Hello everyone.
A dear close friend of mine is having a
HUGE horrible time this past month. She has come to me to do "works" for her situations - however it might me more than I can handle.
To start with, as simple as I can tell it:
1) My friend left her husband last year.
2) He got angry and burned there house down which was a rental from his work. They (the work) pressed charges and he went to jail for 8 months.
3) He sent her disturbing letters while in jail. She got scared and sought out her concealed gun license.
4) He got out of jail and was very calm - too calm. They share a small child together and had a few encounters regarding there child (visits).
5) He found out where she lived. She told me how scared she was but since he was acting nicer that - well she was just confused so she went ahead and let him come over to see there daughter since the previous visits at his aunts place were non threathing.
6) When he came over he attacked her and stabbed her 6 times.
7) She was able to reach for her gun and kill him. All of this happend in front of her child.
My friend has survived death for the moment thanks to having her concealed gun license and learning how to protect herself. She is currently under a physician and psychiatric care. However, she is experiencing these things:
1) Nightmares, every night, of what happened and of him. Restless sleeping.
2) Extreme cold spots in her home where she killed her ex - she cannot move to a new location at this time. My 3yr old daughter was talking to the deceased for 3 days since we spend so much time with my friend and her child - then it stopped thankfully.
3) His family has gone
CRAZY and slandering my friend's name saying she murder him and was a set up - that she stabbed herself in the back and kidney, etc. A lot more regarding what they are saying I wont go into but a forensic investigation cleared her of these false accusation. However the family will not
STOP harassing the law enforcement on this case. My friend was informed today that because of this, that are going to have to do more now on the case and cause a lot more drama and heartache. This case is still to go to a grand jury.
So yea, what do I do. I have done work for people for a while now but nothing to this extent
It seems a House Cleaning needs to be done. A Ghost be gone cure! Nightmares to end, court case work, stop slander tricks and an over all cleansing for my friend needs to be done. When I saw her today, she really did look like she was just gonna collapes.
The question is, what should be done first, should I work on each issue or find something that could address all at once. What would be advised to use - I have gone over and over my LM books and other sources. Or, is this just too much for an amature root worker (me) and help her find a more suited experience root worker.
Thanks for reading this and hopefully I can get on this ASAP!
Dana
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