Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Splitpea2,

Yes, and I just merged your post to the thread that has numerous spell ideas.

Take c look at the spell suggestions.

After reading, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask us.

Take care

[conjure_woman_]

Hi all, this is a question on behalf of a friend as it kinda had me baffled and I couldn't give her a complete answer. Ok well, her sister is marrying soon. The sister has invited a woman (Corin) who my friend despises. Corin is quite cunning and a pathological liar, I've met her on a few occasions and she is the type who will lie about the most pointless stuff, loves attention and will do anything to get it, even going so far as to fake a seizure at my friends birthday party.

The main area of contention between them is that when they were kids, Corin was left alone in a room with my friend's, and her sister's, family puppy. When they all returned to the room the puppy was struggling to breath and then died in Tina's arms. Their parents took it to the vet and the vet said he'd ingested something that had caused his death. The details of what occurred that day became fuzzy as her sister was only 4/5 at the time, but my friend and Corin were in their teens. As her sister was so young she always believed that it was all a tragic accident, yet my friend has always felt it was much more sinister, and told me that recently while Corin was drunk she had alluded to being responsible for what happened and that if she tried to keep her from attending the wedding that she'd take care of her "...like that dog"

I truly believe my friends account of all this, because Corin is not someone I've ever felt comfortable around and do not find her to be a nice person at all. Unfortunately, my friends sister is very sweet natured and has always admired her. So The issue is, this is a destination wedding in the middle of nowhere, with accommodation provided for everyone and now my friend and Corin will have to stay in an apartment together. My friend is freaking out, but doesn't wanna cause her sister any stress about this. 99% of the time she can avoid Corin, as she lives in another state, but now she's dreading it as they will be under the same roof, next door to eachother and sharing a living space together for a whole week!

She's asked for my help as she knows my background and I've helped her successfully before. But I'm not exactly sure how to proceed with this? The aim is to ensure Corin does not attend at all, but she is a tough cookie and possibly sociopathic/psychopathic, and I've never worked on this type of individual before?
Sorry for the long post, but had to let you know exactly what she's dealing with.
Any help would be appreciated as its only 6 weeks away. Thank you!

[Scorpia777]

Hello,

Let me begin by saying how grateful I am that I found this site at this particular time in my life- it is a Godsend! Thank you for being here for people like me.

Some background: my aunt is an evil woman who was jealous of my mother (her younger sister). I believe that she contributed to my mother’s early death in 1984 at the age of 52. I also believe that she contributed to the death of her mother in 1989, who was a God-fearing woman who only wanted peace. I believe she did it for a life insurance policy and for revenge, because my Grandmother tried to help my mother throughout her life, and because she loved my mother. Actually, my Grandmother was devoted to both of her daughters, but my aunt’s jealousy was so deep that she did not want anyone to love my mother. She broke up my mother’s love affair with my sister’s father, and destroyed her marriage to my stepfather.

In 1989, I realized that my aunt was a “conjurer” and began to teach myself with the mighty help of God, the Saints and the Holy Spirit to fight back. I was forced to teach myself by purchasing books on candle magic, magical seals, prayers, etc. because every so-called “spiritual advisor” that I consulted either did not “see” the problem or could not/would not help me and took my money. My aunt made my life a living hell until I asked St. Barbara to teach me how to use the sword.

Unbeknownst to me, she had help from my sister, who would accompany me to readings and religious stores when I purchased books, candles, etc. It is all so clear to me now in hindsight that she pretended to be concerned that my aunt was doing evil to her- but all the while it was to keep an eye on what I was doing and how my work was progressing. Needless to say, it did not produce any results at that time because the work was blocked. And because my sister knew what was going on in my life (work, love, home, friends), my aunt knew too.

To make a long story shorter, I FINALLY discovered that not only is my sister a traitor, but she is also working with a “boyfriend” to spiritually steal money from me. He even sent evil spirits to follow me and watch what I was doing and where I went! (S-3 of the Seals of Solomon solved that problem!). Through my candle work and prayers for guidance, I was shown in dreams how deep her betrayal is. She is working both sides of the fence- she works with my aunt (who is now 87 years old and in a Nursing Home) and with the boyfriend and others who have tried to harm me. God has blessed my spiritual and candle work, spiritual baths, and answered my prayers because I won the battle with the boyfriend (a LONG battle-he would not leave me alone!) and I have prevailed against the newer witches with God’s help.

My sister is cheap and has no real spiritual power of her own, which is why she needs help. She is attacking me for money. I also believe that she owes the boyfriend money for the work he did and he wants to take the money from me! She dangles me as bait to newer witches in order to get them to work for her for free- if they are successful, she will split the money with them. My aunt is attacking me in order to destroy me and eventually destroy my life. My aunt and sister have different agenda.

