Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 4:41 pm

If her ex keeps popping up in the picture and impeding her progress to get over him or move on, do some protection work on her behalf. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, I've found a simple prayer to Saint Michael helps to keep hurtful people out of one's life.

Shadileigh · Unread post by **Shadileigh** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 12:17 pm

So I decided to approach resolving this through a 3 step process. First healing/blessing, then drawing new love for each of them, and finally creating a hand for each.

I'm currently on day five of a seven day candle and moving lodestone spell for healing and blessing. The candle has been burning beautifully and all signs indicate that it is working.

Over the last few days, after I've worked the spell, I've been having brief (ususally 5 or 10 minutes max) attacks of dizziness and nausea, and essentially feel drained. I'll lay down for a while and then feel completely normal. This also happens to be the first time I've done conjure for a non-blood relative before (in case that holds any significance).

I've burned these came kinds of candles and incense in the past, but this hasn't ever happened to me before, so it made me kind of curious. Is that a normal reaction?

And before anyone asks...no, I'm positively not pregnant.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 12:46 pm

Whenever you work, and especially when you work on behalf of someone else, it's always a very good idea to do some protection work for yourself - even when you are doing beneficient work like healings and blessings.

I would take some cleansing baths, and then call on your ancestors and St. Michael for protection before working on her behalf again. I always anoint myself with Fiery Wall of Protection, and burn a dressed FWP candle while working, no matter what the nature of the work.

Shadileigh · Unread post by **Shadileigh** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:13 pm

Thank you, I will definitely do just that.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 8:35 pm

Definately want to keep yourself cleansed and protected--you never know what you can pick up. Bay Leaves in the four corners of your home or altar can keep your work safe and cleansed. Follow a routine of regular cleansings and protection work.

tink999 · Unread post by **tink999** » Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:44 am

Hi

Im looking for a spell to make my brother and his wife and their herd (2 little kids 1 on the way she dosent stop!) move into their own property and leave my parents in peace. They have asked nicely that they should make their home and my parents will give them some money after selling the main big house but they wont budge! (the house is under bro's name-long story)

My Brother has always been violent (so us sisters dont speak with him properly since young) and his wife makes no effort talks to my parents like crap and we cant handle that so we just dont go anymore, we also feel uncomfortable going there when they are around and parents feel lonely as noone comes over anymore not even aunts etc. He speaks to my parents as though they ae nothing some dirt on his shoe and his wife just ignores. Her mum comes and stays over for weeks and my parents feel they are living in someones elses house when they spent their whole life hard times working to make ends meet now they dont even have space or peace. Constant baby sitting being treated like shit!

Theyve asked nicely, They have also tried in an angry manner but nothing... Its time for drastic measures!

Is there anything to make them move without feeling negative towards my parents? I have LM commanding and compelling oils too.

(I havent done any negative spell work except for freezer spell)

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Oct 15, 2010 10:45 am

I would approach all situations with a reading first before doing any kind of work.

In this situation, I would get some peaceful home herb mixture, and put together a honey jar so that this can bring peace to the home. This is important considering that the home is not a happy one.

Then you need to find out through your reading what would be the best way to get them out of the home. I mean you could hot foot them, or do some separation work to help separate them from your parents. In this case, you can also do some bend over work to bend them to your parents well, and have them get out of there.

tink999 · Unread post by **tink999** » Fri Oct 22, 2010 3:48 am

thanks, while i get the oil any idea if freezer jar would help her freeze her and his negativity towards my parent(have read 31 pages of the thread).

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 24, 2010 1:47 pm

Yes you can do a freezer spell if you would like.

tink999 · Unread post by **tink999** » Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:21 am

Fantastic thanks, so ill get a brown paper square it annoint commanding and compelling oils on the corners and write something like "all negativity verbal and physical be gone towards them" would i put parents names or their names on paper as i dont want anyone freezing me out then fold it and put in jar with water-any herbs? Thanks
Oh
If i froze out my ex would it just make me stop thinking of him or would it just freeze any contact on his behalf or on both
Thanks alot

Unread post by **uafoxsong** » Sat Nov 06, 2010 2:57 pm

Can anyone please help?! My mother and step father arived on my doorstep one day and decided to just "move in" (without my permission.) I am married, and own my own home. They have no place to go, no jobs, and no future prospects. I don't want to take care of any more family members, (including their 2 dogs). I have a full house without them here. It is putting a strain on my husbands and my relationship. I love my mom, and dont' want her to go away mad, just go away. They have been with me for 2 months now and I just want my house back to myself. I have asked them what their plans are, but they have no answers. Any suggestions?

