Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Apr 01, 2010 9:38 am

Light an Adam and Eve candle or dress a white candle with Adam and Eve oil. Say "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Genesis 2:24 (NIV)

sunseer88 · Unread post by **sunseer88** » Fri Apr 02, 2010 8:47 pm

Question about this.. wouldn't the apple begin to rot eventually? Sorry if this is a silly question.. I am not a plant expert...lol

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Sat Apr 03, 2010 6:05 am

It's not so much that it rots (as in things that are buried for that purpose), but that it feeds the fern through the roots-- sending the love out through the leaves of the fern.

k77084 · Unread post by **k77084** » Thu May 06, 2010 4:54 pm

Hi All-
Could use some advice or opinions about how to deal with a really mean and spiteful person. He is someone in the family by marriage. He currently slanders his wifes name all over town, telling them she had an affair when in fact he is the one having the various affairs, he tells people that she will not let him see their child when in fact she waits every week for the last 7 months to see if he will show, he is not paying anything for the child and furthermore wrote an e-mail stating he was unavailable to see his child until 2010. Today his ex-wife found out some of the things being said, this really put her over the line as she says nothing bad about him. There are a lot of other things that have transpired, causing her to lose her job by sending slanderous letters to her employer etc...

At first my thought would be reversing to give back to him what he dishes out. But as each thing comes up this man truly is heatless, he has no boundaries for what he will do to her. He recently has become successful in his business, one she started and worked at and he weaseled her out of the company. He met one good contact and now his business is soaring, he flaunts other woman everywhere while not providing anything to the child, she has not asked him for anything for herself only the child. I have watched this family member suffer and still continue on trying to do the best she can on now limited means.

I have a slew of thoughts on this one and thought perhaps I am too close to this situation to be a sound judge of how this should be handled. Any possible suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
~Kiana

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu May 06, 2010 5:03 pm

I would uncross, and cleanse her. This can be done through an egg cleansing, or making a doll and bathing her in the 13 herb bath. Then I would do some fiery wall of protection work on her to protect her.

For him, I would put him in a mirror box so that all the things he says goes back to him and burn a reversing candle on top of the candle. You can do some stop gossip work on him as well.

sweetie · Unread post by **sweetie** » Thu May 06, 2010 5:34 pm

I second the uncrossing and cleansing. Also she should check into child support through whatever agency handles it in her state, if he's not paying the child's rent and contributing they can garnish him (even if they are not divorce or if he's self employed.)

Stop Gossip would also be a good one, to stop his words from slandering her (and hopefully to keep him from saying mean things about her when the child is within earshot.) A doll baby of him with it's mouth shoved full of peppers and sewed shut would be particularly appropriate.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu May 06, 2010 11:14 pm

Stop Gossip is the first thing you want to do on him to still his lying tongue, but I'd take this a step further and take it to the graveyard with an ancestor you could call upon. Combine Stop Gossip and Court Case work to have custody issues turn against him while including the dirt from the grave of a family member in the work and also disposing of the remains at that same grave. This will help turn the tides against him and your ancestor will ensure he gets his just desserts.

With her you want to cleanse, heal, and definately put up a FWP.

Theclassymami · Unread post by **Theclassymami** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 2:56 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. The first two years were great, until i met his mother last year.That's when all h*LL broke lose. I lost my job, we lost out apartment, we lost everything. She had given him and i some money to get a new apartment. But we ended up getting scammed out of it on craigslist. Then she claimed they she had let us borrow the money.

Everything was fine between him and i . Then all of a sudden his mother became to more in our lives. Demanding things go her way. She would act as if she likes me, but i know deep she doesn't she makes slick remarks to about my weight and how i look.(and i look 1000 times better than her) I feel she is jealous of me and she really does not want me to be with her son. He's a momma's boy and he goes along with her crap.

Her and i ended up having this big blow up back in feb.and i havent had contact with his mother since.

So my question is how do i get his mother on my good side.i'm not a big fan of hers. I just need her to stop talking bad about me to my boyfriend. I feel what she says is blocking alot of good times for him and i.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 3:15 pm

Well you better start liking her because guess who is O-U-T if this continues...yep YOU. Hes a momma's boy, and he is not going to choose you over his mom any day of the year so you might as well befriend her.

