Stay At Home and Stay With Me Spell Kits, Honey Jars, and Painted Bottle Spells Questions and Answers

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 4:56 pm

Hi Miss Aida,
I have catnip, honeysuckle, deer's tongue, rose peddles licorice root, calmus, spikenard, dill seed and cubeb berries can I use any of these? and thank you for the kind words.

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 12:03 pm

Hello Lovebird,

All of those herbs should be fine. The Licorice root and calamus have more of a dominating type of influence than love influence but if you want to dominate your lover you can put those in it. All the herbs you listed are on the page that Miss Aida posted for you to look at. Check out that link to see what your herbs are known for. If you want a really good source for how herbs are used in hoodoo you can order Miss Cats hoodoo herb and root magic and for more information on honey jars you can order Deacon Millets Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells.

Peace~

Nathen

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 12:57 pm

Thank you Miss Aida & Nathen

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Wed Jan 29, 2014 4:02 pm

Hi
I forgot to ask. I don't have any stay with me oil right now but I do have follow me boy, love me, chapparosa, marriage can I use those until I order the stay with me?

Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Feb 01, 2014 9:04 pm

Hello, lovebird,
Yes, that's fine.
Good luck and keep us posted!

Warriorsoul · Unread post by **Warriorsoul** » Wed May 14, 2014 8:17 am

Is there a stay with me honey jar kit and a stay at home with me spell it? Is there two different versions of the kit? I want the stay with me honey jar as it would be easier for me to work it in the space I have.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed May 14, 2014 10:19 am

The two are combined in one honey jar kit -- here is the URL for it::

http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... th-me.html

Warriorsoul · Unread post by **Warriorsoul** » Wed May 14, 2014 10:26 am

Thanks cat, that's great it's like a 2 for 1 lol.

Warriorsoul · Unread post by **Warriorsoul** » Fri May 16, 2014 9:30 am

I just ordered the stay with me honey jar kit and I see it says blue candles, why blue candles? What's the significance of blue? I thought it would be pink candles. Can I use pink candles with this particular jar as well?

Shantilly Lace · Unread post by **Shantilly Lace** » Fri May 16, 2014 6:35 pm

Blue is for peace.
Gives you a peaceful home no fighting... Peace to be with you

kandyspop · Unread post by **kandyspop** » Tue Jun 10, 2014 5:16 pm

I have a simple question someone on here told me that the stay with me love spell can make my ex become my boyfriend again? We still talk and everything and the person told me i can use the stay with me spell.

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Jun 11, 2014 4:55 am

There are no guarantees in life except death and taxes kandyspop. We haven't performed a divination on the details of your case, don't know it's background and therefore can't tell you if this spell is the one best suited to your situation. Even if it is, you may get movement but not completion depending on many different factors. To find out how real magic works, please read the following informational page: http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html

What I can say is that the Stay With Me spell is designed to keep a lover that you already have. Reconciliation is designed to get back together with a lover you've broken up with due to a fight. Return To Me is to get back together with a lover when there hasn't been a fight (mutual break-up, distance issues, etc.).

kandyspop · Unread post by **kandyspop** » Wed Jun 11, 2014 8:53 am

Thank you for the info. I have nothing to lose i will give the return to me love spell a try and if i don't see results i will stop it's worth the try though.

diamond · Unread post by **diamond** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 4:35 am

Hi everyone,
I did a honey jar spell today and I have written my name over my boyfriends name and put the hair the ,rose petals and I had some of his semen on toilet paper I put that also . I wrote my petition and I anointed the paper with follow me boy I command my man bewitching I dominate my man oil and also his picture. After I took some of John the conquorer root and anointed it with oils and asked for his help in the spell and put it together with all the stuff. Then again I took some earth from his shoe and put it there also. The I ate the honey and put everything in the jar and anoint the candle with the 4 oils. And prayed so hard .said everything I want while the candle is burning then I left it there.

Please advise if it's correct or not? And also with all the stuff that I have the semen on the tissue can I tie his nature or it needs to be fresh cos it's all dried out now. Advice please.

