Menstrual Blood Magic Questions and Answers

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 7:18 pm

I am with my ex now on vacation and have feed him 3 drops of my blood in coffee from last cycle yesterday. He finished all of it and although he was quite horny when we slept on the same bed on our first night together last night, he didnt wanna have sex with me and is holding back cos he feels he doesnt wanna be together with me and doesnt want me to get the wrong idea. The purpose of this trip together is to heal our relationship and he still doesnt want to be together with me for good.

I thought after several reviews and hearsay from everyone that the blood works really well and the guy would be obesessed etc but i dun see that with my ex at all and is feeling really desperate and hopeless. Shall I feed him more on my blood (as i only did once but with 3 drops) and is there anything else I can do?

Please kindly advise anyone as this will be the last chance I would be able to spend the time with him.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 7:44 pm

Get as many of his personal concerns as possible, hairs, semen, t-shirts, underwear etc etc... and go from there...do u have a honey jar working? Did u use any love drawing powders, oils r baths... (Fire of Love, Love Me, Follow Me Boy...e.g.) There are so many options available. If you just fed him yesterday...consider the traditional time frame 3 days...3 weeks...3 months.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 7:46 pm

Also, while it may not apply this very weekend, you may very well want to get a reading on this situation to see if it's worth spending your time and energy on continuing a situation that may not be worth it.

In the meantime, certainly follow jwmcclin's advice above.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 10:25 pm

Fix his nature and keep him tied to home. She can feed him her menses, take his dirty underwear and tie it in a knot and bury in her backyard. These are some of the most simple ways of keeping him home and faithful, more involved methods involve the Nation Sack, tying his nature through various means like a binding penis candle spell etc.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 10:44 pm

This is a perfect opportunity for you to gather up your arsenal against him. Get your hands on as much of his personal concerns that you can.

Remember, that not all spells work the same with all people. Its not a matter of resistance, but personality. Some people have the discipline or self-control to not give in to their feelings. You fed him the menses and on some level it worked-you said he was "horny." Now, you have to get him to relinquish that control. Feed him your meses again and keep at it. It doesn't always work instantly. If you have catnip with you, take a bath in it and let it air dry. That may help give it the extra push. Also add a pinch of cinnamon in his wine or coffee.

Natty · Unread post by **Natty** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:08 am

After reading the question from kmew1315 "Are love spells binding both ways?", I wanna raise another question which related.

Ok, so we all know sometimes the spell does not take effect, in this case, if I cast a love spell and it fail to bring my love one come to me, will I still be bind from the spell I cast?

Sorry about my bad English, I don't know whether my question is clear enough to let you understand, so I would like to interpret it more. If the spell does not take effect to bring my love to me, will it only work on a single side on me? To binding me more into him but not having any effect on him?

Thanks for any reply or information provided!

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:16 am

Don't worry about your English. I understood the question so I'm sure others did too. I would think the answer to your question would be no since the spell didn't take, but I'm thinking someone else with more experience can answer better than me.

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:58 am

I have tied my mans nature, in a nation sack and by feeding him my menses. however, i dont want him with me only because he is now forced to be, i want him with me and happy. what can i do now on my end to make sure that we keep a happy home, and he doesnt end up some misserable "tied" man?

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 8:51 am

Well, I can't suggest anything magical, but I can suggest some practical stuff. Make him crazy to want to leave. Treat him right. Be loving, faithful, caring, but not overwhelming.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 10:21 am

In my experience, yes, your energy is still bound up in that person. If you do a spell and it doesnt work, and you want to move on, do something ritually to release yourself from that person. A Cut n Clear is one way, but anything that you do that involves a bit of cleansing and the intent to cut any ties that you may have created or reinforced through the love work, can work just as well.

