Spells to Help Children with Developmental Delays or Autism

skyme714 · Unread post by **skyme714** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:24 pm

Hi guys,

I read this forum back and forth, from top to bottom, and found a lot of interesting info. I as well looked at prayers and novenas. I saw a prayer to St. Simon de Rojas (For Those With Speech Defects).

A very dear person to me has what called Apraxia of Speech, she is a non-verbal teenage girl (diagnosed at age of 2). She is in very good intensive academic program, as well as speech therapy.

She is considered autistic non-verbal. But she is not typical autist, she likes to be with people, does a lot of sports, she is very happy, so autism doesn't concern me much at this point. Her speech does, she can imitate sounds, and say short words as "hot", "good", "ok". She understands perfectly. She has a vocabulary in her head, she knows a lot of words, the problem is she cannot say them (she would breathe IN when trying to talk, NOT out, and toungue movements is difficult as well - which speech therapists are working on).

Do you think I can help her somehow? I know that prayers are very powerful. Any other way I can help her in addition to prayer?

Any spell? White/blue candle with healing oil? Write her name on a candle? I can easily obtain her personal concerns if that would help.

Please, any suggestion will be GREATLY appreciated!

And do you think is it at all possible? I believe in miracles, but it is a very serious diagnosis.

skyme714

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:36 pm

skyme714,

I would go for working with Dr. Jose Gregorio Hernandez for your autistic friend - which will help her heal and also help her get with the best therapists. Healing oil, or the blessed Dr's oil could be used on vigil candles burned on top of a petition paper for her. If you want to do ongoing work, you could do a bottle spell using healing herbs and herbs that help with communication, and then burn candles on that regularly.

Devi Spring

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 4:38 pm

For the speech problem, I believe in prayer and you can pray to that saint you mentioned, and you can do some work to help her learn more. But honestly you are probably not going to be able 100 percent cure her since its a difficult. And you could try working with that saint and see what happens.

starsinthesky7

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue May 11, 2010 6:25 pm

For the non verbal girl I suggest you add Deers Tongue herb to any work you do for her, its a herb known for giving people eloquence and charming speech, and helped me over a nervous stutter. Also Angelica root and Althea root would both do a lot of good in the bottle spells. If your going to petition Blessed Dr. Dr. Jose Gregorio Hernandez or any healing or helpful spirit I would glue a holy card of that saint of spirit to the outside of the bottle.

I wish you luck and will light a candle for your friends.

Turnsteel

Unread post by **Todd Forrester** » Wed Jun 15, 2011 6:44 am

Hello folks,

I am looking for spell work advice to help my wife and I find respite care for my son.

My son has autism and we receive many services for him including PCA (Personal Care Attendant), educational intervention and behavioral therapies. We have the funding approved for respite care one weekend a month. Respite care is meant to give parents and caretakers a break so they can rest up and run errands and complete household tasks (….and maybe a date) that are difficult with our little guy around.

There are two kinds of respite care. One kind is institutional where our boy would be cared for by a staff, the other kind is where the foster care system places him with a foster family that can care for him. The institutional care has over a 20 year waiting list (or so we are told), so we have been trying to find a family that could take him once a month. We have had little luck.

We found one family who would be willing to take him, though they regularly also care for troubled kids with sexual abuse issues. With my boy’s vulnerabilities I was not comfortable with that. The other person we found was a special education teacher who worked with Autistic children for a living. We thought we had found our perfect match. The catch was that she cared for another boy the same weekend. We tried a few weekend for the boys to get to know each other but it did not work out. My son is a sensory seeker, and quite frankly a generator  and the other boy shied away from stimulus. We were told that since the other boy was there before that he would stay and my boy had to go.

We have had no other leads since.

We have continued working with social workers trying to find respite care, but they seem to have forgotten us. We check in with them regularly to ask about the search and they tell us they have not found anything for us.

We have started to search outside the “system” for possible caretakers but it is slow going.

My question for this forum is: what kind of working(s) would you folks recommend for achieving the goal of finding caring, safe, consistent, and responsible caregivers to provide respite care for my boy.
Any ideas and advice would be greatly appreciated.

T-Mike.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Jun 15, 2011 8:22 am

I would recommend a reading and consultation and rootwork with a member of AIRR and some Road Opening Work:
http://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
for a solution (kind responsible person) "outside the system"
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
One last thing, in the mundane world, you might already have done this, but I would start looking for any non profit that assists both with funding and volunteers and also families in similar situations.
***edited to include Peaceful Home:*** and Blessing link. I believe these will really help, too.
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Take Care T-Mike, you and your family.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Jun 15, 2011 10:48 am

I agree with Miss Tammie Lee -- a Road Opener is a great start. While working with the road Opener supplies, i would pray for the assistance of a Guardian Angel or Helper Spirit to guide your footsteps to the respite care worker person or to guide and lead the respite care worker to you.

And i would go to Vistaprint, where you can get 250 FREE business cards (they are free because they have a Vistaprint ad on the back, which does not matter in this case) and i would imprint those cards with my name, address, and phone number. Dress the cards with Road Opener powder and with Spirit Guide powder (lightly!) as you pray over them, and then set about handing them out to everyone who looks like they might help you or know about someone who might help you.

Be specific in your prayer:

You want a respite care worker who has received ABA training for autism, developmental delays and learning disabilities, and will work with your son, not simply keep him safe while you have a day off.

You want a person who has done this before and is competent, not a newbie.

You want a person who is dedicated to the task of educating and improving the communication skills of autistic children, not merely warehousing them.

You want a person who is alert to and aware of current medical science research on autism and thus is not locked into a "deal with it" modality but is actively researching the subject and will bring new scientific and medical findings to you as a matter of mutual interest and helpfulness.

You are looking for a person who believes that no case of autism is "hopeless" and that your son can, at any age, continue to improve his social and communication skills -- and who is ready to devote cheerful and hopeful time to this important task.