I would personally do stop gossip work on her.

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

And a honey jar on her to help her become your friend. Herbs good for friendship are cloves, fig, and balms of gilead. I would burn a yellow candle on the top of it. I would put some attraction oil on it, so this can sweeten her up a bit.

So i wouldnt argue with her because eventually he is going to to start listening to his mom, and you will be gone. This will just create another problem.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 12:26 am

Stop Gossip is one way of working the conjure, but I think the honey jar should be the main focus. If you can get her on your side you can really cement your relationship.

Work the honey jar with the addition of cloves as mentioned by Starsinthesky for they are great for stop gossip work too. Now I would also send her a letter dressed with Stop Gossip powder to get her to stop talking ill about you. This type of restricting of the negative behaviour while encouraging her come closer to you can work rather well.

tiapita · Unread post by **tiapita** » Sun Jul 11, 2010 8:13 am

I have always gotten along with my in-laws. In fact I respect them a great deal. But lately things have changed. I don't feel comfortable around them. I feel left out and feel as I don't belong. I also feel that they maybe talking behind my back. Is there anything I can use that will help.

Thank you!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jul 11, 2010 10:25 am

I would get a reading, and see what is really going on (if at all) behind the scenes. This way you are getting to the real core of the issue.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:19 pm

Good advice. A honey jar couldn't hurt anything in the meantime - put you and them in there together.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jul 11, 2010 11:02 pm

Definately get a reading to find out why the sudden change. Start getting together a honey jar to sweeten things up and just to be safe keep yourself protected, praying a Psalms daily while wearing Protection oil as a scent may be a good idea until the reading indicates otherwise.

zee_2 · Unread post by **zee_2** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:44 am

I asked aoruund my hoodoo friends but could nt get a conclusive answer. Relations are not bad, but could do with a lot of improvement. would a honey jar be the best way? since this is not for any specific purpose other than to sweeten mom to me? can i cook anything that would sweeten her , as she comes to visit us hopefully in a few days?
would appreciate any and all advice and ideas...thanks in advance ..this means a lot to me!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:11 pm

I would simply put her in a honey jar with blood root, balms of gilead, basil, pennyroyal and lavender. You can burn a pink, or white candle on the honey jar along with some reconciliation oil, or powder if you have some. You could cook with basil to help bring on happy family relations between you and your mother.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:43 pm

Burn a bit of honey and cinnamon on a charcoal disk and carry it around your living space shortly before her visit. It lays down a kind, smooth and uplifting vibration in the home.

zee_2 · Unread post by **zee_2** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 2:10 pm

hi cabrielleni,
thx for the response...its funny you should mention that honey and cinnamon..just today someone mentioned that i should take these 2 things to lose weight, so i just got done grinding some cinnamon and got a new bottle of honey...so i just got another use for all that stuff!!

hi starsinthesky,
i will get going on the honey jar asap...

what powders etc should i add to it? i have some personal effects, pictures, what should i add...oils or powders etc..
tia!!!
Z

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 4:58 pm

I specified in the previous post what oils and powders you should use.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Jul 19, 2010 8:48 pm

I personally would work with Peaceful Home products and Peace Water. Since you haven't actually had a falling out reconciliation products may not exactly be called for. Instead you want to change the atmosphere while also helping the relationship. Keep the suggestions given for they are great, but work with Peace Water and Peaceful Home.

zee_2 · Unread post by **zee_2** » Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:56 am

Thx Cm,
So would a honey jar with our personal effects, and containing peaceful home oil etc be the way to go..i dont really have any of the herbs stars mentioned and may not have the time to get them in time for mom's visit...and u are right there is no reconcialition called for as such, but we could certainly do with a very healthy dose of sweetening, also the honey and cinnamon on the charcoal disc..thx
Z

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:50 pm

Actually I'd keep them separate and since you're looking at a quick operation, I'd make sure I cleanse the apartment then burn dressed candles with Peaceful Home oil, then the honey + cinnamon shortly before her visit to sweeten the home. Then I'd put her name and personal concern in a bowl of honey or sugar, light a pink candle dressed with honey and pray over the set up to sweeten her. Leave the candle burning while she's around.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:38 pm

Well, the title of the thread has mend in it, that is why I thought reconciliation is needed. The herbs I mentioned are good for strengthening family bonding, relationships, and helps you to get a long. However, you can get away with just having honey and cinnamon. In addition, you can add rose petals as well.

chicaplastica · Unread post by **chicaplastica** » Mon Aug 02, 2010 1:04 pm

My mother was killed at a hospital we don't know what she died of. My father died months later and his second family forbid us from coming to the service, we don't know where he is buried.