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 11:11 am

Thank you. those are my intentions. I just want all of us to be happy, but since I have had my son i have seen my boyfriend lose interest and he even strayed once, that one mistake continues to haunt us, and i want to prevent it from happening again.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 11:14 am

Good follow up response kmew1315... but on the magical front you have employed two of the most popular spells which causes a man to desire you...and you only. Your responsibility is to do the rest.

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 12:28 pm

yes, i plan on doing everything in my power magical and non magical. though his desire for me does not seem to be increasing much, mostly only on days when i feed him my menses. but i think alot of that has to do with me, and my loss of self confidence since finding out he was unfaithful. i am just no longer the woman i was when he fell in love with me and persued me with all he had.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 1:38 pm

Well, then your next step needs to be Healing work for yourself. LM has some great Healing oil. Also maybe use some Bewitching on yourself FOR YOURSELF to help you feel desireable again.

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 1:49 pm

thats exactly what i need! thank you!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 2:30 pm

You're very welcome. Keep us posted on your progress!

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:23 pm

i have the nation sack too and i want to know how i use betwiching on myself.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:47 pm

It's all in the intent. You can use the baths, powders, oil as a personal scent, with the intent being that you are becoming more aware of your own bewitching nature.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:18 pm

Devi these suggested spells are excellent...I am learning more and more from reading your post.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:11 pm

I think alot of women could use some rituals for their own sensuality. Life and aging can often leave us feeling kinda blech. So sometimes a little magic for your own good is just what the doctor ordered.

I'm actually doing similar work for myself, but for encouraging and empowering my creative side rather than the sexual.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 7:18 pm

I agree...

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 8:00 pm

hey all,

thank you so much for all your kind advice. I am feeling really disheartened and the blood was truly my last resort. I already have a honey jar working on him for months now and was kinda anticipating immediate result from the blood as like many have raved about.

So the blood does take some time to work eh? is it really 3 days, weeks and months? I will only have like 3 weeks with him. Not too sure how much i can feed him and will it still last after we parted ways? he's like sleeping miles apart from me even though when we are on the same bed and keep warning me not to try to seduce him

Looking at im gonna to like spend the next 3 week with him, is there any other stuff i can work on him before we parted our ways for good? I have kiss me and lavender oil with me, and nothing else besides my blood, is this good? Do i need to feed him the blood like everyday?

Once again thanks for all your kind advice and support, you wouldnt know how important this is to me......

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 9:01 pm

I would keep yourself dressed with the oils so that he's always in contact with you and them.

Collect concerns from him as you are able.

Perhaps try and add a pinch of ginger or cayenne to your honey-jar candles in order to give things more heat & speed. Don't overdo it. A little tad will be fine.

Try cooking up some of the love recipies for baking that have been posted on the forum - add some of your blood to that as well. Keep feeding him the blood as often as you are able.

You really should try and manage a reading - I mean he's putting up alot of direct resistance to you for a reason. You need to know the truth behind that action to find out if this is actually worth all your time and energy.

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 9:08 pm

jujugiggles wrote:Perhaps try and add a pinch of ginger or cayenne to your honey-jar candles in order to give things more heat & speed. Don't overdo it. A little tad will be fine.

You mean ginger and cayenne speed up honey jars? What do you add them to? The candle? The jar? (I have mine already sealed so I'd rather not open it again).

Try cooking up some of the love recipies for baking that have been posted on the forum - add some of your blood to that as well. Keep feeding him the blood as often as you are able.

grrr... apparently "recipe" is too common a word for the page's search engine.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 9:12 pm

Yes, ginger or cayenne add heat. Pray over them and tell them what to do for you. With the appropriate intent speed to a work. Seriously, though, you don't need a lot. Cayenne is also an ingredient in hot foot powder, and can also be used to create anger/discord, so don't use too much or you'll get the wrong effect. You can add a pinch to the herbs in the jar, or if you don't want to open it, you can use a pinch in the oil as you dress the candles. Just make sure not to touch your eyes or anything until you wash your hands very well afterwards or you'll be sorry!

