Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Jun 27, 2010 4:38 pm

You could try the Reconciliation kit. However I would start with a reading to see if there is actually a chance to move forward with him, or if it's best to Cut and Clear and move on.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:13 pm

Reconciliation is aimed specifically at healing past hurts. Working those products along with Healing and Road Opening products can help to heal the emotional wounds while opening up the way for reconciliation and love.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 7:26 pm

Well I did a spell myself it was so my ex I'm working reconcillation on would want me again. I wrote on a peice of paper a letter to her describing how she's want me and only me. I anointed the paper with commanding oil reconcillation, dominate her oils. I read the paper three times then lit my seven day jumbo candle that I had painted on the outside more or less the things I wrote on the paper I also anontied it with the oils I then walked outside to the middle of my field and burnt the paper with the lit candle. From what I've read so far on hoodoo I'd say that is proper within it. Only problem when I eventually had to drop the paper out of my hand b/c it was a flame I droped it on the ground after it went out I had to step on it so the dry grass around it wouldn't catch on fire is that bad? Anyway please comments is what I did okay within hoodoo I tried to keep it simple I have the candle still burning on my alter.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 7:38 pm

only problem is the flame went out when I first lit it so I had to relight it and it just went out again. I said my prayer/command again and relit it I think I might have put to much oil on it is that going to mess anything up me having to relight it?

keirith · Unread post by **keirith** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 7:59 pm

I thought in Hoodoo you are not supposed to burn your petition. I thought its suposed to stay under the candle while the candle is lit.
If I am wrong, please correct me on this.
Thanks,

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 8:08 pm

I thought it could be burned or kept under the candle I thought you could burn petitions and kept them in a honey jar as well originially I was going to keep it under the candle. Hmmm well I wrote a few petitons out picked the one I liked the most I'll put one under it and relight it.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 8:22 pm

well I placed another one of my petitions under the candle and relite it after saying a prayer that this spell be true. And I heavly anionted the petition with reconcilliation, command, dominate her oil before folding it and placing it under the candle its burning nicely now.

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 10:26 pm

ariella wrote:I thought in Hoodoo you are not supposed to burn your petition. I thought its suposed to stay under the candle while the candle is lit.
If I am wrong, please correct me on this.
Thanks,

I've burned certain petitions like if I'm stressed out I'll write everything down and burn it. Things have always worked fine for me. I've also just left my petitions under the candle as well. So I would say either way is fine, but that's just me, someone else may do something different.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Mon Jun 28, 2010 11:04 pm

well I did ended up doing both can't hurt anything I suppose anyone else notice those fixed in glass seven day candles flames are very small?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:46 am

Generally speaking in hoodoo the petition paper remains intact until after the spell is completely finished. It is what helps aim at your target and direct your intent afterall - destroying it at the outset makes little sense in most contexts.

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Tue Jun 29, 2010 3:18 pm

Am I headed down the right path?

I'm back from another platonic night out with the ex. Yes, yes, I know I should be thrilled that we have moved from seeing each other once a month or less to a couple times a week in a very, very short period of time but I'm growing increasing concerned that what I am attracting is a friend. We seem to be developing a great friendship but nothing more. From what I can see, there doesn't seem to be the slightest spark of anything else (unless he's keeping it to himself.)

In your experiences, has Attraction work been known to take this path before becoming passionate? or could the passion component of the spell not have gotten through? is that even possible? I'm afraid we're going to go so far down the friendship path that it'll be too late to turn it back around or lead it in another direction.

thanks once again...

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jun 29, 2010 3:39 pm

I would add some passionate elements then. Kiss me now is a good one for drawing in the passion, and making sure you are turning it into a friendship. Other good products are love me, and fire of love. You could do something as simple as add this to your attraction work, or wear the oils when you are with him. I would still work the attraction to build up the opportunities you and him have together. I think you are expecting too much too soon though. I mean as a friend,or whatever you are...I would take this as an opportunity to learn more about him, and to show him that you have changed yourself. The most important thing is that you are getting movement.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Jun 29, 2010 3:58 pm

You're getting great opportunities so I think you should use them. Take this time to show him that things will be different this time, that he can be himself without you pressuring him. I can't tell you what to expect from the spell because I don't know what you asked your rootworker to do and what "attraction" work they did. If you asked to have him come around more, then they did that.

