Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Macflo · Unread post by **Macflo** » Tue Jul 19, 2016 8:30 pm

Thank you so much for your help I'm very new to the site so I'm getting use to working it, I will for sure read and explore more. I appreciate you'r help and suggesting the reconciliation spell kit: I will read more into it and possibly/most likely purchase it.

Thank you

Beginner01 · Unread post by **Beginner01** » Wed Jul 20, 2016 2:32 pm

Hi all,

I'm doing some reconciliation work at the moment. I used a honey jar as I have in the past... But have not seen any results so I started using some of the spells in the reconciliation book I got when I bought the 12 book set you guys have here! I've tried the reconciliation spell with the glasses of water & the photo, I also tried doing the set of 3 reconciliation baths & burned a 7 day come to me candle. The candle burned well. I've also seen signs after each spell especially the glass one! BUT still no results... I'm wondering if a block buster candle may be needed in this scenario? Can a block buster candle be used with reconciliation work... I checked the forum but haven't seen mention of the two being worked together.

Any advice?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:30 pm

Hello, Beginner01,

Yes, of curse you can use the blockbuster. GREAT idea!!

But, not together.

Do the blockbuster first and separately. Then, go back to your reconciliation spells.

www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html

Wishing you the very best

take care

Magickcatz · Unread post by **Magickcatz** » Thu Jul 21, 2016 9:56 pm

Hello all
I am writing because I am a little lost. I don't know what to do and this situation has been going on for way to long. I've been married very happily for 20 years. Then all of a sudden, and it was sudden, my husband wakes up and decided to move out to the advances of a married business associate. It is too much to go into but considering the history, even though he committed an awful act and has pretty much abandon the entire family without word or explaination, I would like to get my family back in tack and save my marriage. This has been carrying on for over a year, my husband left home last March without explaination. He has cut off all communication from me or our adult children.
First thing I did when learning of the affair was the quick/ simple yet effective frozen spell I added four thieves viniger to the water and nine nails through the woman's name to freeze her actions, and freeze their hearts toward each other, with focused intention which to my knowledge has worked, but now I am unsure.
She was married, so I did a love spell to draw her to her own husband and bind them together.
Using two candles...
When this first happened last year I did a honey pot spell for my husband, and a love drawing spell. He has not responded. All he would say was we were over. I became discouraged with my skill and decided to have another cast for me, I had worked with her before successfully but I don't know what happened, she all of a sudden started saying I needed to give her outrageous amounts of money which I could not afford, and attributed this to magick interfering with my marriage.
I then hired someone who was referred by a friend and her reading stated we were indeed soul mates and could help, she gave me a reasonable price, but then later came back saying its a more difficult job and asked for more money. I could not afford this.
I have been doing positive energy meditations and decided to continue on my own, but the matter of time is an issue. I obtained a restoration kit and just recently redid the honey pot using hair, and a signature, I have had no communication or results from him. I am currently burning a seven day return to me candle.
Can anyone suggest anything or help me? I do not want this to continue, also my husband knows I practice magick, even though he does not, could this be it?
There are other things in the past such as being bound by menstrual blood,before all this, he asked me to bind him to me, and not to gross anyone out, renewed that binding several times over 20 years. he drank a cup of blood less then 6 months before the affair. I am lost, but just recently found your sight, and shop, which I am thankful for. Can someone please help, I want to save my marriage.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 22, 2016 7:49 pm

Hello, Magickcatz ,

I am so sorry that this happened. What slap across your face after 20 years. Again, I am so sorry.

Have you tried the reconciliation spell kit?

I would go with that and with continued reconciliation spells.

Find the link here: www.luckymojo.com/reconcilation.html

Also, please read the many pages on this thread for more spell ideas. After reading the pages, if you still have questions, please don't hesitate to ask.

I do have a question: if she is married, then who is he living with? Himself? If this is the case, then there must be a little more to this story. I don't know who your readers are but some of my question would be if he was hurt over something, was there a misperception about something, and what are the blocks in these spells? Maybe the wrong approaches were taken??

You might want to consider a blockbuster spell first (to remove obstacles) from preventing your reconciliation spells to work

www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html

Wishing you the very best

take care

Macflo · Unread post by **Macflo** » Sat Jul 23, 2016 7:43 am

Is their an oil or kit that will help make a guy want you or attract him to you again? With out seeing him?

cassiopaeia · Unread post by **cassiopaeia** » Sat Jul 23, 2016 1:05 pm

Also, forgive me if this is a silly question but when you did the freezer spell did you put his name in there too? Or any sort of reference to him? Because that could be working against you if that's the case.

