Break a Love Jinx, Change Love Luck, Do a Love Uncrossing

[tag227]

I combined a series of spells to make my Ex boyfriend come back to me, and I must say I've learned my lesson the hard way.

The Background:

I had been dating a man for 4 months -- never met any of his friends or family. This of course made me quite suspicious, especially since he has met my friends. So on inquiring about this, he kept responding that he had just moved to Houston (about six months ago) and had not made many friends.

This was followed by fights over the fact that his Ex kept posting "hugs & kisses" all over his wall on facebook. Truth is she did not know he was not single, and I asked him about it, and he told me he did not want to tell people. One thing lead to another, and there was a lot of tension between us.

The last straw was about a week ago, when I had a car accident and he did not show up to see me afterwards, stating that it was not logical to be there as my family was there. I realized he really didn't care and then broke it off with him.

After this, being a stupid girl, I started work with St. Martha, used Luckycharms Call me now Spell, and combined it with Psalm spells and of course Cat's Oils.

The second day I got a call back from him, and he was in deep pain, and I needed to rush him to the ER. He is right now in the hospital, and with all the days of my taking care of him, nothing has changed. He is still the adamant jerk he was before, and that's not changing. He still tells his family he's here alone, when in reality, I've been taking care of him. And now he's still flying to Vegas to spend the weekend with his parents even though it may be injurious to his health, against my advice and the doctor's orders.

Moral of the Story

When Cat kept stating "You can bring a man back but you can not change his nature" --- I finally get it!!!!! Cat you are soooo right. Your products are wonderful by the way!

You can bring someone back, but it doesn't mean they'll be good to you or that you will be happy. -- I've become too tired looking after him, and I no longer want to be with someone so ungrateful.

Now my question is this:

I need to move on.

Are there any successful spells you guys know of that has helped you meet a soulmate or a spouse?

I'm not looking for lovers anymore, and would love to settle down, so a successful spell to bring a true love (in my hopes my spouse will be that), and to keep him?

Thank you all!

[Literarylioness]

tag227

Are you ready to be with a soulmate? I ask this because most people are not. They state they want to find the right partner for them, but they continuously thwart their attempts.

Having stated that, clean yourself up with a 13 herb bath or a jinx removal kit to get rid of all the gunk from the bad ex. After you have cleaned yourself up, then start working on finding the right guy.

The Come to Me Spell kit is great for attracting the perfect partner, as is cat's spell that attracted her husband, Nagsiva. It is called the Lodestone and red candle spell to attract new love. This spell can be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#candlelove

Good luck!

Mary

[tag227]

I am indeed ready for my soulmate. I've done a cleansing ritual and will take a 13 herb bath soon.

As for Cat's spell --- I did that spell twice now. And it's powerful --- I have had results both times, but it keeps bringing the same person back into my life! The second time, I asked for My soulmate & True Love & husband and then this one keeps popping into my life.

Should I do a Cut & Clear or is this just Karmic Destiny?

[keeperoftherubyshoes]

Hi tag,
I'm pming you.

[Literarylioness]

tag227

You should do a Cut & Clear AND a black walnut bath to get rid of the ex then.

Mary

[MightyAphrodite]

I got the clarity I needed to break up with my boyfriend last week. However, we have a 2 year history of on again, off again dynamics.

I've done some simple love and stay with me candle magic on him throughout our relationship. He always responded positively to it. But there were also times when he was being awful, and I broke up with him, doing Cut & Clear work. That would keep him away for weeks or a couple months, but then he'd come back promising me the world and I would take him back.

Although I believed his expressions of love and devotion, something felt off, and I recently did some prayer for clarity work and also some work with St. Michael to protect me from evil. All hell broke loose as a result, as I discovered he was cheating and lying to me. He accidently showed me his sexy emails to another woman (oops!) Then I spoke with her and holy cow, did my eyes get opened. (Thank you St. Michael for forcing the truth to be revealed.)

I'm thinking to do another cut & clear spell, but maybe I need to do something to clean up past love work first? I'm not sure why my cut & clear work didn't fully stick before.* Yes, I took him back those times (mea culpa) but I don't want to be vulnerable to letting him slither back again, promising me all the things on the good side of my cut & clear list.

*I did novenas and black/white offeratory rituals, not the black walnut spell, since going out my front door naked isn't something I can do where I live (no back door or private yard.)

What are your thoughts?

