Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 9:44 am

Just got a text message from my wife saying that she won't be down tonight to see our son because she is meeting with her attorney about the support and custody hearings coming up. I wish I had some court case stuff onhand for this one. Since I'm out of work I'm going into this without a lawyer and her new guy is paying for her to have his lawyer.

say a prayer for me on this one.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:22 am

Oh man, sorry to hear this. I'll sure say a prayer for you on this one.

Use brown candles and Court Case Oil.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Sun Feb 14, 2010 1:52 pm

well today there was still no arguments, but it probably was one of the sadest days for me...Valentine's Day was a HUGE day for me and my wife these last 9 years. Watching her leave today knowing she is going to go spend the rest of the day with this new guy is gut wrenching..I actually feel sick. I thought she might actually stay longer today, because we weren't arguing or anything and our son has a really bad cold so I figured she definitely want to be here for him. I caught her staring again throughout the day. But when 4:30pm hit, she was like "I need to get going I have plans, so see ya tomorrow when I come to see little tommy"
My heart sunk inside when she said it, because I was so hopefully knowing just what day this was and how much it meant to us over the years. I guess I was wrong.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Feb 14, 2010 2:23 pm

Take a nice cleansing bath to help rid yourself of the sad feelings, and then use that longing to do some work. Use the LONGING and DESIRE, not the negative sad feelings.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:38 pm

Devi has given very sound and sagacious advice. I'd follow it.

While its understandable and even expected for you to feel this way, try to remember that you've already made great strides in a short period of time from how the situation was previously. Trust your rootworker and keep your determination up. Good luck.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 7:22 am

today will be the first day since Tuesday that my wife might be coming to see our son..I found out that this new guy of hers that is paying for her attorney has one hell of a story concocted for court on monday for her. My wife's brother called me to tell me that this guy has been working with Sherry(my wife) to make sure she knows exactly what to say. He said "I swear this guy has her hypnotized! When he is at the house with her, she doesn't take her eyes off of him for 1 second even if you are talking to her. She'll answer you and all, but she won't stop staring at him, its really kind of freaky".. Those were his words. He wanted to warn me that they have it planned to say whenever there was a gap in my employment that I was involved with all sorts of illegal stuff. I'm assuming drugs or something, which I never did before, but this is what they are trying to do to make it look better for them to get my son in the custody.
I'm not sure why this guy wants my son so bad! He's paying lots and lots of money for all this attorney and giving my wife lots of new stuff. But her brother says that it is him pushing to get my son. This gets weirder as we go. He also told me that her boyfriend told him that he hasn't sold any cars at his business in about 7 months so her brother thinks that this carlot is just a cover for something else since all the money he seems to have to throw around.
Anyway, I'll keep you all updated on what is happening.
All I have for court case work is some courtcase oil, so I'm not quite sure except for wearing it when I go on what else to do with it since there is no candle shops around here.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 7:30 am

Use white unscented candles and dress them and burn them on a petition paper. Use a metal skewer to poke one or three holes down in the wax of the vigil candle and add a few drops of court case oil to the candle, pray over it and set ti to burn.

When it comes to all this drama and this "he said she said" stuff, that's the kinda thing that comes with most court cases, my advise on that is to keep your head down and not to concern yourself with it. Concentrate on your business and let people talk, but take it all with a grain or two of salt.

Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 7:52 am

Can anyone give me an example of how a pettition paper would be set up for something like this? Thanks in advance if you can help.

