Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

B1922 · Unread post by **B1922** » Sun Dec 12, 2021 4:51 pm

Thanks JayDee, is there a particular candle I should obtain? Additionally how long and often should I burn it?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Dec 12, 2021 5:49 pm

B1922,

The candle set at the church is a 7 day candle, it will burn about that long. If you order them for yourself and burn them at home its a similar time burn. The honey Jar you also burn candles on them each Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I would burn a 7 day candle each week until he returns. Another great product to add to it is Return to Me.

Return to Me:https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Vigil (7 day) Candles: https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#vigil

Since you see him often, you can wear the oils on your body, touch him with them, also the sachet powder dust it on any papers he may touch to get it on him, this is called contact magic.
Sachet Powders: https://www.luckymojo.com/powders.html

JayDee

G3NESIS · Unread post by **G3NESIS** » Tue Dec 14, 2021 4:29 am

Hello everybody! I'm glad to have found this amazing forum and will hopefully remain here for a good while

I am in the process of ordering a bunch of stuff from the website as we're lacking similar supplies in Scandinavia (Sweden). I have been doing some spell work on my ex/baby mother with whom I had a 6-7 year-long relationship. We broke up about three years ago when we grew apart and she was being distant, leaving me to "find herself". After a couple of months of dating, she met this guy that she's still together with to this day. I had some problems in my past when it came to substance abuse (mainly Marijuana) and was naive to how relationships and personal relationships work. Since then I have grown a lot as a person, It took me a solid 1-2 years to get over her and the trauma that was caused by her sudden family breaking, and I have since gathered myself and grown exponentially as a person. I've always been fascinated by occult practices and have studied this topic since I was a teenager, been actively performing ceremonial workings for the past couple of years, leading me to this point in my very late twenties. I have not been able to find anybody that fits me and even if I consciously do not think about her in that fashion, my dreams tell me otherwise, I keep dreaming about us reuniting and living the "happy family life". My daughter naturally also still wants us to be together and family gatherings for her birthday are always special, we share the parenting responsibility fifty-fifty and are in close communication.

In my heart, I believe she is my soul-mate (if that even exists) and when looking at my daughter, I know that she deserves for us to be together. My daughter is the most amazing thing that happened to me, and I know that it was meant to be for us.

I've since two months ago taken it upon myself to try and get us back together and performed a basic honey jar spell and another binding spell, using black and red thread together with sympathetic links to us both. I've noticed a change in her behavior and she has sweetened up a lot towards me in general, giving me pictures from my daughter's childhood (which she before claimed she didn't have) to me, just as an example.

She is in a relationship that seems to be "ok" and I would rather not forcefully break them apart as he seems to be a good person in general, would not want her to break up and get somebody worse for my daughter in case she did not come back to me...

1) I was thinking of purchasing the reconciliation spell and would like to know if you deem it to be the right one for my specific situation?

2) Any tips and tricks regarding my situation?

3) What products do you recommend?

4) How long will the shipping approximately take for it to arrive in Sweden? ( I understand it's Christmas and so forth but just a rough estimate so that I could plan ahead)

Thank you for reading, and sorry if it was a bit long <3

Genesis

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Dec 15, 2021 10:18 pm

Hello, G3NESIS --

1) Reconciliation is used to restore both friendships and love affairs, so it could be right for you.

2) My first tip is that you buy Deacon Millett's book, "Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation spells. It is only $9.00 and contains dozens of great spells. My second tip is to clarify what you really want. Your story was long. Can you boil down your petition down to 200 characters?

3) Reconciliation, Balm of Giled Buds, cloves (matched pairs of those, for friendship.

4) Sorry -- i have no idea how long shipping will take to Sweden. Things are pretty messed up right now due to the holiday season.

Good luck!

G3NESIS · Unread post by **G3NESIS** » Thu Dec 16, 2021 6:46 am

First of all, thank you very much for responding, appreciate your input!

I'll make sure to order me Deacon Millet's book, sounds like a true bargain considering the information therein

I'll put in an order for the Reconciliation spell and products, and hope it comes hastily.

I agree that my story was long and a bit confusing perhaps.

1) My petition would be;

I want my family to be reunited again, and to have a romantic relationship with my ex. I want her to love me and rekindle that inner flame that was with us for the first couple of years of our relationship. I do not want my daughter to be harmed or caught in the magickal crossfire that may occur. I want her to leave her current relationship and abolish all contact with her current boyfriend. So mote it be.

2) I've been considering the useof an "Intranquil" spirit to do my bidding, but I'm afraid that it could possibly affect my daughter, either directly or indirectly. I perform daily protection rituals and I'm not afraid of any "self attachments", as I'm sure that I would be able to uncross any such scenarios. I'm more concerned for my daughter that is.Would you recommend me going that route or do you think that the reconciliation route is a better option?