[starsinthesky7]

Here is a link that is helpful
separation-spell-without-harm-t175.<a class="postlink" href="htmlhttp://forum.luckymojo.com/separation-spell-without-harm-t175.html

Your situation is slightly different but I would use the same products. In addition, I would use cast off evil and perhaps some separation products as well.

[NotDorianGray]

You can also symbolically cut the ties by carving his name into a candle and yours into another. Dress them with separation oil, then tie them together with a red thread. Place them atop a petition paper and light.. Then, as you focus on removing all ties, cut the thread with a pair of scissors and separate the candles from one another. Let them burn down and dispose of the wax and thread at a river or crossroads.

[MightyAphrodite]

Those are great ideas. I think that putting some cast off evil into my cut & clear work is the way to go. Along with the manipulative betrayal my ex was doing, two women in his life have been messing with me. I'll skip the awful details, but one forged a legal document in my name in an attempt to ruin my business. The other was cheating with him, knowing he was in a committed relationship with me, and she also did some cyberstalking stuff. I want to banish all of them from my life!

[NotDorianGray]

Cast off evil is good, but you may want to consider hotfooting at least the one who forged the document away from you. Don't forget to protect yourself. You can also protect your business, and I urge you to do that too. Best of luck!

[duchess]

Hello all,

Last fall I was working with a rootworker for a reconciliation with my ex. At the same time, I was doing alot of work on myself--healing, clarity, etc.... At some point I just decided he wasn't worth it, he wasn't good for me, and to let it go. I did a Cut and Clear on myself (highly recommended), alot of cleansing and unjinxing, road opening, you name it--it was the transformational conjure boot camp.
Since then, things have been dramatically getting better and better in my life, I've been learning more and more and getting better at conjure (thanks to Lucky Mojo!), I met a man I really like, and the last few months have been some of the happiest for me in a long time.

Until this morning. Last night I had an odd feeling that I needed to do some cleansing and protection (keep this up--don't do what I did and learn the hard way the things that can happen when you don't!). I cleansed my house, put down some more FWP, prayed to St. Michael, went to bed, had some uneasy dreams, and woke up with a weird feeling. And this morning I look out my window to see my ex walking straight past my house. Never happened, and not a coincidence. Without going into detail, I should have seen him or run into him long before now but by sheer force of will and an overpowering desire to move on, I have managed to avoid him.

Enter sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. I had been dreaming about him the last week after not thinking about him for a long time (again cut and clear folks!) and I'm a true dreamer so I suppose I should have known. Yuck. If this is a sign of things to come, I'd really like to avoid one of those you move on, you get happy, and then the work hits them like a brick, scenarios.

Sorry for the long post--any advice? I have FWP, Van Van, hyssop, some blessing and uncrossing on its way, and a great relationship with St. Michael. My rootworker said that he had done some work on me (hence the desperation in me to reconcile) and when he figured out that I had gotten past the whole mess, he might try again. I'm going to consult with my rootworker today and get some more protection going but if you have any advice I'd be much obliged.

[Devi Spring]

I would just keep up the FWP until you can speak to your worker.

[kmew1315]

Interesting. This is the second thread I've seen recently where someone did a cut and clear on someone and then afterwards the reconciliation work started taking hold. So am I to assume that a cut and clear removes your feelings for the target but not the other way around?

And I know this isn't your intent, but I have to say that you are giving hope to those of us who haven't seen our work manifest yet.

[Devi Spring]

Cut and Clear works on YOU clearing YOUR feelings for a person - it has nothing to do with the other person directly.

[starsinthesky7]

A clear and cut Knew does NOT cancel the work you did for the person. It can still go into effect, but if you chose to cancel the work then obviously it would not work. This work tends to manifest because the petititioner tends to stop overthinking and making such a huge deal that the work takes hold.

[kmew1315]

This work tends to manifest because the petititioner tends to stop overthinking and making such a huge deal that the work takes hold.

EXACTLY what I was thinking and why I was asking, lol. Almost makes me want to do a cut and clear on my situation just to make it manifest sooner. Seriously, though... I won't do that because I know it would just make things even more complicated, but I do struggle with letting it go even though I know it's going to eventually do its work.

[ConjureMan]

I'd advise against the using of Cut and Clear just to make things manifest faster. In love work especially, you want the binding and manifesting of the spell to be mutual. Being able to call upon your love for the person and using that in your spell is a great resource.

