Spells to Make Someone Think of Me Desire Me Be Obsessed With Me

cassiopaeia · Unread post by **cassiopaeia** » Mon Dec 19, 2016 5:03 pm

You have all my sympathy - alcoholism is a horrible disease.

Have you done any Cast Off Evil work on him? That's where I'd start, and the fact that he does occasionally say he'll get help says to me that you might have some good results with that.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Dec 20, 2016 3:11 pm

That's some great advice from cassiopaeia. Temont, I'd just emphasize that in conjunction with rootwork, he will definitely need medical help, counseling and, ideally, a strong support system including family, a church, etc. Good luck to you.

Tatiana24 · Unread post by **Tatiana24** » Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:46 pm

Hi, I was wondering if someone could please help me with my situation. I would like my boyfriend to desire me more and stop playing around and commit to me. I have done a love spell recently but I don't know if it was truly right how I done it. So now I have currently bought myself a pink Adam candle but before I use it I'm looking for what can be a really great love spell and oil to use with it. I was thinking about using "stay with me oil" or "come to me oil". I was looking for any suggestions please, really needing some help with this. I truly want this spell to really take because i kinda fear our relationship is at stake and he is the only one I truly desire and want.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jan 12, 2017 8:26 pm

Hello, Tatiana24 ,

The Lucky Mojo candles are already dressed with oils.

But, you could add a little Follow Me Boy alog with Stay With Me.

Wishing you the greatest of success

Take care

HappinessRules · Unread post by **HappinessRules** » Wed Jan 25, 2017 5:52 am

Up date me and the Taurus guy are dating hes not a scorpio and is actually 9 years younger then me not 12 years younger....hes obsessed but I want a commitment he only sees me but I want him to propose to me now as we have been seeing each other for 6 months now.

candy_ · Unread post by **candy_** » Sun Jan 29, 2017 9:06 am

Hi guys
First of all...It's a pleasure to be here. I used to view this forum for a long time but today, I finally registered
I'm here because of my situation...that is quite though
Me and my now ex partner have been apart from six months...Psychics and trustful readers said what I always felt...Our love comes from past lives...
However, we been through a lot of stuff together which got us through a major breakdown...including the loss of our baby during my pregnancy...
Lack of money and other issues...that all has made me depressed and for a long time, I refused to get help...
Those things made him lose his trust on me...and he's a very proud guy as well...
So I was wondering...would a redskull spell cause obsession on him to make he not forget about me? I want to be in his thoughts 24/7, so eventually...that will break his pride and he will contact me...We are actually in touch but about very very brief things
If so, how can I perform this spell (or is that a spell I can perform by myself, since I'm not experienced?)
Otherwise, is the intranquil spell recommendable in my case?
And same questions...Can I and how can I perform it?
Any advice would be really appreciated it. I really want to cause obsession on him...all trustful and reputable readers say we are meant to be
Thanks a lot guys!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jan 29, 2017 11:22 pm

Hello, candy_

Welcome to the forum!!

I have moved your post to the obsession thread ad there are 7 pages of wonderful spell ideas.

I personally do not like working with an entity from hell but, if you want to, here is the page:

www.luckymojo.com/intranquility.html

After reading the 7 pages here, if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask us

Wishing you the very best with your spell work

Take care

candy_ · Unread post by **candy_** » Mon Jan 30, 2017 2:12 am

Thanks a lot, Miss Aida! Is this the one? (the obsession thread)
I'm new here so learning still, I apologise.
Thank you!

HappinessRules · Unread post by **HappinessRules** » Tue Jan 31, 2017 4:21 am

Hi I have asked questions on a relationship previously before on here, And we have seen each other allot but I messed up and now hes backing off. Anyways what I wanted to know is that Ive done so much work on this and now I would like a spell from lucky mojo what would be my best option or what spell should I go for with this, I would like me and him to be together to be secure in this relationship and the love to never die out. But marriage is my main direction.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 31, 2017 9:34 pm

Hello, candy_ ,

Yes it is!

