Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:20 am

Hey everyone. So, I’m dealing with a commitment-phobic person (that Im currently dating..or something like that).. this person may be the most extreme case I’ve ever seen. While I am aware of the fact that I need to address the deeper issues as to why this person is soooo afraid of settling down, I know that they wont tell me. In fact, they might not even know for themselves. I was thinking an egg healing spell to remove negative energy to remove the fear of rejection, and their fear of commitment.
Additionally, I was thinking a light blue candle anointed with crucible of courage? and maybe some healing oil? In theory I thought that combining the two might help this person find the courage to address their issues and start working on healing themselves? Again, not sure what these issues are, so I cant define them in a spell. (I know theres some issues with the ex so maybe cut and clear as well?) I was thinking that maybe then, love drawing work And also a honey-jar would be appropriate?

Thoughts? I haven’t had to deal with a commitment-phobe before.

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:57 am

Allright, here's what I suggest. Standard relationship stuff, honey jar, love me kit, etc. Additionally, perhaps a vigil candle calling upon St. Thomas (I don't know if LM sells a St. Thomas candle, but a named blue candle with courage oil as you suggested paying particular attention to St. Thomas would be helpful. In these kinds of situations I occasionally find that sometimes it isn't a question of whether or not he's willing to commit, it's whether or not he's willing to commit to you. That being said a Fire of Love kit might light the proverbial fire under his heal and make him react to the idea of being with you with a greater sense of urgency than he might do otherwise. I would spend more time working the love me products than the courage products, personally, so that his feelings for you outweigh his fear or insecurity. Healing work is never a bad thing, though. As long as you're not torturing him (using Intranquility etc) and you genuinely want to help him, perhaps a clarity ritual would help. (If he can see his behavior more clearly he'll be more willing and open to changing.)

Good luck!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:17 am

I think that all this stuff sounds great. However, I think it would be imperative that you get a reading and find out why he does not want to make a commitment to you. I mean this is where women differ slightly from men. As women, we like to define things, and we want to have a label on what we are and what we are doing together. So with that said, I mean if he is spending 90% of his time with you, and treats you like a goddess, but says you are only dating. What is the harm in that? If he is treating you like a girlfriend, and not running around with other girls, then no need to really ask for a commitment. I mean you already have it...so men just do not like to get caught up in labels.

But of course, that is not a good enough answer

But i would A) get a reading done to see what is going on. How does he feel about you? And why you and him are dating or something like that. If you do not know whether you and him are truly dating....well that is something you need to get a reading for or speak with him about before you attempt any spellwork. I say this because if he just sees you as bed buddies...well you are going to take a slightly different approach that if he already loves you. B) I really like the healing work that Lucy and you spoke of with the Egg spell. I think that is a good start, but I think it would be wise to find out exactly why he is not even making the move towards a better commitment. I mean there could be another girl, or he could just not be THAT into you like you think he is. C) Once you resolve, or find out the reason why he is not making a commitment, then I would work on the fire of love, a stay with me spell, and even a bind his nature spell, so that he is with you and only you.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:22 am

Well this was originally the result of a "bringing new love to me type spell" I've since reinforced it, but I was at a roadblock as to how I should proceed. I'll definitely try the St Thomas/light blue candle as you suggested.

I really appreciate the advice!
Thanks

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Mon Oct 26, 2009 5:33 am

ok, so I have been working my boyfriend for a few months now. i feel like i finally have the relationship i want, the one we had before all the stresses of life got to us, before we had a baby. and now i want to get married. it's something he has brought up in the past, but hasnt for a while now. and i think maybe he just needs that extra nudge

i have read through the marry me products, but was looking for a "spell" and didnt seem to find one. any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Tue Oct 27, 2009 4:15 am

Here's one from The Waxing Moon by Helen Chappel. (This book collects a LOT of odds and ends from a lot of traditions, and I wouldn't be surprised if she lifted this directly from the Marie Laveau book... Which you can buy from Lucky Mojo!)

