Reconciliation Spell Kit Honey Jar Kit and Painted Bottle Spell Questions and Answers

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sat Jun 27, 2015 1:02 pm

You can fold the paper with his handwriting, and add it to your current Reconciliation Honey Jar.

katrinay1 · Unread post by **katrinay1** » Sat Jun 27, 2015 3:09 pm

Can I make a copy of the letter he wrote & put the copy in the honey

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Jun 27, 2015 8:42 pm

Hi katrinay1,

Photocopies tend to be a poor substitute for the original handwriting sample, so I would suggest you use his letter as a personal concern and put it under your jar. If you wish, you could tear off a portion of it to put into your jar.

Good luck.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jun 28, 2015 12:14 pm

Hello, Nony65 ,

You may have to lace the bottom of the jar in warm water.

It might be crystalizing.

Take care

cinnamongirl9 · Unread post by **cinnamongirl9** » Mon Jun 29, 2015 2:16 am

I have made a honey jar for reconciliation. I did a phone tarot reading with Madame Pamita (she's lovely) it went positive... I then placed my order for the recommended condition oils from her: Peaceful Home, Reconciliation and Return to Me (all of which smell AMAZING!). As recommended I am now burning light blue candles everyday on my honey jar for the calming and releasing of the anger and resentment (he wanted a baby the whole time). The main problem is that he has found someone else, he never would have left me otherwise. She lied to him about being a widow (I can't even), but he is so desperate for a baby he is not behaving like his normal logical self. That info about the fake widow ALMOST separated them (I dug it up, he would expect no less from me, so it was actually appreciated)... but she apparently had a winning excuse... that the father/husband is *probably* going to overdose on heroin, so he won't be a problem... whattt? are you kidding me? It's all beyond crazy!

We have been together for 7 years... so I'm feeling like I've invested too much time to just admit defeat. He told me WAY more about the girl than he should have and that HE has solid doubts it will go anywhere. I still feel confused about why he would stupidly tell me her name and "business", but he did... He knows I'm magically inclined, I felt like he was giving me fuel or something.

My reading went very well, ending on the 10 of cups but I want to be sure the honey jar is as powerful as it can be...

*I did not have the LM condition oils when I started it and my hair tying the knot around his hair, and my honey jar is not completely full** Also when doing a petition paper for getting back together how many times should you write the names? I went with 3 for the petition that I have in the jar (as per Pamita)

Can I or should I open the jar and add a new petition paper (or just add an extra petition pack and leave the first one alone?) and with LM condition oils and fill it completely with the honey?? OR is that going to break the spell, so to speak? I would like to just add/top the jar with new honey, especially since he handled the actual honey product that is in the jar now.

I feel like I got a "sign" already but not a 3rd day or week, a week and a half later maybe. I saw a cat figurine when buying more candles that I have ONLY seen at his moms house, it is old and unusual (he is living there at the moment) in the candle shop. we are both big-time cat lovers. I found out the info on the girls ex 3 days after I did my first candle spell which almost worked to break them up/me to get him back. (He actually wouldn't come over my house to talk because he didn't want to end up being "tempted by me" which he said verbatim... but a week later when he did come over he had been too shifted/infatuated to her so it didn't happen... this was pre-honey spell.)

I just ordered the Reconciliation book (I had to get it on Amazon for speed)

cinnamongirl9 · Unread post by **cinnamongirl9** » Mon Jun 29, 2015 2:38 pm

I have made a honey jar for reconciliation. I did a phone tarot reading with Madame Pamita (she's lovely) it went positive, in a nutshell, 10 of cups outcome. I then placed my order for the recommended condition oils from her: Peaceful Home, Reconciliation and Return to Me (all of which smell AMAZING!). As recommended I am now burning light blue candles (everyday, my choice to do so) on my honey jar for the calming and releasing of the anger and resentment (we're explosive and passionate together). The main problem is that he has found someone else, he never would have left me otherwise. We have been together for 7 years so I feel like I have too much time invested to just give up without a fight. I didn't really want a baby and he does (partly because of his crazy bad temper/outbursts), this other person seems overwhelmingly into children and all of that, but he is settling for sure. I was just about to give in and say "ok, I'll have a baby and be your housewife", I just said, well what else am I going to do? ...and he meets this woman, supposedly "randomly".