I was shown in a dream that my aunt and sister have many of my personal things (underwear, toothbrush, comb, papers, etc.). These things are VERY OLD, but they still provide a link to me that they are using. In 2000, my sister and her boyfriend conjured practically everything in my apartment. I threw out everything and replaced it over time, so I am confident that no “trick” that they laid is still around. I changed the locks and told her she would never come in my house again, and she hasn’t. I even got rid of two pet cats I had at the time. She had my keys because I allowed her to stay with me when she was burned out of her apartment in 1999. She lived here a little over a year.

I believe that the problem is coming from the link they have made to me using the old personal belongings that my aunt and sister took when they had free access to my things. Because I know what I am feeling now and am very sensitive to it, I can tell when my aunt and sister are working as opposed to the boyfriend/others. I am sick and tired of it- it has been too long, and enough is enough. I am considering moving from my current apartment and not telling them where I live, but I am not sure how far to move away.

I need to break this link! I would appreciate any advice/help in this matter. Sorry for the long post.

Thank you and God Bless,

Scorpia777

[Miss Aida]

Hello, conjure_woman_,

Wow, what a very tragic story. And what a horrible person.

I would try a Bend Over Spell Kit to force her to stay away: www.luckymojo.com/spell-essence-of-bend-over.html

And some spell with Goofer Dust. www.luckymojo.com/gooferdust.html

You could also try for your friend a protection spell kit www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wall-of-protection.html

And here are other protection spells for her: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

I hope this helps.

And I pray this person stays far away from everybody.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Scorpia777 ,

You could mot certainly use an uncrossing spell kit followed by a protection spell kit.

www.luckymojo.com/spell-uncrossing.html
www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wall-of-protection.html


Additionally, take a look at this page and see what type of reversing spells that you may want to do to make everything bounce back to them:
www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Wishing you the best. Sounds like you have your work cut out for you. But, hopefully, thee products and spells will help you and things can get better in your life

Take care

[libralovemoon]

I have extremely stubborn parents who refuse to take my goals, desires etc., into account when mapping out my life. I have allowed them to push me down a path for far too long but I need a way to divert from this plan.

The issue is, my parents want me to immediately start law school after graduation (undergrad) and I just don't want to. They say I'm just being lazy. I'm not lazy but I am tired. I am completely drained. I have spent 4 years as a political science major sitting through lengthy lectures, countless pages of mundane reading and tedious papers....and the thought of immediately setting myself up for 3 more years of that is just eating at my soul. I just need a break. I also need to figure out if I even want to go to law school. Yes, I have some interest in law....I've been studying for the LSAT for months but now I just need to step away from the idea and really evaluate what I want to do with my life.

I asked my parents to allow me a gap year between graduation and law school. I mean it has to be a year since you can only enter law school in August so if I skip with August then I'll admit the following one. They refused to allow it. And no, I don't plan on being a couch potato for that year either. I plan on teaching English abroad. I've researched programs and spoken with a career counselor at my uni and people who participated in the programs and have decided that it's something that I really, really want to do.

I want to travel but I want it to be productive so I found a well known program that gives me a great salary and the school has paid holidays so I'll be able to explore the country and such. It's a great way to save up money and travel. They still refuse.

It's really bumming me out because at this point in time I don't see law school making me happy...I don't see 3 years of a rat race in law school being remotely what I need. I also don't see the crushing law school debt as being pleasant. I mean my parents don't have the money for law school so I'll be taking out massive loans for both school costs and COL (cost of living expenses).... sadly most of the schools I'm even remotely interested in are not in cheap places so bummer there.

I even really pushed that I'll be able to save money teaching abroad, a friend (who I met while asking around about people who have done the program) actually saved 10K that she put towards paying for her masters program. Also employers really take an interest in it on your resume and it will be great to put on my law school applications seeing as that I don't have anything spectacular for my softs (extracurriculars, activities, work experience etc.,)

I know they mean well but I just wish they would consider my thoughts. This is something that I've gotten used to as they've been like this since I was little but....I figured now that enough is enough. I just don't want to injure our relationship. They hate getting the impression that I think they're wrong about something....they always tell me that I don't understand because I don't live in the "real world" like they do.

It's really frustrating because my parents honestly think they know everything...I respect them and I'm extremely respectful when I talk to them about it (sometimes I do get emotional though) but they always dismiss me by saying that I don't live in the "real world" and my dad goes as far to tell me that I will not be successful without law school and he hates to see me ruining my life. That's disheartening because I trust them and respect them and I sometimes second guess myself in fear that maybe my dreams or goals aren't valid because I don't want to go to law school.

I'm an adult (well, 21) yes but I'm forever my parent's child so I take everything they say as gold and I do look for their approval and support.

What can I do?

