Spells for Peace in Family, Family Bonding, Help with Blended Family

Brujero05 · Unread post by **Brujero05** » Tue Feb 24, 2009 4:27 pm

Hello everyone,

Recently a mother and daughter in my close family have been torn apart due to an affair between the husband and another woman. Well, the daughter has completely taken the father's side and refused to reconcile with her mother, siding with her father and blaming her for the split. How would I go about a reconcilation spell or honey jar spell on both of them as a third party. I feel its completly wrong that the daughter should turn her back on her mother, because of this the mother is suffering greatly. Due to the fact the mom knows nothing of magic, I want to do this spell secretely just to help her. I am considering a honey jar spell. Just thought I'd get the group's advice and see if I'm on the right track...

thanks,

brujero

Unread post by **Mother Mystic** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:48 am

Absolutely, you're on the right track with a honey jar spell. I'd sweeten them up toward each other first, then add some reconciliation work as their feelings soften.
Susan

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:22 am

If I might add, Clarity and Peaceful Home work would supplement the Reconciliation work well. In situations like these, people's actions are often largely based on perception and emotion. What they need is honest and loving communication.

Good luck!

Brujero05 · Unread post by **Brujero05** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 9:50 pm

Thank you mother and J for your much appreciated input!

I will be doing the Honey Jar spell shortly. I am hoping it will be the bridge that will allow for that communication, J. However, they live apart, so I'm not sure if any home work will help.

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Thu Feb 26, 2009 2:53 am

Part of Peaceful Home's area of influence is helping family members treat each other with love and respect. Since they live apart, however, something like blood root might be used instead.

simplylooking · Unread post by **simplylooking** » Sun May 03, 2009 11:23 am

Hello .. I am doing a event that will enable me to meet family for the first time. However - I have been noticing that there are a lot of family drama .. which I would prefer not to be at this event .. What can I do to make sure we have a wonderful trip - gathering and event - keeping the drama ones away.

Also - is there something I can take with me that would keep the negativity out as well/safe travel for all including the kids. Something that is not noticeable by others.

Thanks

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun May 03, 2009 12:26 pm

For safe travel a mojo that contains a whole Comfrey root anointed with Safe Travel oil is great.

sunseer88 · Unread post by **sunseer88** » Sat Jun 27, 2009 2:15 pm

Hi my Father and Mother have a very odd relationshp They are still married and live in the same house but rarely speak to each other. Often my siblings and I have to relay messages between them even though there in the same house. This is also intensified by the fact, that I have not always done my best by my parents, and sometimes I wonder if my misdeeds have somehow affected the relationship between them. So in short. I would like to do something to bring my parents closer to each other and become closer to me as well. We are already a close family, but there is clearly a disconnect between me and my parents that I have never felt before in my life. THey are disappointed in me and it is really difficult to deal with.

So far my ideas are to do some Reonciliation work on behalf of my parents, is that permissible even if they both don't know about it?

Perform a Cast of Evil (to rid me of bad habits and my financial dependency on them) and then some Reconciliation work for us to become closer.

Ancestor work so that our ancestors may bring guidance and blessings to my mother and father. This is the one i don't know too much about is there any info on the site about how to do ancestor work and what it entails. What would be recommended for a person who has never performed ancestor work before?

Thanks.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jun 27, 2009 6:25 pm

I recommend some honey jar work and reconciliation work. Calling on your ancestfors is also a great idea. However, your case is too complex to give a simple answer to here. If you need help selecting the type of work to do, you could hire a rootworker to give you a half hour of magical coaching on hoiney jars, potted plant spells, and dressed pictures, as well as dressing the home.

Peaceful Home Herbs Mixture is a old-fashioned mix of 4 happy home herbs dressed with 2 peaceful family oils; use it to dress candles, burn with incense, scatter as floor or yard sprinkles, brew bath-teas and floor washes, carry in mojo hands and conjure bags, hide in bed-packets, or include within bottle, jar, bowl, box, or freezer spells.

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For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.htmlGood luck.

Commander Snuggles · Unread post by **Commander Snuggles** » Sun Aug 02, 2009 7:49 am

Hey again,

My Mom died in November of 2007. It was sudden and completely unexpected My sister found her, something I wouldn't wish on anyone. I live on the East Coast. My sister lives in the Mid-West. She was supposed to probate the estate because, well, she lives near my Mom's hometown, and I live 2,000 miles away.