Now should I let it burn out or not?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 4:06 pm

Hello, Warriorsoul,
I have learned, through experience, to always stick with what Miss cat says. She has never steered any of us wrong.
You want the blue to maintain a certain aura of calm and peacefulness ( as Shantilly Lace pointed out).
Wishing you the best with this
Take care

Warriorsoul wrote:I just ordered the stay with me honey jar kit and I see it says blue candles, why blue candles? What's the significance of blue? I thought it would be pink candles. Can I use pink candles with this particular jar as well?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 4:09 pm

Hello, diamond,
Yes. That sounds good. But, why toilet paper?
I usually use torn brown paper (from a paper bag) or parchment paper.
Yes, to tie his nature, you would want fresh semen. That works the best. Otherwise, the spell is weak
Hope this helps.
Wishing you the best

diamond · Unread post by **diamond** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:55 pm

Hello Ms Aida. ,
Sorry I confused you. I wrote his name and mine and my wishes on a normal paper. The toilet paper I used to wipe his semen with. So the semen was on the toilet paper but already dried out and I put a piece of it in the jar. Do you think it will have a link with him?

And another thing is yesterday morning before I did the spell my boyfriend and I got into a fight. He said that he will be coming late going out with friends to blow of steam. But after the spell a couple hours later when the candle was finish burning he called saying he is coming home and got pizza. He came early not late like he said. And he talked to me nicely . What am trying to say he changed his plan . Do you think it's the spell working?

And Ms Aida you did not answer my last question . Should I let the candle burn out by itself cos I had to go out yesterday and I did not want to leave it burning with no one around I blew out the fire but then when I got back I light it up again and let it burned out . Do you think I disturbed the spell when I blew out the fire?

and now am going to light another candle on the jar should I talk to it again? I know so many questions but I want to do this right . Please advice . Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 9:12 pm

Hello, Diamond,
Oh! OK! Now I understand. I was wondering why you would write on toilet paper! I had better learn to read! LOL
I think you did everything right EXCEPT NEVER NEVER NEVER blow out a candle. It's disrespectful to the element/spirit of fire.
I like to use chime candles on my jars ( www.luckymojo.com/candle-altar-dozen-pink.html ) because they're good for about 1&1/2 to 2 hours. That way, you never have to guess when it will go out and can plan around the burn time (because it's not a long time). And let it burn out by itself (but that's just me)
Yes, I always talk to my candles, jars, work, etc! Always!
The semen is a direct link. Very good!
Hope I answered your questions.
Keep us posted on your progress!

diamond · Unread post by **diamond** » Thu Jul 31, 2014 1:09 am

Lol it was my bad my English is bad. Anyway yah you answered most of my questions only the one I asked about my boyfriend changing his plan and coming early do u think it was the spell . And now i made a mistake blowing the candle will it not work should i redo it or just light another candle. Please tell me what to do

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Aug 01, 2014 9:01 pm

Hello, diamond ,
It's so hard to say if it was the spell. What do you think? That's what matters.
Just light another candle.
Wishing you the best with this!!!

diamond · Unread post by **diamond** » Sat Aug 09, 2014 3:27 am

Hi Miss AIDA. ,
Okay . I have another question. Normally what do one do with the jar? Should I Bury it in my backyard or just leave it In a safe place and just burn candles on it . Please advise. And also I have put my hair also in the jar will that make me sweet on him also or it will work only on him . Please let me know

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Aug 09, 2014 7:51 pm

Hello, diamond ,
I would keep working with the honey jar and lighting candles on it.
Both of your personal belongings will make you sweet to each other. That was good that you did that.
Keep up the good work!

diamond · Unread post by **diamond** » Tue Aug 12, 2014 4:40 am

Good day ms Aida,
Okay so far I am still working my honey jar and it's going pretty good. I mean what I wrote in my petition is working . And one think I have realized is that I have become a little docile. I mean before whenever I heard something about him or he did something I used to ask him about it and it always ended up in arguments but now I tend to stay quiet. As for him he is more nicer. Now three days I am not working on the jar I have ran out of red candles and I am searching for it.in the meantime can I use white candles. And before I forget can I put my menstrual blood on the candles before I burn it as well.

Lastly but not least I want to order something but I need your advice first. He has a crowd that he needs to hangout with all the time I want it to stop and make him stay home with me and our son spend more time with. I also want him to be generous with his money to me not his friends. And of course a nation sack. Please advice thanks.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Aug 12, 2014 8:05 pm

Hello, diamond ,
I would rather he eat your menstrual blood than to just put it no the candle (and yes, you can use white).
You could use Hot Foot to keep the friends away. www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
You could mix Cleo May oils with Stay with me oils to try and get him to be more generous www.luckymojo.com/cleomay.html
And you might also want to consider a more aggressive approach to spell work with the kit: www.luckymojo.com/spell-stay-with-me.html
But still work your honey jar.
It is so nice to read that the honey jar is having a favorable affect on you also!
Keep up the good work!
Take care

Jordansmom · Unread post by **Jordansmom** » Sat Jan 03, 2015 6:05 pm

Hello

I'm planning to purchase the Stay With Me kit and I have a question in regards to dressing the lodestone with semen. The information says you can also use hair but the spell listed refers to semen. We've been trying to conceive for almost 2 yrs. If I asked him to withdraw, it would seem really suspect. How can I use the spell without it?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jan 04, 2015 10:37 pm

Hello, Jordansmom,

Just out of curiosity, couldn't you offer to give him oral sex?