All the stress and pain has driven my 4 siblings and I apart. We are now not talking.

Can I make a honey jar to bring us back together? if so, should I buy one that is already made or can I make on from home with herbs?
I already painted a couple of jars in pink and blue. I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters, I have the candles, I have little hearts, but I don't know what else to put in it as additive

I also did an herbal smoking in my caldrum with spices to repel negativity and to bring forth love and protection.

I'm new to making jars, so if you could explain what to do would be helpful.

thanks,
chica

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Aug 02, 2010 1:34 pm

The LM Reconciliation honey jar kit would be perfect for this.

morrigan857 · Unread post by **morrigan857** » Mon Aug 09, 2010 10:53 pm

Hi,

I just signed up. I took the course back in Feb 2007 and I really have not kept up on the rootwork or magic due to back surgery and cancer.

I need advice on dealing with a reversal spell on my mother. I just found out that she has held me in jealousy and envy since I was 12 and now I am 56. My mom is 80 and just lost her dog and that just flipped a switch and all hell has broken lose. I have done a honey jar spell a long time ago but nothing is going to sweeten her up. We have never gotten along for as long as I can remember. She hates the fact that my father's wife and I get along like best friends.

My husband and I have been under prolonged attacks with her but I did not realize where all the bad energy has been coming from till she called my dad. She has been into all issues. I am not sure what double action reversing candle or candles to use. I am not after revenge. We need to get our live back. There is depression, illness, hatred, and a lack of luck, happiness, and love in our house.......

I appreciate any and all advice.

Morrigan857

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Mon Aug 09, 2010 10:56 pm

First and foremost, get a reading to determine exactly what she's doing or if she's hired a professional to cast anything against you and your husband. Someone at AIRR can determine exactly what's she's been throwing your way.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

Next, I would do a reversal with a doll baby in a mirror box to send back all the bad stuff she's been sending your way. After that, you need to start cleaning up yourself and your home. If you haven't been keeping up on your cleansing and protection, I think a 13 herb bath for 13 days is in order. During the days you're doing your baths, you should also clean your home with Chinese Wash from top to bottom.

Since you don't want to go through this again, protect yourself ASAP. You can work either a Fiery Wall of Protection kit for yourself and your loved ones or simply petition Saint Michael for the same thing. You're also going to want to look into protection for your home.

Good luck!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Aug 09, 2010 11:05 pm

Hi, i don't recognize you by your forum-name -- but i'm glad you're back in touch and i hope your health is stable now. Did you actually graduate from the course or just drop out? If you never finished it, i sure hope that you do because i really get my happiness from graduating students, not from selling courses.

Now, to your situation with your mother -- i would recommend that you do a complete house cleansing, as described in the course book. Follow that with protection oils applied to the four corners of each window and door, with a short prayer at each one. Once that is all in place, you can proceed to a double action candle. I would use the white and black, and i would butt the light, as described in the course, carve her name in the black area going away from yours and yours in the white area, and dress it both ways with reversing oil. Burn it on top of a photo of her which is face down on a mirror.

Good luck to you!

morrigan857 · Unread post by **morrigan857** » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:03 am

thank you both for the advice. I graduated from the class. From my message you can see I have been down and dealing a lot with my mother and illness. I am really glad I called LMCC and was told to sign up to the forum for my question. I will keep in touch and try to get computer time from my husband whom is always on the cowboy shooters website.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:05 am

Ah, a graduate! I love you!

hoodoohottie · Unread post by **hoodoohottie** » Fri Sep 10, 2010 8:27 pm

Hi,
I'm living with my grandma for a semester while i attend college and I really want to start practicing my own magic and doing spells at home but it is impossible with my grandma here because she gives me no privacy. Her sister lives about 30 seconds down the street and I want to get her to move in with her and leave me the house to myself just for a couple of months so I can be free to do my spells in peace. I just need her out of my hair for a little while but I still want her to continue paying the bills of course and giving me a ride to school. Any suggestions??