When my Mom died, she had a mortgage on the house. I paid that mortgage as best I could. The payments were $281/month. Since she was no longer alive to renew the insurance on the house, the mortgage company "force-placed" insurance on the house, causing the payments to jump to $700/month. As you can tell, I fell behind. I cannot tell you how many times I called her, begging her to probate the estate. I lost sleep, cried a lot, and became severely depressed.

I borrowed $6K from my boyfriend to pull it out of foreclosure. I had fallen 5 months behind. We can't sell it. It's not officially ours. When I borrowed this money, she agreed not only to help me pay my boyfriend back, but to set up an appointment with a lawyer. This was in May. She constantly told me that she kept calling our local, rural lawyer repeatedly and he would never return her calls. So, I started begging her again to please, please find somebody, anybody who could take care of this. She told me several times that she didn't "want the responsibility of being the executor of the estate." Like I do? I'm thousands of miles away.

So last Tuesday morning I received a text from her saying that her roommate had bailed on her and she didn't know how she was going to pay her rent, etc. My response was, "So I'm assuming that you are unable to pay your rent because you finally spent that $1K paycheck you received on getting a lawyer." No response. I flew off of the deep end. I asked her what she wanted me to do. I had lost 2 jobs within days of each other. She had agreed to take care of this and had had 18 months to do it. I had zero sympathy for her at this point. Not only was her roommate not on the lease, but my sister had gotten her a cell phone! She knows better. I KNOW my sister watches "Judge Judy."

So, I decided to walk 20 blocks to blow off some steam. During my walk, I finally realized that she wasn't going to take care of this. I would have to. I talked to lawyers for 2 hours after I got home, bawling the entire time. Mom's death is still a little raw for me. I called the lawyer who would "never call her back" & got him on the first try. I set up an appointment for her and told her that she had better show up. She did. The lawyer agreed to be lenient with us as we don't have much money. My unemployment doesn't pay very much. I don't qualify for medical assistance (or food stamps) and my medications are very expensive. So, it's either eat or take medicine. Forget about rent and bills. They aren't even allowed to enter the equation.

My cell phone was about to be shut off. I HAD to pay that bill. I sent her a text that I wouldn't be able to send the lawyer the $225 on Tuesday that we had agreed upon for the initial filing fees, but I could definitely do it on Wednesday or Thursday. Her response was basically, "Oh, then I don't know if we're going to be able to avoid foreclosure then. I don't have the money to give to him either. My boyfriend just paid my $287 electric bill." I LOST IT. I tried to compare her boyfriend's $287 contribution to my boyfriend's $6,000 contribution. (I alone have put $5,000 of my own money towards the mortgage. My sister has contributed nothing.) I can't afford to lose the house. It's the only way I'll get any of our money back. She has told me that I can have all the money from the sale of the house. I texted to ask her to sign papers to that effect. No response. She DID text that she DID want to save the house and would do anything to do so. I texted, "You haven't done anything for 18 months. Why should I believe you now? You're so scared of becoming homeless yet you have a $400 cell phone and a Wii. What would happen if you were to become homeless? Would you plug the Wii into a tree and play with it that way? The Wii, its games, and your cell phone could have been put towards paying the mortgage." No response.
I texted her that I would use ALL of my unemployment checks to pay this lawyer off. I just want her out of the situation. I'm SO angry and don't know how to handle her. I'm more angry at her than I am at my previous employer.

Should I freeze her? I don't know. I'm just lost because I love her. She's the only family member I have left and I'm just sick to my stomach over the situation.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Aug 02, 2009 7:15 pm

Well, you are doing everything you can on the legal front, so you need some spiritual help now. I don;t see how performing a freezer spell on her can help. What would it accomplish? You need her co-operation and alertness, not to have her immobilized and frozen -- at least not until the official papers are signed. THEN you can freeze her out of your life. But keep your mind on the long-term goal first -- get the paperwork completed and filed.Rather than focussing on your anger for your sister, ask the spirit of your mother to help you see this through. Ask for guidance in finding the money to make the filing. Sell something if you must. If your mother wants you to have the house, then ask her spirit to help you -- and to talk sense into your sister, by way of a dream or a sendig of emotional opening.