If not, the use the hair.

Wishing you the best with this.

HicksKicks · Unread post by **HicksKicks** » Mon Feb 02, 2015 2:44 am

Miss Aida wrote:Hello, diamond ,
I would rather he eat your menstrual blood than to just put it no the candle (and yes, you can use white).
You could use Hot Foot to keep the friends away. http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
You could mix Cleo May oils with Stay with me oils to try and get him to be more generous http://www.luckymojo.com/cleomay.html
And you might also want to consider a more aggressive approach to spell work with the kit: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stay-with-me.html
But still work your honey jar.
It is so nice to read that the honey jar is having a favorable affect on you also!
Keep up the good work!
Take care

wow, thanks for this

Jamielee · Unread post by **Jamielee** » Tue Jul 14, 2015 2:17 pm

Hi LM,

Very quick question:

I don't have his hair to include on the honey jar. Can i use his sperm instead? and how do incorporate that into the jar.

Any ideas, would be highly appreciated.

Thanks so much x

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jul 14, 2015 8:00 pm

Hello, Jamielee,

Yes, you can do that.

If it's on a cloth or tissue, add some of your vaginal juices to it. Warp it and then put it in the honey jar.

Wishing you the very best with this

Jamielee · Unread post by **Jamielee** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 11:29 am

thanks Miss Aida.

Thats a good ideas, however I was thinking of putting some semen from a condom in a string and using another string with my fluids and tying the up together, like you would tie hair. would that work do you think?

also, are there any spells to get someone really interested in you? ive started seeing this new guy and all of a sudden he's gone a bit distant.

would be great to get your thoughts/directions on the above.

Thanking you loads

x

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Jul 21, 2015 12:01 pm

Hello Jamielee,

The string idea is good. GO for it! For getting a guy interested in you you can try mxing Look Me Over and Follow Me Boy products. CHeck them out at these links.

http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html

Peace~

Nathen

DecemberLights · Unread post by **DecemberLights** » Mon Jan 04, 2016 1:31 pm

I purchased the Stay With Me Spell Kit and the instructions say to put candles etc. underneath my bed while I'm not working the spell. My problem is that I do my spell work at my mothers house because I have more privacy there and she doesn't mind that I'm doing spell work. But I don't live there and I don't think I can risk putting it under the bed at my place cause my boyfriend might find it.

So what should I do? I haven't started this spell yet cause I'm waiting on the waxing moon.

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Jan 04, 2016 4:35 pm

Hello DecemberLights,

Well ultimately I would encourage you to try and follow the directions as close as possible. If that is absolutely impossible, maybe get a picture of your bed, preferably with you both in it and have the work resting on that picture. (though I will say that I do not believe this is not going to be as effective as getting under the actual bed).

Peace~

Nathen

DecemberLights · Unread post by **DecemberLights** » Thu Jul 28, 2016 5:06 am

Hi everyone I just wanted to give a small update, well I completed the Stay With Me Spell back in February this year and everything went well me & my boyfriend had been getting along & he had been staying home & spending lots of time with me we had a few minor arguments but they were smooth over quickly. Well we live in an apartment and I had buried the left over wax & ashes in a flower pot & sat it outside our door were it stayed for months. Yesterday I come home from work & see that the flower pot has been dug in & the spell remains were also dug up. My boyfriend used some of the soil for his succulent plant (since the flowers in my pot had died) I ended up taking the flower pot and throwing it away.

My boyfriend however hasn't questioned me about what he found in the flower pot and I haven't brought it up either. Luckily his behavior is still the same so I don't think he suspects anything. I know since the remains has been found that the spell is now void and that I would have to redo the spell again.

My question is should I also throw away the blue mojo bag that's under the mattress? I'm going to redo this spell but this time I was thinking of burying the spell remains in the bushes that's next to the walkway that leads to our stairs?

I also had started a honey jar to keep things sweet between us. I started the jar back in November 2015 & burned red candles with love me oil for about 2 months straight (every Monday, Wednesday, & Friday) last month I started burning pink candles on my honey jar with love me & stay with me oils. Would the honey jar spell still be good even though I took a break from working it?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jul 28, 2016 6:18 pm

Hello DecemberLights,

If your boyfriend didn't find the blue mojo bag, no, I wouldn't dispose of it. It sounds like it's working wonderfully! If you choose to redo the spell, I think burying the remains in the bushes sounds like a good idea.