Take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 31, 2017 9:35 pm

Hello, HappinessRules ,

If you : "messed up", then you have to do healing spells first

Then, go back to your love work

Wishing you the best

Take care

Realdaddy2005 · Unread post by **Realdaddy2005** » Fri Feb 24, 2017 12:29 am

I lit just the reconciliation incense powder and I dominate my woman incense powder. I been litting it since Feb 21. Can I use cimminon to heat up the spell. What spells I can use to get my wife to fall deeply in love with me forever and move in with me.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Feb 25, 2017 4:57 pm

Hello Realdaddy2005,

Lighting incense by itself isn't much of a spell, especially lighting incense for only four days. Spellwork takes *time* to work. I'd suggest you check you this page about Reconciliation products: you'll find lots of spellwork ideas there:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

You can also scroll up through this thread for more ideas about spells to make someone desire you.

Take care.

HappinessRules · Unread post by **HappinessRules** » Sat Feb 25, 2017 11:36 pm

Stubborn Taurus guy wont get over the fact I accidently "huffed" when he called but I do like him I don't know why I reacted like that moving on from that issue he hasn't forgive and I don't know how to get him in my good books.

I feel like I'm exhausted from doing so much work this guy is stubborn...maybe I should walk away. But I like him so much.

Any suggestions?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Feb 27, 2017 11:25 am

Hello HappinessRules,

If things are tense/strained between the two of you from an argument, you could try doing Reconciliation work:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

But I can also hear that you're getting weary of this situation. If the time has come that you've done all this work and he's just not budging, perhaps it's time to do a Cut & Clear spell and move on.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Take care.

RedAngel · Unread post by **RedAngel** » Thu Mar 02, 2017 12:08 pm

Hi all,

My first time here. Couple of questions. If I don't have any of my exs concerns, can I use my clothing I only wore with him (like garters or underwear, but have since been washed). Also, won't adding clothing to a jar block the photos? Can't I leave clothing out all together? I can't get his hair or nails. Another thought, can I spray my perfume or rub my lotion inside the jar? I'm drying catnip in a book right now to put between his photos, is that right? Or does it go in the jar? I was thinking of putting cinnamon n sugar in there too. I've also been saving my secretions from thinking of us together n letting it dry into a container I cleaned with sea salt water. I had an idea of playing music to the jar, like you would to a baby in a belly, that had significance to us. Is that a good idea? Coz I know when I hear the songs I think of him.

Any help is appreciated.
Much love
Redangel

Unread post by **natstein** » Thu Mar 02, 2017 5:05 pm

Hello RedAngel,

With out personal concerns you are going to have a harder time making the link to your target with the spell. No unfortunately your own clothes will not work for this. If you do come across some of his clothing then you do not have to put the whole piece into the jar. Just cut a small piece off that would fit comfortably in the jar. You can use catnip in a love jar, between the photos or just in the jar is kind of personal preference and may vary from worker to worker. The perfume or lotion in the jar is not a bad idea of it is a scent that you know he enjoyed when he was around you. For your secretions you might want to use those on candles you have named for your target. I like the idea of playing meaningful music to your jar.

I do want to say since it seems you are very new to this kind of work I would try to keep your first attempts simple. You might want to start with a spell kit from Lucky Mojo. You can look them over here (http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html). They come with clear instructions and have everything you will need to do the work.

Peace~

Nathen

RedAngel · Unread post by **RedAngel** » Thu Mar 02, 2017 5:26 pm

Thank you so much for your quick response natstein. I'll look into the kits! I never kept anything of his but he has stuff of mine. The times you regret not keeping his shirt!

RedAngel · Unread post by **RedAngel** » Fri Mar 03, 2017 11:21 am

Would a rock from his driveway be something I could use instead of a personal concern? He's driven on it, walked on it. I know many others have, including myself, but it's his property.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Mar 04, 2017 8:09 pm

Hello, RedAngel ,

It is not really a direct personal concern. But it could work.

Just depends if any of his energies are on it.

