Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Princesa · Unread post by **Princesa** » Fri Jan 08, 2010 6:43 am

Hi All,

I just need advice on what herbs that are excellent for Communication and Removing Obstacles in a love relationship. I am currently making a poppet for Love. Due to my situation, I need communication and obstacle removal to add in with my Love herbs that I plan on putting into the poppet..

Everyone's excellent at providing guidance at this forum, so I appreciate all your input and knowledge!

Peace & Love,

Princesa

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 08, 2010 7:18 am

Have you looked at Spanish Moss? http://www.herb-magic.com/spanish-moss.html

Balm of Gilead found here http://www.herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html
is used to soothe broken hearts

You may also want to look at some of the Peaceful home herbs

Look at the list online http://www.herb-magic.com for specifics

Meanwhile you may want to search the forum as well for additional advice.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 08, 2010 7:24 am

This is an ideal time for removing obstacles although if they are related to communication (humph!)

Research the list here http://www.herb-magic.com/index.html#A-Z

IBMagnet · Unread post by **IBMagnet** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 8:16 am

Just a quick question. Are cubeb peppers and cubeb berries the same?

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 10:43 am

I must admit I have never heard of cubeb peppers; however, I do know that cubeb berries are wonderful for love work and inciting passion in your lover.

IBMagnet · Unread post by **IBMagnet** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 1:46 pm

I see.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 7:23 pm

id use stop gossip products to prevent their words from effecting you, a cast off evil product to get their nasty evil thoughts and behavior off of you, a fiery wall of protection mojo to protect you further in life ( also pray to St Michael) and a vinagar jar on them to spoil their life as they did you, as you shake it call down curses from heaven on them for the hurt they put you through.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 10:22 pm

Putting only one person is a vinegar jar is a use that isn't discussed enought in my opinion. Often people talk about using vinegar jars to sour a couple, to cause them to fight, and break up, but putting just one person in a vinegar jar is a great way to sour a person's entire outlook. Its a potent form of vengeance as it makes their entire life and outlook bitter, angry, and sour.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:39 am

Off the top of my head...asafoetida (gosh stinky good for cursing too) is a great banishing herb. Black pepper, lemon leaves, lemon verbena are some other herbs to remove and break up old conditions.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:44 am

If I were you I would work on the obstacles part separatedly. If you concentrate on one thing at a time, you will have better results not to mention I feel like all these things do not go together in one doll. So you can keep an on going vigil light orange or black to remove the obstacles while you work the doll.

Poppy seeds are great for weaking a person so that you can infiltrate their thoughts. I would recommend using tobacco in order to communicate and you can add some love herbs so that it will be sweet and loving. Balms of gilead is great for reconcilation as well. Removing obstacles kinda herbs that are banishing are asafoetida, black pepper, lemon verbena, and lemon leaves.

Princesa · Unread post by **Princesa** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 7:27 am

Thanks so much, stars for your reply..

Can I do both the poppet and the vigil candle for obstacle removal simultaneously or one after the other ~ Remove obstacles first, and then, do the communication?

Your advice is much appreciated!

Peace & love!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:02 am

You could have the going on at the same time. But I would have the vigil candle for the obstacles going on the entire time so that it can keep heat on the situation to keep removing any difficult obstacles.

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Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:25 am

I agree with Mother Mystic. I have this book, and I LOVE IT! It is my reference guide to many things from baking/cooking to conjure work or just simply learning about natural herbs and roots.

This book along with my Quran, and Cake Mix Bible are of the most cherished texts I own.

If you are lucky, Cat will even sign it for you herself.

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MaJiG_GarDen · Unread post by **MaJiG_GarDen** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 11:13 am

starsinthesky7 wrote:Off the top of my head...asafoetida (gosh stinky good for cursing too) is a great banishing herb. Black pepper, lemon leaves, lemon verbena are some other herbs to remove and break up old conditions.

would you dress a candle with those herbs mentioned by simply covering the candle in them. asafoetida does have quite a strong smell so wouldnt dressing a candle and then burning it make it unbearable??

