Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 6:40 pm

You would only pay the saints if they granted your petition. Since the divorce wasn't dismissed, your petition wasn't granted. Remember that movement is only part of the work, it's not the end result.

As far as what to do with the personal concerns you collected, you could use them in reconciliation/return to me spells if you plan on doing those. You could also use them to make a doll baby. The possibilities are endless really.

I'd advise you to get a reading and consult a rootworker from AIRR to help you begin this process as reconciliation work can be long and arduous. Good luck.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 7:52 pm

While Divorce has been mentioned by my husband a couple of times. The last time a month ago. He hasn't obtained the papers ( or at least hasn't mentioned of any papers to me) nothing has been signed or filed.

Should I take steps now with "stop divorce" or should I stay focused on reconciliation and bringing him home?

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 7:55 pm

I also meant to say Good Luck in rejoining with the man you love Tammyw.

The personal concerns you collected are so very valuable in your work! I have heard many getting fantastic results from poppets.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 8:04 pm

Focus on the reconciliation...but as you mentioned consider your responsibility here, what you should change to keep what you want. Good Luck!

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 9:08 pm

Definitly start asap I didn't get introduced to hoodoo until months after he filed. I wish I knew then what I know now. When I first started and seen a little movement I stopped working now I realize you need to keep it up until you get exactly what you want. Now after being introduced to hoodoo if I do get my husband back I would probably keep on working even if it's working a honey jar on a Friday just to keep things good. Also the products smell and feel so amazing now that I am learning so many new tricks from this site the possibilities are endless. My now ex and I used to take baths all the time with bath bombs that had flower petels so he wouldn't know the difference now if I happened to be using lucky mojo baths to cleanse him. I always burned a diffuser he now wouldn't think anything of it if those tea lights were pink or red and the oil you were burning were lucky mojo. Just remove the label if you are laying tricks. Do start working now. If he mentions divorce he means it I didn't take him seriously he kept saying our marriage is suffering but he never took action either. Suggest counseling to him. If we get back together I think counseling is great to just check in with each other and make sure everyones needs are being met. Wish you luck. And I am going to research poppets for my case.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 9:32 pm

I have had many years of experience with spell casting, But am just submerging myself to hoodoo ways. It is all very similar to what I have always done but with a much more practical manner that I adore.

He actually suggested counseling while he was still living here. He only attended two meetings. He later told me it was to fix me, not him. *shakes head* to put it lightly he has lost control of himself and isn't sure of who he really wants to be at the moment. It has been near three months since he lived here with me and the kids. But in the last week since I started the honey jar he seems a bit more his old self and is making more efforts in being around. I am waiting for my order for cast off evil and reconciliation spell kits to arrive. When I get him home, individual and marriage counseling is a DEFINITE MUST!

I have always been open with my "witchy" ways lol so doing spells and utilizing components out in the open has never been a problem for me. Though there are a few things in this case he need not know about

When secrecy is necessary to complete my work without additional obstacles, Well lets just say a girls got to do what a girls got to do

Though I want him to return home, it is probably best for the work I need to accomplish that he is not here to put up barriers against it. He is not a practitioner but he is naturally good at shielding let me tell you.

I am glad to hear your considering the Poppets of Doll baby. You are very lucky to have the amount personal effects of his that you do at your disposal.

Good luck and Blessings to your work

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 10:17 pm

Sounds so much like my situation minus the kids. I am the one that needed the help. He I don't think will ever realize his faults his mom and sister adore him. I do to but after being with him for ten years I'm not afraid to tell him where he can go in many choice words so during this time apart I am also going to do work on myself. And much healing for both of us. We went tit for tat during all this so in order to even think we can again be together we have to be able to heal and trust it won't happen a second time around. All my candles show the haze of resistance. Conjureman made a great post for restistant cases.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 10:43 pm

In cases such as this All parties need help, time and healing to recover.