You'll have to take a chance on it

Take care

aprilthompson123 · Unread post by **aprilthompson123** » Tue Mar 07, 2017 5:51 pm

I would like to know what I need to get my wife to be crazy,madly and deeply in love with me forever. I want her to be permanently obsession with me . What I do

RedAngel · Unread post by **RedAngel** » Tue Mar 07, 2017 11:38 pm

Something very odd happened while I was cleaning my room. I found the bag of my clothing he gave me from his house that I'd been avoiding going through. At the bottom of the bag was one single hair. It's not mine, it's not his cats (three of her hairs were on my clothes so I could compare) if I use this single hair and it's oddly someone else's, am I safe? I'm assuming, right now, that it's his.

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Mar 08, 2017 7:47 pm

Hello RedAngel,

If it is not his then you will likley have someone else thinking of you but I doubt it would be particularly strong since you would not have the right name and such to go with it.

Peace~

Nathen

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Mar 08, 2017 7:54 pm

Hello aprilthompson123,

I would read through this thread to get an idea of how this work is done and then when you have an idea of how you want to proceed feel free to ask questions for clarification.

Peace~

Nathen

RedAngel · Unread post by **RedAngel** » Fri Mar 10, 2017 10:17 am

Ok thank you so much Nathen. You've been very helpful

Scarred · Unread post by **Scarred** » Sat Mar 18, 2017 8:19 am

Is it possible to work multiple picture boxes at once on the same target for different reasons, or even multiple boxes on different people at the same time, or should all the energy be put into one single box?
I want to make one for my ex, to make her realize the mistake she made in leaving. We were engaged and were actively trying to have a child. So I was thinking of using pictures of me smiling, pictures of us, our engagement pictures, and things like that. For personal affects, I have letters she had written to me and some clothes she had worn, but have been washed (I think at most there is a pair of socks that hadn't been washed). I have intranquility oil, but that's it for the oils. I can get different herbs from the store (cinnamon, sugar, honey, etc), and buy a rose to use some of the petals with.
Construction would be to line the box with all of the pictures I can. Take her pictures, use the honey as glue, put her personal affects between them along with any herbs I have, and seal them together with a piece of yarn or ribbon between them. Do the five spot with the oil on both pictures, and run the ribbon through a small hole in the lid. Seal it all up, light a tea light on it and pray over it and talk to is as much as I feel I need to. Or did I miss a step?

Unread post by **natstein** » Sun Mar 19, 2017 6:58 am

Hello Scarred,

To your first question, Yes you can do as many picture boxes as you want at once. Having multiple picture boxes on the the same person for different things may get a bit confusing for that person and for yourself but otherwise there is no reason you can't try it ans see how it works.

For the box you are describing making everything sounds fine to me except for your choice of oil and the washed clothes. Washed clothes just are not going to be an effective link so go with the unwashed socks, and If you use intraquility oil she will become intraquil or upset while thinking about you all the time. I would recommend getting some Reconciliation (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) or Return To Me (http://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html) oils to include in there. The Cinnamon, Sugar, an honey combo sounds perfect.

Peace~

Nathen

Scarred · Unread post by **Scarred** » Sun Mar 19, 2017 8:20 am

In looking through the love letters she had sent to me before, on one of them she left a kiss imprint in lipstick. It's old, but still a kiss imprint. How effective of a link would that be?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Mar 19, 2017 8:54 pm

Hello, Scarred

That's a Great link !!

Take care

Aurora1 · Unread post by **Aurora1** » Wed Apr 05, 2017 2:35 am

So..I got a reading and it cleared some things up. (Jealous people) I am waiting on an order from the LM shop but I think this would be a good start. The reader said that the "fire is dying down" so I'm thinking a picture box would be a good idea until I get my order.

I have a pink box and I was going to glue a bunch of pictures of myself in and then hang a picture of him to twirl around on a red string with a piece of his hair tied into the string.As of right now I have cinnamon, rosemary, sugar, anise seed and oil, and I also have some calamus root that I thought would be a good idea for now. (After I receive my order I'm thinking I make a new box with the ingredients I ordered).

Is this a good start to "keep the flame lit". I will also do a honey jar once all my stuff is here but I wanted to get started asap. Any other suggestions for starters would be great. Thank you for any help!!!

Scarred · Unread post by **Scarred** » Wed Apr 05, 2017 8:49 am

I want to jump back to this topic after a few weeks to ask another questions as I wait for my order. I'm attacking the situation from multiple angles, instead of relying on one thing to get me to succeed in my goals.