MysticRootworker · Unread post by **MysticRootworker** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 8:21 am

Tom-
Do you have any Little John root (Galangal)? It is on here somewhere that you can chew it when you go to court and then spit on the floor. I believe it is to get the judge to favor you. I guess you could bend down like you are tying your shoe or something and discreetly accomplish this. Best of luck to you. Wish I knew more to help you..

siren · Unread post by **siren** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 10:34 am

Along with what spells you decide to use, have you looked at survivinginfidelity.com ? If you haven't, you should really give it a look. I haven't had a lover being unfaithful, but my friend was just dealing with a huge betrayal with her husband. This forum was really gave her tons of insight on how to deal with infidelity, how to catch her husband and most importantly how to "do the 180" on them. Apparently, chasing them down, pursuing, begging and making it obvious how desperate for them you are, is the worst strategy of reconciling with a cheater. Please give it a look and maybe combining their tactics with dealing with the relationship at this point and your spellwork you will find a bit more happiness. My friend was literally begging for her husband back and he was happily eating his cake and playing her while running back and forth between her and his lover. When she started following the guidelines this site promotes, he really did come along quite abruptly. She got a lot of support from this forum and I believe it's helping her healing.

Wishing you the best

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 4:26 pm

If you have any of the powder (Court Case) dress your papers with it lightly while praying that all who handle them favor your case. Write a petition that makes sense to you something along the lines of "May I be assisted in my court case with all the help I need and may all who look upon this case, be they judge, lawyer, or clerk find themselves favoring my case." LM has a great court cast conjure on their site of free spells to help you out.

Keep your rootworkers updated on how your wife is acting they may have further advice. Good luck.

NurseGirl1788 · Unread post by **NurseGirl1788** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 8:56 pm

Hi,
I have dabbled a little bit in hoodoo when I was younger, but it’s been a while and I was wondering what exactly I should do.
Recently, within the past month, my boyfriend and I broke up after two years of a loving friendship and relationship. There were several problems the last few months, many of which I can admit were my fault. But I’d like to work towards us getting back together. Maybe not immediately but gradually. We really did belong together, I know everyone says that but it’s true. Our goals and life plans were completely compatible and we loved each other very much. There was just a few problems, some of which are minorly related back to the hoodoo I practiced when I was younger as well as the fact that we went a little too quickly. We’re both still fairly young and we kept talking marriage which is something I’d would have liked, if we both were a little more mature. Still lots of growing up to do. But I’d like to give it another go and try taking things a little more slow. My life is such a mess without him. And I know I need to fix myself but I feel lost without him. I feel like I am not here, and there's a constant underlying sadness with everything. Nothing feels right, not even Nursing school, which is something I worked so hard for, but I am not giving it my all, which is very unusual for me the overachiever.
We just recently started talking again and I want life to take its course. If we’re meant to be, we will be together. If not, then oh well. But there’s no harm in steering life in a certain direction. It’s all about choices, no? And I know he still has feelings for me. It’s very evident and he’s even told me. But he keeps saying that we’re “probably not going to get back together” although he keeps saying let life take its course. Not sure if he means it or if he’s just telling me and himself that to protect from further hurt. But I feel like our love was and is strong enough to continue on further. We’ll see what the future holds.
I know hoodoo works because when I was a teenager, I was infatuated with a guy and tied his nature off in a mojo bag. We ended up in a relationship but not one that was very healthy for me. I broke it off and didn’t talk to him for almost five years. But we ended up talking recently, and he was still very much attracted to me, and we ended up sleeping together. It was a mistake and my bf never found out, but things seemed to go south after that encounter. But that guys still calls me and texts me despite having a girlfriend. Five years ago, that would have been great. But I am so annoyed and over him. I know I need to do a cut and clear spell, but one thing at a time. I feel like getting my boyfriend back is top priority.
So, what should I do???

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 9:08 pm

You have several options the Reconciliation spell kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html); Reconciliation bottle spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbottles.html) or the honey jar. You can work the jar and spell at the same time or separately.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 10:51 pm

I have been with someone for 6 and a half years but we ended our relationship in the summer, although we have been together even after the fact.
The only problem is that even with honey jar that i still have working and a mojo and santisima meurte spells being done, and I have tied his nature which seems to be working, I do beleive in all that I am doing, I have even done a skull candle but he is so stumborn that he tends to have moments where he gets angry at me for stupid reasons..he is very controlling,So wanted to know is there anything else I can do that will make him kinder to me or should I just keep doing what i am doing,MY mojo is only a week old.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Feb 18, 2010 11:30 pm

I would advise you to get a reading, and see why he is always angry at you for the stupidest reasons. Chances are there is a reason behind that other than whatever is bugging him. In addition, honey jars take time, but they do work for the right situations. Santisma Muerte is not going to make him kind to you...if anything that is probably what is making him angry.

