Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by coco216 » Tue Feb 09, 2016 11:17 pm

I've been dating the man I love since high school so it's been 6 years for us. It was more than just a relationship however he was my diary, my best friend and we did everything together. His family seems to have complete control over his life. Here we are all grown up with a child and they still have a big role to play in what goes on between us. We recently broke up because of them and now they are convincing him to leave us behind and pursue his career in another state which means the next time he sees us our child will be 3 and won't know who he is. I feel like I have no win against them. He knows how they are he's just afraid to speak his mind. It's kind of like tug of war he doesn't want to have to choose between us and them but I don't want him too. I've recently had a reading done and I know that he loves me but I don't know why he is destined to be like his father. His mother left his dad to raise him when he was an arm baby but he didn't really raise him either, his grandmother did. The most he learned from his dad is how to use condoms and keep multiple women. I broke him out of all the things his dad influenced on him even got him to move in but he got a call from them everyday saying he needs to move back home etc. I love him with all my heart and I want our family more than anything but right now I feel like there nothing I can do to change the way they made him feel about me. They always did had something against me seemingly they told him to get a blood test for our child because they didn't know me but the grandmother only went by what his dad said but he lied because we conceived our child under his roof he knew me very well. His dad has convinced him not to love and be with just me but turned around and got married. He's leaving really soon to go and I just don't know what to do anymore.

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by CaptainConjure » Tue Feb 09, 2016 11:37 pm

Hi Coco216,

It sounds like you have a lot on your plate. I would start with a honey jar for you & him. Also another jar for you & his family. Secondly, I would follow the Honey jars with a "Stay with me spell kit" .

http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... ve-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... -home.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/stay-with-me-s ... -large.jpg


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Unread post by mizjoannlee » Wed Feb 10, 2016 4:57 pm

coco216

I recommend you work some self-care into your conjure work, like Blessing and Crucible of Courage. Being a young mother with unsupportive and gossipy relatives is tough. Perhaps you could add some Stop Gossip work on the relatives to keep peace with the family. You could make a little dolly or get a figural candle for each one of them and baptize it to their name with whiskey in the name of Jesus Christ and put Stop Gossip oil on it reciting Psalms 14, 31, 36, or 37.
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Unread post by coco216 » Wed Feb 10, 2016 8:06 pm

Thank you both, I'm really looking forward to trying these things out. When i love, i love hard so it's becoming difficult for me to just stand by and let this happen. I never could walk away without a fight but i felt like i've fought long and hard enough. So atleast i know If they don't work then maybe it's just not meant to be.

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Unread post by amberandviolets » Sun Mar 26, 2017 5:54 pm

I'm looking for suggestions on how to draw my ideal mate. The past couple months I've done a lot of reflecting on myself and my previous relationships, especially in how much I've given of myself to my partners without getting much back. Some members may not believe in these concepts but I'm an empath, a Scorpio, and have this very strong instinct to help people. I don't give up on people and so obviously I've had a lot of people use me up, take me for granted and been hurt. I've also put aside a lot of my wants and needs for what I thought was the betterment of my partner and the relationship.

By the way, I've done a lot of work on myself. I've let go of a lot of that past pain, resentment, anger and heartbreak. Ultimately all I want is a man I'm compatible with to eventually marry and start a family. I want a normal, mundane life with my love and family, complete with little tiffs over who's turn it is to take out the garbage or who has to pick up the kids from school. I'm not one of those women who is obsessed with the idea of being married. Finding the right man for me is the focus, not finding just ANY man to marry and have kids with.

So far I've written a list of qualities I want in my ideal mate and it's almost 5 pages long. I know that might sound really over the top but I've been reading a lot of posts in this forum and one suggestion that is consistently given is to be as specific as possible. Be assured though that the majority of what I've written focuses on his character and how I want him to treat me and love me. I'm not at all focused on looks, him being super duper rich, his status etc. I honestly don't care about that crap. I just wouldn't want to meet a man who has all the qualities I've listed but then find out he's a closet racist or misogynist or some other kind of deal breaker for me. Everything in my list is the way I treat the person I love and the things I would do for them. Like I said, I want a male version of me.

Though at the same time, I am a little concerned that I'm being too specific and that I'm ultimately describing the "perfect man." I swear, I'm not looking for perfection. I'm not perfect, I know no man will be. I know we'll have our own kinds of problems, obstacles and life will throw us curve balls. I'm very realistic on that front. But I figure if I exist then there has to be someone else out there like me, probably looking for me just like I'm looking for him. I'm not sure how to express that in my petition or to whatever angels, saints, spirits etc that I might ask for assistance. I guess I'm hoping they'll see that part in my heart. Am I being naive? Is there a way to express that in the spell?