[freegirl]

Right... just think about it... I have noticed in my own life that sometimes a man tells me he loves me, has always loved me, a few years after our relationship has ended... but it no longer means anything to me. I can't go back in time and have him say it to the part of me that wanted to hear it, nor can I turn myself into someone who still has a heart open enough to him to care. It may well be that my very real pulling back of that energy inspired him to come forward but there's no way I can fake that... it's an unintended and somewhat ironic side effect of it being OVER.

I imagine "cut and clear" has a similar effect, and the only way it would end up being useful is if it sort of halfway "cut and cleared" your feelings-- enough to pull back but leave you something. But you know, I think if you go into magic HOPING it will work halfway, it just won't work at all. So-- best I think, tempting though it is, not to do Cut and Clear unless that's your actual intent.

[starsinthesky7]

Knew,
I know its hard to not overthink when you want someone back so much. Trust me I know. But doing the clear and cut is not the answer lol :p But you can just try to focus on something else you need in your life. For example, I remember when I was trying to bring some back I worked on my school work, and getting into a master's program. In addition, I remember just completely giving up. It was liberating, and I have given up for a month, and I remember just forgetting how it felt to just live. I forgot to go out with friends and enjoy being young. Funny thing is...I saw my ex boyfriend at the club, which was soo funny to me. And then BAM! all my work I had been doing for MONTHS had worked. I mean reflecting back then I was like gosh everything I did manifested. It just took time. I know its cliche, but you have to have faith, and you somehow you have dig deep for what you didnt know you had. If you truly believe that person will come back, it really doesnt matter how...when..why they will come back. The important thing is tht they come back, but you must remember to not forget about yourself.

[Littlestar]

Long story will try to shorten:

Was in an abusive marriage when I met my now boyfriend. I have 3 sm kids. BF has been there 4 me thru everything. He told me he had friends w/benefits, but I didnt care since we were just friends. Our relationship changed & I fell in love w/him. We basically live together. He takes care of my kids so I can wk. He does everything 4 me but commit.

One of his "others" has stolen dirty clothes from hamper including undergarments clean clothes and jewlery from me. I got a shell reading and he confirmed she is seeing a Palero to break us up and see me dead and with completely nothing. Its affecting my business, my relationship with him, everything. They work together. He is completly brainwashed by her.

There was a huge episode last wk and since then he basically made me move back hm, hasnt spent any time with me. He is in a state of confusion, and despair. He is uneasy, very stressed. Its like he is emotionally and mentally being tormented. I know he loves me. He wont admit it but his actions has more than proved it. We've been together 16 mths.

How do I help him and bind her so she can not continue to harm us? Break what hold she has over him. Strengthen our relationship and bring him back to me? I have no experience with any of this so not sure If i should attempt something or have someone do work for me? Please help me.

[Miss Bri]

Hi there,
I am sorry to hear about your troubles. The first thing I would recommend is a reading by a reputable reader, you can find a list of them here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org

I suggest a reading from one of the folks listed here because they are all familiar with magic and should be able to advise you on what types of work you can do for yourself to improve this situation as well as what types of work you might want to consider hiring a pro to do for you. Secondly, as far as work you can do right now, I would encourage you to look at the following LMC pages:

Uncrossing:
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
Break Up:
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
Reconciliation:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Cut and Clear:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

From how you have described your situation I will be honest, it doesn't sound great. It sounds like you have found a guy who cares about you and your kids but he was upfront with you from the get go about his issues with commitment and possibly seeking sex from more than one source at the same time. What changed were your feelings towards him plus one of his lovers doing some work to keep him bound to her. This is why I included the link for cut and clear. But that is my assessment based on your description, get a reading from a reputable reader before doing anything else. It will save you time and money in the long run.

good luck,
Bri

[ConjureMan]

I definately second what Miss Bri said. A reading is definately in order to give you a second opinion of what is going on and either help you overcome the situation, or move on.

I also recommend hiring a pro to help out in your case. If you and your interest are indeed being worked upon by a Palero, then you need professional help.

[Littlestar]

I need to break her work and get her out his life completely. We have been back together has it has been because he never strays for more than a couple of days if he does need a break from me. He tells me he does want a future with me and all that he;s not ready right now to committ. but from the radings I've gotten he does love me, it is worth fightjng for him, he does want he does because of what she has done. But she has my clothes can't have too many by now. How do I end whateva she's doing completely once and for all?