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Unread post by **Todd Forrester** » Tue Jul 19, 2011 11:31 am

Miss Tammy Lee & Miss Cat,

Thank you very much for your advice. I am working it out with my wife what we are specifically looking for in care for my son and plan on taking your advice to heart. I found the vistaprint website and will be ordering the cards soon. Once again, thanks for the advice and I'll let you know how things turn out.

T-Mike

Samantha_26 · Unread post by **Samantha_26** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 7:35 pm

My sister is having a horrible time trying to wean my niece off of her bottles. I have tried various techniques but have never incorporated spellwork into my attempts. I know of some methods for getting people to stop drinking alcohol but am unsure if these spells will work in a child/bottle situation. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! I know that this sounds like a trivial situation to ask for help with but it would make a huge difference in the life of my sister and my niece.

Thank you!

Samantha_26 · Unread post by **Samantha_26** » Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:04 pm

So... I have been looking into some spells to solve this problem and I came across one that sounds promising but I want to get a second (or third) opinion. The spell involves writing the problem (bottle drinking) on a piece of paper and dipping that paper into essential oil of mint and sandwiching the paper between the two halves of an apple, skewering the halves together and securing with a black ribbon, and then burying the apple. As the apple decays in the dirt, the problem is supposed to banish as well.

What do you think? Any suggestions and/or insight would be great!

africanviolet · Unread post by **africanviolet** » Fri Mar 02, 2012 8:51 am

I would like some input on what products and candle colors to use for my son.

He is now eight years old, but since the age of five he has gotten behind in learning due to behavioral and emotional problems. He has participated in counseling and other therapeutic activities, and has improved tremendously. He is very intelligent. And yes several different traumas have occurred and also ancestry is a factor which definitely contribute to his struggles. But as a result of his hx and diagnosis, he is in special education

I realize that this is going to take some mundane work on my part for getting him extra support to catch up (i.e professional tutoring, one on one parent coaching, counseling), however, I would also like to begin a spiritual work regime for healing his emotional and behavioral challenges as well as clearing the way for him to have increased self control, judgement, and insight into his behavior as well as social skills and rules of society and just daily living.

After this I would like to work on getting his emotional and social challenges healed so that he may eventually be able to transition back into a mainstream classroom.

I would also like to improve his communication skills (sharing his feelings and thoughts).

So far today I will be ordering healing, 7-11, crucible of courage, clarity products, and van van products. Thank you for any suggestions

I would appreciate some feedback on what products, candle colors, and prayers to use.

Love and Light

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:30 am

You have some great products in that list africanviolet. Baths and laundry loads with the crystals of those will help dress all members of the family toward his recovery.

Another good combo is King Solomon's Wisdom and John the Conqueror. Burn purple and yellow candles with the oils. Having him keep a large or an extra-large John the Conqueror root as a pocket piece and teaching him to oil it every morning with a mixture of the oils could give him an active part in the Conjure and a certain sense of empowerment. Alternatively, having a triple strength Mojo hand fixed custom for him by the team at LM could also be helpful.

Keeping a steady run of Vigil lights for him can also provide sustained work on behalf of his success. Also get the members of the Crystal Silence League praying for him by signing up here: http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html

Blessings and support to both you and your son.

africanviolet · Unread post by **africanviolet** » Fri Mar 02, 2012 12:16 pm

Thank you so much Aura! In a few weeks, I will definitely look into purchasing the Triple Strength Mojo Hand for him from LM. I purchased the bath salts of the multiple ones you suggested as well as the oils and I happen to have a John the Conquerer Root, and actually added the JCR oil to my order today! Which mojo hand would you exactly recommend? And depending upon which one, should there be any special requests for an added oil or prayer to ensure his needs are collectively met by the Mojo Hand in case its specified towards one objective? Also, any particular bible verses or psalms for his collective work?

Bless!
Love and Light

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Mar 03, 2012 4:38 am

Hi africanviolet,

if you want a custom hand that will take into consideration all of his needs, then it's propably best to call Luck Mojo, explain the need and have them craft a custom hand. In this case, in the ready made hands, a Crown of Success would probably address the most issues at once: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-3x-crown-of-success.html. You could then dress it with a combination of John the Conqueror, Crown of Success and King Solomon Wisdom oils.

In the psalms, 23 is always a good choice: there is benefit and peace of mind to be had in its daily recitation. Others you may want to consider include 33, 65 & 106.

Many blessings.

Ladyluv · Unread post by **Ladyluv** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 11:36 am

I have a son who is 10 now. He's a good child but when he get into his fits is throws serious tantrums, want to fight and argue back. His father is kind of the same way I don't want him to grow up the way his father turned out.

He is in special education cause he started talking late (his father is the same way) and he also have a problem focusing well somethings he just dont care and it's getting worst. He's a twin but my other son is a great kid but it is affecting him too, cause that my child with the problem attacks him as well.

I want to break the curse which I think it is after finding out thing from my ex. He and alot of the male children in his family experience this behavior. The one with the problem looks exactly like his dad and my other twin looks like me.

I was thinking of doing a honey jar but he is a nice kid and only when when he is lashes out its really bad. Not sure how the vinegar bottle would work in this case.

I was also thinking of doing a binding but not sure, as well as a cast off evil spell and protection for the him and my family.

Not sure what direction I should take, so anyone's help will be greatly need. I'm open to anything right now cause the past week have been bad. Thank you all in advance.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 12:26 pm

Hi Ladyluv,

DON'T work a vinegar bottle or binding on a member of the family (particularly a child) that you're trying to help. It will sour his life even further and probably make him more aggressive within even if you end up able to control the effects without.

For your situation, which is complex, a multi-facetted approach will no doubt serve all persons involved best. On a mundane level, getting your problem son a full physical check-up and psychiatric evaluation may well help pin-point any issues that need to be dealt with medically. Behavioural therapy might be of benefit as could play therapy or art therapy. A mild sedative herbal tonic may also be helpful if indicated by your health professionnal.