Here's the jist of what I want in no particular order:

- A supportive, loving, determined man with a truly good heart, strong character with morals who values honesty, loyalty and family with similar hobbies/interests as me.
- Someone who appreciates that I'm different from most people and accepts me for who I am and loves me unconditionally.
- A man who is healthy mentally, emotionally, and physically, no STIs, no addictions.
- A man who isn't afraid of commitment, wants a deep true love and a life-long committed monogamous relationship with me and for us to start a family together once it's the right time for us.
- A man who is stable financially. He doesn't have to make millions but I'd like for him to have steady work (obviously I'd prefer for it to be something he genuinely enjoys or gets personal satisfaction from), his own car and his own place to live. Basically that he has his life together and wants to share his time, money and life with me.
- Someone who I'm compatible with sexually. I want a sexually fulfilling relationship.
- A man who is open spiritually and doesn't look down on me for practicing my beliefs.
- Preferrably a man who is within 5 years of my current age when we meet.

I'm going to work on making the master list I have more concise without losing it's specification. Once I do that, I'm not entirely sure how to proceed. I've read the love spells offered on this site but many seem to be directed at a specific target. I know I want to leave it open so I can find my true ideal mate. Here is what I have on hand for use in the spell:

Bride and Groom candles in White, Pink, Red
Come to Me Oil
Love Me Oil
Follow Me Boy Oil
Attraction Oil
Stay With Me Oil
Fire of Love Oil
Chuparrosa Oil
Pink clothed Adam figural candle
Road Opener Oil
Block Buster Oil
Block Buster Herb Mix
Nine Love Herbs dressed with Nine Love Oils

I've read Cleo May can help with attracting a nice, financially stable man. I've also read Jezebel Root can help with that.

Is there anything else I should order to help achieve the best results? Any herbs that can help with any particular aspects of what I want? Any saints, spirits, angels etc that I can call on for help? Are there any spells maybe members here have done for this purpose that can share what worked for them? I've been looking for similar spells online so I can customize it for me but aside from the general love spells and ones that focus on a specific target, I haven't had much luck. Especially when it comes to spells with a petition of the qualities I want in a mate.

The biggest problem I'm having with this spell is the HOW to do it. Usually after researching I have an instinctual pull on how to go about the work I want to do. This time I think I'm getting a little overwhelmed with information.

I know this was a long read but I wanted to give you all the details. Thanks in advance.

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Unread post by loabeliever » Mon Mar 27, 2017 12:18 pm

Hi amberandviolets,

I do believe it's important to address what you want but at the same time if your list is so long and specific the universe will probably bring it to you but like your list it will take a long time before manifestation. Just my thought:

As a Scorpio I can see how you can have a whole list of what you want, I am sure you are very clear and focused on your desire and what you want . However based on experience with my spells and the spells on this site,
It's safe to say the spell is what you make it. (Old lover or new lover) It's the intentions you are putting into the spell.

Make it a beautiful experience for yourself. Since you are researching so much it's understandable why you are overwhelmed. I don't think you are naive I don't know what your situation is, but honestly your list does seem very to the point. Not that it's a bad thing but it's definitely a lot, and quite frankly looks like THY perfect mate. I hope you get what you are looking for but why not just look for 5/7 things that ultimately matter the most? I mean really matters. What if you could only have 5/7 qualities in a man ? What would those be?

Ex: loves me for all of me, committed in all aspects , stable, lives a healthy lifestyle, mature, and sexually satisfying.

As for what you can do depends. I would first work to find someone before burning and bride and groom for marriage.

Come to me, love me,attraction oil and fire of love can be good to attract men.

Idk what kind of herbs are in the love herb mix but I would add rose pedals, catnip, damiana, violet leaves, and queen Elizabeth root. Once you find a man of your liking maybe use the stay with me and bride and groom candle at that point but I would focus on just finding a man you have a good connection with after which you will realize whether or not he is a good fit for you.

Best of luck.

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Unread post by amberandviolets » Mon Mar 27, 2017 4:48 pm

Oh yes, I wasn't planning on using the bride and groom candles anytime soon, I just thought I'd include that I have them in here in case anyone suggested something like that.

I am trying to pair my list down and basically what you said is what it all boils down to. I'm just naturally a lengthy writer which is part of the problem, as you probably noticed from my post haha.

I know I can use those oils but I'm having a really hard time figuring out what my spell should actually look like, the way to build it. The Love Herb Mix contains Rose Petals, Red Clover, Catnip, Lavender, Damiana, Cubeb Berries, Juniper Berries, Gentian Root, and Deer's Tongue according to the Lucky Mojo catalog. I also ordered Balm of Gilead which the site does say it eases a broken heart, soothes pain from arguments and spats, jealous people but I could have sworn I read somewhere else that it eases the broken heart but also draws new love to you. I can't find that now though.

This spell that I want to create is solely for finding a man I can share a true, committed, very long-term love with a deep mental connection that has certain qualities so my needs are met. I'm very determined to follow the normal stages of growth for the relationship without rushing to marriage and kids. Like I said, finding the right guy is the goal. He's not someone I'm using to fill the "position" of husband and father to my children.

