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by Star Anise » Fri Jul 31, 2015 9:20 pm
Hello!
I've just started a honey jar to try and get my target to rekindle his feelings for me. I've got my herbs in order, and I'm just using olive oil as a dressing for now until I can order from the site, which leads me to my question;
My target is female to male transgender, meaning he was born female but identifies and presents as a male. Of all the oils that are listed on the site as ones that attract the opposite sex... Can they be used for him? Other than his parts, he is completely male otherwise. Does Hoodoo only recognize physical sex, or is it more gender based, how someone precieves themself and how they are precieced by others?
I definitely wanted to use Bewitching, Reconciliation, Return To Me and Fire of Love oils, maybe even Stay With Me and Marriage oils once the jar starts to work its magic... But I wondered if Come to Me and Love Me oils (which both specifically say "of the opposite sex") would work for my purpose. Am I able to use multiple oils on one candle, or should I chose just one? Can I alternate one oil on every candle?
Also, the last four times I've lit my candle and meditated on it, I seemed to fall into a trance-like sleep where I have dreams about my target and I. The first few dreams were of us hanging out as we used to as a couple, just without the couple status, and I believe I remember mentioning I loved him in a dream to which he did not respond. My latest dream consisted of us in bed together, cuddling, and I recall asking him about the person he is currently seeing, and while I don't remember his exact words, we continued to cuddle anyway.
I've also started to notice his name in a few places; the author of the book I'm currently reading has a similar last name to him, with the first half being identical, and I heard his first name a few times during a tarot reading today. When I noticed the last name of the author, I had a sudden vision of us in a while room with white linens on the bed, and I was going through tarot cards (something I have never done in front of him and neither of us have a white room with white linens) with him sitting behind me kissing my shoulder. Are these all good signs?
I'm sorry for the lengthy post; I just wanted to ensure all of my questions were put out there!
Thanks a bunch,
Star