Thank you, once again <3

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Dec 16, 2021 12:00 pm

G3NESIS,

1) Your petition is actually a command ("i want"), not a petition ("Dear God / Saint /Universe), please help"). You are also trying to write TWO commands in one, and they do not go together. In my experience, a good prayer, command, or petition, can be reduced to about 200 characters. Use an online word-counter tool.

Dear Lord, please reunite my family, and renew my romantic relationship with my ex. May she love me as before and may we rekindle that inner flame we once shared. So mote it be.
-- 178 words, which leaves room for the full name.

May divine angels protect my daughter from any magickal crossfire. For her happiness, may she leave her current relationship and abolish all contact with her current boyfriend. So mote it be.
-- 191 words

For an entire thread on petitions, name papers, and prayer papers, see:

Petition Papers and Name Papers Questions and Answers
https://forum.luckymojo.com/petition-pa ... 21039.html

2) I do not recommend working with the Intranquil Spirit in any case that involves love, reunion, return, or reconciliation. It is a spell of vengeance.

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clamchowersoup · Unread post by **clamchowersoup** » Mon Mar 28, 2022 3:25 pm

So I’d like to do a couple things!

1) The main thing is that I want my ex-lover to return to me. He’s really in his head about things from our past and having reacted the way he did where he called everything off between us after a year. According to him some things his parents said about me and us (they never met me and we’re long distance and one day we had a disagreement [a few days before we met up for three days] about him meeting my dysfunctional & abusive family & coming up to my door so he included his parents in on everything and ended up doing what they said which was not coming to see me or being with me anymore) are circulating in his mind and he’s essentially obsessing over wherever negative things his family said. He also talked about not feeling romantic towards me anymore or wanting to be present so I want those feelings restored and strong.I want him to get out of his head and completely forget anything negative or doubtful about us and our incident. I want him to come forward and confess he’s never lost his love and wants us to try for real this time and give us a go.

2) The second thing comes into play now. I want to do a banishment or cord cutting between him and his family. He has a strong attachment to his mom and his parents have heavy influence on him that I want completely gone. I want the cord between his mom and him to be cut to the point he resents her and despises her. He always has screaming matches with his fam when it comes to girls he loves and they always disapprove of the girls and he had to defend them. I need bonds severed and trust broken and influence flat. His mom especially more than any other family member.

3) The third thing is a mix from both parts above but I want him head over heels for me and realizing how much I mean to him. He’s with someone much longer distance than me and things are a bit rocky with them. I want him to see our relationship in comparison and realize and fully accept that I am much better and I don’t treat him how awful she treats him. I want him to have a great Epiphany that I am the only one for him and his life is only miserable now because he tried cutting me off and leaving me. I want him to speak up and give us another go in love and to say to me that he was faking lost feelings this entire time and he was just in his head and influenced by others but he knows in his heart that we are meant to be still.

4) As far as physical materials: I have incense for the solar, root, and heart chakra. I have a poppet. A cotton box obsession spell and a honey jar I made for him previously. I have cotton balls. I have reconciliation & dream of me oil. I also have candles of several colors.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Mar 28, 2022 7:46 pm

clamchowersoup --

I hear your request for spell help, but let's break it down here:

1) You want your ex to return to you. Good. You are in the right thread for spells that are designed for that outcome. I'd suggest you start by reading this thread from the beginning because there are quite a few spells here and no point in repeating them. Also try this free web page:

Reconciliation Spiritual Supplies
http://luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

2) This is a type of separation, banishment, or break up spell. It is not covered in this thread, but you can read ore about such spells and ask questions about them here, in the dedicated forum thread on the topic:

Spells to Hot Foot or Drive Away Rivals, Enemies, Bad Relatives, Evil In-Laws
https://forum.luckymojo.com/spells-to-h ... -t678.html

Also, there is a free lucky Mojo web page on the topic here:

Break-Up Spiritual Supplies
http://luckymojo.com/breakup.html

3) Here's the forum thread for your third question, and you will find spells in it if you star treading from page 1:

Break Up and Love / Return / Reconciliation at the Same Time
https://forum.luckymojo.com/break-up-an ... -t228.html

4) As for the products you named, based on their names, some of them are not Lucky Mojo spiritual supplies, so we cannot tell you how to work with them. We suggest you contact the maker(s). This forum is for Lucky Mojo customers, to help them with the use of Lucky Mojo conjure products.

Unread post by **Riddim Spice** » Mon Mar 28, 2022 10:35 pm

I bought a come to me empty bottle on Lucky Mojo, and I wanted to put it to work. Can I use double luck perfume and come to me sachet powder and incense to complete the spell or do I need more than just the photo of the subject?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Mar 29, 2022 3:02 am

Riddim Spice ,

Is the purpose to Reconcile with an ex? Double Luck can be used to increase ones luck in both love or money. How would you add the sachet powder? Yes the incense is a great idea.