If anyone has suggestions on how I can build this spell I would love to hear them. I have most of the items needed for the work I think, it's just a matter of putting them to use in the correct way for my goal.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Mon Mar 27, 2017 9:48 pm

Hello, amberandviolets ,

Yes, that was VERY lengthy post. Please be conscientious of what you are writing (as hijacking a thread is not allowed) as the moderators have many posts to answer.

Honestly, I think you're asking too much for one spell

This ought to be sequential, in my opinion.

I would perform an attraction spell with the love herbs and ask for the perfect mate for you. Asking for the perfect mate then saves you time on all the specifics of what you want.

http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

And this may have to be performed anywhere from one to a couple of times. If there's a problem with the first spell, you may need a blockbuster or a road opener. Then, repeating the spell.

Then go to the next phase. But to perform all of this at one time is

And Loabeliever is absolutely correct in her opinions.

Just my two cents..

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Unread post by amberandviolets » Mon Mar 27, 2017 11:08 pm

I'm sorry I didn't know that long posts were a problem. I was trying to give all the information to save time. A lot of the time, I see people reply with "do this or that" and then the person has to explain several times that they've already tried it or they've done the self work that was prescribed etc. Then no one answers about what else can be done now that X and Y methods have already been exhausted. People just think that person's question has been answered when in fact it hasn't. Also, I poured over this post looking for anything that would work for my situation BEFORE I posted. Just a couple posts above mine is someone recommending self-work. My post was long but I was trying to address everything in one post so I wouldn't get the same answers that were previously posted and not applicable to me. I wanted people to understand where I was coming from and that I was serious about the time, effort, energy and actual work that was going to go into such a large working.

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Unread post by loabeliever » Tue Mar 28, 2017 7:02 am

Amberandviolet,

This forum has a lot of information. I am sure you will find what you are looking for, just don't overthink and don't over complicate. Your posts are long and maybe you should get a reading or professional worker to help you determine how you should start so your not worried and a reader can give you insight directly based on your situation.

-make it simple but meaningful. A simple love bath, a candle dressed in herbs, a mojo bag. I mean it's endless... just start when you won't second guess what you are doing. Pick what you like and do that it's all in you.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue Mar 28, 2017 10:52 am

Some great advice from loabeliever!
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Unread post by Kyla » Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:22 am

Hi!
Thank you all for the useful tips through other people questions. I hope that I am on the right thread for this question. I see that I need an attraction spell to draw my true love but i feel i might need something to fix me first. About a year and a half ago I went through a break up and spent the past period of time recovering. I am now in a happy mentally healthy state and am looking to draw a true companion. So far I have had read through some really great things about manifesting this, however, I am wanting to work on myself before manifesting someone I am not ready for. I would like to know if there is anything I can work on my self for the actual desire to date and readiness for true love?
I know how silly that must sound, so I hope I portrayed this accurately. I get out with my girl friends, I work, and I am social but I am completely lacking the desire to actually date. During my last spell I happened to add in that I didnt want the desire to date, and well now I want that desire so I can adequately preform my true love spell and be open to receiving my gift.
If this is just something I need to work out myself(non magical) then than you very much for your time.

Thank you for the help!
Love,
Kyla

one last thing, I know that this is part of my spell because I can constantly feel it working. It has worked like a true charm, I have had several magical blunders (all self induced) but i dont want that last spell to quit working, i just want that revised/fixed if you will. So if there is a good way to going about getting ready for true love I am all ears.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue Jun 27, 2017 11:45 am

Hello Kyla,

I think a good place for you to start would be to try and figure out *why* you were/are turned off by dating.

Do you feel afraid to get out and meet new people? Try Crucible of Courage products:

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Do you feel like you aren't comfortable with yourself and your femininity? (Your post sounded like you were female, pardon me if I'm wrong.) Then try working with some Queen Elizabeth Root products:

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-queen ... -root.html
http://www.herbmagic.com/queen-elizabeth-root.html

If you feel like a flame from the past is sidetracking you, try working the Cut & Clear spell kit:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cut-and-clear.html

See, there are a couple different ways you could go. Perhaps a reading could help you determine what you really need to focus on. You can find reputable readers here:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

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Unread post by Kyla » Tue Jun 27, 2017 12:48 pm

I performed that Clear and cut spell, at the end of the spell I asked God to take the desire to date till I was stable in my life and material world (cause I have a huge problem with getting wrapped up in love and letting my business fall to the ground) or to feel desperate running after guys to date.
About 6 months ago I came to a pentacle point of not only me being disgusted with dating but I would look down on my friends in disgust for them being "boy crazy". I even got to a point where i could find just about ANY reason to not go on a date or accept a date. So in the non magical world i realized this was an issue and I went to work this out. I no longer feel these strong urges of disgust with dating but i still lack the desire to give ANYONE a shot.
I personally dont have self esteem issues, no exs worry me, Im stable in my life and i do very much desire a mate/soul mate/true love. I just know I am not gonna find him even if I do the love spell if I dont do something about the blockage of even getting out into the dating world.
I read "Doing Magic" by Genevieve Davis and she explains my primary issue of not being in the "receiving" state of magic. So far everything i have desired to manifest I really have been able to. i just know that if I ask for my soul mate now I'll wind up missing him because i know for certain i am not ready to receive him. I do apologize if this is too much in a question forum to answer I was just giving it a shot.

i guess i thought, if there are spells to make someone else fall in love then there could be a spell to help myself fall in love**

I have an reader with AIRR, Valentina Burton, That is amazing to work with if that is best?

