Spells to Attract New Friend, New Lover, New Relationship, Marriage Prospect

[nOriL]

There's a guy i met who i really have feelings for and i want to keep.
So i wrote his name in a come to me candle and burned it for 7 days.
The 7 days are over, if i contact him he answers but still not how i wished he would be.
I want him to be the one to text and call what should i do now?

[ShadowyEmbrace]

Um... And someone correct me if I'm wrong but from what I've read so far I don't think there are "stronger" or "weaker" spells, is that right everyone?

[nOriL]

well I'm new to all of this excuse me not stronger maybe something different.
Sorry I'm not as "educated" about it like you seem to be.
But thanks for the feedback

[ShadowyEmbrace]

well I'm new to all of this excuse me not stronger maybe something different.
Sorry I'm not as "educated" about it like you seem to be.
But thanks for the feedback

Oh I wouldn't say I'm educated that is why I asked everyone LoL From what I have been attempting to educate myself on which is Hoodoo. I think you use different spells for different approches to an issue. Each one working differently than the other and there is no it kinda worked or sorta worked the spell either does or does not work I believe. For instance a Honey jar is used to "sweeten" a person to you, your cause concerning them etc. Where as a Reconciliation spell is used to well reconcile two former lovers so they sort out their issues and grow to love each other again and the two workings can be used together b/c they are along the same theme. In your case I'd recommend follow me boy products? Everyone?

[nOriL]

why thank you.
ill look into the follow me boy.
in your opinion do you think i should burn the same candle again?

[thelightfantastic]

There's a guy i met who i really have feelings for and i want to keep.
So i wrote his name in a come to me candle and burned it for 7 days.
The 7 days are over, if i contact him he answers but still not how i wished he would be.
I want him to be the one to text and call what should i do now?

First, you need to get a reading to see what approach you should take to win this guy over if that's possible. Second, burning a candle dressed with oil for seven days probably isn't going to have an instantaneous effect on any situation. Further, the working you said you did was rather vague and sort of open ended. If you want someone to simply come around you, you would just use Come To Me oil and leave it at that. If you want someone to contact you via text, etc and actually be interested in you romantically, you're going to have to do additional workings to make that happen.

First things first though, you need to get a reading. Try someone at AIRR and figure out what your options are. Good luck.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

[nOriL]

Thanks! i will definitely look into getting a reading.
Out of curiosity what are things people do to make someone contact you besides burning candles?

[JayDee]

doll babys tell the person to think of you, skull candles to make them think of you, sending them tricked items with dominating powder/oils on them..etc. first are you and this guy dating? in love? you really didnt say much other then you like a guy and you want him to call... you could start with a come to me spell kit add some follow me boy to it then use the kiss me now to get some passion/sex between yas. have fun

[nOriL]

Thanks so much for taking your time to reply to me. No are not dating. I've been talking to him for 6 months now. He use to text, call n offer to see me ALL the time. But it started to fade n now I do all the getting in contact with!

[JayDee]

id get a reading to see whats up with this boy, maybe he was interested and lost interest or thought you werent. nevertheless a good ol honey jar would be a good start to sweeten him to you while you wait for the reading. follow me boy helps make em follow you around, i dominate my man to have control over em, kiss me now to add passion and sex, comes in a spell kit if your new to this it might be a good start to use the kid. cats book is great and id also read everything on the LM site its filled with info.

[ShadowyEmbrace]

I'm wondering what was holding you back exactally when you two were talking on a regular basis from initating the first move? It sounds like he was interested in you but lost it b/c you weren't giving him the signals I'm not saying this to offend you but were you nervious maybe? If so maybe as you do the honey jar you might want to look into some products to give you some confidence when you two do start talking alot more again.

[c4th1]

hi all....

I and my friend plan to go out and would love to attract guys .... free drinks always come handy What is the best products we can use? Thanks heaps...

[starsinthesky7]

Well, if you are looking for just sexual and not a heavy relationship...then kiss me now products would be good.

