Spells to Heal Angry Negative Depressed Parents and Elders

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon May 23, 2016 6:21 pm

Hi cadylady14,

You have very good products to work with, but I would separate out your spells. You have Wealthy Way and Attraction to work in bringing in business. That is a great start.

For your relationship with and between your parents, you might want to work your Rose of Crucifixion to break down blockages. I would also suggest Peaceful Home products (especially if you live with them) as well as putting the three of you in a honey jar, to sweeten your relationships. It will help.

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

As you take over more of the business, I would work a mojo for yourself using Mastery, Crown of Success and Victory products. You need to maintain your discipline and aptitude for moving the business forward, and a mojo can really help you. The first link below is for the subject of mojo hands, and the rest are for the three products I recommend.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/master.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/victory.html

I hope this helps. Please keep us posted, and good luck!

Spiritualist01 · Unread post by **Spiritualist01** » Mon Jun 06, 2016 8:10 am

Hello all

What can I use to help change my mom's way of thinking?

The way she thinks of a lot of things is always negative. And when it comes to me using hoodoo products she really becomes a negative and skeptical person. When I wear oils and she smells them it's like she is secretly hoping that what I'm using them for like if it's for drawing money it's like she is hoping that it doesn't work and she says that about all the hoodoo products telling me that all of it don't work which is to be honest is very annoying.

I'm trying to move out so I won't have to keep listening and dealing with all the negativity she keeps spewing out and I can't wait. If anyone can give me some great tips and info that would be excellent.

By the way thanks Lucky Mojo for helping me with all the problems I'm having and always giving out great information and tips. God Bless!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jun 06, 2016 8:05 pm

Hello, Spiritualist01 ,

If she is acting this way, would it mean that lighting candles is also taboo?

If so, I highly suggest that you have MISC light an influence candle in order to influence her to change her mind about your conjure work.

Wishing you the very best

take care

Spiritualist01 · Unread post by **Spiritualist01** » Tue Jun 07, 2016 7:06 am

Thanks Miss Aida, Sounds Good and Will look into it. Thanks again.

roguewalker · Unread post by **roguewalker** » Thu Jul 21, 2016 2:58 pm

I am in desperate need of help! My stepdaughter's mother, stepfather and grandmother are so evil! They have drowned her, strangled her, and just straight up abused her and lie and manipulate her! We can't win in court because the system in this town is just awful and the courts believe this family and their lies all the time. I want us to win in court, I want this family out of my stepdaughter's life and I want justice to be served on these people. I don't know which spell to use other than Court Case. I need help please! They won't leave us alone and drag all of our names in the dirt! They think no bad can happen to them either. Im just so sick of my stepdaughter being abused and hurt emotionally!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jul 21, 2016 8:11 pm

Hello roguewalker,

I'm so sorry all this is happening. I would pull out all the stops for these pieces of scum. Make doll babies for each of them, tie their hands and feet to bind them, stuff them with vandal root, D.U.M.E./Crossing/Jinx powders and asofoetida powder, imprison those dolls in a mirror box, then bury that mirror box in a cemetery. Make sure to cleanse yourself with hyssop afterward.

As soon as you can, work a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit for your stepdaughter, petitioning St. Michael to protect her:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Also check out these other protection spells:

http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

Have the church set a backup Fiery Wall of Protection vigil candle to back up your work or just get you something going right away:

http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... vices.html

Also, document everything these people do. Take pictures of her injuries, and report the parents and grandmother to Child Protective Services by calling the hotline. If you ever fear for her immediate physical safety, just call 911. Definitely use Court Case products if you're struggling in court. Take care, I really hope this all turns out all right.

Pure Heart and Mind · Unread post by **Pure Heart and Mind** » Tue Nov 15, 2016 10:31 pm

Hello All!

Do anyone know of a way to heal a person's mind and heart so that they won't be hateful and racist against a specific race, Racism is something I 100% don't like and don't want to see, hear or tolerate, Especially coming from my mom and dad. I definitely would like to work two(1 for both) white skull candles on the two of them. I just don't know which products to get for this work to go with the skull candles, I am also considering wanting to work with St. Martin De Porres on this situation also.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 11:15 am

Hello Pure Heart and Mind,

I think doing a white skull candle for each of your parents is a great idea, as is working with St. Martin de Porres. As for dressing the candles, I'd recommend using Cast Off Evil and Clarity oils, to help them rid themselves of this evil habit/thought process of hating other races, and also help them see the truth that their racism is hurtful.

http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

I might also suggest that you have an honest discussion with them about how their words and actions affect you.

Good luck!

Pure Heart and Mind · Unread post by **Pure Heart and Mind** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 8:50 pm

Thank You so much Sister Jean, I will definitely have a talk with them and after I had did the candle work on the both of them so that they can feel nothing but sadness, regret and guilt for having such a negative way of thinking.

BeautifulWitch · Unread post by **BeautifulWitch** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 10:31 am

Hello everyone! I'm having a bit of a problem.

My mother is causing my father and I significant stress, and using us both for our money. I am a 21 year old young woman who is trying to save money and move out of my mother's apartment, however her manipulative tactics are constantly setting me back.

She is not a poor mother who works as hard as she can to make ends meet- she is financially irresponsible and overly-entitled. She retired early about a year or two ago, and even though she knew that she would make significantly less money if she dis so she choose to reture anyway, leaving everyone around her to pick up her financial burdens. She spends money that should be spent on things like rent, gas, and other bills and uses it on trivial things for herself, such as dinners out with her friends, clothes/shes for herself, and home furnishings. When she's flat broke and cannot pay the rent, she then pleads my father for money, and even though my parents are seperated, for my sake he gives her the money, thus enabling her further. She makes no plans to pay us back, makes no effort to change her behavior, and becomes dispondent and angry whenever my father and I attempt to talk to her about money. When she's not throwing away her financial responsibilities shes eating MY expensive healthy vegan food, asking me for cigarrette money, and then spending hers on expensive dinners instead of her own food.Because of the severity of these bills, refusal to pay them would leave me without transportation to work and with nowhere to stay, only making my need to save money even more of an imparative.

I've just started a new job about two months ago making 13 dollars an hour, which in and out of itself is great for a young person with few financial obligations, however I am about to begin work to look for a sugar mommy, and with that comes expenses. To make money you have to spend it, and in this sort of work appearance is everything. I need my money to purchase hoodoo supplies, new clothes, shoes, make-up, jewellry, and manicures for taking enticing photographs, money to meet up with potential sugar mommies, and other stray things like subscriptions to various sugar daddy websites. This is my first job in a while, and because of my mothers poor spendig habits I don''t have anything I could wear to a date, much less take alluring photographs in (I am working through the Internet) Most of my clohes and shoes are ragged with holes, too small, stained ect, hence my need for new ones. While I have invested in a few "tools" if you will, her last escapade has set me behind an entire month.