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Sep 11, 2010 8:05 am

vb052010, sounds like your Grandma is very loving and generous helping you so that you would not have to fork out money for rent and utilites-- and focus on your school work. It is a BLESSING that she opened up HER home to you, while you devote time to your studies. Certainly, your question is not involving a spell to get your Grandmother out of her own home to satisfy your needs...

Depending on what the real focus of your magical work is:
There are many LuckyMojo items to order you can carry with you, also the LM Oils and if you need candles lit and can not order the Vigils from Lucky Mojo to light in the home (due to privacy issues...) Lucky mojo can provide the service of lighting lights for you. If the spells are more complicated, you will want to seek out the assisstance of an AIRR rootworker and Reader who can do this service for you.

Lastly, I'd personally recommend LM Money House Blessing-- as something NICE you can do--- to reciprocate: http://www.luckymojo.com/moneyhouseblessing.html
--- for a peace and prosperity in the home, so she too has peace and money.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Sep 11, 2010 8:14 am

Has Grandma actually forbidden you to burn candles? Many people burn them for non-magical reasons. I suggest the 4" candles because they burn down in 2-4 hours, and it would be easy to do a spell while she is asleep. You can also carry a mojo, take a bath with bath crystals, or anoint yourself with oils, dust yourself with powders, etc. without arousing too much suspicion. You do not need a lot of space or equipment to practice hoodoo.

Most people do not live alone, include magical practitioners of every type. We find ways to work around our situations.

chicaplastica · Unread post by **chicaplastica** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:14 pm

thank you, i thought about my post and the fact that i'm trying to put the ingredients together.

I realised that i came here for help because i can't do this by myself.

whatever is going on around us is greater than any magic i may now. So i'm getting myself out of the way and will take the help and advise that the members and owners of this site have to offer me.

I will purchase all the kits that are charged with the necessary energy which will make my work more potent.

Thank you, Devi,

chica

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:16 pm

chica -- you will want everyone in ONE honey jar, not separate jars for each sibling. You will want, if possible, something of each party as well. Further, if you want to call me and schedule a rootwork consultation, i can give you some simple spells over the phone that you can make and do for yourself. A half-hour consultation should be sufficient. You will not need a reading (unless you want one), just the magical coaching session.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 20, 2010 10:09 pm

I would definitely take Cat up on the advice for the rootwork consultation...it can do wonders for your situation,and make you more confident in your abilities to do rootwork correctly.

darkdracul · Unread post by **darkdracul** » Fri Oct 15, 2010 5:06 pm

I have a problem
I want to influence my girlfriend's mother,
because she hates me and does not let her and I are together.

What can I do to make her accept me and let me be with my girlfriend?

I heard about "bend over spell" and "sweetener spell" how can i do that?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Oct 15, 2010 5:15 pm

Start with the honey jar spell to sweeten her to you. Read about them here (http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html), there are several varieties that you may find effective to other life situations.

Since you are new to the forum, I encourage you to read about Hoodoo in Theory and Practice (http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html), and online book written by the owner of Lucky Mojo, cat yronwode.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Oct 15, 2010 7:04 pm

I second this thought... and welcome to the forum!
The Bend Over Spell-- well you decide... seems a bit harsh:
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html
The honey jar would most certainly help you in "your sweetening needs"

Good luck and let us know how you are!

choice01 · Unread post by **choice01** » Sat Nov 06, 2010 3:04 pm

My in laws cause problems in my marriage. I want my husband to stop dealing with them. they are the in laws that do not matter(cousins). I want him to stop dealing with them altogether. What can I do?

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sat Nov 06, 2010 4:05 pm

Hi there,
You say that they do not matter, but if they matter to your husband then they matter and getting rid of them won't be easy. I would suggest a reading with one of the readers at www.readersandrootworkers.org--we would be able to tell you if getting rid of them is possible and if so, what the best means of attack would be. On the other hand, if getting rid of them proves unlikely then there are a variety of other tricks that can help everyone get along and put them in their rightful place.

good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Nov 06, 2010 7:28 pm

I agree with Miss Bri, but isn't the in-laws your husbands family? ...and your in-laws? anyway, please follow Miss Bri's advice on the reading.

