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Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Jan 09, 2010 11:11 am

Sounds like my husband. Thanks everyone for the ideas.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jan 09, 2010 2:10 pm

I agree with everyone's ideas. In addition, you can use some cast off evil products to help get rid of some bad habits, but the honey jar sounds wonderful too.

gandhi · Unread post by **gandhi** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 10:48 am

Thank you all so much!
This is so perfect..and it feels like good stuff, not much of an element of compulsion.
@ Mother mystic: it was very insightful of you to add the note on the need for him to heal hiself as well...i think that is large part of the problem..i will start with the cleansing tomorrow

@ copperfox: i like the rosemary idea, i just bought some wonderful artisan bread the other day and will make up this butter to go with it..is it ok to add rosemary to garlic butter?

@Devi Spring: for the fridge spell, do i put the honey jar in the fridge with the intent to chill out?..i can certainly do it , but just wanted to clarify what it entailed...and then on the appropriate days, would i take it out and light a candle on it? i would really appreciate it if you could explain it to me.

Excited to begin!!! Tomorrow is also my birthday, so i feel good starting the cleansing process and praying for peace in my little family.
thanks all..will keep you posted!

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 11:10 am

i like the rosemary idea, i just bought some wonderful artisan bread the other day and will make up this butter to go with it..is it ok to add rosemary to garlic butter?

Sure, add it to whatever you like -- mashed potatoes are good, too. (What man doesn't like mashed potatoes?) You can also include rosemary in your fridge "chill out" spell and compound dried, ground rosemary in with your regular incence.

I'm not 100% sure what Devi had in mind, perhaps she'll clarify, but I don't believe she actually meant to create a honey jar and place it in the fridge. A honey jar would be a separate option for you to consider. A freezer spell is ususally crafted in a freezer safe container -- the simplest versions are just a name paper & personal concerns frozen in the jar. To give it a more "honey jar" feel, you could take your container, fill it with sugar water, name paper, personal concerns and then add in some of the herbs appropriate to your situation. Some you may have ready access to would include: rosemary, basil, lavender. Any of the love/happy home herbs would be great. So as not to actually freeze your fella, but just "chill him out" place this in the fridge, someplace it won't be disturbed. On Monday, Wednesday & Friday (or as you feel moved to do so) you could dress a small candle, pray your intention over it and burn it and some of your incense.

Don't forget to keep yourself and the home well-cleansed to prevent the build-up of negative energy. Something as simple as diluting some Chinese wash, Florida water, a few drops of appropriate condition oil (your choice) plus a bit of salt in a spray bottle of water can be lightly spray around the room to clear up the "imminent thunderstorm" feel a house gets right before it hits the fan. My husband is a great, easy-going guy, but works a lot and sometimes brings home his frustrations. A great (FUN!) way to dissipate that is to offer to help him wash in the shower -- pick up some of the sandalwood based spiritual soap or the like -- I've used the Parrot Botanicals #333 (clove & citronella, lovely!)and soaps with rosemary. Men don't get a lot of that sort of pampering and I can tell he really enjoys and appreciates this, plus it has the added cleansing effect I'm after.

Good luck & Happy Birthday!
Michelle

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 11:32 am

You got it Michelle - I did not intend for you to make and put a honey jar in the fridge. The way Michelle describes it is certainly one very good way to work it.

An even more simple version would be to take his picture and personal concerns (at least get some hair), write your petition out, then smear a nice amount of honey all on it and add any herbs in the middle. Fold it up. Then make a nice thick wad of paper towels and wet them, placing the petition packet in the center of them. Then place that inside a plastic fridge container and put it in the fridge.

I guess it's really the same amount of work as using the sugar water - so it's up to you what you do.

gandhi · Unread post by **gandhi** » Sun Jan 10, 2010 3:06 pm

Thank you for clarifying!
I was wondering how a honey jar would be alternately chilled and then 'heated' up by a candle. Will do this tomorrow when i am all alone in the morning!
Thanks for all your advice and the time you take to teach others...it is really amazing! God bless you all!
thank you also for the birthday wishes..I am determined to move some serious energy this year and get things rolling!