Personal concerns have a varying level of use based on the item. If you have something more personal I would use that, if not, use a photo.

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Sun Jun 19, 2022 1:26 pm

what would you suggest to get ex back we have 2 kids and still live together iv tried other spells but no results tried honey jar but not worked..
she is basically still holding onto the past and won't let go and see that things will be different and better. iv tried healing and forgiveness spell but not seen results with that with the either

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jun 19, 2022 4:11 pm

thrivingaries,

Based on your feedback, I would suggest a reading by an AIRR member to see if something else is going on, since you have done several types of works most often suggested for your situation.

How to change a persons mind and doing some with love, I would work a skull candle with Reconciliation, Clarity, Return to Me. Dust the mouth with Deers Tongue Herb, make sure the eyes are open and clear to see (nothing blocking them), add Balm of Gilead Buds for reconciliation.

Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Deers Tongue Herb: https://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
Balm of Gilead Buds: https://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html
AIRR:http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers
Hoodoo Psychics: https://www.hoodoopsychics.com/

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Wed Jun 22, 2022 12:01 pm

so I got all the stuff suggested just waiting on deers tongue herb iv added other herbs like sugar cinnamon lemon balm, lavender to calm her as she still abit angry and a few others that are connected to my intention...
I need help with petition the petition type I am doing is writing her name 3 times then turning then my name 3 times then the petition around it in a circle (if there is a better one let me know pls)
my intention is for her to
1. let go of the past
2. forgive me
3. and get back with me

how can I shorten this into a petition for this skull spell

thanks

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jun 22, 2022 3:48 pm

thrivingaries,

Lemon Balm is a cleansing herb, it also is used to clear bad luck in love to bring a new lover. Cinnamon and Ginger are both used to heat up love affairs, Lavender is known to calm, and is a flower often used in homosexual love, or as a love herb to bring peace to a relationship. If she is mad I strongly suggest Balm of Gilead Buds, known to help restore from hardship, fighting and to bring forgiveness.

A petition is a statement of purpose, a name paper is often written in a style that names interact, though they can be combined. The issue with the style you want is it limits what you can write. Normally when you circle a paper it is written in a format that is repetitive and easy to reproduce with them touching.

A petition option could be: " I forgive John Doe of past hurts and am now ready to love him and be with him as my faithful loving partner".

You are doing a skull candle, generally the petition is linked to their thoughts, how they think, you could also write out statements and repeat them over the candle such as " I love john Doe, I forgive John Doe, I am in love with John Doe, Im spending my life with John Doe".

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Wed Jun 22, 2022 11:52 pm

okay will just use what you suggested..

so with the petition for this I could just write it out like you just put without doing it in any special way like crossing names etc just write it down kinda like a affirmation?

thanks alot

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jun 23, 2022 11:35 am

thrivingaries ,

Yes exactly, Miss Cat wrote a great book on this topic: https://www.luckymojo.com/paperinmyshoe.html

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Fri Jun 24, 2022 4:11 am

ok thanks I got a reading and now it makes sense I will still do this spell but I feel a healing one needs doing first. I will explain briefly as its long but will note key points on the reading to see what I could do to sort this had I known could of done this ages ago.

so
- she is struggling alot with processing emotions.
- she had a miscarriage this is the main reason we broke up because of how I was because of finances and with already having 2 and not in a position to have another and just was in panic and survival mode and said things and acted in a way which I shouldn't. iv done everything mundanely to sort things and show am sorry we are better than things was but not fully there yet and these emotions/ hurt she is having is the obstacle.

- the misscarage trauma kickstarted past traumas of loss and being abandoned for example losing her nana and her step dad and her real dad left her when she was younger and started another family. that is why she is pushing me away even tho deep down she doesn't want to lose me.

so its not just me its other things that she is taking out on me. but it all in category of emotions/hurt need something to help with healing or clearing of this.

- she said she is not being honest with how she feels (as recently she been acting like she not bothered about us or me and just acting somewhat cold)

as she doesn't want to lose me but is testing me in a way some times to see if I will leave but really is hiding that she want me and doesn't wanna lose me but she expects to be abandoned.as she has been in the past.

