Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
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Hmmmmmm That's a good point, I really appreciate everyone's time and energy in this matter. I have a starting point now, thank you
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My children's mother and I broke up. I tried spells and what not to try and get her back. I wasn't the best of person when we were together so I understand. I come to the conclusion it not meant to be and am moving on.
my concern is she has gotten involved with this guy that is in prison. he been there for the past 12 years and has 3 more to go. he killed a girl on accident thinking he was shooting at the girls brother.
they been talking for about 5 months. she has gotten his name tattooed on her. I tried talking to her about her decision abd she looks at me as I'm just hating on her happiness. I tried to talk to her last Monday about how I feel and the risk she putting herself and more importantly our children in danger.
she started yelling and arguing and tell me my kids are straight and went to implying that he has made peace with the victims family so I left it alone to not argue.
I was not a good person in our relationship do to some personal issues with me which I have worked on overcame and continuously working on so I understand her not wanting to deal with me on a relationship level.
well on Thursday I was talking to the lady who has been helping me spiritually with myself and my issues. she tells me that she knows of the situation that happened and as a matter of the the victims family deals with her and there has been no peace between him and the family and there are people just waiting on him to come home to do him just like he did their family member and they don't care who he is with or around and they will use whoever they can to get to him.
I have paid for break up spells and also tried them myself and nothing has changed.
we are on better terms but that not my concern it's about my children's safety.
Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
my concern is she has gotten involved with this guy that is in prison. he been there for the past 12 years and has 3 more to go. he killed a girl on accident thinking he was shooting at the girls brother.
they been talking for about 5 months. she has gotten his name tattooed on her. I tried talking to her about her decision abd she looks at me as I'm just hating on her happiness. I tried to talk to her last Monday about how I feel and the risk she putting herself and more importantly our children in danger.
she started yelling and arguing and tell me my kids are straight and went to implying that he has made peace with the victims family so I left it alone to not argue.
I was not a good person in our relationship do to some personal issues with me which I have worked on overcame and continuously working on so I understand her not wanting to deal with me on a relationship level.
well on Thursday I was talking to the lady who has been helping me spiritually with myself and my issues. she tells me that she knows of the situation that happened and as a matter of the the victims family deals with her and there has been no peace between him and the family and there are people just waiting on him to come home to do him just like he did their family member and they don't care who he is with or around and they will use whoever they can to get to him.
I have paid for break up spells and also tried them myself and nothing has changed.
we are on better terms but that not my concern it's about my children's safety.
Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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Hello, Build Infinity7 ,
Welcome to the forum.
I am so very sorry that all of this is happening to your children and to your concern for them
I am so sorry that your break up spells did not work, either.
Not knowing who you had worked with (an AIRR member or someone else) or what products you have used (or if it was even Lucky Mojo products), I don't know how to address this issue. I can give you the page on break ups: www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
And AIRR members: http://readersandrootworkers.org
As far as your children are concerned, have you considered seeing an attorney about this situation? Or social services? That may be your first step.
I highly recommend that you also perform protection spells on your children: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
Please take care of your children and yourself.
And, please consult an attorney.
Wishing you the very best
Welcome to the forum.
I am so very sorry that all of this is happening to your children and to your concern for them
I am so sorry that your break up spells did not work, either.
Not knowing who you had worked with (an AIRR member or someone else) or what products you have used (or if it was even Lucky Mojo products), I don't know how to address this issue. I can give you the page on break ups: www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
And AIRR members: http://readersandrootworkers.org
As far as your children are concerned, have you considered seeing an attorney about this situation? Or social services? That may be your first step.
I highly recommend that you also perform protection spells on your children: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
Please take care of your children and yourself.
And, please consult an attorney.
Wishing you the very best
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Thank you for the advice it's a tricky situation legally my hands are tied but I do have time on my side seeing the guy doesn't come home for 3 more years I had a reading by a aiir member recently and was told shoe is definitely coming back to me which is cool but also I was told I might not want her last week I did a honey jar for her to keep things peaceful between us it working good and now I'm back at her. House but the guy still has her mind the reading says he has her totally manipulated but she is trying to decide what to do if I. Could get some healing and reconciliation clear thinking and break up or break control work done I think it might help I was about to give up but for my family it's worth it any recommendations are appreciated plus referrals for someone who specialize in this type of work thanks and God bless
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Hello, Build Infinity7,
I am sorry but we don't give specific referrals on the forum
Just please go to the AIRR webpage and see which rootoworkers do this type of work.
There are links to each type of situation. Jut click on the situation and, on the right hand side, there are lists of AIRR members who perform these spells.
Wishing you the very best
Take care
I am sorry but we don't give specific referrals on the forum
Just please go to the AIRR webpage and see which rootoworkers do this type of work.
There are links to each type of situation. Jut click on the situation and, on the right hand side, there are lists of AIRR members who perform these spells.
Wishing you the very best
Take care
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I need to separate the guy (an ex) from a female friend who speaks badly of me and is very manipulative. I know as long as they are back friends i cant work on bringing him back to me to reconcile things. Unfortunately with my living situation i am unable to burn candles, will having the missionary do a separation/break up candle be sufficient ??
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Missy70003 -- not at all. The Missionary Independent Spiritual Church burns candles for all sorts of work. I have even seen DUME candles on their altars. A Separation candle will be no trouble at all. They pray over every candle, too.
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
I'd like to try the moving candle spell mentioned at the beginning of this thread. What types of prayers can I use with this spell? I looked at the Psalms list but nothing jumped out at me as being appropriate. Any ideas? Or should I just pray for my intentions?
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hi perez228,
Here is a page of psalms and their attendant purposes, so you may find something right for you here:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... _of_Psalms
Personally, I have been praying Isaiah 55:11 with great success in my latest spells, so you might wish to consider it as well:
So will my word be which goes forth from my mouth; it will not return to me empty, without accomplishing what I desire, and without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
Here is a page of psalms and their attendant purposes, so you may find something right for you here:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... _of_Psalms
Personally, I have been praying Isaiah 55:11 with great success in my latest spells, so you might wish to consider it as well:
So will my word be which goes forth from my mouth; it will not return to me empty, without accomplishing what I desire, and without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hi all,
I received some information today that has given me a clearer picture of why my man suddenly broke things off with me.
Some background on what’s been going on and the other spells I am working before my question:
I’ve mentioned in other posts about the whore that has been causing problems between us for years and has incredible influence over him. It is not a sexual affair but one of her exploiting him financially and him allowing it due to her using her sexuality to bend him to her will.
I already buried a mirror box of her. I am working a cursing jar spell on her as well as a doll. I also made a cursing jar for him after he dropped me out of the blue. I already know that she had a lot to do with that (I saw she made phone calls to him right before he suddenly became distant with me and confused). She has had it in for me ever since I told her to stop sucking his wallet dry.
I made a doll for him on Friday to help him gain clarity on how he is being used. No confusion products in his doll or his cursing jar. I want him to be able to think clearly and understand why his life is shit.
There is a lot of great information on this section of the forum. QUESTION 1: I am asking for input on which would be the best course of action from here taking my current spells into consideration.
This is why I am asking. He has this scumbag friend that for some reason he is scared to death of (he is in general easily influenced by rough characters for some reason). My man and I were separated for several months at one point because of this “friend” and the gold digger I am cursing. We got back together a little over a year ago and very soon after this the lowlife friend left the country. I discovered today that he has very recently moved back and I KNOW this along with the manipulations of the gold digging whore is why he suddenly dumped me after everything was going well again.
I feel he did not really want to leave me as he broke down and cried the day I went to collect my things at his place, pushed me against the wall and kissed me and was saying how much he is going to miss holding me. He was aroused during all this. Keep in mind he is the one that ended it and said he was “final” about it!
I left tricks at his place that day (Goofer Dust, War Water). There is no way for me to get back in there now.
I want this scum bag gone out of my man’s life. So my question is which spell/s do you suggest I use alongside the ones I already have going? I have no personal concerns of his loser friend. Only a cigarette bud of this loser’s fiancé (who started off as his mistress and was part of the reason my man and I got into a big fight way back as he thought the cheating was funny and I didn’t). My man has become good friends with this bitch.