MissVeeDee · Unread post by **MissVeeDee** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:10 am

My boyfriend broke up with me, and I seriously thought about doing something to bring him back. But if he wanted out he had his reasons and I have to respect them. This is easier said than done. Sadly his decision has left me like a chain smoker trying to quit with out a patch. I can't concentrate in my work or studies, I'm failing school. I'm always hoping he calls, and if he doesn't then I do and we get in a huge fight making things way worst. I wish nothing more than for him to never meet anyone, the fire I feel in my throat makes me wish for him to suffer, to be sad like me. I'm sad, angry and still very much in love. I feel toxic. This isn't fair for either one of us. My question is this: what candle or candles should I burn to help me get over the pain, anger and desire to be back in his arms? I can't do one of the more elaborate spells because I couldn't keep the work secret. I want to let him go and move on. Help!

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:15 am

I'm new to all of this, but if you really want to let him go and it sounds as if you know that's the best thing, it sounds as though the cut and clear candle would be perfect for you. If you can't burn one at home they can burn one for you at the church... just go to the Lucky Mojo site.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 12:04 pm

Yes, look up the Cut and Clear spell and it's accompanying work the Black Walnut Bath spell. The Cut and Clear will help you sever your feelings for this man. The Black Walnut bath goes a bit further by PERMENANTLY removing that person from your life. You could do some Reversing work to send back any negativity that comes your way from him, and I would do some deep cleansing work on yourself and your home to remove the lingering energy from your negative experiences over the last while. Then do some Blessing work on yourself and your home to help start the healing and positivity flowing back.

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 1:10 pm

Ive heard that sometimes after doing a cut and coear the person actually returns... not that that is a goal... but you may want to hold off on the permanence... at some point you could perhaps be friends? healing work for yourself sounds like a good iea too, maybe the blessing candle.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 1:14 pm

I find the Blessing work is amazing in most situations, especially when there are feelings that are not being returned. Cleansing (using the 13 herb bath), Blessing, Protection and than the Reversal may fit the bill. But don't just do the work, really petition what you want as a result...Its is not easy it is work. But the end results are worth the time and energy.

MissVeeDee · Unread post by **MissVeeDee** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 11:47 pm

Thank you all so much! I never even thought of doing some cleansing work for my self and my home! Since I have been floating around here like a ghost fresh out of the grave that may be a very good idea. He doesn't send any negativity my way.. I don't think. He really is a good person who fell out of love with me and I just wasn't ready to let go. I am now.
Thank you! I feel more hopeful already!

khazakant · Unread post by **khazakant** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:07 pm

I'm suffering badly from PTSD, in particular the depression and emotional flatlining. I'm worried, obsessive, and miserable all of the time, and It's hard for me to feel any emotion. Some days are better than others, but most of them are bad, and on my bad days my partner of two years who I love very much cries nearly every time he talks to me because it's like talking to a robot, I'm just not here. Medication and things like that is helping a little, but not very much. Is there any kind of conjure (or series of conjures, probably) I could work to help me let go of everything, find closure, and be tranquil, peaceful, and clean inside? Especially, I just wish I could feel love for my boyfriend fully again. I still can, but it's very dim, like a five-foot-thick wall of steel is separating me from my emotions. It hurts me a lot. I was thinking of lighting (or having lit) a Chuparrosa candle just for that, but I think it would work better if I had a way to tackle the core problem in addition to that. I'm terrified of losing my feelings completely, like on the days when I'm not here, if I stay away for too long I won't be able to come back. It would be good if I could stop worrying about this. It's killing me to to obsess over this all of the time, and even when I am here or mostly here I'm always second-guessing whether I'm really feeling anything or feeling enough. It's difficult to live. Any advice would be really helpful, thanks.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:15 pm

I am sorry to heart about how you feel. I know that this can be a difficult thing to work through, but I am glad that you have a lover that is willing to stick through your side through the depression and PTSD.

First, I think you need to do a cleansing. So I would recommend taking a 13 herb bath, along with a tranquility bath. If you feel comfortable you might want to work with St. Dymphna. She helps with mental issues, and depression. She is a great help to those that suffer from this just like you, and I have definitely seen her work

Lastly, I know you said that medication is not of a lot of help for you. The well-being of a person that suffers from depression and trauma is not all solved by medication...it should be coupled with counseling. I recommend that you seek some counseling, and perhaps you might need a medication adjustment from a psychiatrist. Medication can help manage some symptoms, but psychotherapy can help you would through other issues, and help you learn how to cope. Conjure will not take the place of actual real medical or therapuetic advice.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:21 pm

Here are some threads that may be of some help for you.

crossed-condition,-depression,-saint-dy ... t4448.html
blessing-ending-depression-t3992.html#p20714

khazakant · Unread post by **khazakant** » Sun Jan 31, 2010 10:46 am

Thank you. I'll definitely look through the threads and try working with St. Dymphna.