Nonetheless, you can do a peace candle between the two of you...get a blue couple candle or white, and dress it with tranquility oil, rose petals, love me. On the other hand...sounds like you are doing reconciliation work, and seems like you have not reconciled with this man. He is still angry at you for whatever reason. I would advise that you do some love uncrossing work to cleanse out the negativity from your relationship. Get a half black/red candle. Some uncrossing oil with rose petals, and other uncrossing herbs. Ask that the candle removes the negativity from your relationship.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 12:41 am

Thank you, i am going to buy the black and red candle and do that first to take the negativity out of our relationship then I will do the couple candle.How would I stop with santisima meurte

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 1:18 am

The reconciliation kit sounds like a good option for you. It'll have everything you need including instructions. You probably also want to include a honey jar for your long term work and to keep the power going. I would add elements like Damiana, Balms of Gilead, Rose buds, two Lodestones name for each of you, some Cardamon, Catnip, and Ginger to the honey jar to keep things going. You can also get a premade one from LM.

You definately want to do a Cut and Clear on your stalker and possibly a Banishing/Hotfoot conjure to keep him from meddling further. Acts of infidelity, even if not discovered, will damage a relationship and weaken the reconciliation process. Especially if your target starts getting pissed that this guy is following you in such a way.

A reading from a reputable reader can help point you in the right direction. You can find them at www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 1:25 am

Binding his nature may very well be causing the frustration and anger. If its in his nature to be a cheater then these types of conjures will cause him to struggle against it and become frustrated and angry. Work with Rosemary to help give you domination in your home and bring about peace. Tranquility and Peaceful Home products may be of use for you.

A reading is advised to discover the source of the anger.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 8:12 am

bellasr34 wrote:I have been with someone for 6 and a half years but we ended our relationship in the summer, although we have been together even after the fact.
The only problem is that even with honey jar that i still have working and a mojo and santisima meurte spells being done, and I have tied his nature which seems to be working, I do beleive in all that I am doing, I have even done a skull candle but he is so stumborn that he tends to have moments where he gets angry at me for stupid reasons..he is very controlling,So wanted to know is there anything else I can do that will make him kinder to me or should I just keep doing what i am doing,MY mojo is only a week old.

I would get a reading from a reputable reader for this situation. You might want to ease up on the control and domination aspects of the work and bring in some tranquility/soothing/peaceful home ingredients. Controlling/bossy personalities sometimes respond badly to controlling types of magic, they can be more affected by soothing types of work. There are some that are especially good for giving women the upper hand while preserving peace. Three hers and roots I like for this kind of work are: rosemary, peony root, and Angelica.
good luck,
Bri

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 9:50 am

thank you, now what do I do with the rosemary, do I bath in it, or wash my floors with it. How do i employ it on him, because right now he doesn't want to see me.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 10:16 am

The herbs and roots Bri listed can be put on a candle to burn, placed in a mojo bag or boiled for a floor wash or bath.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 11:26 am

what colour candle would you use to burn these herbs on.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 12:08 pm

Pink or blue, white if you have neither. blue and white candles are for healing.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 1:39 pm

right now I only have rosemary, and i do have a black tapered candle can i use this right now would it work the same way, maybe I can put love powder on it also I also have intrangulity oil can i use that too, if I don''t have anyother herb aside from the rosemary. and damania and i also have a bit of coriandor seeds.
Can i bath in honey would that do anything to make him kinder and to make him want to see me and contact me