For the crossing or curse (and perhaps you want to have that confirmed by an ethical root-worker like the folks at AIRR by getting a short reading) a course of 13 herb bath done on the child or on a doll-baby of him may help. A Cast Off Evil spell kit as you suggested is a great follow-up to help deal with the aggressive behaviour (casting it off).

For the twin who is fine but affected by his brothers' behaviour, consider providing him with a supportive hand (enrolling him in the Big Brothers program or finding a youth councellor he can talk to) so that he isn't brought down by the situation. On the magickal level getting him a powerful good luck charm and toby, something like a jack ball, can help him feel special and cherished throughout it all.

A peaceful home honey jar with all of you in it which includes blood root, borage and blue cohosh amongst the ingredients is also a great way to work for everyone and lighting blue candles on it could become a familial event.

Blessings and best of luck.

Ladyluv · Unread post by **Ladyluv** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 1:18 pm

Thank you aura.

I was going to do a honey jar just for him but a family one sounds better. I will get every thing in order for 13 herb bath and the cast off evil.

He's goes to regular check ups and been getting service the best they diagnose him with is emotional disturbance. He been getting counseling speech therapy which he's better now but there is more going on like I said I know it have something to do with my kids father side of the family and I want to break it from my son. His attitude is getting worst as he gets older. And of he is getting bigger and stronger and I wouldn't be able to control for long that what I'm seeing.

I'm very intuitive and I see thing getting worst. I will definitely by a charm for my other son. I already know how to do honey jars I love them. But I will research into it more with the 13 herbs bath.

Thank you once again Aura

SeleneAnna · Unread post by **SeleneAnna** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 1:51 pm

If you haven't recently, please have his hearing checked.

My best friends little boy was getting in all kinds of trouble and acting out at school and home. The teachers were cruel to him and tried to move him to different classes. The school demanded that he be put on strong drugs for ADD. It was around then that I was talking to him and watching his reaction and realized he was trying to hear me but couldn't. He had had a silent ear infection with no pain that we had thought was a cold and it resulted in severe hearing loss. It had progressed over time so he didn't realize it and it became normal to him to hear that way but he was frustrated because he couldn't hear the teachers or classmates or us so that affected his behavior.

Once we got him on an antibiotic and a hearing aid, he turned back into the amazing and well behaved child we'd always known.

There is also a disorder called PANDAS that occurs in children when the strep virus isn't completely gone from their system after antibiotics. It causes all sorts of OCD and behavior issues but is resolved with basic antibiotics. http://intramural.nimh.nih.gov/pdn/web.htm

Please ask your doctor about these issues.

It breaks my heart knowing that good kids get mislabeled because of illness. Especially since I remember how frustrated I'd get at my best friends son and how guilty I felt when I realized he didn't listen because he couldn't hear me.

Much positive energy to you! x

Ladyluv · Unread post by **Ladyluv** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 3:24 pm

Thank you SeleneAnne.

I just got eyes test for that same reason but its fine. I going to get his hearing done again soon, already had a appt setup

I agree they diagnose the kids these days with anything. His school try to say he is autistic and its clear he's not then they try to say he was unteachable but yet he was getting 100s on spelling and math test and he's is a very smart kid. He just have a very bad attitude when things don't go his way and have a controlling behavior now he starting remind me of his father and it's not a good thing. I left their father cause he try to kill me so I want handle this behavior now. I would do anything for my son.

Thanks for the positive response.

Romani52 · Unread post by **Romani52** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 3:52 pm

Has he been checked for Aspergers Syndrome?

My daughter used to be friends with a child whose behavior sounds similar, he also excelled at Spelling and Maths. He was very manipulative and also used to have tantrums. Just an idea.

Ladyluv · Unread post by **Ladyluv** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:45 pm

Romani52 thanks for the information. I just googled it and it does say it's genetic and it can come from the father side of the family which is what I been saying.

The thing is my sons is very athletic like to play and run around I can see him being an athlete and is very social, and he sleeps well lol. But his communication is bad but he do understands what you tell him. I will still look into it more. Will definitely ask his doctors about it hopefully get him tested to see if he has it or not.

I been going back and forth since he was a toddler and no one seems to really know what is cause. Hopefully he will grow out of it. His speech is way better than it was when he first started to get help but his behavior is just too much for me. Just now he came to me and apologize to acting up (he wants to watch tv and play videos). He knows what he's doing but I know tomorrow there will be a problem again.

I tried meds on him before they gave him adderall and that made him like a super villain. I just don't know what to do anymore.

Hopefully a lot of prayer, spiritual spells, mediation, cleansing, and my honey jar can help with this situation, along with the help he gets from the outside. I'm taking it now as a spiritual fight. Cause he a great kid but his bad behavior comes out of nowhere recently.

SeleneAnna · Unread post by **SeleneAnna** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:20 pm

You're a good mom! It shows! My sons father sounds a lot like your sons father. I'm so happy that you could get away from him! I'm still trying. Best of luck to you!

Ladyluv · Unread post by **Ladyluv** » Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:46 pm

Thank you so much SeleneAnna. I think it hard for any of us to break away from a relationship especially when it's someone we truly cared and loved unconditionally at a point in our life. I took me some time but I'm glad he's gone completely out of our life. I totally found away to lose contact with him and the funny thing is he still knows where I live. I learned not to put any type off energy into him anymore.

I think we all especially that we do a lot of spiritual work whether it's prayer, hoodoo, spells, etc; us thinking about them whether good or bad we still connect to them on a spiritual level. Try not to focus on him as much.

I hope the best for you to hun. We all deserve the best in life.

Rae · Unread post by **Rae** » Wed Nov 07, 2012 11:01 am

Hello everyone,

I'm looking for a way to help my son who is 8 years old. He is possibly on the high functioning end of Aspergers.

One of his main problems is he has rage/anger problems and has since he was a baby. He gets irritated easily and gets very upset if things don't go his way.

He has finally verbally told me he feels very angry. I don't think he knows why he feels this way or how to help himself.