(As for psychotherapy, I've been trying to make arrangements these past couple of months, but it's difficult for me because I have no work and up until a couple weeks ago when they put me on state I didn't have any insurance, either. Trying to get access to the state mental health services is a job for Sisyphus. I'm doing my best to get help, though.)

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:58 pm

Im not sure what state you live in. However, there should be some private resources that can help you. Most places with offer services on a sliding scale (based on your income) or even for free.

khazakant · Unread post by **khazakant** » Tue Feb 02, 2010 3:01 pm

I'm in Connecticut. Trust me, I'm working very hard to try and find the resources that I need. It's just not very easy.

Midnite35 · Unread post by **Midnite35** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 9:51 am

Hello everyone. Im still a lil new to this but have worked a few times. I was wondering if anyone knew of any good workings for help with Self Esteem, Patient, Strenght, Wisdom, Confindence? A very close friend is going thru alot (boyfriend), and i would love to help her in anyway i can. She has been really down for months now and doesnt want any love workings as she doesnt want to try and make someone love her. She started taking meds to help some... but a lil push never hurts sometimes, ya know. Thanks for any help on this and have a Blessed Day.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 12:44 pm

John the Conquerer or Master work would help tap into her personal power, self-esteem, confidence, etc. King Solomon Wisdom would help with wisdom. And Healing work will help her get over her losses. Petitioning St Dymphna can help her with her mental state. LM carries dressed vigil lights in each of these condition products, so you could burn those or have them burnt on her behalf.

Midnite35 · Unread post by **Midnite35** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 12:52 pm

Thank you for your help

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 1:37 pm

St. Dyphna is great, but so is St. Michael for courage and self-esteem. I like the King Solomon Spell Kit for this too. I also think some cleansing would help her a great deal. After being cleansed, doing a white skull or white female figure candle to help her heal. If it is for self-love, I pink female candle dressed with love me oil, althea, self-heal, and sumac berries is very helpful.

There are many ways to address these issues.

Mary

DestinyAndFate · Unread post by **DestinyAndFate** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 6:04 pm

Hi, what oils would you recommend to overcome shyness and give you confidence? Thank you.

-Michelle

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 6:11 pm

Crucible of Courage. Power. And if the shyness has created a "wall of invisibility" so that people are not seeing you, Look Me Over.

DestinyAndFate · Unread post by **DestinyAndFate** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 6:16 pm

Thank you!

Midnite35 · Unread post by **Midnite35** » Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:36 am

Where can i find the workings for this? Thank you so much

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Feb 14, 2010 11:35 am

Well, you could Google novenas for St. Michael and St. Dymphna. Otherwise, there are many different ways that you can use the various products, depending on the kind you work you want to do, your skill level with conjure, etc. Burning dressed vigil candles is the easiest way to utilize these. LM also has spell kits for some of these that you could look at and consider.

Midnite35 · Unread post by **Midnite35** » Sun Feb 14, 2010 11:40 am

Thank you

wasylena · Unread post by **wasylena** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 12:17 am

I have had night terrors and sleep paralysis since I was a child. It seems to be more intense lately and I have bruises on my arms where I felt pinned down. I hear a voice while I'm asleep that says horrible things that I'd rather not repeat. My doctor said that he didn't find anything wrong with me and I have no history of post traumatic stress or sexual abuse. I've had readings done by a rootworker and I do the following things, some of which were suggested in the reading or in the forums:

I smudge myself with sage almost everyday and say a prayer to St. Michael. I do a 13 herb bath or uncrossing bath at least 2-3 times a month. I try to have a white candle with cast off evil oil on it going all the time (I have a hard time keeping the candle lit) and cleanse and bless my home once a month. I have tried keeping a bible under my bed open to psalm 121 and a glass of water by my bedside at night, which I would throw into a cross road every morning for over a month with little improvement. I've also said psalm 91 before going to bed which resulted in the most physical attack recently. (I've also tried worry dolls and dream catchers- which didn't work and are unrelated to the hoodoo forum). I have occasional relief for a few days at a time.

