Reverse Revenge or Crossing Against Abusing Cheating Spouse Lover Ex-Spouse Ex-Lover

ChristinaKing22 · Unread post by **ChristinaKing22** » Tue Jan 03, 2017 4:06 am

Hi, I have been absorbed with all the information provided on LuckyMojo, the willingness of the members to help so selflessly and I myself have purchased items as well as had readings done in the past. But today, my situation is one that keeps me up at night and has me at war with my own intuition.

I'm not sure if this time around (many separations or more like bits of anger and tantrums where my husband either lacks the skills to be in a marriage, or perhaps there's something I am missing). Anyhow, for almost 4 years now I have had far to many "weird" moments happen and signs from my own guides, that not only could an affair be taking place (not just physical) but with another male. My son loves his dad, and only God knows the impact that even crappy dads offer their sons with just being there, however, if I suffer, I know we all suffer. The fights are often, my confusion and his inability to talk me from point A to point B whenever I ask simple questions about things I notice or things I truly found "off"... he just can't seem to make sense...
I need to know so that I can get on with my own life, my son deserves so much more than this and so do I, honestly, so does my husband.

If he is battling with his sexuality How can I get this revealed to me or if it's not even a battle and perhaps a secret life (he drives a freight truck "/) how do I get this infidelity exposed so i have no more uncertainty in my choice to move on?

Thank you. Thank you. And again, from the bottom of my soul, thank you

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Jan 03, 2017 4:46 pm

Hello ChristinaKing22,

Welcome to the forum! If you would like, you're welcome to introduce yourself under the introductions thread.

You say you've gotten readings before; have you gotten a reading on this particular situation? Because I think you should start there. A reader should at least be able to tell you if your husband has a double life he's not telling you about. As for his sexuality, only he can confirm that. I would recommend sitting down with him, without judgment, and sharing your feelings and fears with him and the things that you've been noticing.

Here are the links for readers in case you need them:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
http://hoodoopsychics.com/

If he isn't communicating clearly with you, you could try burning a skull candle for him. Dress a white skull candle with Deer's Tongue, Mercury oil and Influence oil, and as it burns, talk to it like it's him, and tell him you need him to talk honestly with you.

You can read more about skull candle spells here:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-skull-white.html

http://herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html#planetary
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html

Good luck to you.

ChristinaKing22 · Unread post by **ChristinaKing22** » Tue Jan 03, 2017 9:05 pm

Sister jean,
Thank you so much for your suggestions. Yes in the reading I was told that when a card was pulled it showed something along the lines of a masculine image with a rose, which lead the gentleman reading for me to believe it could mean he is bi sexual. Perhaps another reading is still a good idea.

I have tried so many times to address his (past affair) and any painful questions I may have and for the most part, it remains unsolved or he blows up and I shit down... we both do.

I will definitely take note of everything you expressed and will have a go at it.

Again,
I appreciate your input

P.s i didn't think it would go noticed that I hadn't introduced myself. Lol I guess my self esteem is not what it once was. Thank you for reminding me that I still hold my place in this world and that I'm not as invisible as I might feel st times.

Blessings,
Christina

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Jan 04, 2017 11:07 am

Hello ChristinaKing22,

I see. When things are so personal like this, it is really hard to communicate clearly without having emotions bubble up and complicate things. Have the two of you ever seen a therapist together? A therapist could help facilitate useful communication between the two of you. Just something to think about.

One more hoodoo idea I had is putting the two of you in a sugar jar, to soothe all the raw feelings that you have both had. You could burn blue candles on top dressed with Peaceful Home and Mercury oil, to help calm the fighting and facilitate communication, as well as sweeten the two of you toward each other.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

Take care.

P.S. You always have a place in the world. Don't forget it

ChristinaKing22 · Unread post by **ChristinaKing22** » Thu Jan 05, 2017 2:18 pm

Thank you sister Jean.

The hoodoo jar, in this case would it be with my name over his or two different petition papers? I love the mercury oil idea. I read about it and I had no idea it was for communication.

There is a new problem, I posted about it under the reunite && reconciliation topic. I am going to schedule a reading, things are getting too out of hand for me.

I appreciate you so much
C

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jan 05, 2017 9:22 pm

Hello, ChristinaKing22 ,

Please look at this page petition-papers-and-name-papers-questio ... 21039.html

And also take a look at the honey jar thread on the forum to answer your questions

Take care

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Wed May 31, 2017 5:04 am

Started my jar on Saturday night. Enough is enough, this is justified against my ex.

Contents:

Pickle jar, 1/4th of pickle juice left. Black pepper. Hardened red peppers. Cajun seasoning. Vinegar! Goofer dust, destruction oil, cat hair, dog hair, dog poop, broken glass. Petition written in his paystub from the company I want to separate him from. His name faving one way, theirs facing the other, the words breakup in between, then I ripped them apart. I cut out the company logo and wrote the same on the bavk of it and cut it down the middle.

I shske it and curse it and I get angry! My heart races! On Tuesday, I went to pick up fast food and right in front if my car getting off the highway is a truck from his company's other company. Say he works at pizza hut, but I saw a burrito hut truck (same company, same fsmily owner, same building they all work in).

Would this be my sign that I should have success? Thank you.

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Wed May 31, 2017 1:13 pm

UPDATE: I went out today to return my engagement rings he bought me. On my way home, I saw a truck from HIS company! I havnt seen one of those other than his for like 7 months. And it was right by my house! I know for sure that one was a sign

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 31, 2017 8:07 pm

Hello, misslady123 ,

Sounds like it!