I am lucky, All of the work I have done thus far has had promising results. There is still much to do, but I'm up for it

Stay strong. I hope you are able to find some peace of mind and feel better soon.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 11:44 am

Honey Jar update. While he is still putting more efforts to being here and defiantly has "sweetened up" to me. I can sense his resistance in moving forward more. Completely understandable considering our past circumstances. As well as considering his current alcohol and possible continued drug use. While the drug problem will be an ongoing struggle, He has not at all been acting as if he has been using. Which gives me a sense of relief. There are still many hurdles to jump over. But then this is life. There will always be an obstacle to overcome and to learn from. What matters is how we choose to rise to the occasion.

While I had been given a reading by a reputable person in the recent past, since I was accepted to the AIRR Pro Bono fund I am very much looking forward to my reading with Miss Cat in a couple of days to hear her recommendations and opinion of my situation. There is so much in my life that needs help and healing at the moment, I am so very grateful of the assistance. Perhaps we can find out the best route to get through the shield my husband has put up, as well as gain better balance for myself and our children.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 12:50 pm

Well sounds like you re really good hands there. And I hope things do work out for you and your children.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 2:28 pm

Thank you starsinthesky7. I know things will get better for us soon.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 3:45 pm

I got divorced yesterday but had a good conversation and hug and kiss from my now ex husband. While we were living together he changed the locks on his room. When I was there this past week I tried to pick the lock and I guess I broke it cause he just called me asking what I did cause he can't get in. He said I just took two steps back because he was hopeful after our convo at the courthouse now not so much. I have my honey jars and am going to make doll out of the concerns I got. What can I do to make him feel secure about beginning a relationship again? Do I keep sweetening with the jars and for the doll should I use cohersive and love herbs? He is resisting alot of my work so I am going to do spell conjureman posted a few days ago. Any ideas what I should do?!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:08 pm

Tammyw,

Feel free to keep this with your previous posts as its easier to understand your story, and follow it. I am sure a moderator can bring this to one thread so that it can be easier for those in the future that read this to follow it for their own situations.

And I agree with him...you took two steps back. Why are you picking his lock? Seriously, I think you need to assess the risk of things before you do them. Like we have all said before you NEED to get a READING, and I recommend that you hand this off to a professional so that someone can help guide you in what you need to do to him.

Conjureman's spell is great. However, in this case, YOU are instigating the resistance. You keep doing things to make him become resistant. Its like when someone breaks up with someone. The target wishes for the other person not to call...yet someone keeps calling and calling or stalking them. I mean this is similar you keep doing things such as showing up to his friend's house, and now picking his lock. How did you expect the man to react? I mean hes not a fool...he obviously knew you did something. And to me the issue in the relationship is partly YOU. This behavior is ridiculous, and if you keep it up this man is probably not going to talk to you again. So I advise you to stop with this crap, and perhaps it will lower his resistance. But to be honest theres more going on than resistance if that is even what it is.

Again, you need to get a reading...you need to hire a rootworker and hand this off to someone else if there is possibility to reconciling this situation. You are the cause of this situation getting worse and worse by doing certain behavior.

http://www.readersandrootworker.org. You need to consult a rootworker.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:26 pm

I agree I haven't made the best decisions lately give the circumstances. I tried to pick the lock because I was packing my stuff to move to a different state and I had some things in there. I gave gotten several readings which seems hopeful. I now can't afford to get another at this time I have $40 to my name but I know I can afford to order some lm herbs with what I have left. I'm willing to spend my last dime.

Unread post by **preppieroots** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:33 pm

Hi Tammy,

A 10 minute reading only costs $10. It would be a much wiser use of the little money you have left to get an unbiased look at whether or not you should spend any more money buying LM products to help this situation. And the 10 min. readings are usually much more readily available than longer ones, I got a reading from Cat herself with only a day's wait because I chose a 10 minute one rather than a longer one. The reading helped me immensely, I would still be floundering if I had not gotten it.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:52 pm

You are willing to spend your last dime on purchasing things that may not help your situation? I agree with preppieroots. It would be a wiser investment to get a 10 minute reading. Actually it would be wiser to keep the $40 bucks, and move on from this situation and build yourself back up again BEFORE tackling this problem. If not you might be left without a whole lot more if you do not take care of yourself FIRST.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 5:33 pm

Get a reading, leave him be, do your spell work and wait for him to come to you. I know how hard it is to not try and physically change the situation. Right now If you love him you must show him that you RESPECT him. If he wants his space show him you care enough to give that to him even though it is hard for you to do so.This will show him that you respect his feelings and choices.Picking the lock to his room regardless of the reason shows him (whether it be true or not) that not only do you not respect him but that you don't trust him. How would you feel if he had done that to you?