Come to me, attraction, and look me over are great as well.

[butchcomer]

Aariadne, I must apologize for hastily reading your post. I thought you knew the person you wanted so I made a mistake. There's a page about Come to Me products and spells here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html and I certainly wish you success in finding somebody!

[tag227]

Ariadne,

Before I do any spell work, I would highly recommend, you write out a VERY detailed list of what you want in a guy. I learned this the hard way. I thought what I want, but then along comes a guy who fits 50% but would have a huge deal breaker (eg. never told me he had a child, he was in another relationship, or didn't believe in monogamy both of which were dealbreakers for me). While we may not always get 100%, I have found that writing out this detailed list, lets the Divine energy direct your own energy properly. Combine this with Adam & Eve Spell Kit and you will be amazed!

Details to include:

1) What kind of lifestyle do you see you and your partner having?
2) Do you share common interests?
3) Do you want him to be single and open to marriage? Are you seeking something temporary?
4) Do you mind if he was married before or has children?
5) Do you mind if he has major health issues or mental problems?
6) Does he have issues with his family?

ETC ETC.

Each person has a different level of tolerance for these things, so by writing out your list, you've tuned your energies to what you exactly want.

My list was over 3 pages long. But when I did the work, I did find a person who fit a good 85-90%.

Good luck my dear!

[starsinthesky7]

I agree with that...make sure you address things like that. In addition, distance is another issue. People dont understand that they might meet that person of interest on a vacation only to find out he lives in another country. Some people are not willing to up root their lives. But I agree there does need to be some fine tuning.

[Devi Spring]

I agree with tag - taking the time to really be honestly introspective with yourself and what you need as well as what you want from a partner will help you draw an appropriate partner. It can take longer for a spell that targeted to manifest...but it will, so just be patient and keep loving yourself and living life in the meantime. You'll be amazed at who the Divine will bring to you when you ASK!

Funny story along these lines, my husband had sat down to try and make a list of the qualities he thought were important to him in a serious relationship when he was in his early 20s. He thought long and hard and came up with what he thought was the ideal qualities to look for in a mate:
1) She had to love Scrabble
2) She had to be shorter than him
3) She had to have and enjoy big families
4) She had to speak French (he was learning French at the time)

He thought those things really were the key to a perfect mate. I'm sure you can see that all but one of them are pretty silly. He found a girl that fit all these qualities to a tee, and he rushed into a committed relationship with her. She was manipulative, emasculating, controlling, domineering, unsupportive, focused on money, tried to isolate him away from his friends, and always trying to change him. He stayed with her for several years despite all this, because he kept telling himself that she met all his qualities for a mate, so eventually things would work out. Right??

Wrong. So he eventually decided that those qualities didn't actually have anything to do with a good mate for him. They were pretty cosmetic. However, all her horribleness did serve to show him what WAS important to him in a partner. (Learning from your mistakes is a very important element in personal growth - so learn to be self-aware.) He decided that his next relationship would have to be with a woman that respected him for who he was, supported his artistic endeavors as well as his career ones, was not driven by materialistic things, and got along well with his friends and family. THOSE qualities made much more sense for a long-term partner.

Along came me. Had he still been looking for those other qualities, I would certainly not have fit. I had never played Scrabble before I met him. I'm the same height as him, but in shoes I often look taller. I come from a small, dysfunctional family that I do not have contact with, and large families take a lot of getting used to for me, and the only French I speak is what I've learned from reading the dual-language product packaging here in Canada for the past 11 years! LOL! But I love him for who he is, we met through one of his artistic endeavors, while I enjoy being financially comfortable I do not have any desire for fancy cars, big houses, or designer brand things and enjoy living rather simply, and I was friends with his friends before he and I got together!