Magickcatz · Unread post by **Magickcatz** » Sat Jul 23, 2016 2:34 pm

To answer the questions
The married woman that was involved paid for an apartment. My husband took a highschool approach and apparently was like i have to break up with my wife before seeing you. No divorce, just him saying I don't want to be married anymore, I'm leaving....that's the only explaination I got, no joke, even though he's not the best communicator to begin with and kind of quiet, our family deserved more then that. Does it help to tell you I married him when he was 19? I was older, he met me he was 17 and lied about his age to get a date with me, we worked together. When I found out how old he was I flipped, but by that time it was too late, and here we are 23 years later, being married 20.
Interference these last few years has hurt us, I think he was thinking he missed out, instead of was lucky finding true love so young...we also were having severe money issues, due to my illness. I was the support in our family, the married woman had money, she owns her own business.....
So she moved him into his own apartment, and was paying for it. He totally abandon us, taking no financial responsibility, but upon leaving found a new job so now he pays his own apartment.
Since my post, I found out he has been totally alone for almost a year, the woman dumped him about a month after this ordeal. So I guess that's a positive. It came from a longtime mutual friend.

With the freezer spell, no I did not put any reference to my husband what so ever except in intention
I wrote her name 9 times on a brown paper bag in black, I then crossed over then stating stay away from my husband and freeze your actions now, may your heart be frozen toward him. Then to seal it even more I punctured 9 nails over her name staying you have pierced my heart now I pierce your life, stay away from my husband, I folded the paper, put into a container and covered with 4 thieves viniger and the remainder with water....froze.
There may be some variation in my exact words, it was done in the moment almost a year ago.

So long story short, no there was no reference to my husband in there only in intent to stay away from my marriage.
Other underlying reasons, no there was no fights arguments, none of that we had a virtually perfect marriage for 20 years it just seems he is embrassed about his actions, prideful about asking for forgiveness AND his mother has been telling him do not return, my husband has a tendency to listen to the wrong people,I guess that's a childhood issue..... so I am sure she is a block, a major block, as she even maybe performing spells to break us up.....I had been told someone was using black magic against your relationship out of jealousy 4 times in the last few years and did not connect it was her. I did my best to preform protection, but have been dealing with heal,
Any suggestions I do about that? The mother in law problem I mean, I need something that won't send my husband even farther.....This entire situation appears to be a big mess from others jealousy of others and stupid choices on my husbands part.
I am going to do the blockbuster you suggested.
Can I do that in conjunction with the renewed honey pot and reconciliation I just started?
I will keep everyone posted,
Thank you all, and Miss Aida,for all the help & advice, I so much appreciate your time and assistance.

FAY · Unread post by **FAY** » Sat Jul 23, 2016 6:39 pm

I am doing a moving candle spell I learned on Madame Pamita's Youtube channel and I assume this is a commonly use spell. It is a sort of 'come to me' spell to return my ex lover. I have red male and female candle to represent me and my ex. They were purchased from her store and I used LM oil (come to me and reconciliation) to dress. The candles are placed diagonal to one another with a path of catnip and I added damiana as well. The work is to be performed over 7 days, letting the candles burn 1/7 of the way down each day and the male candle (my ex) moving 1/7 of the way toward me each day until the candles are touching on the 7th day. The male candle is burning excessively and melting all over the place and nowhere near the pace of the candle representing me.

My questions are these:

As i move the candle tomorrow to continue the spell, do I collect all the melted wax as well?

What if the male burns out before the female candle does? Should I continue with a new male candle?

Do I allow the wax to continue to burn even after the 7 days until it will not burn anymore or is the spellwork over at that point.

BTW: The male candle's head split open and into the shape of a heart. I am taking this as a good sign

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 23, 2016 8:41 pm

Hello, Magickcatz ,

You're doing the right things.

Just do the blockbuster first. The follow with your spells

Good luck and I pray for your happiness and success

take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 23, 2016 8:44 pm

Hello, FAY,

I will answer each question after the question

As i move the candle tomorrow to continue the spell, do I collect all the melted wax as well?- No, I leave it.

What if the male burns out before the female candle does? Should I continue with a new male candle?-No, just continue allowing the other to burn. Don't use a new one

Do I allow the wax to continue to burn even after the 7 days until it will not burn anymore -Yes

Wishing you great success with your spell!

Take care

Magickcatz · Unread post by **Magickcatz** » Sun Jul 24, 2016 10:40 am

I had already preformed the honey pot & began the reconciliation 2 days prior to your suggestion for the blockbuster, I have to wait for my order of the blockbuster, do you think I can preform it as the reconciliation candle burns or should I wait until it burns completely down since it was already begun? Or would you preform the blockbuster and redo another reconciliation?

Thank you Miss Aida and all those wishing positivity for my situation.
Be blessed!
Sincerely
Magickcatz

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jul 24, 2016 4:43 pm

Hello, Magickcatz ,

Continue all your spells to competition.

Then, when you get the blockbuster, perform that spell. Then, start with the reconciliation again.