If anyone has anymore suggestions, I would really appreciate it. The lack of sleep is really wearing me down. Thank you for your help

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 12:29 am

wasylena wrote:I do a 13 herb bath or uncrossing bath at least 2-3 times a month.

I'm sure other people will have better suggestions, but the only thing I can think of is to try doing the 13 herb bath for 13 days straight. That's the way it usually seems to be recommended for severe conditions.

bitter lioness · Unread post by **bitter lioness** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:22 am

I suffered from SP last year, so I know how it feels.
It disappeared when I changed my working schedule, and started going to bed like a 'normal' person - at night, instead of early morning.
I also noticed, that whenever it happened to me I was always sleeping on my back, often with my hands above my head. So make a habit of falling asleep on your side.
If you, nevertheless, want to approach the condition on the supernatural level, try to scream as soon as you realize it's on - I know it's hard but I've learnt - the evil creature(-s) shall disappear and you'll be let go.
Also, wash the floors of your bedroom with Uncrossing bath crystals

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 6:34 am

I'd change your focus from 'casting off' to outright protection. You're uncrossing and you're praying, but I think you need a serious boost to your magical shielding.

St Michael candle as well as prayer. Fiery Wall of Protection oil to dress your St Michael candle with. Get talismans. Do protective work on your bedroom- spray the walls with a protective bath crystal dissolved in water and poured into a spray bottle. Ramp it up with the addition of Dragon's Blood for extra power.

I think you're experiencing repeated attacks because you're protective work isn't strong enough. You can shake 'em off, but they keep coming back. Stop taking the approach of pushing them away, and start locking them out instead. It's like a mosquito- you can brush it away from your skin, and it'll just fly back. Or you can apply insect repellent and it won't come near you.

You may want to look into getting a rootworker to back you, or have the folks at Lucky Mojo set a light for you. Get the most powerful protective items you can afford, and USE THEM WELL.

MysticRootworker · Unread post by **MysticRootworker** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 6:43 am

I have had a problem similiar to this but it was a number of years ago. I felt that it was entities from a former residence. They followed me here to this house when I moved here almost 15 yrs ago.
At the time I did not really know how to handle it and if the people closest to me were not very aware of what was happening I would have thought I was completely crazy! It was more then at night though. I now keep my house full of the light of God, just something I say and I firmly tell any "spirits/entities" that this is MY HOUSE and if you are not from the light of God you ARE NOT WELCOME. I often feel things OUTSIDE of my house and sometimes when I am coming in I can feel them right behind me and I tell them FIRMLY you are NOT ALLOWED into my home. Only my spirit people and guides/angels etc are allowed here. It is pretty full too anymore! lol I don't know if any of this can help you, but I do know how horrible what you are experiencing can be. I wish you the best and definitely do as these wise people here tell you and do some strong protection for yourself.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:27 am

You've gotten good advice here - step up your protections.

Cleanse your room really well using mate tea - something that is recommended in Martin Coleman's book "Communing with the Spirits" as a very strong spirit-repellent. Then put camphor squares in each corner of your room. You can also add a bit of camphor to that glass of water by your bedside. Definitely start working with St. Michael daily - you may want to start wearing a blessed St. Michael medal that you've anointed with Fiery Wall of Protection oil. You can use that same FWP oil to seal all the entrances into your room - doors, windows, air vents, phone jacks, elecrtical sockets, etc.

And definately try taking the 13-Herb bath for 13-days in a row and see if that makes a difference, along with the stronger protections.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:04 am

You've got some great cleansing and protection ideas going here. Here's what I suggest, first cleanse your room. You can use the methods you have like Sage smudging, washing down with Chinese Floor Wash that you've added bit of FWP. After that you want to five spot your doors and windows with FWP. Invest in a picture or statue of Saint Michael. Place this by your door and pray that he keep out all evil from your house. Place either Camphor at each corner of your room or sprinkle a bit of Salt in each corner. If you placing a bible under your bed try having a pair of scissors hold it open. Finally, sprinkle a bit of Black Mustard Seeds and Black Pepper at your front and back entrance. If your assailant is a hag-rider and not just a spiritual entity this will trip them up.

