Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

doughnut_hand · Unread post by **doughnut_hand** » Thu Nov 25, 2010 9:25 pm

so this is on a reconciliation situation.
yes i've done readings.
I can see progress, i can see his feelings for me.

But how do i remove the obstacles that are standing in the way of us becoming lovers again?

Should i work with van van? what can i do ?
I've done work to sweeten him , and work for him to reconcile, but i feel like i should also do work to work on the issues

any suggestions

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Nov 26, 2010 4:50 am

You can use Banishing products to remove obstacles:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html
And yes, I like them in combination with either Road Opening or Van Van.
You can also ask your reader/worker what they might suggest.
In some cases before you do any banishing type work you need to cleanse, so I would ask a worker who is familiar with your case.
Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Nov 26, 2010 2:18 pm

It really depends on what is holding your target back. If circumstances are working against you then Van Van or Road Opening are the way to go.

If however your lover is simply resisting then you can either work with Reconciliation or Healing products to heal past wounds, or work a similar spell the ones mentioned here to overcome that resistance: resistance-in-a-lover-t9109.html

Good luck.

Sweets1984 · Unread post by **Sweets1984** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 8:38 am

Hello Everyone ! Sorry if this has already been answered, Im reading through the skull forum but I havent completely found my answer, I am purchasing an LM skull candle...My intention is to make an ex really miss me were not on speaking terms but this morning he texted me saying that he can tell by my actions that ive found the strength to move on and then he put " i wish you the best that life has to offer, take care of yourself, and it was def my loss " ... Ive been ignoring him lately and i noticed hes been kissing my a$$ through text messages, he already seems to think this is his loss so I would like to intensify that feeling.. It feels good to have him kiss my a$$ while i ignore him but im not satisfied yet,,I would like him to feel the way i felt for the last few months..I want him to really miss me and really feel like this is his loss So far in my LM cart I have a red skull candle, commanding oil, chupparosa oil, come to me oil , Am in on the right track so far ? Any suggestions of what else I need for my skull , maybe some herbs ? Or is their a diff LM spell that would be better for the situation..

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 8:54 am

id think u can work a doll baby in the fashion that u are describing to make him feel that way.. though im curious what exactly is te intention with this person? do you want them back, do you want a relationship with him or just to hurt him? if its rec then the " u must have moved on my loss" is a step in that direction and id use a rec spell kit rather then revenge on him. sometimes we get lost in our emotions that we lose focus of the true goals.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 11:49 am

Good question, J82. What is your intention? Do you want to have him back or are you doing this as revenge and justice? If you want him back then you are going about this the wrong way. If you've been working to get him back and he's been texting you then ignoring him isn't going to get your end result. Reconciliation work only is successful with both people work on the things that caused the break up and heal from it. I am thinking you want him back because you are working with Chupparosa and Come to Me.

Let go of your desire for "punishment" cause your chance to get back with him will slip away.

If however you want to torment him and simply get justice for past wrongs then you are on the right track, though I'd toss in Restless Oil into the mix instead of Chupparosa.

Sweets1984 · Unread post by **Sweets1984** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 12:01 pm

Well we broke up in August because we weren't getting along anymore and he has always hated relationships and didnt want to be in a relationship anymore...Well I wanted him back but I was told in an AIRR reading a month ago that he doesn't want a commitment.. Although I kinda want him back I dont think hes the one for me.. Hes done alot of mean things to me and right now the issue is Im not sure if i truely want him back or if I may only want him back because he doesn't want me ( most people want what they cant have ) Well he usually texts me every 2 weeks... its like if i dont contact him or show interest then he texts me to try to break me down..Its not nice...I want him to know how I felt in the beginning..missing someone so much and knowing that person doesn't care that you miss them ect... I guess thats my goal as a last resort since the a month ago the airr reader said he doesnt want a relationship..

Sweets1984 · Unread post by **Sweets1984** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 12:06 pm

I mean is it even possible to get them back w reconcilliation spell if the reader has already said they dont want a relationship or a commitment anymore ?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 1:18 pm

It's possible to bring someone back but if the core issue is they don't want a relationship then it will end again.

I think you need to spend some time to figure out what you really want. You say you want him back, but he's not the one for you. Then you say you've already been to a reader who's advising you he doesn't want to come back.

Rather than work on a man who is "mean" and tries to "break you down." Why don't you spend some time doing clarity on yourself to help decide what it is you really want and maybe a Cut and Clear to end your desire for man who "isn't the one" and to bring in the chance of a more worthy love.