Try "baking" or "cooking" in your search.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 10:26 am

Actually, this topic has been discussed before. Blood does not work on everyone. He might have protection on him that makes him immune to blood. It happens. I know of many mothers who protect their sons from this. He also may not be a good choice for you.

Yes, this is a great time to get personal concerns, but I would look at it a bit differently. I know you do not want to hear this, but take a good long look at how much work you have put into this guy. At some point you have to be honest with yourself and say "hey, is this all there is?" You even signed off with "this is my last chance I would be able to spend the time with him." I find that telling.

Magic is wonderful, but being honest with ourselves is even better.

Mary

MadameKoiteh · Unread post by **MadameKoiteh** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 4:12 pm

Peace To All,
Literary Lioness, wonderful advice. I have done work on more than one occasion to help the men clean up the "leavings" of some women. However, it is always after the fact. I am so interested to know about how the mothers protect their sons from this. (I really must know, never heard of this specific type of protection.) Can you tell me more? I don't want to hijack the thread, so I'll post my question as a new thread. Thanks so much.
Many Blessings

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 4:14 pm

I actually would be very pleased to become educated on that kind of protection as well!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 4:42 pm

Any basic protection will keep a person from being "hoodooed" or used against their will. Some mother's invoke and place somone under the protection of a particular saint or angel, like Michael and that patron will make sure their charge remains safe from such work. I've also heard that mothers place ginger and other protective herbs in their cooking and in teas with the specific purpose of protecting their sons from such tricks. I'm sure Mary, would be able to shed further light.

To the original poster, remember what has been said here. Even if he isn't protected there are many factors that go into your work. If he's involved with someone else that will keep him taking that final step, which is why we recommed break up work first. There are also things that you could be doing to sabotage the work. Is your intention clear? Have you asked yourself if this is what you really wanted? Are you simply rushing things too much, letting your self-doubt and lust for results interfere with the work? Have you gotten a reading? You've fed him your menses, step back and let it work, don't rush it. Keep the pressure going, but don't lust for results.

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 9:00 pm

Once again thank you all for sharing and the kind advice.

I did have some reading done before and it sounded positive but there were quite alot of differences in some of the readings where one would say he would fall deeply in love with me, while the other said he wouldnt commit.....it was kinda like 2 extremes so not sure which to believe.

I think his resistance stem mainly from our past and he doesnt see a future with me as we were too different - the same reason why we broke up in the first place. Anyway I am attempting to feed him more and am praying really hard it'll work - the result isnt immediate right? But I did read from some over here that it should be?

I have done honey jar on him for past 6 months and it worked fine but didnt have it with me now since we are traveling together.

How long should I wait before knowing for sure that it doesnt work? What else can I do?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 9:05 pm

3 days for a sign that it's working - 3 weeks for movement.

If it's been several months since your last reading, you might want to have another one with an AIRR worker. Things can change. Otherwise, then you need to work with what you're seeing from him. If all of this is yielding nothing, then you may very well want to consider cutting ties and moving on.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 10:43 pm

Being deeply in love and unable to committ are not exactly polar opposites. A person can love you deeply, but be afraid to commit because of their insecurities, or because of your own nature. Try to take a step back and relax. If you are tense it will come off in your spell work. Relax, let the energy work. I know you feel this will be the last time you guys are going to be together, but instead view this as an opportunity to plant seeds that will eventually lead to you guys getting back together. If you are nervous and try to push things to much, he'll sense that.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 10:49 pm

Increasing your own sensuality and working healing your own insecurities can go a long way. Wise words, Devi.

I might want to add, that if you tie a mans nature, you better make sure to keep the flames going. Men become miserable in such situations when their wife or significant other have tied them down, but then proceed to abuse the relationship and the upper hand they have, refuse to consider their husband's needs, and other things that would normally make people leave the relationship, but for these tied men there is no escape which leads to the state of being miserable and helpless. The fact that you are worried about this is a good sign. Don't abuse your control and love him and things will be fine.