Can some one give me some direction on ways I might help him feel calmer inside? My first thought was maybe an amulet or charm he could wear, something he could have with him all the time.

<3 thank you,
Rae
Editted to add, we had a doctor appt today, hearing and vison perfect. Dr thinks ODD- oppositional defiant disorder with anger control disorder. Suggested further evaluations

Unread post by **Queen-e** » Tue Dec 11, 2012 2:45 pm

My son is Autisic but is high functioning. He was always an easy child to deal with until he hit puberty and then all he'll broke loose. He takes respertol at night, otherwise he won't sleep, and I mean that literally. That and regular exercise seems to help. Wear that kid out. But I am going to try the above mentioned peaceful home honey jar as well. Very excited.

Thank you Archangel Michael for all your protection!

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Sat Dec 15, 2012 11:07 am

Hi,

I totally agree with Ms Cat and Ms Tammie suggestion.

I also am the parent of an 8 year old moderately functioning autistic son. I would recommend ordering the Crown of Success Spell Kit. I would place my intentions for focusing in school, dealing with community, when he is in respite care, anger management. I would also add inside the mojo bag that comes with that Deer's Tongue leaves (this will help with speech and communication). I would also do a paper name petition write your wish for on the paper (e.g. "behave now, focus, calm down") , then turn the paper 90 degrees and cross and cover wish with your name, 9 times. Circling petition with phrases like "stop being aggressive, follow my directions, calm down, be content, be safe," etc. Dress the paper with Crown of Success Oil and King of Solomon at the four corners and fold it toward you to draw the wish in. Place it under sole of shoe and bless it by saying, "May my work be crowned with success and may (name of son) be less aggressive and more cooperative."

I would put the mojo bag in the bookbag pocket where he would not find it; or the bag he would take to be with respite worker, or inside jacket pocket. Also I would purchase a Holy Card of Dr Jose Gregorio Hernandez and dress with protection sachet. Dr Jose Gregorio Hernandez is patron saint of medical students and doctors and he helps them with diagnosis and treatment plans. Pray that the doctors would be able to handle his aggression and address his behavioral/educational needs. Also pray that they try to educate themselves on autism spectrum disorder. The protection dressed on it so that no one takes advantage of your child's vulnerability for abuse of any kind. I would put this in his pants back pocket.

I know first hand it's a journey; and there's no cure but there is HOPE in every progression that is made.

I hope this helps.

ivlin · Unread post by **ivlin** » Sat Mar 15, 2014 7:22 am

Hello

Thank Godness found this forum about the spiritual aspects of Autism. My son was diagnosed with severe Autism, he is 7 years old. He is very super hyperactived. Hopefully with the informations here, it can help for my son expecially i'm a single mom right now. I know it is difficult to take care of them.

Thanks

DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Mon Sep 22, 2014 7:35 am

My toddler is having problems at daycare with aggression. He acts out very badly, hitting and throwing objects at others. This is not his behavior at home. We are trying our best to teach him it's wrong to be aggressive but i sense that he gets frustrated because he cannot talk yet. I also suspect other children gang up on him because they know he gets into trouble and it's easy to blame him.

The daycare is threatening to expell him and we cannot afford anywhere else if they do. He's been going there since birth, he's two now.

I have been bathing him with King Solomon, Cast off evil, & St Michael. I also wanted to start a honey Jar to place him and the other children and staff in. What products and herbs do you recommend?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Sep 22, 2014 9:06 am

I think a honey jar is a good idea, but if parents are allowed to bring treats to the daycare center, such as cookies, a sugar jar is an even better idea, because you can use the sugar to cook with. Dress your candle with a blend of Tranquility, Spirit Guide, Clarity, and King Solomon Wisdom Oil. If you wish to add an herb packet to the sugar, use only edible herbs that bring peace and happiness, and keep them light, not overpowering. You can find a list of such herbs in the indexes in the back of "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic," and check their edibility via the internet or your own knowledge base. You can then use the sugar to bake cookies and bring them to the day care center. Read more about how to use sugar and honey jars in the book "Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells" by Deacon Millett.

I would also like to note that something else in your query concerned me greatly. You say your child is two and "he cannot talk yet." A child who is not talking by the age of two has developmental delays, deafness, or other deficits that are slowing down his understanding of social norms and interpersonal dynamics. If your son has not been tested for developmental delay or deafness, he should be, and you should avail yourself of the best help you can afford and that your state health system provides. A child who is aggressive or being bullied in daycare because he cannot talk by the age of 24 months should be a red flag to the daycare center, and they should be consulting with you about this, not threatening to "expel" him.

Here are some milestones for the development of language. These are the averages, and they are well known and are used by pediatric specialists to test children. If your son is not meeting these milestones, he needs medical and psychological intervention to diagnose the cause of the trouble and to begin treatment.

Your baby’s hearing and communicative development checklist

http://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/voice/p ... age.aspx#2

Birth to 3 Months

Reacts to loud sounds YES NO
Calms down or smiles when spoken to YES NO
Recognizes your voice and calms down if crying YES NO
When feeding, starts or stops sucking in response to sound YES NO
Coos and makes pleasure sounds YES NO
Has a special way of crying for different needs YES NO
Smiles when he or she sees you YES NO

4 to 6 Months

Follows sounds with his or her eyes YES NO
Responds to changes in the tone of your voice YES NO
Notices toys that make sounds YES NO
Pays attention to music YES NO
Babbles in a speech-like way and uses many different sounds, including sounds that begin with p, b, and m YES NO
Laughs YES NO
Babbles when excited or unhappy YES NO
Makes gurgling sounds when alone or playing with you YES NO

7 Months to 1 Year

Enjoys playing peek-a-boo and pat-a-cake YES NO
Turns and looks in the direction of sounds YES NO
Listens when spoken to YES NO
Understands words for common items such as “cup,” “shoe,” or “juice” YES NO
Responds to requests (“Come here”) YES NO
Babbles using long and short groups of sounds (“tata, upup, bibibi”) YES NO
Babbles to get and keep attention YES NO
Communicates using gestures such as waving or holding up arms YES NO
Imitates different speech sounds YES NO
Has one or two words (“Hi,” “dog,” “Dada,” or “Mama”) by first birthday YES NO