I think the honey jar might take some time to build up momentum after being dormant for so long, but I think if you started burning candles on it again regularly it would work just fine.

Hope that helps!

luckycarol · Unread post by **luckycarol** » Wed Feb 15, 2017 7:13 pm

Hi maybe a silly question but I wonder how do you guys perform the spell?

My ex just returned to me (thanks to LM!) and I wanna do a stay with me spell now, however, I guess it has be to performed during dawn for 7 days, for those who live with your partner how do you do it??

He wakes very early so it will be impossible for me to do it at dawn for all 7 days.. should I still do it but at other time or its better to go for other spells?

thanks!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Feb 15, 2017 9:31 pm

Hello, luckycarol,

It's better to do it at another time than not to do it at all.

BUT the baths really need to be done when instructed to do so

Take care

luckycarol · Unread post by **luckycarol** » Thu Feb 16, 2017 5:37 pm

Thank you so much Miss Aida!

Since I already have some items included in the spell kit so Im just gonna purchase items that I dont have. I did a love me spell kit last year but it was my first time and I did many things incorrectly (Saturday instead of Friday, throw bath water at cross road and I lost the mojo bag) but the lodestones are still under my bed.
Can I use the same lodestones or its better to purchase a new pair?

luckycarol · Unread post by **luckycarol** » Thu Feb 16, 2017 5:42 pm

Sorry one more question the instruction says the mojo bag should be sewed to the mattress, should it be sewed to his or mine if we dont live together?

Unread post by **natstein** » Fri Feb 17, 2017 4:22 pm

Hello Luckycarol,

For your questions about the lodestones their is no reason you can't use the ones you already have. If you have any concerns I would recommend doing a divination to make sure they will work for you, but in general I do not see an issue with this. For the mojo bag I suppose you could sew into whichever mattress you wanted. Are you hopeful to move in with him then I would try to get it into his mattress. IF you want him to come to you then maybe sew it into yours.

Peace~

Nathen

LaceyK · Unread post by **LaceyK** » Mon Jan 29, 2018 8:22 am

I think I jumped the gun on my purchase of the stay with me spell kit.
I had been using a love me spell kit and sweet jar to return lover - I also did the moving candle spell from the break up page to return a lover and had purchased this to keep my wayward lover faithful to only me until we are together again. Or until he loves me again.

But I think that was wrong? Do you have to be in a relationship with them for this kit to work? Or will it keep them faithful, keep you on their mind only even if you are apart?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Jan 29, 2018 12:35 pm

If the person is not with you, how can they stay with you? You want to start with the reconciliation? right? Is that the moving candle speak you mentioned here? You are drawing the person back to you...the honey jar is to sweeten them to you? right? Love me is for someone who you are already involved and it basically strengthens the love you have.