When I started my honey jar, I did not have the condition oils, I just used lavender EO, love herbs (some grown by us), and my hair tying the knot around his hair, but my honey jar is not completely full of honey, maybe not quite 3/4 full in a mason jar.

Can I open the jar and add a new petition paper and use my LM condition oils and fill it completely with more, new honey?? OR is that going to break the spell, so to speak? This is my first honey jar. I would like to just add/top the jar with new honey, especially since he handled & purchased the actual honey that is in the jar now. or would I add a new petition paper to the jar or fish out and bury the old one?

Also I feel like I got a "sign" already but not a 3rd day or week, a week and a half later maybe. I saw a (large) cat figurine when buying candles that I have ONLY seen at his moms house, it is old and unusual and one of the only decorations I ever liked at her house (he is living there at the moment), we are both big-time cat lovers. I found out info on the girl he is with, about her ex (she lied and said she was a widow, shes not) 3 days after I did my first candle spell which almost worked to break them up/me to get him back. He actually wouldn't come over my house to talk because he didn't want to end up being tempted by me which he said verbatim... but a week later when he did come over he had been too shifted to her (believing her lies I guess) so it didn't happen, we just kind of sat, talked and cried... this was pre-honey spell but post-pink candles and I have burned two red figure candles we purchased in Salem MA together.

cinnamongirl9 · Unread post by **cinnamongirl9** » Mon Jun 29, 2015 7:53 pm

I have made a honey jar for reconciliation. I did a phone tarot reading with Madame Pamita (she's lovely) it went positive, in a nutshell, 10 of cups outcome. I then placed my order for the recommended condition oils from her: Peaceful Home, Reconciliation and Return to Me (all of which smell AMAZING!). As recommended I am now burning light blue candles (everyday, my choice to do so) on my honey jar for the calming and releasing of the anger and resentment (we're explosive and passionate together). The main problem is that he has found someone else, he never would have left me otherwise. We have been together for 7 years so I feel like I have too much time invested to just give up without a fight. I didn't really want a baby and he does (partly because of his crazy bad temper/outbursts), this other person seems overwhelmingly into children and all of that, but he is settling for sure. I was just about to give in and say "ok, I'll have a baby and be your housewife", I just said, well what else am I going to do? ...and he meets this woman, supposedly "randomly".

When I started my honey jar, I did not have the condition oils and my hair tying the knot around his hair, but my honey jar is not completely full of honey, maybe not quite 3/4 full in a mason jar.

Can I open the jar and add a new petition paper and use my LM condition oils and fill it completely with more, new honey?? OR is that going to break the spell, so to speak? This is my first honey jar. I would like to just add/top the jar with new honey, especially since he handled & purchased the actual honey that is in the jar now. or would I add a new petition paper to the jar or fish out and bury the old one?

Also I feel like I got a "sign" already but not a 3rd day or week, a week and a half later maybe. I saw a (large) cat figurine when buying candles that I have ONLY seen at his moms house, we are both big-time cat lovers.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jun 29, 2015 8:21 pm

Hi cinnamongirl9,

Your post was edited because you were discussing products not pertinent to Lucky Mojo.

As for whether you can open a honey jar and add more items, the answer is yes. However, I question why you would want to add Lucky Mojo condition oils to it. Honey jars are a great source of food-based magic, as you could cook with the honey and feed your target from it. You wouldn't be able to do that if your jar contained condition oils. Just a thought.

You can top off your honey and add another petition paper as well.

Good luck.

cinnamongirl9 · Unread post by **cinnamongirl9** » Tue Jun 30, 2015 8:12 pm

Thanks for replying Miss Athena, I had submitted 2 posts originally, then I couldn't delete the first one (it was far too long) and then I deleted both... but now I know for the future that you can't really delete or edit... sorry about that.

At the moment we are not living together, seeing or talking to each other. I can contact him, he would answer, but I'm trying to be strong and not do that. He has some items that I need back, but I'm saving those things for an excuse to see him (hopefully I won't take them back due to the success of my work). So feeding it to him is not going to happen at the moment.

I got more honey today. I re-watched Madame Pamitas video and I was wrong to put the oil on the paper! Maybe I was mixing up a non-honey jar petition paper? I occasionally take lavender pills for anxiety so I guess its not ruined for consumption if I get the chance. But can I take out the first petition paper, add a new petition (I have more hair) and then bury the first? Really, just in case any of the herbs aren't ok for consumption. I just want to make sure I'm not ruining anything.

