Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Sat Aug 21, 2010 9:35 am

We both aren't using lawyers and we don't have children

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sat Aug 21, 2010 9:41 am

Tammyw wrote:We both aren't using lawyers and we don't have children

I certainly hope you are at least consulting with one. Trust me on this, I've seen it happen to others, you NEED to know exactly what your rights are and what you are entitled to by law. Not at least talking to a lawyer for an hour to find out the very basics is pure foolishness. Especially if you have a house you own together, cars, joint bank accounts, joint credit cards. Children aren't the only way divorcing spouses can hurt one another.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Sat Aug 21, 2010 11:14 am

I was legal assistant for many years I have definitly gotten advice. I'm just trying to salvage my marriage.

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sat Aug 21, 2010 12:00 pm

Tammyw wrote:I was legal assistant for many years I have definitly gotten advice. I'm just trying to salvage my marriage.

My apologies. You hadn't mentioned that yet, and I'm sure if you worked in the legal field, you saw plenty of people lose cases, and, in essence, their lives due to poor legal advice or a lack of any legal knowledge.

Everyone else has already given you great advice Hoodoo-wise, so pretty much anything I would add would simply be a repeat. Although I would do healing work on your husband as well, to help him get over the things he's unable to let go of and that is causing him to file papers.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Sat Aug 21, 2010 9:33 pm

I am so greatful to have a forum like this to help others out with their work. I thank everyone for their input. I will not give up and will continue to work.

mysticguy · Unread post by **mysticguy** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 12:55 pm

Thank you Miss Cat since I was a child I became drawn into zodiac and mystic things of potions and oils. It's like a passion for me. My LM products has arrived and when I see the results from that..... I would love to join your course if you will have me.

UPDATE: My LM products has arrived and I haven't had a time to use them yet. He asked to spend the night twice 1 time was to leave from here to go to work and another time the day after was, because he got into it with his family members at the grandma house again and he walked near my area past midnight seeing if he can spend the night with me. Within the last 3 days he has texted my cell and called me within 8 - 15 times each day and wanted us to be back together in a relationship again. But, he still wants to live at his grandma house even though he doesn't feel like he may not be making a good decision living there. When he is around them real strong there drama affects our relationship somehow.

My LM products I have is:

OILS: Follow Me Boy, Lavender Love Drops, Bend Over, Q, Stay Home, Crown Of Success & Stay With Me
INCENSE: Follow Me Boy & Bend Over
SACHET: Stay With Me & Stay Home

He has a lot of shoes and hats here and I have 7 day candles which usually works best for me than gender or image candles..why is that I dont know! But, what I am planning to do is bring confusion to the house where he is living at, so he can move back with me. I took a picture of their house and plan to use it with the confusion spell work since they are arguing anyway. I will continue with the Road Opener, Come to Me, Healing, and Peace candles for our relationship during this time and protection on myself of course. Haven't been able to re-do it nor use the products, because within the last 3 days every time I try to dress the candles or use the LM products he either is calling me or he is on his way to see me. What I was also planning to do while the confusion spell is going is:

Red & Pink 7 Day Candles: dressed with Follow Me Boy, Lavender Love Drop & Stay With Me oils and few crushed rose petals- for love, drawing him to me and binding & faithfulness. (People draw lovers back, but at times they need to continue to work things on healing the relationship and bind the their love to keep them from wandering while their love has returned) That's my thought!

Purple Candle: dressed with Follow Me Boy, Stay With Me, & Bend Over oils with a drop of honey & pinch of sugar - to convince him to move back in together.

Can sachet be sprinkled on 7 day candles?
Can Stay With Me Products be used in gay relationships?

This will be my first time using LM products, so I can't wait to see the results. Anybody have any other suggestions of what to do with the stuff I have and the advise for the sachets/incense. Since we live at separate houses do I use the Stay At Home stuff yet?

mysticguy · Unread post by **mysticguy** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 4:34 pm

mysticguy wrote:Thank you Miss Cat since I was a child I became drawn into zodiac and mystic things of potions and oils. It's like a passion for me. My LM products has arrived and when I see the results from that..... I would love to join your course if you will have me.