He met all the needs that I had spelled out (pun intended) in the working I did to draw a suitable life-partner. I wanted someone that could appreciate and enjoy my artistic endeavors, I needed someone who was financially stable and able to provide on that front because all of my business pursuits are very risky and unstable, I wanted someone very emotionally stable that I could depend on (I dated many men who were passionate, but just completely undependable and too fickle and wishy-washy), I needed someone to whom loyalty was tantamount, I needed someone that did not want children, who loved and enjoyed animals and pets, etc, etc. And I needed someone who didn't mind supporting me if I needed it, and could weather any emotional storms that I may subject them to, and who loved spending a great deal of time with their partner.

He fit ALL of them. I fit all of his needs.

Get real with yourself and your needs in life and in a partner, and then work for them! Also, have one of the things that you draw be that YOU are the right person for THEM in kind. Very important, that! THAT is the best way to draw a really remarkable partner through conjure. And don't forget to work on your own relationship skills in the meantime, so that when you DO meet the right person, you are at your most capable for being a good partner for them in return.

[Miss Tammie Lee]

That is one of the best love/relationship posts I have read. I just ordered a big order this time it included something extra for my love life... lack there of... lol! I will have it on hand when I am ready, which will hopefully be soon. Until I feel like I am stable, (as stable as we can all get in this economy) and until I feel a just a little better, (physically-- I like to travel and love romance and passion) and until I can give 110% to someone else-- and that he will reciprocate-- He will be of good moral character, be very good to me and my child, be intelligent, be respectful, be supportive emotionally and financially, be kind yet strong, be powerful, not have any problems with any legal issues civil or criminal, not have any substance abuse problems, live here, above all be loyal-- in everything from the bedroom to the bank, be appreciative, be a giver of time and money to me and to help others, be patient, be independent not "clingy" and never possessive but always protective,-- no drama only peace-- be THE life long loving, caring partner for me and a GOOD Father for my child.--(my list for what I want for him as a Father for my child could take all day)

I have been looking more into the "love" section (posts regarding love/relationships etc.) of the forum in recent days, trying to pick up new ideas. I did read something interesting in the graveyard dirt thread and I will post a question I have about it there.
This whole thread was great! Thank you all!

[sweetpea29]

Yes,
thank you all for this amazing thread. i feel like i was lead here as i am in the process of getting myself ready mentally and emotionally to attract my true, life time lov, and these posts and ideas are a huge help. i am going to print them out and use the ones that apply to me in my list.

There are amazing helpful people on this forum and i am grateful for everyone's help. thank you. thank you. thank you.

blessings to all

[ConjureMan]

Devi Spring, what a wonderful story! More power to both of you!

[finey]

Hello to all, I like this guy but he doesnt know I exist I added him on my facebook. I want to attract him to me, I want him to call me a lot and be around me a lot. I need to control him so he can act and behave the way i want him to..I want him to be madly in love with me. Can i get a mojo bag for this?

[ConjureMan]

There are many ways of going about it. As usual, a reading is called for before investing time in spellwork. The reading can tell you the feasibility of what you seek.

A Come to Me spell kit can bring your target closer to you, get him to notice you, want you, and become romantically involved.

A Follow Me Boy will get him to the level of following you around. The kits come with everything you'd need from start to finish and a good deal of them result in a mojo hand for you to carry on the work.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

[jwmcclin]

Come to Me Spell Kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html)
Follow Me Boy Spell Kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-follow-me-boy.html)

Remember the good thing about the spell kits is that they have everything needed including instructions to complete the spell. As ConjureMan said get a reading first... Good Luck!

[starsinthesky7]

Actually I would attack this slightly differently, I would work with some Look me over first to get his attention, which you can work at the same time as come to me. In addition, you need to get a reading just to make sure there arent any unexpected surprises such as him not liking women (hey you never know he may like men), having a girlfriend, etc.

[finey]

Can this be used on multiple people male and female..celeb?

[Elveta]

Hello to all, I like this guy but he doesnt know I exist I added him on my facebook. I want to attract him to me, I want him to call me a lot and be around me a lot. I need to control him so he can act and behave the way i want him to..I want him to be madly in love with me. Can i get a mojo bag for this?

From your post, it is not clear if you even know this person? Have you ever met him? Does he know you?