As a rule does the honey jar need to be completely full? I will get much smaller jars for the future, but I had a larger one on hand and needed to get it started. Also for love related matters is 3, 5, 7 or 9 the best number for the name writing part?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 01, 2015 8:23 pm

Hello, cinnamongirl9 ,

I would just start a new honey jar.

And you can use it even if it isn't completely full.

I like the number 7 for love.

Wishing you success with your spell work

take care

Catnapz5 · Unread post by **Catnapz5** » Sun Aug 23, 2015 11:15 am

Hey I have a question for the honey jar can I use a picture of us together and also I only have very little peices of his hair from a shirt he had on when he got an haircut will that work

mizjoannlee · Unread post by **mizjoannlee** » Sun Aug 23, 2015 2:27 pm

A picture of the two of you and personal effects? Sounds like a terrific way to point the spell in the right direction. If you have birth dates and full names, so much the better.

I use sugar in my jars because it shakes up easier than honey, but that is my personal preference.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Aug 24, 2015 7:47 pm

Hello, Catnapz5 ,

Yes!

I do prefer the honey jars because I have seen too many success stories with them

Take care

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Aug 27, 2015 10:28 am

Hello, im a little confused and need some help I am getting ready to put together a big order and I want to get everything ill.need for the mext couple of months.

My husband has filed for.divorce and hes blaming me for it. He did say it because we were in a heated argument and he has admitted that he asked for divorce because of the argument. I did have my reading and was told he does want the divorce but I should continue to work. He has also said he doesnt love me as a wife. My thing im ordering a reconciliation honey jar but being.that he said he doesnt love me should I also get a love me honey jar kit or just add love me oil to the candle.

Another question I also need to get semen and of course the only way I can get it is oral but was wondering once I have it to i spit it out on a wash cloth obviously if it dries on a napkin theres no way of rewetting it. My saliva will be mixed in with the semen so is that ok?

I'll also be doing a vinegar jar, some dark work and a freezer spell, what is a good thing to order to protect and cleanse me afterwards.

Thank youuuuuuuu

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Aug 27, 2015 11:54 am

queenofheart wrote: My husband has filed for.divorce and hes blaming me for it. He did say it because we were in a heated argument and he has admitted that he asked for divorce because of the argument. I did have my reading and was told he does want the divorce but I should continue to work. He has also said he doesnt love me as a wife.

That does sound like a very steep hill to climb.

im ordering a reconciliation honey jar but being.that he said he doesnt love me should I also get a love me honey jar kit or just add love me oil to the candle.

Two honey jars on the same person and the same situation is more work than most people need or can manage. Get the Love Me oil for the candle. Remember, though, that the Reconciliation Kit is titled "RECONCILIATION, RETURN, HEAL EMOTIONAL DISTANCE" (http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... ation.html), so that honey jar will also be doing a lot of the work for you.

I also need to get semen and of course the only way I can get it is oral but was wondering once I have it to i spit it out on a wash cloth obviously if it dries on a napkin theres no way of rewetting it.

You could certainly swish a napkin around in water -- but I'm wondering why you would need to do that. I'm not absolutely sure about putting semen in a honey jar, and I would certainly avoid diluting the honey as much as I could. If semen in a honey jar doesn't bother you, you could let the napkin dry and tear a piece out to put in the jar.

Are you trying to get his semen on a string to tie knots in? Put the string itself in your mouth before you pleasure him.

My saliva will be mixed in with the semen so is that ok?

Yes, your spit will be on it, but the way to avoid getting tangled up in your own work is to "hold yourself aloof" -- don't cum. Women (and men) have been working on men this way for generations.

But I believe hair would be a better personal concern for a honey jar, since you're trying to influence his thinking.

I'll also be doing a vinegar jar, some dark work and a freezer spell, what is a good thing to order to protect and cleanse me afterwards.

Hyssop! "Cleanse me with hyssop, and I shall be white as snow!"

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Aug 27, 2015 4:25 pm

Thank you. Im on it now.

sunnysun · Unread post by **sunnysun** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 12:59 pm

Hi peeps,

I was thinking about a honey jar spell,
Im currently doing a skull candle and found a 4 leaf clover this week so im guessing that is a good sign

I have a slight issue with space and safty when it comes to the honey jar.... I know ur meant to light the candle on top of it but would burning a candle next to or in front/behind the honey jar be acceptable ?
Its just im tied for space and worried about it falling over.