I'm angry and very frustrated with her. I can't stand to look at her, and I hate how manipulative she is. Does anyone have any suggestions? I need to protect my money so that I can work towards my own future, one where I am free from her manipulative tactics. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 8:12 pm

Hello BeautifulWitch,

Your post made me so angry! I'm so sorry your mom is treating you this way.

Well, I have a few ideas for you. Would it possible for you to stay with your father while you save up some money to get your own place and buy the items you need for work?

If that's not an option, I'd suggest having an honest discussion with your dad about how the two of you need to stop enabling her behavior by giving her more money. The cycle will never end if she keeps getting what she wants. Second, you could try doing some skull candle work on your mom to influence her thoughts and actions and bring her under your control. Use a white skull candle, dress it with Influence oil and Commanding oil, and talk to it as it burns, telling her that she is no longer going to act like this.

You can read more about skull candles and ask questions about them here:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html

In the meantime, do some Crucible of Courage and Commanding work for yourself, to give yourself a boost and help you have more power in this situation as well as more courage to stand up to her. You are an adult, and she has no right to treat you like this.

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Also, this may sound like a weird idea, but you could try doing some Money Stay With Me work on yourself *and* your mom. For you, for obvious reasons, but also your mom to help her stop burning through her money so fast.

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html

Good luck to you!

P.S. If you're going to be working as a sugar baby, this book would serve you well:

http://www.luckymojo.com/thesportinglife.html

snouvavou · Unread post by **snouvavou** » Sat Nov 26, 2016 9:04 am

Any thoughts on promoting harmony between a father and teenage son who are in conflict constantly? I have already done a Peaceful Home honey jar for them a few months ago(which may have been too late).
I am considering doing some work with blood root and Clarity products for the son, as he is very stubborn,disrespectful and manipulative.Maybe Tranquility products for the house?
This has been an ongoing issue for a few years and the son keeps running back to his neglectful biological mother who enables and coddles him no matter how bad his behavior(the parents are no longer in a relationship).
Any feedback is welcome.
This may have gone past the point of no return but it can't hurt to try to mend their relationship. I fear it might not happen until the son gains some maturity,but I would like to "plant the seeds" of peace .

BeautifulWitch · Unread post by **BeautifulWitch** » Wed Nov 30, 2016 3:25 am

Thank you, Sister Jean! I apologize for the late response- I've been working non-stop the past few weeks

I've considered staying with my father, however he is physically and verbally abusive. He has calmed down in the past few years, however his non stop verbal assults make me grind my teeth! He also lives out of state which would make it hard for me to get to work.

I really appreciate your advice- I will purchase the items you have recommended to me the next time I get paid. That makes three Lucky Mojo orders in two weeks, lol!

And I have indeed purchased The Sporting Life! I purchased it along with a lot of other products, so I expect to read it within the next few weeks.

Thank you again for your advice.

diamond · Unread post by **diamond** » Tue Dec 27, 2016 1:18 am

Hi everyone,

I don't know where to start .
I am having problenm with my mother. She is very abusive to me. I have 5 brothers and they are her gods. She will always praise them with other people and make me feel down. They all have kids but she will treat them w with respect my son on the other hand she will shout and say bad stuff to him. But my kid love her. She hates the father of my son. When he comes over she will not talk to him and she will say cruel stuff to my son about his father. He doesn't want the father of my son to sleep at our house . I know I should move but please understand that here in country life ain't easy. Anyway I've been coping with the situation for a while. But on Christmas Eve we got in an argument l and she strangle me I was shock I mean I do everything she as
k of me . Today I told her that if she do that I again I won't hesitate to slap her I know it's wrong she is my mother but I've had enough. She told me that she will curse me now because she is my mother I can't slap her . She is always finding something negative to say to hurt me. I told her I know you don't love me and she told me yes.
Honestly I really don't know . I need to do something to help me out of this situation asap. Something that will give me the strength to not feel anything for her . Cos I feel like when she is not talking to me my life is a nightmare in the house. I want to move bit I can't it's like I am tied to her. I need her to suffer to what she is doing to me.
Anything will help.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Dec 27, 2016 12:46 pm

Hello diamond,

I'm so sorry all this is happening to you

My heart truly goes out to you.

Here are some ideas I had while reading your post:

If you want to try mending things with your mom, you could put you and her into a sugar jar, and include a pair of Balm of Gilead buds in the jar to soothe raw emotions:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
http://herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

If you want to skip the honey jar and make her suffer for her wrongdoing, putting her in a mirror box would reflect all her evil back onto her:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Regardless of the path you take with your mom, here are three things you should be doing for YOU:

1. Protect yourself:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

2. Build yourself up and give yourself courage:

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

3. Increase your wealth so you can start saving money to get the heck out of there:

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html

I'd also say that if your mother is attempting to strangle you, that is assault, and you could press charges. That is your call, but it's something to think about. Please take care, and keep up posted!

hulagrl · Unread post by **hulagrl** » Thu Mar 23, 2017 3:28 pm

I would like help for my 10yr old grandson. My daughter and husband are in an unhappy marriage. My daughter has become very verbally abusive, even cruel and will go ON and ON about a simple thing like why he needs to rinse his plate or look for his own shoes/books/etc, all the while belittling and shaming.
She behaves this way towards her husband as well and now it has extended even to me. My greatest concern is my grandson who already has suffered from an abusive teacher (physical and verbal) and bullying from other students. He used to be an outgoing, loving, kind child, excited about learning, making friends, etc. I now see him questioning his own worth, second guessing himself in subjects and situations of which he has already mastered and actually being afraid to tell his mom anything. I am devastated that she has become this person. I know she is depressed and has alot of pent up rage, but that is for another time. For now, I want to protect my grandson, and that may mean that some drastic work may need to be done on his mom. I DO NOT wish to cause her great harm or worse. However, this needs to stop. I did not raise her and her sister this way and I know that she truly does not see the toxicity of her behaviors because she thinks that she is right. I am done whining and wringing my hands and was reminded today that I am a witch and need to act like it! LM has helped us in so many ways in the past and I'm hoping for help again. Thank you. Much love and peace, Anita

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 23, 2017 9:07 pm

Hello, hulagrl ,

Oh, boy, I am so very sorry that this is happening.

Protection spells are here:

www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

Please perform more than one of the spells. The more, the better.

And please read all he pages on this thread for ideas on what to do with her

Additionally, a white skull candle with clarity and king Solomon for her surrounded by white candle anointed with tranquility

www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

I hope this helps

You're a good person to care so much about your grandson

Take care

Achingsoul22 · Unread post by **Achingsoul22** » Tue May 02, 2017 4:20 pm

Hello Everyone,
I need some help. My family and I have been living in terror because of my mom. She is a complete narcissist and our family is her audience. She will say mean things and be spiteful if we don't respond to her needs. Sometimes we have to agree with her despite her actions being wrong just to keep the peace. Lately, I have been her victim. In the last week it has been daily accusuations and slander. At this time, my relationship ended and I have to live at home. Rumor has it that she is responsible because she was jealous that I was away from her control. I believe it is true because she always threaten to work magic on anyone who doesn't agree with her outlandish requests. We are all tired of her drama and we deserve to live in happiness. My poor father deserves to have a good wife who will love and respect him. How can we protect ourselves from her daily wrath? She doesn't treat others poorly except our family. She keeps her cool until she returns from work each day to bully her family. We enjoy the few hours of happiness until she walks through the door.She makes things up and will not stop until we admit to it even though we never did or say it. She has a way of trying to set us against each other to keep us from realizing how horrible of a person she is and what she is doing to our family is wrong.