- atm she is closed off and somewhat numb. (might try another honey jar or (maybe replace with sugar as works quicker or do both but do it like it says on this site I did mine differently i followed a YouTube vid

so what could I do to tackle this overall prob need some kind of healing spell to help with her emotions as she is struggling with her emotions and the hurt. helping her to let go and heal. maybe a skull spell for healing ? then doing the other reconciliation one after ? iv got the stuff for the other one you suggested so can do it anytime.

thanks alot for reading let me know what you think would be best so I can get started asap.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jun 24, 2022 2:38 pm

thrivingaries,

The idea that a honey jar is slow work is not true, this is an internet story not true hoodoo. In fact a jar can work quickly, some may work slower, it is more to do with if you are doing the right work for the right situation. If a honey jar is not producing results, I would empty it out, take the new information and make a new petition and start over. If this jar does not work for you then move on from honey jars. I would think a sugar jar, which is in the same class of work would produce the same results. Unfortunately we cannot comment on a youtube persons perception or work, how it works is best addressed to them.

In a situation with past hurts, hardships, struggles, I would suggest using Healing oil with Blessing oil to heal and open paths to being peace to the person. I would add Crucible of Courage oil to increase her courage to move forward. This, I would start with a figural candle dress it with the oils, then dust it with healing powder, circle it with healing herbs. I would also use Balm of Gilead Buds which helps restore feelings from the past.

Skulls are a great way to heal a person with emotional past hurts. Dress it with the same blend and pray over it, then speak to it as though you are her.

Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-healing.html
Blessing: https://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Fri Jun 24, 2022 5:46 pm

okay thanks will do this then. to confirm am I using a white candle for the skull and figure candle ? and what healing herbs would you recommend ? of got balm of Gilead buds now aswell.

also lastly sorry aha... what petition for the honey jar would you recommend for this situation? can't think of one as there so many things healing, get back with me, let go of the past, forgive me etc etc if it was you what petition would you use ? gone do it new moon coming

thanks alot I appreciate your help

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jun 25, 2022 7:17 am

thrivingaries,

Yes you would use a figural candle Adam for male Eve for female, baptize it and cleanse it, this is like using a doll-baby to heal the person. The skull would be used to influence their thoughts, getting into their mind.

I would do different workings to address the many different needs. For example the skull is to influence her thoughts and help heal, the figural candle is to heal and remove hurts from her. The honey jar is to foster forgiveness and trust, return her to love you. I would make the paper based on Miss Cats instructions. Where you have the names cross one another in an X then incircle it with a statement like forgive me return to me love me. Do this in a circle around the names without lifting the pen off the paper so it would be a continual of forgivemereturntomeloveme till the words touch, do not dot an i or cross a t just write it in script all the way around.

Honey Jar: https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Sat Jun 25, 2022 12:00 pm

perfect thank you will update with results thanks alot

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:30 am

with the healing white female figure candle do I need to wait for the waning moon ?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jul 01, 2022 10:21 am

thrivingaries,

No, you can work at any time for a purpose. Some people work by the moon, planetary hours, others do work when its needed. Also healing is a positive thing think of the positive attributes of healing as you work during a waxing moon, increasing vigor, positive mindset, emotional and mental stability.

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Sun Jul 03, 2022 7:10 am

what can I substitute for deers tongue for the skull spell struggling to get it am in England..

Thanks

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jul 03, 2022 4:07 pm

thrivingaries ,

You can read about different herbs and products on Miss Cat's web site Hoodoo at a Glance, which will provide you examples of what you are looking for in the spell.

Hoodoo at a Glance: http://hoodooataglance.com

You can also purchase herbs via that site, including Deer's Tongue herb. Lucky Mojo ships to England.

HER-DEE-LEAF
Deer's Tongue Leaf
$3.50

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

I do not know of a direct replacement or alternative for Deer's Tongue, but you you can always put honey on the mouth to cause the person to speak sweetly to you.

JayDee

sunnysun · Unread post by **sunnysun** » Mon Jul 11, 2022 3:47 pm

Hello peeps,

I hope you are all well,

I often read through the pages, rarely posting but wondered if I may ask some advice please,

My boyfriend and I parted ways a week ago. He was feeling poorly and needs to “concentrate on himself to get better,” he wants to be alone. He said he likes me. I asked him to return once he feels better if he wanted to and it was left like that in the air.
My gut tells me he will come back as we were so very happy together. .. then I start thinking Maybe I was over excited and came on too strong at the beginning… he said I had done nothing wrong though.

I just feel very heartbroken. My mind just cannot stop thinking of him.

I have started a honey jar with the pure intent of him returning. This has a skull burning on top. (I was thinking of doing a run of them) The wax is dripping out of the eyes.

I realise I cannot be with by him right now, but I wonder if there is anything else I should try to do to help aid a return?

As always I thank you for your time and any help given, I am always grateful to you here !!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Jul 11, 2022 4:02 pm

sunnysun,

I would get a reading by an AIRR member to see if something else is going on, such as another love interest, financial issues, insecurities etc. This reading then can help drive the work you need to do. If its another person, Break Up, etc.