I'm going to make a picture box for a doll baby I am making for my ex (I'm a male, she a female). Is it appropriate to also print out texts and various things she had written to me and about me to line the box with, along with pictures of us? The things are little love stories, or long texts about how much she loves me, things like that.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Apr 05, 2017 10:17 am

I think those can be applied effectively, if used in an artful way that does not block any of the faces in the pictures!

dillpickle · Unread post by **dillpickle** » Wed Apr 05, 2017 10:20 am

I wouldn't see why not. The picture box will essentially be like a doll house for your doll baby. Filling it up with pictures and loving words shared between you two seems like a fitting way to make the box feel more like a home for the dolly and not just a box.

Scarred · Unread post by **Scarred** » Fri Apr 14, 2017 7:14 pm

Back with one more question now that I have the majority of what I need to make the box and doll babies; just waiting on my order of oils to come in.

I have reread this thread, and the threads on doll babies to get ready for it, but there is some conflicting information. This thread says that you should never reopen a picture box once you make it, and it should stay sealed forever. The doll baby threads say that a good method for storing them when you aren't working them is in a picture box; meaning you would have to open and close the picture box.
My question is, which one is it? Or is that in the case of doll babies, a picture box is more of a home for them, instead of the picture box being the main spell itself but more of a backup to the doll baby so it is constantly being worked by either myself or the picture box?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Apr 15, 2017 8:10 pm

Hello, Scarred ,

I LOVE the way that you think! And I LOVE your questions!

A picture box as a separate spell ought not be opened.

But, if you've made one just for storage of the doll (and that's what I do when performing love work for clients), it's fine to remove it. In fact, I make a little makeshift bed in there for the doll.

I hope this helps

Wishing you success with your magic

Take care

nino_x3 · Unread post by **nino_x3** » Sat May 13, 2017 9:19 am

Hello there I'm having a current situation where I have been putting love products on my target for me and him and break up products on him and that female dog me and are not romantically involved yet I was not seeing anything I'm not doubting my work last years work was good back in September 2015 sorry I know it wasn't last year I'm going by school years but this year was a different rodeo he went to another school I was devastated long story short I was surprised to see him on my graduation today my question is what one candle could I use for all three of us I was thinking about something with a controlling nature I want my target to fall in love with and leave that female dog for me

nino_x3 · Unread post by **nino_x3** » Sat May 13, 2017 9:28 am

He's a tab bit resistant

Unread post by **natstein** » Sat May 13, 2017 7:44 pm

Hello nino_x3

First you please please have to use some punctuation so I know where your sentences start an stop. This is almost impossible to read.

I would recommend starting with Follow Me Boy spell kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html) and see how that works.

Peace~

Nathen

Shanshan13 · Unread post by **Shanshan13** » Sun May 14, 2017 8:31 am

Hi everyone I'm new to luckymojo and wanted some friendly advice and help.
How can I use these products to get the desire that I want?,
What candle work would I have to use with the products also
Very urgent help.
My sons father the love of my life and I have been on very bad terms for a while he is seeing other females and doesn't give me the time of day anymore.i want to use these products in order to enhance his love for me so that we can be together

nino_x3 · Unread post by **nino_x3** » Sun May 14, 2017 4:02 pm

I tried it back here and he stays in a different county

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon May 15, 2017 3:54 pm

Hello Shanshan13,

I merged your post into a thread that deals with the topic of your question, Please do not start new threads, your post was initially in an area that has nothing to do with spell work and no one else would have been able to find or learn from your question. I would read over this thread to get an idea of how these types of products are used.

There is a candle specific to this line of products that you can purchase for your self or have set on your behalf. IF you read over this page it will also give a starting point on how these products are used.

Peace~

Nathen

Sana · Unread post by **Sana** » Thu Jun 15, 2017 1:45 pm

Hello,

I've read the posts saying not to open a picture box.

I made one, which really helped, and then I made a honey jar, which is working amazingly. I just took out the picture box again, and noticed a corner of the foil was ripped, exposing the box. Can I remove the foil and recover it with a new sheet?