Please share some ideas that will help a family who has suffered verbal abuse for decades. Do we need protections kits or other kits to protect from the emotional abuse.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue May 02, 2017 5:27 pm

Hello Achingsoul22,

I'm so sorry you're mother is treating you this way.

I think a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit for you and your family would be a good first step:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wa ... ction.html

Next, take her down a notch by putting her in a mirror box, so all her awful words are reflected back onto her for eternity:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

You could also create a doll baby for her and stitch her mouth closed and tie her hands together, so she's bound against abusing you and your family:

general-doll-baby-voodoo-doll-poppet-qu ... t8946.html

Something to keep in mind though that abusive tendencies run deep, deep, deep, and she may always have that side to her. What you and family need to decide is if you want to deal with that for the rest of her life, or move on without her. Take care of yourselves and keep us posted.

hulagrl · Unread post by **hulagrl** » Thu May 04, 2017 9:30 am

Thank you Miss Aida for responding to my post of Thu Mar 23, 2017 Regarding my grandson/daughter. I have a skull candle and white candles. I will order the oils recommended and commence with the protection work as well. I have done protection spells in the past and they are quite powerful. I appreciate the addition of the workings for my daughter. Thank you again. Much peace and aloha!

hulagrl · Unread post by **hulagrl** » Thu Jun 01, 2017 7:26 am

Greetings Miss Aida; This is regards to my post of March 23rd. I have performed the 7 day spell of protection for my grandson and also the 7 day skull candle spell for my daughter. This is to update on what I've done. Regarding my grandson; I buried the spell remains next to the rosemary plant in my herb garden ( I like the protection representation). I kept back a piece of the petition paper/prayer and a bit of the purple candle representing Archangel Michael. These were placed in a mojo bag along with some fiery wall of protection sachet powder and placed under his photo. I've also place a sigil of A. Michael behind his photo. I will continue to weekly light a candle for him, allowing it to burn down as I say my prayer for him while also anointing his photo with fiery wall of protection oil. As for my daughter, I decided to charge a poppet for her workings. Her spell remains were buried under a chamomile plant next to hyssop (for continued calming and cleansing of negativity). The poppet will continue to be used as I will weekly anoint it with clarity, tranquility, and King Solomon's oil while also burning a candle and saying a prayer. Already my grandson is verbally standing up for himself and is able to see that some of his mother's behaviors aren't healthy/normal. Part of the prayer I've written includes that the effects of such abusive behaviors will be nullified and his spirit, heart, and mind will be protected. As for my daughter, time will tell. I'm sure this will be an ongoing working with modifications as needed. If you've any other suggestions, I'd appreciate it. For now, I'm going with my intuition and current knowledge of herbs and the craft. Thank you again. Blessed be.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jun 01, 2017 9:18 am

Hello hulagrl,

This sounds like great work you are doing. Thank you for updating us on your situation, and feel free to let us know if you have more questions.

Take care.

BabyGirl95 · Unread post by **BabyGirl95** » Tue Jun 13, 2017 7:52 am

I need a spell or candle to get rid of terrible parents. These parents physically, verbally abuse their son and threaten him constantly. He gets punished for things he has nothing to do with, one time he was wrestling tickle match with his younger brother, when the dad started screaming to knock it off, they didn't stop fast enough....dad came running across the room, picked my boyfriend up and through him against the wall and hurt his back bad. Dad is very violent and angry, his mentality is everybody does what he says or else.
Mom inst violent but she doesn't stop it, and acts like everything is wonderful.
The last straw happened a month ago. His parents have a rental house, they told him he could rent it with some friends. He graduated with honors last year from High school, he got hired by our local shipyard and they are going to train him and pay for his degree as well. Well the shipyard kept moving his start date, but now he is set to start this fall. In the meantime he is still at home, working a temp full time job until he starts his other job. So they are treating him like a slave, he has a bedtime curfew, he's almost 21, does all the house work, yard work, fixes all their vehicles and bikes, and now they told him he has to save up 4 figures before he can rent the house, so in the meantime they rented it out to someone else. I don't even want to move in there with him when he supposedly gets the house, he will still be under there influence. He complains to me how much he wishes they were gone from his life forever, but especially wishes something would happen to his dad. Yet he still puts up with it. I want a spell to punish dad and mom, they need to see what they have done to him, feel his physical pain, and if that cant be done, get them out of his life forever. thank You

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Jun 13, 2017 2:46 pm

Hello BabyGirl95,

This is all so terrible. What an awful situation to be stuck in

The first thing that came to my mind after reading your post was a mirror box. You could put his parents in a mirror box and bury it in a graveyard, so his parents' evil deeds will be reflected back upon them for eternity.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Have you or anyone ever reported his dad's violence to the police?

Some protection work could help your boyfriend:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

It will probably be hard to "get rid of" the parents, especially if he's living under their roof. Instead, I'd focus on getting your boyfriend out of that house and into a safe living situation as soon as possible, and take him away from them.

Good luck, keep us posted.

BabyGirl95 · Unread post by **BabyGirl95** » Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:54 pm

Thank You Sister Jean,

Nobody has reported, because nobody but the immediate family knew. That is part of the problem, and my boyfriend is too scared too stand up to his dad, while he lives under there roof, and that's the other problem, since he is determined to get their rental house. To me that just means he will still be under their rule, and I am not comfortable doing that. I wish he would find an apartment or another rental house, anyway to get away from them. I am definitely going to do the mirror box, what oils or herbs would you recommend, because both parents need to realize what they have done...painfully works. can i also put both in the same box? And I will to protection for my boyfriend, is there a way that I can do protection and maybe courage, or something to wake him up and realize whats going on?

Thanks

BabyGirl95

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jun 17, 2017 7:28 pm

Hello, BabyGirl95 ,

Find the mirror box here: www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

There are many protection spells here: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

And Crucible of Courage here: www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

And maybe some clarity spells on him: www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

I pray that things work out for him.