I would also start a honey jar on him to sweeten him back to you, and freeze out any other romantic options.

A few products you will want to utilize right away are Break Up, Reconciliation, Return to Me and Come to Me. These can be placed on candles such as figural candles, the product line used in spiritual baths, worn as a mojo, or even made into a doll-baby.

AIRR: https://www.readersandrootworkers.org/w ... ootworkers
Break Up: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Come to Me:https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

JayDee

sunnysun · Unread post by **sunnysun** » Mon Jul 11, 2022 11:11 pm

Thank you for your recommendations,
I will look into these lines and work them in

Many thanks for your time !

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Tue Jul 12, 2022 2:01 pm

hey Jaydee

managed to get the deers tongue so am preparing to do it this Friday... wanted to quickly ask what is pins used for on skull candles seen pictures and stuff online of skull candles people have prepared and they had pins in them what are they for ? and would I need them ?

thanks

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jul 12, 2022 2:31 pm

thrivingaries,

Workers may deploy their own technique to do the work, I cannot 100% speak on what they are exactly doing but I can give a general idea of the practice. A skull is often used to influence a persons thoughts, some workers pierce the head with a needle in a certain part of the brain, such as one that makes you think, or causes memories, some just stick them in as they state a petition like " I miss John Doe" as you push it into the skull.

Another method is to take an item to place holes in the head, create tiny petition papers, stick them in the holes and seal it up.

Then another option is to make a hole with an object as you state your petition, fill it with condition oil that relates to the cause and seal it with either wax or an herb item over the hole.

Do you need them? No, Is one method better than another? no. It is all about practice and what works for you. I personally would start with what you have and decide if you want to expound outward later.

Lucky Mojo has a book by Miss Aida, it discusses the skull work methods, though it is a book on cursing, but the concept is the same regardless of the work you are doing. It may be a helpful text for your studies.

Cursing and Crossing: https://www.luckymojo.com/cursingandcrossing.html

JayDee

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Thu Jul 14, 2022 2:14 pm

ok got u iv learnt alot thanks. ok last question, when speaking to the skull do I say it like ''you wana be with me, you will let go of the past'' or ''I wanna be with____my name'' ''I forgive ______ my name''

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:10 pm

thrivingaries ,

You state it as though it is their thoughts, since you are working their skull you want it to come across as their thinking, " I love Jane Doe, I miss Jane Doe". It would be weird for him to think of you want to be with jane, in his mind you would be a question of who is you?

Hope this helps!

JayDee

rosemary5 · Unread post by **rosemary5** » Tue Jul 19, 2022 8:41 pm

Hello!!!

So I’m a bit of a dilemma. To summarize, two weeks ago my bf broke up with me.

We met years ago in school and were close friends until we started hanging out more and more with each other. Slowly but surely he began to like me and in fact I started liking him too. We started dating and everything was just heaven.

That was until his mom found out who tends to be a bit strict with him. One day she had sent him this long text forcing him to break up with me because he has other things to focus on. It’s not me she’s against; it’s girls period I suppose. So he listened to her.

At first, I thought that he was lying or wasn’t gonna be sad at all. But a day after the whole situation happened, he had wiped his entire Instagram and according to some of his friends he began acting quite depressed.

I resent his mother for this truly and I know that we’re in love and meant to be together.

1) I already did a honey jar to keep him in love with me, but I don’t know what exactly else I should do.

2) I want to do a spell on his mother to influence her and change her mind but not sure what spell I would do.

3) Further past that I also want to bind me and my ex so he keeps his feelings for me.

Any help on what spells I can cast?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jul 20, 2022 11:09 am

rosemary5 ,

First I would suggest getting a reading to see what is going on with him and his mother, to make sure the situation is as it is said to you, then determine what work to do. You can get a reading from an AIRR member.

AIRR: https://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/ ... ootworkers

1. Honey jar is a good start, setting a candle on it daily with Return to Me and Love Me oil as you pray for his return.

Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Love Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
Lucky mojo Return to me and Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyan ... pells.html

2. A honey jar or a skull candle (even both) to influence her thoughts.

Influence: https://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Skull Candle: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
Book on Honey Jars: https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyan ... pells.html

3. I Dominate My Man, a Nation Sack are all used to tie a man to you. You can also use doll babies to bind you together. Hopefully you can get in contact or have a personal item of theirs to use in the work.