I want this loser and his fiancé out of my man’s life and break the influence this guy has over him. Should I use a freezing spell, vinegar or curse jar? I can’t use hotfoot as I have no direct contact with this guy anymore and can’t get back into my man’s place either.
QUESTION 2: Would an ammonia bottle spell to turn things around regarding outside influences also be good to use alongside the other spells I am working?
My man always had issues with insecurities as a kid and struggled to make friends and I think this is why the people that do worm their way in has so much control over him. Yet he never seemed to want to listen to my input about being strong and standing up for himself. He tends to generally go for low life “friends” and I think this is because he thinks he doesn’t deserve better.
Please advice. Thank you!
I received some information today that has given me a clearer picture of why my man suddenly broke things off with me.
Some background on what’s been going on and the other spells I am working before my question:
I’ve mentioned in other posts about the whore that has been causing problems between us for years and has incredible influence over him. It is not a sexual affair but one of her exploiting him financially and him allowing it due to her using her sexuality to bend him to her will.
I already buried a mirror box of her. I am working a cursing jar spell on her as well as a doll. I also made a cursing jar for him after he dropped me out of the blue. I already know that she had a lot to do with that (I saw she made phone calls to him right before he suddenly became distant with me and confused). She has had it in for me ever since I told her to stop sucking his wallet dry.
I made a doll for him on Friday to help him gain clarity on how he is being used. No confusion products in his doll or his cursing jar. I want him to be able to think clearly and understand why his life is shit.
There is a lot of great information on this section of the forum. QUESTION 1: I am asking for input on which would be the best course of action from here taking my current spells into consideration.
This is why I am asking. He has this scumbag friend that for some reason he is scared to death of (he is in general easily influenced by rough characters for some reason). My man and I were separated for several months at one point because of this “friend” and the gold digger I am cursing. We got back together a little over a year ago and very soon after this the lowlife friend left the country. I discovered today that he has very recently moved back and I KNOW this along with the manipulations of the gold digging whore is why he suddenly dumped me after everything was going well again.
I feel he did not really want to leave me as he broke down and cried the day I went to collect my things at his place, pushed me against the wall and kissed me and was saying how much he is going to miss holding me. He was aroused during all this. Keep in mind he is the one that ended it and said he was “final” about it!
I left tricks at his place that day (Goofer Dust, War Water). There is no way for me to get back in there now.
I want this scum bag gone out of my man’s life. So my question is which spell/s do you suggest I use alongside the ones I already have going? I have no personal concerns of his loser friend. Only a cigarette bud of this loser’s fiancé (who started off as his mistress and was part of the reason my man and I got into a big fight way back as he thought the cheating was funny and I didn’t). My man has become good friends with this bitch.
I want this loser and his fiancé out of my man’s life and break the influence this guy has over him. Should I use a freezing spell, vinegar or curse jar? I can’t use hotfoot as I have no direct contact with this guy anymore and can’t get back into my man’s place either.
QUESTION 2: Would an ammonia bottle spell to turn things around regarding outside influences also be good to use alongside the other spells I am working?
My man always had issues with insecurities as a kid and struggled to make friends and I think this is why the people that do worm their way in has so much control over him. Yet he never seemed to want to listen to my input about being strong and standing up for himself. He tends to generally go for low life “friends” and I think this is because he thinks he doesn’t deserve better.
Please advice. Thank you!
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Hello, Rosewood ,
I would perform a blockbuster spell to remove any obstacles that are preventing this man from leaving
I would also perform another one for the woman with the same intention
Then, continue your spells.
www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html
Do the ammonia jar spell and then concentrate on Love spells for him
Here is a page that Miss cat wrote: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Wishing you the best
I would perform a blockbuster spell to remove any obstacles that are preventing this man from leaving
I would also perform another one for the woman with the same intention
Then, continue your spells.
www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html
Do the ammonia jar spell and then concentrate on Love spells for him
Here is a page that Miss cat wrote: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Wishing you the best
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I've been taking the Hoodoo Rootwork Correspondence Course and I've been trying to learn hoodoo for a while. I haven't been able to get any tricks to work. I think I'm not putting enough thought and energy into my work. Having said that, I have a friend I'm taking on as a client. I'm not charging her; I told her I needed the practice and experience so I'm doing this pro bono. Here's the situation:
My friend has been married for 24 yrs. She's very unhappy and has been for several years, probably 15 yrs. She wants a divorce, he doesn't, although he's unwilling to make any of the changes she asked him to do. Now she's just frustrated and feed up. She very unhappy, and kind of takes her frustration out on others at work. We've talked a lot about this and we both think the best thing for her, and her husband, is for them to divorce but remain friends (they have 4 kids together). Another problem, they have a big house with a big house payment and 3 of their kids still lives at home. She can't leave until the house sells. Therefore, she wants to divorce, have separate lives, but live under the same roof until the house sells. I know that sounds crazy, but they are kind of stuck together until the house sells. I'm researching the trick about burying a statute of one of the Saints in the front yard to help sell a house, but is there a trick I can do, on her behalf, to help the husband accept the divorce and realize the financial situation they are in and agree to let her go, have separate lives, but live together.
I've read a lot on the Lucky Mojo site and the forum, but didn't see a step-by-step trick. I looked through the spell kits, as well as the free magic spell section. I think I should use the separation products, but I'm not sure what other products I need or what to do with any of the products. If you can suggest a trick or point me in a direction to find a trick I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks
My friend has been married for 24 yrs. She's very unhappy and has been for several years, probably 15 yrs. She wants a divorce, he doesn't, although he's unwilling to make any of the changes she asked him to do. Now she's just frustrated and feed up. She very unhappy, and kind of takes her frustration out on others at work. We've talked a lot about this and we both think the best thing for her, and her husband, is for them to divorce but remain friends (they have 4 kids together). Another problem, they have a big house with a big house payment and 3 of their kids still lives at home. She can't leave until the house sells. Therefore, she wants to divorce, have separate lives, but live under the same roof until the house sells. I know that sounds crazy, but they are kind of stuck together until the house sells. I'm researching the trick about burying a statute of one of the Saints in the front yard to help sell a house, but is there a trick I can do, on her behalf, to help the husband accept the divorce and realize the financial situation they are in and agree to let her go, have separate lives, but live together.
I've read a lot on the Lucky Mojo site and the forum, but didn't see a step-by-step trick. I looked through the spell kits, as well as the free magic spell section. I think I should use the separation products, but I'm not sure what other products I need or what to do with any of the products. If you can suggest a trick or point me in a direction to find a trick I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hello Cool Beans,
Have you done any readings on this situation? I'd start with that. But one thing you could try first is to do a skull candle on the spell with the husband, using a white skull candle and using Influence, Clarity and Do As I Say oils to influence his thoughts into thinking the divorce is the best plan for everyone involved.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-do-as-i-say.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
You could sprinkle the candle with calamus root chips and around the candle for a dominating edge:
http://herb-magic.com/calamus-root-chips.html
If you want to ask more questions about skull candles, kindly ask under this subforum (which also has a lot of helpful info):
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
So, that's one way you could go, but I'd emphasize that a reading would be a good first step.
Good luck!
Have you done any readings on this situation? I'd start with that. But one thing you could try first is to do a skull candle on the spell with the husband, using a white skull candle and using Influence, Clarity and Do As I Say oils to influence his thoughts into thinking the divorce is the best plan for everyone involved.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-do-as-i-say.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
You could sprinkle the candle with calamus root chips and around the candle for a dominating edge:
http://herb-magic.com/calamus-root-chips.html
If you want to ask more questions about skull candles, kindly ask under this subforum (which also has a lot of helpful info):
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
So, that's one way you could go, but I'd emphasize that a reading would be a good first step.
Good luck!
Thank you saints and spirits!
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My husband is in jail. A lady friend of his contacted me telling me that she is his girlfriend and he will be sending me divorce papers.
I love my husband very much and very much want him.
What do I need to do to stop all communication between them?
I love my husband very much and very much want him.