In the future, please post in the correct subforum. This should be under he SIGNS thread

Thanks!

Beginner01 · Unread post by **Beginner01** » Fri Sep 01, 2017 2:43 pm

I would like to know if there's anything I can do to send an abusive man back to jail anonymously. He's currently out on probation and is beating his girlfriend her children and her dog. I asked on another thread about what protection can be done for all of them but I need to know how to have him sent back to jail immediately

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 01, 2017 7:03 pm

Hello, Beginner01

Please see my response on the other thread

take care

Sox1111 · Unread post by **Sox1111** » Thu Nov 02, 2017 10:03 pm

I’ve finally arrived to the point where I care enough about myself to no longer tolerate abuse and stalking from my ex. I was on the radio program and what I called “games and tricks”, the kind and patient workers who I spoke to called it what it was. Things got worse with the ex, but I got some other serious life problems out of the way. Now I can focus.

I want him caught and police to do something to him for his crimes against me. Police have always blamed me, even when the ex tried to drown me as punishment for wearing my first bikini after 100 pound weight loss and tummy tuck.

On Saturday, I did an erectile dysfunction spell, and work to publicize how the other girls he sleeps with say he’s boring in bed. Tonight, I started DUMEing him and began a cut and clear for myself. But if I do cut and clear, can I still effectively DUME or cross him? I would like for him to suffer about what he lost with me, and come crying to me and apologizing, if police won’t do anything. Would a cut and clear for myself diminish my effectiveness with revenge work on him?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Nov 03, 2017 7:15 pm

Hello, Sox1111

OMG, how terrible. I'm so sorry.

Yes, the cut and clear will diminish your anger toward him and ay not make the revenge spells as effective. But, what is more important? Revenge or your peace of mind and ability to move on to a better and happier life?

I pray that you find peace and happiness

Please take care of yourself

Peachy2018 · Unread post by **Peachy2018** » Mon Apr 02, 2018 8:36 am

I’m a very kind and forgiving person by nature. But I’ve allowed my ex-husband to walk all over me and I’ve had enough.

He was emotionally abusive during our 16 year marriage. He met a woman from Canada online in 2014. After a 6 month long affair, he filed for divorce to be with this woman. As if that wasn’t painful enough, he also tried taking custody of our 3 children so he could move to Canada with her and her daughter.

I was a stay at home Mom all of those years and he knew I didn’t have money to fight him. Well, he underestimated my family. We are not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination but my parents and grandparents took second mortgages on their homes to cover my legal fees. I kept the children.

Now he’s at it again! It’s been 3 years, so he can legally drag me to court again! This time he is using my new husband’s combat related PTSD as his ammunition. My new husband is a retired Green beret, sniper with 10 combat deployments who has made huge sacrifices for our country and its citizens.

I need to know which curse against my ex-husband would work best in this situation. I want him to suffer like I have! I want him to stress, lose sleep and worry himself sick like I have. I want him to suffer financially like my family had to. The man is evil but sits up in church every time the door is open. He’s a lying snake and I’d like him exposed for what he truly is. I need to know which curse would work best and how to carry it out.

I’m desperate.

Thank you so much.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Apr 02, 2018 10:04 am

Hello, Peachy 2018 --

I am sorry to hear what you have been going through with your abusive ex. There is a type of spouse who will attept to use children as a way to torture the parent who cares for them most, and it is extremely ugly. You are lucky to have a strong family to support you.

Now, as to the "best" curse. Well, that's like asking which recipe makes the "best" chocolate chip cookies. Everyone has an opinion, but magic (like baking) is an ART as much as it is a set of ways to work. And imagine if you had a well-provided professional bakery kitchen versus if you had a home kitchen way out in the boondocks and it was Easter Sunday so the only store in town, which was 20 miles away, was closed. In either case, you would want to make chocolate chip cookies, but your options might be more limited in one case than the other. And, if you have only limited ingredients, maybe you can get creative: Less flour? Add some oatmeal! Not enough chocolate chips? Add some chopped walnuts. Folk magic is like home cooking. It's an art, and we do it as best we are able, always.

I hope that paints a picture for you that will calm down your "desperate" cry for the "best" spell.

Your message (which started a new thread, which is a no-no -- so please, read the Forum rules!) was merged into the thread on revenge against ex-spouses. There are 7 pages of requests and free spell advice in this thread, as it is a popular topic. Please start from page 1 and read all the way to here. Your question may have already been answered -- and if it was not, you can ask again, and we will know exactly what your question is, rather than a blind hunt for "the best spell."

Next, there is another area of the board where spells for CHILD CUSTODY CASES are discussed, and i suggest that you read that thread too. It is 9 pages long and it also contains messages from people in your circumstances, and may include free spells that you can learn right here in the Forum. The child custody thread is here:

http://forum.luckymojo.com/spells-for-c ... 21932.html

Finally, i suggest that if you do want to curse your ex (and i think you may be justified in doing so), you should check out these handy and inexpensive books that each contain more than 100 curses of justified revenge:

BOO-GRI-CURS
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CURSING AND CROSSING:
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You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

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Good luck!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Sun Apr 22, 2018 2:13 pm

There’s this man in my life who hurt and caused me so much pain that I feel miserable every single day and sometimes I just feel like I want to die. I don’t care how much he say he isn’t, but he is a selfish a** man! I want him to feel my pain and my misery because NOBODY should every feel like this. I love him to death, the the way he treats people is just wrong and it’s all because he’s selfish! What’s a good spell for something of this nature?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Apr 23, 2018 9:51 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

I'm so sorry you've been hurt. If you scroll up to the post just above yours, you'll find a book that's full of ideas you can use as well as a link where you can buy it. You can also look here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/black/r ... pells.html

Take care!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Wed Apr 25, 2018 2:16 pm

Thank you! I found a revenge spell on the site, but is it okay two purchase double the products and start the ritual on two different people at the same time? Since they’re both involved I want to do everything dealing with it at the same time.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Apr 26, 2018 10:45 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

Yes that's fine to do that, just make sure that you properly spiritually bathe with hyssop after doing any revenge work.

http://www.herbmagic.com/hyssop.html

Take care.