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 1:39 pm

i meant I have a blue tapered candle. sorry

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:09 pm

Bathing in honey...would probably only work if you had physical contact with him. Blue candle would work to bring peace but you cannot simply substitute. You can use the other herbs to draw him in. However it is not going to completely address the peaceful aspect you want. I would follow the recommendations above. Making substitutions will not always yield the same results you want. If you want to do a honey jar, then that can help. And you need to get a reading. I would not overlook this step because you need to understand where this anger is coming from.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:22 pm

I know where it comes from, he likes control, he likes to make sure that what he says is literally obeyed, I am strong minded to and will compromise to an extent, I believe i should have a life to.
thats why he is always angry at me because i don't always do what he says and wants, When we are ok things are great until, I talk to a friend or go somewhere and then again he acts like this,
He is angry because i didn't answer my text right away on sunday so he figures punish me. I do have a honey jar working since july, I have had a reading done a couple of times which as always been good, but then he goes and decides he is angry at me again,

I did tie his nature not once but three times and It seems like it i s working but I did a black penis candle first and i do notice that sometimes he doesn't even want me like that, but only when he is pissed.(I believe it's only because I let him do this to me for so long that now it's just a habit for him)So I can light the blue candle today, even if i don't have all the herbs can i just use rosemary for now with it. should i carve his name on the candle and write it what i want.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Fri Feb 19, 2010 10:34 pm

I was wondering, can i put the three herbs that bri mentioned in an existing mojo bag, that has coriandor seeds, catnip and damiana, and all his personal concerns would i be able to open it up and pray over it again and smoke it, also woould all these herbs be good together.

I also wanted to know how do I dress a tapered candle with the herbs if they keep falling off of it

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:53 am

While you may know what is causing the cause of his frustration and anger, the reason Miss Bri and others have advised of a reading is because you've thrown some magick as this fellow and now you are getting unintended results. There's a slight tangle that the reading can help unravel. It'll help you choose which approach would be best, why he's acting the way he is, how to adjust your spellcasting, how to undo any spells that may be having unintended consequences etc.

If you live with this gentleman look into Peaceful Home products and Tranquility in addition to the herbs mentioned.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Sat Feb 20, 2010 11:42 am

Thanks for the help. The hearing is on monday so I'm getting nervous. My wife has been very snippy the last couple days and didn't come at all yesterday. She said she's coming today from 4-7 so we'll see how that goes.

I'll keep you updated again!

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Sun Feb 21, 2010 10:01 am

well No arguments yesterday or today...I thought she'd be in rare form today with the hearing tomorrow about custody. She was very nice today..

We were actually trying to potty train our son so that kept our minds off of everything else that was going on..

All in all...A good day.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Feb 21, 2010 10:45 am

Thats great.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Mon Feb 22, 2010 9:44 am

I can't believe it!!!!!!!! Just got back from court and I won huge!!! My wife is only allowed daytime visits on her days off and isn't allowed overnight stays at the house she is staying at!!! The only way she can have him overnight is if she stays at one of her sisters for the night!!!

Her lawyer never got to speak!!!. The woman that heard the case was all for me. She even said to my wife's lawyer "You're only here for intimidation, and incase you haven't listened to Mr. Jenkins(Me) its not working! He is a very very wells spoken individual and I can tell he is being sincere and honest with everything he is saying to me. He truly loves his son. Now I'm only telling you this once, sit down and don't speak up unless I ask you to speak"

I almost died when she said that! This was almost unheard of in our county. A guy to win a custody case!!!...Thank to everyone for your support and telling me what to do with a couple candles which aren't even burned 1 quarter of the way through!

Now back to business with trying to bring my wife home!!!

ablake · Unread post by **ablake** » Mon Feb 22, 2010 12:51 pm

Congratulations.

Great news to hear

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Feb 22, 2010 9:06 pm

Wonderful news indeed. I'm glad it all worked out for you. Trust in your work and you'll be rewarded with the results.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Feb 22, 2010 9:43 pm

She sounds pretty unstable. I know why people try to salvage bad relationships -- i've tried it myself, and succeeded, for what it was worth (just about nothing, as it turned out).