Continue the honey jar on an ongoing basis. Don't dispose of it

Wishing you GREAT success!

loabeliever · Unread post by **loabeliever** » Sun Jul 24, 2016 4:54 pm

My picture box spell was discovered by my boyfriend he saw it yesterday and today he confronted me I was being as calm as possible and told him it was just something I did to be creative and I had a red vigil glass candle on top of the box so he was like "that's not some prayer that's some voodoo sh*t" I was like well I am sorry you feel that way but I was just trying to be creative with my prayer, idk what to make of t sorry I know this is not the right section but I didn't find where I can post this. Does anyone know what this might mean? I mean idk he was kinda creeped out but was still kinda calm or I was calm but idk what to do now I still have the vigil candle lit I wasn't sure if I should just turn it out. What does this sign? Today was the first day we hung out after weeks:..

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jul 24, 2016 5:08 pm

Hello, loabeliever ,

It means that the spell is ruined. Nobody can see your spells

You will have to start all over again. If this were me, a new picture box, a new everything.

Sorry...

take care

blablabla1983 · Unread post by **blablabla1983** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 5:16 am

Hi everyone.

So my story is not new I guess. My husband dont want to be with me anymore.
Our problem is a combination of many things, amongst others: my lack of trust in him, him being diagnosed BP 2, and him having issues from childhood ( not feeling loved, recognized etc )

I have always had problems showing my emotions and sadly also towards him. I did take him for granted for a long time. We have know each other since we where 16 years old. Have been a couple for 14 years and married for 9 years. Have 1 daughter together. Both are mid 30s.
When he came home 2 years ago and told me that he had meet someone and that he was tired of being in a "loveless" relationship I finally woke up and realized I had to make some changes. We worked things out after about 2 months and as he says its always been me...
Things were fine, but I was always scared that he would leave me again and we did bicker about that and I would accuse him for talking to others. But he wasn't doing that at all.
And now it has happened, he says he is tired of always prove himself and that my trust in him will never come back....
I am just so sad about this, I know we can make it work and I am doing hard work with my trust-issues.
He says that he is feeling empty about trying again...but the feelings are still there.
I know he is afraid of letting his guard down again because he feels that is useless. Also it bothers me so much that he feels like no one cares about him...so he has taken on lots of work now. He told me its easier being busy than to feel like a failure...
Crying writing this because he is the nicest man I know and he is warm and loving. I dont recognize this "new" "hard" man anymore.
I know having BP 2 the mood changes a lot from top to bottom and being cold towards people, but I know my husband is in there somewhere and that we can make it.
I just need him to get his faith back.
So I have a honey jar going, I made it before I found this site, so I will see if it works.
I would be so grateful for some advice from others. Maybe the reconciliation tool kit would be a good idea?

Thanks for reading my story anyway.

Eve00 · Unread post by **Eve00** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 9:18 am

Hello Everyone,

I am new to the forum (however, I have been lurking the boards for quite some time) and have ordered several products from the shop. Let me start by saying I love all the helpful information and products from luckymojo and think all of you are so nice and supportive on this forum unlike some others.
I would be happy to do a proper introduction but wanted to explain my current situation as I am a complete and utter emotional wreck at the moment. My ex boyfriend and I were together for two years and broke up 10 months ago now. He has been dating another girl since December of 2015, and he is very much in love with her. She moved out of state and they have been having a long distance relationship for the past two months or so. Him and I reconnected as friends two months ago and had been communicating daily. For a bit there it turned sexual (through text and photos) and we spoke about how we missed one another and wanted to see one another. We recently saw each other and had a wonderful day. We did not sleep together but a line was crossed. I told him I still had feelings for him and he said he still has feelings for me as well but knows it's wrong and is wanting to see how things play out with him and his current girlfriend even though the distance was becoming a source of arguments between them. (I am 28, he is 25, and she is 22 if that matters any.) We were still communicating after we saw one another and all was fine until a mutual friend of ours that I confided in about what happened told her about what happened. Well, needless to say, I received a call from him telling me to stay out of his life and that he hates me, etc, and that while she's upset they still hold a chance of working it out but not if he ever speaks to me again. He was actually pretty cruel to me and panicked about their relationship so I have been completely cut out. I had a consultation with a root worker in between the time we saw one another and her finding out and he said it looked hopeful for a eventual reconciliation but not soon. Well, now I assume the cards have changed seeing as this man has now completely cut me out of his life and hates me and they may work things out. Is this situation completely hopeless for me or is there a chance it can be salvaged through work? I'm not sure how to proceed. I don't feel a reconciliation kit would be strong enough seeing as I have no access to him any longer. They are currently in a vulnerable place so I don't know if I should do a break up spell, but since they are both leaning towards reconciliation between each other I don't know what to do to keep them permanently broken up and I certainly don't know how to soften his emotions for me seeing as they are so hateful now. We were on a good path and I am just completely sickened over all of this and really quite depressed. All advice would be extremely appreciated. Thank you so much.