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Thu Apr 26, 2018 10:49 am

Okay, thank you so much. Because I'm feel so messed up in the head right now it doesn't make since. Especially since I was professionally diagnosed with depression yesterday! I just hate being the only feeling hurt and losing sleep at night while the people who caused trouble and pain in my life are sleeping like babies and going about their day as if nothing ever happened! I'M TIRED OF IT AND IT'S GOING TO STOP!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Thu Apr 26, 2018 10:55 am

Will this spell that I found on the Lucky Mojo site be a decent spell to use on both parties?:

REVENGE SPELL:

Here's a quick, short folk-magic spell for harming someone
you hate, but only for doing so by sending back to them the
mean words and pain they gave to you.

You need:

a black human figure candle or black chinaware human figure
(gender-specific, according to the sex of your enemy)
a packet of dried blackberry leaves
a piece of black cloth
a length of black thread
a hammer
a shovel or trowel to dig a hole

Optional: Goofer Dust or Graveyard Dirt
Crossing Oil or Hot Foot Oil

Start on a Saturday. Name the figural candle or statue with
the name of your enemy by carving the enemy's name in the
wax or writing it on the chinaware with a marker. Wrap the
candle or statuette all over with the dried spiny leaves of
blackberry vines. Lay this mess on the piece of black cloth,
wrap it up, and tie the bundle closed with black thread.

Now, in your most angry voice, tell the person what it is
you want to send back to them and then hit the packet 3
times with a hammer. Hit it really hard, to break it.

Each day for 7 days tell the figure what you want to send
back to him or her and hit the packet 3 hammer blows. By
the end of the 7 days, it should be pretty well pulverized.
When you are finished, take the bundle outdoors (to a
cemetery if you can), dig a deep hole, throw the packet in,
and cover it up. Walk away and don't look back.

To make the work stronger, you may also dress the candle or
statue first with Crossing Oil or Hotfoot Oil and you may
add Goofer Dust or Graveyard Dirt to the blackberry
leaves, but not too much, because you want that figure feel
the spiny leaves as it is crushed up in them by the hammer
blows.

I copied and pasted what I found on the site, and to me this will work just fine but I want to make sure before doing so! And if so, should I say something different each day as far as what I want to happen or just repeat the same thing each time?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:00 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

This is an excellent spell and should serve you well in your search for revenge. Just follow the instructions.

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Thu Apr 26, 2018 11:03 am

Thank you so much for all your input Sister Jean!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Fri May 11, 2018 10:07 am

I'm waiting for my order from Lucky Mojo and I'm so excited an anxious all at the same time. I've ordered everything necessary from Lucky Mojo, but as far as the "black cloth" that's mentioned in the spell I copied and pasted above, does it have to be a specific material or any black cloth? I'm only asking because it wasn't specified. I have some old black t-shirts that I no longer wear and was wondering could i use the t-shirt or at least cut a portion of the t-shirt to use for the spell?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun May 13, 2018 8:44 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

If this cloth is going to be used in any revenge or crossing work, which I assume it is since you posted under such a thread, I would NOT recommend using cloth from an object that once belonged to you. You don't want any connection to yourself anywhere near such work. I'd just go to the fabric store and get some economically priced black cloth, doesn't have to be fancy.

Hope that helps!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Sun May 13, 2018 12:48 pm

Thank you Sister Jean!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Tue May 15, 2018 8:46 am

I have a quick and urgent question because I need to start working this TODAY even though it states in the spell to begin on a Saturday. These are the noted supplies for the spell that I'm going to perform:

You need:

a black human figure candle or black chinaware human figure
(gender-specific, according to the sex of your enemy)
a packet of dried blackberry leaves
a piece of black cloth
a length of black thread
a hammer
a shovel or trowel to dig a hole

Optional: Goofer Dust or Graveyard Dirt
Crossing Oil or Hot Foot Oil

I've received my order from Lucky Mojo and I have everything I need other than the Blackberry Leaves because Bearberry Leaves were accidentally shipped. They're shipping the correct leaves, but i don't have time to wait for shipping because this female has to be dealt with ASAP. Would it be a good idea to start the spell anyway without the use of the Blackberry Leaves or just wait for the package to arrive?

Unread post by **RevJames** » Tue May 15, 2018 10:54 am

inquiringminds128 -

If this is a reversing work, the blackberry leaves seem important to me considering that's the only thing in the list that works in such a way. I'm not entirely familiar with the exact working associated with this list so I'm not sure I could give your advice on how to adjust the working, but there are plenty of other herbs that can be used for reversing such as agrimony, sage, or wood betony if you have any of these at your disposal. I would imagine with the optional ingredients you could change the working to cross or jinx them but not necessarily reverse what they have done to you back to them.