Good luck.

Commander Snuggles · Unread post by **Commander Snuggles** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:14 am

Thank you, catherine,

Sometimes others can see the situation more clearly and objectively than I can. I'm expressing things through 18 months' worth of frustration and anger. It was just hard to see the way I "should handle things" rather than the way I "want to handle things." It just seems like all I've done for the past 2 weeks is bawl. I'm so tired, physically, spiritually, and emotionally of crying. I'm just spent and exhausted. I TRIED to be positive but it just seemed like everywhere I turned, more stuff was added to the pile and it just became SO overwhelming. I don't know if that makes any sense.

Thank you again.

giovanna_1530 · Unread post by **giovanna_1530** » Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:17 am

Does anyone have any suggestions for making me and my boyfriends daughter like eachother more? It would have to be something done on both of us, because there is mutual hostility between us. I do however want to keep him and would like to put an end to some of the friction that has been going on.

Unread post by **Mother Mystic** » Sat Nov 14, 2009 8:57 am

I'd recommend a cleansing bath for you first...and if you can get her to take one also, all the better. That would clear the air between the two of you so to speak. Then start a honey jar on both of you to sweeten the relationship. I know a lot of people thing honey jars are just for love but they can be used to sweeten any situation. But please do the bath first to get rid of residual or pent up negative feelings.

Donnalee2 · Unread post by **Donnalee2** » Sun Nov 15, 2009 6:18 am

Hi giovanna, I had a situation some time ago similar. I made my own oil recipe.However if I did it today I would find the appropriate LM oil to use. I don't mix my own anymore. I dressed to white candles with the names carved in & tied them together with thread. It was a amazing ritual. The candle wax was really telling. It looked @ one point like they were embracing. Yes it worked.
donnalee

MagicalAngel59 · Unread post by **MagicalAngel59** » Mon Feb 01, 2010 11:07 am

Hello there,

I need help choosing a glass candle for my brother, Well he's married to a cuban girl and lately he has totally alienated all family members. All he does is just thing for his wife, My Husband whom is her Uncle knows all about this stuff.

He told me that my brother is Under her influence, she's controlling him, he use to be with family all the time, but now nothing, not even visiting my parents like he use too. We don't even hear from him anymore...

He doesn't go to family functions like he use too. It's like she took him away from the family.

Can you please help pick out a candle that would reverse whatever is happening to him, we miss him very much! My mother is heartbroken, and my brothers wife doesn't give a damn for any of us, She thinks she better than everyone, and that everyone she do what she says!!!

Please help us we need to help my brother see the light of family again like he use too!I

I would also like candles that help protect our house and the people in it, a candle for my Aunt who has cancer and candles to honor our beloved parents and grandparents whom has passed on to the other world.

I would really appreciate it so very much...

Please get back to me as soon as possible... it needs to be done soon.

Thank you again,

MagicalAngel59

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Feb 01, 2010 12:55 pm

MagicalAngel59,

Lucky Mojo can set the candles for you or you can purchase the fixed candles to burn at home. If you are looking at candles then I'd burn Uncrossing, Reversal, and Cast off Evil candles for your brother. I'd burn Protection, FWP, and Blessing for your family, and Healing and Guardian Angel candle for your Aunt.

I'd recommend that you get a reading to find out what is specifically going on and what can be done to remedy the situation. You can find a reputable reader at www.readersandrootworkers.org.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Feb 02, 2010 2:42 am

MagicalAngel59,

Giving the complexity of your situation, setting candles may only be a temporary fix. I would advise that you get a reading to see what is going on. I have a feeling even if you do all that was recommended besides the firey wall of protection work, blessing for your family and healing work...you ought toalso look into Dr Jose Hernandez, if you feel comfortable working with a saint...He helps heal and aid those that are sick.

However if your brother keeps walking back into the fire, and wants to keep handing over himself to this woman then you will end back at where you are now.