I plan on bringing it up again soon but I'd like something to help open them up and actually hear me.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, libralovemoon,

I am sorry that you're under such pressure. That's got to be a lot of stress for you.

Please take a look at the other posts for spell ideas.

But I highly suggest adding an influence skull candle spell to persuade them to lay off! Fine the entire spell here: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Wishing you the very best

Take care

[Draconis13]

Greetings everyone,
I wasn't exactly sure where to post so my apologies in advance. My soon to be ex husband are separated and will soon be divorced. We have a child together and have had custody issues which have been costly due to attorneys fees and court fees. We had to go to mediation and true to the judge's word no one gets everything they want. She lives with me now but the back and forth commute for both my daughter and I, is not easy. She doesn't want to go but the courts insist. Her dad can't always accommodate having her because of his schedule as a musician. He insists but it isn't but he only does so at his mother's constant urging. Is there any work I can do to get him to go on the road, for let's say a tour so that we, my daughter and I can stay put. The more gigs he has the less we have to deal with going to meet him. I don't want to hurt him just keep him extremely busy so that he can't bother us. I want him to eventually give up so that my daughter and I can stay where we are.
Thank you
ES



Thank you, St. Expedite
Thank you, St. Jude

[Miss Aida]

Hello, empressselene,

Well, you might want to consider a steady work spell kit and just make your petition specific that you want him to be extremely busy!

www.luckymojo.com/spell-steady-work.html

And then go from there. But start this spell first.

Wishing you the best with your spell work

Take care

[FatLip]

Does that fiery wall of protection have to have a cross, ehhhJust wondering cause what if your not a Christian and you want something like this?
I also heard there is a version of this with a mirror box, anyone know about it?
And where do people keep these kits once they start em, especially with kids?

[Miss Aida]

Hello, FatLip ,

You can call the shop (if you're getting a kit) and tell them that you want a different shaped candle. If you're not using the kit, then just use a Jumbo candle in that color.

www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandes.html

For a mirror box, you would put yourself/image/belongings in the mirror box with the reflection facing outside. Put Fiery wall of protection products inside with your image. Put reversing oil on the outside of the candles: www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Where to put your spell? It has to be in a place where there's no traffic. Private bathroom???

Take care

[FatLip]

Hello, FatLip ,

You can call the shop (if you're getting a kit) and tell them that you want a different shaped candle. If you're not using the kit, then just use a Jumbo candle in that color.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandes.html

For a mirror box, you would put yourself/image/belongings in the mirror box with the reflection facing outside. Put Fiery wall of protection products inside with your image. Put reversing oil on the outside of the candles: http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Where to put your spell? It has to be in a place where there's no traffic. Private bathroom???

Take care

i must realy need this if i could not think of that lol

cheers

[FatLip]

Hello, FatLip ,

You can call the shop (if you're getting a kit) and tell them that you want a different shaped candle. If you're not using the kit, then just use a Jumbo candle in that color.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandes.html
Take care

This kit requires you carve the enemies name into a candle but what if there is more then one or you dont even know their names?

[MissMichaele]

This kit requires you carve the enemies name into a candle but what if there is more then one or you dont even know their names?

Then write "All My Enemies" or even "All My Enemies, Known and Unknown."

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

[FatLip]

Then write "All My Enemies" or even "All My Enemies, Known and Unknown."

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

can you do reversing and protection kits at the same time and if so can you recommend a reversing technique or kit?

Thanks !!!!

[Miss Aida]

Hello, FatLip,

Of course you can!

Here's a whole bunch of techniques tat Miss cat wrote. Great page! www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Take care

[Scorpia777]

This reply is to FatLip, who sent me a PM. I am not allowed as of yet to respond to PMs, so I am responding through the original post...

I referenced a seal S-3 in my post. The name of the seal is the Third Pentacle of Jupiter. This seal is excellent in stopping/blocking evil spirits from following a person or entering their home. You can use it any way you like- you can wear it, or place it behind/beneath objects near the front door, or burn a candle over it using the Fiery Wall of Protection oil.

Another seal that will help greatly is called the Seal of Mephistophilas. This seal is used to conquer and control enemies and to protect a person from their plots. In my experience, this seal also exposes the enemy's plots as well. It works very well using a black candle dressed with Controlling oil. You can even use Fiery Wall of Protection oil too. Both oils are sold in the store (I checked).

Please PM me again and let me know you read this. I hope that the Site Admin will give me permission to PM soon. Good Luck and may the LIGHT be with you!

Scorpia777

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Scorpia777 and fatlip,

The PM will work shortly.

In the meantime, please exchange e-mail addresses to cover PMs.

Take care

[frenchygirl]

I was entirely unsure which forum to post this in, so please move as necessary.