Let us know how it goes

wasylena · Unread post by **wasylena** » Wed Feb 17, 2010 7:53 pm

Thank you so much for all your help. There are a lot of great suggestions that I haven't tried yet and it gives me a lot of hope. I will let you know how it works out. Thanks again.

Grace61 · Unread post by **Grace61** » Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:05 am

Hi Wasylena,
I've suffered sleep paralysis since I was a child. I used to be terrified until a yoga teacher taught me a prayer: I am protected by divine light, I resist all attack. Be gone. Amen

It all happened again a couple of days ago. I remember being really angry. I wanted to fight back with all my strength.
Then I read your message. There are a lot of suggestions I have not tried. I'll try blocking their entrance instead of fighting them.
Bright Blessings

Grace

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 7:59 pm

I was wondering if there is a spell one can cast on themselves to get them over someone they have pinned for years and years. I know all too well that the feeling of unrequited love is one of the most challenging of all emotional situations to deal with. There are times when you think you are getting over the person, and then you are sitting alone at home with thoughts of no one but the object of your heart ...thus taking you back to square one again!

What would be a good spell to make yourself fall out of love with a person? I know there is Cut&Clear, but it has not worked. It just quites the voices/thoughts for a bit, and then they come back stronger than ever.

Any suggestions? All is appreciated!

with prayers,
Brida

Unread post by **Flamethrower** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 9:12 pm

Hello Brida,
My only suggestion is to do another Cut and Clear, maybe doing Banishing work to banish thoughts of the other person (like a bad habit), then work towards healing yourself and attracting new love.
Have you considered getting a reading as to why this person is still in your heart?

Be strong, Brida. All the best!

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 9:19 pm

Hi Flamethrower!

Thank you for the suggestions. I have had a few readings, and the answer is because the object of my heart, and I have walked this path before in a previous life. There is too much of a connection on a spiritual plane, and because I am more sensitive to it; I am the one who has to suffer, so to speak. I have given this 7 years of my life in dedication, and I said that by the Spring of 2010; if I saw nothing on his part, then I would have to throw my hands in the air, and be done with it.

I am going to start some banishing work; I had not thought of that. Is there one that you recommend?

Thank you, and please keep me in your prayers.
-Brida

Unread post by **Flamethrower** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 9:45 pm

Quite honestly, all I would do is light a black vigil candle this Saturday, anoint it with Banishing oil and herbs, and pray for the spiritual connection, painful memories, etc. to be banished from your life. Like I wrote earlier, treat it like a bad habit that must end - not that the person was bad, but the effects are preventing you from being happy. Use this time of the waning moon to rid yourself of this pain.

Stay cleansed and light a protection candle, too.

New Moon is 3/15 ( I think). Light candles for personal healing and strength, and do work (baths & candles) to attract new love and joy into your life.

All the best.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 11:07 pm

You say you've done Cut and Cklear -- did you start it with th e Black Walnut bath sepll? They are DIFFERENT, even though the Black Walnut bath spell is described on the Cut and Clear page.

Also, if you are troubled with recursive thoughts that you cannot control, the problem is probably not magical but medical: you may have low serotonin, the brain chemical that allows us to feel that a thought is ciomplete and finished, and prevents us reccling on our thoughts uncontrollably.

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 9:28 am

Thanks Cat!

I did not think about serotonin levels being an element of my issue. I am generally in a good mood, have a happy disposition, exercise daily, and I am quite energetic; so it did not occur to me that it could be medical. I will definetly look in to this matter...

I have not done the black walnut bath. I just did the Cut&Clear, and lots of cleansing work on me, and my cottage where I live. I will complete the black walnut bath, and perform the Cut&Clear once again.

Thank you much for the wisdom, and I will see you at the May workshop!

with hugs and prayers,
Brida

jcgarcia67 · Unread post by **jcgarcia67** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 6:15 pm

Hello all,

I have been lurking the forums for a bit now and have learned a lot from what I've read and finally decided to jump in and ask for some advice.

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and am feeling depressed. While my head tells me I did the right thing because I feel he was using me (free room and board, food, and not contributing positively to the household) I still feel drawn to him. It's been a little over a week and I will admit I've done a honey jar spell for him, have burned candles and said prayers hoping for his return. I guess my question is can I do a cut and clear candle for myself or do I need to do a full blown spell? While it hurts to let him go, I think I need to open my path for someone to come along who will want to be with me for the right reasons.

Any suggestions/advice would be greatly appreciated!