babygirl · Unread post by **babygirl** » Fri Feb 23, 2018 12:12 pm

I don’t even know where to start. My boyfriend, possibly my ex boyfriend and I have known each other since high school, we dated in high school and have had very short times of being together ever since. We have now been together a year and 1/2, and we both really wanted to make this work this time. I am with him every night, we go to bed together and wake up together, but we don’t live together. Our schedules make it hard to spend a ton of time together, and we don’t get to see each other til the evening. Our relationship has been great this time. We have never had a bad break up in the past, that’s why I keep going back. He’s a great person, and I love him to death. 2 days ago he text me and said we need to talk about us. So I went over and he told me this isn’t working for him, he needs more time with me that I can’t give him, and he does not see our relationship progressing like he expected. So I’m shocked that he was actually attempting to break up with me, but I stayed there that night and the next night, and he tells me he loves me, but it’s not working. I’m so confused as to why he is giving up so easily, it’s like he’s being forced to break up with me and really has no idea why. He couldn’t even finish a sentence trying to talk to me about this. He has no idea what he wants, he has no idea how to fix this, and I just don’t get it. I slept alone last night for the first time since we have been together, and I didn’t sleep much at all. So I went to his house yesterday and put follow me boy on the door knobs, the fridge, the 4 corners of the bed, the toilet seat, the sink, in his slippers, it’s everywhere. I also added my urine to every liquid he has in the fridge. I started a honey jar yesterday, and I put some sugar and pixie sticks in there. Someone said they had excellent results with red pixie stix. I did the name paper, his name 3 times with my name crossed over his 3 times, and my wish around our names. I tied one of his pubic hairs and my head hairs together, (NOT EASY!) I also added a piece of paper with his written name and signature on it. I folded it toward me saying my wish with each fold. I also added 8 pictures of the two of us and I wrote his name and birthday on the back of each picture, and I wrote down everything I wanted on the backs of each picture I also had some beard hair and very small nail pieces that he bit off in the name paper as well. I am going to burn candles daily until something happens because right now he is being so stubborn, and like I said before, it’s like he’s being forced to leave me. So I burned blue, white, pink and red candles, I dipped each of them in follow me boy, and I plan to burn all 4 daily until he gets it together. I went back over today while he was at work, I got a pair of boxers with semen on them, cut out the pieces with semen and added them to the jar. I then tied the boxers in a knot, and sealed them in a bag.
So the questions I have.....
1. I spend most of my time in my car because of my job. I have been riding around with this honey jar between my legs and I talk to it all the time. Nobody can see it, it’s hidden between my legs. I have cleared out my middle consol and I have my honey jar, candles and his boxers in there. Is that ok since I spend most of my time in my car?
2. Is my honey jar powerful with the items I have in there?
3. Putting the follow me boy oil all over his house, will he, or should he think of me and want me back when he touches these things?
4. I put my urine in everything in that fridge, so he will be consuming ALLOT of urine this weekend. If his cousin or his friend come over, which they more than likely will, if they drink the drinks with my urine in them, what will happen? I don’t want them to fall in love with me. Hopefully they will just tell him he’s making a big mistake and he needs to fix this. I also have it in a bottle of Rum, which I know they will drink this weekend, is it just as powerful in a bottle of Rum as it is in coffee or tea? It’s in orange juice, some other juice, tea, I even put some in the Worcestershire sauce. There are no safe liquids in that fridge.
5. Can I burn all 4 colored candles at the same time, or should I continue doing them separately? They are birthday candles, so it does not take hours for them to burn down. I burn them while I’m in my car. Not while I’m driving!
I have so many other questions, and I can’t think of them right now. I guess I really just need to know if I did everything right, and if there’s anything more I can do. I still have his key, and he still has all my stuff at his house, our pics are still up, he still has the keychain on his keys that I got him that is a key, and says u have the key to my heart. We are talking, and I’m trying to get him to give this a chance, but he keeps resisting. I don’t know what else to do. Please help!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Feb 25, 2018 11:15 am

Hello babygirl,

I'll answer your questions in the same order they were asked:

1. Yes that's fine.

2. Yes

3. Yes that's how Follow Me Boy works

4. No, other targets won't fall in love with you, but I hope you added very small amounts of urine to these liquids.

5. Yes I think you can burn them at the same time.

SugarLoveHoney · Unread post by **SugarLoveHoney** » Sat Jun 09, 2018 10:31 pm

Hey everyone I finally got my man of interest back in my life and I want to keep him here. It’s long distance so I’ve been looking into the nation sack as well as the stay with me Spell kit. I’m a little hesitant about the nation sack because he’s the type of man who doesn’t like to feel controlled and he runs from it so I was leaning towards the stay with me Spell kit. When him and I meet up next i want to tie his nature. I was wondering if I could add a string to tie his nature to the Stay with me mojo bag I’ll be keeping between my mattress?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jun 10, 2018 9:29 am

Hello SugarLoveHoney,

If he is the type of person who can sense when he is being controlled and resist it, I wouldn't recommend tying his nature. I'd just do the spell kit, because that has less of a domination factor to it. Sorry this post contradicts my other answer, I just got to the other one first! But I think the spell kit is the way to go, probably not the nation sack.

Take care.

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Sat Mar 16, 2019 11:41 am

I have a question with the stay with me kit. (I mentioned this above) I ordered it but still didn't get it yet, maybe today or Monday. Anyway, I was reading the instruction online, and the part that I need some question is this ...

"After the Candles burn out, put the two Lodestones, still on their tray, with the name-papers under them, beneath your bed, or bury them, still joined, in the earth at your front door. Dress your bed with Stay With Me Oil, sprinkle Stay With Me Sachet Powder at the four corners of your home, and sew the Mojo Bag into your mattress or place it between the box spring and mattress."

Well, we do our intimate moments in his room, in his bed. We never done it in my bed because I shared it with my late husband. Once the bed is changed we will but I can afford new bed and mattress yet. My questions are:

1. Can I bury the lodestones in his front yard, or it should be in my front yard? I can't bury anything yet cause of snow and the ground is frozen solid. Will it be ideal to put in under his bed since that's where we do our business? But I don't want him to find it.