In order to help increase the passionate element, follow the advice given by Starsinthesky. Wear Kiss Me Now or Fires of Love as a scent everytime you are round him. You can also test the waters out with some harmeless flirting. Be careful to not come off as desperate, nor needy. But the key here is to relax. Take a deep breath, have faith in the work you had done on your behalf, have faith in the products you use, and enjoy the ride. Things are looking up.

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 7:10 am

I haven't a clue myself what is in that petition. It never occurred to me to participate in the writing. oh, jeez, now I'm worried.

anyway, I went into it prepared last night. I gave my ex a tiny vial of Fires of Love and told him he had to dab a drop over his heart every night. To get him to do it, I told him it was for luck. Will him truly thinking and believing it's for luck override the petition I made to that oil on my behalf?

Thanks again for the feedback and advice. and support. It's really hard to be flirty, though, with someone who is treating you like their sister but I'll give it a shot.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 9:41 am

Women have an alluring quality to them, simply call upon that.

Just wear your oils, take deep breaths, and let the spells do their job

.

Sadgirl · Unread post by **Sadgirl** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 10:16 am

So, almost two weeks with Rootworker working a break up bottle, I have 2 honey jars going. I did recieve a small sign that he is thinking about me, but I am considering the intraquality spell. Seems drastic, but I have been waiting for several months for a sign. What do you guys think?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 11:14 am

You've only had a professional working for you to 2 weeks. That is NOT long enough to judge the work and think of jumping to something like the IS. Give your worker's work time to take effect. That can take up to 3 months - remember 3 days for a sign, 3 weeks for positive movement, 3 months for final result is the guideline. You're not even to the 3 weeks point where movement may likely be visible.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 3:24 pm

Well the Magic I've been working on my ex girlfriend is working and thank you all for your input. She's going through a tough time with her mom in the hospital and all. I know its having an effect but okay here is whats going on. Haven't heart from her in a few days yesterday she got online around 4 pm she told me she hadn't been out of bed all day b/c of she had been at the hospital all night the previous night with her mom and was exstreamly depressed. She opened up to me she opened up alot in our conversation. She told me that she cared so much for me and didn't understand why I love her some much b/c she feels like she didn't treat me as good as I deserved. She said she had been thinking about us alot the past few days

but that she is scared to love me again b/c she doesn't want either of us to get hurt again and that after everything that happend she doesn't know if she can ever love me romantically again but that in the past few months since we started talking I've become a best friend to her. That lately she keeps thinking about us getting back together but that she'll tell herself no b/c she just "can't" in her words but that she doesn't want to lose me. I told her that she'd never totally lose me and that she has every right to be scared b/c I broke up with her I hurt her, but that we have both changed alot in the 10 months we've been broken up and that people change and that she shouldn't count us out b/c she could feel different down the road. She agreed we even ended up cyber cuddling a bit in a friendly fashion. Its like the magic is working but she is so resistant to the point she will conciouslly tell herself no. So today I tried to call her and she sent me a text telling me she was sorry but she just couldn't talk right now she was to depressed. I told her it was okay to get ahold of me when she can.

My question is beyond reconcillation work come back to me candles and such is there anything specific that can be used to target her fears of us getting together again? Is there anything specific I could do to get her to bring her walls down? I can tell the magic is working but she is fighting it tooth and nail. Also I did a freezer spell to lock out any potential romantic rivels but is there anything else I can do for extra protect with that?

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 5:43 pm

No one has any ideas???

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 7:12 pm

I agree with Devi on this (as always)... time 3 days, three weeks, three months... My AIRR Rootwooker has been a great help, (on several issues for me and someone else) recently one of the issues, on behalf of someone else,-- was a "no go"-- a long shot anyway; however, my rootworker did initially explain that this MIGHT be the case although all help MIGHT NOT be lost-- patience--in time and she did say, within three years!!)
Sometimes "NO" DOES answer the door, but at least give it some time to work. This IS work even though it is enjoyable work! We must continue to work "at it" and focus.
Be Blessed.
---Triplethreat

Sadgirl · Unread post by **Sadgirl** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 7:29 pm

Please all know I am not thinking my Root Worker, is not amazing. She has been on the the job for 2 weeks and I see movement. I haven't had any hope for months. I am impatient, only because time does strange things to our minds. I want HIM, I may not in a year. But I am a 41 year old woman, that wants a few years of her life with a partner. I have switched partners every few years for all of my life. I long for a long term committed relationship. He is the one that brought that desire out for me.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 7:39 pm

Well then, be patient and have faith in the work you and your rootworker are doing. 2 weeks is very little time, and if you're seeing movement then you should be happy with that. Just chill out and go with things as they develop naturally.