[starsinthesky7]

Celebrities are people too. If you have access to them, then perhaps yes. But if you are just a random person that just watches them on TV I highly doubt you are going to get them.

Yes this candle worked on multiple people such as if you are going out in public. Yes you can work this on both male, and female, You would have to work with both follow me boy and follow me girl.

[Mama Micki]

You want a man you have never met (possibly a celebrity)? How do you know you'd be compatible with him? From what you read in the tabloids and see on tv? Celebrities often have a distorted sense of boundaries because people cater to their every need, including large numbers of people willing to have sex with them. They also have well-oiled publicity machines that put out the image that will make them the most money.

Magic works within the realm of possibility. Instead of chasing a fantasy, work on attracting a suitable partner with the qualities you desire.

[finey]

I don't know him and thank you very much for the great advice.

[Mama Micki]

Good luck to you, finey.

[Lily]

This is an incredibly interesting thread. Devi, I love your story!

I have also tried to attract someone to have a relationship with, but somehow nothing significant has been happening for two years now I do get a lot of attention, but none of that strikes me as "relationship material" so I don't even waste my time. I have worked Look Me Over a few times, as well as Come to Me and was under the impression that when the right person shows up I will know it. I have attracted several people that were very interested in me but had some things about them that were deal breakers -- each time something different. Is there anything wrong with being picky and not settling? I am still waiting for the person with characteristics I petitioned for, although it's sure taking a while

[Devi Spring]

If you feel that your work so far has not resulted in any suitable partners, and it's not just an issue of being too picky (by the way, were these deal-breakers something that you had addressed in your petition when you worked, or not - you may wish to consider doing more work using the knowledge you've gained from those experiences about what you do and do not want from a partner), then you would likely benefit from a good reading on the situation to give you more perspective.

It took about 18 months before my husband showed up in my life after that working, and there were relationships during that period that obviously did not work out. It was not a did-the-spell-and-then-6-months-later-I'm engaged. (We dated and lived together for 5 years before marrying.) It could be that this process of figuring out what is a deal-breaker is helping you hone in on a more specific set of qualities that are right for you, and also the fact that you are not sticking around in relationships you know are not suitable is a sign of maturity and strength of purpose

But a reading can help you plan for a new working to take into consideration your new knowledge, and also give you some objective perspective on elements of your approach to relationships that may be hindering you.

[Winter Sun]

My advice is that targeted spells(in my experience) reduce the good feelings you get from getting the guy. Sure, you get him, but part of you knows he was just influenced by your spell. I prefer a more generic "I'm Attractive" spell in this situation. A spell that makes you more attractive to him but leaves the choice in his hands. The success rate is a bit lower, since even if he really wants you, he can resist, but making the choice his makes it more fulfilling(again, in my experience).

[Devi Spring]

My advice is that targeted spells(in my experience) reduce the good feelings you get from getting the guy. Sure, you get him, but part of you knows he was just influenced by your spell

I completely disagree. I don't go in for really coercive love work, personally, but using conjure to move along an attraction, or draw one in really isn't any different in my opinion than putting on make-up and doing your hair before you see the person you want. Magic isn't this Hollywood-thing where a spell will create something from nothing, it's working to manipulate already existing possibilities. If a guy is attracted to you through a spell, it means that there was already a possibility of attraction between the two people, even if it was subtle or weak. So there's no "he was just influenced by your spell" - you might as well say "he was just influence by your shirt". Yeah. Maybe he was. But he wouldn't have been attracted if on some level he wasn't attracted!!

From your posts, Winter Sun you've used the terms "channeling energy" several times, sending love or sending light, and here you're speaking of "leaving a choice in his hands". It sounds as if you are coming from a tradition of magic that is very different from hoodoo. It may help to familiarize yourself with the tradition of African American rootwork so you can better understand the perspective and methodology that is being discussed here on this forum. Miss Cat has a fantastic online resource that you can read through here: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html

[starsinthesky7]

I agree with Devi. And when starting from absolutely nothing it is VERY HARD. If there isnt even a speck attraction or interest from the target, I have found that it can be quite difficult. On the other hand, where come to me oil, look me over, betwitching, etc, isnt much different than putting on make up. It is working on things that are already there per se, or someone that is going to find you attraction. I dont understand why one would feel guilty. There isnt anything to feel guilty about if they were already attracted to you.