Ashley · Unread post by **Ashley** » Mon Nov 29, 2010 3:07 am

I would like to know during I am waiting for my reading, what can I do at the moment?

My case like this, I with my boyfriend, named Tom, for about 9 months, but somehow I am not treating him real good as I can't forget my ex-bf, Alex. During the 9 months I asked Tom to back to the status of friends two times, and finally I asked for a breakup about a month ago.

In this month I tried hard to cut and clear with Alex, and I know Tom is who I want to be with. But when I find him back, he refused to be together again.

We are still keeping contact, mostly sms, but everytime is I find him, he will reply the call and text me back, and he said he cares about me. But just don't want to be together again, at least at this moment.

And I did put some reconciliation oil to the gift I gave him. I have personal concern of him, and is there any suggestion for me to do while waiting?

And as I did reconciliation work for Alex for a period of time, and a mojo bag that is still here (but I haven't fed it for about two months already, as I let go Alex), is there anything I need to do before working on Tom?

And my room is really small, if I work on a desk that with other things, such as bottles of oil, books on it, is it okay?

Please kindly suggest what to do.
Thanks!

gemini2 · Unread post by **gemini2** » Mon Nov 29, 2010 4:10 am

I'm assuming after your reading that you would be wanting to use some LM products, so I'm aiming towards that aspect.

I would do a few things here while waiting. I've been there, actually. And know waiting is the hardest thing, but I'd make sure it's really what you want (and I mean really thinking about it, think about your actions in the past that lead to this) . You've done work for some one else, not Tom, and now you're putting on the brakes and you want to do work for Tom. Some times if we just go with the feeling, it's not thought through. It's not the end of the world if you have some space for a period of time. Over the years I've noticed that if I meditate on a situation or on my relationship I find out in the end that it's best this way now that we are not together (although this process took me a few months of heavy thinking). But I don't know the situation, so it's up to you on that part.

In reconciliation work, or just when working with a significant other I'd start with a honey jar (I love the kits from LM!). I feel like it sets the tone. When working with the candles I'd add healing oil when dressing the candles (in addition to reconciliation oil). It's a simple thing that you don't need much room for. But I do cleanse the space before and after work. I have space limitations as well, sometimes putting up a small shelf in the corner of the room just allows your work to not get crowded.

Also read up on how to dispose of materials and lay to rest Alex's mojo bag. In Hoodoo (and this may just be me) but having loose ends just makes a mess. http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html

good luck!!!

tina2367 · Unread post by **tina2367** » Thu Dec 02, 2010 10:35 am

hi,

i am broken and crying all i am lost i am trying everything and he keeps getting meaner and these two are still together did i do something wrong?

I have spell casters (like 30) and spells i did and the lemon i even did a binding spell and buried her in the graveyard

i know i am not that strong as i am depleted right now but, I love this man with all my heart and soul been together 20 years and now he just goes i swear there is a curse on him too>>

Please help : and i keep buying/trying more i am in tears it's only a few weeks for spells days for some bought some off of ebay just last night but please tell me what i can do.

my husband of 17 years decided to walk out on me and my girls in oct 18th 2010 and is with a old girlfriend from when he was 17 (he is 39 now)

We were talking but everytime he see me he ends up sleeping with me and promising to come home and then lying (last time was nov 16th and i have not seen him since when i talk to him on the phone he is a different person saying no i am not coming home and yes i do still love you but.

I have been told he is doing cocaine although i have no proff He did lose lots of weight fast, never has money (no bills to pay he gets paid on thrus and broke by fri..not giving me money., angry alot but sad and depressed. I don't know.

I hired many services for spell casting nothing and i even casted a few still nothing so i am scared nothing will can work (about 27 spells although) and i am now at ends wits........please give me advice and honesty if you REALLY can bring him home forever

I do not know where to turn he said he is looking for his own place now no doubt with his g/f.

[husband, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat]
[myself, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat]
[other woman, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat]

I want to break the two [other woman, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat] and [husband, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat] up and send [other woman, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat] back to her true love [two other men, names deleted. -- cat] you pick...and send [husband, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat] back to me forever [myself, name and birth-date deleted. -- cat]

ASAP!!!!!!!!!!! i am so losing it

we fought about money a lot and the kids and i was a yeller but so was he.

We also fought about him leaving to go hunting each weekend 3 days a week it killed me that he couldn\'t even call. our sex life was great for the last few months before he left. Then his ex g/f from when he was 17 found him and he is with her now.

He is not paying anything to us and will not come here with me anymore because he says it\'s too hard. He is not even in the girls\' lives he was a great father. I was told the g/f is binded to him??? and i am confused?