[Miss Bri]

Littlestar
As I have already suggested, you need to get a reading from a reputable reader--preferably one who knows about magic and can also provide with you magical coaching services so that you can help yourself, here is the link for AIRR one more time: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

good luck,
Bri

[finey]

Hi to all hope everyone is doing well...ummm I just started my love uncrossing baths and I screwed it up by looking back. I am so mad right now because I don't feel like this is going to work my parents are nosy going to the crossroads is annoying and difficult I just want to throw it outside my house. I soak in the tub and I feel nothing...I think that this is a waste of time. I'm suppose to do love uncrossing then self love spell then carry a mojo bag to get the man of my dreams. I would like to skip the uncrossing and just do the self love and mojo bag.

[Turnsteel]

I am so mad right now because I don't feel like this is going to work my parents are nosy going to the crossroads is annoying and difficult I just want to throw it outside my house. I soak in the tub and I feel nothing...I think that this is a waste of time.

Then why are you doing it at all? With the attitude you have you probably won't get much success, especially if you think its "a waste of time". No one is forcing you to do it. Anyways, yes you did mess up by looking back, you'll have to do the bath over again.

Also to my knowledge LuckyMojo doesn't sell any "love uncrossing bath" are you talking about a normal Uncrossing Bath or...?

[starsinthesky7]

It really bothers me when people want to skip steps especially when it is inconvenient for them. Skipping steps when it comes to rootwork is only going to leave you short changed. The point of throwing it in the crossroads is so that the negative conditions get carried AWAY from you. I'm sure this is not the only time you are going to find something annoying you have to do in hoodoo. If you find certain things annoying, and just plain difficult, then you are probably going to have a hard time yielding results.

The person that recommended the uncrossing work to you recommended it for a reason. Uncrossing work is not a waste of time, and love uncrossing work removes the crossed and negativity that surrounds you finding love. You soaked in the tub, and you said you felt "nothing" i am not sure what you are suppose to FEEL. Your lack of faith and understanding of this work is evident by your lack of focus when you looked back after the disposal. This means you have undone the work you just did and you need to redo the work.

Go ahead and skip the love uncrossing, but do not be surprised if you do not get the full results you want, or that they are delayed due to the fact of trying to skip steps that are probably important.

In addition, if its a waste of time and have no faith, perhaps you should stop doing Hoodoo.

[Devi Spring]

Well, feeling that it's all a waste of time is working against your own cause. Instead of focusing on working with the spirits of the herbs to help manifest your petition, you're spending energy basicallly programming yourself and your work for failure. That's very counterproductive. I would try to bring a more confident and faithful attitude to the work in the first place, and that will help you all the way through. Having that negative mindset not only works to counter any positive energy you are putting out there, it also makes you lose focus and then stuff like you looking back happens. By looking back you pretty much communicated that you are NOT done with all the negativity you just washed away. So you'll definitely want to repeat the uncrossing bath.

Skipping the uncrossing would be extremely unwise and basically compromise any drawing work you would attempt to do. My advice would be to repeat the uncrossing bath and this time DON'T LOOK BACK! That is a very important aspect of the disposal, as is getting to a crossroads. You absolutely DON'T want to pour it outside your house - because that will basically just pour all your negativity back on your own doorstep. Hardly helpful. The crossroads helps disperse and carry the negativity far away from you.

Also, uncrossing baths are generally much more active then simply soaking. You should actually be standing and pouring the uncrossing bath mixture down over yourself while praying or otherwise affirming that you are ridding yourself of anything that's been holding you back. When I do spiritual baths, I only fill the tub to my ankles, since you're pouring the mixture over yourself and working with it that way, there's no need to fill it.

If you don't successfully uncross before moving into the self-love work and the mojo bag, then you're leaving serious barriers to your goals in place willingly. It's like trying to guide someone to your house on a dirt road during a dust storm - they can't see any of the road names or house numbers, and finding you will be extremely difficult and there's a good chance that they won't find you at all in all the swirling dirt! The uncrossing bath is working to clear that dust and dirt away, so that your goal will have a clear path to you on the road.

[finey]

Okay I will try again I'm suppose to do it 7 times I screwed up once but I just have to make the other six count. This is my first time dealing with hoodoo I got a consultation this was prescribed to me and if I want mr right I do HAVE to do it.

[Devi Spring]

Personally, I would add an extra day onto your uncrossing so that you'll get the full 7 days of positive effects, rather than just 6...which isn't the prescribed amount. If you were told 7, it's because you need the benefits of 7 full days of proper uncrossing in order to get the best results from the work that will follow.

I know it can be hard to keep up with a schedule of ritual baths, but just be happy that it wasn't a series of 13 uncrossing baths which is commonly prescribed!!