1 to 2 Years

Knows a few parts of the body and can point to them when asked YES NO
Follows simple commands (“Roll the ball”) and understands simple questions (“Where’s your shoe?”) YES NO
Enjoys simple stories, songs, and rhymes YES NO
Points to pictures, when named, in books YES NO
Acquires new words on a regular basis YES NO
Uses some one- or two-word questions (“Where kitty?” or “Go bye-bye?”) YES NO
Puts two words together (“More cookie”) YES NO
Uses many different consonant sounds at the beginning of words YES NO

2 to 3 Years

Has a word for almost everything YES NO
Uses two- or three-word phrases to talk about and ask for things YES NO
Uses k, g, f, t, d, and n sounds YES NO
Speaks in a way that is understood by family members and friends YES NO
Names objects to ask for them or to direct attention to them YES NO

3 to 4 Years

Hears you when you call from another room YES NO
Hears the television or radio at the same sound level as other
family members YES NO
Answers simple “Who?” “What?” “Where?” and “Why?” questions YES NO
Talks about activities at daycare, preschool, or friends’ homes YES NO
Uses sentences with four or more words YES NO
Speaks easily without having to repeat syllables or words YES NO

4 to 5 Years

Pays attention to a short story and answers simple questions about it YES NO
Hears and understands most of what is said at home and in school YES NO
Uses sentences that give many details YES NO
Tells stories that stay on topic YES NO
Communicates easily with other children and adults YES NO
Says most sounds correctly except for a few (l, s, r, v, z, ch, sh, and th) YES NO
Uses rhyming words YES NO
Names some letters and numbers YES NO
Uses adult grammar YES NO

This checklist is based upon How Does Your Child Hear and Talk?, courtesy of the American Speech–Language–Hearing Association.

DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Mon Sep 22, 2014 10:36 am

Yes thank you. I always take a gift basket this time of year so the sugar can fit right into the plan. Thank you for your concern with his speech delay. I am planning on making an appt with his pediatrician.
A sugar jar is prepared like a honey Jar but can also be shaken correct?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Sep 22, 2014 10:47 am

A sugar jar can be shaken, yes. It can also be praparesd in a regular suagr bowl for the table, in which case it would be stirred, not shaken.

I am glad you are making an appointment to get a diagnosis on his speech delay. This is important.

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Anonoymous9567 · Unread post by **Anonoymous9567** » Tue May 12, 2015 6:25 am

Hi I wanted to know if anyone has any spells to help Asperger's syndrome or spells for finding help with aspergers. Thank you

coastwitch · Unread post by **coastwitch** » Wed May 13, 2015 8:05 pm

Autism comes in many forms, and is termed a "spectrum" of disorders. Aspergers is on that "specrtrum."

Speech is sometimes an issue, and so are issues of anxiety and self-control of temper. Worst of all can be the bullying and cruelty of non-autistic people toward those who are autistic.

Be sure the person is getting good medical care and a positive help, like behavioral therapy.

I think that bathing with Bay leaf and a few drops of Clarity oil in the water would be calming and help increase wisdom and insight. Speech is helped by cardamom and ginger. Bullying is eased with Slippery Elm. A white candle lighted to Saint Jude will also be a kindness, as this is a chronic condition and Saint Jude encourages us to never lose hope.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 13, 2015 8:15 pm

Hello, Anonoymous9567 ,

Oh, I am so sorry to read about this. I pray that God watches over you and gives you extra special strength and comfort. This is such a challenge.

First, ere are the spells to get the right Medical Person to take care of your loved one.

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Finding a physician is first and foremost is first and foremost.

You can try out healing products afterwards: www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

You will need tranquility or yourself: www.luckymojo.com/tranquiilty.html

And working with Saints and with God is of the upmost importance.

Here is a list of Saints and what they do (although many work with Dr Hernandez) www.luckymojo.com/patronsaints.html

And please have the Crystal silence league pray for this person (it's free) www.Crystalsilenceleague.com

Wishing you the very best

Take care

MoonBreath · Unread post by **MoonBreath** » Fri May 15, 2015 12:21 am

You know, the social awkwardness is a BIG problem with Aspergers - like, you can turn people off and not mean to , or even realize what is happening. I have social "issues" myself and have had luck with Cleo May and Bewitching oils ... not for sexual attraction, but for people to LIKE me, feel compassion for me, want to help me ( even if they can't figure out WHY ).

I have also had good results from sugar spells which have helped "sweeten" people to me.

So, thus far, my line of attack has been to counteract "Normal" people's reaction to me by sweetening them, and by throwing up a "glamour" to make myself more likeable (Bewitching and Cleo May). I guess you could use Influence Oils for the same purpose. Even if the Bewitching makes them notice your good points more than the "oddities" - well, I'll take it!

Hope this helps.

Lazulum · Unread post by **Lazulum** » Fri May 15, 2015 7:23 pm

There are a great many ways to approach the difficulties of the autism spectrum magically. They work really well when people are also getting psychological help, such as behavioral training for social skills. Backing up your pragmatic work with magical work is a very effective combination, recommended all across this forum and many others.

MoonBreath, you've mentioned Cleo May and Bewitching oils, which are compelling oils to make people (esp. men) give you positive attention. Also in that family are Come To Me and Look Me Over. Of those 4 formulas, Look Me Over is least specific to lustful attention. Bewitching is the most likely to result in someone liking you more, the more time they spend with you.

The "drawing" approach is a little different. It brings what you want, but it doesn't occur through manipulating those around you, like compelling formulas do.The Attraction, Lodestone, and Magnet formulas can be used to bring friendly, likeable people to you.

The "sweetening" approach is already well-explained by MoonBreath above.