Basically, take a lemon peel which has been peeled in one long strip so that it doesn't break at all. Annoint with oil (it says to annoint with Cleopatra Oil, but I'd go for Compelling or a mixture of whatever you feel is right in the situation) and pray to St. Expedite. (She says nothing about his candle and offerings, but DEFINATELY do that!) Carry the peel around in your pocket all day. At night, rub the four corners of your bed with the lemon peel and sleep with it under a pillow. The next day go to a bridge or out on a boat, mash the lemon peel around a dime (or other silver-type coin in whatever currency) from the year of your birth and throw it into the water with a quick prayer to the Saint: you snap your fingers twice and say "St. Expedite, do it now!" You offer him his pound cake in the church on your wedding day.

Feel free to alter at will, though!

You could also annoint a bride and groom candle with compelling oil, and burn it over a honey jar with a petition to get him to marry you, sweetening him to the idea of marriage.

Get a personal concern of his like a longer hair or thread from intimate clothing, and tie it around your wedding ring finger.

Look! Three for one! Good luck! (And soon, I hope, congratulations.)

mirage3468 · Unread post by **mirage3468** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:30 pm

Hello,
I need help getting my boyfriend to come visit my family over the upcoming holiday. We been together for quite a bit now and he's not met my family yet. Mostly because they all live many thousand miles away now. I have had great success with LM before. In fact this man has been a commitment phobe for years, and started dating me, but wasnt gonna give me a commitment, and I wasn't gonna put out with out it. Did a nation sack on the man and he said he loved me and asked me to be his girl three days later. Still have the sack and carry it round with me.
Today I mentioned I'm making my holiday plans, asked him what he was doing and he said going to his folks. I think it's a bit unfair since I'm spending turkey day with his folks, only fair to spend santa time with mine. I bought a influence another's mind for a good purpose honey jar spell today, since if we do get married, it's gonna be hard for him with my dad if he don't make an effort to meet them now. Any body have any suggestions on how I should do this? compelling oil? Lay tricks at his house? Can I add things to my sack I have on him already?

Astariell · Unread post by **Astariell** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:48 pm

It seems your nation sack is working well.....You mention your family lives many thousands of miles away....are they coming to you? Are you traveling to them? Hard with your dad? ......Your relationship should not depend on your dad, "it is gonna be hard for him with my dad".....

I suggest you put faith in your nation sack and continue with perhaps many of the LM kits, involving more commitment.....
Take it easy.....Continue your work and look into your expectations......Lots of luck and you seem to have it together..

mirage3468 · Unread post by **mirage3468** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:22 pm

Well... not visiting my family on Christmas is not an option for me since dad is paying for my private university masters degree and I'm the only child. That would be beyond the realm of disrespect I could show. The far travel is not a monetary option for us, and I don't want to lose the guy, but he is more than in a position to travel to be with me for this. It is a matter of what he wants. Ive already met his family and am going to see his family during thanksgiving. I really am
in love with him, but I thinks it's unfair for me to go with his family and him not come to mine.

zee_2 · Unread post by **zee_2** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 5:48 am

I am asking on behalf of the daughter (now 26yrs) of a good friend of mine .
They belong to a very traditional culture, where dating is only barely tolerated and if the girl is shy or modest, leaves it upto parents/elders to 'arrange' a good match. Sounds archaic i know , but thats how they do it.
Anyways this girl is an absolute angel, pretty, sensible, has a good job,and great home-making skills and it would be a lucky guy who got her...unfortunately her parents are very slow about 'setting things up' for her, and are very rigid on who is 'good enough' for their daughter ..i was wondering if there is anything that can be done in this situation if the girl is agreeable to doing some spells for herself in order to increase the level of interest in her situation from her parents and from guys alike?
I have not used the 'love and marriage' spells aspect of LM yet and am looking for advice before i order.
thanks!!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:14 am

Try Marriage, Adam and Eve, Dixie Love, or Chuparrosa products.

theredc6 · Unread post by **theredc6** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 11:06 am

1. She needs to do attraction spells to attract eligible husbands.
2. When the men come, do spells to sweeten their relationship with the parents (sweet jar with balm of gilead buds and a yellow candle).
3.If you have to, do a domination spell on the parents so that they will give consent for her to marry the guy she likes.
4. Have her do a follow up spell to ensure a peaceful and happy marriage.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 11:41 am

theredc6 wrote:1. She needs to do attraction spells to attract eligible husbands.
2. When the men come, do spells to sweeten their relationship with the parents (sweet jar with balm of gilead buds and a yellow candle).
3.If you have to, do a domination spell on the parents so that they will give consent for her to marry the guy she likes.
4. Have her do a follow up spell to ensure a peaceful and happy marriage.