MysticRootworker · Unread post by **MysticRootworker** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 6:57 pm

I am new here but it sounds like you could get more from a partner then you were getting. So if you are ready to let him go then definitely do a cut and clear first. That way you will feel better. Then you could go from there to open yourself up to a relationship that will be fulfilling for you.
Good luck

jcgarcia67 · Unread post by **jcgarcia67** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 7:03 pm

Thanks MysticRootworker for your response. I definitely feel I deserve a better partner. The hard part is feeling certain that I'm ready to let him go, lol. I had thought about trying to some blessing and cast away evil to help rid him of some bad habits/friends that I believe might contribute to some of his behaviors but even then I can't be certain that once those issues are addressed, there won't be other things I have to do to "fix" him the way I'd like him to be. Perhaps I need a reading just to clarify if he's the right person for me to begin with and if any amount of work I do on him would be worthwhile at all?

Any other thoughts?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 7:04 pm

Hi jc:

I've been in your shoes, pining for a love that you know isn't good for you but your heart still wants. A week is still pretty new and it's OK and perfectly normal to feel attached to him, but if he was using you then he's no good for you in the long run.

I would suggest using the Cut & Clear Bath Crystals from Lucky Mojo along with the Cut & Clear vigil candle. You can do the bath and light the candle on the same day, and to give the ritual even more power, you can order an additional Cut & Clear vigil light to be set for you at the Altar of the Missionary Independent Baptist Church. That way, you have two lights burning at the same time.

After doing the bath (which includes, and the vigil for Cut & Clear does have instructions on making a list of things to "cut" out of your life) you may wish to do some blessing and healing work on yourself. If you find that as time goes by, you're losing interest in your regular activities, can't sleep or eat properly or are otherwise feeling extremely sad, you may need to seek medical attention for depression.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out,
waterborn

jcgarcia67 · Unread post by **jcgarcia67** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 7:12 pm

Hi waterborn thanks for your sound advice. I know that I need to move on and this sadness will pass. I guess the hard part is admitting to myself that I allowed myself to get into this position and have feelings for someone like that. Live and learn!

MysticRootworker · Unread post by **MysticRootworker** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 9:02 pm

Jc
Most of us have been in your shoes and it is painful to feel like you did so much, gave so much. Then it was all for "nothing". But I don't believe it is ever like that. All of our relationships give us something. We always learn from them and that makes it worthwhile. I have been the giver so many times and made excuses for doing so. It is always well they are still hurt and wounded, they love me but they cant show it etc. I hopefully will have more clarity next time I go into something and take my heart in with me! lol
Anyway, I just want you to know that you are not the first person to feel like this and you certainly wont be the last. When you are ready to attract someone to you I would recommend the Attraction Spell kit. I have it and I LOVE the way the products smell so Yummy! I am going to do a lil something soon to bring a good love for me..
Hang in there you are in the right place to get the help you need.

jcgarcia67 · Unread post by **jcgarcia67** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 9:47 pm

Thanks again MysticRootworker for your kind, wise words. I think I need to focus on myself right now and clearing out these feelings of anger, disappointment and mistrust. While I believe I enabled the problem by letting it continue as long as I did, you are right...every experience you have, whether positive or negative, teaches you a lesson. It's up to you if you choose to learn from that lesson or not and I (hopefully) will learn yet something else from this one, lol! Instead of focusing on the negative feelings I'm experiencing right now, I want to see this as a chance for me to cleanse myself and open the pathways for someone really great to come along and that alone is an exciting possibility.

I wish you the best of luck with your attraction spell!

janeymack · Unread post by **janeymack** » Sun Mar 07, 2010 11:30 am

Brida - I can really relate to what you are going through.I am absolutely devastated about a guy I have been in love with for a couple of years. I left my husband but he has decided to stay true to his wife and I feel like the heart has been ripped out of me. I got a reading from Cat a couple of months back and she confirmed he was walking away from me and not coming back. It will be a long time before I feel normal again. I cant seem to find black walnuts in the UK. Will anything else do the trick.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Mar 07, 2010 3:11 pm

LM sells Black Walnuts - so you can get them from them anytime you need!

Unread post by **Flamethrower** » Sun Mar 07, 2010 6:51 pm

janeymack wrote:I cant seem to find black walnuts in the UK. Will anything else do the trick.

