of the cards will be skewed based on how bad you want a certain outcome. I've had reading with Ms. Elvira that have went over a tad & she didn't end up charging me, I felt like she really wanted to help me & her readings were accurate. The first one that I had, she told me things were done with my ex, & that he had betrayed me deeply. He comes back to our home & utters that exact phrase; "things are done between us." Her readings & magical coaching helped me out tremendously & also helped me learn a little bit about card reading because she explained the cards to me.

Hi Alyssa...I already have the LM Come To Me, Look Me Over & Lodestone & Follow Me oils I just needed to add an extra oil to wrangle him my way with a skosh of compelling him my way nothing over the top, just not sure which of those oils does what without going overkill is all??

when I do the spell to get my message & love across to him I want him to text or call or need me a bit more than usual, maybe even come down to see me more often...even though I see him most of the time...this time I want him to come to me and get his shy tushy in gear and be with me...

And as far as the readings, I had 2 readings done years ago not here somewhere else and I guess those bad experiences left me broke & a bit wiser. I didn't know LM had readers and I'm not knocking any readers at all. Just I've had 2 bad experiences (not here, never here) and just being careful and putting more attention on my spell recipes a bit more than waiting for insight that may or may not go as planned even though free will of the other person that I care about is at play here is all.

But again I thank you so so much for the speedy reply back to my post.

luckycat13 · Unread post by **luckycat13** » Wed Apr 08, 2015 6:31 pm

BlueBunny,

Here's just my quick thoughts on that....if he's not your man yet, I wouldn't choose I Dominate My Man. I look at that more as a way of keeping the upper hand in an established relationship. Domination is going to be more forceful/harsher than Commanding. Not stronger; it's simply the difference between bringing someone under submission and opening them up to direction. I think of commanding products as a good choice if you want someone to be receptive to and value and respect your suggestions/ideas. Essence of Bend Over is used to subjugate someone to your will through degradation and humiliation. Again, I don't believe it's stronger necessarily, but it's harsher, and I personally consider it as a last resort. In fact, I haven't even used it on my own significant other yet. I'm trying every other means possible before turning to Essence of Bend Over because he is proud and head strong and I don't want to break his spirit or embarrass him. Yet.

If you want to compel him, why not try Compelling products?

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Wed Apr 08, 2015 6:35 pm

Have you considered Influence oil & a skull candle. Or even Influence with his photograph. My instinct is that if he's shy, using something that's more domineering could have the opposite effect. I use Influence with my teenager & works wonders.

BlueBunny · Unread post by **BlueBunny** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 6:42 am

luckycat13 wrote:BlueBunny,

Here's just my quick thoughts on that....if he's not your man yet, I wouldn't choose I Dominate My Man. I look at that more as a way of keeping the upper hand in an established relationship. Domination is going to be more forceful/harsher than Commanding. Not stronger; it's simply the difference between bringing someone under submission and opening them up to direction. I think of commanding products as a good choice if you want someone to be receptive to and value and respect your suggestions/ideas. Essence of Bend Over is used to subjugate someone to your will through degradation and humiliation. Again, I don't believe it's stronger necessarily, but it's harsher, and I personally consider it as a last resort. In fact, I haven't even used it on my own significant other yet. I'm trying every other means possible before turning to Essence of Bend Over because he is proud and head strong and I don't want to break his spirit or embarrass him. Yet.

If you want to compel him, why not try Compelling products?

Honestly Luckycat13 that is why I am here asking for direction on which oil to use? Commanding (which handles my guy how in the commanding sense how forceful we talking??) , Dominate, Bend Over (have this oil), Do As I Say (have this oil)...and to be honest I am really lost in the semantics and definition as to which oil is harsher or less forceful to bring this man to my feet then to his knees with a lot of attention.

Now you are telling me there is a class of compelling oils too....I am now lost way more than before hehee.

I want him to come out of his shyness and be more attentive, loving and think of me a bit more than his "work", heck if he feels compelled to even visit me more often that would be such a miracle for me, I'd actually weep from happiness. I've spoken to him about us, our feelings for each other and our phone calls and visits are long and loving but its like he's very wishy washy with us. One day he could spend hours with me & be so lovey dovey and attentive and then I won't hear from him or see him for day/weeks soon end and that drives me bananas.

So that is why I'm trying to steer the situation my way if I can... thanks again Luckycat13 for the speedy reply as well.

BlueBunny · Unread post by **BlueBunny** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 6:57 am

AlyssaH wrote:Have you considered Influence oil & a skull candle. Or even Influence with his photograph. My instinct is that if he's shy, using something that's more domineering could have the opposite effect. I use Influence with my teenager & works wonders.

Alyssa the reason I keep harping on domineering forceful type oils as one last ingredient to get him to come to me more often is to get this man see wake up and smell the coffee with me. He is attentive and loving for awhile and then his "work" invades his wishy washy ways with me and when I don't see him for awhile I feel a bit left out in his eyes & heart.

I know where his heart & love stand with me that's not even the issue its that I need him come around more often, text or call me a bit more...I'm all for reaching out to him and being available to him but I think I want to see him return the same courtesy of being available to me more often, though we still live in different states but that could be changing soon.