Sadgirl · Unread post by **Sadgirl** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 7:48 pm

So much easier heard, than done. I know that is what has to happen. I shall try.

Sadgirl · Unread post by **Sadgirl** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 7:51 pm

I think I waited too long to find a good root worker. I love this man. How much and how long does true love reach?\

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 8:26 pm

Reconciliation takes time ShadowyEmbrace...however I do remember a spell about working with stubborn people. (Search the forum) But also consider that she is in the hospital with her mother...so keep working the reconciliation and some healing work for both of them. Reconciliation has healing elements in it (as you may know).

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 9:16 pm

Impatience will lead to hasty action that can be the undoing of your spell work. I know that you wish to be with this man and you don't want to wait, but allow me a moment to address a few things.

First, let's say you do reach for the IS and cast it. And lets say you have the skill and experience to control the spirit. So you draw the man back, but he comes back pissed, angry, and resentful. Within a matter of days you guys are fighting and shortly thereafter split in a massive fallout. All the work your rootworker had done and movement would have been for naught. You would ruin your chance for reconciliation. This is the danger of impatience.

Now lets say you knuckle down and remain patient. Take the time to work on some self-healing, self-love, and work on bettering yourself. Given this patience one of two things will happen. YOu will either succeed and have your ex return to you, sweet, loving, and willing. Or the odds are against you, but at the end you are in a better place because you spent this time on you and therefore are able to truly understand what it means to love yourself.

Given this, I'd say being patient is important.

Now the only thing that sends off a warning signal in my mind is that you begin this thread with the claim that your ex is your soulmate. A few posts later you say, "I want HIM, I may not in a year." If he's your "soulmate" then this notion shouldn't be in your head. Take time to reasses your goal, what you want, and if it is right for you. Then if you choose to continue trust your worker and distract yourself by spending time actually building yourself up.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jun 30, 2010 9:20 pm

If you are working reconciliation you don't want to attack her resistance, per se. Rather you want to help you come to a decision, clear the way, and help nurture the love to a degree that it overcomes her objections. As JWM said, reconciliation takes time. Her opening up to you is indication that things are moving in the right direction and that the healing element of the reconciliation products are working, but in order for you to be successful you have to allow her to heal from the past hurts.

Add Road Openening conjures to your work and keep working your reconciliation. Stay away from things that break resistance like confusion conjures because she's already confused enough.

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Thu Jul 01, 2010 4:07 am

I have to agree, reconciliation does take time, and the fact that she's dealing with her mother being very ill makes this a time NOT to push too hard. I understand your desire to have your girlfriend back right away, but you need to respect that fact that she is going through a very difficult time. Keep working the reconciliation angle, be her friend and her shoulder to cry on when she needs and does contact you, but have a little more sense than to push for a passionate reunion while her mother is gravely ill and she's depressed over it.

Sadgirl · Unread post by **Sadgirl** » Thu Jul 01, 2010 10:00 am

I will work very hard to follow your advice, I respect the opinions of those on this board. This has been difficult, but I do understand impatience will sabotage my work. Conjure Man, I do believe this man is my soulmate, but I also know soulmates sometimes skip lives.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Thu Jul 01, 2010 10:24 am

Oh I'm not pushing it atm trust me she brought the whole subject up which is why I know the palemenary magic is working I haven't started the true reconcillilation spell yet I've just been working with dressed candles each night. But she is the stubborn type which I always found attractive while I was with her

but now its working against me LoL. I have burnt a white candle for her mom I'm really learly of practicing much b/c she is in such bad shape I don't want to do something major and mess it up and make it worse.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 5:31 pm

Well I haven't even cast the reconcilliation spell yet. I've simply been burning a ton of fixed candles with petitions and I'm making alot of progress.

yesterday we talked and she told me she was taking us more seriously and if we can go awhile and not argue as friends there is a very good chance we can get together again. She said if we can do that four a few weeks then we can talk about our other problems and try to work something out! Now this is how I burn my candles, I've bought a few online at LM but I've also gotten my own and fixed them with reconcilliation and return to me and commanding oils I write out my petition at first I was making it to the spirits that govern love but now I'm addressing them directly to her with an Amen at the end, I light them and place the petition folded once under the candle and let it burn each night. In the morning I put it out, is that right?