I Dominate My Man: https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

JayDee

Mr Christopher · Unread post by **Mr Christopher** » Wed Jul 20, 2022 7:36 pm

Hi Rosemary5,

In addition to what Jaydee has said, removing you from his social seems extreme. I would do domination work on the mother, maybe add some Calamus or Licorice Root to that honey jar, and burn a purple candle over it. We never want to suggest binding someone into dating you, but you can. Mix some menstrual blood into some cookies, or cupcakes, and either leave them at his door or use his friends to deliver them. You can also use skin shaving from your heals, or tiny bits of fingernails if you cannot provide menstrual blood. If you feel this relationship is blocked, do Road Opener. If the mother continues to block you can either sour the relationship with the son, by putting their picture(s) in a jar, fill with milk, and a splash of vinegar, the vinegar will sour the milk, poke a small hole in the lid of the jar, and put it upside down in the graveyard. Only use the sour jar if you are prepared for him to move in with you. If you are not able to get a place together, just keep that in your back pocket.

Women's Work by Aura Laforest has more spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/womenswork.html

You can learn more about Road Opening spells here: ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-road-openi ... s-f41.html
Domination spells here: ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-domination ... n-f59.html

https://www.herbmagic.com/calamus-root-chips.html
https://www.herbmagic.com/licorice-root.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-road-opener.html

Best of Luck

Christopher

rosemary5 · Unread post by **rosemary5** » Fri Aug 05, 2022 7:30 pm

Jaydee,

After taking you and some other users advice, I decided to make a baby doll (poppet) to represent him. After research, I made him a safe box with pictures of the two of us taped around it. It’s funny that you mentioned doing a honey jar on his mom cause I hadn’t even thought of that, but that would make sense in an effort to sweeten her up LMAOO. After lots of readings and tarot work, all signs point to him being in this state of depression after our breakup and him being at a low point. My ex had actually texted me a few days after posting my question, where he had asked me how I was doing (oh so randomly at 3:30 in the morning). I ignored it and asked one of our mutual friends to give me an update on his life and according to our friend, my ex’s relationship with his mom is going down hill. My ex has been suffering from addiction and, according to our friend, refuses to do anything productive. After our breakup, my ex has resorted to smoking everyday. Update on his insta: his Instagram now has a black pfp and he has deleted half the details from his bio. The day after our breakup, he posted a depressing song to his story with a blank screen. I’m extremely positive that my rituals are working, but I am a bit concerned about his mental health. I was wondering if there were like any spells to help him with his addiction or bring some clarity to him? I feel like in order for us to progress, he needs to recover from this rough point in his life. My tarot cards keep talking about his inner turmoil and insecurities and it’s quite concerning.

Thank u sm!! All love <3

rosemary5 · Unread post by **rosemary5** » Fri Aug 05, 2022 7:36 pm

Christopher,

This may sound silly, but before your reply, I had only vaguely heard of sour jars because yk typically you hear of people doing sweetening jars. But honestly a sour jar between him and his mother sounds like a good idea. I’ve started planning my domination spell over his mother and I’m pretty excited to do the sour jar! Thank u sm for the advice. <3

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Aug 06, 2022 6:55 am

rosemary5 ,

When doing love work, if the target reaches out, do not ignore them! Respond nicely and sweetly to him. This is an error many people make in Reconciliation work, they ignore or punish the person they want back. You must do things that support the work.

His mental health, he may need a doctor for assistance. You can burn a white skull candle on him dressed with Clarity oil and Healing oil as you recite Psalms 23. This would go well with the reconciliation work as yo are also trying to influence his mind.

Regarding the comment to Christopher No Saint, you can learn more about sour jars in the Lucky Mojo book.

Bottle Up and Go: https://www.luckymojo.com/bottleupandgo.html
Forum topic Vinegar Jars: general-vinegar-jar-questions-and-answers-t5581.html
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JayDee

Milli · Unread post by **Milli** » Mon Aug 15, 2022 11:20 am

Hello,
I am new here and would like some opinions regarding my problem. I was with a man for 9 years that I advised him to marry, just because they had children together even though he never wanted them. During all these years we were together every day and we had become one person from two people. I know for sure that he loved me, maybe as much as I loved him... 8 months ago I decided to reveal the truth about us thinking that something can start without lies with her and that he will be happy. Although he wanted to divorce many times, I asked him not to do it for the sake of the children. Now we have absolutely no contact anymore but it hurts me to know that I gave up on him and he is not well. She is only for interest and status with him, and he does not want the children to grow up without a father as he grew up without. I know he is hurt because of what I did to him, so I don't have the courage to go to him, he is a very proud and stubborn guy. For some time I started to pray, to do some rituals to bring him back. I know it's been a long time, but maybe someone can tell me what I could try. Thank you and I await your responses. I would appreciate it if the answers were based only on what I want to know, not other people's opinions about what I did or why I did it

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Aug 15, 2022 11:46 am

Milli,

I would strongly suggest reading by an AIRR member to determine what is going on and what work to do to bring him back. You can reach an AIRR member here: https://www.readersandrootworkers.org/w ... ootworkers

A great product to work with for this type of situation is Reconciliation, it is known to foster forgiveness, communication and restore love. You can order the Reconciliation Kit, and also a bottle of Return To Me oil, dress this oil on the candles in the spell kit and the mojo bag.