Also i have a signiture is that ok as a personal concern ?

As always thank you !!!

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Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 9:24 pm

Hi sunnysun,

Yes, a four leaf clover is always a lucky thing to have!

You can certainly light a candle next to your honey jar. If you want to burn a candle on top of your jar, what I so is melt a little wax onto the lid and then put the candle onto that little puddle. When it hardens, it will hold the candle in place. Just an idea for you.

Yes, a signature is a good personal concern. If you manage to get your target's hair or fluids, you could always add them to your jar.

Good luck.

sunnysun · Unread post by **sunnysun** » Sat Sep 12, 2015 1:18 am

Thank you !!

As always your help is greatly appreciated !!!
Your always so helpful here !!

Melting sone wax on top is a great idea i shall try this !!

BellaLupa · Unread post by **BellaLupa** » Sun Sep 27, 2015 1:49 pm

Help?

So the way timing worked out, the final morning of doing the Reconciliation Kit will be the day I go out of town for an extended stay in the same city as my target. (The love of my life, who broke up with me a couple of weeks ago due to life circumstances, not because of anything wrong with me or the relationship. We are still best friends and care greatly for each other.)

The only personal concern of his I had was an unwashed shirt. Clever me, I decided I was going to to use snips of fabric from it for my work and tell him that the shirt got damaged and send him a brand new replacement, with the "fixed" card (instead of letter) as directed in the kit.

Here's the thing: It now turns out that I will be seeing him at an event (that he invited me to... yay?) the night AFTER I arrive in his town and will actually beat the package. I won't have the option to simply take the shirt and card with me into the event and I don't know for sure the next time I'll see him after that.

Of course, I'll be wearing Reconciliation Oil and carrying my mojo bag, but will it fudge the success of the work if he doesn't get the card with the sachet powder until AFTER I see him? Any possible solutions?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Sep 27, 2015 8:25 pm

Hello, BellaLupa ,

You're fine.

And, it may help that he gets it afterwards. Sometimes, things happen for a good reason!!

Take care

BellaLupa · Unread post by **BellaLupa** » Tue Sep 29, 2015 2:18 pm

Sorry, one more question... when I get to the point of creating the bag with the kit, I had a thought that there are a couple of other things I could add to it from other work I've been doing for the same purpose:

I've been working a honey jar for the situation and sometimes burning an orange candle dressed in Road Opener directly next to the jar while the red and pink ones are on top since my target can be stubborn and gun-shy, perhaps even fearful... the other day, the orange candle left an incredibly blatant and detailed phallus shape when it melted down. That seemed fairly clear a sign, so I've held onto it so far and thought I might add it to my bag.

Also, I've been doing the St. Helena nail-through-the-red-candle trick and so far, it seems to be working quite well and presenting clear signs in the wax. It occurred to me to perhaps add the nail to the bag.

Would it ruin/disrupt anything to add these items to my mojo bag?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 29, 2015 10:00 pm

Hello, BellaLupa,

I wouldn't add the nail to the bag at all.

But the wax? You could.

Take care

BellaLupa · Unread post by **BellaLupa** » Wed Sep 30, 2015 3:47 am

Thank you as always, Miss Aida. You've been so helpful to me.
May I ask why we wouldn't add the nail?
This is my first bag, so I'm wondering if there's a specific bit of Hoodoo "theory" if you like that would make adding the nail a poor choice. I'm relatively new to this kind of work and am always looking for an opportunity to learn more.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Sep 30, 2015 6:50 pm

Hi BellaLupa,

You wouldn't add the nail to the mojo bag because it is sharp and could potentially jab you when you wear the mojo close to yourself.

Good luck.

BellaLupa · Unread post by **BellaLupa** » Wed Sep 30, 2015 6:51 pm

I'll be over here, muttering "duh" to myself in embarrassment.

Thanks Miss Aida.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Sep 30, 2015 7:55 pm

Hi BellaLupa,

I'm not Miss Aida, but you're welcome.