I've read through tons of threads and am leaning toward Road Opener products, but would like some input. This is a long post.
Inquiring for my sister, the post is in her words.

"My child's father and I have an amiable relationship, we actually share a home (separate bedrooms), and have a solid friendship, but nothing more. We are both content with that and our child is happy.

He has, over the years had opportunities come up regarding employment in the music industry and has turned them down because he is afraid that it will destroy his relationship with his son.
I would really like to find a way for an opportunity to present itself again, and encourage, entice him to accept when said opportunity does arise.

I'm at a point in my life where I would like to move forward romantically with someone else, potentially even relocate myself or eventually move someone else into this house. Impossible to do when my "ex" is still living here!! As you might imagine.

I'm not in a financial position to just up and move myself, but he has said over and over again that when he does move on that he will ensure that his child (and me) are taken care of.
I want something that will encourage him to follow a new opportunity preferably in another state or at least hours away, still maintain care of his child, and definitely allow him unfettered access to visit his child essentially whenever he wants. I'm not looking for anything to cut him completely out of our lives, I just feel that enough time has passed that it's time to move on, and he's reluctant/refusing to do so."

I can ask her any questions to clarify any information. They are both dating other people at this time, there is no romantic involvement between the two of them, she does, however, have easy access to personal concerns.

What are your suggestions for her?

[Miss Aida]

Hello, frenchygirl,

I have moved and merged your post to a subforum that has similar situations that our client has.

Please take a look at these 2 pages (I have already seen great spells for this situation) for spell ideas.

If you still have questions after reading them, please don't hesitate to ask

Take care

[frenchygirl]

Thank you, Miss Aida

I'm thinking along the lines of:

Road Opener to help an opportunity present
Steady Work with the petition that it be time consuming/demanding work
and Bend Over to really cause him to want to move

How does that sound? She doesn't want to hurt him or create tension, she just wants him to get on with his life

[Miss Aida]

Hello, frenchygirl,

Sounds like a Great game plan!!

Take care

[frenchygirl]

Thank you Miss Aida

Could you advise on timing? Should they all be done at the same time? Or Road Opener and Bend Over together, start the Steady Work after an opportunity comes?

[frenchygirl]

Thank you Miss Aida

Could you advise on timing? Should they all be done at the same time? Or Road Opener and Bend Over together, start the Steady Work after an opportunity comes?

Another thought was to use the Steady Work Honey Jar. Add some Road Opener, Crown of Success, and Bend Over to it, with the petition specific to exactly what she wants to happen for him. This may be a slightly better (?) option for her as it can be worked continuously as opposed to setting up candles if results do not happen with the first run.
Thoughts?

[Miss Aida]

Hello, frenchygirl ,

I would do:
Road opener first, then steady work, and then bend over when you know the person that you want to bend to your will.

I would ALSO do your honey jar idea as a "back-up" or "Fortifier"

Take care

[NinnyNichole]

I didn't really see another post that talked about my situation, so I apologize if this had already been posted somewhere. My ex fiancée and I had been together for 4 years and we ended up buying a house together. Not too long after, we went through a very messy break up. This break up took its's till on me. I was heartbroken, miserable and felt all one. It took two years, but finally I have removed her name from the house we bought together and now it is all mine and have recently found peace with the fact that we are no longer together and that she has moved in. However, it has come to my attention that she and her boyfriend have recently purchased a new home, 6 houses down from mine. I can see their house from my house. I live in an area where there are many houses for sale in many similar neighborhoods like mine so it is beyond me why they felt the need to buy a house so close to mine.

I'm usually not one for "dark" magic or magic to hurt another person. I'm always making honey jars and spells like that. But I feel like, for my own mental health and peace of mind, I need to get them to move. What would be the best course of action to take for getting them to leave??

[natstein]

Hello NinnyNichole,

I think I would want them to move to! But you are in a good position to work roots on them! I would suggest using Hot Foot Products! The spell kit in particular comes with everything you would need and leaves with enough products to keep working them for a while even after the initial spell work of the kit is done. And with you knowing exactly where they are living you can easily get powders and things in their path for them to step in! CHekc out the Hot Foot products at this link. (http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html) The kit would really be perfect for you!

Peace~

Nathen

[NinnyNichole]

Thank you! I could not believe it when I saw them on the street. I will definitely be hot footing them.

[JayDee]

NinnyNichole,

Question to me is why would she want to buy a house next to her ex, and why is her new bf ok with that? sounds to me more like revenge on her part to hurt you. I dont see defending yourself and protecting yourself as dark magic. that would be like saying counter attacking in war is dark because people will get hurt, well yes but without it you will lose it all.. that said I would do hot foot, I would sprinkle crossing powder on the yard cursing them as long as they say.. look up psalms for destruction of enemy walls and think of it as destroying their home. I would also start a new honey jar with two lodestones to draw in a new and perfect love or soulmate ..etc. and work that jar to bring real happiness and love in your life.. that will do you great service to happiness and will in return drive her nuts seeing how happy you are.. obviously she is not otherwise she would not moved to make you miserable.