Take a deep breath and try to have patience. Some moments are more difficult then others to keep your mind from racing. Focus on your goals. This will help you to feel more in control of yourself and the situation.

Unread post by **corazon** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 5:34 pm

great advice as always starsinthesky..

Tammy, I hope you listen and get that reading and I hope it opens your eyes and helps you out. I wish nothing but happiness and healing for you.

Good luck!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 6:21 pm

I know its hard advice Tammyw but you must find the will and step back. Take some healing baths, tranquility, I find the 13 herb bath does wonders, it removes a lot of negativity. When you are emotionally charged this way, it doesnt help matters. You will be in our prayers. Get the reading and follow the advice given.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 7:22 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:You are willing to spend your last dime on purchasing things that may not help your situation? I agree with preppieroots. It would be a wiser investment to get a 10 minute reading. Actually it would be wiser to keep the $40 bucks, and move on from this situation and build yourself back up again BEFORE tackling this problem. If not you might be left without a whole lot more if you do not take care of yourself FIRST.

I think this is actually the best advise. You shouldn't sacrifice your own well being for this situation. Spending your last dime isn't going to show the universe that you're uber committed. You don't have to put yourself through hell to get results. You need to be in a good place to do good work. You're not there right now. Take time out and work on getting into the correct frame of mind. Do some cleansing, healing and money drawing work if you have to.

As I've stated before, reconciliation work is difficult. A lot of that difficultly can actually come from the person doing the reconciliation work. If you're constantly doing things to derail your own work, you're not going to see results. Resist the urge to call your ex, go through his things, check up on him, etc. Doing things like that is only going to drive you crazy and make you look crazy when someone finds out (and someone almost always does). It's not going to stop him from moving on or meeting someone else. In fact, nutty behavior like that will only reinforce his feelings to pull away.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:33 pm

Stars, thanks for alerting me to the fact that all these separate threads were continuations of one situation with tammyw. I have bundled them, as you sugegsted.

Folks, if you start a thread about your situation and cfome back to update it -- PLEASE STAY IN YOUR ORIGINAL THREAD> We cannot follow your story if you don't keep it togeter -- it just breaks down into a series of scattered requests.

Tammyw -- you've already been told the hard truth by others, but i will tell you again: There is nothing more foolish than a woman who works hard with her mind, body, soul, and spirit to get man back, who gets him to the place where he is hugging and kissing, even while going through with the divorce -- and then blows the whole deal by picking his lock and getting caught. That's foolish. You may never regain the ground you lost on that one. It may just be time to walk away.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:39 pm

Had my reading with Miss Cat today.

she is an amazing women.

I will be working with Deacon Millett in the near future for assistance with some of the spells needed for my situation. I will be working LM spell kits at home as well, Such as Cast off Evil, Reconciliation. There are several other products and spells needed to move this along but with the help of loved ones and wise ones

I am on the right track.

I will post updates on our progress. Thus far the Honey Jar is still working quite well. Though, as Cat brought to my attention that a more physical ( specifically sexual )connection needs to be reunited. Seeing as though I have been without for near three months now, I look forward to this with great zealous! I am strong in my morals and refuse to do anything that would even possibly leave my fidelity in question. Can not say so much for my Estranged husband. Each one of us has our own breaking point to what we are willing to tolerate. He is QUITE lucky to have me as a wife, thus far my love for him has been unconditional, Which is a respectable quality but at the same time I have often wondered Why am I so forgiving to him, when others in my life who have done much less I have pushed away( mind you with Damn good reason.) This fact alone has lead me to be even more diligent towards our reconciliation. He has always kept me guessing, He has always led me to grow in one way or another. There are few in my life that have had this type of effect on me. I am attracted to him for this fact among many others, The shallow reason is that HE IS SOOOO Attractive. LOL!!