I would suggest Cloves over Balm of Gilead in the honey jar for the parents and the suitor, Cloves inspire friendship. Balm of Gilead is better to use after something has happened, an argument or fight, to sooth emotions.

zee_2 · Unread post by **zee_2** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 2:01 pm

Thank you all SO much.

I will look up those products immediately!!

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 7:54 am

I am hoping for a proposal from my boyfriend, and would like to know what sort of work I could do to bring this about. Thanks.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 8:03 am

By the way, we have a really good relationship and are already very much in love. Would burning the white marriage candles annointed with oil work? If so, which oil? How about orange blossom colonge?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 8:46 am

Look into the Marriage condition products. I believe there is a Marriage spell kit that you could use.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 8:53 am

I didn't see anything under spell kits, so I guess I would have to make my own kit, but I have no idea on how to do that. Can anyone give me some advice, please. Thank you.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 9:00 am

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-marriage.html

Ok...I found this page of products...but what do I do with them? Please help.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 9:01 am

Burn a Bride and Groom candle dressed with Chuparrosa, Marriage, Adam and Eve, and/or Dixie Love oil. All of these are for marriage or a long-term relationship. If you prefer, get a vigil candle instead, since it will come already dressed, and the picture will help you visualize. If you don't want your boyfriend to know what you are doing, either turn the vigil candle around or order a plain white or pink candle dressed like one of the above.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 10:17 am

What do you think about using the spiritual bath crystals for marriage?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 11:40 am

using many if the items in the working will add to it, for example taking a spiritual bath and adding a cup of it to his rinse cycle of his clothes to put it on him, wear the oil as a purfume, burn insense when you burn the candle and pray the songs of solomon. a mojo or a nation sack would be appropriate for this also.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Nov 21, 2009 10:26 pm

I've always understood the nation sack to give a woman the upper hand in a relationship, a form of domination, of sorts. You can buy a white bride and groom candle annointed with the proper marriage oils, while burnings incense and making your petition that your boyfriend proposes to you. Bathing in the bath crystals daily is a great idea as well. Deer's tongue is a great herb for proposals. You can fix your white figurine candle with Deer's Tongue to help your boyfriend actually propose, but this will only have him propose if he's already thinking about it. It helps give voice to his thoughts and feelings.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:14 am

Thank you, everyone, for all of the help and advice. I was told by someone that I don't want to overdo it. Evidently, doing too much at once will scatter the energies so it won't be as effective. She said it was better to do one thing at a time, like a candle for instance, instead of the candle, bath crystals, oil, and incense all at once. Any thoughts on that? I thought the more energy I put into it with multiple things, the better. Who is right?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 9:55 am

I think that advice is sound if you are working towards several different goals, or if you are trying to do 10 different seperate spells for one goal.

But all those things can be part of one work. You keep a candle burning on the situation. Use the bath crystals before seeing him, and burn some of the incense in the house before he comes over. Put a small dab of the oil on your doorknobs so that he'll touch it while he's at your place. I don't see those as too many things. I see that as covering all your bases.

Now, if you were making a mojo bag to carry, while doing a moving candle spell, and had 3 honey jars going, and were binding him up all at the same time, I would say that you might be overkilling the situation. But I see the condition products themselves as just tools - and you can use more than one tool to do a job. In many cases you HAVE to.