I am going crazy as i have looked everywhere and hired spell casters and did my own ..lost now it just keeps getting worst.

I love this man with all my heart and he says he loves me but he will not come home .He rented a apt saturday probably with the g/f. This is so hard to handle i am in tears. I am a bitch and posted alot of our lives on facebook and others because i had noone to talk to so he blames that for us breaking up too. so sad i am

[Post edited by cat to remove people's full legal names and dates of birth.]
i have bought and tried so many spells and it just gets worse i need help if you can please

onika · Unread post by **onika** » Thu Dec 02, 2010 1:32 pm

Hello I have a question and i would like some advice on my situation. I have been married for 4 years. in those four years i have been seperated from my husband for 1 year. I dont know what im trying to say but but i hope you get it. well anyway it had been rocky and unstable my relationship with him is strained and streached to the limit. I feel that there is forces working against us. I don't get alone with his mom like i would like to. I honestly fell she hate me and so does his sister. Just by the things that has happened and was done to me by her. as well as the things my husband has done to me. (unreal) but the issue is that I love my husband dearly with all my heart. I want my marriage to work. I want my husband back. the guy i fell in love with. I am so determined I want to be the best wife for him that i can be. I want him to be the best husband he can be to me. Loving Caring, Supportive,Affectionate, understanding,hard working,honest and truthful, never hurt me again, just us not being together is really ripping my heart out. I was so happy and overjoyed when we got married. it all changed when we went to live in his home city with his mom thats when i think i lost him cause he had his mom and his friends and i had noone . I feel him in my soul in my bones, you know like i can always tell when he thinks about me.

I want him to come back to me and never leave me again. always trust me never lie to me or hurt me in any way. take good care of me never let other people or things or situations come between us again. all the problems that we had before we dont need them. I want him to respect me be there for me mentaly physically emotionaly.

I want him here with me taking care of me instead of being in another state seperated from me. I just please want my marriage to work I know that is proberly asking to much but what can i do. I dont know what else to do.

i talk to him sometimes on the phone. he tells me all the time that he love me but i need more i need him to show me. be my man. only for me desier for me only that do sound selfish but i want him to be in love with me only. cant live without me. i dont know please tell me if you understand what im trying to say. I have been looking around for spells and rituals but b4 i do something like that myself i would like the right spells and the right materials and such.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 02, 2010 4:19 pm

Welcome to the forum! Have you had a reading on this situation onika? Start by having a reading regarding your husband and ask for magical coaching in terms of which spell to use to get results. Call one of Lucky Mojo's AIRR (Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers) [ http://www.readersandrootworkers.org ] Look through the list and get a feel of reach readers special areas and go from there.

Lucky Mojo has several spells designed to reconcile and bring couples closer, here is one to consider; Reconciliation (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) ...but please get a reading to see where your husband is and what is needed to get the results you seek.

pbgnewgirl · Unread post by **pbgnewgirl** » Thu Dec 02, 2010 10:40 pm

i hope the person who began this post is feeling happier now. I am going through something similar to what she talked about. you there are things that men know about being in love with women, that they never share. its complicated. i read in a book one time...if a man wants you-you will know! so his lack of commitment, on again off agian (texts) can be hard on a womens heart that loves him. what i am getting at is if you break up and still have strings, then yes one of both of you might still feel the love. its best to just stop talking to the person and tell them maybe in the future some time you may give them a call. this is to give your heart a change to heal. i think about my guy at least 8 times a day...i think about callling him, going to his house, being intimate with him, but i know eventually he just hurts me. so its really not worth the pain. try focusing on something new. perhaps this will help someone.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Dec 04, 2010 10:31 am

If you are stuck on this guy think its wrong but want to let go and find someone who is right for you, perhaps you should look into the cut and clear line and spell that LM has on their sit to cut the ties and bring someone even better for you. good luck!

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Sat Dec 04, 2010 9:03 pm

ok so the guy im interested moved out after years of living together and i want to make him come back and have feelings for me. he moved into his own place with roommates and i have moved as well. i have been to his place but we only hookup now and he says he doesnt have feelings for me and i need to know how to make him come back to me and how to get him interested in me like that again. he dates girls on occasions and i am sick if hearing about it and when im with him it just feels right i love him alot. i want us to be boyfriend girlfriend. i read about the red skull and follow me boy and the various love products but what would work best? i am aware of a reading would be wise for this but what suggestions would you give without the reading for now.
thanks

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Dec 04, 2010 10:20 pm

I would consider getting a reading to see if this is even possible for you and him to go beyond being bed buddies. I would do this to get the best approach, and see if there are any rivals and so forth. The reading is important and I would not neglect it.