You're describing a person who is living in a world of emotional hyper-drama. The woman "flipped out about the dog jumping on her." Is this what you want?

Come on, look around you. Life is unpredictably fragile and life is all too short. Don't build your foundations in quicksand. Build on stable bedrock.

I recommend that you look for a new woman who will give the dog a sweet head-pat and say, "Good dog" and scratch it behind the ears.

These books will help you -- they are filled with spells, tips, and techniques for just this kind of work!

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Mon Feb 22, 2010 10:36 pm

Sorry.... I don't mean to disagree with cat of course

but I got a bit of a chuckle out of that post. That's the way I think of the vast majority of the people posting about reconciliation work (not always the love work, but the big majority of the reconciliation work). But Tom was one of the few people here who seemed to be a bit different than the other ones and whose posts I'm following and cheering him on. For the record, the other person I can think of off the top of my head is Coco, but that's not reconciliation work, that's love work.

But anyway, definitely no disrespect toward cat intended. But I wanted to let Tom know what I think of his work because someone on these boards said something similar to me not that long ago and it was a huge encouragement to me. I'm not doing reconciliation work, but the sentiment was the same (and I'm glad I'm not doing reconciliation work - if I knew about hoodoo when my ex left me, I guarantee I'd be one of the people I was talking about, so I certainly don't mean to judge or criticize them).

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 3:27 am

My two cents with regard to the above posts... Tom, I recommend you grab some Clarity products and have yourself a long think. I know you love your wife. Now that the stress of the court case is over, you can take some time to reflect a bit. If that court hearing proved anything, it was that your son means the world to you and anyone can see that. So what will be best for him? Will it be for his mother to come home, or will it be for you and him to start out again on your own?

I definitely think you should continue your work to keep the relationship that you have with her civil and harmonious. Your honey jar is a wonderful and successful tool. It certainly has helped with the visits. You've already accomplished a lot, why not take some time to decide what is the best course of action?

Since you started this work, you've received new information about your wife's situation, you've seen changes in her behaviour. Have you taken the time, and I mean really taken the time, to decide if your original course of action is still the best one?

In any case, my thoughts are with you. And sitting down for a think never hurt anyone.

ladywal413 · Unread post by **ladywal413** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 7:34 am

I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago. We stopped talking for about 2 months and I contacted a spell caster to do magic and never worked, then I did some magik myself and we started to talk again. He is in a relationship now, but hes been in contact with me, we have a really nice friendship and he has come to my house and call me almost everyday and i can see he still loves me but we havent talk about our feelings yet. he called me last night scared because he thinks that girl is pregnant but I dont know if that is true or not. I really would like him to leave her and come back to me since he told me already he is not really happy with her and he shows me how much he still cares about me. I need help and I hope anyone can help me... thanks so much in advance

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 1:50 pm

First you need to get a reading to see where this situation is at, and if it can be worked out (i.e. make sure you are not wasting your time). Then if everything is a go, and assuming there are not any more issues. You need to do some break up work. I would encourage you to buy the Lucky mojo book that discusses the herbs. There are some great spell ideas in there that can help you break up someone along with just about anything else. But for starters you can get a break up spell kit. Comes with everything you need including directions.

You can see that he still loves you...but that is off your own assumptions. Not saying it isnt true, but you want to get that confirmed by a reader, and you need to see what the issue is in him coming back other than the girl friend. And you want to make sure she is not pregnant because that might cause some complications. But if everything is a go from there, then I would do some come to me work, and perhaps a red skull candle to get into his head that he wants to be with you as a lover.

HeactesHeart · Unread post by **HeactesHeart** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 2:11 pm

Dear Tom,

The most warm and happy congratulations on your court victory !

I would like to share my experiences of the past six months. I endured a betrayal of a fifteen year relationship with a man that

was the only true father my disabled daughter ever had. The loss seem so total and at one point I did try reconciliation work.

I wont go into detail here but you can read my post "What Action Should I Take? ". I understand your pain and the depth of your desire

to make her come back and be a family again. I do not understand her cruelty to you,your son and your dog.