UPDATE: My LM products has arrived and I haven't had a time to use them yet. He asked to spend the night twice 1 time was to leave from here to go to work and another time the day after was, because he got into it with his family members at the grandma house again and he walked near my area past midnight seeing if he can spend the night with me. Within the last 3 days he has texted my cell and called me within 8 - 15 times each day and wanted us to be back together in a relationship again. But, he still wants to live at his grandma house even though he doesn't feel like he may not be making a good decision living there. When he is around them real strong there drama affects our relationship somehow.

My LM products I have is:

OILS: Follow Me Boy, Lavender Love Drops, Bend Over, Q, Stay Home, Crown Of Success & Stay With Me
INCENSE: Follow Me Boy & Bend Over
SACHET: Stay With Me & Stay Home

He has a lot of shoes and hats here and I have 7 day candles which usually works best for me than gender or image candles..why is that I dont know! But, what I am planning to do is bring confusion to the house where he is living at, so he can move back with me. I took a picture of their house and plan to use it with the confusion spell work since they are arguing anyway. I will continue with the Road Opener, Come to Me, Healing, and Peace candles for our relationship during this time and protection on myself of course. Haven't been able to re-do it nor use the products, because within the last 3 days every time I try to dress the candles or use the LM products he either is calling me or he is on his way to see me. What I was also planning to do while the confusion spell is going is:

Red & Pink 7 Day Candles: dressed with Follow Me Boy, Lavender Love Drop & Stay With Me oils and few crushed rose petals- for love, drawing him to me and binding & faithfulness. (People draw lovers back, but at times they need to continue to work things on healing the relationship and bind the their love to keep them from wandering while their love has returned) That's my thought!

Purple Candle: dressed with Follow Me Boy, Stay With Me, & Bend Over oils with a drop of honey & pinch of sugar - to convince him to move back in together.

Can sachet be sprinkled on 7 day candles?
Can Stay With Me Products be used in gay relationships?

This will be my first time using LM products, so I can't wait to see the results. Anybody have any other suggestions of what to do with the stuff I have and the advise for the sachets/incense. Since we live at separate houses do I use the Stay At Home stuff yet?

Can someone PLEASE give some advise or suggestion from the post that is above this one? .........THANK YOU!

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 4:42 pm

mysticguy wrote:
Can someone get advise or suggestion from the post that is above this one? .........THANK YOU!

Ok, you posted your questions about four hours ago, there is absolutely no reason to quote the whole thing again and bump the thread. This is a forum, not a chat room, and it takes time to get a respond, and honestly quoting a giant post just to add one line asking people to respond to it is silly and a waste of space. Patience is indeed a virtue.

mysticguy wrote:But, what I am planning to do is bring confusion to the house where he is living at, so he can move back with me. I took a picture of their house and plan to use it with the confusion spell work since they are arguing anyway

I hope you plan on doing a spiritual cleaning for yourself and your home after your done jinxing them.

mysticguy wrote:Can sachet be sprinkled on 7 day candles?

Yes, but use it sparingly so as to not effect the burn.

mysticguy wrote:Can Stay With Me Products be used in gay relationships?

I've used it for homosexual couples before to good affect.

mysticguy wrote:Since we live at separate houses do I use the Stay At Home stuff yet?

No. If he doesn't live with you their isn't any point to doing work aimed at making him stay home.

mysticguy · Unread post by **mysticguy** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 5:43 pm

HailDiscordia wrote:

Yes, I plan on cleansing & protecting myself and home that's a must to me before and after doing work like that!