Rav12 · Unread post by **Rav12** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 3:20 pm

Hi I am new to this form and seeking some help/advice. My boyfriend broke up with me few months ago (still call him my bf). We were in touch until 2 weeks ago. I might be getting job at same place where he is.it was not my intention to get job there but somebody contacted me from his company. My mom is sick and she wants me to get married asap. But I can't connect with anyone else but him. I have tried:(. I have emailed Deacon Millet and waiting to hear from him. Any help/ advice will be appreciated on my situation. Thanks everyone.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:12 pm

Hello channegull,

I'm so sorry to hear that you are hurting. I agree that the Reconciliation spell kit would be a good idea for this situation:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

I think the honey jar you plan to do is a good idea as well, and I'd make sure to include some Balm of Gilead in that jar, to mend hurts and raw feelings:

http://herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

I'd also say you should check out this thread about moving past hurts in a relationship: heal-past-pain-remove-blocks-open-someo ... 24943.html

What I'd also suggest though is some real-world couple's counseling. It sounds like you two each have your own issues with the relationship and aren't communicating about them in a constructive way. I'd also say that if your husband has bipolar II, he should be getting professional medical help and perhaps therapy.

Good luck to you and take care, I hope it works out.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:21 pm

Hello Eve00,

I'm very sorry to hear that you are heartbroken. I think working a sugar jar would be a great place to start:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

If you don't have access to any of his bodily personal concerns, you could certainly print out one of the intimate photos he sent you and use that. Make sure to include some Balm of Gilead in that jar to mend hurts and raw feelings: http://herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

Now, that's up to you if you want to break up your ex and this new person, however I will say that I think working the Reconciliation kit would have a better chance of working if this other person is pushed out of the picture. You could also have the MISC church light a Reconciliation vigil candle for you while you work that kit to back up your work:

http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... vices.html

Before you start any work other than the sugar jar though, it might benefit you to get a reading on this situation, to see what the best course of action would be:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck to you.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:24 pm

Hello Rav12,

I'd suggest working the Reconciliation spell kit first of all:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

And if you're going to be working in the same place as this person, that's a prime chance to dress things on his desk that he will touch with oils (SMALL amounts) like Love Me, Come to Me and Reconciliation:

http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Good luck to you.

Magickcatz · Unread post by **Magickcatz** » Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:57 pm

Thank you Miss Adia for all your advice.

I will do exactly as you advise.

Eve00 · Unread post by **Eve00** » Tue Jul 26, 2016 8:55 am

SisterJean, thank you very much for your response, I greatly appreciate it and will start a jar this evening. Thank you again for the advice!

blablabla1983 · Unread post by **blablabla1983** » Tue Jul 26, 2016 11:50 pm

Sister Jean

Thank you so much for compassion and good advice!
I will do as you recommend.
Also I have a good feeling about my honey jar. Strong flame with hardly no wax so will keep working with that as well

JayBird · Unread post by **JayBird** » Tue Jul 26, 2016 11:55 pm

I thought I was on my way to reconnecting in love when a witch attacked me and my ex-boyfriend. Any suggestions. He won't even talk to me now, and we were close friends. I'm new to magic, but apparently I've had about 700 and something lifetimes with me being a witch in many of those lifetimes. If I'm doing a spell, doing energy work, or working with crystals, I feel like I've gone home. So, I'm open and eager to learn and most of all to heal.

RoseStar21 · Unread post by **RoseStar21** » Wed Jul 27, 2016 6:25 am

Okay this is a odd question , is it better to be in close living proximity of your target?
A property has popped up on a council bidding site and it is a 6 minute walk from his place to the property.
Not only that , its in a good place for walking into town and 12 minute walk to the hospital and a place where I am due to have counseling. So really ... Its ideal!
Just wondered if it would help with my love spells too being close to where the target lives.
Thank you for your time.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Jul 27, 2016 6:20 pm

Hello JayBird,

I moved your question to this subforum since it's on topic with what you're asking about. As a friendly reminder, we ask that you don't start new topics and instead post under the appropriate subforum.

I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with all this hurt. I would recommend starting a honey jar for you and your ex as soon as possible, and then back that up with a Reconciliation spell kit as soon as you can:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

In the meantime, I'd also recommend getting a reading from a reputable reader, so you can know exactly how and why this person is working against you.

http://hoodoopsychics.com/

http://readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck to you.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Jul 27, 2016 7:25 pm

Hello RoseStar21,

Short answer is yes, it will help, but it's not required. Lots of rootworkers and people who just work for themselves have a lot of success working long distance. However, if you have access to his yard, car and potentially his home, that opens up a whole new variety of possibilities for you to "work" on him. You can put oils on his doorknob, sprinkle powders where he will walk, bury love objects in his yard, etc.