So get a reading. I would recommend doing some work to build up your brothers strength, and courage (Crucible of Courage vigil, and a power candle would be great), and then lessen her influence with a freezer jar. Then I would do some peaceful home work and perhaps you may need to call the shop to have them make a custom candle for you for this situation. Cast off evil would be great if they were NOT married. Sort of hard to get rid of someone out of your life when you are married to them. And I see that your brother would only chase after her anyways.

Another recommendation would be to put this woman in a sweet jar as well to soften her up, and get her to like your family more so your brother wants to come around.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Feb 02, 2010 7:28 pm

MagicalAngel59,

Cast off Evil can be used to remove influence as well people and actually works well in situations to help bring clarity when a spouse or partner is exerting undue influence on the individual. A reading is always advised, but since the questions is asking about candles specifically those condition candles were offered. Each is aimed at the condition she is reporting. These vigils will work as a great way of backing up what you desire to bring about, but naturally will require other work to get things done.

I would be cautious with a freezer jar. Only place them in a freezer jar if you feel you cause is justified and the reading indicates it would be a good idea.

Sweetening her is a great idea. You can bring her around to the idea of having him more around the family.

I've actually used Cast off Evil in a similar situation. My client felt that her sister was being controlled and influenced either consciously or not by her husband who kept her away from her family. We worked with Cast of Evil and Reversal and binding elements to help my clients sister come to her own realization of what was going on and help *her* take actions to lessen the influenced. Worked nicely.

Brujita Angelical · Unread post by **Brujita Angelical** » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:27 am

wow you just described exactly what is happening with my friends brother!! I hope you get an answer so I can also do the same work to help him get away from this woman. He is not married to her though she actually caused him to leave his wife and kids. so it might be a bit easier to get him away. Sorry for the stupid question but what is Cast of Evil? and point me in the direction so I can get some!! They are as desperate as MagicalAngel is. thank you!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:29 am

Cast Off Evil products are described here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-cast-off-evil.html

Brujita Angelical · Unread post by **Brujita Angelical** » Thu Feb 04, 2010 10:12 am

ah thanx. you're very helpful Juju. =)

temitemi · Unread post by **temitemi** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 8:38 pm

Pls can someone advices me what to do. my wife is so powerful that she drains my energy, since i meet her, i have been having bad luck all year round. all spiritualist i consulted says thesame thing and she refuses to cooperate in finding a solution to this.pls how i stop her from taking or blocking my destiny?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 9:07 pm

temitemi --

I think a bit of more information may be needed because we need to know if you are married to her, but willing to divorce and want her out of your life to resolve your issue, or if you want to try to work things out, but keep her from draining you? Furthermore is this a deliberate thing she does, or is it unintentionally done?

For starters, cleanse yourself with a thorough cleansing. I would recommend 13-herb bath for 13 days, followed up by working some protection. The most basic would be taking a bath in Protection crystals and anointing your feet and forehead with Protection Oil. You can also get yourself a silver dime amulet anointed with the oil to keep her from draining you.

Further conjure advice would be determined by a bit more info on the situation. From there advice about binding, hotfooting, and reversal can be discussed.

temitemi · Unread post by **temitemi** » Sat Mar 20, 2010 2:27 am

thanks for this advice. am currently married to her with three kids. and whenever i pray for protection , i work up the following morning to find her sick or dreaming that fell down from a tree whenever she trys to drain or attack me, but wake up to find her sick. i tried to talk to her family and they reveals to me that whenever she is mad things will be bad for me, and ever she has been with me she is always angry or mad. i don't care if she has to go. i just want to be successful they way i was before i married her. i won't lie to you, things has gone really bad. that i want to sell my house to start my life back again and i don't want this vampire to drain them up. thanks

temitemi · Unread post by **temitemi** » Sat Mar 20, 2010 3:43 am

through research, i found something or advice written by conjureMan and its very interesting. How do you surrogate yourself? and make a doll to take the hit from all bad energy or attack or any one drain your energy. pls can u give me the steps. thanks

Ptforever · Unread post by **Ptforever** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:13 am

Hi friends, does any one have any suggestions or spell ideas that I can use to make my relatives start talking to my family again? My mom really feels depressed about her sister and brother not talking to her. She hasn't even don't anything wrong just don't see eye to eye.
I would really like to help her if I can. Thanks

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 2:39 pm

A honey jar would likely be very good for this situation, using herb and oils for Peaceful Home, Healing, and Blessing.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 6:16 pm

Was there a falling out among the family members? I would follow what Juju recommended, but along with burning a candle on a honey jar I would burn a bit of Balms of Gilead and Myrrh as incense to encourage your family to reach out and reconnect with your mother.