Apologies from the last post...every time I'm trying to do the work he calls or pops by near my home and I'm not able to do my things. Plus I'm so eager to use the LM products..My apologies to you and the board

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 6:54 pm

I still can't get used to the "quoting thing" on the board and I have decided I just won't do it (unless I have to) LOL!!!
Hail Discordia does offer some very practical magical advice. yes a playful statement, but also very valid points to consider with regard to the "Grandma's home " issue. The only thing that comes to mind immediately for the confusion are poppy seeds.
Sincere hopes and wishes for you and your significant other. I'm afraid I have nothing more to add this evening. Hail Discordia is very informed and gave some very good advice.
I am thrilled that you received your package and that you are excited!

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 7:04 pm

Triplethreat wrote: The only thing that comes to mind immediately for the confusion are poppy seeds.

This is a very good thing to bring up! If you possibly can, throw a handful of Poppy seeds into grandma's front yard. Now of course you'll have to pray over them, but it is a real old school trick that can get great results.

luckycharms13 · Unread post by **luckycharms13** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 7:13 pm

Hi everyone,
I've been doing Reconciliation work for over 3 months now. I have had a couple readings with one reader who said he does still have feelings for me and reconciliation is possible and that I've been doing good work. Today I had a reading with someone else who said he's a narcissist who is incapable of caring about me or giving me the partnership I deserve, and if we do reconcile nothing will change because he is too selfish and self-centered. She suggested I move on.

I stopped working the Reconciliation honey jar a week and a half ago because at this point I'm not sure I want to get back together. I've been burning candles (separately) with Cast Off Evil, Crucible of Courage and Clarity, and Road Opener to work on the current situation. It occurred to me that a Reversing spell might help him realize how selfish and hurtful he's been and facilitate some change in his behavior. I was actually almost considering the IS, but I swore I'd never use that spell when I started all this work. I just want him to develop some empathy, have consideration for my feelings, and treat me with respect. I'm thinking a Reversing spell would project all the pain he's put me through back to him, make him suffer as I have suffered, and make him realize he needs to treat me better. Yes, there is an element of revenge involved, but he has put me through a lot, he knows he doesn't treat me well but doesn't care enough to make an effort to change.

Is this situation hopeless? Would anyone recommend a Reversing spell for this, or are there any other suggestions?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 7:32 pm

The IS is not going to do anything for his empathy, and to care more about you...nor is the reversing. The reversing is just going to hit him back with his own selfish ways, but it isn't going to help him SEE himself for what he really is.

I feel like spellwork can only change so much. I mean it can help, but you are not going to be able to change someone's whole entire personality. I mean selfishness can come from an array of different things. It could be because he has been hurt in the past by parents, past relationships, and so on. So I would get down to why he is this way, and perhaps you may need to work things from that stand point. And you know what he very well may care about you, but it is not going to be enough.

So if you are not sure you want to get back together, then move on. There is no shame is doing that. Why spend all this time, money, and energy on someone you are ify about, and probably is not willing to change for you.

In any case, we spoke of someone like this here punishing-the-narcissist-t7501.html to help them see themselves for what they really are.

luckycharms13 · Unread post by **luckycharms13** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:09 pm

Thanks, Stars. I know the IS wouldn't help, it just got to the point where I want him to suffer a bit. The skull candle spell in that link you posted looks promising, I'll give it a shot.

mysticguy · Unread post by **mysticguy** » Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:13 pm

I see 2 great minds think alike. I bought the poppy seeds 2 hours ago and some cayenne pepper also. In 7 days black candles I would poke holes in the candle with a rusty nail and put a few seeds in the hole and cover it with cayenne pepper. I haven't used sachet in years so I forgot how to use it and I'm going to start all my work tomorrow. Soon as I re-opened the LM box he knocked on the door and he wants to spend the night. I know it's late, but thank you HailDiscordia, Triple Threat, and Miss Cat for your suggestions. TRUST & BELIEVE that when the results come in I will let you know how it happened.