SweetAsh · Unread post by **SweetAsh** » Fri Jul 29, 2016 8:00 am

Hello sisterjean,

You've mentioned working on the target's car. Currently my husband and I are separated. We live hours away from one another. This weekend, I will be going back to our home to retrieve some things and switch out our cars (he drives the car which is in my name) and I'll give him the other car. What can I put in the car? From what I know, another woman is doing root work on him. I have not been able to receive a reading from the AIRR member here (still trying to do so) but I do know she had or is doing something. I am trying to do what I can until a reading is done but I am not sure on what to do. I know it will be too late to receive products from the LM website. I want him to come around and focus on his family again. I've burned candles in the past but I do not think I am strong enough for this task. If I can get a product to place in the car he will be driving, what do you suggest? Please help

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Jul 29, 2016 6:42 pm

Hello SweetAsh,

If you're giving him a car you've been using, that's a prime opportunity to put some oils and powders and other objects in the car where he'll make contact with them. You could dress the door handle, steering wheel, seatbelt button, etc. with a small amount of Come to Me oil, and you could mix any love powder with a small amount of dirt (so the pastel pink color is less noticeable) and sprinkle it on the floor mats, especially the driver's floor mat. You could even create a small love bottle spell, where you get a small glass bottle and put into it a petition paper that includes both of your names and a prayer that you will reconcile and get back together, add a few love herbs and hairs from both of you if you have them, and tape it on the bottom of the driver seat. That way as he sits there and drives he'll be influenced by that bottle every time he gets in the car! For the petition paper, write his name in red ink 9 times on a torn-out square of grocery paper, then turn the paper 90 degrees and write your name the same way so your names are crossing his. Then write your own prayer on the back. Fold it toward you, turn it clockwise, fold it toward you, turn it clockwise, fold it again.

If you need a reading right away, go to http://hoodoopsychics.com/.

Good luck!

Macflo · Unread post by **Macflo** » Mon Aug 01, 2016 11:29 am

So I married my high school sweet heart in 2010 and divorced in 2011. I left him because of his jealousy and insecurity but also had found someone else behind his back. Six years down the road I miss him and he misses me, he says he won't come back to me because his family doesn't allow it. What kind of work can I do on him? Now he won't even answer my calls or text whatsoever. He has a "sex buddy" now who he "likes" according to his family. But the girl doesn't like him; she says they are JUST sex buddies. How do I make her or the family go away or what spell kit can I use with his picture?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Aug 01, 2016 7:49 pm

Hello Macflo,

If you want to break up your ex and this other girl, take a look at the following link and scroll down to the picture with the two red figural candles, one black figural candle, and an oil lamp with red oil.

http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

That is a spell designed to move an intruder out of the picture, and move you and another person back/closer together.

Good luck to you.

Macflo · Unread post by **Macflo** » Wed Aug 03, 2016 11:26 am

Thank you so much sisterjean

Is their a kit or a spell you like the most that will make my X come back to me? After I do the break up for him and his "sex partner"? I don't see him or speak to him due to his family, is their something I can do with a picture of him?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Aug 03, 2016 4:09 pm

Hello Macflo,

The spell that I recommend in my last post is a breakup and reconciliation/love spell all in one. It's meant to separate out the rival, and bring you and your love back together. You wouldn't necessarily need a spell kit on top of that, but if you wanted to emphasize the love aspect, after you complete the the moving candle spell, you could work a Love Me spell kit to reignite the love that you and him had for each other, or work a Reconciliation spell kit if you feel like you two need extra help healing from past fighting or problems. But I still think the moving candle spell will cover all your bases. The spell kits are bonus help on top of that. And you can easily incorporate his picture into the moving candle spell by placing it under his candle.

Spell kits are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

Tactickat · Unread post by **Tactickat** » Thu Aug 04, 2016 7:47 am

Ok, so just throwing it out there for some feedback on my work. I have done a honey jar on my beloved that I have been praying on nightly. I have also done a three night bath ritual for forgiveness. And on the new moon I did a candle spell to help energize what I have already done for the coming waxing moon.
I've seen dramatic movement in my separation work towards myself and the father of my children that I did during the waning moon, so I felt it right to proceed with my waxing moon love work to reconcile and reconnect with my true love.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Aug 04, 2016 9:27 pm

Hello, Tactickat ,

I LOVE strategy!

It sounds like you are doing everything correctly and I love your planning strategies.