That being said - don't get obsessive. And if you find that you're having a hard time keeping your concentration on the work steady because you have too many angles going at once, then you'll want to par down your attack to something that you are able to handle competantly.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Nov 24, 2009 3:50 pm

Its a matter of keeping your objective focused. What often happens when people first get involved with any type of magical system is that they just start hurling about spells. If they are interested in attracting a particular person they may do one spell, then next day do another, then another. That often is not helpful. What's important in conjure is that you keep steady pressure, but keep your focus. So if you are looking for a proposal, burning your candle while you have incense going and taking baths are all in conjuction with one another. You aren't necessarily shooting off random energies, but rather you are working from different angles to surround yourself and your life with the energies you want.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sun Nov 29, 2009 6:21 am

It would be perfectly normal to me if you're doing things in the form of one ritual - take a spiritual bath, dress the bride and groom candle with oil and herbs, light the incense, burn the candle, etc. Then I'd wait three weeks to see if there's any movement, and usually six weeks before I try another spell.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Wed Dec 02, 2009 9:36 am

Ok...I'm so excited that the products I ordered from LM finally arrived today! Now, what do I do with them?

Here is what I have:
Marriage Incense Power
Sachet Powders - Dixie Love and Marriage
Bath Crystals - Adam & Eve, Chuparrosa, and Marriage
Oils - Dixie Love, Marriage, Adam & Eve, and Chuparrosa

I have red candles, but no white or pink. I think white is probably what I need, but I can get one anywhere. I would just like some advice on how to proceed next. Thank you.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 02, 2009 11:44 pm

The simplest way to go about it:

Bathe in the bath crystals then take the bathwater and toss it to the east at a crossroads.

Get a white candle and write your name and his, and carve "Propose" or "Marriage" in between. Annoint it with Marriage Oil and Adam and Eve. If you have deer's tongue add it to the candle along with the Marriage Sachet Powders.

Take the candle and burn it on a picture of him, or a picture of you guys together while you have the incense going and while you make your petition. You can create a ring round the whole set up by sprinkling the marriage powder in a circle to symbolize the bond.

Take the wax left over and keep it under your mattress or bury in your backyard.

You can also think about using these products in conjuction with a honey jar to sweaten him to the idea of marriage

. Just another thought. Good luck!

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Thu Dec 03, 2009 5:35 am

I just want to say thank you so much for your advice and for having patience with my inexperience. I thoroughly appreciate it.

This morning I took a bath with the combined bath crystals of Chuparrosa, Dixie Love, and Marriage. I saved some to toss later today. Is it okay to combine those particular crystals for bathing? Is it okay to toss just a portion of the bathwater as opposed to all of it?

I bought some white votives yesterday. I took one, cleansed it with Florida Water, and dressed it with the combination of oils (Adam and Eve, Chuparrosa, Dixie Love, and Marriage) and the two powders of Marriage and Dixie Love. As soon as that candle burns out I will inscribe a new one based on your suggestion. Do you think it's better I use only the Marriage and Adam and Eve oils without the Chuparrosa or Dixie Love? I will purchase some deer's tongue with my next order, and in the meantime I will be reading up on how to make a honey jar.

I'm beginning to think that the problem is actually financial based on some things he's said to me lately about his work. I didn't ask him, of course... but last night he expressed his dissatisfaction and frustration regarding his pay. Will the marriage products still work or would you recommend I combine them with some money products as well?

Thanks again!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Dec 03, 2009 9:43 am

You should get a reading on the situation to see if the finances are actually the issue, or if it's something else. Also it can help you see if your work is going in the right direction. You can look at the workers at AIRR: http://www.readersandrootworkers.com

There's no reason why you can't combine those oils and baths.

Yes you can just throw out a portion, but you should try and do that at sunrise.

springsilvermoon · Unread post by **springsilvermoon** » Fri Dec 04, 2009 6:40 am

I have a question about this:

It was suggested that I "Take the candle and burn it on a picture of him, or a picture of you guys together while you have the incense going and while you make your petition. You can create a ring round the whole set up by sprinkling the marriage powder in a circle to symbolize the bond."

What does it mean to "make your petition"?