[Mama Micki]

All is fair in love and war.

[Bella_Dellanotte]

Let's start a top love spells list guys! I wanna know your favourites, what's worked for you and how to do it, and preferably (due to my situation) one that doesn't take days and days to complete. spill the beans and help a girl out!
Millions of Thanks
Bella

[Devi Spring]

Well this is a forum for discussing LM products and services, so I would direct you to the great love spell archive that is hosted here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#red

[Bella_Dellanotte]

yes thank you it was written under the premise that the spells are done using LM products I don't see the harm in asking people what has worked for them

[Bella_Dellanotte]

BTW the description of this board: "Post your favourite magical spells and share practical conjure tricks and techniques with the rootworking community. "

[Bella_Dellanotte]

agreed, bewitching works but consider the type of attention you want. it got me sexual attention -_- which is great and all that but i was hoping more for something called emotional romantic feelings -_-

[faith2008]

You could try attraction or come to me or a lodestone spell kit.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

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[starsinthesky7]

I would get an attraction, or come to me spell kit, and add some betwitching, and look me over oil/powder to the candles. The bewitching will definitely help you lure him in. I would work that with some attraction as well. If you have his picture, then work with that for now obviously until you can get closer. In addition, you could work an attraction, or come to me sweet jar along with some bewitching products on it. If you are physically around him, you can wear the oils as well, and do not be afraid to grab a straw, napkin or get dirt from his shoe. You just need to be on the outlook for opportunities to get his things.

[JayDee]

personally Iv had a lot of success using cats spell with catnip and 7 knob candle. its in her book under catnip, everytime iv used it iv met someone who fits what i want or was looking for within the time frame. whenever i go single and am ready to get out their again its the first spell I think to use, though i dont do it with a specific person rather what im looking for and often times I meet several ppl with those qualities and i get to pick love the spell thanks cat for putting it in your book

[catherineyronwode]

Tou're welcome.

I have had good luck with the Lodestone Love Spell -- you can find it at the site. I met my husband through that spell.

This book collects a lot of spells i recommend as well:

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[Miss Bri]

I like honey jars myself! I have one for my marriage that my husband and I made together--keep the love sweet and flowing
Blessings,
Bri

[Turnsteel]

I am a huge fan of moving candle spells personally. For herbs, Catnip, High John, Queen Elisabeth Root, Cinnamon, Lavender and Dixie John are all starts in my book.

[Bella_Dellanotte]

nice! but ah what if you've got a particular person in mind?
I've got him by the balls sexually but emotions...plus men... = ??
most of these can be used on a specific target I assume?
thanks all

[catherineyronwode]

Belle_Dellanotte --

In the moving candle spells mentioned by HailDiscordia, we always name, dress, and load the candles (whether figural or plain) for the intended parties, hence "having a particular person in mind" is always part of our work. If we have no individual in sight, we dress, name, and load the candle by its office, such as "my future boy friend" or "my future husband."

Also, with respect to your question about "emotions...plus men... = ??": As a matter of fact, men do have emotions. I am surprised that you have not noticed this, as many of them are quite public about their feelings, especially with regard to love, fidelity, and family bonding. Your magical spells (and, i daresay, your experiences of heterosexual love) will be more successful and bring more consistent results when you realize the simple fact that men are people, just like women. Please read this site i wrote on Sacred Sex for more information:
http://luckymojo.com/sacredsex.html

Yours for the union of Venus and Mars,

[jwmcclin]

Menses, moving candle and skull candle are my favorites.

[hoodooTom]

I didn't want to start a new thread for this question, but bewitching products were mentioned. Is there a certain way to apply this oil to yourself or use it?