Take care

arsenic · Unread post by **arsenic** » Sat Aug 06, 2016 11:58 am

Hey there, so I have sort of a situation... I feel as if I need a reconciliation spell done with myself and my ex boyfriend (who is now a roommate since the split... It's complicated) the readings that I have had have said that we are twin flames and we are soul mates. That he does love very much but he is still very hurt and guarded by what happened previously that it will take a lot of time for him to work within himself and so on and so fourth. They have also said that reguardless of the fact that he tells me and everyone else that we are never going to get back together, that his words are very different then what will happen and what his actions will be. Since we split he has been the biggest man whore on the face of the planet and I lay in the next room on an air mattress trying not to react while my heart breaks constently. I've been told that these other women are nothing to worry about. They are just distractions and are not going to be any issue. I've been told that yes while he is being careless with the situation between him and I (we are still physical and do spend most of our time together) he does still love and care for me. There is much more to the issue and the way that it can be explained, he really isn't a total dick at all although this does make him sound like one. He really can act like an asshole but he is a wonderful person when he isn't being vindictive or defensive. A lot of this stems from his massive trust issues and pain caused by his ex wives and his last important relationship before me. The small seed of doubt I put into his head and the mistake I made caused this rift with us. He was finally getting to a good place and trusting again and I destroyed that unintentionally. It has been a few months and while I am being very patient and careful and trying my hardest, I feel like it may need a push. I think a reconciliation spell would be honestly my only option because he is very stubborn. I can't take these dozens and dozens of females constently on him and over the house all the time (he is kind of a local celebrity so they flock to him like crazy) knowing that what we had/have/will have was absolutely beautiful and he is my one. He is my person. I am certain of this. His best friend,(who is also kind of my friend, but mainly because better to have her as a friend then enemy in this town)who we will refer to as 'S' is very fake and I do not trust her at all. I feel as if she has helped drive a wedge between us and encourages him to do things that hurt me. Very sneaky, but I was informed that she will not be in his life for much longer.. However, I don't know if I would be able to do the spell myself or be comfortable doing it myself. Because we live together it would be very tricky and I would be weary of him or anybody finding things. I have a few oils that I am terrified of him finding as it is. Is there anybody who could do this work for me? I don't know where to go really to find somebody who would be able to do this as a strong spell, and has anybody had good results with this? How long did it take to see results? Literally all I want in life is for him to hold me in his arms again and say that he loves me.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Aug 06, 2016 5:10 pm

Hello arsenic,

I'm very sorry to hear that you're hurting. Since you're worried about your ex finding any spellwork you do, I'd recommend to consult a reputable worker and see if they'd do the work for you.

You can find a list of reputable workers here:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

And this is just my two cents, but even though you love this guy and he may still have some lingering feelings for you, you don't deserve to be hurt in the meantime. Is there a financial issue keeping you in that house? If not, I hope you consider finding a new living situation. I've lived with an ex after we broke up, and it was a heartbreaking and confusing mess. And this guy sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too in regards to being physical with you, but you don't owe him that cake. I wish you the best!

Luckyyone · Unread post by **Luckyyone** » Tue Aug 09, 2016 3:17 pm

I'm so confused...
I thought I was making progress and then he starts being so cold. I recently laid tricks all over my place where he can touch reconciliation oil and been working on him, and I thought for a minute I was making progress coz we spent all night cuddling this wkend but today he told me to stop focusing on him, he doesn't want to get back with me... And I asked him a simple question, as friends, and he just came out of no where with this comment. I don't get it... Seems like I'm overwhelming him but I haven't even talk to him since this wkend. Does this usually happen? Do they back off after getting close?

cassiopaeia · Unread post by **cassiopaeia** » Wed Aug 10, 2016 1:17 pm

I think that is indeed pretty common, and has certainly been the case in my own work. Any time we add elements to our spellwork, especially laying sneaky tricks when we hadn't before, that's a pretty big influx of energy and if they're stubborn or if they're the type to go into hiding when they get overwhelmed ... well, it only makes sense that they'd resist the heck out of such persuasive and overwhelming energy.

I know all too well how frustrating it is, but I bet it'll level out in a week or so and he'll come back around.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Aug 10, 2016 8:52 pm

I agree with the EXCELLENT reply from cassiopaeia

Luckyyone · Unread post by **Luckyyone** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 3:23 pm

Oh okay!! Thank you so much for the response!!! That does make sense!! Ok I'll back off a bit and keep working.... With patience! I know my work has to be working...

cassiopaeia · Unread post by **cassiopaeia** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 5:36 pm

That's exactly the right attitude.

misskitty49 · Unread post by **misskitty49** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 10:50 pm

Hi everyone! It's been a long time since I've been on here, but I'm back with an odd situation.

My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago, and are coworkers. I spent the first year of our breakup doing lots of hoodoo (incorrectly) and trying to get my ex to hang out with me. He always refused, even when offered casual sex, so I gave up. We continued to flirt at work, but nothing ever came of it.

To my surprise, he texted me a few days ago and asked me to hang out. He has never done this before, and obviously I accepted. We ended up talking for hours and he revealed that he has not done much dating since we split and that he continues to think about me, and kept asking me questions about my dating life and my feelings for him. I spent the night, but he remained adamant that he could never date a coworker again and that this should just be a one time thing. But now that I know how he feels, I want to make this happen again.

I have a few questions:

What would a good petition look like? I want him to continue pursuing me, get hooked emotionally, and eventually commit.

Would a run of MISC candles have any effect if I am not doing full spells at home?

Which oils should I work with?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Aug 13, 2016 11:20 am

Hello, misskitty49 ,

Well, obviously, you did the spells correctly!

Congrats!

Just, sometimes, spells will take longer to work

A run of Misc candles. with or without your own spell work, would help tremendously.

I'd go with Come to Me. Then, follow me boy.