Stacey

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Dec 04, 2009 8:04 am

State what goal you are working for.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Dec 04, 2009 1:25 pm

Your petition is what you are seeking to acheive. Its done in many ways- some people like to create an incantation for it, or a mantra. Traditionally, its done through fervent praying. You may also simply state your desires to the candle, or speak to it. Let the desire for this proposal, this marriage build up in you and then let your tongue translate it.

nubiandiva · Unread post by **nubiandiva** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 10:25 am

Hey everyone! I posted sometime ago about a reunion with a bf from 14 years ago. He did come to visit me this past weekend, and the first three days (he was here four total) and the time leading up to the visit were FANTASTIC! He couldn't keep his hands off of me and we discussed the pros/cons of distance relationships. Overall, no bumps in the road.

His last day here, however, was just "weird". Nothing that I can place a finger on, but as soon as I woke up that morning I felt something in the air, and my very first thought was, "Now he's gonna run for the hills!". You know that thing that happens to people sometimes when they feel themselves getting to close or falling for you so they begin to retreat? Again, nothing "negative" happened...well, he would not have sex with me that last day which was quite a disappointment!

So, I still have my honey jar working, which I started 6 weeks ago or so, but I have a couple of questions:

* While he was here I was able to collect the following items - his house slippers, used cigarette butts of his, a towel that was used to wipe up semen (I can't tell where on the towel it is though-the towel is beige

)
* What work can I do with any of those items, and is there a way I can somehow "extract" the semen from the towel? I've allowed it to dry out and can't identify it. Also, he has almost zero body hair...what I was able to collect I added to the honey jar, but it was very little.
* finally, is there any work that anyone knows of which helps to overcome this fear that some men seem to experience? He kept making statements like, "You're too good to be true..." and now I think he's scared out of his wits!

Or should I just keep working the honey jar. I will be in his city in about three weeks, but mostly to see my family so it is unclear whether or not we will be able to see eachother while I'm there as he has some travel plans of his own to see his children. But I'd like to get something solidified between us before then or during that trip.

Thanks!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 12:39 pm

Keep using the honey jar, but you might want to start a different work aimed at commitment to the relationship, like Stay With Me.
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
You could even mix in some Adam & Eve http://www.luckymojo.com/adamandeve.html

You may want to read or get a reading on the situation to find out exactly what is scaring him off. Depending on the answer, you may wish to do some Healing, Crucible of Courage, Clarity & /or King Solomon Wisdom work on him to help him get over it.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 1:30 pm

Since you have successfully attracted him now is the time to work on committment conjure. Work with Stay with Me products to help him committ to you, you can make a doll baby filled with love and committment herbs that you whisper to nightly about how he should stay with you, how he should commit etc. You might also consider a moving lodestone spell to move you guys just over the edge and into a more committed relationship.

nubiandiva · Unread post by **nubiandiva** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 2:22 pm

Great replies guys, thanks!!

Conjureman: interesting that you mentioned the doll, because the night he left I dreamnt that I had created a doll of sorts and put that back in my mental inventory. If you could share more with me as to how to do this, or point me in the right direction I would love it!

Right now I would LOVE to do a reading but simply can't afford it...may have to use some money drawing products - I have an arsenal of LM products! I also have some Stay With Me Oil that I will put to good use based on these suggestions.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 6:25 pm

nubiandiva,

You want to stuff the doll with passion and love herbs, things like catnip, cardamon, rose petals, Cubeb, and other herbs (rosemary and periwinkle may be good for this situation). Put in his personal concern to create the link to him, baptize it and then start to work on it.

One of the ways people use a doll baby is by wrapping it in your used undergarments and while talking to him telling him that he doesn't want to be anywhere else, that he wants to stay in there, and other things of simiiar sentiment. Talk to the doll, be loving, be sweet, and watch the effect take hold.

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Unread post by **CopperFox** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 6:41 pm

Hello, nubiandiva!

If you have the opportunity, I would suggest both/either of these two tried & true hoodoo tricks. I have used them myself to great effect. First, if you are able to feed him some of your menses -- either in coffee or baked goods -- you will have gained a good foothold to further your work. Also, if you have the opportunity to take his measure and tie his nature -- WOW! -- I have had fantastic results with this as well. Both of these tricks are discussed at great length throughout the forum and the general consensus seems to be that they are two of the simplest, most effective ways to get a man to commit to a loving relationship with you.