RH33 · Unread post by **RH33** » Sat Oct 03, 2015 11:58 am

Hi all,

i did a honey jar for reconciliation. Today i was working on my honey jar, usually there will be some leftover wax on the jar, so lighting my candle on top. By the time the candle was suppose to be finished, the wick keep burning and melted through the left over wax on the jar. The little bits of the wicks from the left over candle kinda of all group together from the wick from today and kept today wick burning. Now i have a very clean jar lit and a very small burning wick on the candle. It that suppose to be a good thing?

Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 03, 2015 7:33 pm

Hello, RH33 ,

Yes, that's a great sign!

Take care

BellaLupa · Unread post by **BellaLupa** » Mon Oct 05, 2015 4:41 am

Well, got to the 9th day on my Reconciliation Kit today, let the candle burn down, made my mojo bag, put it on a chain around my neck, and took care of the lodestones.

Not 10 minutes later, my target messaged me just to say hello and tell me what he was up to this morning. He NEVER messages me this early and we barely talked all weekend.

Heh. Hehehe. Heh. I'll take it as a good sign.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Oct 05, 2015 6:13 pm

Hi BellaLupa,

That is wonderful! This is the kind of thing that we hope to foresee when we do readings and divination on spellwork, and here you are with the results manifesting beautifully.

Thank you for sharing.

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Sun Oct 11, 2015 7:17 am

Please Help!

So my ex and I broke up 5 months ago and are currently on bad terms. I started a honey jar 3 days ago consisting of honey, ginger, my petition, an image of the two of us and an image of him alone. The first day I burnt a red candle on top of the jar and a situation occurred where I had to call him and ask him to delete something which another one of his ex's had posted on his Facebook wall which had my name on it. He has been sleeping with her and had been an asshole to me recently so I thought there was no way he would delete it if I asked him but surprisingly, he said he would delete it without question and within seconds of our phone call the post was gone, I took this as a sign that the first candle burning had worked. On the second day I went to burn the second candle and went to sleep whilst waiting for it to burn out then Mum walked into my room and blew it out. I thought she had ruined the spell so I threw the candle out, prayed over the jar and went to sleep, the next morning I woke up and I felt as if the anger I had for my ex had somehow withered away and I thought it was because I was also in the image I had placed in the jar, maybe it had also somehow sweetened my thoughts towards him. Third day, I was quite busy so instead of lighting the candle I just prayed over it and re-stated my intentions. Fourth day I was also busy so decided to pray over it but as soon as I picked up the jar to shake it up a little before my prayer, I began getting a really bad headache (I never get headaches!!) so I finished praying over the jar and stating my intentions then I put it away. I then got a red candle and dressed it with olive oil (I know a bit dull, but it's all about intention right?) then I placed a picture of my ex underneath the candle and lit it, said a little prayer, stated my intention and then put it out.

Did I mess up the Honey Jar ? Should I start again ? Any tips/comments on my work would be nice. I've also ordered Love Me & Follow Me Boy Oils along with the Reconciliation Spell Kit.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Oct 12, 2015 5:11 am

Hello, goldengirl ,

Welcome to the forum!

Unfortunately, you have to start all over again.

1- Someone else saw your spell
2-Someone blew out the candle (no blowing out of candles. They are SNUFFED out)
3-She symbolically ended everything.

Sorry! BUT, remember:

When we make mistakes we learn. It was a learning experience for you!

Take care

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Mon Oct 12, 2015 6:40 am

Hi Miss Aida, thanks for your response!

I called my ex today and he was very sweet to me, is it possible that the jar could still be working ?
This was before I saw your response so I haven't emptied the contents of the jar yet.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Oct 12, 2015 11:55 am

Hello, goldengirl,

Just put the jar away (don't dispose of it) and start a new one.

Remember to have patience with your spells.

Take care

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Thu Oct 15, 2015 3:00 am

Hi Miss Aida

So I started the new honey jar and I've been burning it for 2 days now. I contacted my ex, specifically calling him in the morning and waking him up to see if it was working and I asked him if he hated me just to see the reaction I would get and he said No and was very sweet and sincere about it plus he wasn't bothered at the fact that I woke him up (very good sign, he hates getting woken up) so I guess the second jar is working too. Problem is, I just found out he has begun seeing someone else, nothing serious and they're not dating but they like each other a lot. My reconciliation spell kit along with the love me and forgive me oils have already been ordered and I'm still waiting on them but is there any point of still having the honey jar? Although it is making him be sweet to me ( when I call him) It isn't making him initiate communication with me at all. I'm beginning to question is it this new girl that has him being sweet to me so I don't flip it once they get serious or is it the honey jar spell genuinely working? What do you advise I should I do ?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Oct 15, 2015 8:50 pm

Hello, goldengirl ,

Keep that honey jar going!!