[starsinthesky7]

You need to do it ALL 7 times. So you need to start from one. The previous one does NOT count. If you do not want to go to the crossroads for 7 days in a row. Then get a big jar, and save some of the bath water from each day, and throw it out on the last day. Make sure you do not look back.

[finey]

Okay let me ask you this I steep these herbs ...I can still reuse the herbs to make and additional bath for a next day right? I was told this love uncrossing is best done on a monday but I can preform it at anytime should I wait for monday morning again? I would really like to get this done right away I have been putting this off for too long.

[Devi Spring]

No, you do not reuse herbs like that. Their potency is pretty much spent once you use them - trying to get additional uses out of them will result in weaker and weaker baths. Use new herbs each time.

If your rootworker told you to only bathe on Mondays, for a series of 7, then that is what you need to do for that work. However, if s/he said to start on a Monday, then I would go ahead and wait until the next Monday to begin. However, feel free to contact them and ask if you can start at a different time.

[starsinthesky7]

Yes you can reuse the herbs as you have only done one day. Today is still Monday. You can perform the bath tonight or whenever, and then throw out the bath water either in a big jar or keep going to the crossroads each day. In addition, you can do an egg cleansing as well as the baths.

[Devi Spring]

Stars and I have understood this two seperate ways, LOL:

Do you mean reuse herbs you have already steeped? No.
If you mean herbs that you haven't steeped yet and that you have left over, then yes you can still use them.

[finey]

Since I'm in a rush and frugal I will have to stretch those 6 packets of herbs I cant wait for another one.

[Devi Spring]

Yes, you can re-portion the 6 into 7 and be fine. That's not too much of a stretch.

[finey]

Sad part is this is best done in the morning sooo I have to wait for next week monday. If I could just punch myself in the face for screwing this up without crying I would. Thank you very much ladies for your help and patience. Bless you.

[starsinthesky7]

This is just the ideal time. Not everyone has time int he morning to do such things. You can start today if you would like and then follow up in the morning of all the other days to follow. Just feel confident about what you are doing, and you will be fine.

[finey]

Thank you

[jwmcclin]

I love LM baths anyway, I make them a part of my daily routine. As for herbal bathing, I use just enough for one bath and keep the remainder dry until I am ready for the next bath. But I do no of people who steep the entire pack and store it for daily baths.

[Miss_Liz]

I keep hearing about/being told to do a love uncrossing, but I have no clue how to do that.

[jwmcclin]

You can use one of LM's DOUBLE ACTION also called REVERSING CANDLES to work a love uncrossing spell...read abut them (and order) on this page http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html#colour

[starsinthesky7]

Read this post

Personally, I think you need more than fire of love with come to me. With regards to all your questions, I would ask those questions during the reading. There is already passion there, but there seems to be some resistance to this passion and wanting to be with you due to other issues.

I think if you want to achieve your goal, and bring this man closer to you. You need to address whatever it is that is holding him BACK. For example, if I were trying to get my ex back and he was still attracted to me and felt passionate towards me BUT could not act on it because perhaps maybe he could not let go of past relationship issues. Then what needs to be addressed is getting him to let go of past relationship issues, and helping him see that we are capable of being together. This is just an example. But throwing more come to me and fire of love (in the example) is not going to address the issue. What needs to be addressed is the resistant behavior, and the cause of it. So you need to figure out what that is...in the reading.

But for now, I would recommend doing some love uncrossing work. With a half black and half red candle jumbo candle. Simply cut off the colored tip of the candle, and turn it over creating a new tip with the black portion. On the colored part write the both of your names, and on the black part write what you want him to let go of...perhaps past issues (this can be further determined when you get the reading). All of the writing must be done in mirror writing. You can use rose petals, uncrossing oil/powder, and rue. The love uncrossing is not only for love jinxes, but to uncross the negative conditions as well.

I would follow this up with a road opener, and some skull work to put positive images and thoughts in his mind of this relationship. However, you need to work on yourself because the more you keep doing these SAME behaviors he is just going to feel like you are going to do this in the relationship. I feel like that is turning him off. So make sure you work on yourself.

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[Miss_Liz]

Ahha, thank you, so just simply the uncrossing oil, no need to add love me or anything?

[starsinthesky7]

No. I listed the herbs you could use.

[Miss_Liz]

thank you very much!

[Miss_Liz]

Real quick, which psalm or prayers would you use for this in particular?