What do I need to do to stop all communication between them?
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Hello, nov11 ,
That is just terrible!
Have you confronted him about it?
Nevertheless, I would hire an attorney just in case she's telling the truth
Definitely perform a break up spell in its entirety
www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
I pray that it isn't true and this woman is just crazy
Please take care of yourself
That is just terrible!
Have you confronted him about it?
Nevertheless, I would hire an attorney just in case she's telling the truth
Definitely perform a break up spell in its entirety
www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
I pray that it isn't true and this woman is just crazy
Please take care of yourself
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I was wondering if it is worth doing a Hot Foot spell on someone or letting things pan out.
My boyfriend has recently just got back in contact with a girl he went to school with years ago. They had no history other than he said he fancied her then. We have been together a year. Last night they were messaging each other via Facebook. He mentioned me and she said I was very pretty (always suspicious when a fellow female says that to my boyfriend). I'm keeping my eyes peeled. I do trust him but I know he really did fancy her.
Is it worth starting a Hot Foot spell ASAP to nip things in the bud or keeping a look out in the meantime? My rootworker has other work of a similar nature going for me just now so it's why I'm asking here. Thank you.
My boyfriend has recently just got back in contact with a girl he went to school with years ago. They had no history other than he said he fancied her then. We have been together a year. Last night they were messaging each other via Facebook. He mentioned me and she said I was very pretty (always suspicious when a fellow female says that to my boyfriend). I'm keeping my eyes peeled. I do trust him but I know he really did fancy her.
Is it worth starting a Hot Foot spell ASAP to nip things in the bud or keeping a look out in the meantime? My rootworker has other work of a similar nature going for me just now so it's why I'm asking here. Thank you.
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Hello, Nony65 ,
If that were me, I would definitely do it now (before it's too late)
Good luck
Take care
If that were me, I would definitely do it now (before it's too late)
Good luck
Take care
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This is about a meddling whore who keeps causing problems for no other reason than she is a bitch; no romantic interest in the man I love, she simply enjoys destroying other people's happiness and being in CONTROL.
I have had readings done and also did tarot readings for myself. I consulted my pendulum as well and it says he is not seeing anyone.
The readings all point to the same thing though. That he is being influenced by people that aren't family but that he considers family. This is the whore and her group of loonies. They are nothing but a cult exploiting religion to fool people and suck them dry. I am up against very strong negative forces.
The readings said that these people are heavily influencing him into having a conventional lifestyle of marriage and children. This is the very thing he has never wanted! Even days before he split up with me he was very anti all that. Then he broke up with me saying he wants to settle down, marry and have kids. This is NONSENSE! He hates those things with a passion and has always been very vocal about not wanting a conventional life. This was right after spending a weekend with the whore and her group that he told me this nonsense.
I know the whore and her group are influencing him, because there have been times in the past after being around them that he has suddenly said he needs to start a family and serve the Lord <- he is not religious and does not like religions organizations at all! He has said so many things about how he can't stand religion. These views he has expressed loads of times to me over the years.
I don't know how to break this group's influence over him. This whore manipulates and influences him to come around to their way of thinking (like a pussy trap). He changes completely when she is in town. He told me once that he went on a religious "retreat" with her and her group and that it was a total mind screw. He even told me how he has noticed they all return even weirder every time they come back from one of these "retreats". He also told me of how they were at his house once and formed a circle around him and started praying for him and that he felt very uneasy as he didn't ask for it.
It's just a weird business, very complex but the meddling whore is the one that controls it all. Years ago a guy lost his mind after returning from one of these very "retreats" (same group). I was still naive then and called these people and told them that the guy needed help. They told me there was nothing to worry about and that I was not to listen to anything he might tell me. I always found that odd. Later that week this guy ended up institutionalized and it was months before he was released.
I hate this whore and her group. They have been working at destroying my man's ability to think for himself over a period of several years. They have destroyed our lived as a result.
I waited too long to get my work started back in July. I froze her in September and also have a vinegar jar going for the 2 of them as well as a curse jar for her. Thank goodness I have a lot of her hair.
The woman I made a freezer spell and vinegar jar for on Saturday, she has a very young baby. This alone makes me suspicious that the whore and her group are involved as my man has ALWAYS had disparaging things to say whenever any of his friends have gotten involved with young/new mothers.
The whore and her followers know he can't have children with me even if he wanted. She has been playing this angle for years, telling him he MUST procreate or the Lord will punish him (did I say already how much I hate this meddling bitch?). Now suddenly this single mother with a small baby is on the scene.
I have had readings done and also did tarot readings for myself. I consulted my pendulum as well and it says he is not seeing anyone.
The readings all point to the same thing though. That he is being influenced by people that aren't family but that he considers family. This is the whore and her group of loonies. They are nothing but a cult exploiting religion to fool people and suck them dry. I am up against very strong negative forces.
The readings said that these people are heavily influencing him into having a conventional lifestyle of marriage and children. This is the very thing he has never wanted! Even days before he split up with me he was very anti all that. Then he broke up with me saying he wants to settle down, marry and have kids. This is NONSENSE! He hates those things with a passion and has always been very vocal about not wanting a conventional life. This was right after spending a weekend with the whore and her group that he told me this nonsense.
I know the whore and her group are influencing him, because there have been times in the past after being around them that he has suddenly said he needs to start a family and serve the Lord <- he is not religious and does not like religions organizations at all! He has said so many things about how he can't stand religion. These views he has expressed loads of times to me over the years.
I don't know how to break this group's influence over him. This whore manipulates and influences him to come around to their way of thinking (like a pussy trap). He changes completely when she is in town. He told me once that he went on a religious "retreat" with her and her group and that it was a total mind screw. He even told me how he has noticed they all return even weirder every time they come back from one of these "retreats". He also told me of how they were at his house once and formed a circle around him and started praying for him and that he felt very uneasy as he didn't ask for it.
It's just a weird business, very complex but the meddling whore is the one that controls it all. Years ago a guy lost his mind after returning from one of these very "retreats" (same group). I was still naive then and called these people and told them that the guy needed help. They told me there was nothing to worry about and that I was not to listen to anything he might tell me. I always found that odd. Later that week this guy ended up institutionalized and it was months before he was released.
I hate this whore and her group. They have been working at destroying my man's ability to think for himself over a period of several years. They have destroyed our lived as a result.

I waited too long to get my work started back in July. I froze her in September and also have a vinegar jar going for the 2 of them as well as a curse jar for her. Thank goodness I have a lot of her hair.
The woman I made a freezer spell and vinegar jar for on Saturday, she has a very young baby. This alone makes me suspicious that the whore and her group are involved as my man has ALWAYS had disparaging things to say whenever any of his friends have gotten involved with young/new mothers.
The whore and her followers know he can't have children with me even if he wanted. She has been playing this angle for years, telling him he MUST procreate or the Lord will punish him (did I say already how much I hate this meddling bitch?). Now suddenly this single mother with a small baby is on the scene.
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Rosewood --
As i explained to you in the freezer spells thread -- this situation is more complex than a mere matter of freezing someone out of a man's life, so i have moved your post to the CONDITIONS area of the Forum where you are already posting in this thread dealing with all kinds of spells for getting a person away from the influences of bad people.
As a reader, i hear what you are telling me about the man's mental vulnerability to manipulation -- and i already said my piece: This situation will not be solved with a freezer spell; it has gone on too long, and, to a certain extent, he is allowing it to happen.
Miss Aida and i have both been advising you here in the Forum, and you have done a multitude of work to drive these people away from the man -- a freezer spell, a vinegar jar, a mirror spell, and a doll -- since July, if i understand correctly.
I think that at this point you would do well to have a reading to see whether any change is possible.
I do not wish to discourage you, but sometimes when a situation has become entrenched for a long time before you attempt to rectify it, and the signs you get are not positive, you would do well to set a time limit on the work, or hire a rootworker to help you, or let the situation go.
As i explained to you in the freezer spells thread -- this situation is more complex than a mere matter of freezing someone out of a man's life, so i have moved your post to the CONDITIONS area of the Forum where you are already posting in this thread dealing with all kinds of spells for getting a person away from the influences of bad people.