Forgiveness and understanding is something we all strive for in any relationship.Then there comes a time when someones actions need to be addressed and

formally dealt with. You do not deserve to be on the receiving end her bad behavior.

If she was an ill trained dog you would put her in her kennel and ignore her until it was feeding or walk time .

Then you would give positive, structured reinforcement. Yet, she is not a dog but she is running wild and out of control.

Pursuing her is just feeding into her ego-indulgent infantile morbid preoccupation with herself. In essence feeding her bad behavior.

Tom ,your a good man and you deserve a good woman who will love you and that blessed little boy of yours.

Most of all you need someone who will respect and cherish you .

If you think that woman is your wife ,I will pray that she will wake up and stop all of her destructive actions.

Can people mend bad relationships ? Yes,with a lot of work from both parties involved.

Will it be worth it ? That is something for you to ponder dear ,dear Tom.

We all here supporting you,praying for a positive outcome and a happy conclusion.

Wishing you wisdom for the days ahead.

Your Most Humble Servant,

Coco

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 2:32 pm

I really like NotDorianGray's suggestion, and Cat put it in some great terms as well. I see how she treats the dog symbolic of how she treats a relationship.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 2:45 pm

I see everyone's point of view here. Everybody makes sense in some way or another..The animal thing still really confuses me. She was such an animal lover. We have these animals because she insisted on them. I mean I love them too, how can you can't? But This guy she is with doesn't like animals apparently so she had to convince herself that she hates them. She yell at the dog on those days that I described, but if you saw her tonight, which by the way a very very civil visit, she was petting him and throwing him some food. She even suggested that we use one of her visits to get some sort of a board game so our son can have a sort of family night. But she did end that with "eventhough we aren't together"

But who knows what will happen. Only time will tell. The last two days she seems like the woman I love. She finally doesn't seem like she is possessed or being told what to say and isn't all glossy eyed...

Again, time will tell, and I thank everyone of you for support. I appreciate it so much.

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:32 pm

Huh, the way you describe her it sounds as if it's this man who's hoodooing her-- she doesn't seem like herself, she seems in a fog... a term tht some people use to apply to people having affairs, usually I object to it as naturally people fall in love in and out of marriage, but in your case it seems to apply.

The thing is-- who knows how long it will take for her to "wake up"-- in the meantime you have to protect yourself and your child. If you are seeing results and it seems as though you are, keep doing what you are doing and keep the faith! don't doubt the work!

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:43 pm

Everybody seems to point out the dog thing, but remember - he said earlier that this is unlike her completely. He seems to think that her new lover has done work on her to make her the way she is. If that truly is the case, then the suggestions to move on would be off base. The other possibility of course is that she's showing her true colors now and Tom is having a hard time seeing it because that's always a difficult thing to see. But based on the fact that she's the one that was the animal lover before and her own family thinks she's acting weird, I'm thinking Tom might be on to something with the idea of him using magic on her (or at least doing something to her to make her not herself).

HeactesHeart · Unread post by **HeactesHeart** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 5:20 pm

Dear Kevin,

I very much want things to work out for Tom. Having your family in turmoil is heart wrenching.

This other man has influenced her in a negative and controlling way turning her against all she loved .

I would hope that she will come to her sense's soon before it is too late to reconcile.

Doing this work is a very important tool to changing the outcome of a situation.

Hoodoo dose work but I feel Tom needs a divination from a RootWorker to give him direction in this very hard time in his life.

I have been in his situation with two disabled children .The whole court thing and visitation is so very difficult.

I feel very protective of Tom and want him and his son to come through this okay.

I think he NEEDS a divination to point him in the right magical direction.

With Love and Respect,

Coco

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:58 pm

Tom has already indicated that he got a reading on the situation and that he has a rootworker working on the case. I think he's taken all the necessary steps.