[splitpea]

i had a haitian man,do some work fo me,to keep my boyfriend around so he gave me a doll,but now everything is terrible and i just want him to leave,but remain friends so my daughter can continue to have a relationship with him (its her father).. What can I do,i really don't want to go back to that person tht helped the first time...

[Devi Spring]

You can browse through the profiles of the skilled rootworkers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

[starsinthesky7]

I would get rid of the doll. You can burn it to end what you wanted, and then dispose of the ashes in the river or ocean to remove the influence. Then you need to follow up with some uncrossing work,and perhaps some peaceful home to get things back to being peaceful and get the negativity out.

I agree with Devi, definitely get that reading so you can get a better gauge on what you should do. But I would get rid of the doll, and cleanse your home and do some peaceful home, then go from there with the other recommendations given to you.

[ConjureMan]

You might want to get a rootworker'S advice on how to deal with the doll first. You don't want to burn up your boyfriend.

There is a way to dispose dollies and your reader and rootworker can advise you.

[Devi Spring]

I was just going to post that same thing, CM!

[starsinthesky7]

Oh true lol...I didnt think of that. So get some consultation before you do that, but you can burn it to end its influence if they say its okay.

[duchess]

Thanks Devi for the input! I contacted my rootworker and she said the same thing--just keep it up. I also annointed myself with some Crown of Success (I love this oil!) because it always makes me feel more grounded, centered, stonger, and able to do the things I have to do.

Kmew, the Cut and Clear was the right choice for me and my situation because at the end of the day it was what I really wanted and needed. It took me alot of work to see that. I cannot speak for other situations where the target comes back after cut and clear but my ex is incredibly selfish. It took me alot of work and healing (with the help of Conjure) to see that I deserved better. Is it possible that he could come back? Yup. He doesn't care about me or what I want and he probably misses all that loving energy. Which is why I am trying to enforce boundaries at the moment (magical and otherwise).

Starsinthesky's advice is great. Don't forget about yourself. Do some cleansing, love unjinxing, learn an instrument, write a novel. You will be better for it and your target will come back to a better happier person, right? You love this person and so naturally you want to be the best for them. If you know that it's you, strengthening yourself is only going to help you, right?

Actually, insert plug for LM's Crown of Success right here.

[DamnTheMan81]

Hello all..I am new to the forum,but have vist the site many times...I have found many cool spells and tricks,but I failed to find one and this is why im here to ask...I just found out that one of my older sisters have been witchcraft to marry her husband she haves now..I have removed witchcraft before,but never a love spell..So my question is...do i buy a uncrossing oil with a love oil to make it a removing love oil or just a break up oil alone? I mean I am going to get some herbs and the rest of the things,but was just wondering about the oil.. Plus I have learned the women who witchcraft my sister is her husband's aunt who knows mexican witchcraft and reads the spanish cards and I was wondering if there is anyway I can block her from seeing me removing the spell from my sister....I have heard you can do that with breaking a eye fron a sewing needle,but thats all i know..If anyone can PLEASE!!! help me with this it will be ever so wonderful..many thanks..

[jwmcclin]

Welcome to the forum DamnTheMan81. Well LM has a kit for uncrossing which you can use in this case, however I would recommend a reading on your situation before proceeding to know exactly what is going on and to identify an appropriate spell. Read through the AIRR site found here
(http://www.readersandrootworkers.org) and identify a reader that can work with you on this issue.

[Miss Bri]

Hi there and welcome.
Yes--you should get a reading. Anytime you have family members who practice some kind of magic and you think they may be influencing your life or the life of someone you love you should get a reading. In our tradition you would not combine a love oil with an uncrossing oil to uncross a crossed love situation. You would do some type of uncrossing work. Then you might follow up with some love drawing/reconciliation work. Since you sound fairly new to this type of work and you have (within your family) a couple of different magical traditions informing you, I would recommend strongly that you get a reading and work with a worker who can provide you with some magical coaching and possibly even help you out by doing some work along side of you.
Good luck,
Bri

[ConjureMan]

Absolutely start with a reading and some guidance from a rootworker. Follow the link given above.

What you are looking for is a form of love uncrossing work. Uncrossing products can definately help you along those lines, but I would recommend first speaking to a professional.

Yes, there are ways to hide your work from the eyes of a reader, but it is tricky and a talented reader may know what to look for

[DamnTheMan81]

I did get a reading....thats how I knew about my sister being witchcraft to marry her husband..... I have removed witchcraft before from people without a problem,but I never did a love remover spell before....well do anyone at least know a book that shows you how to remove a love spell and to hide your work from a reader? let me know..thank you....