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:20 pm

Well Ive gotten use to the smell of asafoetida. Valerian root smells way worse to me. But anywhoo...asafoetida doesnt smell unless you put it right next to your nose. Its not the type of herb that stinks up the whole room like valerian root. And while you burn it...it does not smell that bad.

spellyshelly · Unread post by **spellyshelly** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:46 pm

what colour candle would you use for this spell?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 4:45 pm

Well removing is associated with banishing. So I would use a black candle. You could use orange as well to open up the way. But I like to use black. I get better results.

IBMagnet · Unread post by **IBMagnet** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:07 pm

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by ConjureMan » Mon Jan 11, 2010 1:22 am

Putting only one person is a vinegar jar is a use that isn't discussed enought in my opinion. Often people talk about using vinegar jars to sour a couple, to cause them to fight, and break up, but putting just one person in a vinegar jar is a great way to sour a person's entire outlook. Its a potent form of vengeance as it makes their entire life and outlook bitter, angry, and sour.ConjureMan

Conjureman, I am embarrassed to say this. I once wanted to hurt someone but backed down instead. I don't like the idea of doing evil but I have been plotting ways to hurt my bosses boss. I love my boss but his bosses are shrewd and they don't like me. One of his boss, is a manipulative female who is cocky and manipulative and fake. She is the one who is bringing negative attention to me. She is that southern woman who is always bringing homemade food and deserts. She is the motherly backstabbing b*tch! Without her, I can handle the guys. Everyone listens to her charismatic b*tching.

1) Tonight, I got really angry and bought a rat trap. I want to glue her business card to it and drop it face down in a crossroad. The idea just came to me in a flash of utter anger. What do you think should go along with that? I want to bring her down several notches. I have been nothing but a polite person pleaser. So I feel scorned!

2) this morning, I used you roasting idea. I used her business card smeared in very hot peppers and black peppers, rolled and tied black thread about it to keep it together. I roasted her on the stove at few minutes interval, spitting and peeing (dropplets) on her while calling her foul names. I plan to do that for several days before I deploy it in front of her office. I am called in her office sometimes. Should I worry?

3) I put her and the shrewd bosses in a vinegar jar with hot peppers and broken glass and nails. I shook it at home, on the drive to work and in the office. She gave me an evil eye today. Not motherly at all.

3) I have still to do a sweet jar to get them to like me. I need to think quick as evaluation time is coming up in two weeks. Suggestions on quick routr?

IBMagnet · Unread post by **IBMagnet** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:08 pm

In relation to what I said above, I worked with saint martha for two weeks on job protection so I was surprised that potential job loss still came up in the reading

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:23 pm

I feel like you are working against the negativity work that you are doing. If you decide to do this AND the negative work at the same time, it is sort of like doing a break up spell on someone but doing a sweet jar on them. It sort of cancels out what you are trying to do. My advice to you is to pick one or the other. BUT if an evaluation is coming up soon then you need to do the sweet jar. Do some dominating work to bend them to your will. But I would not do any negative work to keep trying to punish them . If anything you should be doing some protection work to protect you...get the evil eye of you and whatever else to keep your job. I would be doing some boss fix work and some steady job work since you need that. By you doing the vinegar jar you are just aggravating her, and thats why they do not like you.

Also make sure you are cleansing yourself, and sounds like you need to do some peace work to draw some peace between you and these bosses. Thats just my opinion, and probably why job loss is still coming up for you.

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IBMagnet · Unread post by **IBMagnet** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:53 pm

Hi starsinthesky7, I exclusively worked St Martha the past two weeks non-stop (everyday) up to Friday. I was going to start up again tomorrow.