I just found your original post about this last month - viewtopic.php?t=85&p=383855#p383855 - which states "Here's a quick, short folk-magic spell for harming someone you hate, but only for doing so by sending back to them the mean words and pain they gave to you. " which reinforces that the working does need a reversing component, which in this case is the blackberry leaves

Also - I see you posted about the shipping mishap on the 12th. Can I suggest next time try to post such question a few days before you absolutely NEED an answer(add a day or two more for those reading this still in post approval), for instance when you found out about the shipping mistake if you already planned this work for today. This forum is not monitored 24/7 every minute and sometimes posts can go a few days without a reply. I just happen to be on today and thought I could help with your question, which may not always be the case.

Finally though, I would say that if you want this to work as stated, wait for the blackberry leaves or find a suitable alternative within the reversing "family" of herbs. If you have Cat's Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic, check the back under "Jinxing" and "Reverse Evil, Return Tricks" for a more complete list, maybe you have a a suitable alternative at home.

Hope this helps and good luck in your work!

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Tue May 15, 2018 10:58 am

Thank you RevJames, from reading your post I think it's best that I wait for the Blackberry Leaves. Thank you so much for your input.

mana · Unread post by **mana** » Wed May 16, 2018 9:12 pm

I would like to cross an Ex's sex life. I don't have much time at his place and was thinking of dusting his underwear drawer with crossing powder then back it up with a jar or candle work later? I hope the crossing powder, through his underwear, will be in contact with his genitals often. Please express your thoughts and suggestions as to whether this could work.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 19, 2018 11:05 am

Hello mana,

Yes that would absolutely work. Just make sure to use small amounts of powder so it's undetectable. You can also use Destruction powder for such a purpose:

http://www.luckymojo.com/destruction.html

Also check out this page:

curses-to-cause-erectile-dysfunction-an ... 20352.html

Take care.

mana · Unread post by **mana** » Tue May 29, 2018 4:27 am

Thank you kindly Sister Jean

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Sun Jul 08, 2018 4:57 am

hello
I'm currently in a situation where the guy that i was talking to for years, suddenly decided not to be with me after him complaining for a year he wants me to move back where he's living at. i finally made all the preparations to move there, and he breaks up with me. now he won't answer my call, barely texts, me but i truly feel he found someone else but just can't admit it to me. should i buy the crossing spell kit or the revenge spell kit, or they do the same thing. whichever one is more powerful, that's what i want. also im thinking of buying a black penis candle, because i notice now he's always online with her and times he told me he's sleeping or giving some lame excuse. now i believe she's spending the night at his house and vice versa. i want him to lose everything he got because i sacrifice everything for this move for him to hurt me this deeply. also what can i get for the woman that's he seeing, so he can turn away from her. i want them both to feel extreme pain. i want to tie his nature for life. so should i get the crossing or revenge kit, the black penis candle, and what can i do to tie his nature and let him can't have any woman be attractive to him. i want him to lose everthing meaning his job, car, etc. thanks

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Sun Jul 08, 2018 7:02 am

hello again,
i was also reading about dume oil. i'll be moving where's he's at in a few days and i know i can't get his semen because he won't sleep with me. i can probably get his pubic hair. i was wondering when i dress the penis candle, do i add his pubic hair to that or the candle that comes with the crossing kit. should i get enough hair for both. also i owe him money. i was thinking of dressing the money with crossing powder and the dume oil. i also read that using dume if you don't clean yourself, surrounding, and place well it can come back on you. see i have a son that calls him dad. i won't let my son be with me when i go to his house. first i'll go there to talk, excuse myself to use the bathroom while i look for his hair, my next return will be to give him his money dress with the crossing powder and dume oil. i just want to know how i can best cleanse myself and my place after doing the work. thanks

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jul 08, 2018 9:03 am

Hello Ca_gurl84,

My heart goes out to you, what a terrible situation.

If you want to truly cause this man's life to fall apart (loss of job, car, bad money luck, etc.), get the Crossing spell kit and mix in some D.U.M.E. or Destruction oil. You can find the kit here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-crossing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/dume.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/destruction.html

You mentioned cleansing, and that's a good thing to be thinking about when doing work like this. The Crossing spell kit actually comes with a packet of hyssop herb that you can use to cleanse yourself after you do this work. It wouldn't be a bad idea to cleanse your home with Chinese Wash afterward as well.

http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html

To tie this man's nature, visit this thread for lots of ideas, as well as how to tie the woman's nature:

curses-to-cause-erectile-dysfunction-an ... 2-120.html

That should be enough to get you started, but if you have more questions after that, feel free to let us know.

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Mon Jul 09, 2018 8:20 am

hello
thanks for the answers. i had a reading done yesterday and i found out it was his ex wife who did something for him and i to stop talking and him wanting nothing to do with. i want her out my life and his for good. they don't have any kids together but although she has someone already, she's blocking us from being together. i want to hurt her in the worse possible way, even if it bring death. what can i buy to make her disappear. also i have a question. i realize that he was talking to another woman while talking to me. i still want to do the crossing spell on him, but will i have to work on him first then the ex wife or can i do it both at the same time. do the crossing on him and do another work on the ex wife.

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Mon Jul 09, 2018 9:00 am

hi again,
i was looking through your inventory and noticed you guys don't have the black vulva. will it be in stock soon or must i purchase it somewhere else and can still dress it to my liking?