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Wed Dec 23, 2009 10:58 pm

There's also something else worth taking into consideration. There are some people (both men and women) who "enjoy the chase." For those people, when their significant other becomes too "easy" (for lack of a better word), they lose interest and look for the challenge. Personally, I don't get that viewpoint at all. I hate the chase and just want someone to be there for me, but what can I say - the fact that there is an incident in your past suggests that he MIGHT be one of those types of people. I want to be careful with this because for one thing I really don't like this mindset and don't want to encourage it and on top of that, I could just be wrong. But you know him better than I do. If that's the type of guy that he is, then a little bit of mystery might make him more interested in you. If it's NOT the type of guy that he is, then the little bit of mystery might just make him suspicious or worse, so make sure you try to figure him out rather than just following generic advice from people on message boards who don't know you or him.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Fri Dec 25, 2009 12:25 pm

nemesis wrote: I think his resistance stem mainly from our past and he doesnt see a future with me as we were too different - the same reason why we broke up in the first place.

Hmm, maybe he is right. Maybe you are very different from each other. Why do you see a future with someone who is so different than you? Sorry, but from what you have been writing, a lot of this does not sound encouraging. A guy can love you with all his heart and stay right where he is. Love and action do not always go hand-in-hand.

Have any of these readers told you the cause of his reluctance to go forward with you, besides being "too different"? What are the differences? Are they workable? Are you a spendthrift and he is a saver? Are you faithful and he does not believe in monogamy? Because those differences are what you should be working on. You should be working on him seeing you in a different light.

I am going to put a little science into this, women hold onto relationships due to Oxycontin. We produce it after sex and giving birth. It is a way we bond to others. I see women hold onto unsuitable partners due to being under this influence, Men are not ruled by it the way women are.

So if I were you, I would give this a time line, because time can never be recaptured. You stated you have been working a honey jar for six months already and the results seem to be spotty. He still has reservations about another relationship with you. If you were my client, I would be telling you to rethink all of this.

Mary

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Dec 25, 2009 8:17 pm

OxyContin (oxycodon) is a powerful prescription pain medication. The hormone that causes feelings of love and bonding is oxytocin.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 1:32 pm

cleopatra wrote:OxyContin (oxycodon) is a powerful prescription pain medication. The hormone that causes feelings of love and bonding is oxytocin.

Yeah, I misspelled (typing fast). It is oxytocin, but my advice is the same.

Mary

happilydysphoric · Unread post by **happilydysphoric** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 2:15 pm

I know the topic of using menstrual blood has been gone over many times on the forum, but i was interested in hearing some of the more unique sneaky ways women have used to deploy this trick (and hearing whether more creative ways would be less effective).

we all know coffee and pasta sauce and i know baked goods have even been suggested a few times, but sometimes none of those things are really feasible.

for lack of other options i soaked a tampon into a bottle of nyquil before suggesting to my target that he take some. i thought this was pretty creative, but wondered if the room temperature liquid would be less effective in grabbing the essence of the blood.

thoughts?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 2:26 pm

Don't let that Nyquil sit out all that long with that blood in there - it will rot. Hopefully he'll be finishing the bottle fairly quickly if he's sick?

happilydysphoric · Unread post by **happilydysphoric** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 2:43 pm

oooh I didn't even think of that! luckily, the bottle is nearly finished already!

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 3:07 pm

The nyquil was certainly creative -- who knows what all sorts of weird erotic cough syrup dreams he probably had about you! There is a not-too-old thread on here about how to collect and dry menstrual blood so as to have it for use in powdered form. Check it out, it had some neat-o ideas.

I have wondered if one could infuse liquor or wine with menses -- sort of like a menstrual tincture -- so as to keep the blood preserved. Has anyone tried this?