If you will not have access to your menses before you see him next, I would at least make him some baked goods heavy on the love spices (cinnamon, clove, cardamom, vanilla, etc.) and pray over them before presenting them to him. If you will be seeing his family too, you may want to work this trick for them as well -- it never hurts to have momma & poppa on your side. If you are not sure if your paths will cross during your visit, you could try to arrange a care package to be delivered containing the doctored sweets and a dressed letter/Christmas card telling him you enjoyed his company and look forward to seeing him again. Take care not to come on too strong, maintain your mystique and desirability, and never forget -- use what the Good Lord gave you!

Good luck,
Michelle

nubiandiva · Unread post by **nubiandiva** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:12 pm

Thanks CopperFox!

I was able to "feed" him some of my menses by passing it to him in a cocktail that I'd made for him and I did notice an effect. I however, did not continue to give it to him throughout the duration of his stay (I'd missed the importance of that in my research).

I agree with maintaining mystique, etc. I do have to walk a fine line with him though. His philosophy regarding distance relationships is that if one of the two don't make haste to be in close proximity "someone's going to cheat" (his words), so I don't want to create too many absences which will make him wonder what I'm doing 1500 miles away! He had a bad experience with a distance relationship in the past and it seems it has left a bad taste in his mouth.

I don't have much of the menses that I collected left and I don't think that I will have the opportunity to collect more before my trip, so I will hold on to what I have and take it with me. I can't take the chance of baking with it, lol!! Hopefully, as you have said, with what he has taken already, it will help to reinforce my work.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:25 pm

to find the cum on the towel get a black light it will glow

as for using sexual fluids you can use a douche and use that water (some use vinagar with juniper berries) and use that liquid in his food/drinks as well. Good luck!

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:27 pm

I have an idea in regard to his concerns with long distance fidelity. You may want to pick up a white skull candle and annoint it with an oil like Dixie Love or Love Me plus something like Road Opener. This way you could be working on what I perceive as the real hang up -- his notion that a long distance relationship will inevitably lead to unfaithfulness. Hence, you'd be "getting in his head" (skull candle) -- opening the way for new paths/ways of thinking (Road Opener) -- and working on a sincere, committed relationship (Love Me/Dixie Love). It sounds as if he is attracted to you and enjoys your company -- you've got several advantages, just this one roadblock to find a way around.

I haven't received it yet, but I just ordered the Love Me Spellkit. I'm lucky to be happily married, but every girl knows you gotta keep up the good work! Anyway, my main motivation for buying that kit in particular is that it has pretty much everything one needs to make a Nation Sack, plus all of the Love Me line of supplies. I priced out the individual components in the kit and it is one the best deals LM has. You might look into that when placing your next order.

Keep us in the loop and let us know how it goes for you,
Michelle

kmr241983 · Unread post by **kmr241983** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:53 pm

Today at my graduation i WAS EMBRASSED BY MY PROFESSOR WHOM IS ALSO MY BOSS IN FRONT OF FRIENDS AND FAMILY CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME.. THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME THIS HAS HAPPENED HE HAS HUMILUATED ME BEFORE IN FRONT OF OTHER STUDENTS AND POSTED OTHER STUDENT WORK FOR AWARDS AND HELD MINE BACK BECAUSE I WON'T SLEEP WITH HIM OR FLIRT WITH HIM LIKE THE OTHER FEMALE STUDENTS... aGAIN PLEASE HELP ME I have no idea what to do because I still need a reference letter from him and his assistant who is also nasty to me behind my back gave my table away for my final presentation to another student so that i wouldn't be able to display my work. Then both my boos and his assistan they stood aside in the far corner of the room an laughed. I kept my head down to make it this far to graduation and let everything that they did during my time at that school slide but today seeing that all they did to me over the years was not enough that they had to make me mess with me and embrass me in front of my family was all i could take.

kmr241983 · Unread post by **kmr241983** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:02 pm