[NinnyNichole]

j82

I have been wondering the same thing. We lived in the house together for a little while after we broke up and before she moved out. She was dating him during that time, so he has to know this is where she used to live. She is the one that ended things, so I don't know why she wants to live so close. This is beyond bizarre. Thank you, you are right, I am defending myself so I shouldn't see this as doing any harm. This morning I was driving down my street and he was out cleaning the snow off his car and staring at me. They need to move.

[frenchygirl]

Thank you, Miss Aida

I think she has a solid plan. Or I do, since I'm sure I'll be helping.

Have a great weekend

[JayDee]

NinnyNichole,

Some people get off on showing off. I had an ex who left me for a friend of mine and every chance possible the friend (now former) would find a way to put it in my face, like if he seen me out call my ex and have em meet up so I would see them then smirk at me over it. Its like bragging about how much they have and you dont. they enjoy it, they know you hate or strongly dislike them so this is their way of rubbing your nose in it like a dog.

[NinnyNichole]

Since I only work with Lucky Mojo products (obviously) it'll be a little bit before I get the hot foot supplies and will be able to do that work. In the mean time, I used what I had to do a Curse of Revenge on her that I found on the spell archive, using a black candle and a photograph of her. I'm hoping that will lay a nice foundation for the rest of my work.

[Miss Aida]

frenchygirl ,

You're a good friend!

[ArtemisWolf]

As with all family relationships, this one is complicated.

I had always thought my family was close and loving. I knew my sister-in-law was a terrible gossip, but didn't think much of it. My older brother, her husband, has never liked me; he is only 18 months older than I am, and I understand that can often affect sibling relationships. I considered my sister-in-law (hereinafter to be called SIL because this is ridiculous) to be my bf in high school. I have 2 younger siblings and my dad was alcoholic for our entire childhood.

Now that I have set the scene; come to find out that my older bro had some very delusional ideas about me, probably stemming from some combination of trying to justify his abuses as a child and his use of hallucinogens in high school and for some years beyond. SIL bought into his stories, and in her way, spread them.

Things came to a head when my high functioning autistic son finally managed to graduate high school at the age of 20, Dad was slowly dying from Parkinson's, and I was still recovering from treatment for aggressive breast cancer. I had done all of the care of our parents until he needed help 24/7 and the parents didn't want him in extended care. I asked for help, but both brothers and SIL refused because it would be "too much work". My son and I continued as best we could until little sis and BIL returned that Christmas to 'sort them out' - BIL is from England, they talk that way.

Big bro and SIL suddenly put themselves in charge of the family efforts to care for the parents, long distance since they live over 100 miles away, and I continued to share most of the burden of day to day emergencies with my (remember me saying?) autistic son. When my son finally managed to graduate from high school for which he really struggled, my older bro and SIL took the opportunity of a BBQ party for him, without me present, to try and rescue him from me. They were going to take him in...for a fee of course, and cut me off from him entirely.

The next day, after my son admitted to me that he was initially excited about the possibility of getting out of my place, he was 20 after all, became concerned that he wasn't going to be able to get home since he was 100 miles away with no transportation of his own at a BBQ in his honor. I contacted them and told them that was wrong of them. The response I got back was a string of accusations that infuriated me, hurt me, and has left us with a split that is tearing what is left of the family apart.

I finally decided that I needed to stop the gossip. I used the LM Stop Gossip on big bro, etc, and at least they have stopped gossiping about me with the family. I really couldn't care less what they say to their friends. I've met their friends. They live 100 miles away, and I don't really like most of them.

This is turning into a novel, but here is where I am now.

These 2 people are not bad people, they're delusional people. I love both of them deeply in spite of myself. It all still hurts, and they are in a bad way both physically and financially. Granted they did that to themselves, but I don't want that for them. Also I don't want to be so darned uncomfortable around them at family events. What do I do now?

[Ms Melanie]

Hi ArtemisWolf,

What to do now? Depends..do you want to have a relationship with them or not? If so, then I recommend a honey jar to sweeten them to you. www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Hope this helps!

[MissMichaele]

ArtemisWolf, I'm very fond of this spell by Professor Porterfield:

• Professor Porterfield’s Calming Your Enemy Shoe Spell
  (Given on the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour, 8/10/14):
  
  On a piece of paper, write out the names of the 12 Apostles. Below their names, write Matthew 5:44: “But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you”. Below that, write name of your enemy.
  