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Sat Dec 26, 2009 10:29 pm

Over at http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html there are a few spells toward the bottom of the page for tying a man's nature. What are some spells for tying a woman's nature (or for binding a woman to you or anything of that sort)? Are there any that can be used with someone that you're not (currently) having sexual relations with?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Dec 27, 2009 12:01 am

The tricks for tying a woman's nature are similar to that of a man's. You can measure her sex with a string and tie her with knots after you anoint it with her sexual fluids. You can use her menstrual blood to tie her nature to you. You can use the unwashed underwear trick in your backyard/under your bed. You can even work with a vulva candle to tie her sex.

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Sun Dec 27, 2009 12:10 am

ConjureMan wrote:You can use the unwashed underwear trick in your backyard/under your bed. You can even work with a vulva candle to tie her sex.

How do these last two work? I've seen the blue penis candle. Is just burning the candle without any of her sexual fluids still acceptable? And how does the unwashed underwear trick work?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Dec 27, 2009 1:22 pm

You take her unwashed underwear, tie a knot in it while you pray and petition, then bury it in your backyard, or under your bed. Some people prefer to tie the target's underwear with their own to create a bond.

The vulva candle can be used just like a penis candle to either hex a person's sex, tie them to you, or fan their passion for you. While you can tie a person's nature without sexual fluid, sexual fluids seem to be the best way to perform it. If you don't have sexual fluids, then you might consider Come to Me conjure in conjuction with red vulva candles aimed at making her hot to you until you can get your hands on her sexual fluids.

If she is sleeping with someone else, or sleeps around, you may consider using a blue vulva candle to calm her down to keep her uninterested in other men as you work other conjures to bring her to you.

hoodoo curious · Unread post by **hoodoo curious** » Sun Dec 27, 2009 10:13 pm

Literarylioness wrote:Yes, I was the one who retold the story of the church coffee. The target's family drank the coffee with him. It all worked out very nicely. It was an accident though.

Actually, this happened to me recently. I finally decided to try this trick with my man. I gave him some of my "doctored" brownies and he gave them to his students. I can safely say none of his students are pursuing me in earnest, but he did eat one of the brownies and has been a dream! He was always easy to get along with, but now he is even more so without his sometimes cranky moods. He really pays attention to me now, whereas before he use to kind of let it go in one ear and out the other. I plan on giving him all his Christmas goodies doctored with my stuff.

Mary

Does he have to have it three times in order for it to start working?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 8:57 am

Its affect is different for different people hoodoo curious... some immediate some eventually...

hoodoo curious · Unread post by **hoodoo curious** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 9:47 am

Thank you jwmcclin...

MyLoves · Unread post by **MyLoves** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 7:42 pm

Hello all I am a newbie here and this is my first post. I would like to tell you a bit of my situation and please dont judge me and just give me your assistance on how i can better this situation.

I have been with someone on and off for the last 16 years. To make a long story short everything seems to go well until someone else comes into the picture. It seems like this happens ALL the time. ITs not just about sex because he actually forms relationships with these ppl. I have done different spell work on him and although things seem to work while im doing it once i stop everything goes back to how it was. Right now we are not together as i got into his email account and saw all the emails between him and MULTIPLE other women. Although all these took place at the beginning of the year when we where not together, i still want to fix this. What can i do to make him faithful and take these women out of his life?OR maybe make them get over him and go on about there lives .....

looking forward to your advice.
Thanks

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 8:41 pm

You can create a nation sack or try to tie up his nature.

http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

Since this seems to be an ongoing problem for you, you might want to consider getting a reading to see if it's actually in his nature to be faithful. Some people just don't have it in them to be faithful and you really can't change someone's basic nature.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 9:46 pm

Well, if has been doing this for 16 years then that is his nature. We have had a few threads on this. Magic would only be a temporary fix, which is what you have experienced. Magic cannot change a person's basic nature. Any time of magic would be temporary and you will have continue doing it for as long as you want this man.