He knows i like money oils and protections oils only and he mentioned that he feels like bad luck is upon him the last week and wanted me to get him some evil removing oil & candle. I'm thinking maybe I should give him some Stay With Me oil mixed with Bend-over oil instead. If you come up with any other ideas with the products i do have. Please let me know!

parisshadow · Unread post by **parisshadow** » Mon Aug 23, 2010 10:12 pm

Greetings all, I have an update! I am doing cleansing and healing work on myself and i think i may be getting a good response from my honey jar and the intranquil spell i performed and will start rootwork with miss Bri to help the situation get better. My ex texted me again Friday night and sounded really conflicted. He said "even if we wanted to get back together we could'nt cause all of my friends think you are out of control and wrong for me now". I didn't respond at all because i wasnt sure what to say exactly. However, i still took it as a good sign thats he's at least considering the possibility of reconciliation but now is scared of what his friends will think. i think a few more nudges with spellwork will push him in my direction more.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 7:03 am

Great news feyshadow! It's great that you're working with Miss Bri on this and getting some movement. However, you may wish to hold off on discussing your ongoing work with anyone other than your rootworker. When a work is in progress it's always best to keep quiet about it until after the matter has been resolved. It just helps keep the work as clean as possible. Miss Bri will certainly be able to help you address his new concerns about your relationship, so definitely talk with her as soon as you can!

parisshadow · Unread post by **parisshadow** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 10:21 am

Thank you Devi! I'm just excited to be getting movement and wanted others to have some hope for their situations as well. But thank you for telling me about not speaking about my work, i did not know that. I will definitely post up if and when my issue gets resolved in order to help others. Blessed be!

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Tue Aug 24, 2010 10:27 pm

So I have been working just a red candle on top of a mirror and my wedding picture until I receive the red skull candle. I have been talking to the candle as if it were my husband and petitioned St. Martha for help. My husband is ignoring my calls and texts. We have an early resolution conference scheduled in a few days should I continue working the red candle speaking to it at night and should I burn a brown candle to have the courts work in my favor? Oh I also ordered lights to be set at Missionary Independant Spiritual Church

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 1:39 am

I just had an experience I cannot explain. I worked my red candle tonight for a while after petitioning st Martha again. I also had a fire of love candle burning next to it. I snuffed out the red candle for safety reasons and left the fire of love vigil candle burning. Something woke me and I find my mojo bag that I made 2 weeks ago laying next to me in the bed!? I only wear the mojo bag when I go to work other than that I leave it in my purse. I haven't worked since Sunday! Then as soon as I am about to type this message my mother starts opening my bedroom door to check on me at 2:30am. I quickly had to blow out the vigil candle so she wouldn't see my work. After she left I apologized and relit the vigil candle. Is this ok and what does this all mean. I am going to get a reading asap but has anything like this happened to anyone?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 5:34 am

To me it sounds like you may have dropped your mojo bag, and someone (your mother?) found it and returned it to you. Do get a reading, and make sure you check on the life of your mojo. If it was handled by anyone else, it's dead.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 6:56 pm

I would like to know if anything I can do if I have broken up for about 10 months?

I have done few spells start from the 2nd month, and stop for a while, and start some spells again.

I have booked for a reading already, i still needa wait for my booking, but just discovered that, the rootworker said if we are apart for over 6 months, he will not help in doing reconciliation...

Anyone would like to share with me?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 7:16 pm

Each rootworker is different. Some take no reconciliation cases at all, but will help you find new love. Some wil take reconciliation cases -- bt not "cold cases." That's between you and the worker..

I suggest that you set a time limit on your work and then work alongside a spiritual helper who is willing to take your case -- but only for the time specified.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 7:28 pm

Thanks Cat,

Em...I am a bit lost and confuse. There are not many ppl doing spells in my country, and it's hard to find someone to discuss and share with me. I guess I maybe quite silly, asking silly questions, but here is the only place for me to find someone to share and discuss my case.