As a reader, i hear what you are telling me about the man's mental vulnerability to manipulation -- and i already said my piece: This situation will not be solved with a freezer spell; it has gone on too long, and, to a certain extent, he is allowing it to happen.
Miss Aida and i have both been advising you here in the Forum, and you have done a multitude of work to drive these people away from the man -- a freezer spell, a vinegar jar, a mirror spell, and a doll -- since July, if i understand correctly.
I think that at this point you would do well to have a reading to see whether any change is possible.
I do not wish to discourage you, but sometimes when a situation has become entrenched for a long time before you attempt to rectify it, and the signs you get are not positive, you would do well to set a time limit on the work, or hire a rootworker to help you, or let the situation go.
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Thanks, Cat.
Yes, I know a mere freezer spell is not enough. I have several spells going. The most important is to draw him back to me so that I can at least get back into his place and close to him to lay tricks.
I was completely blind sided when he broke up with me - right after spending time with her and her group. He did it over the phone and was in a panic when he realized he would have to see me one last time to sort our belongings out. I feel they did not want him to see me as they know I keep bringing him back to his senses.
Yes, easily manipulated by all except me it seems. His mom and sister have expressed concern in the past about this whore hanging around, but he isolated me from his family after this. I have a honey jar going for his sister.
I will keep most of my focus on drawing him back and souring things between the two of them.
Thanks.
Yes, I know a mere freezer spell is not enough. I have several spells going. The most important is to draw him back to me so that I can at least get back into his place and close to him to lay tricks.
I was completely blind sided when he broke up with me - right after spending time with her and her group. He did it over the phone and was in a panic when he realized he would have to see me one last time to sort our belongings out. I feel they did not want him to see me as they know I keep bringing him back to his senses.
Yes, easily manipulated by all except me it seems. His mom and sister have expressed concern in the past about this whore hanging around, but he isolated me from his family after this. I have a honey jar going for his sister.
I will keep most of my focus on drawing him back and souring things between the two of them.
Thanks.
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Thanks Cat.
I actually started in August with a mirror box spell and made dolls for him and myself in August (which I didn't activate for a while). I only started on the vinegar jar on 3 September though. Looking at my list of when I did what I can see that I started a lot of work in September only - although it feels much longer.
The time when I saw most movement was when I buried a curse jar for him and fed my mojo to draw him back. That was at the end of September when he started contacting me more, but I found myself too angry and suspicious at the time to keep that contact going although we have been in contact last week as well.
I've been feeling much more connected to my love work in recent weeks and less so to the darker spells. The love work has become very relaxing to me and I find myself working for 3 hours straight and not feeling tired of it and actually feeling better during and afterwards. Definitely been drawn more and more to love work.
I am giving it until end December. That is when the whore and her followers will be active again. I'll see what happens during the holidays.
I actually started in August with a mirror box spell and made dolls for him and myself in August (which I didn't activate for a while). I only started on the vinegar jar on 3 September though. Looking at my list of when I did what I can see that I started a lot of work in September only - although it feels much longer.
The time when I saw most movement was when I buried a curse jar for him and fed my mojo to draw him back. That was at the end of September when he started contacting me more, but I found myself too angry and suspicious at the time to keep that contact going although we have been in contact last week as well.
I've been feeling much more connected to my love work in recent weeks and less so to the darker spells. The love work has become very relaxing to me and I find myself working for 3 hours straight and not feeling tired of it and actually feeling better during and afterwards. Definitely been drawn more and more to love work.
I am giving it until end December. That is when the whore and her followers will be active again. I'll see what happens during the holidays.
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Rosewood,
The waxing and waning of results seems related to your own true thoughts: it is pointless to draw someone back when you are still "too angry and suspicious" to take advantage of the accomplishment of your spell. Very often you will not get a second or third chance.
The waxing and waning of results seems related to your own true thoughts: it is pointless to draw someone back when you are still "too angry and suspicious" to take advantage of the accomplishment of your spell. Very often you will not get a second or third chance.
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I believe a friend is somehow being 'controlled' by another person....Which could affect me adversely....
Also may prevent my aiming at the target who is in 'control'....
How can I break that connection so as to continue the work I am aiming at the target....?
Any advice is appreciated....
Also may prevent my aiming at the target who is in 'control'....
How can I break that connection so as to continue the work I am aiming at the target....?
Any advice is appreciated....
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Hello Patrah,
You could always hot foot the person who's doing the controlling, to get them out of the situation, and some Cast Off Evil and Clarity work for the person who's being controlled, to help them "cast off" this controlling person and help them get clarity on the situation.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
Good luck!
You could always hot foot the person who's doing the controlling, to get them out of the situation, and some Cast Off Evil and Clarity work for the person who's being controlled, to help them "cast off" this controlling person and help them get clarity on the situation.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
Good luck!
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I am concerned about my friend for his sake yes.
I also know that if the other person is controlling him, it is then more difficult for me to get past my friend to the other person, without harming him too.
Unless he has been deceptively an enemy all these years.
I find that less plausible than that since I introduced them he has fallen into her midst.
Another thing is is that he is a healer and if he is under domination by someone who hates me, this could be potentially dangerous for me and for others.
So I am only trying to dissect the relationship to restore trust in my friend and to gain access to the target for a vengeful outcome.
I also know that if the other person is controlling him, it is then more difficult for me to get past my friend to the other person, without harming him too.
Unless he has been deceptively an enemy all these years.
I find that less plausible than that since I introduced them he has fallen into her midst.
Another thing is is that he is a healer and if he is under domination by someone who hates me, this could be potentially dangerous for me and for others.
So I am only trying to dissect the relationship to restore trust in my friend and to gain access to the target for a vengeful outcome.
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Hello Patrah,
If you hot foot the controlling person, that will not affect your friend. Read through the pages I linked you, you'll find a lot of helpful information.
Good luck to you.
If you hot foot the controlling person, that will not affect your friend. Read through the pages I linked you, you'll find a lot of helpful information.
Good luck to you.
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I thought hotfoot was to make them leave the location.
I also want to send back all the grief she sent to me, and then some to keep her back to her nothingness and with enough of her own self invvolved issues to leave me alone..
But yes I thought hot foot was to chase someone away from a location.
Does it also chase them out of a proverbial situation?
I would love for her to remain in the house where she now lives until I am done with her.
And restore my friends sincerity.
I also want to send back all the grief she sent to me, and then some to keep her back to her nothingness and with enough of her own self invvolved issues to leave me alone..
But yes I thought hot foot was to chase someone away from a location.
Does it also chase them out of a proverbial situation?
I would love for her to remain in the house where she now lives until I am done with her.
And restore my friends sincerity.
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Hello, Patrah,
If you want her to stay, then don't use Hotfoot
Perform a crossing spell instead
www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html
Take care
If you want her to stay, then don't use Hotfoot
Perform a crossing spell instead
www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html
Take care
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Thank you much. If I suspect her to be in my own vacinity, then Should I use a hotfoot around me?
She does know where I did live and do now live.
I suspect she is leaving her residence at night for her safety.
And unless she has made grave progress in the last few months, she has got to go there during the day to care for animals.
I really want to do her a number to her face, out loud.
I am always told to use better discretion than that.
I sure have lots to do about it before finding the time to work for me.
She does know where I did live and do now live.
I suspect she is leaving her residence at night for her safety.
And unless she has made grave progress in the last few months, she has got to go there during the day to care for animals.
I really want to do her a number to her face, out loud.
I am always told to use better discretion than that.
I sure have lots to do about it before finding the time to work for me.
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Hi all,
My efforts paid off and my man and I have been back together since November. We have been spending a lot of quality time together and for the first time in years he has been including me in his family gatherings. He is still a bundle of confusion though, as always.
During my absence a new woman has invaded his little group of friends. She came onto the scene shortly before we split back in August. Since we got back together I have noticed that she has really wiggled her way into the group. This woman is a total control freak. The most abrasive woman I've ever come across.