The "success" approach would directly improve your ability to interact with others. Crown of Success is for achieving your goals. Whether your goal is socializing for its own sake, or because you need it to get something else (like a promotion), Crown of Success helps you win it. Master products are similar, but in this case, I'd suggest them for long-term use. The idea with Master products is to help with developing social skills. Successful interactions naturally arise from the effective use of those skills. And once you've developed them, you get to keep them -- even after your bottle of Master oil runs out! Crown of Success is different though-- it starts working as soon as you start using it... but the effects don't last forever.

King Solomon Wisdom and Clarity formulas would improve your social perception -- thought to be the real key to the autism spectrum. If you want to get better at understanding body language, tone of voice, facial expressions, and the non-literal side of language, those 2 products can help. If you understand people, you can relate to them effectively. This work brings some effects quickly, but the real power is in building clarity and wisdom over the long term. That work can change your life. Blessing, Healing, and Road Opening products can enhance the work.

For the social anxiety that often develops from feeling judged and excluded all the time, but not knowing how to stop it, Tranquility + Healing is a great combo.

Lastly, all of these approaches work far better if you cleanse yourself daily. Van Van oil is easily one of the best products for washing away whatever crud is hanging around, no matter where it came from.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 15, 2015 9:51 pm

Hello, Moonnbreath and Lazulum,

Although you provided in depth answers, I am not sure if this is what Anonoymous9567 was asking us.

Just saying.....

Take care

Anonoymous9567 · Unread post by **Anonoymous9567** » Thu May 21, 2015 10:01 pm

Hello and thank you to everyone who replied ! I was basically looking for any spell help that exists. I tried googling "aspergers spells" & nothing . You have all been so helpful & polite . Know
Something on here has got to work. ! Please excuse me for taking so long to reply I'm extremely deppressed about the possibility I have this disorder. Yet I'm optimistic about overcoming it at the same time. My brother was diagnosed. I have yet to be diagnosed. ..

Ps thank you so much to moon breath for reaching out to me via messenger . I wanted to rely expect Iam unauthorized being a new memeber ! You are very helpful with good intentions

What do you think would happen if I used a black candle with an abracadabra triangle. & wished it away ?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 22, 2015 5:01 am

Hello, Anonoymous9567,

I am so very sorry that it is you.

You can try that and use banishing oil on the candles and petition: www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

But, pleas also try the healing spells.

Also, have the Crystal Silence League pray for you (it's free) www.crystalsilenceleague.org

Wishing you the very best and I hope what we have offered you can help

Lazulum · Unread post by **Lazulum** » Mon May 25, 2015 7:55 pm

Anonoymous9567 wrote: What do you think would happen if I used a black candle with an abracadabra triangle. & wished it away ?

I want to offer some info here about how to do that, but for it to make sense I have to introduce 2 unusual phrases. In behavioral medicine, they talk about "positive symptoms" and "negative symptoms". In this case, those words don't mean "good and bad" like usual.

A negative symptom is when something that is normally there is decreased by a condition. For example, if a person loses their appetite, that's a negative symptom because the appetite is usually there, but it's gone away.

A positive symptom is something that shows up along with the condition, that wouldn't normally be there. Some examples are coughing, fever, or swelling.

For Asperger's, the positive symptoms include repetitive movements, unusual postures, and overwhelming interest in specific topics or hobbies. The negative symptoms include decreases in understanding body language, tone of voice, facial expressions, and eye contact. There can also be a lack of close relationships.

Here's why this matters: my experience is that you can banish positive symptoms, because they're things that can be sent away. But, it seems much harder to banish negative symptoms, because they aren't "things", they're "lack of" something that should be there!

Imagine if a poor person tried to banish poverty, instead of simply drawing in more money!

So my advice is, banish things that do exist, but shouldn't. Attract things that don't exist, but should.

To bring this post back to Asperger's, you could banish repetitive movements, obsessive thoughts, insecurities about yourself and your social skills, preoccupations and obsessions. That could work perfectly fine. You could use your idea for a candle spell to do that. For a good way to increase the effectiveness of candle spells, look up how to write petition papers, right here at Lucky Mojo.

For relieving the social imbalances, I'd suggest things like Attraction, Healing, Clarity, and Wisdom. The idea here is to draw people to you with Attraction, and to improve your interactions with them by doing the Healing, Clarity and Wisdom to improve whatever social skills need shoring up.

Please continue to bring any questions and concerns. I think very highly of you for reaching out for help and advice!

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue May 26, 2015 9:55 pm

Hello Anonoymous9567,

Along with what Miss Aida is saying I would also recommend that you continue to work with health professionals around this. I personally have worked with people who have Asperger's or are on the autism spectrum and they can be some of the most wonderful people to be around. You may not be able to wish away Asperger's completely but you will learn coping methods to help you deal with some of the stress it can present. Backing up what you learn from health professionals with things you find here can be very helpful too and provides an avenue for the magic to work!

Peace~

Nathen

Anonoymous9567 · Unread post by **Anonoymous9567** » Sun Jun 07, 2015 8:59 am

Hi ! Thank you so much for all of. Your responses. Your all so helpful!! Excuse me for not replying to the private message I was sent. Iam a newbie , I cannot reply to messages yet. Excuse me again for taking so long to reply. I am very depressed. I was examined last week by two health professionals. Iam very lucky I do not have aspergerrs. I was so certain I had this,because my brother was diagnosed.It turns out iam Severely depressed, anxiety , low levels of melatonin .& tramatic childhood experiences!! I feel bad if anybody went thought a lot of trouble. I hope this thread may serve as help for people who have it. Xox

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Mon Nov 07, 2016 6:39 pm

Hi All!

Doc Murphy here... and glad I found this thread.

OK so... a while back I was going through a freakout when my wonderful man dropped contact with me for 4 weeks during Mercury Retrograde. With lots of help, we reconnected...thanks to advice in the forum and to my wonderful AIRR Reader for good advice and help.