I had the reading Saturday and got really mad after that. I did all this negative work starting last night. I wanted to sour their relationship and make her lose her influence, while taking their glare off me. You're the one who said to attack from many perspective. Her grasp on the men is too strong. So I thought of leveling the field.

I have the success mojo. I won't have have time to make any more orders from LM, nor do I wish to carry any more stuff. I still have that other mojo I am waiting for instructions on.

Can't the success mojo help me workwise?

Since I am on a time crunch honey jar is too slow. What do you suggest? Go back ti saint martha and see if she'll move this time? I find that I am not good with saints. I give water, sugar and honey. yet nothing.

IBMagnet · Unread post by **IBMagnet** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:59 pm

Also make sure you are cleansing yourself, and sounds like you need to do some peace work to draw some peace between you and these bosses. Thats just my opinion, and probably why job loss is still coming up for you.

Peace work sounds good to me. How do I go about that in a time crunch?

Shouldn't I still lower her influence? it is because of her those men changed toward me. I am the very youngest female (by 1 decade) and much more stylish, i would have seemed more inviting in their eyes. That's not hapening because of her.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 7:35 pm

Sounds like they are just jealous of you and that is okay. First of all put them in a honey jar anyways so that it can start working while you are doing this other stuff. That way you can get them feeling sweet towards you. If you want to lower her or anyones influence then, you can put them in a freezer jar as well.

I would continue to work with st martha for this situation, and just give her water, and put it on the floor. Give her a red light. In addition, you must believe that she or any saint you decide to work with will help you. In addition, you can work with St. Joesph as well. He his great at any employment issues. I use a yellow light for him, and dress it with olive oil if I dont have his oil at the time. In addition, to saying their prayers, I usually write down a small petition and put it under their candles with what I need help in.

But you must give them time to work for you...believe it or not 2 weeks may not be long enough to rectify the situation. So I would just remain calm and get some protection work going for yourself.

I would get some balms of gilead, lavendar flowers, Put little bit of honey on the petition paper and at least a white candle to see if you can reconcile this between you and your boss. But definitely do some cleansing work and some protection work.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:12 pm

Boss fix products are great in situations like that. Consider getting a mojo bag to help protect your, or you can work with the boss fix products on your honey jar while sprinkling around the office. This will level the playing field without resorting to any type of dark work that may be conterproductive to your goals.

Consider getting Saint Michael involved to help keep you safe and protected.

spellyshelly · Unread post by **spellyshelly** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 3:35 pm

thanks stars

buzzbabe · Unread post by **buzzbabe** » Fri Jan 15, 2010 5:49 pm

Lemon grass, lavender, pine needles, eucalyptus, camphor-anything that has something 'cutting' about it or sharp edge. Lavender might be qustionable, but it does has a sharp note about it, and might be used when relationships may need to be overcome

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Jan 15, 2010 5:54 pm

Lavendar is good for cooperation, love, and can help in healing. It has a soothing quality to it. I would not use it is in banishing work but more so cooperation side of things. Camphor is excellent for cleansing...smells like vicks vapor rub, but its a great purification herb. Pine needes, eucalyptus and lemon grass are great for cleansing as well.

happilydysphoric · Unread post by **happilydysphoric** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 3:47 pm

When doing [sweet] love work on a target and there is almost constant communication, but not the 100% commitment you want, do you think cutting communication would be a good idea? sometimes i think it would push him back into commitment, other times i feel i should keep contact and hanging out with him at all costs. any ideas?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 4:41 pm

Pushing someone into a commitment will likely not last. If you want a commitment from someone, i would see what the underlying issues are. Perhaps they have been scared by another relationship and never got over it...so healing work would need to be in order. Maybe they are with someone else and they have no intentions of committing to JUST you. They could just not be THAT into you. So you need to make yourself more attractive to them, and flood them with thoughts of you...make them cling to you. I mean there could be an array of different reasons. Cutting someone off is probably not a good idea especially if they are not that into you. It could cause them to just not even contact you, and you end up being the one that is hurt in the end. So I would stay in contact because that is a good position to be in.