Love,
kyla

ps i do love what you suggested, as I believe it will help not only in this but other parts of my life as well.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Tue Jun 27, 2017 9:23 pm

Hello, Kyla ,

This is getting complicated for the forum so, I highly suggest what you already suggested: talk to Valentina Burton. She will help you!

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Unread post by Temont » Fri Aug 25, 2017 4:57 pm

Good evening! So glad to find this thread. I wanted to do some work this weekend. I'm going to do some healing and I have a meeting scheduled with Ms. Yronwode but it's a little far out. What would you do with a twin flame who you want to keep around? The two of us fit together but we scrap and get into arguments even when we are on the same side and we're saying the same thing. It's weird. But the good times are sooooo good. Anyone ever dealt with this?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Aug 26, 2017 8:18 am

Hello, Temont ,

It is very rare to meet your twin flame in life.

And, yes, it will cause A LOT of spiritual confusion when one is around their twin flame. Things like: saying the same things (as you had just discussed); thinking the same thing; having the same events happen almost at the exact same time (example: getting an identical health problem); too much shared energy that causes tension, etc.

Be careful. If this is a true twin flame, they will know that you have placed spells on them!

I would recommend:

www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

Also, tranquility will also help alleviate all that extra energy shared by the 2 of you

www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

Good luck!

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Unread post by Temont » Sat Aug 26, 2017 10:07 am

Thank you so much. I hope you've been doing well.

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Unread post by ZVB23 » Wed Aug 30, 2017 4:16 am

Hello Lucky Mojo,

There's someone I've loved deeply for the past 3 years. We were strangers at first, I honestly didn't think I had a chance with someone like him. But we somehow became friends as classmates (specifically job corps). Most of our interaction was in class, things went from casual to a sort of secret love for each other, despite that I was held back by another relationship (which was ultimately toxic & ended, but well). Fast forward through working together, intimate talks, & funny memories to me asking him out in the summer after graduation. Despite my behavior at times (friending & unfriending, gushing over photos then deleting-all over anxiety from having to hide my feelings for him) he said yes to the date. But it went terribly, I could barely talk or move, prompting him to do the same, & ultimately ran home without a proper goodbye. Letting my nerves get to me left me completely torn; I wanted to reconcile, but he ultimately shut me out. It's been 2.5 years since, with less than a handful of contact. But this year he's talked to me a bit, even if months/weeks inbetween; also finally accepting a friend request online. He even moved back to the area in April, after seeking a new life & lover in Oregon failed.

While I feel he wants to be close again, & he's said he understands how I felt (as I sent several letters of apology/explanation/worry for him), I know his extremely small steps can only mean he's still very wary. Everything is just an unbearable "so close yet so far" situation. So I'm hoping a "bring a lover back" spell may help with things, as I truly want to reconcile & ultimately finally be together by his birthday in November (at least by the end of this year).

I'll be using a spell from Yronwode's own book, concerning soaking damiana in whiskey to sprinkle on the doorstep for 3 weeks (my subject, himself, even loves jack daniels).
But I'm wondering if adding a name paper will make things stronger (as I obviously don't want a random new lover, but my old/new friend)?
Also, if spitting into the bottle will do any good as well (as where I stay now is not my own property, so maybe my own fluids will help get him back to me no matter my location)?

Thank you so much in any regards to advice/replies,
ZVB

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Wed Aug 30, 2017 7:53 pm

Hello, ZVB23 ,

The answer is "Yes" to all of your questions

And good point abut the spitting! Many old time hoodoo practitioners so spit to "activate" their mojo hands and other spells

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Unread post by ZVB23 » Wed Aug 30, 2017 9:59 pm

Thank you so much Miss Aida!
Now I can try this with greater confidence.

Also, is there any specific amount of time the Damiana should soak? Or is it just an "all systems go" sort of thing?

Also! Should the bottle be completely empty by the 21st day? And if its not do I keep the rest to sort of keep the spell active until he's in my life again? Will getting rid of the bottle after his return break the effect of the spell?

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Thu Aug 31, 2017 9:48 am

Hello ZVB23,

I think you are overthinking a simple spell. You can soak the damiana for as long as you like, but I'd say soak it at least overnight. The bottle doesn't have to be empty after the 21 days, and you can keep doing it if you haven't gotten the results you want. Getting rid of the bottle won't break the effects of the spell.

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Unread post by ZVB23 » Thu Aug 31, 2017 11:01 am

Oh I see. I actually did end up soaking it overnight! It's good then that I can also keep reusing it.