Every person has his or her downfalls in character. My husband has MANY personal issues that Must be tended to.So do I. But there are so many things that we do have in common that led me to him to begin with and lead me to continue to set things to rights. Our passions for creativity, similar hobbies ( including D&D lol I'm a geek and love every min of it) Comics ( Oh yeah!(: ), We love with great passion and heart, we appreciate closeness in family. Deep appreciation for nature and being at one with it. This is just to name a few mind you. Then there are the things that we have that have caused conflicts, but if mingled with the correct amount of patience and temperance would complement each other very well. We are both Dominate type personalities, which can and Has been a problem in the recent past. ( Obviously) I actually prefer this ( Not the conflicts LOL). When things were well between us this worked wonders. If I needed help he was able to take up the cup. and vice versa. Neither one of us "Needed" the other for the day to day, but knew that if weak moments came about the other was perfectly capable of handling it. It is difficult to fully explain ones heart and reasons in such circumstances. He and I agreed to be a team each one as one and for each other at the same time. To not place one or the other above.

Our breech was his weakness from the past that came to haunt him, Then My trust was broken and I needed proof that his using had and would continue to be done. I took complete control and without fully realizing it at the time made him feel as though he could do nothing right. Not at all the intention. I took control because he showed a great weakness and asked for me to do so. I did not know when my trust in him would be repaired and set sturdy boundaries to help ensure his and our families safety and health. When it came to it, He felt he had done enough to prove his actions were no longer harmful. I did not feel the same. There you have it. He gave up trying and I went "what? this isn't how marriage works! we are together in this to the end No matter what!" He ran away instead of having to deal with the reality of the situation, that He began and we continued. Someone always starts these things, Both people are responsible for what happens after that.

It's a long and bumpy road, But as I have stated earlier, Life is full of obstacles that need to be overcome and learned from. I will not easily give up on something that I believe in and I feel is the right thing to do. It's the Taurus in me

quite prominent and gratefully embraced part of who I am. My heart and intuition have not yet led me far from the path that I aspire. This situation will only help me and us to be the people we are meant to become.

Thank you for all of your help everyone! Sorry to have been so long winded LOL. But it feels good to share. And perhaps, just maybe, my experiences and knowledge can help others to find their way.

Live life with Love and Passion! Live life to learn and follow your dreams! I know I will never regret because I have always done what I knew in my heart was the right thing to do. Even if the result was not what was intended LOL! there was still a reason for it to come to pass as it did. Good Luck Wisdom seekers!

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 11:35 am

Official three months since he left today.

Needless to say I kinda feel like just rolling up into a ball and pretending it's all just a bad dream. Some days are easier then others... This is a sad day for me.

I'll be alright, But I would be greatly appreciative if anyone willing or able could send some healing and positive energy my way.

I can't just fall into a crumple of bits on the floor and let out my tears. I have two kiddo's here who need me to be a good strong mommy for them. Certainly didn't help that my older son got in a fight at school today and had to be picked up early, both boys involved suspended for 2days with a black eyes...

Can some thing good or even great please happen today to distract me?? Maybe my LM order will arrive. Maybe my petition to St Expedite will come about? Most unlikely, but maybe my husband could come home to be with us. .. I extend my hand for help gaining the strength and love to get through this day.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 4:57 pm

My prayers go with you Willowspell in this difficult time. It must be painful and difficult for you, but draw upon your inner courage and affirm that you will be successful and victorious in your work. Let no the pall of depression and doubt taint your home and you.

My recommendation is if you have the Tarot take out the Strength card and dress it lightly with some Crucible of Courage powders and some Tranquility and keep that on you as a talisman of sorts as well as a reminder that gentle but unrelenting strength can overcome even the most herculean of tasks.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 5:19 pm

You know ConjureMan Ali, I recommended almost that exact thing to a client once! The Strength card is a strong power - great to call upon in times of need.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 5:34 pm

I have several Tarot decks, I believe the goddess tarot strength card will be most helpful to me at the moment. I will defiantly be taking that advice Conjureman! Thank you. I need every bit of affirmation and personal recognition of my strength right now.

It's funny how the simplest of steps that come so easily to mind when I go to assist others, I overlook in my own situations. I suppose this comes from being a "giver" not a "taker" I always put others before myself. In that action most times I feel whole. Though I really should spend more time right now setting my own feelings to ease so that I am more capable of obtaining my goals for our family.