Also, remember you cannot jump from A to Z. Taking huge leaps in a relationship if there is just constant communication but no love there. Or just sweetening the person enough to get them to like you...but no love there. Then you need to address the love passion and romance. Then go for the commitment.

So i would get a reading and see why they are not committing to you. Then address that issue. Perhaps you need to do some love me, follow me boy, and stay with me work. You can also do a binding spell to force the person to be committed to you.

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Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jan 16, 2010 4:52 pm

Playing hard to get has its pluses but so does being available...I agree with starsnthesky7, maintain contact but in the meantime retrieve personal items you will need for any spellwork you are lead to do.

coffeehalo · Unread post by **coffeehalo** » Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:07 am

Last week I saw and approached a man I saw while I was out with my friends. He has seemed very keen, calling me frequently and the other night he arranged a date where I met all of his friends. All of his friends liked me and said they hoped they would see more of me and that he was a good guy and he would be a great boyfriend. I was very happy where things were going. I have had to leave the country we live in for a month though for work. My last night we hung out with all of his friends again and we went home together for the first time. He went on about how much he liked me, how beautiful I was, how sweet and amazing I am, but then said: I just broke up with my girlfriend at Christmas. So I like you and you like me, but don't like me too much because I don't know what I can offer you.

I am pretty sure that he just got terribly burned by his last relationship (his friends heavily implied this by saying things like, you are so much nicer than what he usually brings around, etc). I like him and when I come back, I want him to be my boyfriend.

There are so many different kinds of powders and oils, etc that I am just not sure what to use. I want him to be my boyfriend, I want him to be monogamous, etc, but I don't need to try and make him love me. Thank You!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:02 am

There are several oils, powders, bath washes you can use coffeehalo

Attraction attracts love
Bewitching adds mystery and allure to love spells
Chuparrosa adds luck in finding sincere love
Love me draws passionate love
Queen Elizabeth is a love oil in its on rite.
Follow me boy makes a man follow you

Have you researched the various types?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:24 am

I would recommend getting a reading before doing anything. This will help to see if they are infact broken up. Hey you never know...what people are hiding. In addition, it will help guide you in the work you are about to do.

But based on what you have said here:

I would recommend doing some stay with me work, and perhaps a follow me boy spell kit so that he will want to be with you even when you leave. I would do a skull candle to compel him to think only of you, and get him to speak that he would want you as his girlfriend, and get him to have thoughts of you.

In addition, you can do a honey jar, and dress some red or pink candles to keep him sweet on you. I would recommend using any combination of the following, come to me, orris (herb), follow me boy oil/powder, catnip (herb), damiana (herb), rose petals. On the forum, we have talked about honey jars to a great degree. So utilzing the search function will be help in knowin how to put the honey jar together.

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:04 am

If he was burnt badly by his last girlfriend, you might want to do a healing work on him before trying to get a commitment out of him. I know you want to get to the relationship right away, but in the long run, this could be better.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:05 pm

Definately want to get a reading. It will tell you what you need to do first before you spend time on a particular approach that may be the wrong one.

To get him to committ to you, approach it in two ways, with two targets: his mind, and in between his legs

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First, light his fire by working a red penis candle with Fires of Love, Follow Me Boy and Love Me. Work Juniper, Ginger, Rose, your sexual fluids from masturbation (thoughts only of him), Rosemary, Queen Elizabeth Root, and Catnip into your spell work. You can use thread anointed with the previously mentioned oils and dusted with the corresponding powders to tie at the base of the penis candle, leave a little loop for you to hold on to. Light the candle and grasp it by the loop while telling him that he is hot only for you, that he desires you, that he's on fire wanting you etc. Burn it down and bury it in your front yard.