Thanks again Sister Jean ☆

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Unread post by Riseabove » Tue Aug 27, 2019 12:34 pm

Hello lm fam,

it’s been 3 years since i have been out of a traumatic relationship and since then i have been doing cleansing work, love work, and so forth. I have had 3-4 readings with Miss. Cat- they've all been pretty positive in terms of me finding love and the individuals in question at the time of the reading. I have been doing work for my husband/soulmate to come into my life without any success for the last few years.. but this new moon Friday is prompting me to do something special.

I am looking for a block buster or/and road opener love spell in combination to bring in my soul mate, here’s what I have so far: Honey, Catnip, Damiana, cinnamon, magnetic sand, lavender, deers tongue, and rose pedals. Any tips will be greatly appreciated. I am looking to manifest my husband this year<3

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Aug 27, 2019 1:25 pm

Hello Riseabove,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are happy to see you here.

I have moved your post to the correct topic on finding your soul mate. You were posting in the wrong topic, which was for getting a lover to commit to a relationship.

Please read through the many posts in this topic for spell advice and ideas to help you. Start from the beginning and you will likely find something that sparks your interest. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by ginjer29 » Thu Oct 24, 2019 7:09 am

Hello.

A while back I tried various spells to get an ex back and they did yield some results. We did not get back together which I see as the best outcome for us. I've moved on and am ready for a new partner. I am 53 years old. I am in menopause. I no longer menstruate. What fluids can I use in love spells? Is it ok to use hair? I've got plenty of that. LOL I was thinking a drop of my blood though I'm not sure about it. I want to work a spell for new partner. It is common for me to get lovely compliments on my looks when I'm out so I know I am still pleasing to the eye.
In addition to a love spell, are there any other spells you suggest for an older woman? I find I am more patient, less stressed about little things and generally feel much better about myself and life. I want to add to those positive things in my life and bring more money, love and health. The things everyone wants with an eye to my time in life. I feel, in a lot of ways, that I am "becoming". Yes, youth is gone but there's...more. I'm sorry I don't have the words to explain myself properly I appreciate any help given. Thank you.

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Unread post by ginjer29 » Thu Oct 24, 2019 7:53 am

I should add...I stopped working spells for about 3 years as I was made to see I was confused as to how to work them and was possibly creating negative situations for myself. I gave myself a cleanse and other than burning a candle now and again (nothing fancy, a green one now and again and a white ones with a prayer for deceased loved ones) I have abstained. I want to start again, slowly. Do you guys still do classes? Please send me the link.

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Unread post by FreyaRose » Thu Oct 24, 2019 8:46 am

Hi ginjer29,

You can use sexual fluids for love spells instead of menstrual blood, or even just personal effects like fingernails and strands of hair :). As someone who's no longer 20, I totally get what you mean about there being "more" these days. It sounds like you're in a wonderful, open space, ready to attract all sorts of beautiful things into your life.

As for attracting a new love, you can try this excellent loadstone spell:

https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.ht ... oneattract

Under the male loadstone, you'll want to put something like "My New Lover," or "Perfect Mate," on a name paper, and load it up with qualities you're seeking in a new love.

There are all kinds of great suggestions in the previous pages of this thread as well.

As for classes, Miss cat offers her Hoodoo Rootwork Correspondence Course, which I can't recommend enough:

https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocourse.html

Please check that out, as well as the other threads here on money-drawing, health, etc. Use the search box at the top right of the forum to find the topic you're looking for, and best of luck!
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Unread post by DannyN » Sun Aug 23, 2020 5:50 pm

My cousin, a lady is getting frustrated. She is clocking above 40 but not married. But that's not the problem. The problem is that each time she gets into a serious relationship and the man wants to get serious, and comes to meet our family to commit, the men will suddenly develop cold feet. Next thing they disappear only to reappear married to another lady and then start saying they don't know what came over them.

Recently, she says 2 different people have told her that she is not suppose to get married. The first is a relative she confronted for ideas some 12 months ago. The lady relative told her exactly what she (my cousin) had dreamt - that she is not suppose to get married, rather will stay in her late fathers house and serve as the man of the house.

Then sometime last month, she went to meet a business associate and a diviner in the that office told the business associate when she left, that exact same story. The associate later called and narrated to her

Here in Africa, there are things that happen, there are some traditions where some daughters cant just get into marriage. Not because they don't want, but because its said the Gods wont let them. Its turning out this may be her case. She doesn't know what to do, yet she really wants real love and marriage.

My wife told her I have knowledge of some source of spells. She met and explained to me. So I feel there should be a spell or 2 I can get here fo her to do to:
1. Clear her path and possibly get whatever is blocking her ways to let her get married peacefully,
2. Make her get genuine love that leads to marriage

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Mon Aug 24, 2020 5:13 am

Hello DannyN,

I have moved your post to the topic on spells to find a soul mate. You were posting in the topic on spells to bring about a marriage proposal in an existing relationship.

You can read through the posts here for advice and ideas that you can use to help your cousin. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here and we will try to help.