  Fold up the paper and place it in your shoe while reciting Ps. 34:14: “Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it.” Step firmly into your shoe while calling on the Father, Son & Holy Ghost. “That will conquer them under the teachings of Jesus Christ and bring them down easy, back to you,” the Professor says. You’re stepping on their heads, but bringing them under the control of the Lord.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

[naturesaftermath]

I just need some help, I need the truth to be known.

Background info: I have 3 half brothers and one half sister. I am an only child from my mother.

I was working for my father who has his own business, and my oldest brother is also an employee there (family business). Well after I had worked there for a while in 2012, my oldest brother kept making remarks to me in a sexual nature.

I started feeling uncomfortable and told my best friend about this.

She had been molested when she was younger and she told me things would get worse. She told me I should have told my father, but I explained every time I go to him about a complaint he made my life a living hell.

FOR EXAMPLE: He had an employee stealing, and I had proof. When I told him, he told me I was just jealous that I wasn't running the office and I was a poor excuse of a person. He would embarrass me in front of the person taking jabs about my weight and even told the guy I had squealed on him for stealing money. Low and behold 3 months later the employee was caught red handed. My father was enraged at me and cursed me out in from of several of the other employees!!

My brother who works there knew all of this, and he even said that my father treated me different than my other siblings. Before my brother tried anything sexual I THOUGHT we had a good relationship, but it seems he got all the information he needed because he knew my father wasn't going to be there.

Luckily my best friend was hired and WITNESSED a lot. He would pat my butt saying how I was filling out, he would constantly tell me how we weren't going to be brother and sister but INCESTUOUS lovers... he even said when he see me I made his penis hard. I constantly told him to stop with that talk but he told me he was a grown ass man and would do what he wanted. BUT HE KNEW TO DO IT ONLY WHEN IT WAS ME AND HIM, AND THEN AROUND MY BEST FRIEND. When I told him I had proof of what he was doing, he laughed and said, no one would believe her (talking about my best friend).

While I was 3-5 months pregnant things got so bad I would try to come in late when I knew he would have to handle routes, but he would wait later and later for me to arrive. I started talking to my mom on the phone, and I told he everything. My mom was more or less saying I was taking things wrong, even when my best friend gave her details of how bad things were.

I finally had enough of the crying, running, just everything and sent my brother a long text message. I explained everything and I wanted it to stop. He replied back saying he would... but he didn't. Things got so bad he even blocked me in the kitchenette area and when I tried to slide by him, he blocked the door and I had to squeeze by... my pregnant belly and breast rubbed against him ( I still feel dirty thinking about it).

My pregnancy was not doing well, and it was all stress related.
My best friend said things needed to stop and she had to tell my father/employer. When she came out she said he was going to take care of everything and not to worry. Well, Monday morning, he puts me in a meeting with my brother and he told me false accusation were brought against my brother and he said I had to explain myself. Luckymojo, I couldn't... I was truly scared to be in the meeting. I was crying and told him I wanted my witness, my best friend, in there and he told me no. I walked out the office. I had no choice but to walk away from my job.

By the end of the week, my father and brother had spread lies about me to the other employees saying I was gay and that my best friend really was my lover. They lied saying she was jealous of my relationship with them, and I was so dumb I quit to be up under her. My father even went to SC to his hometown, I just got to know my family down there. He was telling everyone how I was gay and stupid and just up and left the company.

It was hard to bear the fact my brother was sexually harassing me, but then to know my father didn't care and lied on me, alongside my brother, its been so hard.

I was so ashamed... I felt like I lost a piece of who I was. I had nightmares and believe it or not it took me a year and a half to even leave the house alone.

It has caused a lot of people to treat me as if I'm dirty, and I honestly don't know all the things that were said about me but from how certain people treat me, I can only imagine.

In October 2014, I did a skull candle to make him confess using parrot feathers, but it must of misfired. I ended up going to the ER because my eyes were on fire, my ears, and throat. I had pink eye in both eyes, ear infection. strep throat, and sinus infection. Since then I keep white sage handy and cleanse my home weekly, I have Florida water, van van and Fiery Wall of Protection.

It has really devastated me to have my character tarnished and I HONESTLY DID NOTHING. I didn't even go into the street and tell anyone how my brother did anything to me, except a few VERY CLOSE FRIENDS.

Can someone please help me make my brother tell the truth. I want my fathers lies to bite him in the booty. I want to feel like the woman I use to be, not a shell who is meek and fragile. PLEASE SOMEBODY JUST HELP ME HELP MYSELF!

Sorry its so long!

[naturesaftermath]

Also to add, I went to a lawyers office to know my rights, but she said in the state of NC since my father had less than 15 employees there was nothing that could be done, and since this was a family issue it may be better for me to go back and work there. She explained courts don't like to handle cases dealing with families because it can cause more issues. She recommended family counseling.. I told her I couldn't get my job back, because he would eat me alive. I told her family counseling is a no go because my father is such a narcissist it would do more harm than good.

