I Can, You Can't Oil Questions and Answers

[Asturias]

Hello!

I guess I was a bit vague. I'll elaborate.

There's a man who wants to date me. I don't like him that much. He makes me uncomfortable. His energy, the overtly materialistic talk.

He's a wealthy, older man who dotes on me. Promises to take me abroad, to give me things. I want that, as long as I can work my way around how difficult it is for me to be around him.

I know that this could mean a huge effort. I can have protection reinforced on my behalf, first and foremost.

My concern is on the collateral work. The one I'd do to bring him closer, to make sure that he'll be consistently generous.

I want to get on that, I know how to do it. Problem is that I fear that by doing this work, I'd be opening too much of my spirit's defenses for him, while drawing him near.

So my first goal is to get him to be around more often and seeing if I can actually withstand it. I'm taking it slow. Based on Miss Cat's reply - as quoted in my previous post on this very thread - that seemed to indicate that "I can, you can't" can serve to protection purposes.

Which takes us to my previous questions, that also express my wish to get to know "I can, you can't" line of products a little bit better.

My questions, if I may ask:

1. I would like to know if I can have I Can, You Can't embedded in, let's say, a sweet jar that I do on him. That inside a sweet jar, along with other elements - attraction, influence, chamomile etc - that would normally go into a sweet jar to fit someone I want to get to know better.

2. Is this oil really adequate for protection too, under an empowering approach, or did I misunderstand?

3. As to the petition paper: his name written out 9 times, crossed with "I can, you can't". Paper then five-spotted with said oil and tied with thread that has been annointed with it as well. Tie him down. Is this ok?

4. Does I Can, You Can't smell...sweet, hot? Is it the kind of thing that could be an OK collateral for influence in a sweetening, kind of Come to Me, Follow Me Boy work?

[catherineyronwode]

Hello, Asturias --

1. You could put I Can You Can't in an Influence sweet jar but it is a kind of bait-and-switch or Double Cross because you want him to be sweet to you, but you offer him no sweetness in return. People do such things all the time, but there is an inherent contradiction in the work of making a sweet jar like that.

2. You can definitely protect yourself in intimate situations with I Can, You Can't Oil. It is used by professional dominatrixes for that purpose.

3. That sounds very traditional.

4. I Can You Can't is a little sharp, but it should blend well with Influence, Follow Me Boy, and Come To Me. As noted above, i have also had requests to blend I Can You Can't with Compelling, Influence, and Double Cross ... but that combo does not address the love aspects you are looking for.

Good luck.

[Asturias]

Sounds good!! Thank you, Miss Cat.

Also, I know it's somewhat of an unusual request and situation, so thank you again, for the patience.