While NDG's advice to perform a bit of Clarity work is a good one and one that I would second, I think it is important to note that his wife is acting out character. Not only is this Tom speaking, but her own family indicates this. She may not be hoodooed, but she's definately being influenced.

That being said, congrats on all your success, Tom. You are in my prayers and continue to have faith in your work and faith in your rootworkers.

ladywal413 · Unread post by **ladywal413** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:28 pm

Thank you so much Starsinthesky7 for your advise... I did get a reading last week and the person said I was the one hes always think of and he always have me in his mind but he doesnt know on how to deal with his feelings for me. and also said he is not serious at all with his giflfriend. he offered me to work on the situation but it would cost me $1800 and I cant afford that.

my ex and I talked today on the phone and he dont want to tell me if she is pregnant for sure but he said he will tell me what is going on eventually but he doesnt want to talk about it yet. Im being very supportive to him right now and he is appreciating all the comunication and the support Im giving him but its driving me crazy becuase I really love him and I want to know whats going on.

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:32 pm

$1800 seems like quite a bit of money.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:25 pm

Actions speak louder than words. Personally I would move on. However, I would recommend that you get another reading.

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:35 pm

I agree, and ConjureMan is usually right on the money (and always so kind). When someone is acting out of character so much that her own family thinks so, it's likely that this IS a phase that needs to be weathered/curtailed/corrected. Hang in there, Tom.

Even if it's not hoodoo but just the magic of really good sex (sorry)-- it will wear off in the face of the pressure of your love. Love is always stronger in the end, but it can take time. Evil and power work fast. Love is slow, but permanent.

freegirl · Unread post by **freegirl** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:39 pm

Get a reading from someone in AIRR. You might end up spending that much over time, with spell work and candles etc., but all at one go is high.

ladywal413 · Unread post by **ladywal413** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:45 pm

I paid $35 for the reading... $1800 was for the work... I didnt go further because obviously I don't have that much. i would like to get another reading though

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:56 pm

$1800.00 isnt unheard of. The price for conjure work goes all over the map, but if it was a huge complicated and difficult job, I wouldn't automatically fault the worker. I suggest you get a reading done by someone at the AIRR. I can make a few recommendations in private message if you want.

ladywal413 · Unread post by **ladywal413** » Wed Feb 24, 2010 4:16 am

Sure thnx

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Wed Feb 24, 2010 4:33 am

Her suggesting a family game night is a massive step. You should definitely throw it out there in casual conversation next time she comes around. Don't pressure her, but bring it up then forget about it. See what she does. If you can successfully have a great night just the three of you, you'll be making a huge stride towards reconciliation. It'll be great for your son, too. Keep working the honey jar, and light a candle petitioning for the game night to happen. Best of luck.

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Wed Feb 24, 2010 6:34 am

wow, I the support is overwhelming. I thank all of you. I also wanted to let you know that my wife is able to take our son for 4 hours tonight, but she asked me to just visit him here at my house instead of taking him. This of course is probably just a convenience because where she lives and her family are 45 minutes from here. But it just gives me another time to show her that family means everything to me.

HeactesHeart · Unread post by **HeactesHeart** » Wed Feb 24, 2010 9:25 am

Hey Tom,

I just want you to know that you are in my prayers.

I was wondering if it would be a good time for you to do some kind of floor wash or spiritual bath?

Maybe cleansing the house will give you more influence over her.

What do you think?

Respectfully,

Coco

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Fri Feb 26, 2010 3:18 pm

Thank you. Actually I burn sage twice a week in my house. Well I haven't seen my wife for 2 days now, we got slammed with snow. Where I live, we got 14 inches and where she is living got 21 inches of snow 45 minutes from here.

Tomorrow(saturday) will be the first day I see her in 3 days.

HeactesHeart · Unread post by **HeactesHeart** » Fri Feb 26, 2010 4:24 pm

Omg! Tom,

I know . I am in New York. Well,I hope hope your stocked up on Mac&cheese , hot chocolate and all your favorite comfort foods.

Stay warm. Stay strong .

Peace,

Coco