You are such a sweetie to care so much

take care

lavender · Unread post by **lavender** » Sun Feb 18, 2018 11:57 am

Hello everyone,
My background is more that of a Wicca (since 28 years ago almost 29) I'm newer to rootwork and Hoodoo. I am always careful with my spellwork because I can't seem to control it as well as I should (my best work is my mojo bags) so I've always stayed with the white magick side. However my family has become unbearable. Just one example I had surgery to remove a malignant ovarian tumor and my mother told me I was making a "drama" out of it. When I asked her for help after my surgery she suddenly went off on me calling me a "b" a liar, a manipulator, a fake etc. Prior to my surgery I had an accident that left me on crutches for 3 years and one day I was crying quietly behind closed doors and she yelled at me to shut the "f" up, that happened twice. She has been abusive to me since childhood. She turned my brother into a monster-nothing is his fault. It's a long story that you've probably all heard before. I decided to do a spell to simply block and return all negative energy back to my mother and brother AND anyone who said or did anything bad to me. Nothing happened to either one but my sister-in-law lost her job. But then several bad things happened to me. I don't even know what to ask? What did I do wrong in my spell? What can I do to send their negativity back? Is it the fact that as a Wicca I asked that beyond it being returned that it do so 3x over? I'm so tired and so tired of fighting to stay strong. Any help appreciated.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Feb 19, 2018 11:23 am

Hello lavender,

I'm so sorry your mother is so abusive, my heart goes out to you. If you want to send her negativity back to her, you could always put her in a mirror box:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

I'd also suggest some Healing work for yourself:

http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Take care.

lavender · Unread post by **lavender** » Mon Feb 19, 2018 5:26 pm

Thank you Sister Jean, I am thinking after I read everything on the site about the reversal spells that maybe I will drive up north and buy my supplies in person and meet the staff. I’ve wanted to see the store in person since I first found them online some years back ( and that part of the state) . Thank you for your support and kindness.
I’ve had so much to deal with but the abuse on top of it has brought me to the breaking point.

lavender · Unread post by **lavender** » Tue Feb 20, 2018 8:23 am

Sister Jean (anyone?)
Is there a place on here that shows me how to protect myself when doing a reversal? I wonder if I didn't do it correctly the last time. Things are getting very bad and I'm scared. Thank you.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Feb 21, 2018 9:16 am

Hello lavender,

Here are lots of ideas for protection:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

If your physical well-being is in danger, please consider going to a shelter or calling the police.

Take care of yourself.

lavender · Unread post by **lavender** » Wed Feb 21, 2018 3:11 pm

Thank you again Sister Jean. I don’t think I’m in physical danger but the mental part has become unbearable. I don’t want to cause hurt but I have to protect myself and returning what is being thrown at me is fair I feel and perhaps it will then stop. Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions and I visited your website. When my finances are better in a few months I am going to contact you. Many blessings and protection

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Feb 23, 2018 9:21 am

Hello lavender,

Reversing work only reverses back onto the person all the hurt that they have caused, and doesn't heap on new hurts, if that makes you feel better. You deserve to be free of this abuse.

Take care.

UndercoverMystic · Unread post by **UndercoverMystic** » Sat Feb 16, 2019 7:08 am

Hello! If I am posting this in the wrong category, please alert me as to it and where this post would have been better suited.

I spoke with my mother last night over the phone as she was needing some advice on cleaning and protecting her home. Not unusual. However she told me about an specific energy that she doesn’t feel goes away after a genera cleansing. I asked a series of questions trying to find a possible source for this and we came to the fact that not too long ago, my grandmother who lives with my mom received the cremated remains of my great aunt. She was asked to complete a specific task with these remains and apparently failed to do so, in what I feel is the worst possible way... My grandmother literally threw her sister (my great aunt)’s ashes into the garbage, because “she didn’t want them so she tossed them”... I know, how could she right?
Intuitive of course I got the notion that the energy my mother is feeling and having a hard time removing, is that of my great aunt and her anger for how she was handled...

Any help or suggestions anyone might be able to provide on how I could advise her to go about a more intense cleansing and protection would be ever so helpful, thank you. I am also in the process of making her a few different washes and even a honey jar to maybe sweeten my grandmother up some because she has become quite hateful...

Thanks all!
~R

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Feb 16, 2019 4:12 pm

Hi UndercoverMystic,

It sounds like your great aunt may not have fully crossed over and is stuck between this world and the next. Whether it's out of anger or confusion is something we can't answer here.

You can ask for her forgiveness in how her remains were handled, if that is what is keeping her here. Most spirits who linger out of resentment simply want their feelings heard and acknowledged. Tell her that she needs to move on to the next realm where she can be surrounded by the love and respect she deserves. Speak compassionately, as this is not a time for anger or rebuke.

Call down your spirit guides before doing this, to assist and protect you. Call down her spirit guides and other deceased loved ones, to help guide her to the other side. Visualize a beautiful white light beaming down from heaven and tell her to go to the light.

I've actually just helped a client do this for a spirit in their home, and It is a very simple process. Most spirits are very happy to make that transition once they sense the love waiting for them on the other side.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

UndercoverMystic · Unread post by **UndercoverMystic** » Sat Feb 16, 2019 6:08 pm

Thank you so much, you have actually helped to confirm what I felt might be needed also. I appreciate you taking the time to respond today!

Raneekah · Unread post by **Raneekah** » Thu Mar 21, 2019 6:43 am

Hello, I'm new to this forum but have been a long time lurker and customer of LM. I read other posts in hopes of finding the answer but was unable to do so...
I'm having an issue w/ my ex husband and the father of 2 of my kids. We have shared custody of our 2 kids, but they live with him and his girlfriend and go to school there. The issue is he is abusing them both physically and mentally and is allowing his girlfriend to do so also.

I have done everything imaginable...calling cps, speaking to my lawyer, speaking to a court appointed evaluator but he is able to convince them all that he's a great dad. He drug my 9 year old daughter up the steps by her shirt and the shirt cut into her neck. He threw a water bottle at her face. My 6 year old son already has a huge scar from a 2nd degree burn from boiling water. There's so much more. I'm very concerned for them.

I've done a dume spell and paid someone to burn dume candles for me. I was told that the dume isn't the best thing to do for the father of my kids but I'm so scared for my kids safety. I'm thinking at this point, dume isn't the best option (even though I want him gone) so I want to do something to influence him to just give my kids to me and my husband and get out their lives. He lives with his girlfriend, doesn't work and lives off of her. Without her, he would be homeless with nothing to his name.

I'm going to order a kit thru here but I'm wondering what would be the best route. I'm really looking at the bend over spell but am wondering if that's the best route to go for him. The bend over spell seems to be the strongest one for what I need, but I'm not sure if another spell would be better. Maybe compelling would be better? My goal is for him to just give my kids to me, unharmed, and leave us alone. My target is him mainly, but I would also do a break up spell for him and his girlfriend in addition to the spell for him if anyone here thinks that would be helpful. We do not get along at all so a honey jar would not be appropriate for my situation. I need something to control him and get him out our lives for good.

I'm unable to go to their home but I have pics and can put something inside my kids backpacks that they would touch.

Sorry for the long post but I just want to give a thorough background on the situation. Thank you

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:38 am

Raneekah,

I have moved your post here. It seems like the most appropriate thread for your inquiry. Please be sure to not create new topics. Try and find the one most appropriate to your situation and if it lands in the wrong place we'll put it where it belongs.