I have booked the consultation already, but just discover that I guess I am so call the cold case for the rootworker. Should I book and get another reading? And will it be kind of duplication?

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Wed Aug 25, 2010 7:35 pm

In fact I can contact my ex, just depends on I try to seek him or not. But for some reasons, I was so disappointed to him, I block him in my facebook, and once I wanna unblock him, he was deleted (I don't know he will be deleted when I block him). And few months ago, when I deactivate my facebook account, he tried to seek me and add me (I have another account), I haven't added him at that time with my 2nd account. After I found he was deleted in my account, I trying to seek him in my 2nd account, his friend request is disappeared. I don't know weather he can remove the request or what...

In fact before Mid May, we are still, so call friend, but after an argurment, ... I blocked him, and we lost contact. But he is still in my MSN.

Should I try to find him as to make my rootwork works? and is there anything I can do to make him willing to contact me or willing to talk to me when I MSN him?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Aug 26, 2010 12:11 am

I would follow through with the reading. Rootworkers have general policies, but they aren't always set in stone. Readings may sway their decision one way or the other. For example, even if you are a "cold case" if the reading is very favorable this rootworker may still take your case. Even if they do not they might refer you to an associate that may help and if not then the closure can help you move on.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Thu Aug 26, 2010 5:15 pm

Getting a reading tonight. Tommorrow is our conference I am very nervous I don't want them to finalize tommorrow I feel like I have so much more work to do. But I guess I'll see from this reading tonight and how everything goes tommorrow.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Thu Aug 26, 2010 6:21 pm

Anything suggest me to do now when I waiting for the reading?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Aug 26, 2010 6:31 pm

So basically you are the reason why your work is not working. You are constantly blocking your target even though he is clearly responding to you work you have done in the past. BUT you keep on blocking him and all this other nonsense. I would recommend that you seek out your target like you suggested either through facebook, or whatever other means you have. I mean he tried to add you, but you were too foolish to do so. You spellwork was not failing in my eyes. You were getting movement, but you need to figure out what you want with this guy.

I recommend that you do a reconciliation/return to me sweet jar. Or you can have a light lit by the missionary independent spiritual church on their altar. I recommend that you get a return to me candle along with a reconciliation candle, and a road opener.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Aug 26, 2010 6:34 pm

Continue to work with St. martha...and if you can make a freezer jar full of poppy seeds so that he will be confused about settling. Also, even if you and him do settle that does not mean you and him can not rebound in the future. I mean there are many couples that divorce, and end up getting remarried.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:50 am

Em, I am sorry that I know my case sounds foolish.
I have been with him for a long time, but once we seperated, he bring his new gf home within a month, and he did many things to please his gf.
I block him in fact as to make myself feel better, becos' it makes me feel hurt when I see their stuff in fb.

parisshadow · Unread post by **parisshadow** » Fri Aug 27, 2010 10:42 am

Greetings! i have a quick question. I was burning my usual pink candle with the usual oils on it over my honey jar and in the middle of the night the candle started crackling like crazy for about 10 minutes or so and then continued burn like normal. Is that a sign of anything?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Aug 27, 2010 11:15 am

You can read about various candle signs here: http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Fri Aug 27, 2010 7:43 pm

My reading was positive I was told I had a money card and I will be walking away with a lot of money. But I don't want the money, don't get me wrong I am no fool I am gonna take whatever I think is owed but I would give it all away just to be with my husband. He didn't like what happened in the proceedings I played hardball and knew a lot more than he expected. Elvyra my reader did tell me I need to show strength and I did. We still have to go to trial in the next few months for unresolved issues. I just hope it gives me enough time to do more work. I just want my husband back. Anyone have a rootworker do work for them?