I also found out that she pushed my man very hard into going on a date with another woman during our time apart and that she kept pushing him to ask this woman out again. Fortunately one date was enough for him. Miss Abrasive is annoying me big time as she keeps meddling and wanting information about our relationship and giving her unsolicited opinions and advice (more like giving orders). I don't care for her attitude at all. Her advice to him is not exactly in my favour either. She is very bossy, can't take no for an answer. Constantly in everyone's face, organizing everyone's lives without them asking. Tiring. You get the idea.
This woman has managed to move in with our friend. She has no job and he now supports her. She treats his kids like crap and they are miserable now that she has moved in. Apart from that she has eerily managed to wrap the men around her little finger. I am suspicious of the home made toiletries she keeps giving to the men. Never the women in our group (they seem to have also opted to handle her quietly). She is neither attractive nor young. I did a background check and found she has been involved in some very shady activity. I have kept this to myself as I can tell this is the kind of situation where it won't help me to speak out. I bite my tongue as this seems the smarter strategy. My man has expressed his suspicions about her a while back as well, but has said nothing since.
I will hotfoot this bitch, but I was wondering what else is recommended? Freezer spell? If I can get her hair and our friend's, should I try a vinegar jar?
I thought about making a jar for my man and her, but maybe it is better to break her up from our friend? They do argue a lot already as it is. I need to give it that final push over the edge.
I don't want my man to lose his friend. I prefer to see her bugger off out of all our lives. I am fed up with this sneaky egotistical, constantly self praising, loud mouthed bitch.
I can see big trouble coming the longer she stays. I did not work my butt off for months to get my man back only for this freak to ruin it.
Thank you!
My efforts paid off and my man and I have been back together since November. We have been spending a lot of quality time together and for the first time in years he has been including me in his family gatherings. He is still a bundle of confusion though, as always.

During my absence a new woman has invaded his little group of friends. She came onto the scene shortly before we split back in August. Since we got back together I have noticed that she has really wiggled her way into the group. This woman is a total control freak. The most abrasive woman I've ever come across.
I also found out that she pushed my man very hard into going on a date with another woman during our time apart and that she kept pushing him to ask this woman out again. Fortunately one date was enough for him. Miss Abrasive is annoying me big time as she keeps meddling and wanting information about our relationship and giving her unsolicited opinions and advice (more like giving orders). I don't care for her attitude at all. Her advice to him is not exactly in my favour either. She is very bossy, can't take no for an answer. Constantly in everyone's face, organizing everyone's lives without them asking. Tiring. You get the idea.
This woman has managed to move in with our friend. She has no job and he now supports her. She treats his kids like crap and they are miserable now that she has moved in. Apart from that she has eerily managed to wrap the men around her little finger. I am suspicious of the home made toiletries she keeps giving to the men. Never the women in our group (they seem to have also opted to handle her quietly). She is neither attractive nor young. I did a background check and found she has been involved in some very shady activity. I have kept this to myself as I can tell this is the kind of situation where it won't help me to speak out. I bite my tongue as this seems the smarter strategy. My man has expressed his suspicions about her a while back as well, but has said nothing since.
I will hotfoot this bitch, but I was wondering what else is recommended? Freezer spell? If I can get her hair and our friend's, should I try a vinegar jar?



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Hello Rosewood,
I'm so happy for you that you and your man are back together, but you're right, this woman has got to go.
Hot foot, hot foot, hot foot, exactly like you said. I think a freezer spell would be great to, to freeze her out of your life:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
hot-foot-powder-questions-and-answers-t5399.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
Especially try to get hot foot powder in the house she's living in. Call her name as your sprinkle it (you can mix it with some local dirt to make it practically invisible) and it won't affect the other people living there.
If you want to "break her up" from this friend she is taking advantage of, I think a moving figural candle spell would do nicely. Buy a white figural candle to represent the friend, and a black figural candle to represent the woman. Place them facing each other, and dress the white candle with Separation oil (Separation oil is designed to facilitate a drama-free separation), and dress the black candle with Hot Foot oil and Separation oil. (Hot Foot oil can be found on that same Hot Foot link). Burn them in sections, burning them a little bit per day, and when they're lit, slide them away from each other. Keep separating them until the black candle falls off your altar and into a bucket with Hot Foot powder in it.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#figural
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
You could also do a beef tongue spell on her to shut her up about your relationship (that's under the same "freezer spells" link).
Good luck, and I hope she gets gone!
I'm so happy for you that you and your man are back together, but you're right, this woman has got to go.
Hot foot, hot foot, hot foot, exactly like you said. I think a freezer spell would be great to, to freeze her out of your life:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
hot-foot-powder-questions-and-answers-t5399.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
Especially try to get hot foot powder in the house she's living in. Call her name as your sprinkle it (you can mix it with some local dirt to make it practically invisible) and it won't affect the other people living there.
If you want to "break her up" from this friend she is taking advantage of, I think a moving figural candle spell would do nicely. Buy a white figural candle to represent the friend, and a black figural candle to represent the woman. Place them facing each other, and dress the white candle with Separation oil (Separation oil is designed to facilitate a drama-free separation), and dress the black candle with Hot Foot oil and Separation oil. (Hot Foot oil can be found on that same Hot Foot link). Burn them in sections, burning them a little bit per day, and when they're lit, slide them away from each other. Keep separating them until the black candle falls off your altar and into a bucket with Hot Foot powder in it.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#figural
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
You could also do a beef tongue spell on her to shut her up about your relationship (that's under the same "freezer spells" link).
Good luck, and I hope she gets gone!
Thank you saints and spirits!
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Thank you, Sister Jean. I forgot about the freezer spell to shut her up! Thanks for reminding me of this option. I will have to get a hold of her hair asap. Will definitely be using hotfoot on her. I see a whole lot of trouble down the line for everyone unless she is gotten rid of soon. I will keep you posted.
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Go get her, Rosewood!!
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Thanks, Miss Aida. I appreciate all the help and encouragement. 

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It's working!
My man has shared with me that he only tolerates the bitch mentioned in my above posts for his friend's sake. He said if it weren't for his friend he would not be around her.
Furthermore, her manipulations are starting to backfire on her.
The man she has been sponging off of is getting fed up with her and taking the side of his children now when she yells at them and orders them around. They are all tired of her bossy nature and how everything has to be her way all the time.
I am just a bit perplex as to why she is still there (apart from having nowhere else to go) whereas this man and his kids are spending less and less time in their own home in order to avoid her.

My man has shared with me that he only tolerates the bitch mentioned in my above posts for his friend's sake. He said if it weren't for his friend he would not be around her.
Furthermore, her manipulations are starting to backfire on her.


I am just a bit perplex as to why she is still there (apart from having nowhere else to go) whereas this man and his kids are spending less and less time in their own home in order to avoid her.

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I'm so happy for you Rosewood !
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I feel I should update on the situation I wrote about above.
My spell on this woman worked very well with an interesting twist! She knows about the whore that keeps trying to cause problems between me and my man but took the position that the other woman is never to blame. Famous last words! Soon after a woman started interfering in her relationship. She did a complete turn around.
At that point I was fortunate enough to find a lot of her hair in a bin. I decided to use it to get her over to my side and be sweeter to everyone. Boy, has it worked. She now gets on well with her boyfriend's kids. She even applied for and found a job for the first time in years. She tells my man how lucky he is to have me and to be good to me. Not only that, but she tells her bf (my man's best friend) to keep him on track with our relationship.
Interesting how one can move with the results of these spells and grow them in a different direction as needed.
My spell on this woman worked very well with an interesting twist! She knows about the whore that keeps trying to cause problems between me and my man but took the position that the other woman is never to blame. Famous last words! Soon after a woman started interfering in her relationship. She did a complete turn around.
At that point I was fortunate enough to find a lot of her hair in a bin. I decided to use it to get her over to my side and be sweeter to everyone. Boy, has it worked. She now gets on well with her boyfriend's kids. She even applied for and found a job for the first time in years. She tells my man how lucky he is to have me and to be good to me. Not only that, but she tells her bf (my man's best friend) to keep him on track with our relationship.