First of all I'm so sorry to hear your children are going through this. I empathize with you greatly. Try looking around this forum for more answers and you are sure to come across some useful spells for your predicament.

Firstly I would work with St Michael the Archangel for protection for your children. You can perfom a fiery wall of protection spell in conjunction with this.

As far as he goes, a lot of action could be taken but I don't know if killing the father of your children would be the most appropriate here.

You say that a honey jar would be not be appropriate because the two of you don't get along, but this is the purpose of a sweet jar. It exists to sweeten the relations between people who otherwise may not be too kind to each other so I'd say that it WOULD be appropriate for your cause, but only if done along with other spell work.

As a matter of fact, I always find it most effective to work mildly dominating sweet spells in cases like this because just think if someone you didn't like or get along with came along making demands of you how you'd react. Not very accommodating right? Spirit is going to work on him in a similar manner. Making suggestions and gentle nudges at him if you work to influence him, and trying to force him to do something that will gratify you if you go the domination route. Just think of how that will play in bus psyche. I'm not saying it won't work, for we can't know for certain without a reading, but I'm saying it may be a good idea to try sweetening him first.

Compelling may be a good option. If he has any moral conscience and knows that his treatment of them is flat out wrong then compelling would tug on it to tell him that the best thing to do would be to give the kids over to you.

These are just some things to think about. My suggestion, second to starting protection work on your children immediately, is to get a reading done on the matter. http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Raneekah · Unread post by **Raneekah** » Thu Mar 21, 2019 12:39 pm

Thank you so much for your thorough reply, and sorry i put the post in the incorrect spot. There's so much useful info so I guess I overlooked the appropriate thread.

I will definitely start with what you suggested. I am just so worried for their safety, which is why i went straight for dume. He is a nightmare and a danger so I felt that was the best option. I'll be getting a reading shortly then follow up with the fiery wall of protection for my kids.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Thu Mar 21, 2019 2:27 pm

Raneekah,

I'm glad you're getting on it. You will want to also check out this forum so you can attack this from the legal angle as well. spells-for-child-custody-child-support- ... 2-480.html

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Thu Jun 13, 2019 9:07 pm

I had a reading earlier this week and my AIRR reader told me that my love's mother is a HUGE problem. I knew that, but she pointed out that she is a bigger problem than the ex that I broke him up with and that I don't need to save him, but help him.

His Mom is a horrible, abusive one who doesn't care if she drives him to the edge or over it. He knows and says it. I touched on it in another thread, but this is the internet so I don't want to get into too much detail.

My reader said I need to create a barrier, but I need to do it from the outside. She confirmed that the work I am doing will bring the happiness he and I both seek. But I'll be damned if I know what to do. I went through even worse than this with my own mother so I know how hard it is. Thankfully, they do not live together (he lives with his Dad).

There is no fixing her. She's done enough damage to him. I need to get her gone. I am going to redo the freezer spell and add some alum. My reader mentioned mirroring the mom. Would a mirror box work to keep her away from him?

I am open to anything. If you saw what she did to him, you would be too.

Thank you for any help and/or advice you can give.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jun 14, 2019 10:44 am

MrsSchaeffer2020 ,

Seems you would want to use products like banishing or hotfoot to send her away, vinegar jar to sour her existence. I would also use crucible of courage oil and High John oil to give him strength. You can bind her up in a mirror box to hold her down and also her negativity will return to her. Add barberry to cause her to be stopped from acting, I also think knot weed to hold her down is another great additive.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Jun 14, 2019 12:39 pm

MrsSchaeffer2020, I say Amen to all that JayDee said. Then take that box to the graveyard. Look for a grave that is sympathetic to your love's situation and to you. Offer the traditional payments and bury the box at the grave where the deceased's right hand would be.

This will be much easier if the mirror box is small. When I'm doing this kind of work, I line an Altoids box with mirror fragments (a glue gun is your friend here). I generally crochet the doll baby with fine thread so it will fit in the little box. You could make a wax doll baby -- that would probably be easier.

There are also (non-magical) online forums where you can find strategy and emotional support. We generally don't link to non-hoodoo websites here, but you can google "justnoMIL," "justnofamily" and "LifeAfterNarcissism."

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Wed Jun 19, 2019 4:23 pm

Thank you both JayDee and Miss Michaele for your ideas and assistance.

I am making a box out of 3" mirror pieces. I hope that is small enough. I will definitely make sure that I keep the Altoids box in mind if I need to do it again.

I did Hot Foot her and do a vinegar jar, but I'll do them over alongside the mirror box.

LVAngel · Unread post by **LVAngel** » Tue Aug 20, 2019 11:02 am

Dear Ones,
I am in a terrible, heartbreaking situation. There are so many different elements to this that I don’t even know which thread to post in. I will start here, because this issue is causing the most heartache.

Two years ago our 40 yo daughter called us begging for help (mind you, we have rescued her no less than 5 times throughout her life and each time we’ve gotten screwed over.....big time). She was calling to say she was just evicted from her home and gave the kids 15 mins to grab what they wanted and just walked out her front door, leaving everything behind; furniture, clothing, toys, etc. Everything her kids knew. She took her dogs to the humane society and abandoned them there. My grandson passed out and had to be rushed to the ER due to the stress. She was now in the car, with the kids, and heading to our home.

I did NOT want her here! She’s 40 yo and she’s always run to us when in trouble. We’ve bailed her out of legal troubles, paid off her debts, gave her and her husband jobs (they ended up stealing from us blind, even taking a crowbar and broke into our safe), they ran up $500 long distance phone bills each and every month. We paid for schools, but after buying her textbooks she would return them for cash and never attend classes, but lying all along. Instead of going to school she became pregnant with another child.

We ADORE our grandchildren. My husband has a very, very close bond with our grandson. The bond I have with my granddaughter is beyond earthly connection. Words can not describe the bond between me and my granddaughter. (When she was 5 years old she said “Grandma, when I grow up I want to be a Pagan herbalist”. WTH? I cracked up, but it’s made me love her so much more.) When my daughter was pregnant she asked me weeks in advance if I would like to go with her to her next sonogram. I was thrilled. I was giddy with excitement! I was so looking forward to this. The day couldn’t come fast enough. I drove and we sat in the waiting room for her turn. As the door opened and her name was called we both stood and we walked to the door. Right in the doorway my daughter turned and said “Mom, you can’t come in”. I stood there dumbfounded! We had talked of this for weeks. She knew my excitement. I started to cry and literally BEGGED her to allow me in the room. The look on her face I will never forget. She was so smug and as I cried there was a hint of a smile on her lips. She turned to the nurse and said “I’m not letting her in”. The nurse said “I’m sorry, but I have to abide by the patients’ wishes.” Since I drove I could not just abandon her there, so I had to sit in the waiting room, humiliated in front of everyone there. I was numb from shock. My daughter intentionally planned this out. She intentionally hurt me in the deepest and most painful way she could. But, she wasn’t done with me.....