I am so very grateful for your kindness, advice and prayers. Thank you.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 07, 2010 6:12 pm

I like that advice as well and will add it to my notes. You guys are brilliant and truly an asset to Lucky Mojo's forum.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 4:07 pm

it just keeps getting better.

Got served Divorce papers today.... Our first hearing the 18th of this month. now what? I'm crushed. He hasn't mentioned divorce for months, and considering how he has been acting lately I really wasn't expecting it.

How can I make this stop?

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 8:53 pm

Replies and advice are completely welcome..

I have noticed many have read my recent post. but no one has anything to say in assistance?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 9:02 pm

Willowspell, have you followed the advice ConjureMan Ali left? I read that you will be working with one of LM's trusted workers, keep the positive side of this situation in front of you...

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 9:09 pm

I have taken action to CM advice.

Also found out that my order from LM is on it's way as of today.

I was just looking for something that I could possibly do tonight. I hate feeling like I am unable to do something.

Next week Cast Evil work for my husband will begin with Deacon Millett. but Pro Bono does not work on reconciliation or love matters. So I am told. So in that department I am on my own.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 9:55 pm

Do not get too antzy, we tend to 'do the wrong thing' while trying to do the right thing at that time. Good Luck to you Willowspell and take a healing spiritual bath, it works wonders. Salt cleans and protects and Myrrh incense has a healing quality to it.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Fri Oct 08, 2010 10:06 pm

I will do that... Thank you for the suggestion.

At times of great pain and strife we often ( in our desperation ) take action that may seem to be the correct thing but often is not.

I'm just so sad, never wanted or really thought it would come to this.

bathing will commence shortly. Then probably a good cry and bed.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 12:47 am

Brilliant advice!

swtdrmz1 · Unread post by **swtdrmz1** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 8:36 am

thank you all for your posts..i am definately going to use the suggestions listed.
stay tuned!

mysticguy · Unread post by **mysticguy** » Sat Oct 09, 2010 8:47 pm

UPDATE: Last time I posted on this topic was Aug 22, 2010 concerning my gay relationship to return my lover and to move back in with me. Around Aug 29, 2010 he returned to me and said he loves me and Sept. 3, 2010 he lived back with me probably the candle burning that I mentioned. I didnt get a chance to do the break-up spell between him and his troublesome family at his grandma's house, because eventually he left there and came back here to live with me and then there was a big fight over there which he was involved in. He may see his family once or twice a week, but he don't live there anymore.

Now I have my questions are, is there anything I can do to keep the love and relationship together & strong on track?

Far as candles i have much luck with 7 day candles...is there anything that I have from Lucky Mojo that is listed below or not listed that I can use to help my desire? If yes, will you give your suggestions?

Also, he now having problems with his job. He knows I like money & protection oils, candle, incense and sachets and he is asking me to give him something to help his job. Is there anything I could give him for love to help my desires, but pretending to him it is something for money or work?...Will you please give suggestions? I want to make my LM order in the morning.

Thank You

My LM products I have is:

OILS: Follow Me Boy, Lavender Love Drops, Bend Over, Q, Stay Home, Crown Of Success & Stay With Me
INCENSE: Follow Me Boy & Bend Over
SACHET: Stay With Me & Stay Home

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 12:28 am

You can use a pink candle or vigil light and put stay with me , lavender love drops, follow me boy, and q oil. You can keep this burning to keep the love going strong. I recommend doing a sweet jar with those products as well. Other products you can use are fire of love, and chupparrosa as well.

You should give him things to help his job. however you can dress his clothes, and have him bath with bath crystals with stay with bath crystals and a mixture of bath crystals of the previous products that were listed. You can put powders in his shoes, give him a gift dressed with oils, and so on.

splitpea · Unread post by **splitpea** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 6:11 am

There was a post a while back on a reconciliation letter that you had to write apologizing even if it wasn't your fault and then you would put the letter in a glass of water under the bed on the side the person slept on.it worked great the first time i did it.But the letter has to be written a certain way,it was someone that was writing spells they had heard or got from there grandmother?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 6:34 am

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It seems the actual spell was deleted, but it is briefly mentioned in the locked thread, and here is a piece of it from the thread