Once those spells have manifested, then go with Love Me and Stay with me

www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html

www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

Now, I would also seriously consider the spell kits also:

www.luckymojo.com/mojocatmojo.html

There's more power with spell kits backed by MISC candles, and then followed with ongoing spells with your oils and candles

Wishing you the very best

Take care

misskitty49 · Unread post by **misskitty49** » Sat Aug 13, 2016 1:37 pm

Thanks Miss Aida!

Magickcatz · Unread post by **Magickcatz** » Sun Aug 14, 2016 7:26 am

I wanted to ask the forum their thoughts and for their possible help as to how to banish selfish pride in a spouse to aid reconciliation of a marriage. I was asked by a friend for help and do not want to misinform her, I have also been working reconciliation for my own marriage and spouse for over a year now. A block buster/ road opener candle has been used. Honey jars, reconciliation, it's been very long process. In both men it seems their pride and own selfishness is preventing a reconciliation.let me first address the situation with the friend to avoid confusion. A return spell and honey jar were preformed her husband has offered a chance for reconciliation but is making several demands of her, very petty in opinion to the relationship. For instance she is terribly afraid of driving due to traffic and he said I will only give you another chance only when you get your lisence. She's been trying but it is taking her some time and is making her more nervous, this is wasting valuable time where she could be reconciled with her spouse, and continue to get her license.
With Mine he is not a good communicator and has not even reached out for reconciliation but is hiding from everyone apparently ashamed of what he has done but selfishly does not want to face things, and has pretty much abandon everything and everyone only works endlessly to go home to an empty apartment contacting or communications with no one.both marriages are worth saving because of long history's together, Anyhow a simple spell came to mind but I am a little unsure have some worry and do not want to banish the wrong things advice please here is the spell:
On a popcical stick write husbands name and the word selfish pride in black so for example:
Marks Selfish Pride
It's the selfishness & prideful behavior we would like to banish not Mark
Anoit with un crossing oil
Then with black yarn wrap the yarn completely visualizing her husband being kind, humble and loving
With each twine envision him saying he is sorry and the selfishness and prideful hurtful behavior leaving
him. Wrap completely when finished dispose of.
Can anyone give advice? Love and reconciliation, honey jars, have all been done the selfish arrogance seems is the only thing stopping but am unsure. Any advice on what more we can do? And your thoughts on the spell please. Thank you all in advance for your assistance.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Aug 14, 2016 10:47 am

Hello, Magickcatz ,

I would not use uncrossing.

I would use banishing and/or cast off evil

http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

Also, have you looked at this page for DEPLOYMENT of spells?

http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html

I've been seeing a lot lately about popsicle sticks. I would prefer using petition papers and then dressing them in oil, placing appropriate herbs such as devil's dung to repel evil thoughts:

http://www.herb-magic.com/asafoetida-powder.html

Wishing you the best

take care

KitNWinnomic · Unread post by **KitNWinnomic** » Sun Aug 14, 2016 7:10 pm

I want to ask for your advise- i would like to increase healing, forgiveness and love works for my ex and I to reconcile so I bought some balm of gilead, catnip, damaian, deer toungue and rosebuds. I would like to smash and grind them then mixed in sweet almond oil. Would it be beneficial for me to baste this oil along the outside of my ex garage door and the door latches in his back yard ?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Aug 15, 2016 7:15 pm

Hello pida,

This forum is designed to help customers use Lucky Mojo products, so we're not going to teach you how to make love oils here. I can save you some time and effort and point you toward Lucky Mojo's Reconciliation oil:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Using that oil, it would be a good idea for you to place it where he would touch it, as well as doing other rootwork such as working a sugar jar.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck to you.

KitNWinnomic · Unread post by **KitNWinnomic** » Mon Aug 15, 2016 10:11 pm

Sisterjean- I am currently working on a reconciliation honey jar bought from LM. I also bought an extra bottle of Reconciliation oil. I wanted more of the healing from balm of gilead in this mixture since there are many emotional wounds. so I thought to ask for advise on this particular topic. I apologize.

Luckyyone · Unread post by **Luckyyone** » Tue Aug 16, 2016 7:19 pm

Just an update on my reconciliation work!

Wow wow wow!! I love learning on this forum!! I've been exploring and studying, I did something new last night, to reconcile with my "soon to be BF again" and today I got a text from him and he invited me over!!! Yah he still hesitant about getting close, but I was able to see him and I was also able to grab 2 more strands of his hair!! I already have hair and semen but 2 more couldn't hurt! I just want more of him, I guess I gotta take baby steps, to finally get back with him. Hope he gets closer! Sorry I can't disclose what I did new but I have been using so many different LM oils and I love how effective they are! I will be posting a success story on one of the oils later!!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Aug 16, 2016 8:49 pm

Luckyyone!!!

CONGRATS!!!

misskitty49 · Unread post by **misskitty49** » Wed Aug 17, 2016 9:40 pm

I have another question...