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Wed Jul 11, 2018 8:44 am

hello,

i just read a post where catherine used a black candle and dressed it with blackberry leaves, black cloth, black thread, a hammer and shovel to get rid of the figure.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/black/r ... pells.html

i was wondering can i use that instead for the evil ex wife who ruined my life or just buy another crossing spell kit and use it the same time for the cheating boyfriend. here's a copy of the spell i came across. should i carve her name on the candle too?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jul 12, 2018 11:11 am

Hello Ca_gurl84,

Yes, you can do that spell for the ex-wife and the crossing kit for your other target, if you wish. As for the black vulva candle, I'd call the shop and ask if they are going to be getting it in soon.

Take care.

Vida · Unread post by **Vida** » Wed Jul 25, 2018 9:45 am

OK, there is a guy I had some relations in the past. Despite all of the support and help I gave him, even after we broke up, he managed to insult me and continue to use me for various services. I helped him with institutions, money, took care of his dog, etc...but he tries to ruin my self confidence as a woman. What is the best way to revenge him without much harm? I only want to give that boy a good lesson not to mess with me, because I don't deserve that. But I want us to stay friends after. Any suggestions?
BTW, I have a full access and key to his house, so it won't be hard.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Jul 25, 2018 11:23 am

OK, there is a guy I had some relations in the past. Despite all of the support and help I gave him, even after we broke up, he managed to insult me and continue to use me for various services. I helped him with institutions, money, took care of his dog, etc...but he tries to ruin my self confidence as a woman.

I only want to give that boy a good lesson not to mess with me, because I don't deserve that. I have a full access and key to his house, so it won't be hard. But I want us to stay friends after.

What is the best way to revenge him without much harm? Any suggestions?

Luckylady123 · Unread post by **Luckylady123** » Sun Aug 05, 2018 9:36 am

Before the hyssop bath to cleanse after revenge work- I have read on the forum that some hyssop tea can be infested. Is the hyssop packet I ordered from Lucky mojo edible?

Thsnk you & many blessings!!

Luckylady123 · Unread post by **Luckylady123** » Sun Aug 05, 2018 9:40 am

I meant ‘ingested’ !!!!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Aug 05, 2018 10:51 am

Hello Blackcattt0123,

That would be a good question to call the shop with!

Lovelygirl00 · Unread post by **Lovelygirl00** » Mon Aug 27, 2018 5:59 am

Hey everybody,

This is what’s going on with me. I was in a relationship with a man that controlled me and was mean to me whenever I did something he didn’t like (which was often) I was in love with him but he was an abuser. Last time we spoke he cussed me out because I told him I spoke to one of the girls he cheated on me with. He began yelling at me, calling me a liar so on and so on.

On another occasion he grabbed me by the neck and started choking me because I caught him at a hotel. Some how he convinced me that it was my fault he put his hands on me even though I never touched him back. He always feels that everything is my fault and he would rarely apologize.

Right now he isn’t taking my calls or answering my text or emails. Which would be fine because I don’t need someone like that in my life however the problem with that is the fact that we were in the middle of closing a business deal and he was helping me financially (like some abusers like to control you financially).

Here’s what I need, I still need this business deal to workout and I still need his help financially.

I also want him to feel depressed and hopeless without me. I want him to feel so sick to his stomach for ALL of the bad things he did to me and never forget them. I want it to play in his mind over and over again so much that he can’t even sleep at night.

I want him to give me an apology

And I want his business associates to fight with him and keep him down and upset like he did me. And I want everyone of them to decide to end business arrangements with him and to not want to talk or do business with him again.

Here’s what I have
I have personal items of his
And pictures of him and all of his business associates I’d like him to fight with.

How can I use these items best to get every thing I want?

P.S I already know about cut and clear but I want the help financially since he has me in this financial situation already and I want him to hurt the way he’s hurt me if not worse.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Aug 27, 2018 12:53 pm

Lovelygirl00,

To make his partnerships end I would put them in a break up jar: 9 pins, 9 rusty nails, 9 razorblades, red pepper to fight, poppy to cause confusion cat and dog hair to fight like cats and dogs, vinegar to cause it to sour, spoiled milk to sour it. Leave some space in the glass as this creates gasses. Add personal concern, photos of the people involved. As you shake this jar call down curses for them to fight, anger, not get along etc. Burn a black candle on top every Tuesday (Mars) and Saturday ( Saturn).

A crossing candle where you use a figure candle of him and stick pins and sharp objects into it to cause pain as you curse each part of him. Stuff the bottom of the candle with his personal concern, carve the candle, baptize it in his name then dress with oil, how nasty this guy sounds, I really like destruction oil with crossing, and dust it with graveyard or Goofer dust to really make his life a mess.
To get him to do the loan I would work with commanding items and pay me oil, since he agreed to help with the loan.
Getting him to apologize is going to take a lot of work maybe even using a skull candle to influence his thoughts, or intranqulity sprit since you actually want to use it to torture him and not as a love spell.