2. Which is the best bed to dress oil with, his bed since that's where we're intimate, or my bed?

3. Should I sprinkle his house with powder or it should be my house? Would be inside the house or the outside?

4. Lastly, sewing the mojo bag, will it good to sew it in his bed since everything happens in his bed? Or in my bed?

I spend nights at his house, 2 to 3 times a week. Thanks much.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Sat Mar 16, 2019 11:53 am

Fotunata,

I've moved your post here since it's specifically about the Stay With Me spell kit.

1) Since you are not living together I would recommend you burying them at your place as it is a gesture of him returning to wherever you are. Since you cannot bury right now get a small winter plant that you can place at your door.

2) You may dress both your beds.

3) With your situation, I don't see why you shouldn't dress both of them as well.

4) This is unimportant unless the instructions read otherwise.

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Mon Mar 18, 2019 6:54 am

Hi all, I have a question with Stay with me kit. I got them today. Can I start it tomorrow at dawn or wait till Wednesday? Since Tuesday is not an ideal for love spell base on what I read so far on few threads I browsed. Thanks much.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Mon Mar 18, 2019 8:13 am

Fotunata,

Please be mindful of where you are posting. I've moved your post again to the correct forum as your question is not about general stay with me spells but about a spell kit. This forum is found under the board category "How To Use Lucky Mojo Supplies" please take some extra time to review it.

Timing is always a preference. If you want to start it when the "astrological weather" is best for the work then yes start it on a Wednesday. If you feel your will and skill are strong then start it whenever you want...including Tuesday

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Mon Mar 18, 2019 8:56 am

Dr. Darensbourg,

I was so excited I got the kit today. I thought I clicked the right thread. I'm so sorry.

I'm not skillful. I only did honey jar, the ammonia jar and mirror box. I also did petition saints. What I really have is just my will, belief and faith.

Thanks.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Mon Mar 18, 2019 9:58 am

Fotunata,

If you feel you are too inexperienced then I would do it today or Wednesday in that event

strawberrylemonade · Unread post by **strawberrylemonade** » Fri Sep 13, 2019 9:25 am

I started my stay home with me honey jar two weeks ago. I did it Monday, Wednesday and Friday during the day. My three year old son saw the candle burning on the jar. Is that actually okay? Or does it have to be done in private? If so, I would have to do it after everyone goes to bed. Thanks in advance.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Fri Sep 13, 2019 4:54 pm

strawberrylemonade,

Honey jars and sugar jars are fine out in the open. It's sweet work and it is often encouraged that you cook with sweetness you have been praying on so it makes sense to have it in the kitchen.

strawberrylemonade · Unread post by **strawberrylemonade** » Sat Sep 14, 2019 3:08 pm

Thank you Terra!

DaniellaG · Unread post by **DaniellaG** » Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:09 am

I’m not sure where to find this answer on this forum but can someone please help me understand for petitions in sugar jars...say I want to use his pic. I want him to be more affectionate, more open with his feelings, more consistent and passionate with me, how do I write all that in a circle going around his name? And would I write the commands on the back of his pic or for his pic just write his name 3 times and then use a brown paper to write his name with mine crossed over and then the commands going around? I’m confused because I’m not sure if I should even include my name at all , as this is to make HIM do all those things, so why use my name? If I don’t need to use my name, then how would I do the petition? I have tissue with his sperm on it from this weekend. Someone please tell me do I use his pic and the tissue and just write his name on the back 3 times and a command underneath? Should I cross over his name with my name even if it’s on his pic? And his sperm? Or would the pic better serve as his name paper and then make a petition paper separate with both our names and the commands? Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Sep 19, 2019 8:17 am

Hello DaniellaG,

I think you are making things overcomplicated for yourself.

You could use his photo and on the back, write your petition (you don't need another piece of paper for that). You could write his name and cross it with yours and circle that with your desire ("more passion more affection" or words to that effect). That could work nicely.