So, now she’s on the phone saying she’s on her way. She homeless and wants to move in with us. There is no way my daughter and I can live together. There’s too much past history, too many lies, too much pain. Five years ago we cashed out one of our retirement investments and bought her a condo. The day we closed escrow she informed us she was going back to her ex. She loaded the kids in the car and drove away. We had just moved her out of her apartment and had a U-Haul sitting in front with all her things. She never even walked into the condo! She drove away leaving us with a full truck and not knowing what to do with it. We did not see her again for 9 months. We had no idea where she was. The condo sat empty for 5 years waiting for her to decide if she would accept this gift from us. We never rented it out (our youngest daughter stayed in one room during college, but the place pretty much was empty.

We finally decided to sell the condo and it was listed and already had an open house when she called that day saying she was on her way. We had her on speaker phone and telling her she can not come here. We are retired and we live just on our investments. She’s 40 yo and she has to finally figure her own way in life. We can not continue to rescue her. We were adamant that we were not taking her in this time! Then she announced she was pregnant!.......with triplets!!!! Omg! My heart broke right then and there. My world crashed in around me. I was going to have more grandchildren! Yes, she could come. Yes, we will pay for the best medical care. Yes, we will do anything and everything. Our grandchildren are our reasons for living.

So, by the time she arrives and she gets settled in the condo sells! It actually sold in less than 24 hours. We had a cash offer that was more than we were asking. But, we had our daughter and grandkids that need a home. We went out and rented her a home in OUR name. We lied to the management company and said we were the ones living in the house. We gave her our old furniture and we bought new (we did not need new furniture). A week goes by and she moves a man in with her. We had never seen this person before in our lives! An able bodied man, who did have a job. He seemed nice and we figured we would give him a chance, plus he was the father to our new triplets, but as time went on there was no signs of her being pregnant. We made doctor’s appointments, but she always had an excuse not to go. Literally months go by and no pregnancy. No weight gain, no sickness, no baby furniture, not even any talk of babies. We finally sat down for a heart to heart. She swore up and down she was still pregnant. She promised to see a doctor. The night before her first appointment we receive a call that she’s at the ER. We race over there and the nurse rolled her eyes when we asked for her room number and said “Oh that room is just triage” and pointed to not a room, but a bed with a curtain. My daughter was sitting there fully clothed and looking exactly the same. Her boyfriend pulled us aside and said don’t ask her anything about the babies. She’s upset. There were no tears, no sorrow, nothing, except the nurse coming in and asking when she will be ready to leave. We realized this was all a set up. She was never pregnant. She used us and she also lied to this man in an attempt to trap him. Again, she intentionally set out to hurt me in the deepest way possible.

So, since there were no grandchildren on the way. We said she has to get a job and start paying the rent. The boyfriend made good money. She refused. Each month we asked for the rent. She refused. The house was in our name and our relationship with her was going from bad to worse. We gave her a deadline to move out. Her response was “I’ll move out when I’m ready to”. In order to protect ourselves from any legal fall out we sent her a 30 pay or quit notice. Not an eviction. No courts or law enforcement. Just a notice. She did finally move out and we paid off the rest of the lease to get out of the contract. Now she is refusing to allow us to see our grandchildren. She does not return calls, texts, emails, and checks we send to the kids go uncashed. We were paying for our grandson’s cell service (He’s now 15 yo) and he blocked us. We sent message after message begging him to call us. Finally when we tracked the phone through FindMyPhone it was showing miles away from where they live. We added a notice that if the phone was lost to call us. We finally canceled the service. We assumed he either lost the phone or it was stolen or she sold it.

We have not seen or even heard our grandchildren’s voices in 10 months. We are heartbroken. I spent 6 months laying in bed crying. I joined a nationwide group that lobbies governments to change the law to allow grandparents the right to petition the courts for visitation. There is nothing we can do. She has every legal right to withhold the grandkids from us. Everyday I wake and assume I will die that day and never see them again.

Since my daughter showed up here 2 years and 3 months ago my hair has fallen out twice. The last time it completely fell out to the scalp. I go through bouts where I can’t catch my breath and I’m not sleeping. I’ve gained over 20 lbs. Yes, I’m under a doctors care. It’s all stress related. In order to survive I’ve taken my love for my grandkids and had to lock it away in a fortress in my heart, but every now and then a window is left open and the pain reaches out and stabs me in the heart.

My daughter is into Wicca and her best friend is a witch. The last time my daughter was here I caught her going through my things in the master bedroom and I notice she was secretly taking photos of me on her cellphone. She posts memes on Facebook about how people who have crossed her will get revenge and she calls herself a “Diosas”, which means goddess in Spanish. She signs her name with a black heart. I’m convinced she has hexxed me. We have a large property and it is impossible to see if there is something buried. I do not wish to do any harm to her. I need the hex removed. I need my health restored and I need my grandkids’ hearts touched so they will call us on their own. They are 15 and 9 yo. We miss them and love them so much. We really, really need help.

Thank you all for bearing with me. It’s so painful for me to write this. I know it’s long, but trust me, I’ve only included the brief version of all the things our daughter has done. Thank you again. I’m truly indebted to all who will help.

Peace, love, and happiness.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue Aug 20, 2019 12:08 pm

LVAngel,

First off, stand your ground. It's your house and you are the QUEEN of your realm. If you don't want her there, tell her. Is it possible to work out a situation for you take custody of the grandkids until your daughter and BF get their act together? I would think that would be a load off their minds to have daycare while they look for jobs and a new place to live. She may say no at first but let it sink in for a few days. Stand firm. Given the past, you have every right to deny her to stay with you. Personally, I would look into legal action for child custody since she can not maintain a stable household for the children. That sounds harsh, but I hear about this happening to grandparents too often and I can't stand it.

Anyway, I'm not a lawyer so on to the rootwork! I would recommend Peaceful Home, Clarity and Protection products if you have them.

- I would bury nails at the four out side corners of the home and pour a bit of your urine on the corners as well. This marks the property as yours and you are in control here.
- Work with Rosemary for female rulership in the home. Cook with it, wear the scent, bathe with it. You could pair it with Licorice and Queen Elizabeth Root or Master of the Woods and make a small mojo. Carry it to work this situation.
- I would also work with Influence products when around your daughter and her family.

I wish you the best and will have you in my prayers.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Aug 20, 2019 1:57 pm

Hello LVAngel,

My heart just broke into pieces reading your story. I am so sorry that you are going through all of this heartache.

Do stand your ground and not let her move in with you. She will surely use your grandchildren as pawns to get you to back down, but you need to remain firm with her.

In addition to terra_rising's great advice, I suggest you contact a lawyer to understand your rights in this situation and pursue whatever course of legal action is available to you. You can read the posts in the following thread for advice on spells that can help you locate a good attorney:
spells-to-help-find-control-dismiss-law ... t1497.html

I wish you the very best of luck and will light a candle for you on my altar. Please keep us posted.