Also consider Peaceful Home products and working in conjunction with herbs like Basil.

Good luck.

Ptforever · Unread post by **Ptforever** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 6:40 pm

Thank you ConjureMan and Juju. Yes there was a fall out in a way. They are 3 siblings and at first my mom's brother threw my grandparents out of his home so mom and my aunt took care of them. they both decided to not talk to my uncle coz they were obviously pissed but then I dont know how it got to my aunt and uncle talking but both of them not talking to mom. Now everytime my uncle visits, he doesnt even call mom and I think mom's getting a bit depressed

So your suggestions are highly appreciated. (((HUGS)))

barat · Unread post by **barat** » Tue Jun 01, 2010 8:03 am

I will be lighting candles for my children and myself can I do it at the same time? Please give me some advice.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Jun 01, 2010 8:43 am

Yes you can light them at the same time. Just make sure you dress each candle well by itself - then you can set them working all at once on your altar.

rs_09 · Unread post by **rs_09** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 5:22 am

My lover is struggling. His relationship with his children from his former marriage (they are 21 and 18) is suffering tremendously due to our "relationship" and he is having a difficult time dealing with it. He is so torn and it is breaking my heart to see him that way.

His relationship with them is so important to me that if he were to ask me to stop seeing him so that he could repair it, I would do it.

I also think that our relationship would not work if his children couldn't accept it.

What can I do to help him begin his healing with his children?

I have a Lucky Mojo Healing vigil candle and Reconciliation oil handy. Could I begin with these products? What other products/work would be appropriate.

Please help!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:33 am

Put him and his children into a sugar ir honey jar together with herbs that encourage healing and soothing emotions - like flax, lavender, balm of gilead buds, althea, goldenseal, etc.

You can use the healing vigil as well, with a petition with all their names to help back it up.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 2:25 pm

A honey jar could help smoothing things between him and his children.

You may also consider using a few figurine candles as well. You can dress one for him and two smaller candles to represent his two children. Baptize each and dress them with Peaceful Home, Blessing, and similar products. Then circle with herbs like Bloodroot, Althaea, Angelica, Buds of Gilead, and Basil. Then you join the candles together with Pink or blue string to ensure that the family stays together. Burn this on a picture of him and his kids.

If you want to include yourself in there, you may.

rs_09 · Unread post by **rs_09** » Sun Jul 11, 2010 5:40 am

Thank you both Conjureman and Devi for all of your help. You are both very helpful!!

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 4:58 pm

Recently I have moved in with my friend and her sisters. One of her sisters has a soon to be 7 year old daughter. I don't want to tell anybody how to raise their child and she isn't abusive, but she loses her patience with her easily. She isn't allowing her to be a silly little girl that can play with her little friends and such. I was thinking about getting the peaceful home candle, but is there one that I didn't see or didn't consider?

Thanks.

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Tue Jul 20, 2010 5:09 am

I use tranquility on myself on those days when i'm at the end of my rope and have lost all patience for my little boy. it calms me, as well as clarity, to let me see whats important ....like my house being neat or my kid being happy

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Sat Jul 24, 2010 6:25 pm

That's a good idea. Maybe I'll switch it to incense that she can breath in seeing how it's hard to have any candles around these kids. lol very all over the place.

thanks

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jul 24, 2010 7:08 pm

Healing and Blessing candles works wonders for me.

missps2010 · Unread post by **missps2010** » Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:38 pm

I dunno where to post this but this is urgent:
what are the ways to turn all the negativity out from a house and all the family members in it? There seem to be some egos comin in a lot these days causing stress and bad aura in my house. I really need to change that before it gets any worse (if that's possible). Since I can't control all my family members, what's the best way to bring positiveness and love back in the house? And I
I'd be forever grateful for your help and advices. Plz plz help a lil sister out..
Thank you

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 7:04 am

Start with a good cleansing with Chinese Wash, and fumigate with some Uncrossing incense. Do some egg cleansings on everyone in the house if you can, otherwise do cleansings on pictures of them. Then start a Peaceful Home honey jar on everyone, and burn Peaceful Home incense each day in the house, or diffuse Peaceful Home oil in an oil burner (this is a great option if you want a more subtle scent than incense, or if someone in your home has asthma and can't deal with smoke). You can dress everyone's laundry with some Peaceful Home bath crystals. Keeping fresh flowers in the rooms that are most negatively effected can help absorb some of the unpleasantness - be prepared to keep changing the flowers as they start to fade.