Well, things are still complicated...we still have yet to be intimate and he seems to really be pulling back even though he can't seem to explain why, and it's really been hurting me...still some communication struggles and such... but the reason is clearer now. After picking up some clues and observations, it hit me... he has Asperger's.

I've been reading sources on relationships with Asperger's folks, and a light just broke over me... they describe exactly what's been happening.... he hasn't been diagnosed, but it's there..sort of a relief, but also sort of sad... and I have to recalibrate my ways of being with him and get to understand him in a new way. So, there's practical work and study and support I have to do.

And, well, I'm of course nervous... that I'll lose this guy because he might not be capable of returning to being the affectionate, warm man that he's been to me. I miss that... and my own emotional baggage and impatience might wreck this, too. I'm afraid in working toward giving him what he needs, I won't get what I need... ugh, awful, right? But it's a real concern now...

Magically, I sure could use some guidance. We both want this relationship to work ( so does his son!), but clearly are struggling with communicating what we need and giving it to each other without shooting past each other with hurt feelings in tow (very common, evidently)..I sure discovered that typical communication and "call me" spells just didn't work as his ability to process communication is, well, different. And the affection and caring is there, but getting him to feel safe enough to be intimate with me again is an added pressure to any love spell.

I'm going to chat with him this weekend about taking a relationship quiz a mutual friend of ours recommended... you know, the practical work. Do any of you have suggestions about rootwork toward healthy relationship, love and communication when on person is Asperger's-inclined and the other is neurotypical?

I'm grateful for any feedback and help, and suggestions. Thanks all!

Doc Murphy
St. Paul, MN

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Nov 07, 2016 8:40 pm

Hello Doc Murphy,

I'm actually an autistic woman who's in a relationship with a neurotypical man, and I can tell you that my diagnosis has not always been easy on our relationship. However, in no way has it been a death sentence for it either. In fact, me being autistic and him being neurotypical has given us a lot of joy and funny/interesting experiences that we've shared together, and the opportunity to learn more about the way the other thinks. It has taken work though, both magically and mundanely.

The biggest thing we've had to learn is how to communicate with each other. Have you and your guy talked about the possibility of him being on the spectrum? What does he think about it? I think a good place would be to start there, and to try and discuss how he feels like these autistic traits you/him are noticing are affecting the two of you and your relationship. That isn't always an easy conversation to have, but it's an important one. If it's hard for him to talk face to face, start an e-mail chain. Lots of autistic people feel more comfortable expressing themselves in writing than talking.

With the intimacy issues, that's going to take communication too. Sex and being touched can be different for autistic people, and it could just end up taking some trial and error (and time and patience!) to figure out what works for the two of you. I wouldn't give up on the love work, just be patient and communicate.

Have you two thought about talking to a therapist together? It might be able to help you communicate your needs to each other clearly. And another thing to keep in mind: if he's on the spectrum, he's going to need support, and that can't fall to you alone (that's not fair to either of you). He may need to see a therapist on his own as well.

As for magic, I wouldn't give up on the communication work. I'd make sure to add Deer's Tongue to any such work though, to help him express himself clearly:

http://herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html

I think doing a skull candle spell for him could help; I'd say add Healing, Tranquility, Clarity and Mercury (to help communication) oils to a white skull, and burn it while praying for him to find peace.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-tranquility.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html#planetary

Take care, and keep us posted!

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Wed Nov 09, 2016 1:01 pm

Oh, Sister Jean, thanks so much, for your advice and perspective.

It has come up.. he has books around the house on it, which I think was because he wondered if his son was on the spectrum; he's also mentioned that perhaps his father was. There's opportunities to chat -- I juts want to make sure I don't hurt him or make him angry... or push him away more, ya know?

Therapy is tricky... he doesn't trust it, either for himself or his son (who's ADHD). I've suggested it... he takes it as an accusation that he's crazy or mentally ill, which evidently is an insult his ex-wife hurled at him a lot. That's sensitive. But I'll see if after some rootwork he'll open to it.

Wonderful ideas for rootwork... I love skully candle work. Again, thank you! And I will keep you all posted.

Doc Murphy
St. Paul, MN

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 09, 2016 9:54 pm

Thank you, SisterJean,

For sharing your beautiful story of hardships and resolutions with us.

You're the BEST!

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Mon Dec 05, 2016 6:11 pm

Hi All -

Updating on my last post as promised... and I wish I could say things were swell again, but..

.. he closed down again and isn't responding to me; I know this is a coping thing around his condition, but boy, it sure doesn't hurt any less when it happens...and I just am stuck trying to get him to want to work on this.

Bringing up the possibility that he was on the spectrum went over like a lead zeppelin - he was just done with anyone telling him he was mentally ill. I said I wasn't... it didn't work.

I've got this awful feeling he's waiting for me to break things off rather than doing it himself. And I think if I do, I'll never hear from him again... he'll get buried in his engineering projects and won't have a passing thought of me. He's letting his fear from his past relationships get in the way of being in a good one with me... and that turns into shutting me out..

And I know a Mercury Retrograde is coming up, so it's really getting hopeless feeling... I've put Deer's Tongue in the honey jar, but he hasn't brought me up to visit him in weeks, so the rootwork I was doing around his home isn't happening...going to see about skully candle work next, but...

I'll be getting a reading from my wonderful AIRR reader soon; but in the meantime, if anyone has more suggestions for rootwork about how to break this pattern, I'd be much obliged...this is a whole new thing.. I love this man very much. He is wonderful. But it's clear he's stressed out and that's exacerbating his impairments, and I'm just at a lost here..and sad and lonely..

Thanks for any feedback and help.

Doc Murphy

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Dec 05, 2016 8:33 pm

Hello, magicmurphy,

What have you done so far?

I don't want to give you advice on things you may have already performed..

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Wed Dec 07, 2016 5:22 am

Hi Miss Aida --

OK.. the initial long silence back in September, I performed a moving candle reconciliation spell, a skull candle spell and had MISC burn a reconciliation candle for me. That did work, but it still required me getting driven to his house by a friend to get us talking again. (He's been very sick and, well, had kinda shut down)...