You can do a sweet jar, and perhaps utilize some love me products to move from bed buddies to him being in love with you again.

http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:30 am

Spellkiss wrote:ok so the guy im interested moved out after years of living together and i want to make him come back and have feelings for me. he moved into his own place with roommates and i have moved as well. i have been to his place but we only hookup now and he says he doesnt have feelings for me and i need to know how to make him come back to me and how to get him interested in me like that again. he dates girls on occasions and i am sick if hearing about it and when im with him it just feels right i love him alot. i want us to be boyfriend girlfriend. i read about the red skull and follow me boy and the various love products but what would work best? i am aware of a reading would be wise for this but what suggestions would you give without the reading for now.
thanks

Hi there,
You want to know what spells would work best but you don't want to get a reading yet, and that makes giving you advice difficult because in large part the point of a reading is to point you in the right direction spell-wise. With that said, Reconciliation, Return to Me, and Love Me products would all be generally suitable for your work. As far as the strength of the work, that will depend on what personal concerns you have to work with. As far as success of the work--again, Starsinthesky told you right when she advised you to get a reading.
Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:39 am

I will throw in with starsnthesky7 and Miss Bri, a reading is needed especially in situations for reconciliation after a time period has passed. Review the AIRR list here http://www.readesandrootworkers.org and identify a reader that specializes in love and reconciliation cases, you can read their profiles on the left. This reading will give you background information speaking to the issues that starsntheysky7 mentioned.

In the meantime, read further about Reconciliation, Return To Me and Love Me products that Lucky Mojo has, I see that starsinthesky7 has left the Love Me Spell link, I have listed below the previous two...

Reconciliation Spell http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Return To Me http://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html

Good Luck in your findings!

honeybear30 · Unread post by **honeybear30** » Sun Dec 05, 2010 9:18 pm

hello

everyone this a long story, but i will make it short and sweet!

My x left our kids and me in jume 27 2009. He left a letter sayin he needed space, it was him not me.

He sms me in sept 02 in 2009 sayn he miss us he loves us an we are each other best friend!

When he left of course he left with another lady. I spent well over 400 dollars on casters saying they can get him nack in a wk a mon. or say if i give them xyz dollar amount then it would be sooner.

I found this site, got a rootworker, she did a reading and cleansing for us and a honey jar. She did say i would hear from him at the later part of the year which i did in aug 25, 2010. she told me that in jan 10, 2010. But she also thought he would had been nicer and had more contact too.

well since then i have done a red skull candle that was burn out in nov 19, 2010, which burn well, a lil black smoke at the top but burn clean to the end. I also burn another candle and no smoke. i tried to let the candles burn for an hour each time but for sure 15mins.

I have done 2 kindness jar for friendship and 3 honey jar, with those i tried my best. i didnt have his hair but his pics and mine his letters mine cycle blood.and come to me and follow me boy and attration oil.

i want some thought on a doll baby.

if anyone can say what I did wrong plz help.

i do have a reading with ms.cat in jan 2011.

thanx xoxoxoxoxo

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:12 am

Since you have a reading with Miss Cat in a few weeks, I would just say sit tight until then. You've done a lot of work, and also had work done on your behalf with very little results. I don't think this is a matter of anyone doing anything wrong. Give yourself a rest until you can speak with Miss Cat.

Honestly it's been 18 months, which is a long time, with what sounds like very little contact during that period - generally speaking, the longer it goes since the break, the harder it is to bring a person back. You may need to start coming to terms with the fact that you may simply need to let this go.

Miss Cat can certainly let you know what she sees when she reads for you. She's one of the best there is, so you'll get very straight-forward accurate info from her soon. Just hunker down to have a happy holiday season with your kids - let your love for them be your focus this holiday.

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Mon Dec 06, 2010 3:24 pm

thanks

do you think a red skull candle would be good to use also? and would follow me boy help at all?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 06, 2010 3:35 pm

Again, a reading wil tell you! The red skull candle is get into the targets head and the follow me boy for the target to follow you around like a little puppy.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:40 am

Hi there,
I would agree with Devi. Wait for your reading with miss cat. You are asking what you did wrong, but it may be that the situation has taken a different turn and that it is not your work that is the problem. Also, in the world of Hoodoo sometimes the answer is just "no" or "no, its not going to happen right now." Part of your job when you sit down to do spell work is to listen to ALL of the information and pay attention to ALL of the signs--the ones that you don't want to see as well as the ones that are more positive. Cat will be able to give you some great perspective in y'all's reading

Blessings,
Bri

angelindisguise · Unread post by **angelindisguise** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 2:57 pm

Hi. I have a rather difficult situation.