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Re: More Of My Family's Traditional Spells..ReNita Lucky Charms

Postby luckycharms » Tue May 26, 2009 2:49 pm
i agree with shakeitsugaree sammywell, sometimes other spells can block our spells..this recently happened to me and a pyschic had to inform me...when i removed the other spell my spell worked and brought my ex back to me. but most definetly, do a reconcilation spell first. i suggest the spell i have at the top. write a letter to him on a piece of paper fold it towards u then place it in a glass of water under your bed change it each week...and do the bottle spell right after that.

mysticguy · Unread post by **mysticguy** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 9:54 am

Thanks Stars7 I guess I have to get the Fire Of love oil today along with the Essence Of Bend-Over powder and I never knew Chupparosa can be used for gay love spells, I thought it was hetero-sexual relationships, but that is new to me.

Can I ask something he want some oils to wear is it possible to give his some of the oils for him to wear like Stay with me and Essence Of Bend Over oils or whatever you suggest?

Can Crown Of Success be used for gay love spells?

Also, is their a link on how to make a honey jar?

splitpea · Unread post by **splitpea** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 10:37 am

thank you

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 10:47 am

These are actually part of an old group of tricks that have so many variations.

You take a photo of your lover and place this upside down in a cup of water that you place next to your bed.

You take a photo of your ex lover and place this underneath the cup of water and place this under your bed.

Write out a letter to your lover apologizing your part in the tiff and asking them to come back. Place this in a cup of water under your bed.

Take your lover's photo and place it upside down in a cup of water and light a white candle next to it, place by your bed so they find their way home.

All of them seem to focused on working on the person while they are asleep. Turning the photo upside down to make them restless this they come back to you. I was taught that placing the cup of water under the bed captures your dreams so placing the photo in the cup or underneath seems to be this idea of effecting that person's dreams to return to you. We even have a few references in Zora Neale Hurston which involves cup of water, quicksilver, and candles to return a lover that's gone away. whatever the case, these are old-timey tricks.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:02 pm

This is similar to the trick putting a picture of your ex lover or lover behind your head board upside down. Ive had success with this trick so I am sure the one you speak of would work just as well.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 7:13 pm

So calling in to the Hoodoo Rootwork Hour today.. I was very glad to speak to Miss Cat and Dr K. But very disappointed that I was disconnected. I did not hang up! I would never do that. I was listening to Miss Cat and suddenly two or three clicks and dial tone.. hummm. I hope in the future that there can be some kind of call back feature in case this happens again. The advice I heard was neither to harsh nor too tame. I only wish I could have completed the call. I am going to listen to the rest of the broadcast here in a bit I am preparing myself for what in sure was quite interesting once they found I was no longer on the line.. LOL. and only hope that those of you who were not in the chatroom after the fact will now know that I would Never be so disrespectful to two such highly regarded and honorable individuals to whom I had been very much looking forward to speaking to.. Even called into the broadcast 10min early to have the best chance at being on the air.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 7:35 pm

Well, we did think you had hung up, so we moved on. I am glad you did not think us too harsh -- but my advice still stands -- work up until the end and then walk away with your head held high knowing that you did everythign your could.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:00 pm

Amazing reading, Dr. K. Thank you. I am sorry that the call was disconnected. I wish It hadn't been so that you both had not felt as though I simply didn't want to hear what you had to say. I really did.

I do have a lot to carry. I completely agree with everything that was said. and thank you for the blessings. I am doing a very good amount of healing and protective work for myself and my children. My husband is not my only focus.

There are other things involved here in which I was going to mention on the air earlier but did not have the chance.

I recently found out from a mutual friend that his Ex-wife, has been working an insane amount of spell casting with the assistance of professionals for the past year ( which is when our problems began) to tear him and I apart and bring him back to her in the unhealthy way that they had been together before. This is new information and explains A LOT.

He has "somehow" mirrored everything that she had done to him in the past as if it was me. And has out right said the complete opposite of everything he had EVER mentioned of her in the past. She has literally driven him mad. She has forced intranqulity in him to drop his healthy set barriers against his weakness to drugs. To her this is all just a sick way of getting back at him for leaving her a long time ago.