Mary

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 11:07 pm

If this is the type of guy he is, then you can't really change that fact. Magick offers solutions to people's natures, but because we cannot change the core of who a person is, we have to constantly maintain pressure and power to bend them to *our* will. If you are willing to do this, if bending this guy is more feasible to you than cutting him out and seeking someone who will be more loving and compatible to you, then work with a nation sack and tie his nature. Its a constant conjure, but it will get the job done.

nivedita · Unread post by **nivedita** » Mon Dec 28, 2009 11:32 pm

Dear All:

I am facing a lot of trouble in my relationship with my husband for the past 2-3 years. It has become very bad for the last one year. He seems to be very distant and uncommunicative. Also, he is obsessed with this girl. I believe that she had given him her menstrual blood in some drinks. What should I do?
If I put my menstrual blood in his drinks would it negate her effect and would we be together again. How can I remover her evil effect from my relationship. Also, what is the process of doing this spell? Is there some other spell that I can use?

lakwanda · Unread post by **lakwanda** » Fri Jan 01, 2010 11:33 pm

I know it's a little late for this information, but I'm studying pharmacology for my doctorate. Oxytocin does elicit feelings of contentment and security in women to their infants and mates. It can also reduce fear, so that you will basically be happier and more willing to be in a relationship with someone.

However, there is no evidence that it can directly control your feelings. Most of these studies regarding physical response are done on animal subjects that are given extremely high doses of the hormone that your body would never induce. So, don't dissuade yourself by blaming your emotions on a hormone.

You have oxytocin flowing through your system whenever you feel a personal connection with someone so it isn't something that can directly lead you to love someone (Unless you have recently given birth, then your levels will be significantly higher than normal. Since this is your body's way to encourage bonding with your child).

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Jan 01, 2010 11:43 pm

Get a reading. You need to find out in fact that your husband has been given blood from another woman. If this is the case, then proceed with some unjinxing work in addition, there is already a thread on this, and you should use the search function to find that information. Lastly, I would recommend doing a search of this forum, and website to get all these questions answered for you. These questions have been answered in some length already, but your first move needs to be to get a reading.

nivedita wrote:Dear All:

I am facing a lot of trouble in my relationship with my husband for the past 2-3 years. It has become very bad for the last one year. He seems to be very distant and uncommunicative. Also, he is obsessed with this girl. I believe that she had given him her menstrual blood in some drinks. What should I do?
If I put my menstrual blood in his drinks would it negate her effect and would we be together again. How can I remover her evil effect from my relationship. Also, what is the process of doing this spell? Is there some other spell that I can use?

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Sat Jan 02, 2010 5:22 am

Im now down to the last week with my ex and things hasnt really improved much and he still doesnt wanna sleep with me. I really like to know how much longer should i continue to feed him the blood before calling it quit?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jan 02, 2010 1:37 pm

I would call it quits and Cut n Clear. You've been working for this person a long time with no real results. It doesn't sound like it's worth your time or energy. You're better off getting him out of your life, and working on attracting someone who actually wants to be with you and will treat you right.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Jan 02, 2010 9:50 pm

You've gotten quite a bit of advice on what to do, but ultimately you need to get a reading to find out why all your attempts are being rebuffed. If this guy is sharing a bed with you, is on a trip with you when he has a girlfriend at home then I'd say that's pretty big movement. But if that is as far as you can take it, then maybe you need to re-evaluate the situation. Get a reading if you should continue, or do a Cut and Clear.

I might also point out, feeding him your menses, but then spending every minute obsessing whether its working or not is counterproductive, or expecting him to jump into bed isn't exactly helping you out.

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Mon Jan 04, 2010 9:23 am

can anyone suggest what the best way to dry menses would be? i have tried freezing it, but do not get the same results that I get from it when it's fresh.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Jan 04, 2010 9:26 am

Search the forum...this topic has been discussed several times.