Next, work a skull candle to get the fires to burn into his mind. Change up the line up a bit to Follow Me Boy, Love Me, and Stay with Me (this can be used after he gets with you). Work this skull candle to keep you on his mind. Carve your name onto his forehead and write loving thoughts on the skull. Use heated pins to drive the thoughts into his mind as you burn the candle down.

Finally, create a honey jar that you can use to keep the work going. Get his sexual fluids and yours and add to it with your petition and herbs. Work this M, W, F to keep the fires going. Follow Stars' advice and read up a bit on the honey jar.

Remember reading first as it will tell you if Healing is needed first and how much of it.

coffeehalo · Unread post by **coffeehalo** » Wed Feb 10, 2010 4:47 am

Thank You everyone! These are all really relaly helpful ideas! Thank you!

battzion · Unread post by **battzion** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:56 pm

My boyfriend asked me to marry him. However, he refuses to discuss a time line or set a date with me and I want more of a commitment from him now. Especially since we are expecting a child in a few months. He also has trust issues that affect our relationship. I don't want to do any work that would have a negative effect or carry any negative energy, it is not my aim to control or dominate him either. I just want him to feel at peace and secure enough in our love that he is ready to marry me. To make the situation worse because of issues with my pregnancy I haven't been able to work so money has been extremely tight. Are there any spells or anything I can do to get my boyfriend to help me more financially and for me to receive the funds I need from various sources till I am able to work again?
**I was thinking about a St. Expedite candle, a Fast Luck Mojo Hand, a Lodestone Spell Kit, and some St. Martin of Tours Soap along with Attraction Oil and Incense.**
I'd like some opinions on those selections and any advice for what can help my boyfriend get rid of old baggage so that we can move on and have a peaceful and loving family.

Thank You

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 8:57 pm

I have used Cleo May with success for money issues with lovers. As for the baggage issue, you may want to do a cleansing for him, if he is not receptive, would be a sneaky trick.

battzion · Unread post by **battzion** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 10:12 pm

I wore some Cleo May oil around him one day and he did give me money out of the blue. Wow I hadn't even thought of that. LOL, I thought it was just for attraction. My boyfriend knows that I practice hoodoo. We are moving next month so I'll be doing some cleansing and blessing work as well as peaceful home. Just wondering can I do a uncrossing spell for my home and everyone in it? Or will a cleansing spell kit cover that?

(My sweetheart is tight with money. What spells would draw money to not just me but him as well? He will allow me to do just about any type of spell on him knowingly with the exception of any love spells. He had a past experience with a girl that made him feel physically sick when he wasn't around her or in her house. His grandmother had to take it off of him. Harm none is my stance)

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 10:36 pm

The 13 herb cleansing covers everything. Also include protection as well. It is possible since he knows he may resist any type of love spell. Reconciliation is to remove past hurts and move on to a more healthy relationship but there are things you will have to do in the physical world to maintain this. (But you are quite savvy - so you are aware) Balm of Glead (found here http://www.herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html) is also used for its calming properties.

battzion · Unread post by **battzion** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 11:01 pm

BTW, I'm not the one that hurt him in the past, it was other females before me. I am just having to deal with the "aftermath" He loves me but I honestly believe his fear of being hurt or betrayed is holding him back. I read about Reconciliation curios and Balm of Glead. Will they work still work if we are already together?
***Savvy, I've always liked that word.

Thanks***

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 11:03 pm

Yes...

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:19 am

Balm of Gilead aren't only used to bring back an estranged lover, or for reconciliation. Balms of Gilead can be used to heal the hurts of love and help people get past that. Their power lies in healing and love.

battzion · Unread post by **battzion** » Sat Feb 20, 2010 1:16 am

Okay, so could I use the Influence Another's Mind For Good honey jar spell kit with Peaceful Home oil and a mixture of Balm of Gilead, Powdered Rosebuds and Sandalwood as an incense to burn while I work? Perhaps these things together can get me the outcome I'm looking for. Thank You ConjureMan.

tlvb25 · Unread post by **tlvb25** » Fri Mar 12, 2010 9:47 pm

ConjureMan wrote:More herbs don't always equal more power, but you can add whichever you feel will help your conjure. Find a good balanced mix, not just a hodgepoge of herbs and curios. Look up the uses of the herbs, consider speaking and communicating with the herb to see if it is right for the spell.