[natstein]

Hello Naturesaftermath,

I am very sorry to hear that you have had to go through all of this. I have to say that I am gald to hear you are not working in that envirnment any more. Your family should never treat you that way.

As for what to do. I would recommend getting seeking some individual counseling from someone in the mental health field such as a psychologist or a social worker. What you went through is very traumatic and will probably take some time to process. These folks can give you some tools to help you process all these things and get your life on track.

From a rootwork prospective I would begin with some work for yourself first. Get yourself an Uncrossing spell kit and follow the directions in the kit to remove any bad things that have attached to you during this. Follow this up with Blessing work and then protection work.

For working against your brother and father I feel like you should probably work alongside a professional rootworker. This is a complex situation and having someone who can do readings on the situation can be a huge help in knowing what the best approach would be.

I hope this is helpful.

Peace~

Nathen

[naturesaftermath]

Thank you so much. It really means a lot. I will start today.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, naturesaftermath,

Please accept my apologies also.

PLEASE have the Crystal Silence League pray for you (it's free) because you need all the Spiritual help that you can get:

www.crystalsilenceleague.org

I pray for your peace of mind and the strength to have a happier life.

Take care

[Michelle12]

Hi everyone
I am a new member I have not done any spells yet and wouldn't know how to do please give me your advice and guidance I need to return my step daughter to her mother she is making my life at home unbearable I have tried my best I welcomed her with open arms she came with her brother he was a terror but has since tried to meet me half way so I have no problem with him but I do with her I still have 3 other children who are younger to consider from my marriage to her father what can I do to rid her from my home there is no peace because of her help please .

[catherineyronwode]

Hello, Michelle12,

Thanks for joining the LMCCo Forum. Our topics are arranged by type of issue, so i have moved your question about moving your step-daughter out of the house into the section on moving away unwanted relatives. If you read the thread from the beginning, you will see many previous suggestions. If you still have questions, please just ask!

[Michelle12]

Hi Catherine
Thanks for your reply I'm still trying to find my way round the site please direct me I'm sure I'll get the hang of it soon.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, Michelle12 ,

You are on page 3. Just go back to page 1 and read from the beginning.

Lots of good spell ideas here.

Good luck!

[vipera]

Hello

I'm wondering if i can get some help with my mother

It all started while she was pregnant with me and went to a psychic and he told her basically that my birth would mean that she would never have to work another day in her life. my grandfather on his death bed, two weeks after my birth and without knowing about what the psychic said told her the same exact thing. so i was raised constantly told that i need to have a good job, make money because i have to support my mother. my mother believes in this so much that when we were in an abusive situation with my alcoholic father she kept us in it because she didn't want to find work even if it meant that she could take me out of that place. yup. i know it's mental.

so to this day - she likes to remind me of my 'responsibility.' and constantly harps on about it.

now i'm dealing with a situation where she wants to move in with me while i'm doing my degree so that my father has to support the both of us so again she doesn't have to work. she says she'll do the cleaning, cooking etc while i'm studying but the problem is is that she is so so controlling and draining. i've been living on my own since i was 16 because thats when i was accepted into university. i'm 20 now and starting medical school and i absolutely adore my freedom. being raised by my mother means that i'm incredibly private and i hold on to whatever freedom and control i have over my life with both hand, legs and nails.

she cannot move in with me. i need her to give up the idea of ever moving in with me. i can't bare the thought of living with her again and when ever she mentions raising my children while my husband (in the future) and i work my blood pressure goes up and i start hyperventilating. i cannot cannot have this woman under my roof, raising my children, and micromanaging my life because god forbid i drink a sip of alcohol or go to a club (i don't do that often anyways i'm too broke for that).. who knows i might just give up my degree and go wild and then who's going to take care of her -.- (honestly when she's 'disciplining' me she's not yelling about how i might be messing up my life but hers)

she is the most selfish and controlling woman i've ever met and during her visits i'm on high blood pressure medication. funny enough i'm fine the moment she leaves.

please please help me. even though i've been on my own for 4 years now she still throws a fit and starts banging the walls if she finds out that i'm out later than 12am ... even if i'm honestly just studying in the 24 hour library. she wants to control every aspect of my life and i know i'm a good kid but she can't see it, she only sees whatever potential darkness that is in me because that threatens her comfort.. she has an unhealthy fixation over my life, a power fetish and the largest martyr complex i've ever seen. it's actually quite spectacular.