A few days ago I posted that my ex of nearly 2 years contacted me out of the blue to hang out. He has never taken me up on any offer to hang out, and has never opened up to me before, but that night he did. Despite expressing deep feelings, he insisted this just be a one time thing, so I have begun a little come to me work, with other things to follow.

I forgot to mention that one of his reasons for hesitating was that he is still deeply hurt by some things that happened early in our relationship. I know some healing work will need to be done eventually, but when? Do I wait until he is seeing me regularly, or should I do it sooner? Last time I got involved in hoodoo, I was doing far too much at once and want to make sure I do it right this time.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Aug 17, 2016 9:42 pm

Hello, misskitty49 ,

The healing ought to be done as soon as possible.

BLockbuster followed by healing

www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Take care

Luckyyone · Unread post by **Luckyyone** » Thu Aug 18, 2016 11:55 am

Everything is going good with my "soon to be boyfriend again" and I just came from his house, which I laid a few tricks around, hope he doesn't resist like he did in the past. He's very hard headed because he still doesn't want to be intimate with me, but he invites me over and the last time we spent time together, he shut me off after because I laid a bunch of tricks. Anyways, is baby steps normal? Because he only wants to have sex but u can tell he doesn't want me to leave right away, but I think he caught himself today and then rushes me to leave (in other words kicks me out, he didn't rush me but he just told me he'll walk me out). Anyways, and I think he peeked at my phone to see who was calling me because he was next to my purse when I went to the restroom, my phone was right on top. And he was not near my purse when I went to the restroom, lol. I guess that's a good thing coz he wants to know who's texting and calling. (Probly coz my ring tone was a love song lol)

I'm trying to focus on the good! He's atleast inviting me over a lot more! I'm trying to convince him to go camping this wkend with me but he says he'll feel awkward with my bro there...

Are baby steps okay? U think I should stop laying tricks because it caused him to back off last time?
I put reconciliation oil on a few of his things and his wallet lol

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Aug 18, 2016 7:35 pm

Hello Luckyyone,

I'm not sure I understand how laying tricks last time caused him to back off. Did he catch you laying them? Or are you just assuming the tricks caused him to back off because he's hard-headed?

If it's the first one, just be sneakier

If it's the second one, get a reading if you're really worried about it, but I'd say to just keep up your work. And yes, baby steps are normal; spellwork takes time to be successful.

You can find readers here:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck to you.

Labradormom930 · Unread post by **Labradormom930** » Fri Aug 19, 2016 12:22 pm

Hi Everyone!

My boyfriend of two years had a major falling out and broke up on Saturday. We have talked a little bit, but right now he is unsure about getting back together. I'm trying to work on getting the lines of communication open, but I am not pushing him, more attempting to encourage him to reach out to me. I have already had a reading that he's upset, but missing me, and that it will most likely be by next week that he starts reaching out to me again. In the meantime, the plan set is for him to come by on Tuesday to get the last of his things.

My questions are:

What work should I be doing in the next few days to encourage him to reopen the lines of communication fully? We have exchanged an e-mail this morning, which while he's been silent since, he's at least talked to me more in the last day than he has since our split. I do have reconciliation oil and road opener oil. I have previously used lamps on him when we had a break a year ago with great success.

Additionally, I have return to me oil, powder, as well as the spell kit. Or should I be laying tricks using oil or powder with his items for when he comes to pick them up?

(Boy, do I sound desperate, or what...

More sad, but I'm just at a means of what should I do next to encourage reconciliation and return)

Thanks in advance everyone!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Aug 19, 2016 7:29 pm

Hello Labradormom930,

I moved your post to this subforum, so you can read through 84 (!!) pages of information about bringing a lover back. FYI, you don't need to post the same question under subforums for each oil you want to use; you can just post it under the general subforum for that type of spell

I'm very sorry to hear that you and your boyfriend broke up. As for communication, I think Road Opener oil could definitely be used for that; you can do a simple candle spell by dressing a white candle with Road Opener and writing a petition paper that communication paths stay open. You can also have the MISC burn a Mercury vigil candle for you (Mercury fosters communication):

http://missionaryindependent.org/candle-services.html

You can lay tricks in his stuff; just be careful about sprinkling powder on anything dark—it will stick out very obviously. And make sure to read through the other posts here; you'll find lots of information.

Good luck!

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Labradormom930 · Unread post by **Labradormom930** » Sat Aug 20, 2016 6:39 am

Thank you so much for some insight. Definitely want to avoid notice with the powder or oil. I was thinking of dressing some of the white keys on the keyboard (Middle C, would be an obvious choice) with some of the powder.

I definitely don't want to encourage reconciliation of the relationship as it stood before the split. Things were rocky as of late due to our dealing individually with our own issues. But I definitely want to open the road/remove the blocks that are in our way to return to the happy and healthy state that we were in prior to this. When we were good, we were good. We just let stupid things and stress get in the way.

I appreciate it so much. Thank you!