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Fri Aug 27, 2010 7:48 pm

Starsinthesky7 I couldn't find poppy seeds so I bought a lemon poppy seed muffin and put it in the freezer with the court forms. I think that worked in my favor. I aslo burned a yellow candle and a brown candle just before the meeting and petitioned st martha.

parisshadow · Unread post by **parisshadow** » Sat Aug 28, 2010 11:22 pm

Greetings all! I have great news! so i was going to begin a red skull candle spell tonight just to keep doing work,When i finally recieved a call from my ex. He kept calling and calling (he was drunk), he even called my best friend. He's not the type to do this so i really think it's the intranquil. I finally answered and he couldnt stop crying saying he missed me so much and he tried dating another girl but when he kissed her he only thought of me. We spoke for about 2 hours. He sobered up. We were Fighting, crying, laughing and catching up and he wants to come to my home tomorrow and said he wants to start fresh with me and start things back up again!! He just wants me to work on my trust issues and insecurities and learn to be more independent. My question is should i still do the red skull spell to influence his thoughts? I'm also working with a rootworker now. Should i start stay with me spells? Sorry for all the questions, im sooo happy!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 28, 2010 11:59 pm

Parisshadow and anyone else working with a rootworker...you need to talk to your ROOTWORKER when you are working with them. Why? Because they have the expertise, and know your situation personally to help you carry out your motives. In addition, you do not want to do something that negates the work you have already done. So you need to talk to your rootworker on what needs to happen next.

However, I would work a sweet jar to help with a love/reconciliation aspect to it to completely heal the past hurts in the relationship and so on. AND I would work some chuparrosa products as well to help with the communication and trust. I would recommend that you do not dwell on the fact that he tried to be with another girl, or any other habits that made him leave in the first place

But you need to speak with your rootworker to make sure that you are helping your work, and not jumping critical steps in the reconciliation process.

parisshadow · Unread post by **parisshadow** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:16 am

Thank you stars, i will hold off on spells without consulting my rootworker. He came over at midnight and stayed for 6 hours. He got down on his knee and asked for forgivesness and kissed my feet! he isnt the type to do that at all! We talked about a lot of things over the hours and kiss a lot,(holding off on further intimacy for now). But everything seems great.

sunflower73 · Unread post by **sunflower73** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 7:34 pm

Good Evening everyone,

I am going to try to make this as short as possible on the help I need. I fell in love with my sons father a year ago or so. We have been together off and on since feb 2007. I was married at the time but seperated.

He proposed to me in New Orleans in Oct 2008.

In Dec 09 he came and got me and the kids to move to TX in Jan 09.

Jan 12 09 my Divorce was final.

I got pregnant on Jan 20 09, well, so the doctor said it was conceived, when I found out on Feb 6 09 that i was pregnant.

Feb 21 09 my kids and I moved back to GA because he had a very big falling out.

He deployed in March 09 and we spoke and argued a lot on the emails and phone while he was gone. like argue then make up the whole time.

He took his r&r to see his son born on Oct 07 09. We had a falling out again in the day after he was born.

When he left we made up and it stayed like that for a while, then in Dec 09 he came back from Iraq for good and everthing was fine until his mother tried to make me feel bad for spending christmas in GA instead of TX. then we had a nother falling out.

he came in Dec 31 09 to spend new years with me and two days later we had a falling out which was my fault because i was so stressed with school work and breastfeeding and it was 12 midnight. i was drained. he left the next day.

so i apologized and we made up. he ask me to come back home to TX and i told him after school is over with my kids i would.

so in Feb 10 i flew to see him and we took family pictures. everything was great. we both cried when we had to depart from one another but i told him i will try to make it back.

in March 2010 i did fly back but it seemed funny, the house smelt funny when we were about to have sex he even smelt funny like fish (another woman's smell). I didnt mention to him but i felt that there was something going on.

Anyway, April 1 10, i was on the road to MD to see my family and we got into by texting. by the time i had got to my mothers house i let him have it and then he told me he was done with me.

5 days later he told me he has someone else. I met the girl on May 27 2010 at his ex wife's house for a cook out. he drove to pick up his son. but the whole time he stood by me, cheers his drink to me and talked to me the whole time.