I am married, but we are separated, including by distance (almost a year). He wants the divorce and I don’t want it.

Things have been real ugly to say the least with argue/fights, infidelity, and a bunch of BS occurring close to home.

The fighting has died down. He says that he is not coming back, but I want him back. There is more drama, but it's not my main concern.

I would like to know what spell kit would be best for me or what spell kit is the strongest. I understand that magick cannot fix everything so please don't preach to me about it. I am under too much stress to hear it. I really want to reconcile with my husband and work on our marriage together. Personal success with spell kits are a bonus.

Thanks.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:00 pm

I will not preach to you about it, but I will recommend a reading with one of AIRR readers. You will get answers to your concerns and what will work toward reconciliation. I suggest that you identify a reader with expertise in reconciliation, look through the list here http://www.readersandrootworkers.org. Good Luck in your findings.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:02 pm

I would recommend a Return to Me Honey Jar spell plus a Reconciliation Spell Kit. Read more ehre:

http://luckymojo.com/honeyjars.html
and order
SPL-HON-RECO Honey Jar Mini-Spell Kit Reconciliation & Return, Heal Emotional Distance $16.00

Also read this page
http://luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
and order
SPL-KIT-RECO Spell Kit Candle Magic Reconciliation Spell Kit $27.50

I would also recommend you get a reading with a reputable and ethical reader from AIRR, the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers. You can see them here:
http://readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck!

angelindisguise · Unread post by **angelindisguise** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 4:42 pm

Thanks everyone for your kind replies.

I have everything for a honey jar (one of my friends suggested it before; I thought that it would not work for my complex situation).

Which AIRR reader would you recommend?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 5:55 pm

As for the reader recommendation, you are welcome to review the Customer Testimonies which includes reviews from customers about AIRR readers. (customer-testimonials-f22.html)

angelindisguise · Unread post by **angelindisguise** » Mon Dec 13, 2010 7:53 pm

Thanks. I will look into it.

angelindisguise · Unread post by **angelindisguise** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:17 am

Also, Noob question here, but what can I use for the parchment paper? I cannot afford the spell kit in Lucky Mojo store until I get my check.

And I would like to start asap because I feel that it will be too late if I wait any longer.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:20 am

You can use plain brown paper from a grocery-type bag. Or really you can use any type of paper - but brown paper is very traditional.

Tigerlily86 · Unread post by **Tigerlily86** » Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:27 am

I recently purchased the 'love me' and 'come to me' oil. I want to purchase the 'reconciliation' oil too because it seems ideal for my situation.

I recently reconnected with an old beau who I haven't seen for 8mths. I invited him to a party of mine and we wound up hooking up. Mind you we're both spoken for. I've never cheated before and he claims he never did either. But who really knows? It was unexpected and it just happened.

I realized that I still had feelings for him. It felt so good. He said he felt the same way. But he basically fell off the face of the earth after that day.

My texts went unanswered. So I figure I resort to these oils, but I feel like I'm using them wrong.

First I was using them in conjuction with the St. Anthony novena and it was odd because right after I wound up hanging out with one of his friends. It was totally unexpected. But I soon nixed that St. Anthony novena the same night.

I decided to burn a red candle every night. I rubbed the 2 oils on it and carved his name on it.

I don't really know any other ways to use the oils.

I know that one should be focused and really want it to work. But a part of me is hesitant. So I feel like it's not going to work because I'm just uncertain about everything. He has a girlfriend afterall! Even though I feel like I still like him. I figure that I'm just lonely.

A part of me would love to meet someone new and forget about him. But another part of me would like him back too.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:33 am

I am posting a link here that describes How to use Conjure Oils, Hoodoo Oils, Ritual Oils,
Dressing Oils, and Anointing Oils in the Hoodoo Rootwork Tradition. (http://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html)

Additionally, I am posting How to Practice Hoodoo Candle Magic (http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html)

I renamed your post for clarity; because it seems you are asking how to work with oils and candles not asking why they didn't work. Please take time to read the information above.