I can't wait to get my incense brazer in the mail and do the actuall reconcillation spell. I was going to use a small green ceramic brazer I have but I want the ritual to be perfect.

But is my candle work right? I mean its working sometimes I place the petition over top of the candle in the morning. Any suggestions and I know in another topic I wrote about making petitions to saints I was thinking Saint Anthony would it be okay to address a petition to him with respect?

Are there anythings I can get to put around the candle that he would like? Flowers, certain incense etc.

Should I use a certain color candle? I read his color is blue. Or I'm reading now about Angels should I petition them any?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 6:30 pm

Pink is a color used for romance and reconciliation as it is a paler version of red, the color of passion.

Saint Anthony is appropriate to petition for reconciliation work. His color is brown.

Good Luck on your reconciliation.

skyme714 · Unread post by **skyme714** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 7:17 pm

2 days ago my boyfriend walked out for the millionth time. I want him back BUT I also want to take time off and let things to cool down between us.
I know that the longer its been since last contact, the harder it will be to get him back.
How do I make sure to get him back when I want it, without losing the connection between us while we dont see and talk to each other or him wander off to another person or not wanting me anymore?
Thank you!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 7:56 pm

Make sure you snuff your candles rather then blow them out.

I've offered Saint Anthony Tobacco before in the form of a cigar with brown candles and fresh water. Approach him and ask if he wants anything specific from you.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 8:19 pm

As time passes, reconciliation work becomes a bit more tricky and more convoluted.

The only way to ensure that a partner that has walked away remains tied to you is to bind them to you in powerful way. I have found that among those people who have been put in a Nation Sack or similiar conjures that even when they do walk away they remain bound to the person they are tied to and this may make their return easier sometimes.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 8:53 pm

I'd been doing both pinching and blowing them out just depending on whatever pops in my head is that a major no no is it going to screw me up? B/c it seems as though this particular problem well she has hinted but not at it since the work started I'll let this one burn out and redo it and hope for something a little better and I'll try the poking holes in the candle. B/c yeah I did have to drain oil off of it.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 9:13 pm

Conjureman can you provide a link on how to properly approch him I've read his discription I have no idea where I was getting blue from but I don't want to mess this up and be disrespectful.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jul 04, 2010 9:14 pm

Blowing out a candle signifies you are finish with the spell. Read about candle majic here http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:42 am

You should check out Dr E's blog. He's an AIRR reader and has a really good post on how to prepare your candles and how to go about the whole process. Here's the link: http://conjuredoctor.blogspot.com/

good luck!

zlove · Unread post by **zlove** » Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:14 am

Hi,
Hope you all had a great Holiday weekend.
My ex showed up last night at the July 4th party! Just like the reading had predicted!
I hadn't heard from him since he returned from his trip and I wasn't sure if he'd come. I have kinda given up on him and lost interest. I was secretly upset that he hadnt contacted me for 3 weeks. I guess our Kiss didn't mean anything to him. Or it might just be as simple as, he's just not THAT into me. So at the party I decided to treat him just like any other friend. He did tell me that he had a nice time on the trip and that he is single. I asked him about the girl on FB and he admitted that they dated 2yrs ago but that now they are only friends. Makes sense. He was flirty and friendly with me the whole night, but never made an obvious romantic move. Perhaps cause my mother was in the room? I don't know. He did mention something about us going to see a theatre show. I hope he follows thru. I'm getting tired of doing all the work. Think I need a break from magic for a bit. Though as a last straw, I did make a batch of Sangria and put in some drops of my menses as well as Love me, FMB and Stay w/me oils. The taste was a little strong. I poured some in a cup and walked over to him and said "Taste this, Is it just me or does this sangria taste funny?" He took a sip and said "yes, seems like someone put a different rum in it" then I said yeah and walked away. Hahahaha

This is the 3rd time, he drinks my red. I'm curious to see its affects now...