Safflower and Sampson Snake Root can be used to make an oil for yourself, it's commonly used by gay men for attracting lovers. If you want to add it to your honey jar go for it, but remember be careful not to overpower the honey with too much herbs.

Dear Conjureman,

I was wondering why are those herbs so effective in helping a gay male draw gay male lover?

Also can't High John be effective in helping a gay male such as myself draw another gay male?

Why did you give the warning not to overpower the honey jar with too much herb?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Mar 12, 2010 10:41 pm

Sampson Snake Root is a masculine herb that is often used in traditional conjure to attract using its masculine and virile nature. HHRM also indicats that it was used along with Safflower to make an oil used by gay men to attract lovers.

John The Conqueror Root is also a masculine root that can be used not only to increase male nature (among other things), but can use that to attract.

My advise to not overpower the honey was one of practicality. Many people new to conjure and hoodoo often pack on the herbs and powders in the hopes that more equals more power when in reality a little bit of herbs can go a long way.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:22 pm

Good point CM,

More is not more in when doing spellwork. You do not have to use 20 herbs to pack a punch BUT you do need the right herbs to address the situation. Putting together a means of spellwork whether its through dressing candle, a mojo bag, or anything else, you can be quite effective with 3 ingredients rather than 23.

leftfield · Unread post by **leftfield** » Tue Apr 06, 2010 4:39 am

hi all, there is someone who is very dear to me. i have not stopped thinking about him since i met him. he travels to my country very often now. but he still keeps his distance. he has a girlfriend. but years ago when he was single, he told me that i make a very good girlfriend. all i want is fair chance for us to know each other better.

after a long deliberation years back, i began some spells. things i found online and books.

i am currently working a breakup spell / vinegar jar on him and his girlfriend.

i do not have any personal items of his.

i want him to contact me, and date me. i won't give up till i have a chance with him.

over the years i have petitioned saints.

today i am considering the intranquil spirit / saint helena / saint death.
i am tired of crying when this feeling that i might never be with him hits me.

if you read the psalms, there are passages which say something to the extent of 'my food is tainted with tears'

this is what i am going through for too long. i can't stop thinking about him.

i really want something to work. please, if someone can recommend a proper practitioner.
i'd really like to consider this aspect.

there are too many charlatans. and i have ordered spells online and nothing worked.

i'll like to hear your success stories. thank you.

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Tue Apr 06, 2010 5:31 am

Step one: Contact any of the AIRR readers you think you will work well with and who are willing to do break-up work. They will do a reading to find out if what you want is even possible. If it is, they will then work with you to achieve your goals.

Step two: He comes to your country, but keeps his distance. Start a honey jar on him and maybe work the Come To Me spell kit. You have to establish a closer friendship/relationship in order for the later work to have any chance of success.

Good luck!

leftfield · Unread post by **leftfield** » Tue Apr 06, 2010 9:11 am

dear j,

thanks so much. i am trying my best to keep in contact with him. but i am afraid alot of my bridges are burnt. i try to ask him out all the time but he just refuses to meet me alone. our mutual friends are all work. it's hard. i have lost some trust and reputation on the work front becos i try with all my might to keep in contact with him.

i have over the years, kept 2 honey jars.

it's actually a miracle he's here in my country. this is the best time for something to happen. which is why i am trying to double my efforts. i am already so tired from the non stop prayers and spells continuously since 2007.

thanks for a kind ear.

lachina · Unread post by **lachina** » Wed Apr 07, 2010 7:29 am

I haven't been practising too long, but i would get a reading cause 2007-2010 is a loooong time to be working on someone with little results. I personally would do a cut and clear.