Tigerlily86 · Unread post by **Tigerlily86** » Thu Dec 16, 2010 8:55 am

oh okay! thank you!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 19, 2010 5:51 pm

Alright first thing is first. You need to get a reading done to see what products would be best for your situation, and if this is something that can be worked out. Now the monkey wrench in this story is he has GIRLFRIEND, and I am guessing you have a boyfriend. SO really how is this suppose to work out. If you want this guy, then you are going to have to assess if you really want to be in your current relationship. Furthermore, you are going to have to break him up from this girlfriend.

So are you using the oils wrong? I mean not necessarily, but the oils you are using may not be helpful to your situation considering all the variable involved.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 19, 2010 6:26 pm

Definitely get a reading before pursuing anything, and know that the reconciliation road can sometimes be a long road to take. So you are going to have to understand that it is going to take more than one spell, and you need to address what is holding him back from actually wanting to be with you again.

Tigerlily86 · Unread post by **Tigerlily86** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:45 am

You're right. I'll get a reading.

I don't want to break them up though. I believe in karma and the 3fold law. Thanks for your advice!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 12:09 pm

Beware that in hoodoo we do not believe in karma or the 3 fold law. And I would actually go to a rootworker to get a reading because they can recommend actual rootwork for you to do

www.readersandrootworkers.com

Tigerlily86 · Unread post by **Tigerlily86** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 12:21 pm

oh ok. im new to hoodoo I didnt know that. thank you once again!

antm422 · Unread post by **antm422** » Tue Dec 21, 2010 11:23 pm

First of all, Thank you for taking the time to read this, and for your potential advice!

My boyfriend and I have been together for about four years, however, we have recently hit a bump in the road. Since we are so young, he wants to take to establish his own identity, etc. I am fine with this, and understand where he is coming from! And here is where my problem comes in, I want to make sure that our break does not last too long, and I also want to make sure that he returns to me! Also, I am not sure how much this matters, but I am A GAY MALE.

I am looking to buy a spell kit to perform the spell, but am unsure of exactly which one (or combination of kits) to use to a.)make sure that the break does not last long b.) He returns to me and c.) If possible, keep him faithful to me while on our break (not sleep around).

I was thinking of / debating between maybe the intranquility kit, the follow me boy kit, etc.

Please help!

Thank you so much!!!

JOSH

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 22, 2010 1:10 am

Intranquility Kit calls up the Intranquil Spirit to torment your lover. It generally doesn't sit well with loving relationships.

The Reconciliation Spellkit and a honey jar may be the way to go on this one.

As always, a reading may be your best course of action to begin with so you can target the core issues. You can set one up with one of us here: www.readersandrootworkers.org.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Dec 24, 2010 11:55 pm

You definitely dont want to do the intranquil spirit here. It is not something that is necessary.

I would definitely get a reading FIRST because then you know exactly what issues need to be worked on so that this person comes back to you.

Since this has to do with sexual identity, and perhaps he is confused. I would do some clarity work here so that he gets a clear picture of himself since this is affecting your relationship.

how-to-use-clarity-oil-t9584s30.html

Next, you are going to work a honey jar and and/or reconciliation spell kit here. You should purchase some return to me oil/powder to help ensure the return of him to you. Return to me products actually return the person to you as your lover.

http://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html

You are going to want the honey jar called Reconciliation & Return, HEAL EMOTIONAL DISTANCE
Honey Jar Mini Hoodoo Spell Kit

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

To control and make sure that he does not sleep with someone else you can do an essence of bend over candle, and dominate his ability to have sex or a romantic relationship with others.

www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

artsmart12 · Unread post by **artsmart12** » Sat Dec 25, 2010 1:14 am

im new to this and there are so many different things to choose form i am unsure what to use for my particular situation. so here it is please help thank you so much

so me and my guy are on really weird terms right now.

he moved back to canada where he is from and i live in north carolina...he just moved there 3 months ago after us living together for a year and a few months...he had always planned on moving back there but he met me and fell in love and he didnt wanna leave me ever. he asked me to live with him after a month of dating and we looked at rings and he told me as soon as i stopped talking about the engagement he would propose for real to be a surprise...this never happened tho. it took me too long to stop talking about i guess.

when we moved in together i came straight from my parents house as i had my 18th birthday and he was 25. i had never had a guy treat me the way he did. he truly cared about me and took care of me and wanted to have children never be apart ect.

so anyway we had lots of fights over bills and money but little ones i didnt think much of..he was really broke and it caused him a lot of stress.

so any way his stress led to us arguing and having more and more tension. we had a huge fight when we had been living together for about 7 months and it just never went back to the same after that. he never forgave me for being "immature" and we stayed together for almost a year after that but he didnt love me like he once did because i wasnt the same girl anymore but i know in my heart i am i just was adjusting to being wiht a good guy for a change and living on my one first year of college ect.