You can also read through the following topic on Block Buster spells to remove obstacles:
spells-to-break-blockages-open-roads-mo ... 28657.html

Good luck.
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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Aug 04, 2021 4:09 pm

Spells to return a wandering Soul-Mate can be found in this book:

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Dedication and Acknowledgements 4
The Situation
Lovesick and Heartbroken 5
Return, Reconnect, Reunite, Reconcile 6
The Voices of Experience 7
Rules of the Road 10
When Is It Really "Too Late"? 11
The Spells
Who Do You Love? 12
Newbell Niles Puckett 13
Helen Pitkin: "An Angel by Brevet" 14
The Fabled Black Cat Bone 15
Pictures, Papers, and Proxies 17
Tumba Walla, Bumba Walla, Return to Me 24
H.U. Lampe's Famous Spells 26
Star Crossed Lovers 27
Love Uncrossing 28
Averting the Evil Eye 29
Hoodoo Bible Magic 30
How to Make Him Think of You 33
Forgive and Forget 34
Reconciliation Baths 36
Love Letters Straight from Your Heart 38
Alive with Magnetism! 42
Please, Saint Anthony, Look Around 45
Heart Lights and Love Lamps 46
Signs of Love 52
Tarot Cards in Love Readings 54
Personal Concerns to Aid the Lovelorn 56
Love Spells from the Drug Store 58
The Life and Works of Marie Laveau 61
3-Ace-Queen-7 Return to Me 65
Miss Cat's Down-Home Short-and-Simples 66
Lover, Come Back to Me 67
Graveyard Love 71
Stay with Me 72
Frequently Asked Questions 73
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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Aug 04, 2021 4:40 pm

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Acknowledgements 4
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Rootwork Terminology 6
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What You Will Need 10
Spiritual Supplies 12
Sex Magic Is Contact Magic 14
Fascinating Fluids 15
Magical Measures 25
Corporeal Concerns 28
Captivating Clothing 30
Wonderful Words 31
Herbal Aphrodisiacs 32
Amorous Amulets 38
Seductive Seasonings 42
Copulating Candles 47
Make-Out Mojos 53
Darling Dolls 59
Bewitching Bottles 60
Perfect Pairings 61
Erotic Energies 62
How to Hoodoo Your Lover’s Nature 64
Increasing Female Libido 68
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Female Sexual Domination 74
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Queer Sex Spells 78
Sacred Sex 80
The Key Is In Your Hand 85
Bibliography 96

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Unread post by rosebud » Sat Jun 18, 2022 10:09 am

I really need advice on what I should buy to keep my partner. He told me that we have grown apart and he might want to break up with me. He loves me but isn't in love with me. Also, he is so confused, he can't focus. I am heartbroken. Please help me. Also, I forgot to add that he is depressed.

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Unread post by JayDee » Sat Jun 18, 2022 4:35 pm

rosebud ,

I am sorry for your situation. I would start with using Reconciliation products and Come To Me, or Return to Me products. Burn candles with the oil, take a spiritual bath, dress items he will touch with the power. I would also suggest a reading, in my experience when a person drops a bomb like this on a person, they often have had some form of affair. A reading can determine if there is external influences, and if so, then I would suggest doing Break Up to end those external influences.

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Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Come to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Break Up: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by Angelsmoon » Wed Jul 13, 2022 7:02 am

Greetings,

I’m currently working a honey jar on my love interest, sometimes I do work a skull candle in conjunction with it but I mainly focus on the honey jar to keep him sweet along with healing prayers because of difficult times he is going through now. Before I began these workings we started talking and getting closer but then he backed away. I feel like he put me on “pause”, and I know for a fact he is attracted to me but has gotten scared. He started to confide in me about how much he’s been hurt but then stopped. He is going through a custody battle with his ex-wife, and that’s why I’m not pushing him, but I’d like to keep on his mind and at least try and develop a friendship with him, we have many similarities between us. A root worker had told me he is in fact my twin flame as it’s “written in the stars”. I’m wondering I’d there’s a different kind of working I should do because I’m told he doesn’t realize this yet, that we are a complement of souls. I worry he will never realize this but I’m told it’s all in divine timing. Would continuing my working mess this up? I tend to be impatient but just wanted to keep me in his thoughts because school is out for the summer, I won’t see him until September. I text him once in awhile and he responds right away but we do not have conversations. He is closed off still in the process of healing and being unsure about me. I’m hoping with my workings come September he will be more open and realize more of his feelings for me. I work with a yellow candles with mercury and clarity oils as well as healing oil and attraction oils on a pink candle. Thanks for any advice, I appreciate it.

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Unread post by JayDee » Wed Jul 13, 2022 8:40 am

Angelsmoon ,

Working a honey jar is a great way to keep the person sweet and on their mind. A skull candle also helps influence their thoughts, perhaps try working them late at night to influence them while they sleep. Continue working should not mess anything up, you are asking spirit and putting into the universe the intention of what you want.

Miss Cat has a spell in Bottle Up and Go which utilizes a bottle to make a person think of you as well.