Break up kit: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html
Goofer dust: http://www.herbmagic.com/goofer-dust.html
Graveyard dirt: http://www.herbmagic.com/graveyard-dirt.html
Coffin Nails great for this type of work to "kill the relationship: http://www.herbmagic.com/coffin-nails.html
Intranquility spell kit: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-intranquility.html
Destruction oil: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-destruction.html
Commanding products: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-commanding.html
Pay me oil: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-pay-me.html
Hyssop to cleanse yourself after any negative work: http://www.herbmagic.com/hyssop.html
Part of your topic is about loans and business great book on that: CASH BOX CONJURE
by Miss Phoenix LeFae
Other part is about cursing another amazing book on the subject: http://www.luckymojo.com/cursingandcrossing.html

Lovelygirl00 · Unread post by **Lovelygirl00** » Mon Aug 27, 2018 1:05 pm

Thank you so much j82. I’ll keep you guys posted on my results

Sparklez · Unread post by **Sparklez** » Thu Aug 30, 2018 11:24 am

Hey everyone I really hope I can get some guidance
I'm looking for some work I can do that will cause my ex to lose his buisness , for people to see him for what he really is and for him to get the pain and misery back that he has caused me and many others,

He is a narcissist and can maniuplate nearly anyone he comes into contact with, he has broken friendships hurt families and left a line of women in his wake broken hearted and left wondering what's going on as he ghosts every single one of us

I want him to lose his friendships, his income, I want his lying disgustinf cheating selfish personality out there for everyone to see

I did the black candle BlackBerry leaf working back in July but it doesn't seem to have done anything

He's still flying high with everyone kissing his backside and he's loving every single minute of it and it makes me feel sick, he cheated on me with a girl half my age he lied to me left me after living with me for 11 months and refused to answer the phone , I found out that he has treated every one of his exes this way, it's been 6 months and I still despise him and need this revenge on him

He is a dangerous calculated soulless individual and the one way I know to hurt him would be for him to lose his buisness and for people to see the real him.

Would a vinegar jar be enough? I need to see his downfall

Thank you

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Aug 30, 2018 12:07 pm

Sparklez,

You could use crossing products to cross him up, jinx to jinx his life, damnation to bring his downfall, destruction to destroy his life, Goofer dirt to kill, same with graveyard dirt, os severely sicken him. Any and all products used on black figure candles, doll baby, vinegar to spoil his relationships, sour his life. I dont often recommend the Intranquility Spirit spell but in a case like this it will torture him and you have no desire to have him return which would make it long lasting on his life.

Goofer dust: http://www.herbmagic.com/goofer-dust.html
Graveyard dirt: http://www.herbmagic.com/graveyard-dirt.html
Intranquility spell kit: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-intranquility.html
Destruction oil: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-destruction.html
Cursing and crossing book: http://www.luckymojo.com/cursingandcrossing.html
Damnation to send someone to hell: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-damnation.html
Destruction to destroy them: http://www.luckymojo.com/destruction.html
To cross up their life: http://www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html
Jinx to ruin his luck in love, friends, work: http://www.luckymojo.com/jinx.html
Hyssop to cleanse after the work: Hyssop to cleanse yourself after any negative work: http://www.herbmagic.com/hyssop.html

MissL33 · Unread post by **MissL33** » Mon Oct 29, 2018 2:48 am

I want revenge on my ex-boyfriend.

I do not want to kill him or for him to be severely injured. A little scoffed up is ok.

I do not want to involve feces, menstrual blood, semen, or animal parts besides provided hair.

I also do not see him on a regular basis. I know he lives with his current girlfriend and I know where she lives so I could visit there if needed.

It would be difficult for me to leave something near a walk way that they would cross over because she lives in an apartment complex and I am not sure what side of the building she exits from. Plus, so many people walk past the walk way to the apartment.

I do have access to a few of his personal items such as: car keys, his signature, paper work, car mirror, etc.

1) What is the best spell to cast for an ex-boyfriend who is narcissistic, controlling, lies, manipulates, and cheats. This guy is now with the girlfriend he cheated on me with and I am going to perform a break up spell on them soon. I hope the break up spell is successful, because then I want to move on to cursing him specifically in love and career.

2) Can I make revenge spells specific to their objective or are they just general? Again, what is the best suggestion.

3) I know that after the spell is complete in about 3 days I should see something, in 3 weeks I should see movement, and in 3 months possible results, but I know that is not set in stone. However, how would I know the spell is working if I no longer live with my ex-boyfriend or interact with him? Unless he ends up on the news, posts his tragedy on social media, or I stalk him I have no way of knowing if he is suffering. Or is there a way to know if a spell is working even when a person is not around. I want to know it is working to decide if I should try another spell or move on.

Please help.

MissL33 · Unread post by **MissL33** » Mon Oct 29, 2018 2:16 pm

Hello Everyone,

I have a similar situation to northeanymore in that it's been a year since my traumatic break up from my ex-boyfriend who is narcissistic. He abused me emotionally and physically throwing things at me and the whole time we were together name calling me, gas lighting me, manipulating me, and wanting to know everything about me and all my vulnerabilities to better control me.

I told him I was recovering my by past relationship with another abuser and that I have trust issues and he took advantage. He wanted to solve my problems and only created them. Every time we would have a fight he would run into the arms of another women. He told me he loved me constantly than would hurt me all over again. I know I have to take some of the blame, because I allowed It to happen for 6 months. Anyway, after we broke up I began drinking again, became suicidal, and almost had a mental break down.

But, for him he is with his current girlfriend another black girl. He tried to replace me. He began dating her two months after we broke up. He could have been talking to her while we were together for all I know. His acting career is talking off a bit booking a commercial and doing short films.

I am a better now, sober, seeking therapy, going to support groups, but I still want justice. I blocked him on social media for awhile, but I unblock him recently out of curiosity and saw he is still with her and it brought back all my anger and pain again seeing that he is lying to her, manipulating her, telling her he loves her, when he said that to me. And it's obvious she is believing it. She thinks their soulmates and thought so too. He even has pictures with her at places I INTRODUCED HIM TO. He knows what he's doing. I wants to stick it to me the bastard.