I've gone from school to school running because every where I go people would always be my friend at first then later they would become jelous and do everything to destroy me or bring me down....I would try puting them in honey...saying different psalms for peace... still being nice even when their nasty to me and nothing works. The worst part is the lady that i would go to for help that is a an old friend of my grandmother was the one turning these peoples mind aganist me and doing everything to try and make me fail at school from causing me sleepless nights to turning my professors mind aginst me to making them be inapporaite to me. i'm now trying to go for my masters but i'm scared to because of all these things it may seem small and silly to everyone but not to me when I can't sleep so I'm tired during a test. or I'm scared to go to school cause I don't know what teacher will make my life hell in class that day

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 10:31 pm

Sounds like a great situation for a mirror box! Might also want to do a more controlling Essence of Bend-Over work on them, too.

kmr241983 · Unread post by **kmr241983** » Fri Dec 18, 2009 5:31 pm

What are mirror boxes and how do they work?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Dec 18, 2009 6:37 pm

They've been discussed quite a bit on the forum, so just do a search. They reverse stuff back to it's source - turning negativity back on the one who sent it.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 12:28 pm

It's been about three years, since I let another man (I'm a man) know that I am physically attracted to him. He has said that he would like to have the same with me, but every time I keep making a move, he withdraws by telling me, "Be patient." I think he's scared. He talks a big game about what a perfect night with me would be, but he has been nothing but talk. I am going to start a honey jar tonight. Is this the best option to get him to MOVE and come to me sexually?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 1:10 pm

It will help sweeten him to the idea. You might want to put some spicier love herbs and some more sexually oriented oils on the candles in there to up the lusty pressure a bit. However, you might also want to work some Crucible of Courage on him, and some Road Opener in general to help the situation move along.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 4:38 pm

Question...how much work are you doing? I mean you have posted on the board quite a bit about different topics, and I am just trying to assess how much work you are doing. I just bring this up because you do not want to wear yourself too thin.

If you can get him near you...then do a follow me boy spell. or you can even work a penis candle (or just a plain red candle is that is all you have) to bring him to you sexually. Catnip is a great sexy herb along with lemongrass. Ginger, juniper, periwinkle and cubeb berries are really great for this situation too. You might want to throw in some controlling herbs as well such a calamus and/or licorice, and some come to me oil. If you wanted you could masturbate to the thought of him (no toys or videos) and then put that semen on the candle...then add the herbs. Write come to me as the command on the candle from base to wick, and the his name the same way. Say to the candle... (target's name) finds (your name) sexually irresistable, and attractive. (target's name) you are attracted to me sexually and me alone. Something like that to bring him along.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 6:53 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:Question...how much work are you doing? I mean you have posted on the board quite a bit about different topics, and I am just trying to assess how much work you are doing. I just bring this up because you do not want to wear yourself too thin.

If you can get him near you...then do a follow me boy spell. or you can even work a penis candle (or just a plain red candle is that is all you have) to bring him to you sexually. Catnip is a great sexy herb along with lemongrass. Ginger, juniper, periwinkle and cubeb berries are really great for this situation too. You might want to throw in some controlling herbs as well such a calamus and/or licorice, and some come to me oil. If you wanted you could masturbate to the thought of him (no toys or videos) and then put that semen on the candle...then add the herbs. Write come to me as the command on the candle from base to wick, and the his name the same way. Say to the candle... (target's name) finds (your name) sexually irresistable, and attractive. (target's name) you are attracted to me sexually and me alone. Something like that to bring him along.

I have been doing work here and there. Not necessarily on him alone, but for someone to come along that I will be attracted to (if not, him). Neither has produced any results yet. However, I just received my catnip and red flannel bag and will think about carrying a bag of catnip in a red flannel bag on my person.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 7:01 pm

Well, I can take a guess that neither are working because you're working against yourself. You can't be successful in drawing an ex, if you're also working at drawing someone new. And visa-versa. The intentions are at complete cross purposes.