As far as the other question, that can only be determined by a reading.

http://readsandrootworkers.org

OR

www.hoodoopsychics.com

I pray that that you are wrong and it's the spells!!

Take care

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Fri Oct 16, 2015 10:38 am

Hi Miss Aida,

Today I am going somewhere where my ex will be. This is the first time I will be seeing him since I've begun my honey jars, I have sensed results from the way he has behaved on our phone calls but I'm kind of nervous about what will happen in reality. What are some things that usually happen when you see your targets in reality? I have no intentions of approaching him but what are some good signs he may show in reality that will display that the jar is still working? Sorry to hassle you, I'm just soooo nervous!!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Oct 16, 2015 7:02 pm

Hi goldengirl,

Don't be nervous, just relax and be yourself. Trust that your work is working.

Everyone receives different signs and movement from their honey jars, so it is impossible to predict what his behavior might be like when you see him. Only you will be able to identify a sign, as they are very personal. Just enjoy whatever attention he may show you, and don't be discouraged if it's not the response you are hoping for. This work takes time.

Best of luck to you, and RELAX!

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Sat Oct 17, 2015 5:46 am

Hi Miss Athena!

So I saw him and it was kind of weird. We didn't really talk but we were around the same crowd for a few hours, every now and then I caught him staring at me but that's about it. Not sure what to think of this.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 17, 2015 4:46 pm

Hello, goldengirl ,

Not sure what that means either.

But I suspect that the spell is starting to work

Just keep doing your spells

Take care

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Sat Oct 17, 2015 7:38 pm

Hi Miss Aida, thanks for that! Yes I really hope the spell is starting to work.

My brother is coming home from college soon, he'll be here for 3 months and he is very protective and aggressive when it comes to me. I don't want him to come and ruin all of the progress that has happened with me and my ex by doing the whole "stay away from my sister" thing so would doing a honey jar to sweeten him before he gets back be helpful ?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 17, 2015 8:12 pm

Hello, goldengirl,

That's a GREAT idea!

Take care

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Tue Oct 20, 2015 3:29 pm

Hi Miss Aida & Miss Athena!

I have been working my honey jar and light candle spells, still no clear results. There was some issues with my lucky mojo delivery so I have to re-order but before I re-order my lucky mojo products I'm in need of a divination/psychic reading. Where do I go for this? I've had a look through the root workers association page and I'm really confused, not sure what to do. It's set out like a Wikipedia page, no numbers or anything. Help would be appreciated.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Oct 20, 2015 10:38 pm

Hi goldengirl,

For a full list of AIIR readers and rootworkers, go here:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/

Scroll through the list on the left hand side and read about each individual. You can contact the one to whom you feel drawn.

Good luck.

God_Willing · Unread post by **God_Willing** » Wed Oct 21, 2015 8:41 am

Hello to all.

This morning I lit my first 4" candle for my honey jar. The wax burned for about an hour and forty minutes. It burned even all around the flame was high and strong the entire time - it didn't dance or move much it was very steady. After the hour and forty minutes the wax was gone but the wick slipped through one of the openings on the candle holder and the flame continued to burn for another 30 minutes then completely went out.

Does this sound like a positive?

Thank you!

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:53 am

Hi Miss Athena & Miss Aida

I've been seeing the numbers 140 a lot, they are the last three digits of my ex's phone number. Does this mean anything? I'm finding it so strange because before my honey jar and candle spells, I wasn't seeing these digits anywhere & while the lucky mojo forum was down and I was waiting for it to come back up so I could post this, I saw the numbers 140 again! In the exact order! What type of sign is this??

cappygirl11 · Unread post by **cappygirl11** » Tue Oct 27, 2015 8:58 am

How long should I continue lighting candles on my jar. Also can I light them every day or only Monday Wednesday and Fridays and how long does it take to work

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Oct 28, 2015 11:19 am

Hi cappygirl11,

I personally keep lighting candles until I see movement. You can light them daily if you wish, it won't hurt.

How long it takes to work is not a question we can answer. It is for Spirit to determine. Just do your work and trust in the results.