Since he is an actor I would like his looks to be affected, and being such a man whore maybe for him to be impotent, but I definitely want all his relationships to fail and for him to be unsuccessfully in his acting career. What is the best spell or spells for me to do? I have some of his property, but no personal items like hair. I could possibly get some if I broke into his car. He lives with his current girlfriend and I know where she lives. He mainly stays over there. She lives in apartments so many people walk over the path to the apartment where should I spread goofer or destruction powder in this case? Any, help is appreciated I know someone can understand where I am coming from.

Lovelygirl00 · Unread post by **Lovelygirl00** » Sat Nov 24, 2018 8:48 am

Hi Everyone,

I have no idea what to do, I had 3 readings this month saying that me and my ex were going to get married and then I found out he was cheating on me online but I still took him back because of the readings and because I love him. We were trying to work things out and everything was going pretty good until I caught him in another lie and then he started a huge fight and even tried to blame me for him lying and then he broke up with me because I wanted his passwords to his phone (which he gave me) I found a lot of inappropriate conversations between two women he said that he was just friends with (also I did a freezer jar on these women months ago) and when I comforted him about it (while I was clearly crying and heartbroken) he said he didn’t do anything wrong even tho we had an disagreement about his behavior with other women before and he said he would be upset if I was doing that and he said he wouldn’t do it anymore but really all he did was stop doing it infront of me. Then he started yelling at me calling me names and saying a ton of just mean things which lead to a physical fight between us (in front of my niece) and him swearing to never talk to me again. We were living together and he took only two things and left. I’m so confused and I want to get revenge but I do still love him, I was interested in the intranquilty candle being burned at the lucky mojo church before we got back together this time but then I read all of the warnings that everyone usually feels some of the depression they give to the other person which I do not want because I’ve dealt with enough depression from this relationship but I do really want revenge so what candle would you guys recommend burning at the church along with the best petition?

Also I want him to feel guilty and remorseful about all the bad (wrong) he has done to me (even the stuff I don’t know about) because he always finds away to blame everyone else for his behaviors. And I especially want him to accept and acknowledge this incident was his fault for not being honest and I want it to keep him up at night and for him to be depressed with no relief.

thelight1 · Unread post by **thelight1** » Sat Nov 24, 2018 6:47 pm

Hello Lovelygirl00,

I am by no means a forum moderator, but I often read new topics on this LM forum site as if it is my morning newspaper full of new information and stories. I just wanted to share with you that in the past i have burned the intranquility candle at the church and I petitioned for the IS to help return my ex AND make him feel guilty...

I assumed the candle deacons at MISC recited the traditional prayer, then recited my petition... and my petition was "Make [target] (DOB XXXX) think of how bad he treated [myself] (DOB XXXX). Make [TARGET] feel guilty about all he put [Myself] through; Humble him & return him to [myself] to redeem himself"

My target was extremely stubborn, it took several candles to see any signs/movement in the right direction.. that doesn't mean he wasn't feeling the effects, it just means it took awhile for him to act on those feelings.

My point being what you're asking for can be done, but it may take a lot of work. Of course, my case was extremely complicated as there were a lot of factors involved (other women, drugs, several bad influence friends, and the man himself was very very wealthy and stubborn).

Wishing you luck!!

Lovelygirl00 · Unread post by **Lovelygirl00** » Sun Nov 25, 2018 3:19 am

Thank you thelight1,

Question? Did you feel restless at night or depressed while due to the spell? I saw a lot of people say that they did? Are you and him still together?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Nov 25, 2018 9:07 am

Lovelygirl00,

Doing this type of work it is strongly suggested you do uncrossing on yourself and bath in hyssop while praying Psalms 51. Then use protection products to keep anything off of you such as fiery wall of protection.

thelight1 · Unread post by **thelight1** » Sun Nov 25, 2018 10:53 am

Lovelygirl00,

I felt depressed in general because of my situation, not because of the spell. It is important to know the difference/causes of your emotions. Many people blame the IS when in fact they already felt miserable to begin with.. and in general, you may feel worse after realizing you had to resort to calling upon an "evil" entity for help and even then, it may not be enough.

As for my ex, it took months for us to even have a civil conversation, and trust me, i did nothing wrong to cause the break up. He just got swept up in a life full of escorts and drugs, and got mad at me for catching him in lies.. then said the break up was my fault and had a ton of built up anger towards me, i still have no idea why.. To this day, I am still working break up + destruction on him and his escort (Since August now).. I see them get in pretty nasty fights and somehow 1-2 weeks later everything is fine with them again, it is very frustrating.. she has no car, no education, barely speaks english, and has a pimp, so i have no idea what he wants with her.

my situation consisted of several steps such as:

*Break up + Destruction on him and his escort's relationship (Since august, STILL working on that

)
*IS on him (august - october)
*Break up + hot foot on him to keep him continuously miserable in the bar until he ultimately stays out of the bar (october -current)
*Hot foot on the escort to attempt to keep her out of his life (november - current)

*Clarity + reconciliation + return to me on him to come back and realize his mistakes and poor choices (october - current; i had to wait until i was done using the IS, because you can not mix the IS with clarity work)
*Mercury on him for communication (october - current)

-Currently, we are back in contact, and i have seen him in person once since i started the spell work. But, the escort is still around, no matter how bad they fight, they always make up, and he is still going to the bar full of bad influences.. even though i KNOW he has been getting in pretty heated arguments every time he walks in that place. I honestly am starting to think he's forcing this negative lifestyle and is in complete denial that he needs to change.