I think it's in your best interest in get a reading to see what's going to be best for you. Or do some Clarity/King Solomon Wisdom work so that you can see more clearly what your actual desire is, and then start doing what is necessary to work towards it.

Until your intention is completely resolved and committed in one direction, you're just going to be wasting your time and money.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 7:08 pm

jujugiggles wrote:Well, I can take a guess that neither are working because you're working against yourself. You can't be successful in drawing an ex, if you're also working at drawing someone new. And visa-versa. The intentions are at complete cross purposes.

I think it's in your best interest in get a reading to see what's going to be best for you. Or do some Clarity/King Solomon Wisdom work so that you can see more clearly what your actual desire is, and then start doing what is necessary to work towards it.

Until your intention is completely resolved and committed in one direction, you're just going to be wasting your time and money.

Thanks!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 8:07 pm

A honey jar will sweeten a person to an idea, but doesn't always make them act on it unless you add the proper intent and herbs. The herbs mentioned are perfect for such matters. Catnip, Juniper, Ginger, Cardamon and similar passion inducing herbs work great. Use them along with Fires of Love, Come to Me, and Follow Me Boy. These three products worked properly induces lust and passion that bring about action. Not just feelings of "love," but passion. That's the key. From there you can determine if you want to build a relationship and then switch to Love Me and Stay with Me products.

Work the Red penis spell his picture, like Stars mentioned, I'd probably emphasize the command portion of this. Be firm, make sure to tell him that he's going to come to you.

Finally, as Devi said, a reading is needed. If you are split between what you really want in your life then you are defeating your own magical working. You're sending out to conflicting messages. Check what message you are putting out there with a reading.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 9:06 pm

ConjureMan wrote:A honey jar will sweeten a person to an idea, but doesn't always make them act on it unless you add the proper intent and herbs. The herbs mentioned are perfect for such matters. Catnip, Juniper, Ginger, Cardamon and similar passion inducing herbs work great. Use them along with Fires of Love, Come to Me, and Follow Me Boy. These three products worked properly induces lust and passion that bring about action. Not just feelings of "love," but passion. That's the key. From there you can determine if you want to build a relationship and then switch to Love Me and Stay with Me products.

Work the Red penis spell his picture, like Stars mentioned, I'd probably emphasize the command portion of this. Be firm, make sure to tell him that he's going to come to you.

Finally, as Devi said, a reading is needed. If you are split between what you really want in your life then you are defeating your own magical working. You're sending out to conflicting messages. Check what message you are putting out there with a reading.

Will including the Queen Elizabeth Root, Safflower Flowers and Sampson Snake Root help?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Jan 04, 2010 12:47 pm

More herbs don't always equal more power, but you can add whichever you feel will help your conjure. Find a good balanced mix, not just a hodgepoge of herbs and curios. Look up the uses of the herbs, consider speaking and communicating with the herb to see if it is right for the spell.

Safflower and Sampson Snake Root can be used to make an oil for yourself, it's commonly used by gay men for attracting lovers. If you want to add it to your honey jar go for it, but remember be careful not to overpower the honey with too much herbs.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Mon Jan 04, 2010 1:48 pm

ConjureMan wrote:More herbs don't always equal more power, but you can add whichever you feel will help your conjure. Find a good balanced mix, not just a hodgepoge of herbs and curios. Look up the uses of the herbs, consider speaking and communicating with the herb to see if it is right for the spell.

Safflower and Sampson Snake Root can be used to make an oil for yourself, it's commonly used by gay men for attracting lovers. If you want to add it to your honey jar go for it, but remember be careful not to overpower the honey with too much herbs.

That's why I purchased it.

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:51 am

I got married when I was 18 and my husband was 21. We recently celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary. It's far less about age, and more about maturity. Some young marriages work,

CONGRATULATIONS

, I agree with you 100%..... marriages don't fail, people fail in their marriages.... weapons do not kill people, people kill with weapons.............

jujugirl · Unread post by **jujugirl** » Fri Jan 08, 2010 5:03 am

Hi everyone!

Can someone help me figure out which herbs from LM are the best to remove obstacles so that things will move forward?

Much Thanks and Many blessings!