Interesting how one can move with the results of these spells and grow them in a different direction as needed.
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I have a family member whose married to a real manipulative ,confusion starting bitch. She's affecting his relationship with the family by not wanting him to communicate with anyone. She's needs to go and it's like he's blinded by her ways that he can't see her for what she is because his mom likes her (shes trifing too) thing is she's pregnant. What can be done to the wife to get her out of the family through divorce and make him she her for what she is. Can this be done while shes pregnant because I don't want anything negative to happen to the baby at all. What can actually be done, if anything
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Congrats, Rosewood!!!
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Hello, Newbygirl ,
Honestly, I don't like performing these type of spells on pregnant women.
You might want to consider a reading on this.
www.hoodoopsychics.com
or
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Take care
Honestly, I don't like performing these type of spells on pregnant women.
You might want to consider a reading on this.
www.hoodoopsychics.com
or
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Take care
HRCC Graduate #1631
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Ms. Aida how do I request a reading from you, you tend to always answer my questions
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Hello Newbygirl,
You can contact Miss Aida and all other AIRR workers through their pages here:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
You can contact Miss Aida and all other AIRR workers through their pages here:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
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Hello
I need some advice, I have 2 family members that are really bad and nasty to me, when I am away from them but are always pretending to love and like me when we are together. I know they do not like me, but they pretend because they need financial help from me. We do live in the same village. I would like to drive away this people ,I want them to have nothing to do with me, to just stay away from me. I need something that will separate us ,for these people to completely stay away from me. having these people in my life is not good for me, losing them as family is not going to hurt me. I want us to be like just like two people who have nothing with each other. I hope my question is clear. All I would like is to keep them away from me.
Thanks Lusanda
I need some advice, I have 2 family members that are really bad and nasty to me, when I am away from them but are always pretending to love and like me when we are together. I know they do not like me, but they pretend because they need financial help from me. We do live in the same village. I would like to drive away this people ,I want them to have nothing to do with me, to just stay away from me. I need something that will separate us ,for these people to completely stay away from me. having these people in my life is not good for me, losing them as family is not going to hurt me. I want us to be like just like two people who have nothing with each other. I hope my question is clear. All I would like is to keep them away from me.
Thanks Lusanda
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hi Lusanda,
Use Hot Foot products to send these people away. If you are new to hoodoo, the spell kit would be my advice. It contains everything you need, plus complete instructions.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
Have you read through the posts in this thread? There is lots of other helpful advice to achieve your goal, so please read and if you still have questions, feel free to ask them here.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
Use Hot Foot products to send these people away. If you are new to hoodoo, the spell kit would be my advice. It contains everything you need, plus complete instructions.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
Have you read through the posts in this thread? There is lots of other helpful advice to achieve your goal, so please read and if you still have questions, feel free to ask them here.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hello Miss Athena
Thank you very much for your advice ,I appreciate that you took your time to answer my post.
Thanks Lusanda
Thank you very much for your advice ,I appreciate that you took your time to answer my post.
Thanks Lusanda
Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
I'm seeing a new guy. He takes me out. He's really good to me. But he works with his ex. He got involved with her and she's a married woman. He finally started to figure things out. There were at least three other men who worked there that she was involved with also. One of the three, left the job. Two still work there and she's still with her husband. He is still angry, although they've been split for a year. Things will go well with he and I for a few weeks and then he'll get really down and upset about the whole situation. I'm not sure what to do about moving his mind away from her. I care about him a lot but I hate that he still has any feelings about the situation. What could I do to redirect his attentions towards me when he gets this way?
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Temont.
Try this. I have used this to redirect or attract a lover back to me. Take a pink candle and engrave a heart into the candle with a toothpick. Use one that you have used. Dress the candle with LM Follow me boy oil. Face the heart in a window sill towards a waxing moon. PLace your favorite purfume in front of the candle Then say your petion or prayer.
Once the candle burns out take that purfume and wear it when he is around. He will never think of another woman again. This has worked for me.
Good luck girl..
Try this. I have used this to redirect or attract a lover back to me. Take a pink candle and engrave a heart into the candle with a toothpick. Use one that you have used. Dress the candle with LM Follow me boy oil. Face the heart in a window sill towards a waxing moon. PLace your favorite purfume in front of the candle Then say your petion or prayer.
Once the candle burns out take that purfume and wear it when he is around. He will never think of another woman again. This has worked for me.
Good luck girl..
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Hello Temont. Try using a Hotfoot spell kit on her.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-hot-foot.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
Good Luck
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http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hello, Temont,
You got some good advice here.
I would wok with what I have also.
So, what do you have? You have the fact that he's figuring things out
I'd be using Clarity products and King Solomon products to ENHANCE what has been crossing his mind.
First thing I would try to get into his head? The lady is a tramp. LOL
www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Wishing you the best
take care
You got some good advice here.
I would wok with what I have also.
So, what do you have? You have the fact that he's figuring things out
I'd be using Clarity products and King Solomon products to ENHANCE what has been crossing his mind.
First thing I would try to get into his head? The lady is a tramp. LOL
www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Wishing you the best
take care
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
I'm jumping on this thread, because I have a very similar situation.
Without going into TOO much detail:
Former housemate - got involved sexually. He has since moved in with his girlfriend and he has been crying about how he's made a mistake but "needs to make it work because he needs stability".
My main concern is for his welfare. He is emotionally and mentally weak and I feel that this woman, now that she has him where she wants him, is controlling his life. A secondary desire is for him to feel like he COULD come to me if he wanted, but he is not free to do so, even though I feel he wants to.
I have been working a platonic honey jar on him for some time and it has been working well. I don't want him to allow himself to be isolated by his partner (because that is what she has been doing).
I did work a break up spell and I feel like it has worked slightly, in that he has admitted to me he's not truly happy but is kind of trying to shoe horn it in if that makes sense.
I want to work a walking candle spell and possibly hot foot her. I have been thinking about this a lot, and because he has moved in with her I am concerned it could cross wires, simply because he is quite weak - I understand that my intent is on her, but any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Main question - just hot foot, or goofer her? I cannot stand her, she has been ridiculously cruel and bitchy to me and would be quite happy to see her in vast amounts of discomfort, but do not wish death upon her as she has a baby (not related to him - it's seriously very complicated). The child is innocent.
J
Without going into TOO much detail:
Former housemate - got involved sexually. He has since moved in with his girlfriend and he has been crying about how he's made a mistake but "needs to make it work because he needs stability".
My main concern is for his welfare. He is emotionally and mentally weak and I feel that this woman, now that she has him where she wants him, is controlling his life. A secondary desire is for him to feel like he COULD come to me if he wanted, but he is not free to do so, even though I feel he wants to.
I have been working a platonic honey jar on him for some time and it has been working well. I don't want him to allow himself to be isolated by his partner (because that is what she has been doing).
I did work a break up spell and I feel like it has worked slightly, in that he has admitted to me he's not truly happy but is kind of trying to shoe horn it in if that makes sense.
I want to work a walking candle spell and possibly hot foot her. I have been thinking about this a lot, and because he has moved in with her I am concerned it could cross wires, simply because he is quite weak - I understand that my intent is on her, but any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Main question - just hot foot, or goofer her? I cannot stand her, she has been ridiculously cruel and bitchy to me and would be quite happy to see her in vast amounts of discomfort, but do not wish death upon her as she has a baby (not related to him - it's seriously very complicated). The child is innocent.
J
Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hello, hairwire
Have you offered him to come stay with you? That would be my first move.
But, Goofer is a little harsh. I would go with Hotfoot and it won't "cross wires" if you state your intention and name her into the spell
Wishing you the best
take care
Have you offered him to come stay with you? That would be my first move.
But, Goofer is a little harsh. I would go with Hotfoot and it won't "cross wires" if you state your intention and name her into the spell
Wishing you the best
take care
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hello,
My daughter has a group of friends and there is a new mean girl that is trying to push her out. She is also getting the rest of the group to start experimenting with drugs and alcohol. I have read the entire post and know have a good idea on how to get rid of her peacefully and without harm, but I have a few questions. I am trying to get her to move back to NY where she is from, trying to have her switch schools will not do any good as she will still hand on.