How long should I wait to see affects from the "special sangria"?
Thanks

skyme714 · Unread post by **skyme714** » Mon Jul 05, 2010 10:50 am

Thank you ConjuMan! You are always to my rescue! I do have two photo of us tied with a red string. I believe it is working cause even though we rationally talked in the past that we seem to be incompatible, in fact we cannot walk away from each other. And with that, meantime, I hope to make things right.
During one of those rational talks, after we made up, I even told him that I have binded us (told, didnt show) and thats the reason we cannot move on and if he would like for me to undo it, but he said to keep it. So I still have it, and I hope that will help again as it helped before. Its just amazing!
Thank you again!!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jul 05, 2010 1:17 pm

Results may vary depending upon your situation.

surfingtherift · Unread post by **surfingtherift** » Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:25 pm

Sadgirl,
I have been reading your posts in this thread and first and foremost I wanted to say I feel for you. The love of my life ended things with me about 14 months ago and I had 2 tarot readers tell me that it was over for good and I would be happy again soon. Well here it is all this time later and I still miss him more than anything. I understand the pain you are going through and Advise you to stay positive. That being said, it seems like you are thinking the spell to death. Maybe it is silly, but I have spent the last year researching products and rootworkers and attempting to get myself into a mindset where I could begin to send positive energy into my reconciliation work. I am a firm believer that you get what you give, and putting negative thoughts into spellwork that has been going on so briefly will seriously mess you up. If this person is someone you truly love and want to spend your life with, then they are worth waiting for. Best of luck with your situation.

bounsyphom · Unread post by **bounsyphom** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 4:02 am

Me and my ex boyfriend have just recently stopped all sorts of communication. About 2 weeks.
I call and text him but he doesn't respond. He is this way because he believes that I have lied to him as I have before. We been together on and off for 1 yr and half. I did a menstrual blood on him once and it binded him for a while but now he is back to not talking to me again. I love him and I want him back. I had psychic readings and they said that he will come back just on his own timing. I feel like this time I may lose him for real, because he has a friend that is always telling him "shes a liar dont go back"
I have let my pride down so many times in order to get him back, calling and texting was my first instinct. But on Friday I just ordered some oils because I want him to want me back. I want him to be nice like he used to be, and love me and be all over me and calling me and texting me many times a day like we used to.
I ordered : Bewitching oils, Follow me Boy oil, Love me Oil, Reconciliation Oil, and Return to me Oil, they should be here sometimes this week.
Now which one should I use first? or all of them at once?
I know where he works at and its a public place, so my plan was to go to his work place when he's not scheduled to work and put some oils on the door knobs and bathroom door knobs, and on the stuff that I know he will touch, and if I get a chance I'm also going to put some on his car door knob. And wear some on myself do I have to make sure he smells it? because we are not on speaking terms so it would be weird to go to his work while he is working lol. And how long will the results of these oils be?

I also read about Honey Jars but for some reason they don't appeal to me as I want fast results but I will try them if the oils doesn't work. I guess some tricks appeal more than others for some ppl. The oils seemed best for me and I can't wait for them to be here.
Could anyone give me any more advice or feedback on my situation and whats the best method if the oils doesn't work? or share stories to keep me motivated if these oils have worked for you.
Thank you. I will keep you all posted on my work.

bounsyphom · Unread post by **bounsyphom** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 4:30 am

I also read about St Martha the dominator.. I was wondering if I should petition to her while I'm rubbing the oils around the work area. Or St Martha only works with candles on tuesdays?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 6:57 am

Dress a red candle with the oils and burn it on a Friday. You can also add the oils to your bath. He does not have to smell them for the oils to work.

How long it takes to work will vary according to factors such as your natural ability, his resistance, and even unknown factors.