Unread post by **sweetpea29** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 7:05 am

Hi,
sorry to hear of your troubles. do you have any house cleansing products on hand like Chinese wash? if not you can start with some salt to cleanse the house. You could try using some incense to cleanse as well, sage is easy to find if you don't have any on hand.
for positivenss and love in the home, you could do a honey jar with peaceful home herbs.
i don't know what you have on hand, i hope this can help.
good luck and peace to you.

missps2010 · Unread post by **missps2010** » Sat Jul 31, 2010 7:41 am

Thankyou so much for your responses. I actually don't have anything in hand at the moment but thought I'd get something as per the suggestions. I can do the following as soon as by Monday:
- cleanse our house and the pics of my family members. Could you plaz suggest how we do so with salt?
- place fresh flowers in our house ( does quantity matter?)
- light the peace oil in the burner ( thank that's an absolute great idea). Ill buy that from lucky mojo unless something else can be uses.
- burn the sage in the house ( where can I get that)
Thank you again so much. You have no idea how hard I try everyday and how much it stresses me but thanks to you all I will make things better for my family.
Thank you again so much

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Tue Aug 10, 2010 9:02 am

Good Morning Everyone,

As many of you know I am in the process of working things out with my ex.

In this process, alot of "stuff" (bad feelings, resentments etc) have been coming out of the kids. The kids have talked things out with their father for the most part, but I'd like to do something to keep the peace and foster better communication for all of us, as a family.

The one issue I have is that we all live in seperate homes, my ex is lives in one place, I have custody of his oldest child (long story there), and the other three live with their mom.

As a side note, why is love/family... so complicated! lol

So any suggestions? I was thinking a honey jar would work well, but what herbs would I use to help communication and feelings of peace?

Thanks so much!! ~J

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Aug 10, 2010 11:18 am

A Peaceful Home honey jar would be nice here, even though you don't live in the same house - you're still a family. Add some bloodroot to help foster respect along the bloodlines. Lavender will promote calm and harmonious relations, as well as peace. Angelica and flax are good to add for the general wellbeing and protection of the children. Deers tongue will help you have open and honest communications.

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Tue Aug 10, 2010 11:27 am

As always Devi, you always send me in the right direction

I would just need to add hairs of the six of us, correct?
Also, which color candle? I was thinking blue and white?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Aug 10, 2010 11:29 am

Blue or white would be excellent choice. And yes, add concerns from everyone. I like to stick hairs to the center of a petition paper with a dab of honey - as it sweetens and acts as an adhesive. Then add the herbs and some oil, fold it all up and stick it into the honey jar. Viola!

star2be00 · Unread post by **star2be00** » Wed Aug 18, 2010 11:31 pm

I have an 8 year old son (which is not my husband's son, he's from a previous relationship) and my husband of 3 years...My husband doesn't think my son is boyish enough because my son isn't really into sports and stuff, he's more of an intellectual, likes to read, play video games and keeps to himself type and not the go play outside, jump off the roof, rugged boy type.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 2:31 am

I would recommend, first and foremost, a honey jar for peace in the home. You can order the Peaceful Home Honey Jar and an extra dozen candles to start with. I would also spray the home with Peace Water.

SPL-HON-PEAC Honey Jar Mini-Spell Kit Peaceful Home & Family, Calm Down Relatives $16.00
CAN-412-BLUE Candle 4" Altar 4" Altar Candles, Dozen Blue $4.50
WAT-PEA-GL04 Waters and Washes Peace Water, 4 oz. $5.25

Read about Peaceful Home spiritual supplies here:

http://luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

Read about Peace Water here:

http://luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

Read about honey jars here:

http://luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 2:35 am

First, before the magic, have you told the guy any of this. Sat down and had a heart to heart about what he is doing to your son? If not, go do that. Don't expect magic to do it all. If he refuses, well, do you really want your son to grow up with that kind of abuse? And yes it is abuse.