1. Should I hotfoot her first and then do the cut and clear? or should I do the moving candle with my daughter and her friends and then hotfoot, cut and clear?
2. I know this spell should be done on the waning moon but I have no privacy at my office or home to burn the candles. My husband and son are going away for about 3-4 days in Feb but it is the waxing moon. Can I do one of the spells then? Which would you think would be most powerful?
Thanks
My daughter has a group of friends and there is a new mean girl that is trying to push her out. She is also getting the rest of the group to start experimenting with drugs and alcohol. I have read the entire post and know have a good idea on how to get rid of her peacefully and without harm, but I have a few questions. I am trying to get her to move back to NY where she is from, trying to have her switch schools will not do any good as she will still hand on.
1. Should I hotfoot her first and then do the cut and clear? or should I do the moving candle with my daughter and her friends and then hotfoot, cut and clear?
2. I know this spell should be done on the waning moon but I have no privacy at my office or home to burn the candles. My husband and son are going away for about 3-4 days in Feb but it is the waxing moon. Can I do one of the spells then? Which would you think would be most powerful?
Thanks
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Hello, tribaby789 ,
In my opinion, this is an emergency. When emergencies arise, I don't adhere to the traditional practices of spell timing--I just do it!
The most powerful of what you had mentioned is the Hotfoot
Wishing you the best
take care
In my opinion, this is an emergency. When emergencies arise, I don't adhere to the traditional practices of spell timing--I just do it!
The most powerful of what you had mentioned is the Hotfoot
Wishing you the best
take care
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hi everyone!
I've posted on here in a few different threads and one of them was about a young girl who had been throwing herself at my boyfriend. I've pretty much taken care of that issue, but I just found out that the root of the problem is probably more likely a guy that my boyfriend (who I'll call "M" for the sake of this) is acquaintances with and often works with. I'll call the acquaintance "K" to try and keep things easier to follow. I apologize for how long this will be but here's some back story:
M is a musician- he works different contracts with different shows throughout the year and is currently on a national tour with a large production music and dance show that was created by a couple of his friends (who like me very much and are currently having me house/ dog sit for them while they're on the road for the next two months). K is also a musician who does the same thing that my boyfriend does for work and is also currently on tour with the same show. K does not like me and never has despite the fact that I have never done nor said anything to offend him and the fact that M and I are very compatible and happy together in our over two year relationship. His reasons for not liking me are simply because he thinks that M should be with a girl that is more attractive than me and "more on M's level" (meaning a girl that is a professional musician/ singer/ dancer. I am a musician/ singer on the side and I dance for fun/fitness, but my full time job is as a sound engineer- so we all technically work in the same field, I just don't work the same shows as they do any more and I'm not on stage). I could live with the fact that K doesn't like me because after knowing him and seeing his behavior over the last couple of years, I'm not overly fond of him either- though I always try to be polite and friendly. But K also has a tendency to try and push other girls onto M and tries to get M to cheat on me or leave me for one of these other girls on their shows (which is how the issues with the girl that I've mentioned in past threads even became a thing). M has not acted on these attempts and I'm pretty sure he'll stay faithful to me anyways and sees all these attempts as "Oh, I should be friends with the people on my show because it makes things easier", but this is ridiculous. It's not any of K's business who M is in a relationship with- M doesn't even like K all that much as a friend. He only hangs around and is friendly with K because they work together pretty often and run in the same friend circle and it's easier to not have drama between the two of them when they're working or when the whole group of guys want to go do a boys' night.
K likes to stir up drama and has done so professionally as well as between other couples as well. He also likes to try and play "matchmaker" with people who are working on the same shows that he performs with. For example, he encouraged a guy that a friend of mine was seeing to cheat on her and then date a girl on the show they were performing on (both girls are lovely and didn't deserve what happened) and then K also encouraged this guy to keep seeing my friend while he was dating the other girl. Not to mention, K has a girlfriend himself so it's not like he doesn't have other things to occupy his time and attention. He just likes to act like a 12 year old girl
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Most of M's friend circle is friends with K- some of them because they don't realize what a slime ball he is and others know it but overlook it because he's a good musician and they think he's fun to drink and party with.
I'm at a loss for what to do. My usual plan of attack with someone who is trouble is to bind/banish and/or hotfoot them but I'm super lady-hearted and don't want to ruin someone's career in the process. I've looked at some stop gossip spells as well but I don't think he's gossiping about me and trying to turn M away from me that way- I'm pretty sure his method is trying to get a bunch of drop dead gorgeous performer girls to throw themselves at my man because... then M will see that he deserves a hotter girl than me
. The friend circle is too big to effectively put them all in a vinegar jar against him and as I said, M isn't really all that fond of K anyways. I found another thread where someone suggested a mirror spell to reflect back any attempts to hurt a couple that I'm going to try but I feel like I should do something else as well. Also one more tidbit to consider- I'm usually very good about doing regular protection, reversing, and uncrossing work BUT based on K's Instagram activity, I'm pretty positive that he's friends with some people who are into some brujeria. I don't think he'd go to that level to mess with a couple that he has no emotional ties with, but I can't know for sure. Suggestions anyone?
Please and thank you!
I've posted on here in a few different threads and one of them was about a young girl who had been throwing herself at my boyfriend. I've pretty much taken care of that issue, but I just found out that the root of the problem is probably more likely a guy that my boyfriend (who I'll call "M" for the sake of this) is acquaintances with and often works with. I'll call the acquaintance "K" to try and keep things easier to follow. I apologize for how long this will be but here's some back story:
M is a musician- he works different contracts with different shows throughout the year and is currently on a national tour with a large production music and dance show that was created by a couple of his friends (who like me very much and are currently having me house/ dog sit for them while they're on the road for the next two months). K is also a musician who does the same thing that my boyfriend does for work and is also currently on tour with the same show. K does not like me and never has despite the fact that I have never done nor said anything to offend him and the fact that M and I are very compatible and happy together in our over two year relationship. His reasons for not liking me are simply because he thinks that M should be with a girl that is more attractive than me and "more on M's level" (meaning a girl that is a professional musician/ singer/ dancer. I am a musician/ singer on the side and I dance for fun/fitness, but my full time job is as a sound engineer- so we all technically work in the same field, I just don't work the same shows as they do any more and I'm not on stage). I could live with the fact that K doesn't like me because after knowing him and seeing his behavior over the last couple of years, I'm not overly fond of him either- though I always try to be polite and friendly. But K also has a tendency to try and push other girls onto M and tries to get M to cheat on me or leave me for one of these other girls on their shows (which is how the issues with the girl that I've mentioned in past threads even became a thing). M has not acted on these attempts and I'm pretty sure he'll stay faithful to me anyways and sees all these attempts as "Oh, I should be friends with the people on my show because it makes things easier", but this is ridiculous. It's not any of K's business who M is in a relationship with- M doesn't even like K all that much as a friend. He only hangs around and is friendly with K because they work together pretty often and run in the same friend circle and it's easier to not have drama between the two of them when they're working or when the whole group of guys want to go do a boys' night.
K likes to stir up drama and has done so professionally as well as between other couples as well. He also likes to try and play "matchmaker" with people who are working on the same shows that he performs with. For example, he encouraged a guy that a friend of mine was seeing to cheat on her and then date a girl on the show they were performing on (both girls are lovely and didn't deserve what happened) and then K also encouraged this guy to keep seeing my friend while he was dating the other girl. Not to mention, K has a girlfriend himself so it's not like he doesn't have other things to occupy his time and attention. He just likes to act like a 12 year old girl

Most of M's friend circle is friends with K- some of them because they don't realize what a slime ball he is and others know it but overlook it because he's a good musician and they think he's fun to drink and party with.
I'm at a loss for what to do. My usual plan of attack with someone who is trouble is to bind/banish and/or hotfoot them but I'm super lady-hearted and don't want to ruin someone's career in the process. I've looked at some stop gossip spells as well but I don't think he's gossiping about me and trying to turn M away from me that way- I'm pretty sure his method is trying to get a bunch of drop dead gorgeous performer girls to throw themselves at my man because... then M will see that he deserves a hotter girl than me

Please and thank you!