Bottle Up and Go: https://www.luckymojo.com/bottleupandgo.html

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by Angelsmoon » Wed Jul 13, 2022 8:51 am

Thank you again JayDee, I value your advice. I did have lights set per your advice on one of my first posts on this forum. Just one more question, I have read about twin flames and energies, do you think the yellow candle with mercury oil would be too much as I am sending out energies to communicate when he is not ready? Should I stick to the healing helper candles along with the honey jar? I just want to be careful what energies I’m sending out. Thanks.

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Unread post by JayDee » Wed Jul 13, 2022 11:00 am

Angelsmoon ,

Im not sure of the context that the reader stated twin flames, some mean that to be a soulmate, others to state it as your twin. I would not regard that in response to the work I do, rather that you were given a green light to work on this guy. I do not think Mercury is too strong, it is a focus on communication, you can add Clarity to help him see clearer about you, or even a love oil as well. Possibly do yellow candle on Wednesday with Mercury to foster communication and do a pink candle on Monday and Friday to foster love.

You can read about oil blends and intentions here, with examples: https://www.luckymojo.com/oilblends.html

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by Angelsmoon » Wed Jul 13, 2022 2:07 pm

Thank you so much JayDee 💗

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by Angelsmoon » Tue Jul 26, 2022 1:21 pm

Greetings,

I have been working a honey jar but stopped for a week. My target is my twin soul, as I am told, and the energy connection is very strong. He has many blockages because he is going through a divorce….and is in the process of healing. I have texted him 2x this past month and although he responded right away, he didn’t carry the conversation further. The first time he was happy I texted him and audio messaged me but then He is polite but distant again. It was recommended that I should just leave the connection to divine timing because I cannot force things to happen quicker if he’s not ready and he is doing the work necessary to go through his healing already. My question is, I have so many feelings pent up because our energy connection I feel is so strong I want to talk to him. Is there a working where I could write a letter to him that could reach him telepathically? I was thinking as I burn a candle on my honey jar I could write all my feelings in a letter to him and then burn it and release it into the universe. Does this sound like a good idea? Any advice is appreciated, thank you 💗

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Unread post by Mr Christopher » Tue Jul 26, 2022 8:07 pm

Hi Angelsmoon,

Yes, this is called mail a letter in the air, it is said to be effective. You can also place them in hollow tree. If he has numerous blocks you can do Block-buster, if you have his hair, either from head or lower places, you can all that to the candle. If he is bathing at your house, you can add Rue and Violet leaves to shampoo, or body wash to help remove old love ties.

https://herbmagic.com/rue.html
https://herbmagic.com/violet-leaf.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/rueandcimaruta.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-block-buster.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by Angelsmoon » Wed Jul 27, 2022 9:46 am

Thank you so much Christopher 😊 I do not have any person affects of his, only his photograph. I do plan to get blockbuster oil., thanks again!

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Unread post by JayDee » Wed Jul 27, 2022 12:59 pm

Angelsmoon,

Have you also considered adding Mercury oil to foster communication with Deers Tongue Herb to cause him to communicate? This can be worked on a doll-baby, a jar, figural candles etc.

Mercury: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-mercury.html
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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by zadyfgirl » Thu Oct 12, 2023 3:39 pm

Hello,

An attraction candle was lit for me on the altar at Luckymojo for me and a guy I have a crush on. I ordered 3 candles to be lit and I believe the 2nd candle was lit this week. My candle request was for him to contact me.

I had a few readings and my reader told me the guy is trying extremely hard to figure out his connection to me. It seems to be taking a physical toll on him, I am constantly on his mind. He is attracted to me from my picture but is afraid to contact me. He is asking others if they know me and they say they don't and to contact me.

I didn't realize the candle would have such a strong effect on him. Is there anything I can do to lessen the hard effects on him? I believe if he contacts me and breaks the ice, his anxiety will lessen. Until then not sure if I can help him.

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sun Oct 15, 2023 6:10 pm

Hello, zadyfgirl --

I am not sure if i personally would define what you call "a guy I have a crush on" as a "Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate" (the subject of this thread), but let's say he is your twin flame and that your psychic readers have correctly identified a problem -- that the Attraction candle is causing him anxiety or confusion because he does not know how to contact you. I have never heard of an Attraction Candle doing this, by the way -- usually they either work or they fail -- but maybe your readers know something about this that i don't.

As a reader myself, i would first want to know why he does not know how to connect with you directly. Is he someone far away, is he a celebrity, a sports star, a hermit? How do you come to have "a crush on a guy" whom you don't see socially or have social media connections to and whom you consider to be your Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate? This is a sincere question, because something here is not making sense to me.

In any case, the answer is to light a Clarity candle for him, to make him see you clearly, to clarify his mind, and to get him on the beam. You might want a Clarity Candle for yourself, to see if you are seeing him clearly as well.

Best of luck to you!
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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by PandeNek0 » Mon Oct 16, 2023 5:11 pm

What would be a good way to find the right person for you? Is there a spell of something like that to find out?