Africanqueen · Unread post by **Africanqueen** » Sun Dec 05, 2010 11:27 am

my mother inlaw has been staying with us for quite some time now and it has been hell

, so she decides to go to her place for xmas my husband decides to tag along and will spend three weeks.

we had discused what the kids wanted for xmas and was gonna contribute in getting them. But to my suprise he left without giving me his own part of the money. When i asked him he said he didn't have any. He went out and got all sorts of things for his mom and his younger ones and friends.

To make matters worst it has been a week since he left and not cared to call me and the kids.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Dec 05, 2010 1:02 pm

Africanqueen have you had a reading regarding the situation with your mother-in-law? I remember you writing about it in other posts. It seems like a cultural issue and it has to be dealt with with that in mind.

Africanqueen · Unread post by **Africanqueen** » Sun Dec 05, 2010 4:43 pm

Thanks for that, but it is not a cultural issue you don't favour your mother over you wife and kids in any culture it's just selffishness and jealousy she never had a good marriage her husband married some other woman and left her so she does not want others to be happy she is always causing trouble i will get a reading and know what to do

luckyboi317 · Unread post by **luckyboi317** » Mon Dec 06, 2010 6:30 pm

? Wait he's your husband right? Do you have a joint checking account? Take his half out of the money he puts into said joint account if you do. Then you need to call him and inform him that while you hope he's had a nice time visiting with his mother, its time for him to come home, don't get upset don't argue with. Speak to him in a calm firm tone as one would a child, no nagging, no hesitance. Don't coddle him, don't debate it with him, you are his wife and you are telling him to come home now.

I would strongly suggest you buy him a non refundable plane ticket with his money for him to come home, attach a little note saying "I'm glad you had a good time with you mother, I look forward to seeing when you get home, I need you to get back to your responsibilities play time is done." If he tries to argue with you or get upset or make excuses, simply tell him "You are a man, not your mother's little boy and I have responsibilities for you here that you need to attend to, I'll see you at the airport when you get home, I have to go now I've got work to do around the house." then hang up the phone and don't answer it again for several hours. I strongly suggest that you then actually use this time to get as much of your decorating and other work done around the house as quickly and as much as possible, there needs to be an overwhelming impact when he gets home where he is simply astounded by the immense amount of work you've done since he's been gone and he can feel the extreme amount of guilt that he deserves that he's left you to do everything by yourself, but you need to not even acknowledge it act as if this is just run of the mill stuff you doing you part and keeping your responsibilities then hand him a list of all the chores you have for him to do, but make sure that you have a list twice as long (some of it can already be things you've done while waiting for him to get home) and then follow up on your list and be as merry and cheerful about getting it all done as much as possible.

If he doesn't do his part, don't get angry or yell or scream, just get very quiet, shake your head just a tiny bit, sigh, mist up a little and say well I guess I'll have to do it then, and don't say anything about it again. He will either then pitch in and finish the rest of the chores on the list and be to busy to even think about his mommy or he will feel to guilty to ever take her side in anything ever again or leave you like that again, and to maintain you just remember to do this for every single holiday imaginable. The key to having the perfect home life is to be your own shining example of the absolute perfect wife, and simply expect him to be the perfect husband and when he doesn't lay on the just a tiny seed of guilt which will grow to consume him while he watches you working hard to make his life better.

There's a reason why martyrs become gods.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Dec 06, 2010 6:49 pm

Africanqueen, i have merged your two threads about your mother-in-law together, since the material is continuation of what you posted earlier in the year.

Now, back then, folks gave you some ideas of what kinds of spell-work to do. Did you do it? Are you following other threads here about family issues and tried any of the tricks given there.

Good luck.

simplyfree · Unread post by **simplyfree** » Fri Mar 04, 2011 4:39 pm

Greeting everyone, I am having allot of problems with my mom and would like to know how I can soften her up or even soften myself towards her (if possible) someone said i can put her in a jar of honey but i don't know what that even means .... please help!

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Sat Mar 05, 2011 3:16 am

Hello Simplefree.