Thank you, St. Martha, for all that you have done for me!
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Hello Scorpionwitch,
If you have qualms about hot footing or banishing this person (which is exactly what I recommend you do), have you considered doing a freezer spell?
http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html
See what you think and let us know if you have any questions.
Take care.
If you have qualms about hot footing or banishing this person (which is exactly what I recommend you do), have you considered doing a freezer spell?
http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html
See what you think and let us know if you have any questions.
Take care.
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Thanks Sister Jean,
I've been doing some reading through the forums and I'm not finding an answer to a question I have in regards to the practicality of a freezer spell. If I have to pull the spell out of the freezer, does it undo the spell? I'm asking because the place that I'm currently living is temporary (I'm house-sitting until the second week of May) and as I am not in a position to buy a home any time in the near future and will most likely be moving around pretty regularly over the next couple of years finding a decent place to rent. Also, if I end up with a roommate who is very firmly opposed to or afraid of any type of magical workings, I may not be able to perpetually have a freezer spell going without them either throwing it out or freaking out about what it is.
Thanks!
I've been doing some reading through the forums and I'm not finding an answer to a question I have in regards to the practicality of a freezer spell. If I have to pull the spell out of the freezer, does it undo the spell? I'm asking because the place that I'm currently living is temporary (I'm house-sitting until the second week of May) and as I am not in a position to buy a home any time in the near future and will most likely be moving around pretty regularly over the next couple of years finding a decent place to rent. Also, if I end up with a roommate who is very firmly opposed to or afraid of any type of magical workings, I may not be able to perpetually have a freezer spell going without them either throwing it out or freaking out about what it is.
Thanks!
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Thank you, St. Martha, for all that you have done for me!
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The issues are: brother's lack of ambition and motivation, lazy gf who is influencing and using him
My 25yr old brother is the youngest and lives at home with just my mom. Mom will retire next November and it was always understood that brother will inherit the house with the stipulation he will live with and care for my parents - my dad passed away so now it's just my mom. It's a nice home worth under 1mil - we're not well off, just happened to buy when prices were low.
My mom pays his car insurance, food, house, mortgage bills etc. He pays for his gas and personal expenses. He's graduated from college 2 years ago (he started dating her a few mths before graduating), and since then has only been working 2 or 3 days a week. My mom works full time, she does double shifts sometimes on her feet all day, has to come home to cook, clean, do his laundry, shop for groceries for him etc.
Before getting with her, my brother was ambitious. He graduated college and wanted to back to school for business. He took all the extra prep courses to be eligible to get accepted into the program for Sept 2018. Now he spends all his time with the gf or playing vid games. He just told us he doesn't want to go to university anymore. He used to be close to us and now he's distant. He doesn't even speak to anyone even when we all meet up for dinner or are in the same room. He's just silent and moody. He doesn't reply to text messages or calls from anyone.
The girl is nearly 30 and doesn't have a full time job either. She graduated from college but opted to work part time and was also living at home. She got kicked out last Sept because she's lazy, and bad with money (her parents words). She doesn't cook or clean up after herself - when she comes over to my mom's house she eats and leaves her dishes and messes in the living room and walks out the door. Gf now rents a place and both of them are always together, spending money they don't have and going out to eat etc. He helps her pay her bills and buys her groceries because she can't afford it. Sometimes my brother uses my mom's cc to buy groceries to give to the gf. She likes to drink her starbucks and eat at fancy places and never has money for important things. She expects that he will take care of her. She wants to open her own business and expects that my brother will marry her and give her the money.
The gf is now pressuring him to move in with her and get married - obviously so he can help her pay bills and because she's older and wants to start her life. My parents were immigrants and worked all their life to give us and him what little they have. (My sister and I worked and bought our own homes with 0 financial help from our parents but brother gets everything for free).
My brother spends very little time at home, won't help around the house to even cut the lawn, plays video games or watches tv when not with the gf, won't get a full time job. He has become lazy and unmotivated just like her. The gf wants the house and my brother but doesn't want my mom to live there, and is making him choose between her or my mom. My brother was always fine with living with my mom till the gf came in the picture. My mom is independant and healthy so she wouldn't be in their way and is always polite towards the gf and treats her well.
I'm at a loss for what to do. I want him to wise up and help out at home, get a full time job and be motivated again. I think the girl is a bad influence and if he marries her, he's going to spend his life taking care of her lazy behind while she does nothing. She is trying to divide him from us, so she can keep him and use him to get a free ride in life.
My 25yr old brother is the youngest and lives at home with just my mom. Mom will retire next November and it was always understood that brother will inherit the house with the stipulation he will live with and care for my parents - my dad passed away so now it's just my mom. It's a nice home worth under 1mil - we're not well off, just happened to buy when prices were low.
My mom pays his car insurance, food, house, mortgage bills etc. He pays for his gas and personal expenses. He's graduated from college 2 years ago (he started dating her a few mths before graduating), and since then has only been working 2 or 3 days a week. My mom works full time, she does double shifts sometimes on her feet all day, has to come home to cook, clean, do his laundry, shop for groceries for him etc.
Before getting with her, my brother was ambitious. He graduated college and wanted to back to school for business. He took all the extra prep courses to be eligible to get accepted into the program for Sept 2018. Now he spends all his time with the gf or playing vid games. He just told us he doesn't want to go to university anymore. He used to be close to us and now he's distant. He doesn't even speak to anyone even when we all meet up for dinner or are in the same room. He's just silent and moody. He doesn't reply to text messages or calls from anyone.
The girl is nearly 30 and doesn't have a full time job either. She graduated from college but opted to work part time and was also living at home. She got kicked out last Sept because she's lazy, and bad with money (her parents words). She doesn't cook or clean up after herself - when she comes over to my mom's house she eats and leaves her dishes and messes in the living room and walks out the door. Gf now rents a place and both of them are always together, spending money they don't have and going out to eat etc. He helps her pay her bills and buys her groceries because she can't afford it. Sometimes my brother uses my mom's cc to buy groceries to give to the gf. She likes to drink her starbucks and eat at fancy places and never has money for important things. She expects that he will take care of her. She wants to open her own business and expects that my brother will marry her and give her the money.
The gf is now pressuring him to move in with her and get married - obviously so he can help her pay bills and because she's older and wants to start her life. My parents were immigrants and worked all their life to give us and him what little they have. (My sister and I worked and bought our own homes with 0 financial help from our parents but brother gets everything for free).
My brother spends very little time at home, won't help around the house to even cut the lawn, plays video games or watches tv when not with the gf, won't get a full time job. He has become lazy and unmotivated just like her. The gf wants the house and my brother but doesn't want my mom to live there, and is making him choose between her or my mom. My brother was always fine with living with my mom till the gf came in the picture. My mom is independant and healthy so she wouldn't be in their way and is always polite towards the gf and treats her well.
I'm at a loss for what to do. I want him to wise up and help out at home, get a full time job and be motivated again. I think the girl is a bad influence and if he marries her, he's going to spend his life taking care of her lazy behind while she does nothing. She is trying to divide him from us, so she can keep him and use him to get a free ride in life.
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Re: Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member
Hello Lei,
I moved your post over to this thread because it's more in line with what you're asking about. If you scroll up through this thread you'll find lots of ideas on how to drive away the bad girlfriend. I suggest you especially look into Break Up products for ending the relationship and Cast Off Evil products for your brother so he can break away from her influence:
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
As for him regaining his ambition, check out this thread.
spells-for-personal-mastery-will-power- ... t8784.html
Take care.
I moved your post over to this thread because it's more in line with what you're asking about. If you scroll up through this thread you'll find lots of ideas on how to drive away the bad girlfriend. I suggest you especially look into Break Up products for ending the relationship and Cast Off Evil products for your brother so he can break away from her influence:
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
As for him regaining his ambition, check out this thread.
spells-for-personal-mastery-will-power- ... t8784.html
Take care.
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