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Oct 16, 2023 10:01 pm

Hi, PandeNe0 --

Some of the first love spells i put on line, back in the 1990s, along with dozens by my friends, can be found in this extensive link-list:

FREE LOVE SPELLS
https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html


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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by SterlingWinter » Wed Aug 27, 2025 2:32 pm

Hello, I had never believed in "twin flames" until I met my (now ex) boyfriend and a friend introduced me to the term. We met briefly three years ago and, although neither of us really had the chance to speak that day, I was magnetically drawn towards him (although didn't realise it at the time).

Last year our paths crossed again after he reached out on social media to help me with something professionally. I bought him a drink after as a thank you and we started to discover the INSANE similarities, finishing each other's sentences as if we'd known each other all our lives. Small things like having the same favourite colour or food etc., right up to sharing a niche interest...but also unfortunately having so much shared past trauma, very specific things in our childhoods that had led us both to the same career etc. He described it as "looking at his female equivalent in the mirror". What was supposed to be a quick drink turned into talking until he almost missed his last train home!

I knew something was "different" about him to every guy I've met in the past, he would not normally be my "type" at all and yet I instantly felt like I'd "come home" if that makes sense? The only problem was he said he didn't want a relationship and was only looking for something casual. Which I was not interested in at all.

Despite this, we ended up naturally pulled into a kind of situationship. Writing longer and longer messages to each other and eventually just texting non-stop throughout the day. I retained my physical boundaries with him (wouldn't sleep with him) and he maintained he only wanted casual so we respected each other. We'd go on "dates" though, holding hands, cuddling etc. I even spent three nights with him over Christmas! We shared everything...maybe too much as the similarities could be quite triggering, especially for him.

Finally, on Valentine's Day, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I know he took it seriously, he'd tied up ends with another woman he had seen casually a couple of times and even checked himself in for therapy (which he'd previously been terrified of doing) to try to address all of his trauma. It was honestly perfect whenever we were together but he was struggling with the concept of commitment and the triggers with our "mirroring" were getting more frequent.

A few obstacles came up which I would have been happy to work through but he ended up breaking up with me last month...all the while crying and saying how much he loved me? We've tried for no contact, but we both end up talking to each other anyway. We've met up a few times (including for a four night holiday last week which had been booked before we broke up) but it always ends with one or both of us in tears or anxiety attacks. He even ended up self harming in front of me on the holiday (he managed to stop himself but not before I'd witnessed it).

And yet at its core we obviously still love each other (as he tells me frequently), we are still affectionate and cuddle and hold hands. But he says he is "not ready for a relationship and doesn't know if he'll ever be".

On our way home on the holiday, I ended up having a massive panic attack at the mention of complete no contact, deleting social media etc. and said some things he found very upsetting. However, since calming down, I have asked him about cutting contact and he cried and said "he'd have a mental breakdown and be sanctioned if he lost me".

I think for me I am terrified of staying in touch and seeing him with other casual encounter women (even though we are no longer together and I have no claim on him) because I know how much it effected me when he had the couple of dates with the other woman last year as our spiritual bond is so strong it feels like physical pain.

I no longer have any interest in any other men and haven't since that first night we sat down and properly talked last year.

There's a lot more to this but obviously this post is already far too long.

I've specifically tried NOT to interfere with spells thus far as it almost feels like I might end up messing with something beyond my understanding or previous beliefs, and I don't want to end up pushing him further away. As I say, he is getting therapy and trying to do work on himself (probably moreso than I am currently!).

1. I feel I should get a proper reading on this, but I'm not in the best place financially at the moment and want to get something underway asap.

2. I guess my question is what work I should do in this situation to encourage a potential union?

3. In line with what I've been reading on the healing journey when twin flames are separated, I'm presuming healing for both of us.

4. Should I also do some kind of gentle love work like a honey jar?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! :)

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Re: Spells to Find, Get, Keep, or Return Twin-Soul or Soul-Mate

Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Aug 27, 2025 10:09 pm

SterlingWinter --

Here are some quick replies:

1. Yes, you should get a reading.

You can sign up for a free reading on the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour before Sunday.

You can enter the Hoodoo Psychics free reading giveaway on Monday.

You can contact the AIRR Pro Bono team for a free reading if you are gebuinely in financial need.

2. I believe that the most important thing to do is to develop courage and a helping hand. The way you describe the two of you re-triggering each other's trauma, your anxiety, his self-harming, it sounds like you both could benefit from clairy, therapy, and some spiritual deep breathing. Thank the universe for llowing you two to meet and ask the universe how you can help one another.

3. Yes, healing is the road i think you should travel. I don't know your social-religious-cultural background, so i cannot suggest a specific path here. One fairly universal form of healing work is to bathe in a Love Uncrossing bath, followed the next day by a Healing bath. There are many other methods, prayers, deities, saints, and spells that may work for you.

4. A honey jar is always a gentle reminder of love's potential. a Reconciliation type jar would be my suggestion.

Good luck to you.
catherine yronwode
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