Good luck.

itgirl92 · Unread post by **itgirl92** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:19 am

I have both the Reconciliation and Love Me Honey jar kits that I want to use to reunite with my ex. We are on speaking terms as friends, per his request. But he is very adamant we are only to be friends. He is pretty emotionless and I'm emotional, so he's a little raw from the breakup because I needed to talk and cry it out with him and that makes him uncomfortable.

So, before we can get back together, I know I need to smooth over those sharp edges with him to get back to a point for us to be together - that's why I got the Reconciliation honey jar.

I have two questions:

1. The Reconciliation honey jar kit says to light a candle on M, W, and F. Is it okay to light one everyday - or at least everyday for the first week to give it more attention and prayer at first?

2. Can I work the Love Me honey jar spell at the same time as the Reconciliation or should I allow the reconciliation time to work? If I wait, should I complete the reconciliation honey jar first - like maybe cook something for him with the reconciliation honey and then start the Love Me honey jar?

What would you do?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Nov 01, 2015 10:14 am

Hello, itgirl92,

Yes, of course you can light a candle everyday.

And you can do both the love me and the reconciliation simultaneously. I say this because you are on speaking terms.

Now...

We have to think of something for you. Since crying turns him off (and, as a woman, I know that this how many of us express ourselves), you may want to apply some crucible of courage to yourself to prevent the crying. www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

I'd like to see you more stoic and, this may appeal to his curiosity as to why you are appearing so vulnerable.

Just a thought

I pray that all works out for you

Take care

goldengirl · Unread post by **goldengirl** » Sun Nov 01, 2015 4:20 pm

Hi Miss Aida,

I have been working a honey jar and a skull candle, I also made an ammonia jar along with a few extra candle spells. My target and I aren't on speaking terms and he has not made any efforts to contact me so I'm not sure what would be a way to see if anything has worked. I know the only way to really see if my work is manifesting is to have a conversation with him but I don't have the nerve to call his phone after the last conversation we had and even if I called him I wouldn't know where to start without sounding stupid. He has also blocked me on Facebook. Could you please give me some suggestions?

itgirl92 · Unread post by **itgirl92** » Sun Nov 01, 2015 6:13 pm

That's great advice Miss Aida, thank you!

I will definitely try some of the Crucible of Courage. I know that he is always on guard when I want to talk about something because he expects me to get emotional about it. Being able to interact without crying and making him uncomfortable would help us take a step in the right direction.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Nov 01, 2015 9:38 pm

Hi goldengirl,

I suggest you get a reading to understand what is happening between the two of you and to identify the appropriate next step. You can find readers here:

www.readersandrootworkers.org/

Good luck

cappygirl11 · Unread post by **cappygirl11** » Tue Nov 03, 2015 2:39 am

I started my honey jar last Monday. I only used our names written on brown paper. I now have a photo from the Internet. Is it fine for me to open jar to add the photo?

Unread post by **Edward T** » Tue Nov 03, 2015 11:57 am

Hello cappygirl11

If you are seeing positive signs from your honey jar I would not open it up.

It should work fine.

You can always add the photo to a new honey jar later if needed.

Take care.

cappygirl11 · Unread post by **cappygirl11** » Wed Nov 04, 2015 4:28 am

I'm seeing no signs from the honey jar

cappygirl11 · Unread post by **cappygirl11** » Wed Nov 04, 2015 4:42 am

In fact how long does it take a honey jar to work. Maybe my candles are no heating it enough. I read somewhere I should put t it on the stove to heat up. So I added hot water to a bowl around it yesterday and I shook it.

I know they take time. Just how long exactly before I know when to quit?

thatflashingthing · Unread post by **thatflashingthing** » Wed Nov 04, 2015 10:11 am

I have read mixed reviews about doing a honey spell kit along with the reconciliation kit. What do you think? Also, we will be broken up 2 weeks this friday coming up. I have read that it is best to do the recon spell within that 2 week period. What do you think? Am i ok to do it a little past the recommended 2 to 4 week period? I will do it regardless because i feel so strongly that we belong together.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Nov 04, 2015 12:47 pm

Hi cappygirl11,

You just started your jar, give it time to work. There are no hard and fast rules about how long before they work. Only you can know when enough has been enough.

If you want to add your target's photo to strengthen the jar, it is perfectly OK to open it and add the photo. Add one of yourself as well. I like to have matching pairs of personal concerns in a honey jar.

Good luck.