What you are probably referring to is a "sweetening" spell. Which would consists of a HONEY JAR. [I'll forward you the link at the end.] It depends on what you need her to do. I would possibly work with ESSENCE OF BENDOVER work to have her under your control, but then you may also want a reading from an AIRR for advice of what would help you best. I wish you the best of luck.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

goodluck with your work and research.

trish76 · Unread post by **trish76** » Sat Mar 05, 2011 6:14 am

Hello simplyfree,

The honey jar suggestion is an excellent one. It is definitely meant to sweeten her up and in turn soften her heart towards you.

I can't however agree with the Essence of Bendover suggestion, as to me it doesn't seem to be the ideal product if what you simply want to do is to have a better and closer relationship with your mother. Honey jars are for sweetening and as stated Essence of Bendover is a controlling product, and I don't feel this is going to be a good combination to use for this type of situation. Personally i would stick with the honey jar.

Of course as we don't know the specifics of your situation, getting the reading is beneficial as they would provide magical suggestions tailored to your particular needs.

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Sat Mar 05, 2011 7:23 am

I agree with Trish - EOB is a bit harsh - if you live with your Mom - peaceful home and honey jar might be a good combo but getting a reading in advance could help you figure out which types of work would be best for your situtation - Good Luck!

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Sat Mar 05, 2011 8:14 am

Hi Simplyfree,
I would suggest that you buy a Peaceful Home honey jar mini kit. It comes with complete instructions and all the supplies needed for the spell. You might also want to order extra candles for working the jar. This would be very well suited to accomplish what you want.
You can find it here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

If you want to read about Peaceful Home Spiritual Supplies, you can't check out this page:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
On that page there are more Peaceful Home Supplies, that you could work with in addition to the honeyjar.

I would not use Essence of Bendover.

Good Luck to you.

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Sat Mar 05, 2011 12:51 pm

trish76

I see perfectly what your describing. I apologize for the comment I POSTED. Thanks for the clarification Trish76!

simplyfree · Unread post by **simplyfree** » Wed Mar 09, 2011 6:04 pm

Thanks everyone i will definitely get a reading and i am considering doing the honey jar spell

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Mon Mar 21, 2011 7:47 am

Hey All.

So I worked a Peaceful Home spell. I dressed and blessed a blue candle, wrote my petition out and laid peaceful home powder around their house.

The first few days I saw improvement, everything seemed calmer, actually my BF and his son - are still pretty calm and peaceful.
But - Mother in Law to Be is still VERY negative, complaining and nagging ALL of Us. She understands the situation is not going to change (them living with her) until school ends BUT she's very resentful, complains about everything and nothing my BF or his son try to do makes her happy.

Examples of her negativity - Saturday - we went to a family party, in the same building and she complained about 5 times, why were we drinking and when are we coming home. Sunday morning, I say good morning - the first thing out of her mouth is a complaint about the laundry basket and asking me if I was going to cook for my BF and his son, because she is not a maid, etc. etc.

Before I place another order, I was wondering what suggestions would you all have that might help supplement the Peaceful Home work?

She has alot of health issues, and I think some healing work needs to be done. Also maybe some communication work?

Do you think I should get a reading on her? To see what work would be best?

Thanks for your help in advance!

J

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:11 am

Healing and blessing work for your boyfriend's mother is a good idea. Also, if she is under any economic stress, prosperity work for all of you.

But just to get the point across, way down below the subconscious where magic operates, do some commanding work. Licorice root (which can be used as a tea to feed her) and calamus root (which is NOT edible) are the big guns. You could combine controlling herbs with friendly herbs (such as cloves) in a honey jar (or have a rootworker do so, if you don't have enough privacy to do it yourself).

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:17 am

Yes I do...also some cleansing work to remove negativity which may help in the meantime...or you can work a doll baby on her specifically. Use Chinese Wash (http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html) and wash your home back to front and throw the wash water at the crossroad. I would follow this ritual with the Peaceful Home Spell kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-peaceful-home.html)

angelael · Unread post by **angelael** » Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:41 am

You could also sprinkle some Peace Water around the house. http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:37 am

Thanks everyone!

Cleansing her space will be difficult - I don't live there, just stay over when I am visiting my boyfriend.

Question about the Honey jar for her - she's already sweet to me most of the time, is this where I should add a more "controlling element"?

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Mon Mar 21, 2011 4:32 pm

Update - I've ordered a reading - will let you all know how it goes