Now magically speaking I think you need to work with Peaceful Home products.

Here is the page on them, with links to the different products in the line:

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

I suggest you get the Peaceful Home Spell kit and Honey Jar kit and do those.

You might also consider buying Peace Water and using it around around the house.

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

But remember what I said about talking to him.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 2:41 am

I agree with the above posts, and I would work with chuparrosa products to help with your marriage in the communication, trust, and overall love side of things

www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html

star2be00 · Unread post by **star2be00** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 1:58 pm

Thanks for the input...first I want to say I wouldn't keep my son around in a situation that wasn't "safe", secondly I heard that the honey jars work kind of slow, what is the difference between the peaceful home spell kit and the honey jar spell? Is one more potent than the other?

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 2:17 pm

Just because it is safe..... "safe" ...does not mean he is not doing damge to your son's mind and heart and spirit.
Try the above recommendations, please keep us posted.
Take care.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 4:11 pm

I don't rate spells in terms of "potency" or "power" as if Southern style conjure were a game of skill.

Your work is central to the outcome and i have no idea what you have in mind, how faithful you are in the performance of rites or rituals, how focussed your intentions are.

I gave my recommendations. I recommended a Peaceful Home honey jar and Peace Water for you. I did not recommend a spell kit.

star2be00 · Unread post by **star2be00** » Thu Aug 19, 2010 5:21 pm

Forgive my ignorance...I am new to all this and I don't know what works and what doesn't or what the difference between one or the other is...I can assure you that I will be diligent in performing the ritual, whatever it is and I am applied and disciplined, I am going to purchase the honey jar spell and I will update on how its working (hopefully soon!) Thanks again!

LilCassandra · Unread post by **LilCassandra** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 6:40 pm

From personal experience with my own parents, that kind of picking on can be a lot worse than physical abuse on the psyche of a child. To this day, almost a decade later, I still have had to work on my own self-esteem b/c my mother taught me I was worthless as a woman b/c I was interested in the exact same things your son is interested in.

I would not only do products to sweeten the home, I would work on improving your son's confidence. Even if you stop the problem now, it won't erase the damage that has already been done.

Allsgood · Unread post by **Allsgood** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 4:29 pm

my brother is a jerk and a user. he has an aptment bldg that he "stole" from my other brother. he now has me living in his basement and our parents RENTING a room for 600 a month...

I just had a baby 8 months ago and he said that he is helping me by giving me the apt for a low price. he knows that I can't get a place of my own so he takes advantage of me demands a 100 dollar late fee, has his washer and dryer hooked up to my light and won't offer to take that from the rent and won't fix anything.

he crys for broke, but when I clear out my accounts to give him all that I have he returns it saying he doesn't accept partial payment and I was only 50 bucks short and unemployed at the time.

I have disowned him but I don't want to do any harm to him because I feel+ that all that he's done to people is coming his way. I just need a raise, promotion, more money from somewhere with no harm to anyone so that I can repair my credit and get out of here.

being here is draining my sprit and causing my boyfriend and I to be neck and neck.

I have no other option but to be homeless or deal with the stress that he puts on me.

im getting a reading soon but I need all the advice I can get.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 4:33 pm

First, don't fight your brother. Put him in a honey jar -- and your parents and other family members too. Spray Peace Water around the premises. Burn Peaceful Home candles. This will also help the situation with your boyfriend.

Second, you have a job, so now help your boyfriend get one too, if he is not working. If he needs encouragement to help pay his financial share, then do some love-money work on him.

Third, use products like Crown of Success and Boss Fix to get a raise or promotion on the job.

Fourth, yes, i said a HONEY JAR. Do not fight your brother at this time, just sweeten him so he will stay calm and supportive until you can move out. That will reduce the stress. Then start saving money -- use Money Stay With Me products -- and in a short time you will be able to move on.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 6:05 pm

That is great advice from Cat. I would not further agitate the situation, but keep the situation as peaceful til you can move on. I would definitely work that honey jar to keep him sweet on you, and get him to do favors for you as well by letting you live there.