I have learned from my mistakes and that is a big one. My sister worked and worked on this guy, she did get results, but only while the candles were burning after that he would maintain his distance. Finally when i told her no more, 1 week later she meets her soulmate! She is so happy with this guy, and she thinks back that if she had let go sooner then she would not have been as miserable that long!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Apr 07, 2010 9:47 am

I agree with the posts on getting a reading to see what is going on and the route to take.

leftfield · Unread post by **leftfield** » Wed Apr 07, 2010 12:39 pm

i will definitely consider that.

what type of questions should one prepare for a reading?

is it like a tarot reading? cos i've gotten that done over the years 3 times...without much help...

i kinda glanced through some of the AIRR content very quickly yesterday...

it's 5 questions...or something to that extent?

i want to ask the right ones...or at least not completely off tangent and of course it varies for everyone. but what kind of questions have you asked...could you share it with me?

much thanks

BlessedOne · Unread post by **BlessedOne** » Sun Apr 11, 2010 5:08 am

I am in a strange situation where I am meeting men who are interested in me, as in they tell someone I know or they make some indication of that to me. However, I am not seeing anyone of them follow through. This is either because they are afraid of being rejected (which my friends tell is a real possibility) or something else.

Regardless there is one man in particular that I have been meeting once or twice a month, just friendly dinners, for the last 2 months. However, he termed them as "dates" once. Which gets me confused because we don't communicate much otherwise. However, when he was away for a couple of weeks, he wrote me an email to let me know that was why he had not been in touch. But when we meet up, once in a while he'd make mention of some attractive girl he saw somewhere.

I also understand from a mutual friend that this guy tends to be by nature quite a "sit on the fence" unless it collapses under him type before he gets to realise that he needs to move his b*tt and do something about the situation.

Whilst I want a bit of fun with him, I also think that there is a possibility of something more interesting and serious that can develop.

Can someone please help to recommend what LM candles I should set at LM's altar for this situation?

I thought of Come to Me combined with Love Me, but Angela/LM recommends Kiss Me/Love Me, and also that I come to the forum and get some opinions. I read one of the posts that someone likes the idea of 3.

So it would help if the recommendation includes: which candles, how many types, and do I set them all at the same time, and for how long (that is, sequentially how many candles) would be best.

Thank you, and yeah, sorry abt the longish post, just trying to make some sense of it at the same time

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Apr 11, 2010 7:03 am

This is not a long post by comparison

. Come to Me with Love Me are appropriate for your situation, however, Kiss Me Now means quick sex, I don't think you want that by your post. Fire of Love is appropriate if you want something long term. You should get a reading to know exactly what is going on with the guy you have an interest first and proceed.

BlessedOne · Unread post by **BlessedOne** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 8:29 am

Thank you for your advice!

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 4:33 pm

I would suggest burning a dressed red Adam candle over your petition for what you want from him. There are examples of this all over the LM site. You can use oils alone or in combination; Love Me, Fire of Love, and even Marriage(if that's what you want) are some that may be useful to you. If you want to do a longer work, you can start with the Adam and continue with red altar candles: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#altar
If you do that, you can alternate single oils each day.

suzyparker · Unread post by **suzyparker** » Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:34 am

I have so much luck with Follow Me Boy products; candles, oil, satchet, etc. Anyway, am currently dealing with an extremely stubborn man.. I say up, he looks down - because he enjoys the tiff to make up, etc. I have no interest in the tiff. So, what can I use to add a little octane to Follow Me Boy? Controlling, Compelling, Essence of Bend Over? Which one do you recommend for the extra push to get him to "fall in line" and why.

Thanks

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Apr 27, 2010 1:34 pm

You might want a reading to find out what's behind his contrary nature, and then you can decide what product is best.