LVAngel · Unread post by **LVAngel** » Tue Aug 20, 2019 10:24 pm

Dear Friends,
Thank you so much for your kind words and the advice you have given me. Again, I’m so sorry my original post is so long. Just being able to get this out has already helped me.

I’m sorry I didn’t come across very clear. I guess that’s what happens when one is writing with so much feeling. Thank you Terra Rising and Miss Althea, but I must have confused you with my jumping around in my timeline. My daughter came to us with the false pregnancy claims 2 years ago. It was at that time I tried to put my foot down by refusing her moving in with us. That was until I thought she was pregnant. When we learned of her lie we stopped paying her bills. She is no longer asking to move in, but is living across town in a home she’s rented with her new bf. It’s been 10 months since we had to remove her from the home we rented in our name.

Because we are no longer paying her way she will not allow us contact with our grandchildren. (On her side of the argument she’s claiming we evicted her and that’s why she is angry). We HAD to remove her from the house because it was in our name, not hers. Our relationship was very bad after we all learned the pregnancy was a lie and we told her we would no longer pay the $1,500 monthly rent. She moved 2 large dogs in even though the rental agreement said “no dogs”, she and her bf are heavy drinkers, and they were burning bonfires in the backyard (rental agreement said no open flames on property). In addition to the great expense we were paying (we are retired and live on a fixed income. My husband collects SS and we have a nest egg) we could not take the risk she would damage the home and leave us legally liable. She’s claiming we evicted her and now we are no longer allowed to visit our grandchildren.

I’m a member of a nationwide group for grandparents’ rights and it may surprise many, but grandparents have absolutely NO rights to petition for visitation. Unless the children lived in our home for a number of years and we were the only parental figures then we have no case, and no attorney will take it on. Our group is lobbyijng governments to change the law and give grandparents “standing” in court to even get in front of a judge. We have asked 2 attorneys in our area and they both tell us there is nothing we can do.

The situation with our grandchildren is heartbreaking and my health has deteriorated at a rapid rate. My hair has fallen out twice, I’m gaining weight, I have bouts when I feel I can’t breath, and I look haggard. I look nothing like the same person I did 2 years ago. There are days I don’t think I will live. This aging process is too much and too rapid to be normal. Due to my daughter’s involvement with Wicca and spell casting I’m sure she has hexxed me. I desperately need help in removing the hex and restoring my health. It’s not vanity that concerns me. We are no longer socializing with friends and it’s taking its toll on my husband, too. Plus, I can’t fight for my grandchildren when I am slowly dying.

I’ve begun reading everything I can on uncrossing and hex breaking. I have an altar and do prayers and candles. I pray so hard that I cry. Last night I annointed my room with uncrossing oil and had nightmares all night and woke up with stuffy sinuses. I don’t wish any harm on my daughter. I just want whatever negativity she’s sending me to end and I want to see my grand babies again. Can you help me remove her hex?

Again, thank you, thank you, thank you. Please don’t think ill of me. I’m just a desperate, heartbroken grandma that misses her grandkids.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Aug 21, 2019 8:39 am

Hello LVAngel,

Thanks for clarifying your situation.

To help remove any spiritual messes that may be on you, I suggest you do a thorough cleansing of yourselves and your home. Take a 13 Herb Bath (do the full 13 days) and wash your home with Chinese Wash (top to bottom and back to front) to clear out any negativity. Then put up protection to keep any further attacks from sticking. In your case, I would use Fiery Wall of Protection.

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You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

This should get you started.

If you feel overwhelmed by your situation, you can contact a member of AIRR who can perform rootwork on your behalf. However the cleansing and protection work I suggest here are things you will need to do for yourself.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

LVAngel · Unread post by **LVAngel** » Fri Aug 23, 2019 10:13 am

Dear Miss Athena,

Thank you so much! I did read up on the 13 day wash before posting here, but I’m concerned I wouldn’t be able to do 13 days in a row. If I happen to miss a day would I need to start over at day one? I have lots of doctor appointments these days due to the health issues I mention before. Some days I’m struggling just to get out the door in time. If I miss a morning can I use it that night?

I’ve been praying and lighting candles a lot. The last couple of days have been good. My husband and I harvested our peach tree and made fresh pies for all our friends. We were happy, laughing, and smiling. A rarity for me. Everyone’s prayers for me are working. Thank you so much and thank you for all your help.

LVAngel · Unread post by **LVAngel** » Fri Aug 23, 2019 10:17 am

Oops. Something’s gone wrong. I added all of these to my cart. Your post says the 13 day wash is $5.50. It’s coming up as $54.00 on my invoice.

*I see now. It’s $5.50 per packet and $54 for the full 13 day supply. Might need to budget for this one.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:55 pm

Hello LVAngel,

Do try and take your baths at the same time each day. Morning is best but do what works for you. I like to do the full 13 days for a thorough cleansing, but if that is cost prohibitive, then do as many as you can.

I'm happy to hear that the last few days have been good for you and your husband. I wish you many more happy day in the future.

Good luck.

mastersirius678 · Unread post by **mastersirius678** » Fri Aug 30, 2019 9:42 pm

So yes, it is time to talk about my mom's situation and get a second opinion from the experts here on what Lucky Mojo product to use.

My mom is this person that always talks about money and uses the topic of money in almost every single conversation I had with her. She also have this HUGE ego of her always being right. This is the only way to describe her right now. My parents are divorced but my mother will always find a reason for my father to give me money. My mother is in the US, and my father is still in Beijing, China. If you know anything at all about the currency exchange rate, you can tell that my father will have a hard time giving me money exchanged from RMB to USD. My mother does not suggest that my father gives me money, nope, she demands my father to give me those money, like commanding it.

Just so you guys know, my father is a Virgo, and my mother is a Scorpio. They are both acting exactly like their respective Sun signs. My father always analyzes the situation, while my mother just want to manipulate and control everything and everyone, no matter if it was me, my father, my twin sisters, my stepfather, or even my stepmother, heck, she just want to yell and control anyone she sees fit.

I asked my father on why is my mother like this and how did he ever fell in love with her back in the day. He told me that my mother was not always like this. Back in their college days, my mother was very generous, and kind, exactly the opposite of what she is today. What changed her was her decision to go study abroad in the US. My father tried to make her stay but she refused. I was only 5 years old at the time, and my father told me that during a time when I needed motherly love the most, my mother abandoned me to pursue her study in the US. During this time period, she would always ask my father for money to pay for tuition, which is how my mother had this mindset of always asking other people for money, it is like money is all she thinks about. I had also heard my mother's side of the story, she told me that she wanted to ditch her crappy library job in China and pursue a career at Yale University's library, and ultimately planned to bring me to the US and let me stay here. This was back in 1999 and almost the beginning of a new century. She finally did bring me to the US in 2003, and basically shoved American education down my throat from 6th grade to senior year in high school, and college, and yea, she is so proud of herself thinking she did everything right. While also divorcing my father and tearing the family apart.

