A woman worked witchcraft on my relationship to the point where my man left me and his kids for her and her kid. Not knowing any better I was unable to fight back in time to turn things around. I'm ready for fight back now and I want to freeze her and bind her so when I start my work she is unable to fight back. I also want to freeze her sex so she has no desire to have sex with him. I know this will cause issues

1)her/son;
2)her alone;
3)her/son/my man
4)her/my man
-I will use alum to shut her up and poppy seeds to confuse. What else can I add??
-What's best container? the lemon, beef tongue or wetted paper? The Run Devil Run freezer spell is also good.
- I think from what I read I will have to use a second freezer spell with a pear to freeze her sex. Is that right? What do I add in the pear?
Your advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.