I encourage you to read Miss cat's wonderful book on writing petitions, Paper In My Shoe. You can learn everything you need to know about crafting petitions for your spells:

BOO-GRI-PIMS
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CONTENTS
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DEDICATION 4
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS 4
PRE-AMBLE 5
CONJURE CLARIFIED 6
Known by Many Names 6
A Christian Form of Magic 7
The Excuses 7
Folklorists, Root Doctors, and Ministers: 8
NOMENCLATURE 9
Name Paper 9
Petition Paper 9
Prayer Paper 9
A RAMBLE THROUGH HISTORY 10
Scholarly Scribes the Whole Wide World Round 10
Remnants of Priestly Functions 11
Glyphic Characters 11
Clay Incantation Bowls 12
Incantation Bowl Text Translated by R. Patai 12
Written Spells of the Classic Era 14
The Greek Magical Papyri 14
Katadesmoi and Defixiones 16
Solomonic Seals 18
Mosaic Seals 18
Jewish Grimoire Magic in Obeah and Hoodoo 18
Calligrams and Microcalligraphy 20
The True Length 24
Indian and Himalayan Written Amulets 31
The German Pow Wow Tradition in America 31
To Cure a Fever 31
Wittenberg Letters 32
To Get a Maiden to Lift Her Shirt For You 32
To Make a Person Dance Against Their Will 32
A Svardsbrev 33
Talisman, Wax and River Water to Name a Thief 33
Chinese Taoist Fu Charms 34
Chinese Joss Paper and Spirit Money 34
Taweez: An African Arabic Charm in America 36
The PGM Comes to Harlem 38
Adoption and Adaptation 40
PUTTING PEN TO PAPER 41
WHAT TO WRITE UPON 42
Ordinary Papers and Special Papers 42
Words on Wax 42
Have You Ever Written on a Plate 42
Writing on Money 42
Handwriting Samples 43
Checks, Business Cards, and Logos
Playing Cards 42
Aluminum Foil, Pie Plates, and Popsicle Sticks 43
Photographs 43
WHAT TO WRITE WITH 44
Stylus 44
Quill, Dip-Pen, and Fountain Pen 44
Pencil 44
Ballpoint Pen, Rollerball Pen, and Marker 44
Magical Inks 44
Other Stationery Supplies 44
HOW TO FOLD A PAPER 45
WHAT'S IN A PRAYER? 46
Improvisation from Scripture 46
Prayer Request and Psalms 66:19 on a Paper 46
WHAT'S IN A PETITION? 47
Words of Power 47
WHAT'S IN A NAME? 48
Variations on a Single Name 48
WHAT'S IN TWO NAMES 51
Variations on Multiple Names 51
IS REPETITION NECESSARY? 52
How Many Times Should You Write the Name? 52
BUT I DON'T KNOW THE NAME! 53
If You Don't Know the Name, Here's What to Do 53
No Name, No Birth Date, No Address, Now What?
GLYPHS AND FLOWERS 55
Be Creative in Your Corners 55
PAPER TRICKS
Sewing or Pinning Papers Together 55
Tearing a Paper Bag 55
Colour-Coded Papers 55
Triangular Curses 55
TAKING A MEASURE 56
The Measure is a Personal Concern 56
The Measure of a Man 56
The Measure of a Woman 57
The Measure of a Foot 57
The Measure of a Hand 57
Capturing a True Length or Shadow 57
BURNING PAPERS TO ASH 58
The Power of Ashes 58
Prayer or Scriptural Verse Ash 58
How to Burn Papers on Incense 59
How to Make Bible Ashes of Psalms 91 59
Exodus Ashes for Lining Incense Burners 60
Name Paper Ash, with or Without Quassia Bark 60
DISSOLVING YOUR PETITIONS 61
DISPOSING OF YOUR PAPERS 61
BLESSING SPELLS 62
Backache Massage Cure with the Psalms 62
To Help or Heal Someone Dear to You 62
For Courage and Bravery 62
The Guardian Angel Prayer for a Child 62
To Increase a Woman's Chance of Conception 62
MONEY AND LUCK SPELLS 63
Wealthy Way 63
A Mojo for Getting a Loan to Buy Something 63
Charm, Altar Piece, or Mojo for Gambling 63
The Success Sigil or "Marked Money" 64
A Paper in Your Shoe for a Job Interview 65
A Paper Under a Candle for a Job Interview 66
Protect Your Investments 67
Quicksilver Gambling Charm Updated 67
Money and a Photo for Child Support 67
To Make a Lover More Generous with Money 67
LOVE AND SEX SPELLS 68
A Simple Mojo to Attract Love 68
An Arrow Through the Heart 68
To Make a Man Love You and Stay True 69
Michele Jackson's Cowrie Shell Fidelity Spell 70
A Man's Mojo Hand to Attract a Lover for Sex 71
A Woman's Mojo Hand to Draw a Man for Love 71
Spikenard and Basil for a Happier Marriage 72
Dove's Blood Ink and Senna to Attract Love 72
American Mandrake Bound in a Name Paper 72
Orange Blossom Water to Draw a Man 72
A Bosom Sachet for Love 72
Male Fern to Attract a Man 73
A Honey Jar Spell to Reconcile After a Fight 73
To Cause a Couple to Get Along Better 73
Deacon Millett's Sugar Bowl Packets 74
A Sugar Bowl for Peace in the Home 74
A Sugar Bowl to Bring True Love 74
A Sugar Bowl for a Faithful Marriage 74
A Sugar Bowl for Renewed Marriage Vows 74
Miss Michaele's Love-Prayer Bath Tricks 75
An Invisible Prayer in a Picture Frame 75
An Invisible Prayer in Bath Water 75
Dragon's Blood Incense Packet for Marriage 75
To Stop Marital Fighting 75
For the Return of an Absent Lover 76
To Cause a Couple's Love to Grow 76
A Loving Father for Your Child 77
Honey Jar for Sweetening Someone 77
"Love Me or Die": To Goofer a Man for Love 78
COURT CASE SPELLS 79
To Get a Court Case Dismissed 79
A Five-Herb Court Case Mojo 79
A Seven-Herb Court Case Mojo in a Paper 79
To Sweeten a Judge 79
Frozen Seeds for Court Cases 80
Seven of Clubs to Confuse Court Proceedings 80
Tie People Together to Catch Them Cheating 80
Beef Tongue 80
UNCROSSING SPELLS 81
To Remove Problems and Bad Habits 81
PROTECTION SPELLS 82
Emergency Protection in a Shoe or a Pocket 82
Protective Water or Cologne of Psalms 91 83
Policeman's Name for Protection of Property 83
Protection for a Home or an Illegal Business 84
Protecting Money from Theft 84
Psalms 121 Against Nightmares and Hag-Riding 84
Susan Barnes' Ephesians 6:11-20 for Protection 85
CROSSING SPELLS 86
A Paper Doll in a Coffin 86
To Put the Jinx on Someone 86
Run Devil Run Packet to Chase an Enemy Away 87
Wetted, Dried, Waxed, and Goofered 87
To Subdue an Opponent or Competitor 87
A Red Pepper Packet to Undermine an Enemy 88
To Send an Enemy Away 88
Strong Jinx on an Enemy 88
Gunpowder to Drive an Enemy Away 88
To Keep Someone in Jail 88
Four Ways to Break a Couple Up 89
How to Burn a Black Vigil Light for a Break Up 90
Break Up Spell with a Lemon 90
Old-Fashioned Black Candle Revenge Spell 91
Jinx an Enemy and His Car with a Black Candle 91
To Stop an Enemy's Lucky and Send Him Away 91
To Drive Someone Insane 91
Stinging Insects and Sharp Points Against a Foe 92
A Freezer Spell to Mess Up a Man's Sexuality 92
A Freezer Spell to Mess Up a Woman's Sexuality 92
Keep a Man, Lose a Man 93
To Cause Someone to Sicken or Die 93
To Curse an Enemy Thirteen Ways 93
7 Deadly Bible Psalms to Quell Your Foes 94
A Name Paper to Move Someone Away 95
BIBLIOGRAPHY 96