i also feel like she may have done some spell work on me in the past to keep me tied to her and it's starting to get suffocating. just the thought of her raising my children or even knowing them right now makes me want to never have children to spare them

can someone help me with finding a way to get her to not every want to move in with me, to get her to leave me the hell alone. this has been going on for so long i just want to cut her out of my life 100% but i can't forget all emotional shit she's dumped on me that's causing me to feel guilty if i even think about doing it even though i know that rationally she's incredibly toxic and i would be better off without her. she's the only reason i ever cry for the last 7 years and she's draining my soul and energy to the point where i can't function when she's around. i'm constantly on eggshells or she'll go mental. she thought i'd never leave her side so only i've seen every bit of her crazy so cutting her off means loosing family on both sides. they'll never listen to my side because i've tried before and got yelled at for being an ungrateful brat. at this stage though i'm happy enough to be alone with no family then to keep dealing with her whopping my ass when ever she comes over for having a travel size bottle of wine (for the tomato sauce for my pasta) or for staying out past 12am (cause i'm in the library catching up on work)

please please help me find away to get her away from me and to stop her from wanting to live with me.

[Miss Athena]

Hello vipera,

I am so sorry you are dealing with such a tough situation. My heart goes out to you.

Have you read through the 3 pages of this thread? You may find many useful ideas to keep your mother from moving in with you. You can try hot footing her, which will keep her at a distance. You can search the forum using the little search box at the upper right corner for hot foot spell advice.

If after reading through those posts you still have questions, feel free to ask them here.

Good luck!

[vipera]

thank you miss athena

i'm thinking of hot footing her before she leaves so hopefully her last memories of staying with me aren't so great but is there anything i can do while she's away (we live in separate countries) to keep her from wanting to come back?

i just want her to stay the hell away and not get any ideas of buying tickets, planning up interior design, or texting/calling me every 2 hours when she's awake..i need something that can work over long distances (there about 8 hour time difference between us so we're far from each other)

[vipera]

i have and i will be hot footing her but at the same time when she leaves i want her to stay away. is there any jar or way of keeping her away from me? like freezer.. vinegar?? sorry i'm new.

i just don't want her to get the idea to come back and visit. i don't want her to even think of it. i want her to want to stay away from me like i want to stay away from her.

and would it work long diastase? we live in two different countries

[Miss Athena]

Hi vipera,

You could certainly put her into a freezer spell to stop her from planning any future visits. You could also work a skull candle using Compelling products and drill the idea into her head that she doesn't want to visit you, etc.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-compelling.html

Good luck.

[vmadone]

Hi, I wish i have asked in the correct column.

Well, these so called housemates ( happened to be my colleagues as well) , tend to become secretive but they get unconfortable when i do not tell them my things.

What is the best solution for this? Thank you.

[natstein]

Hello vmadone,

I am not sure I understand your question. Are you wanting these folks to move out because of this behavior? If so check out the suggestions in this thread and then if you have a question about a specific step or product use let us know!

Peace~

Nathen

[vmadone]

Hi Nat, thanks for replying.

I'm actually feeling being left out despite being one of the housemates. They will be like, why you wanna know our things and blah blah blah.

I have been thinking of moving out from the house. Two questions here, what product should i use so i wont be left out and find a better place to stay?

Thanks.

[Miss Aida]

Hello, vmadone ,

Put them in a honey jar with you

To find place to live, look at this link (which has 6 pages of good spell ideas): spells-to-find-rental-property-apartmen ... 19832.html

I hope this helps.

Wishing you the very best

[vmadone]

Thank you Miss Aida.

I just dont understand why they are being secretive with me but like to check on my things. I want to take control.

Is it possible?

[Miss Aida]

Hello, vmadone ,

You could definitely try a domination spell:

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

Good luck.

[jump]

I hope I'm posting this to the right forum, if I not my apology.

I wanted to put something on my front door under the mat something that will keep unwanted guest popping up on our door. This are mainly people who have such bad influence on my hubby - acquaintance & relatives. I realized if I put hotfoot under the mat, when they come inside my house then the powder will get inside my house too. I'm looking for something permanent if possible o I don't have to put the powder everyday. With the holiday coming up I am already so stress because my husband will be inviting all these people and I really want to prevent him from doing it this time -- because I'm the only ONE doing all the job and I feel like I work so hard cleansing our home with Chinese wash up & down...it's a lot of work ).

Anyways, thanks again for the advise.

[Edward T]

Hello jump

Sorry to hear that you have to deal with this.

I would use the Fiery Wall of Protection products, and then dress family members with the oil, and use the bath crystals in the laundry rinse water, so their clothing is all dressed as well. www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

I would even mix a pinch of Fiery wall of protection powder in your paint. Mix it and paint the front door.

Of course using the same color as the existing door color.

Best of luck to you.

[Miss Athena]

Hi jump,

I would use Red Brick Dust, which repels evil from crossing your threshold.

http://herb-magic.com/red-brick-dust.html

Good luck.