Doing that, I now have concerns of my target. I know people don't normally open up the boxes. But if I uncover it to recover it, is it okay to open and add the hair in?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:53 pm

Hello, Sana

I would just reinforce it with more foil rather than removing the foil

Also, no, I wouldn't open it. It's better to start a new one and have 2 of them going

Take care

Sana · Unread post by **Sana** » Thu Jun 15, 2017 11:32 pm

Ok, will do. Thank you so much

DnMe · Unread post by **DnMe** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:40 pm

Hey all guys.

OK! i read somewhere on the internet some kind of spell to make someone to think of Me.
i did put a picture of my Target on a Mirror facing inward and my picture at the back facing inward too!
while i am making it i am chanting " you will think of me (name of the target)
i anoint it the picture with FOLLOW ME BOY OIL & Come To Me Oil,

something happen Weird after i anoint the Oils.
when im done and the oil are all over HIS picture
His Picture shows up as it was looking at me.

I dont know its kinda wierd bcoz i taped His Picture facing inwards but after the oil went all over his Picture he was Facing on me.

What is that mean??

Thank you for anyone who will reply.

DnMe

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jul 22, 2017 11:07 am

Hello, DnMe »,

Sounds like a good sign

Take care

DnMe · Unread post by **DnMe** » Sat Jul 22, 2017 11:13 am

Thank you for reply Miss Aida..

im so happy about the result

Should i make a Honey jar to combined with this.

we are both speaking on and off i know He is so busy with his Job and His personal things
but i really like him to be more in contact and i want the relationship to moved in a serious level.
Any advice is very much appreciated.

Thank you so much LM.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Jul 22, 2017 2:41 pm

Hello DnMe,

I think a honey jar would be great for this situation. Here is a page where you can learn more about them:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Take care.

DnMe · Unread post by **DnMe** » Sat Jul 22, 2017 2:53 pm

Thank you Sister Jean.

thank you LM, i ordered Lodestone and etc. but i will work on making a honey jar to combined on my first kit.

So happy!

love-to-love · Unread post by **love-to-love** » Thu Jul 27, 2017 3:01 pm

Hi. Can anyone help me with this kind of spell? I'm new here and I really need this spell. Does this work for a long distance relationship? My fiance is currently working in another country for a month now for our future. I don't doubt his love for me. But I kinda feel very anxious lately to the point of imagining things like what if the distance between us can ruin our 4year relationship.Plus the fact that his workmates are always partying inside their apartment with other girls. He might be tempted and the thought of it makes me unavailable for my activities and job. I need a spell that will make him think of me and focus on our goals. He will be there for a year. And I don't think I can buy oils or herbs because I'm from Asia. Anything simple spell that might help me get through with this for a year. Please.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jul 27, 2017 7:06 pm

Hi love-to-love,

Yes, spells can work from a distance. This thread is full of ideas on how to construct a picture box to get your target to think of you. Please read through it and if you still have questions, you can ask them here.

Also, if you are concerned about any rivals for your target's affection, you can put them in a freezer spell. Please search the forum using the little search box in the upper right hand corner and you will find the right thread on freezer spells. This can help to freeze other women out of your target's life while he is away from you.

Lucky Mojo ships products to customers around the world so you should still be able to order from them. You can contact the shop for more details about shipping to you in Asia. The email address to use is order@luckymojo.com

I hope this helps. Good luck.

love-to-love · Unread post by **love-to-love** » Fri Jul 28, 2017 3:03 pm

Thank you so much Miss Athena!

love-to-love · Unread post by **love-to-love** » Sat Jul 29, 2017 4:20 pm

Okay, about my concern above, what things I need to purchase if I want him to stay faithful to me while working abroad? I know he never cheated on me but the situation now is different because we are so far from each other and temptations are strong. How can I make his co-workers to be a good influence to him and not to bring girls in their flat because they live together.

I know he is also stress by the new environment, and he had this attitude to focus on the things he presently in. I can sense that he's out of focus again to why he was there because of our future and for our child. He's so stress that he just want to think of resting and socializing against his will with their visitors so he would not be depress.