Anyway I had did a spell, well a prayer, of 3 tall candles one was st jude, the seven sign, candle and one other one but i cant remember. it burned down fast.

So last week the girl was caught in a lie about being a gym manager by his mother. he called me about 2 am to talk about our son. ok his is 10 months old, he is asleep. but when i ask him was he ok, he said no, but i don't want to talk about it. i said ok. he said, i just want to talk about our son and what is he doing and all he has been doing. so I did.

Friday came and a friend of both of ours told me that she throw a party at her house and he did not bring the girl with him nor spoke about her. he brung one of his male friends to the party. She said that he was talking about me a few times in and there but nothing on the girl.

Ok, the sad part is that I didn't know that i was suppose to thank the angels for helping me. i just found out today.

My question is how and what can i get for him to come back to me for good.

He is now single and I dont want him to find anyone else but it is the distance that is worrying me more. although he said he is trying to get stationed in AL, which is 4 hours from me. But I want him to only want me and no one else. Also the ex wife talks to him and tell him to just move on, don't be bothered with me, yet she has been hitting on me too. Yes she is gay. She has always liked me and she has told me lots of times. but she don't want him to be with me either.

Just wondering if it is possible for a spell and what kind i truly need for everything i have typed.

Thank you for your help everyone.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 7:36 pm

Just read another case,
almost-gave-up-suddenly-there-was-a-sign-t3993.html

From starsinthesky7 reply,
Seems there is sth wrong for doing reconciliation spell when the ex lover is having a new gf...

Cos my case is the same, but I have done road opener already. I wonder I should do some healing, or treat him as a new lover to attract him instead of doing reonciliaion.

And what should be seen after using road opener?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 7:41 pm

stars said it very clearly. You cannot get solid results if you block contact with him. It's like all you want to do is dream about him, never actually contact him -- but then you complain that the spells are not working. If you are not strong enough to fight for him despite his new GF, you will not win him through spell-casting on any plane -- physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:01 pm

Thanks Cat,
I am sorry that I am not complain, just I am not sure.
If i go and contact him, is there still any chance to fight him back?
In fact I am trying to contact him.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:04 pm

Ashley wrote:Thanks Cat,
I am sorry that I am not complain, just I am not sure.
If i go and contact him, is there still any chance to fight him back?
In fact I am trying to contact him.

You need to get a reading to find out details about your situation. They will tell you what you should do to get your desired outcome or even if it possible for you to reconcile.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:33 pm

You situation requires a reading. You have a relationship based off of cycles of conflict and reconciliation along with possible infidelity and all of these need to be addressed by examining whether or not magically purusing this line of action would be worth it. A reader can split the divination with consultation so that they can give you advice specifically aimed at helping you acheive your objectives, or they can take on the case themselves.

You can get a reading at www.readersandrootworkers.org

sunflower73 · Unread post by **sunflower73** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:48 pm

thank you, althought that doesn't sound good from what I am reading.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:53 pm

ConjureMan's advice is necessary to filter thorough all of the issues involved as you guys seem to break up and reconcile...I would take the good considering he did step up and take responsibility initially with your child...that alone shows a lot. Good Luck!

sunflower73 · Unread post by **sunflower73** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 9:00 pm

Yes I completel understand wh he meant what he said... As we do go back and forth manil becuase i was still married at teh time. then once i got a divorce and his ex wife came back from korea then it started again, after we were fine for months too. but he is a good man as he take care both of his children. He vallue his children alot just he doesnt no how to relax and enjo what is right in front of him. mabe because he is military and been over to Iraq many times. And becuase i left him and moved back to ga now we are 4 states away. Heck I dont know.lol but I just want to make things right one last time if not I can walk awa if the last time doesnt work.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 9:17 pm

sunflower73...it seems you know what went wrong and take responsibility for your actions. Its a good step...