Anyway, spell work can have a lot of steps and can get very expensive.. overtime i keep having to add more and more spells to the mix. I am getting all my candles burned by a root worker and/or at the church.. now in the defense of LM and my root worker, i WAS originally advised to cut and clear, which would have been ALOT CHEAPER, but I was in love, and couldn't make myself do that. Plus, i HAD a very luxurious lifestyle which i feel like was completely stolen from me.. I would give anything to have my life back. Which is why I am still trying..

again, good luck.

Scorpionwitch · Unread post by **Scorpionwitch** » Sun Dec 02, 2018 7:02 am

Hi everyone-

I’ve been reading through this forum and am completely at a loss for what to do. I was with a man for almost 3 years who I broke up with a few months ago out of frustration. We stayed in contact because he kept reaching out to me and I started doing reconciliation work on him and saw some results. However he kept saying that he didn’t want to be committed to anyone at all.

I have had multiple readers tell me that he will never let me go or move on and that he will always come back and that he loves me but doesn’t know how to love and commit to me fully in the way that I need. I also had a reader see this girl around him who had been trying to get her claws into him long before he and I broke up.

So a few days ago I did a freezer spell on this girl to freeze her out of his life and freeze out her attraction to him. I’ve had some success with those in the not too distant past.

I also did some work on him to make it so that he could not become aroused or perform sexually with any woman but me. He and I had also been intimate since we broke up. The most recent time was on November 16th. I had been collecting some of his semen from these encounters to use in my work to bring him back to me and used a bit of tissue that had his semen on it to load the penis candle spell that I did on him.

Yesterday he blocked me on FB (but is still following me on Instagram) because this girl that the reader had warned me about had posted that they had been seeing each other for at least a month and that he went to visit her for her birthday last week. Apparently it didn’t cross his mind that I could still see it on her FB page...

This girl would throw herself at him while he and I were together and then when he wouldn’t go home with her, she would have sex with his friends. I have been exhibiting symptoms of an STD and thought it was just a fluke but I ended up going to get tested last night after I found all this out. I still don’t have the results.

I messaged this girl directly with screenshots proving that he had been cheating on her with me and I also sent the same things to a couple of her friends. I haven’t heard back from her yet, but I doubt she’d stay with my ex after finding out that he’s been cheating on her with me throughout the entire time they’ve been seeing each other. They are also long distance.

I don’t know what to do. I’m in total shock. I already have done so much work on him and have seen results and probably will continue to see results from more recent works to bring him back. I didn’t know he was like this -- after almost 3 years, it didn’t even cross my mind that he could be like this.

I’ve had this done to me before by other guys, but they treated me awfully throughout the entire relationship. My most recent ex was so kind and gentle with me.

1) I don’t know where this came from but if this is who he really is, then I don’t want him back. I want to hurt him.

2) I still want to be with who I thought he was, but now I don’t know if that person ever really existed.

3) What’s the best way to make him realize that he’s screwed up and how do I make him feel everything that I’ve felt, everything he’s made me feel -- even down to the suicidal thoughts and desires I’ve had since breaking up with him.

4) How do I make him beg for my forgiveness after what he’s done?

5) I want this girl out of the picture for good -- clearly he doesn’t care for her if he’s been cheating on her with me the whole time they’ve been together and she most likely gave him the STD that he’s given me.

I apologize for how long this post is, but I’m completely at a loss and am almost frozen from shock and am hurting so much.

What do I do?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Dec 02, 2018 3:46 pm

Scorpionwitch ,

I would suggest a reading from an AIRR reader ASAP who can tell you what he has been up to and what is going on.
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

The fact he cheats on her and they long distance and he is saying he dont want to commit tells me he is lying to both of you and is a cheater. You cant change a mans nature, if he is a pig and a dog, that is who he is, you can spend good money and lots of spells to try and control him but you cant change him. He is probably using this girl too while he sleeps around, and will tell her you are crazy and he didnt do those things etc.. People who cheat are master manipulators, its in part why you are torn over " who he was", and "who he is". Chances are what you are seeing is the real him.

You can put them in a break up jar to ruin their relationship, and add destruction products to destroy the relationship.
Break up: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-break-up.html
Destruction: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-destruction.html
Reversing to send it back: http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Put him in a mirror box so all his lies, negativity, cheating, STD's all come back to him.
Mirror Box: mirror-spells-and-mirror-box-spells-que ... t2140.html

Great book on cursing by Miss Aida: http://www.luckymojo.com/cursingandcrossing.html

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Dec 08, 2018 5:03 pm

Hi Scorpionwitch,

Reading through your post, you do not seem to be clear about what you want with or from him.

You said you want him to beg for your forgiveness. Do you want to reconcile?

You said you want him to feel all of the awful things you have felt since your break up. Do you want revenge?

You said you want his new girl to know he has been cheating on her with you. Do you want to break them up?

Focus your desires before jumping into any kind of spell work because I can guarantee you that as confused as you sound here, spirit won't know which end is up either and won't respond to any of your petitions.

You might want to do some Clarity work on yourself, to center yourself and decide the kind of future you want, with or without him. Then you can design your work with single-minded purpose.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Dec 08, 2018 6:42 pm

JayDee and Athena are right, Scorpionwitch -- the five different outcomes you want are not completely compatible with one another. Chose one for him and one for her; then we can help.

Also, just to throw a monkey wrench into the works -- if you do have an STD (you said you were waiting for test results) he could have picked it up and passed it to you from a third woman, or from a man, for all you know. He is just that kind of a liar that you may never know.

And my advice it to avenge yourself and then live the happy life he will never be able to have.