Since this IS the Lucky Mojo forum, here is the link to purchase black walnuts:
http://www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html
or
Item # HER-WAL-WHNU

Good luck!

janeymack · Unread post by **janeymack** » Mon Mar 08, 2010 6:17 am

you are kidding me!!! I had no idea LM sold these. What a numpty I am!

Thanks fellow forum members.

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Mon Mar 08, 2010 11:30 pm

Janeymack, Hi!

I am so sorry for your pain. My situation does not include spouses. Though whatever the situation, love can hurt for many reasons. Sometimes, it is better that we don't know the reasons because it presents for us a challenge to start teaching ourselves to search for the wisdom in things.

Mine is just a simple, pure, love that enters the heart without a sign.

The first time we met seven years ago. It was very formal, and short in conversation. As we walked away from each other; I just knew in my heart that he was the ONE. I just could not say it, nor show it...it is something that I kept to myself for a long time. We both lived in different states, but knew the same circle of people.

We did eventually start talking, and we were definitely very much intrigued by each other. Though, I knew for a fact that I was not suitable for him due to cultural mindsets of his family. His family likes me, and they have tried to set me up with other guys all the time. Yet, in their eyes, I knew that I would never be good enough for him. So, I did not engage in too much interaction with him; aside from his attempts to pursue me as a friend. I am not one to battle a family or people for a man. It is not my style to say that just because of the way "I" feel; that I should be entitled to everyone that is connected to him to accept me or treat me in a great way. Those battles are not worth it for me. The whole fight for love thing...not me. Love is not something you fight for. To me, it is a gift from God. It is one of those sweet things in life that one would just be so blessed to experience. Real love is sweet; not bittersweet in my book.

I let him go completely, and I even GOT MARRIED to someone else. Low and behold, three weeks after my wedding; my now ex-husband cheated on me. I filed for divorce, and surprisingly my work relocated me to a "surprise" location. I did not know where I was being relocated to until 3 days from my moving date. I was relocated to the city and state where his family lives. He lives in that state, but in a city about an hour away. Once I arrived to my new home, I settled in nicely. I did not know where his parents lived in the city. I did not know my way around, or anything.

After a month of living in my new city, (I live across the street from a beautiful park.) I decided to take a walk. There is a bank that I am a member of down the street from the park. I saw the sign from afar, and decided I would go in and take care of somethings since it was right there. I walked in, and saw there was a line to get to the teller. I stood in line, and waited my turn.

As I was waiting, something made me turn around and look behind me. It was not something I heard, or anything external. I just turned around and looked behind me. The bank's door opened, and he walked right up to me. I was watching him in total shock, but he did not look up until he reached me in line. (I was the last person in line.) He looked up, and we just looked at each other. There was not a word said. No action taken of any sort. Just a very long stare. Note: We had not spoken to each other or had ANY CONTACT, even with in our circles, and our families for over 4 YEARS.

Once out of my trance. I quickly looked forward, and I was next up in line. I did not dare look behind me again. When I did get the courage to turn around, the teller called me to her. I walked to the teller, and completed my transaction.

As I was walking out, he was at another teller's spot, and he turned to me and said, "Hi." I said "Hi." and walked really fast out of the bank. I did not look back. I went straight home, and prayed. I prayed I would see him all the time. I knew for a fact that a prayer was answered that day. I knew that magic DOES EXIST.

More amazingly, it was that very night that I was searching for prayers in magic that I stumbled upon the Lucky Mojo website. I knew that destiny was at hand, and I was going to embrace it! It was EXACTLY one year ago TODAY.

After reading everything possible on the site. I place a VERY LARGE ORDER. Robin, who is the manager of the shop; called me to tell me that my request was so sweet that she personally would dress all of my vigil candles herself. My request was for him and his family to be safe. For them to be happy. For my family to be happy. For there always to be protection from all evil for both he and I, and all whom we loved, no matter who they were.

Here is another sign: I found out I lived ONLY 2 hours away from the shop!!!

Since that time, I visited Robin many times at the shop. Michael and Ian also became very good friends of mine. It is ONE YEAR that I worked on this situation. Though I promised Ian that I would give it until March; that at that time I would accept that God's has other plans for me; and I would do a Cut & Clear. There is where I am at.

Funny how, in an instant I was smitten; yet it feels like it is taking an eternity to cut loose.