sunflower73 · Unread post by **sunflower73** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 9:27 pm

Yesand thank ou JW- that was my first step is to own up to my responsibilty and take acknowledgement of my due failure in the relationship. We both brought up the past which made it worst and which it lead to all these arguements,instead of looking at what we had to build on.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 10:02 pm

That is great. I would recommend that you at least start a honey jar. That you CAN start without conflicting with the work. That will help keep him sweet you on.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Aug 29, 2010 10:24 pm

Yeah thats sound advice at this point because your spells were working yet you decided to do all this random stuff like blocking him. So getting a reading would be great to see what you should do at this point.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Mon Aug 30, 2010 12:51 am

Is there anything I can do while waiting?
Cos need to wait for shipping if doing honey jar spell, can i find professional help to set it, will it be faster? I need to send email or there is online system for booking?

My case is long story, but I am too stupid to ask in pieces...

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Aug 30, 2010 1:09 am

I gave a list of recommendations that you can do while you are waiting above. Yes you can find a professional to set it for you...and it will not necessarily yield you faster results.

www.readersandrootworkers.org

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Mon Aug 30, 2010 1:30 am

Faster I mean the time to start the spell. I don't know how to I need to be queue for it. Will that be faster then I buy the kit and do myself?

emmm....found that my english is poor to explain myself clearly / . \ sorry

golda · Unread post by **golda** » Mon Aug 30, 2010 6:12 am

Thanks everyone for the posts and encouragement on this thread. It's been a year since I wrote this and I learned so much from this community

I realize that I don't want him anymore in my life and did a cut & clear. He is simply a past to me now.

This experience serve as a lesson to me. I learned a lot. I learned to be more brave and prepared. We are all learning here. Im very grateful for this community. Golda

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Mon Aug 30, 2010 8:16 am

if the rootworker happens to be free to take your case, it can happen a bit faster than if you purchase then wait for the spell kit.

parisshadow · Unread post by **parisshadow** » Mon Aug 30, 2010 11:22 am

I started a honey jar before anything else and continue to work on it. That's why i think he isnt angry (like the intranquil said he would come). We went on a date last night to Disneyland and he was really sweet and affectionate, something he had not been in a long time. We had a great time and things are running smoothly. I will continue working my honey jar and now maybe some chupparosa supplies and see what my rootworker recommends. Thanks!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Aug 31, 2010 11:58 am

Why would you think it a bad idea to get the nation sack string "so early in the game"??? If you knew how many women call me crying that they never got even his hair and now he's gone over to some other woman and she is feeding him menstrual blood and has his come on a string, you'd know that success comes to those who work quickly. If you care enough about yourself to only have sex with those you like and you like him enough to have sex with him, then why not make a little mojo hand on him?

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Tue Aug 31, 2010 1:09 pm

I agree with Catherine, I had to wait weeks to get the string for my sack, I wish I would have thought ahead! and now i try to collect as much of personal concerns as possible, just so i can always be prepared

Brave23Soul · Unread post by **Brave23Soul** » Wed Sep 01, 2010 5:24 pm

Ok, i've been with this girl for 5 & 1/2 years, we broke up in July. But we still have contact.

A non-AIRR reader told me we'd definitely be back, there's no doubt at all. He said about 2-3weeks we'd be back together. & There's alot of love between me & her. So I purchased candles to remove the boy in the picture who's ruining my relationship.

Is there any other candles or anything I could get that would help bring her back & keep her with me, as well as not having the strength to ever leave me again!? & keeping people or anything from coming in between us?

How long does it take for results to show? I really love this girl with everything in me.

My first candle went out 2days ago, so before it went out i asked to show me signs that we would be back together. I keep seeing the numbers 9 & 27, 27 is the day of her birthday. could that be a sign that we'll be back together Sept. 27?

I'm just a lost mess without her

Please help me.. i miss being with her and just want us back together and happy as ever ( the both of us ).