he was so crazy about me before and it stopped. he still loved/ loves me deeply and i lknow it but he didnt have enough confidence in us to stay here.

he cried and didnt wanna leave when he did and we never really broke up. we still say i love you kinda know and he offers me money for rent but we are not really together.

how could we be so far apart but he messages me everyday...but he always has a guard up and he never break down and tells me he loves and misses me until like we argue i just want him to releize our problems our so small compared to out love. nothing's oerfect i know hw wants to be with me he just needs a shove so i can prove to him how great we can be again.

i know he is the one we are so good together and its the best break up ive ever had cause neither of us really wanted it..i just want him crazy about me again and to get our life back on its track and get engaged and him back here. (he is miserable there anyway he tells me all the time)

also the main reasons why he left was stress, his job and his parents, but if he could just releize how much he already loves me i know it would take that much to get us back together.. i wouldnt even mind moving to be with him if he would let me he doesnt want me to give up my dreams of my dream school and seeing my baby nephew grow to be where he is...but he is my dream and no school or anything else will make up for not having him in my life.

ive tried dating kinda but it only makes me releize wat a catch he was and how great it was when we touched or feel asleep with each other i know we are worth trying for,

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Dec 25, 2010 7:18 am

Welcome to the forum artsmart12. In situations where there are circumstances that keep lovers, friends etc etc apart, and one person wants to reconcile, it is recommended to consider Reconciliation Spiritual products found here http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Dec 25, 2010 8:47 am

I third ConjureMan and starsnthesky7 recommendations, reading first, and if positive, reconciliation work; you can consider asking your reader to help with your work. Good Luck!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Dec 25, 2010 12:18 pm

First off there are many issues here that are going to have to be worked through besides just doing reconciliation work. I would HIGHLY suggest that you get a reading BEFORE you attempt to do any kind of work to understand and get a full picture of what is going on. In addition, to see if this situation can even be helped because I see quite a few red flags here.

So before attemping any work get a reading.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

antm422 · Unread post by **antm422** » Sat Dec 25, 2010 4:26 pm

I would like to thank you all for your great advice! I definitely am going to get a reading, but to be prepared I am going to get the honey jar and maybe even start it soon so that I can get the work going.

I never thought of the idea to Essence of Bend Over to make him not have sex with others, my question about this though, does E.O.B.O. ever create resentment or anger? I read further into spells like the Intranquil Spirit, and some people said that their lover (etc) returned angry and resentful. Is this something to worry about with EOBO?

Thank you again,
JOSH

karl000 · Unread post by **karl000** » Wed Dec 29, 2010 7:15 pm

I don't know if you'll ever read this but....."Between you and anything that you may wish to influence there is a relationship. If either party in a relationship changes, the relationship itself is changed. In turn, any change in the relationship changes both parties. So if you wish to change something, the first thing you must do is discover the true nature of your relationship to it. Then you will be able to see how to change it by changing yourself...Discovering the true nature of a relationship is not at all easy. Our perception is clouded by our hopes and fears, our opinions, preconceptions, likes and dislikes. Often what obscures it the most is our very desire to change an object in the first place (Catherine MacCoun)." Maybe your boyfriend is not the target....Maybe the target is you...a different you....if you can't find it within you will never find it without (outside).

faitlaforce · Unread post by **faitlaforce** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 2:34 pm

I am trying to win my son's father back to me

Right now we are working on an agreement as far as financial support goes, but the baby is being supported financially as we speak, it just needs to be clear cut and in writting.

I am familiar with some work, being I am west indian and know alittle, but a lot comes naturally or instinctively.

What prayers or Psalms will serve my needs?

bjermome

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 3:14 pm

Hi bjerome welcome to The Forum. A honey jar is a great approach to sweeten him to you.
I'd start with a reading as recommendation:

A reading with a Member of AIRR:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
To find out what his intentions are.

There are some wonderful products for Love at Lucky Mojo and many products to enhance Psychic Ability as well. It sounds like from your intoduction that you might be familiar with practices.

The main consideration, I'm sure you know is for your Child-- and a Father that is there in support and in financial support. I'm sure you are aware of by now, diapers, formula (if not breast feeding), clothing, and day care will be expensive, not to mention the biggest responsibility ever.

See what the reading says first and The Member of AIRR, depending on the outcome can also recommend what products to further recommend.

May you and You Child Be Blessed, Happy, Loved and Supported.

faitlaforce · Unread post by **faitlaforce** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:03 pm

Thankyou.