Reconciliation Spell Kit: https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html

Lucky Mojo also sells a book filled with reconciliation spells that would be beneficial.
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JayDee

Morty123 · Unread post by **Morty123** » Sun Sep 04, 2022 5:45 pm

I am Interested in My Ex who I have Not Talked to in Over 4 months, All thanks to a Past Friend interfering in Our Relationship, when he Stopped Talking to me he was Mad in Person and Pissed once it Seemed he Noticed I was Trying to Keep his Semen which was on a Towel he used to Wipe Himself and I Asked to Cut his Toenails and I Kept the Toe Nails. --- I am Telling You This because Him Seeing Me have these Items Caused Him to be Mad and Not Message me Anymore and Once he Left, that was it I ain't heard from Him. I had Called Him on My Own because my ex Friend said he Had Showed Them an Intimate Moment between me and Him and I asked if it was True and He had Told me No and he Asked Me to Please Stop Contacting Him and He Asked Me to Never Contact Him and He Asked me to Leave His Family Alone. He had Came Home from Work and Heard My Voice On the Speaker Phone when I was Talking to His Mom and he Hung Up on Me and He asked Me to Not Contact Him or Her.

My question is how Can I get Him to Communicate with Me on his Own and Get the Ball Rolling again so I Can Try to Get Back in His Good Graces. I am Trying to Fix Things Between Us because I Do Still Love Him.

This is the Only Man I have Loved and I have been Doing My Love spells and I have Not Heard From Him unfortunately. He is My Friend on one of the Social Media Platforms though. so whenever he Does Post Something I Can See what He's Posting, I am Not His Friend On Facebook or Instagram Though. I am Not Sure what I Can Do so He Can Try to Reopen Back Up to Me Once More....

Mr Christopher · Unread post by **Mr Christopher** » Mon Sep 05, 2022 9:35 am

Hi Morty123,

Even the best of us get caught from time to time.

Mercury is responable for communication, Mercury goes retrograde on the 9/9, just about every planet is in retrograde right now. This is messing with everyone. I would suggest Mercury products to open communication, but I would also send a card or gift dusted with I dominate my man, or Return to me. I would not indicate it is from you, just mail it. If you still have that towel, you can make little doll, and play with it, talk to it at night.

Here are links to products mentioned.
Mercury - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-mercury.html
I dominate my man - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-i-dominate-my-man.html
Return to me - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-return-to-me.html

Best of Luck,
Mr. Christopher

CuriousChris · Unread post by **CuriousChris** » Tue Sep 06, 2022 6:19 am

Thank you, and I still have the towel and yes I will make a doll out of it. Is there anything I could use the toenails for in my working? Also I can’t get the products until around the 15th so I won’t be able to do any communication work on 9/9 when mercury goes retrograde. And no I don’t have his address he never has given me this unfortunately.

Morty123 · Unread post by **Morty123** » Tue Sep 06, 2022 6:30 am

This post may need to be in another area, not sure:

For those of us who aren’t able to afford all of the products I noticed that lucky mojo has changed the prices of there items, does lucky mojo have some type of way to get a discount in person for buying certain or multiple items?

And will the lucky mojo oil and herbs that I buy still work on a dollar store or Walmart candle, since I noticed that the candle prices have drastically changed?

Mr Christopher · Unread post by **Mr Christopher** » Tue Sep 06, 2022 7:46 am

Hi CuriousChris,

You can get the product for retrograde, you would use Mercury products to open communication during the retrograde. You can add some of the toe nails into the doll, or put them in jar, with Calamus https://www.herbmagic.com/calamus-root-chips.html, and sugar and shake it while saying call me.

Best of luck,
Mr. Christopher

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Sep 06, 2022 10:56 am

Morty123,

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CuriousChris · Unread post by **CuriousChris** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 7:34 am

I was doing a spell on an ex and I heard the TV give me a bad sign and say their name many times and I heard them say that the guy is repulsive to me.

If you're wondering what last happened they caught me collecting personal stuff from them, I was trying to collect for my spell work. Now they ignore me and don’t talk to me period and it’s been 10 months but I’ve known them a long time.

Is there something I can do to get this individual to think of me in the nice way they used to think about me when I had first met them?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 7:43 am

CuriousChris ,

Getting busted collecting personal concerns is definitely an issue that can turn a person off, if not creeped out from you. Collecting them in secret can be an art in itself. I suggest you get a reading to see whats going on and what specific spells should be done to change his mind. 10 months of no communication, coupled with the signs from the tv are both negative signs.