My friend told me (this friend has no idea that I had been looking into spell work as a possible avenue. I have only talked about it here) that she spoke of this last week Laughing, and how in a couple months she intended to "do away" with him as he had cast her off for being so self destructive and unfaithful.

Miss Cat herself in the reading she gave me last week mentioned that their relationship would be short lived. But while I know that it was his past nature that has been brought out. It was not his "choosing" to do so. First this was simply a mission to heal my family, to help my husband. Now knowing the truth of why this is happening, can I really blame him ? Yes, to a point, on the other hand. I severely doubt things would have come about as they have without her influence.

This same friend I guess tried to warn my husband about what he had heard from her. He shrugged and said "whatever man." ????? This is not like him at all. He has always listened to this particular friends words and advice. This person has defiantly always been more of my husbands acquaintance and not mine. I was very surprised to hear from him at all considering the situation, but he didn't know who else to talk to about it.

Though I had already intended to pursue the relationship, and help him as no one else would ever in his life. This does make the situation a bit more difficult and at the same time, makes a lot of sense.

As I said I would keep you all updated as I am, there you go. So now it is a "magical battle" to protect my family and help heal us all.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:06 pm

Thank you Miss Cat. I will stick to my time limit! 5months and 2weeks and counting. Until then as you said. I will do my best. and hold my head up high knowing I have always done what I felt was right.

I will hold to all of the advice given. It has NOT fallen on deaf ears as I am sure a lot of people simply ignore what they don't want to hear. Nope I don't like hearing that it seems hopeless, Who does? but I am also aware that there is a chance to fail I was aware prior to even finding the Forum

. But as you said I am the one that needs to have the hope. It's your job to tell me what you see and your best advice and every word has meant a lot to me and will not be pushed aside. I wont waste my life, but I also must live to fill my heart and know that I have done whatever I could, I do have to try.

Thank you for understanding and for everyone being here for me.

I am glad that my situation may help others. Whether it positively or negatively looked upon matters little. So long as we all continue to follow our hearts and live life with no regrets. Learn from every moment and experience. This is my life and a most difficult struggle in it. Though I have sad times, I have never given up hope in my life.

I do certainly look forward to giving you all better news about my life as it stands.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:15 pm

Hi Willow. Left you a private message.
Your life will get better. It has to for the children and you.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:29 pm

Got it.

Thank you Triple

It will get better. There will be up's and down's. This roller coaster far from over I fear. but It WILL get better

light33 · Unread post by **light33** » Mon Oct 11, 2010 10:36 am

Willowspell wrote:I am a LM customer and while waiting for my shipment to arrive so that I can start my spells physically. Today my heart is torn. I was wondering if anyone here is willing or able to give their opinion or advice on what I should do with this overwhelming urge to call my estranged husband and tell him that I love him, I want to tell him that I miss him and that I want for him to come home. Though I doubt that my saying any of this would make any drastic difference to the situation. I am worried it may even make things more difficult. I don't know what to do. I have always been able to follow my intuition and end up where I needed and wanted to be, but this circumstance with him is so deep.

Should I call him and tell him how I feel? taking into consideration that he will either flat out deny my claims or just ignore my phone call. I have told him in the recent past. He just doesn't respond. I guess the real question here is should I follow my head? or my heart? My head says, "don't bother it wont help anything" My heart says " I need to tell him, I need to know that he understands or has at least heard that my love and commitment to him is still so very real, that he is the only person I want to spend my life with." sorry, I'm getting a bit emotional.. This all means so much to me...

I could really use some positive energy sent my way to help my heart stop pounding and my thoughts slow up.

Arrgg... If asking for this type of advice or opinions on here isn't alright, I am deeply sorry. I just don't know where else to turn.

Hello
after reading about your post, i would say Call him...follow your instinct...we all have too. Thats part of life and making decisions. If you dont try, you will never know. Hey you never know he may even pick up the phone. Good Luck

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Mon Oct 11, 2010 6:37 pm

Finally, I got a reading, and I am told to allow working to get my ex-bf back. But I am a bit confuse right now, as the reader mentioned that "cheater is always cheater"...