And how much stronger is the influence oil (that si did see on LM shopping catalogue) vs the commanding, dominate type oils?? How often would I need to do the skull candle influence oil type spell for him to stay glued to me or attentive to me more often?? Also, do I need cigar smoke to blow on the skull to get him to contact me more?? ((sadly I don't smoke and I am hoping just skull candle and maybe influence oil could be it for me??))

anyway, I am not looking to cut corners just looking to make do with what I have so far is all.

thanks again Alyssa looking forward to anymore replies back to my question....thanks everyone.

luckycat13 · Unread post by **luckycat13** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 9:05 am

BlueBunny,

Yes, there is also Compelling oil. I know. The variety of oils is very nuanced, but as I sit here looking at my twenty something count of conjure oils, I can promise each one serves its one purpose when the time comes. I suppose if you want to work with what you have, I would probably first try Commanding and Follow Me Boy. Then, you can introduce Dominate My Man.

I'm not really sure I understood the question about Commanding oil and forceful talking, but I think of Commanding products as being useful for suggesting things to people without running into ego problems. So, say you wear a little Commanding Oil and say to him like, "Honey, I'd really like it you could commit to making the trip to visit me as much as I visit you...." He will be inclined to hold your suggestions in higher regard, and with greater respect, without simply dismissing them or devaluing them.

Best analogy I can come up with, if you use firm, but loving pressure to command a dog, it will do what you instruct out of a desire to please you because it respects you as the Alpha. If you forcefully dominate a dog through harsher tactics, depending on the dog, it may either become more anxiety ridden or fearful or it may challenge your attempts to dominate it.

I would start with the gentlest form of pressure on him and work my way up. If he's just a jerk or out of control, or doing something that belittles you, I would whip out the Essence of Bend Over.

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 10:22 am

BlueBunny wrote: And how much stronger is the influence oil (that si did see on LM shopping catalogue) vs the commanding, dominate type oils?? How often would I need to do the skull candle influence oil type spell for him to stay glued to me or attentive to me more often?? Also, do I need cigar smoke to blow on the skull to get him to contact me more?? ((sadly I don't smoke and I am hoping just skull candle and maybe influence oil could be it for me??))
anyway, I am not looking to cut corners just looking to make do with what I have so far is all.
thanks again Alyssa looking forward to anymore replies back to my question....thanks everyone.

One oil isn't really "stronger" than any other. It more has to do with what oils work best for you.
The way to work Influence is to pose the idea to your target, a sif it's their own. This is why it works so well with my teen. Teenagers like to obey but it's hard for them because they want to feel like they're doing their own thing, too. So getting him to feel like something is his own idea if the best way of working. I only do this during very trying times though.

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 10:25 am

BlueBunny wrote: And how much stronger is the influence oil (that si did see on LM shopping catalogue) vs the commanding, dominate type oils?? How often would I need to do the skull candle influence oil type spell for him to stay glued to me or attentive to me more often?? Also, do I need cigar smoke to blow on the skull to get him to contact me more?? ((sadly I don't smoke and I am hoping just skull candle and maybe influence oil could be it for me??))
anyway, I am not looking to cut corners just looking to make do with what I have so far is all.
thanks again Alyssa looking forward to anymore replies back to my question....thanks everyone.

One oil isn't really "stronger" than any other. It more has to do with what oils work best for you.
The way to work Influence is to pose the idea to your target, as if it's their own. This is why it works so well with my teen. Teenagers like to obey but it's hard for them because they want to feel like they're doing their own thing, too. So getting him to feel like something is his own idea if the best way of working. I only do this during very trying times though.[/quote]

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 10:31 am

luckycat13 wrote:BlueBunny,

Yes, there is also Compelling oil. I know. The variety of oils is very nuanced, but as I sit here looking at my twenty something count of conjure oils, I can promise each one serves its one purpose when the time comes. I suppose if you want to work with what you have, I would probably first try Commanding and Follow Me Boy. Then, you can introduce Dominate My Man.

I'm not really sure I understood the question about Commanding oil and forceful talking, but I think of Commanding products as being useful for suggesting things to people without running into ego problems. So, say you wear a little Commanding Oil and say to him like, "Honey, I'd really like it you could commit to making the trip to visit me as much as I visit you...." He will be inclined to hold your suggestions in higher regard, and with greater respect, without simply dismissing them or devaluing them.

Best analogy I can come up with, if you use firm, but loving pressure to command a dog, it will do what you instruct out of a desire to please you because it respects you as the Alpha. If you forcefully dominate a dog through harsher tactics, depending on the dog, it may either become more anxiety ridden or fearful or it may challenge your attempts to dominate it.

I would start with the gentlest form of pressure on him and work my way up. If he's just a jerk or out of control, or doing something that belittles you, I would whip out the Essence of Bend Over.

I use Commanding with my ex's mom, who's also my child's grandma (if we're getting along, lol). Commanding seems less specific & useful for various social interactions. Follow Me Boy is more targeted & sounds like what you want for this situation, Blue Bunny.