Thanks

[Devi Spring]

Nothing more specific than anointing yourself with any other oil - pulse points, etc.

[Lily]

If you feel that your work so far has not resulted in any suitable partners, and it's not just an issue of being too picky (by the way, were these deal-breakers something that you had addressed in your petition when you worked, or not - you may wish to consider doing more work using the knowledge you've gained from those experiences about what you do and do not want from a partner), then you would likely benefit from a good reading on the situation to give you more perspective.

Thank you, Devi! Getting a reading was actually the first thing I did two years ago, before doing any work. It was a reputable reader recommended on this very forum, and she told me I'd soon meet someone and gave such a detailed description that it rubbed me the wrong way and I decided I'd never want to end up with someone she described!

I later proceeded to work an Attraction/Look Me Over spell with a pink female candle and met someone within ten days. That person was everything I asked for that time; the only obvious drawback was that he lived across the world! He eventually moved here to be with me and I found out there were more things I had to address in my next petition!

I got another reading at that point and the reader said that person was not a bad guy for me at all, but I decided to draw someone more suitable anyway. My next spell worked within a week -- I met a person who addressed every single one of my needs and was essentially a perfect guy in every sense. The only problem was that I didn't have any sort of feelings for him at all. Go figure!

I had more readings done and worked more spells. All the people I attracted in the process were pretty good but things haven't clicked just yet. I guess it's work in progress and I am so happy to hear that things do work out: Devi's story is indeed inspiring. I also enjoyed reading Cat's story on the love magic archive.

[Faithfully]

I have told my friend about Lucky Mojo and she is very interested in buying and using the products. The problem is, is that she wants to use it on a guy that she has never really met. She follows him on twitter and is always trying to get his attention but he never seems to pay her any mind. I try to tell her that maybe he is just really busy or maybe he is just not interested.
To sum up this story, I really want to see my friend happy and let her know that LM has something that could get the guy to notice her or reply back to what she sends him, but the whole "not knowing him in person" thing makes me think that it is a lost cause.
What should she do?

[Turnsteel]

Does she have any contact with him at all? See him in real life and not just through a computer screen? If so, provided it isn't a celebrity crush, yes she can work some hoodoo to get more attention from him, take a look at the Look Me Over line. Burning a pink candle dressed with Look Me Over on his picture and wearing the oil as a personal perfume can help a lot.

[Faithfully]

Thanks for the help! I'm more than sure that she will be glad to know that there is something she can do! And no, she hasn't seen him in real life, she just really infatuated with him and the things he says on his page. Does that make things impossible? She really just wants to get to know him more, rather than have some kind of love interest.
Also, this guy is not a celebrity but aren't celebrities people too? What would be the difference between a celebrity and a regular person? It's an off topic question, but I was just curious. :]
Thank you again!

[Turnsteel]

Also, this guy is not a celebrity but aren't celebrities people too? What would be the difference between a celebrity and a regular person? It's an off topic question, but I was just curious. :]
Thank you again!

Because a normal person would have almost no chance anyways, magic won't change the fact that you do not know them, do not see them, and are not close to them in the least.

Same thing goes for your friend, unless she has actual contact with this person, and an email here and there doesn't really count; she has very little to nothing to build on. I wouldn't hold out much hope, not if her only contact is reading stuff he puts on the internet for everyone to see. He probably has not the faintest idea of who she is. I mean, she can burn a barn full of candles on his name and picture, but that won't change a thing if he doesn't know who she is.

[Faithfully]

Thank you for the Turnsteel help! I'll make sure to let her know!

[Mama Micki]

For many people, a fantasy lover is safer than the real thing. Right now he is anything she wants him to be, but if she did meet him, his flaws would be apparent.

If your friend is serious about a real relationship, my advice to her would be to think about what she would like in a lover, write it down, and go to places where that type of man would go, while wearing Attraction, Follow Me Boy, and/or Come to Me.

[Faithfully]

Thank you Mama Micki for the wonderful advice! I'll let her know ASAP! :]