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Oct 11, 2010 8:51 pm

Once a cheater always a cheater...meaning that he will always be a cheater no matter what you do. You will not be able to change his ways potentially, and you will probably always have to work to keep him faithful to you.

randomthoughts · Unread post by **randomthoughts** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:36 am

I have been dating a girl for the past 4 months, and it has been very passionate and loving. We both fell in love quite early and we did many things throughout those 4months because we lived a few blocks away from each other. Shes 30 with a chilld thats 12 and I am 28.

We went on a week vacation together with her child, i slept over most of the time, and we basically saw each other every nite. We did fight a lot but its hard to gauge whether it was passionate or just out of anger. Basically, we have the same personality, we are both confident/arrogant, stubborn, controlling, and we have the same insecurities.. so many times we clashed, but some people see that as passion others see it as a headache.

We had a breakup recently because I did something really stupid - I did not cheat! But I thought it was over.. I waited 9 days without contacting her to see if I can move on but those 9 days were devastating. I sent her flowers and a nice plant to her job to see if I can have a window of opportunity. And in the end it worked and we started seeing each other again but shortly after I got mad at what she said because she knew what buttons to push.

I acted out of anger and did something that she may not forgive this 2nd time and I am trying hard to take it back because i lose control when I am angry. (I never hit her or abused her!) I do not want to say it because it is quite embarrassing, but I know she still loves me .. she reads all my emails but never responds but i get a read receipt each time she opens it.. I sent her poems and expressed to her that my anger is something I need to work on , and my self-control as well.

Is there any possible way I can get back with her, will anyone do a reading, or does anyone reccommend some1 suitable for this case. I can't lose her and I think she is the one for me to settle and start a family together. I just made stupid mistakes out of my emotions. Also she is not communicating with me at the moment. Is it possible?

randomthoughts · Unread post by **randomthoughts** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:41 am

I wrote her this poem yesterday, because she likes omens and poetry.. hopefully it might touch her I dont know.

doughnut_hand · Unread post by **doughnut_hand** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:33 am

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/
check out the readers here, almost any reader there would be good.

start a honey jar, you can search this site or forum to figure out how to make one.

A reading will help you figure out what things can be done.
You might want to get a healing vigil candle lit.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:52 am

It sounds like you need to work on yourself so you don't end up doing things out of anger so often. Maybe think about ways to have a bit more control and strength to hold your tongue or actions. I'm sure there will be some great suggestions about some products that could be helpful with self-control, etc.

Also, try backing up with some mundane work...like going to see an anger management counselor. And maybe giving her a bit of space? I think she already knows how you feel and she might just need space away from the situation to think clearly, which could explain her not responding just yet.

Good luck!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 11:02 am

That's generally the truth. Now it's up to you to figure out if you actually want that person back, or if you'd be better off working to draw a suitable and loyal partner. I would suggest the latter - but people rarely follow that advice.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 2:04 pm

I had a reading and was told to do a breakup candle because there is someone else in the picture. And to follow with Intranquil spirit vigil candle. Today is the fourth day it's burning and my ex just texted me. I responded but kept it short. Will this contact effect the spell? I know I should limit my contact until he comes back. How much contact should one have while working this spell? Should I now ignore him for a while?

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 2:48 pm

There are no steadfast rules regarding contact with your target during spellwork. The only rule (or advise) is to not continuously contact or harass the target because it derails reconciliation work. Your ex contacted you so this doesn't apply.

Why would you ignore you ex if he contacts you? That's the point of doing reconciliation work - to get your ex back. Ignoring him when he contacts you or being pissy when he calls is basically undoing all the work you've done. Be pleasant and non committal. Act like you've got other things going on but also act semi interested in him.

randomthoughts · Unread post by **randomthoughts** » Tue Oct 12, 2010 3:14 pm

some people are saying that reconciliation is not possible without having communication with her? so what can i actually do for her to start talking to me or answering my messages? So rootwork only works when communication is there, how do we know its the rootwork doing the trick then? I dont mean to be a skeptic but I read many successful stories here and done plenty of research.. so I pretty confident something can be done in my case, I know I can start by working on myself, I actually checked into a therapist today to start this process.. But I do want to end up mending things with her.

I even went as far as utilizing the IS spell if all else fails.