I pray that EVERYONE falls for the one GOD intends for them. For I believe that God intends the best for His creation. I feel like by allowing myself to be smitten; I went against God's wishes, and though my heart wants the answer to be, "Not right now." instead of "No." I am going to have faith that whatever happens is for the best. I guess this is where the phrase, "If you really love someone, let them go. If it is meant to be, it will be." So, in order for me to truly let go; I need to do the walnut cleansing, and the cut&clear again. Then, I will finally have let go...

Not a leaf turns; that God is not behind it.

with love and prayers,
Brida

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 5:11 am

Brida, did you talk to him in the real world in the meantime? It really does sound magical the way you were thrown together which is why it's strange to read that all you said was "hi." If I were him I'd have thought you didn't even like me. I'm curious to know what work you did in the real world... although I guess it sounds like he just left it also....

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 7:54 am

Hi Freegirl,

Since I have been living here, no I have not talked to him. I have run in to him to other times at our place of worship, but because of the environment; nothing has been said. Though, years ago when we first met, we talked in the real world fo about 3 years. We really got to know each other.

He knows very well how to contact me. I was invited to his mother's house for a luncheon last fall, and I found one of my magazines in the room he stays in when he comes to visit his parents. The magazine his mother has borrowed from me, and my home address is on it. Also, my phone number is NO SECRET to his family. I believe it was him who called me a few months ago, but said nothing on the phone twice. I checked the number, and it was his cell number. I just never called him, though.

Destiny's job is never done. So, I am going to just clear myself of this, and allow Destiny to do what it needs to do for my life as a whole; with or without him.

with love and prayers,
Brida

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 7:57 am

Magic demands work in the real world, too. It sounds as though you demanded that he do all the work and you only work energetically. Men, despite the movies, I have found, are not nearly so good at putting together the pieces as women are (like hey, I DO have her address, it's on this magazine!). I have observed that with male friends and relatives as well as boyfriends. If you know he called you why didn't you call him back? don't you think he knew you would know it was him? did you ever give him any sign that you actually were interested? If I were your rootworker I'd be a little frustrated, I think.

How would you feel if the tables were turned-- wouldn't you think the other person had no interest? I don't understand what you mean by "because of the environment, nothing was said." Surely even at church you can smile and be friendly and show that you like someone, it doesn't have to be flirtatious to be nice.

I am not talking you out of doing your cut and clear if that's what you want, just pointing out that your actions do not seem to have matched your desires here, and that's going to make it hard for the universe to fulfill them in future.

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:25 pm

Dear Freegirl,

I have a book that I think you will love, and I think will help you to understand things that are not so clear. We are all human beings, and we all have our limits, whether they are by choice or not. I am an old woman, and I can tell you with my experiences and studies; it is so very important to address others by just relating, and not directing. It is an art form in itself in the arena of communication.

As a token of my sincerity, PM me your mailing address, and I will gladly send you a book that will take your heart and mind on a magical carpet ride. You just have to be open to it. It is a very short story, but there is a lot of wisdom in it. I read this book first when I was 10 years old, then when I was 15, again, at 20, then again at 25, another time at 30, and just last year at 35. I can tell you, that I often look back at my notes from not just the previous 5 years, but all the way back til when I first read the book at the age of 10. My perspectives changed as I grew. I knew I had grown by the responses to the passages I had written.

I will be attending the workshop in May, God Willing, and I will get you an autographed gift; if Cat will autograph it for me. That will accompany the book I send you.

All I ask of you is to open your heart and your mind; this will lead to your eyes widening and seeing things in a way you never did before. I do wish you the best, and I don't think ill of anyone, really. It is not in my nature. It is only to eyes, minds, and hearts that are wide open; that magic will unmistakenly reveal itself.

with much love and prayers,
Brida

gbenson · Unread post by **gbenson** » Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:09 am

I was wondering if I could do a Cut and Clear on my feelings I have for an ex.

I am currently awaiting work being done by a Rootworker to get this person back into my life, I have been told its just a basic love spell.

The problem is that I cannot stop thinking about this person, I have spent 7 weeks thinking about this person all day long without a moments break. Its starting to really get me down thinking what she could be getting upto etc, I love her but really need to rid myself of emotions until she comes back into my life.

I don't want to keep bothering the rootworker with questions like this when they could be answered on the forum.

Thank you in advance.