Fast forward to modern day, I recently lost my job, got administratively discharged from the military. But got a new job and I'm starting on Sept 9th (yay!) However, I have no money to pay for the costs of relocating and moving. I told my mother an idea I have, which involves letting my father borrow me some money for about $2000, or at the best of his ability for help. Using airlines, hotels, and rental cars to report to work for the first couple of weeks, while also keep my previous apartment for one month at most to keep all my stuff and slowly move everything to my new job location. Which involves hopping around two cities for a while. My mother was not happy to hear this plan, she basically called me an idiot and all the bad words she could say in Chinese (at this point I questions if she is still my mom), and she didn't even hear me out. Of course after that, she yelled at my father again and basically unloaded her anger on my father. She demands that my father pay me $5000 for my moving costs and she wants to hold onto the money for me (trying to control my money). When my father tried to reason with her and wanted her to give me money also, she will just say that she doesn't have anything to give me, and she will only help me with nothing but giving me empty advice to follow, even if she want anything done, she would order my stepfather to do it.

That is not everything to my problem but the basics are there. Over my almost 16 years of being in the US, I developed this love-hate relationship with my mother, I love her as my mother, and to this day, I still do, but I hate her ego, and the way she always bring up money in every conversation we have. It is like she has this darkness inside her that wasn't there in the past, and she has this grand delusion that she is always right, even when clearly she isn't, and tried to control and manipulate people to do things her way, her "right: way.

So now, I can't bear to see her like this anymore, I want to fix my mother, I want her to be calm with her mind and be more understanding with her ways of thinking, and crush that big ego of hers. I have a few Influence candles, a few Van Van candles, and a Clarity candle, which is what I am thinking of using. I had MISC lit a Peaceful Home candle on my mother before, but I guess that didn't change her attitude too much. The root of the problem is still there.

So, with that being said, I welcome any second opinions on what I could use. I currently have no money to buy more Lucky Mojo products, so I am using what I have on hand.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 9:49 am

Mastersirius678,

Wow, I can tell that this is really upsetting you and I see why. It's a hard thing to deal with when the love, affection, nurture, and guidance we look for in our mothers isn't apparent or otherwise completely absent; I empathize with you.

That said, I'll say that it's clear to me that your mother is in a great deal of pain herself, suffering from regret of past mistakes and poor decision making. It appears that she is resentful but wishes to place the blame on other people. It isn't right but it certainly is common.

You must realize that she didn't get this way over night and magic won't correct it over night. This could be a long road ahead for you if you wish to take it but it may be worth it in the end. My first advice to you would be to get a reading done on the matter with one of the experienced professionals at AIRR www.independentreadersandrootworkers.org or on Hoodoo Pyschics at http://www.hoodoopsychics.com/. They will help you to determine what is at the heart of the matter and the best way to approach it. If you opt not to do that then here are some things to get you started.

I would continue with the work you are already doing. Along with the skull candle work you are doing, be sure to anoint it with Lucky Mojo "Clarity" oil. I would also use "King Solomon Wisdom" along with "Influence Oil".

The next thing I would suggest is to get a Lucky Mojo Honey jar spell kit. I see where you said you don't have the money to make additional purchases at the moment so depending on what you have you could make one at home using what you have from Lucky Mojo already.

You'd need a jar, honey, and could use the influence and clarity products you have but you always want something that is good for that agape love.

I hope that this helps you.

mastersirius678 · Unread post by **mastersirius678** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 12:12 pm

Dr. Darensbourg

Thank you for your helpful advice. Yea, my mother is a mess right now but she doesn't want to admit it. Causing a lot of family disharmony.

The only skull candles I have are a couple of red skull candles I brought from an occult shop (they don't carry lucky mojo stuff), but I do have LM's Clarity oil. As I said before, I don't have money for anything at the moment so even a reading from AIRR is out of the question. I do have my own tarot cards so I'll just try to do the reading myself. I'm thinking of burning the vigil candles first, and follow up with the skull candle after I see what the burn results from the vigil candles first.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 12:16 pm

Mastersirius678,

If you're doing your own reading you may very well want to use the clarity oil on yourself as well to help you see the bigger picture.

Speaking from personal experience, it can be a little tough to decipher things accurately when we are affected by the choices others are making when we read on them.

Best of luck to you.

midas9 · Unread post by **midas9** » Wed Sep 04, 2019 10:35 am

Hi. I'm 23 about to be 24 years old next week. I have been living with a narcissistic mother for 23 years. I have just realized that I have an emotional attachment to my mother that makes me feel like I'm obligated to take care of her and live the life that she wants me to live. I love my mother dearly. I love her to death. If I had to give my heart for her to live I would. But now I have the desire to move out on my own and live my own life and take care of myself without her constant supervision and controlling ways. I know, I'm way too old to be living with my mother, but I feel like I have to because she makes me feel so guilty when I'm not around her so it makes me feel really bad to leave her. She's completely healthy and has her own life, but we have this sick co-dependent relationship and I'm tired of it. I want to release myself energetically and emotionally so that I can feel free to make my own decisions. I don't want her out of my life completely. I still want to be able to hang out and have fun like we do, but I just want live my life separately from her and not feel bad about it or scared. What rituals do you suggest? Thanks

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Wed Sep 04, 2019 5:37 pm

midas9,

I would like to suggest working with Crucible of Courage oil and either Power oil or sachet powders. You have the will to leave, it sounds like all you need is that extra strength to follow through. It may be hard to move out and create that separation at first but after awhile it gets easier. She might make it difficult to move but stick to your guns. Enforce your boundaries and it usually creates a healthier relationship with family members.

You can dress your self or dress a purple candle with both while working for your independence.

Good luck!

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Unread post by **Karuna dasi** » Fri Jul 10, 2020 11:00 pm

Hello,
My friend asked me for some advice and I am not sure what direction to take: She is caring for her 100yr old mother who is very verbally abusive. It is hard for her to keep from getting angry at her mother who says so many mean things and had been abusive in her childhood, but she is stuck having to care for her now in her final years and would like to be compassionate and not be left with the guilt of being angry with her mom at the end of her life. Would it be good to do a protection spell to shield her from the angry words? Is there a spell for compassion towards another or should she place a shut up spell on her mom?
Thank you for your guidance.
-Karuna

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Sat Jul 11, 2020 8:03 am

Karuna dasi,

Hello and welcome to the forum. I moved your post to this thread on abusive parents. Please do not create new topics because it is against forum rules. Instead, use the search bar to find a thread matching your situation. This helps us keep the forum orderly so others can find what they need.

This thread contains a large amount of information so I recommend starting on page one to find a spell you would like to try. If you have any questions after reading it through, please post it here. I would start by working for peace and protection before going on to harsher work. Below are the products I would start with. The pages also contain some spells you can use.

Tranquility: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html
Protection: https://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html

Best of luck!