He lost weight. I know it's hard for him and hard for me too. And is affecting both our work. How can I make him stay focus on our goals and not let anyone distract him about it? This situation is making me depressed and anxious for many of our friends with same career that goes abroad end up separating.

By the way he is a musician. He's with a band with four of them we already knew and two are new members. We are so inlove with each other but the distance now seems to make us so stress and depress plus the agony of loneliness makes it so hard for him to focus on me. He is focusing now on how to blend and be belong to his environment. Burning all his energy. Sometimes I feel it's not the same anymore. I wanna hold on to this but I need him to put effort too.

I have his unwashed tshirt with me and other things because we live together. Maybe this can help also with the work. And by the way, I dominate the relationship from the very beginning because I am older. But now, because his focus is not on me, I cannot dominate him anymore. I'm afraid to do it because it might add pressure on him. Help me please.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Jul 29, 2017 5:18 pm

Hi love-to-love,

Please do not post in a solid block of text as it is impossible to read. I had to edit your post into paragraphs.

The advice I gave you above to put love rivals into a freezer spell can help prevent other women from gaining ground with him. Since you have his t-shirt, you can make a doll baby with it and work that to keep his mind on you. Search the thread for doll babies and you will find lots of advice on how to do that.

You can also work red skull candles on him, dressed with Influence and any of the love oils like Love Me and Stay With Me, to keep his mind on you. Again, search the forum for skull candles and you can see how to work them.
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-love-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-stay-with-me.html

If you truly feel at a loss on what else to do (and trust me, this should be enough spellwork to help you), then get a reading from a reputable reader who can give you more insight into your relationship and advise you on other steps to take. Since you live in Asia, you can find someone here who conducts readings and coaching by email:
www.hoodoopsychics.com
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

I hope this helps. Good luck.

love-to-love · Unread post by **love-to-love** » Sun Jul 30, 2017 1:27 am

Miss Athena

I'm sorry that you have to edit my text. This is just my first time to join a forum like this. Thank you by the way for understanding and giving time to answer my questions. I will update as soon as I can. You are very kind and I appreciate your time for me.

Realdaddy2005 · Unread post by **Realdaddy2005** » Thu Sep 21, 2017 2:51 pm

What spell material will i need to make a woman extremely obsessed with me forever. I know followme girl and fire of love . but there is not a spel kit for it

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Sep 22, 2017 8:30 am

Hello Realdaddy2005,

I don't think there is a spell out there that will guarantee that someone will stay "extremely obsessed" with you forever. However, Follow Me Girl and Fire of Love are powerful products to use, and you don't have to use them in spell kits to see those effects. If you go to the pages for those products, you'll find lots of spells you can do with them:

http://www.luckymojo.com/followmegirl.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html

If you scroll up through this subforum, you'll find lots more ideas for spellwork.

Good luck to you.

awlookatmenow · Unread post by **awlookatmenow** » Tue Sep 26, 2017 6:31 pm

I Wanna Do Some Work On This Guy But We Stay In To Different States How Do I Get His Attention To Call Me Or Text Me If We Never Had Any Contact

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Sep 27, 2017 6:27 am

Hello, awlookatmenow,

You may want to try attraction spells followed by come to me spells

www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

I hope this helps

Take care

witchywoman1313 · Unread post by **witchywoman1313** » Mon Oct 02, 2017 5:08 am

I'm interested in doing one of these on my target but I had a few questions first.
1. Since we aren't really on much of a speaking term right now (every couple weeks he'll send a short text) while he's with the other woman, would Follow Me Boy oil still be a good oil to anoint on his picture for the box along with come to me? Any other ideas for LM oils are welcomed also

I am thinking of using the following herbs: calamus, damiana, catnip, rose petals, and either ginger or cinnamon.

2. If I end up using a bottle instead of a box, can I start it out with a loaded vigil to keep heat on it for the first week I have it? Also what candle colors would be most appropriate? I was thinking purple(domination), red(passion/lust). Also, can you work a bottle spell using only 2 different color candles at the same time or is it better to use 3?

3. Are the herbs supposed to go in between his 2 photos along with his personal concerns or just in the bottle?

Thanks

This sounds so fun!