While you plan out a reading, you can also do a Reconciliation honey jar, I would focus the purpose on forgiving you for going into their stuff and restore the friendship (baby steps here), then when that is restored move into the love work. Reconciliation has balm of Gilead buds in it, which in the Bible foster forgiveness.

AIRR Readers: https://www.readersandrootworkers.org/w ... ootworkers
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

JayDee

CuriousChris · Unread post by **CuriousChris** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 10:41 am

Thank you for the good advice on that, on the baby steps of being friends.

Welp, maybe I would have better luck with another ex of mines,
My last question is to get this other ex re interested in me again like before,
He seemed to have moved on mentally when I had chosen another guy over him, when I should have chosen him all along logically, since he was at first willing to give me the commitment I was originally looking for, to get him to regain the same interest and desire he had once had which products best work towards getting back to where we were?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 1:51 pm

CuriousChris

Reconciliation products are the best for forging forgiveness, overcoming hardships, restoring the feelings of love. I still suggest those products, but I would combined with it Come to Me to have him come to you, Return to me to have him do that, and/or add Love me to restore the feeling of love from him. This can be dressed on two figural candles, Adam or Eve candles depending on genders, and moved closer each day until they are touching. This can be done with a honey jar and a red candle burned on top each day Mon-Wed-Fri.

Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Come to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Love Me:https://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

JayDee

CuriousChris · Unread post by **CuriousChris** » Fri Dec 30, 2022 1:55 pm

Okay thanks again

The Mango Witch · Unread post by **The Mango Witch** » Sat Dec 31, 2022 12:31 am

I don't know if this is the right thread specifically:

I said something rather careless and unintentionally cruel to someone who is mutual friends with a very good friend of mine. I want to foster reconciliation and at least create some kind of acquaintanceship with this person. I was thinking a honey jar with two cloves to start friendship, lavender for kindness and to soothe sore feelings, deer's tongue to restore communication, hyssop for forgiveness (per Deacon Millet's Return and Reconciliation book) and finally two balm of gilead buds for reconciliation. On the jar, I was going to burn pink candles dressed with a combination of Mercury, Lavender Love and Reconciliation oils.

My only issue or uncertainty is in the actual phrasing of the petition itself. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Mr Christopher · Unread post by **Mr Christopher** » Sat Dec 31, 2022 7:55 am

Hi The Mango Witch,

Its Mercury Retro Grade, everything's a little funky. I would also use a bit of Lemon Grass http://www.herbmagic.com/lemon-grass.html to change luck.
The petition "My words are undone, the hurt is undone, my friend come to me"

If you like the Bible verse Ephesians 4:32 - And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
James 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
Proverbs 28:13 Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.

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The Mango Witch · Unread post by **The Mango Witch** » Mon Jan 02, 2023 8:05 pm

Jar created with aforementioned herbs and oils, then jar lit with a yellow candle and given an oomph of four tealights around it dressed with Road Opener.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Jan 02, 2023 9:38 pm

Good luck to you, Mango Witch.

Although i too rely on containers, jars, petitions, and prayers for a lot of my work, i would also advise that if you have any way of contacting this person in a social setting, you do so while wearing a blend of Reconciliation oil and Peace Water. Then try to touch them, if only to shake a hand. There is nothing quite as strong as contact magic.

thrivingaries · Unread post by **thrivingaries** » Sat Feb 04, 2023 1:07 pm

Do you still continue burning the vigls even when they have turnt from black to clear ? Do you continue burning till your intention has succesfully manifested?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Feb 04, 2023 4:03 pm

thrivingaries,

Burning a new candles as each one goes out is called burning them in runs. It is common to light the new candle as the old candle goes out by lighting a stick from the spent candle to the new, because it carries the work on.

For longstanding issues, stubborn issues, for hard issues, I would absolutely burn more than one candle until I see the results I want.

JayDee

AJoshua · Unread post by **AJoshua** » Thu Mar 09, 2023 12:45 pm

Well My complete end goal is to get back with my ex. All though, If he came to me right now and said he wanted to get back together I would tell him, NO! I would tell him that he needs to focus on himself for at least a couple months. Hes not going to just jump from me, to this new guy, then back to me. After some time apart, maybe just a little communication while he works on himself then I would want us to get back together. My mom said she doesn't believe me> She thinks id go right back with him if he came for me. But I really wouldn't. Anyways. So, I must break them up. Then I will do reconciliation work and return to me work. And then the ultimate goal is to get married and live together. But thats a ways away but im pretty sure its going to happen eventually. Right now I must focus on breaking them up. I like the idea about the male figure candle and dipping it in lard then into the freezer. Maybe that would be better than working 2 different skulls for him.