I hope this helps. Good luck.

DaniellaG · Unread post by **DaniellaG** » Thu Sep 19, 2019 2:39 pm

Thanks
I actually have the book but it doesn’t talk in there about what to do when you specifically want to make petitions on a picture and if writing your name over theirs on the back of their pic is ok. I hear a lot of people say when you write your name over the targets you are also going to be affected by the spell.is this true? Also, is it a must to write my name over his? And lastly, when I fold it, I fold it with the tissue with his semen inside the petition yes? Thanks so much

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:59 pm

DaniellaG,

If you look on page 43, the chapter "What to Write Upon", she mentions photographs. Pages 47 thru 52 Miss Cat describes the many ways to write names and petitions. I suggest revisiting these chapters to clear up some of your questions and maybe get some ideas for your work.

Yes, placing your name in the spell affects you. If you want him to be sweet to you, you would put your name on his. If you want him to be sweet to his boss for example, you would put his boss's name.

Yes, you would fold it with the tissue inside. There are instructions in the book on how to fold it so the contents stay inside.

Good luck in your work.

DaniellaG · Unread post by **DaniellaG** » Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:02 pm

Terra Rising,

I just visited page 43 again. All it basically says about the photograph is you can use a photo as a name paper. That wasn’t my question though. I wanted to clarify if I’m using his picture why would I write my name on it...especially if the spell will affect me? Can’t I just write his name and DOB on the back with the petition or command going around? Or it won’t make him sweeter to ME unless I specify my name ? That’s what I meant.