Most of the people here will tell you to get a reading to see if reconcilation is feasible.

jcc78 · Unread post by **jcc78** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 11:39 am

So after not talking for a little while, I made contact again with my ex. He apologized for not talking to me, he thought I didn't want to talk to him, but we cleared that up and he said he would be in touch with me. Now I'm just wondering how to bring him closer, for him to contact me more and just want to be close to me again. I'm conflicted if I should use Follow Me Boy or Come to Me or if something else would be more effective. Hopefully this isn't redundant, I was having trouble coming up with results I could use in the search to best help with my situation.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 12:11 pm

I suggest a honey jar on this man, burn pink candles on it dressed with Come To Me. Provided you have some personal concerns to work with, otherwise you'll of course need to get some before you can work him.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

jcc78 · Unread post by **jcc78** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 12:31 pm

Ok thanks for the suggestion. But I don't have any personal concerns and won't be able to get any for a little while since he is out of town.

bounsyphom · Unread post by **bounsyphom** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 12:38 pm

I just received the oils today!! they were sitting on my mail box for couple hours and it was almost 98 degrees today.. will that have any affect on the oils? when I opened the box the oil bottles were warm

bounsyphom · Unread post by **bounsyphom** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 12:39 pm

I just received the oils today!! they were sitting on my mail box for couple hours and it was almost 98 degrees today.. will that have any affect on the oils? when I opened the box the oil bottles were warm

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 2:43 pm

They will be fine.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 2:48 pm

Either wait until he comes back OR you can put in what you have such as a picture then you can re open the jar once he comes back and put in those concerns.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 5:04 pm

Review the list of personal concerns here:
Genital fluids: menstrual blood, semen, vaginal fluid
Other biological concerns: urine, feces, sweat, blood, spit
Hair: pubic, head, armpit, beard
Person's unwashed clothing: underwear, socks, handkerchief
Person's foot track lifted from the dirt
"Shed" body items: nail clippings, baby teeth
Person's handwriting on paper
Something Person owned
Something Person touched
Photo of Person
Drawing or silhouette of Person
Person's business card
Person's full name written on paper 9 times

These items can be used for good or for evil; all that is indicated here is the relative strength of the tokens that represent the person. (as per cat)

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 5:29 pm

You can also use a combination of the lower concerns such as a name or a photo, or handwriting and a photo and so on to help strengthen what you got.

jcc78 · Unread post by **jcc78** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 10:44 pm

Ok this is all very helpful, thank you so much!

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 6:09 am

Everyone, thanks again for all your help. We've come really far.

I went back to my rootworker to discuss my concerns regarding the solely platonic movement I'm seeing and to see if we could add an element of passion to his work. I've already added it on my own work here at home. He said that before thinking about that, what I really need to be working on is resolving the issue of moving with my ex to San Fran (he foresaw us reconciling in the US, if we are to reconcile, so the key is in moving together.). He strongly suggested, for the second time, that I need to have that talk. I didn't have the talk with the ex the first time my rootworker suggested it a month ago because I thought it would be coming out of left field. We barely ever saw each other. But now that we've had such great movement, I think I can introduce the topic.

Is there something I can do to give me an edge here towards success? I thought about a skull candle with licorice (no calamus in this country) to plant the idea. I already have a white skull working for healing. Can I talk to that same one about this topic as well? I thought about doing some wisdom work on myself to help me find the right words and select the right timing. but I imagine all this takes time where I need to have that talk this week.

any suggestions? thanks....

bounsyphom · Unread post by **bounsyphom** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 6:15 am

I'm getting positive energy from the oils already. Well yesterday when I received them I didn't use them yet! but when I went to sleep I started dreaming that me and my ex were back together and we were really happy in my dream. I'm taking that as a positive sign!
Today I will start working on my target will keep you posted!:)

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:30 am

Deers tongue will help give you eloquence. Five finger grass will make him more inclined to favor your requests/ideas. Sage and solomon seal root will help give mental clarity, wisdom, and the ability to make good decisions. Yarrow and angelica can help empower you and give you confidence.

I would not use the same skull candle, because that is dedicated to a completely different purpose.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 2:20 pm

I'm definately with Devi on this. You can carry a small packet with Five Finger Grass, Deer's Tongue, and Licorice to help you influence events towards what you desire. Write our your petition, dress the herbs in some oil and wrap your paper around the herbs as you pray fervently for your goal. Carry it when you when you go talk to him.

You can also light a white candle (or purple for more commanding work) on his picture aimed specifically at getting him to see things your way.