This is my plan of action for the honey jar spell I am going to work.

1. Begin 3 days before the full moon by praying,meditating, and petitioning with a red pink and white candle. I will be using follow me boy oil, and queen elizabeth root oil. Using new candles for all three nights.

2. I will also be taking a bath with the adam and eve oil, and use the other oils as well. I will do this for all 3 nights.

3. On the 4th day, the full moon, I will do my honey jar kit and use a red, a pink, and a white candle and a pink male member candle. I will add his semen, a picture of us, and his socks. What prayers or psalms should I recite?

4. And for the next three nights I will do steps 1 and 2 again, additionally with my honey jar?

I'm just curious as to how I would use his semen in the honey jar?

I have also ordered a male member pink candle. Any suggestions on that as well?

I have an idea for that candle but am waiting to see if anyone has the same thought.

Also he has dabbled orally in my menstrual blood, how binding is that?

Thank you again!

I am so glad I have found this forum and can't wait to receive my package from the shop!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:10 pm

Hello. I renamed this thread because it is about a lot more than a honey jar, which is what your original title referred to.

In reply to what prayers or Psalms will serve your needs -- I would try Chapter Four of the Song of Songs, also known as the Song of Solomon. It is long, but powerful.

To use his semen in the honey jar, dab it in a five-spot pattern, like on dice, on the petition paper on which you have written your command, Then dab your own juices over it in the same pattern.

Roll his socks to you to cause him to come back, roll from toe to top, always toward you. You can also knot one of his socks to one of yours and hide it between the box springs and mattress on your bed.

Load the pink male member candle from below by digging out a little hole, and place some of his semen in that, too. That marks the candle for him. Then carve his name in the wax with a needle. Dress the candle with Follow Me Boy and Come to Me oils.Place his name on paper beneath the candle.

To answer your last question, well, they say that if a man gets a taste of that, he will always come back for more!

Good luck to you. If you need to do work to find his ex a new lover, well, there are ways to do so that are not harsh. It can be tried. A reading will reveal more about whether this is advised.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:23 pm

I agree about the reading while you are working the honey jar spell. Many of the questions you are asking can be answered by reading the Female Domination website found here http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html It includes a lot of information for dominating your man and getting what you want such as the infamous Nation Sack to bind him to you and the Follow Me Boy ritual for him to follow you around like a little puppy. Good Luck in your findings and spell work.

Orchidclimbing · Unread post by **Orchidclimbing** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:38 pm

Ok, so a guy I previously dated wants to consider a hangout/hookup arrangement. He'd be like a friend with benefits while we also get to know each-other by hanging out/semi-dating. He doesn't want to upgrade to actual dating because he wants to see how things work out, but I realized that I want to pursue actually dating him. I'm in an open relationship but my connection with this guy might be deeper if given an opportunity to see him seriously.

I don't want to bring up dating too early, but he said that he's looking for a girlfriend and just doesn't want to settle, since his ex was emotionally abusive. The only issue for our split was the fact that I was at a different stage in life than him at the time, but we both agree I've "caught up" since then. Realistically the obstacles are removed, he just needs a push towards seriousness.

Any suggestions for what I can do? It's difficult to collect personal concerns from him since he's incredibly neat and I've scoured his whole house, almost nothing to be found.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:49 pm

Have you had a reading to see where his head is and if he is open for the relationship that you want?

Orchidclimbing · Unread post by **Orchidclimbing** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:52 pm

Not yet, I'm planning on having one with Conjureman as soon as I wire the money, which should be about tomorrow.

I'm torn about doing friends with benefits with him, because while it's a good way to tie his nature and get personal concerns (ie-cum), I don't want him to view me JUST sexually, or he might not think I'm relationship material....

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:55 pm

Get a reading to make sure his proposition does not only mean sex guys can be tricky

personal items steal it out of the condum after sex, check his razor for hairs, comb/brush, bed, garbage we all lose personal items its a matter of where and how we dispose. then id move into a honey jar to sweeten him into more and a follow me boy or stay with me working. good luck!

Orchidclimbing · Unread post by **Orchidclimbing** » Thu Dec 30, 2010 11:08 pm

Thanks! And he's not getting sex unless we get to know each-other better again, he knows this as well. Until then it's just "messing around". I'll have to check the garbage next time! (I checked the bed, he doesn't have a hamper, couldn't find his brush or razor even in the bathroom since they all look alike and he shares his place.)
Damn him for being neat. >_>

Thanks again! : )