The Crystal Silence League (bless them) have been on this...

When I went to visit him a cleaned his home with Chinese Wash and Prayer.. but haven't been back there to keep that maintained. But it seemed to be helping..

Have had a working honey jar filled with, among other things, deer's tongue, our intertwined hair and photo of us happy togtether. Oils I've been using and swapping: Reconciliation, Love Me, and Block Buster.

There's been a mojo under his bed containing among other curios and herbs, a coon dong, to get us intimate again.. but I can't get to his home, and he hasn't had me up for weeks, so it's not getting fed..

And I have a prayer paper in the cell phone case, had since September. Added some of our intertwined hair and dressed them with Reconciiation...

.. and just sent another order to MISC for another Reconciliation candle..

Havn't acquired a skully candle yet per Sister Jean's suggestion, but that might be next...

What's frustrating? I simply don't know what the problem is -- there was no fight, I did nothing wrong... he just shut me out after a frustrating day, and hasn't responded...I did send him a message saying I loved him and was here, but this just can't keep being the way problems are solved... and I juts have this feeling that with his condition, he'll just keep me shut out, and will never yell me why..

I will be getting a reading soon from my AIRR reader to see if there's much else to do.. or if it's time to turn this over to a professional rootworker...

Don't know if any of this helps.. thanks if you can... I just feel helpless.. any feedback would be appreciated by anyone...

Doc Murphy
St. Paul, MN

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Dec 07, 2016 5:26 pm

Hello Doc Murphy,

First of all, the feelings of hurt and helplessness you are feeling in this situation are valid. I understand this is all very heartbreaking for you.

I think you said it yourself when you said in your post "I did nothing wrong." I don't think this is about you, I think this about him. Magically, I think you've done just about all you can do. If he is still dealing with the hurt from a past relationship, as well as the current issues he may have behind not wanting to confront the possibility he may be on the autism spectrum, AND the communication and intimacy issues that often come with autism, maybe he's just not ready for a relationship at this point.

I know it hurts a lot and I know it's frustrating. But I think it's time to put it in God's hands at this point. You've let this guy know you're there for him, and that's the best thing you can do. I think it's time for you to take a deep breath, and take a step back. If it's meant to be, it will be. If not, you'll find someone else, someone who is ready to be in a relationship and all the things that come with that.

Take care.

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Wed Dec 07, 2016 6:27 pm

Thank you, Sister Jean.

I'm just so sad... he's a wonderful man. I love him terribly. He doesn't deserve to be alone and unhappy, and I've tried to let him know that.

And it was such magic that brought us together. I can't help feeling like I failed him.

But thank you for your advice and good words. It's much appreciated.

I'd still like to do healing work on him... would that be OK, do you think?... or should I just stop?..Thanks much for your help.

Doc Murphy
St. Paul, MN

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Dec 08, 2016 8:03 pm

Hello Doc Murphy,

I think it's just fine to do healing work for him, but I'd wait to do anything else until you get your reading.

Unread post by **DocMurphy** » Thu Dec 15, 2016 5:05 pm

Hi again Sister Jean and All --

OK, update -- he has resurfaced, and we are communicating again. He was busy...somehow I have to figure out how to get him to understand that even when you're busy, you need to stay in touch so people don't worry.

Anyway, we still have yet to see each other, but now it's because Minnesota is in a deep freeze winter advisory mess and driving's just not a good idea. But I'm not going to lie, something shifted in me, and I'm feeling wary about emotional investment right now.. which can't help when doing reconciliation work. But I'm finding I'm waiting for him to make decisions about us, rather than me doing all the work... and I guess I don't know where that's going to take things..

We'll see how my reading goes, but I also wanted to thank you for your help on this. Hopefully things will settle out over the holiday.

Thanks!

Doc Murphy
St. Paul, MN

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Dec 15, 2016 8:59 pm

Hello, magicmurphy ,

Wishing you the very best with this situation

Unread post by **MisttyG** » Wed Mar 22, 2017 5:55 pm

This isn't a developmental issue but this seemed like the best thread for the question. My youngest has a speech impediment from bad speech habits. He has been tested in the past and there are no hearing problems or other issues. I would like to do something for him to help give him some confidence and support. I know deer's tongue is used for communication but I would like some suggestions on what else could be used. Thanks!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 23, 2017 8:32 pm

Hello, MisttyG

You are a good parent! I love the way that you are approaching all angles of the situation.

Please take a look at this thread. Then, after reading, if you have any questions whatsoever, please don't hesitate to ask

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I pray that all works out well and that our beautiful child will beat this

Take care

Unread post by **MisttyG** » Thu Mar 30, 2017 6:24 pm

Thanks so much Miss Aida!

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Mon Apr 30, 2018 12:13 pm

We feel that our 3 year old has slow speech development. She repeats words often and even though she does learn new words, she doesn't say whole sentences often.. We're waiting for psychiatric evaluation and pediatric specialists diagnosis. Meanwhile, does anyone have suggestions on what we could do? As parents, we're so worried for our child...She is our world. I know that deer's tounge is good for communication. Besides blessing mixture herbs, what more herbs could I use? When it comes to oils and powders, I have crown of success, master, king of solomon wisdom, van van, john the conqueror. I'm not sure how to phrase or write the petition cause I want itto be perfect and complete...Any feedback is appreciated, thank you so much...

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue May 01, 2018 1:38 pm

Hello Moonlightdream,

I'm sorry to hear that you are so worried about your child. One idea would be to dress a candle with Master oil and roll it in crushed up Deer's Tongue, and burn it on top of a petition paper that says something like, "May my child's tongue be loosened and may they be masterful in all aspects of speech and communication." The petition paper doesn't have to be complicated, just speak from the heart.

Wishing you luck.

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Wed May 02, 2018 4:57 am

Thank you so much Sister Jean, that it a perfect petition phrase. I will start on it as soon as possible.
Bless you