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sat Nov 06, 2010 4:03 pm

Hi Stacia,
You might want to consider getting a reading on this situation with one of the fine readers at www.readersandrootworkers.org
It sounds like there are two major components to your situation
1.) Your mother and father have no money/no prospects so you need to encourage them to do money drawing and money stay with me work.
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html

2.) You need to get control of the situation--there are a number of dominating products sold by Lucky Mojo, here are a few of them:
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-do-as-i-say.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-influence.html

But again, because this is a family situation I would recommend that you get a reading and rootwork consultation so that you have a clear idea of what direction to go in and how to work the situation.
Good luck,
Bri

senora63 · Unread post by **senora63** » Sun Nov 21, 2010 12:40 pm

I already had a reading done. I was told that my love, which is currently "on hold", would not or could not move forward with our own relationship until his adult daughter moves out of the house. She is supposed to move within the year or so. It is just she and her father in the home. They have a very dysfunctional relationship-she doesn't respect him, manipulates him, etc. Theirs is definitely not a healthy relationship but I guess that is all that they know. My question is: What can I do to help her move out sooner? Lighting a candle (what color?) with banishing oil? What other steps can I take? I can not get into their house. What can I do from here? They live a few miles away. Thank you for your guidance.

senora63 · Unread post by **senora63** » Mon Nov 22, 2010 6:41 pm

No one? Well, I am assuming a black candle but maybe this is unethical because it is a parent/child bond? Or I was thinking possibly using the St. Expedite candle dressed with banishing oil and with my petition. Any one?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:39 pm

Well you are definitely correct, it is a parent/child bond regardless of the situation. Since you care about her father, I would suggest that you work toward soothing the relationship between them because it will make your relationship better. I have had personal experiences with such situations and that bond is strong. Try some healing (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html) for their relationship, I see you have had a reading, did you have one with an AIRR member (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org)? The reading would have revealed exactly what is going on, the reasons why he doesn't want to move forward with your relationship...e.g., sometimes there is a guilt issue.

senora63 · Unread post by **senora63** » Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:58 pm

Healing...hmmff...but I want her gone already... it was because of her actions that her father and I are not speaking now. My reading was not with an AIRR member. The issue I was told is because our relationship is "on hold". Not done forever..just on hold so he can get some stuff completed in his life. Anyways, I think I will try a St Expedite candle & oil with my petition...she is going to move out anyways..I just want to help her along..

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:02 am

Perhaps you can do an attraction spell kit, or dress an attraction candle and attract ANOTHER place to live to her. I would get some attraction oil on a green, or white candle.

www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

If you want something less harsh than hot foot you can work a banishing products

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-banishing.html

Or you can work some essence of bend over, and/or controlling products

www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

www.luckymojo.com/controlling.html

senora63 · Unread post by **senora63** » Tue Nov 23, 2010 11:20 am

Excellent advice! I will do a banishing candle on her...maybe an attraction candle to call another place for her to go to also. Two separate candles...green for attraction..and the banishing candle? What color? Red? White?
Thank you for your guidance/advice!!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Nov 23, 2010 11:45 am

Banishing you can use black or white if that is all you have.

Or you can have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church light them. They do not have a banishing candle, but if you go down to the plain colored candles you can pick a black or white candle to be lit, and state that you want it for banishing along with your petition.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

senora63 · Unread post by **senora63** » Tue Nov 23, 2010 7:47 pm

Thank you. I will burn a white candle with separation oil (what I have on hand) in addition to the green attraction candle so she will find a new place. Thank you!!

Littlestar · Unread post by **Littlestar** » Wed Dec 01, 2010 4:18 am

my own mother is working against me. it was told to me by 2 readers and i was told not to trust her went to her house the other day and what do i find an alter set up in her bedroom with my pic and candles saints etc surrounding me

id never not go the harming root BUT will not lose my bf or kids because of her either so what are my best options here

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Dec 01, 2010 4:32 am

First off you need to do some cleansing for your home, children, boyfriend, and most of all yourself.

www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

The uncrossing kit along with some extra candles for everyone else would be the best bet.

Next, I would get some fiery wall of protection going on.

www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

As for her, I would make a doll dedicated to her, and bind her by the legs, and arms. Then blind fold her. Now you can do a mirror box with the doll inside to send back her work to her. OR you can do a freezer spell as well to freezer her actions if you do not have to send her work back to her.

www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

Littlestar · Unread post by **Littlestar** » Wed Dec 01, 2010 4:37 am

thankyou. what kind of mother does that? im floored! i stole a tshirt oh hers from the hamper so i have a link and a photo of her. its a pink shirt only thing of hers in the hamper guess she had done laundry...can i do the doll from her shirt or just stuff it with some of the material?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Dec 01, 2010 4:48 am

Yes you can make her doll out of the shirt. In addition, I would make sure that your mother is actually trying to harm you. I would make sure you have a good grasp of what she is doing.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 01, 2010 1:56 pm

Find out what work she is doing specifically and address that. Do you remember what saints she was specifically working on?

Definately make a doll baby and toss it into the mirror box. I'd take this a step further and sprinkle Reversing powder where she'll walk into it so that her work will turn on her.

STH · Unread post by **STH** » Mon Dec 06, 2010 9:04 pm

Hi,

I have a brother who has been in and out, mostly in trouble for at least the last 10 years. He is 28 years old and is into drugs, is abusive, steals from family, demands money from the family. He has managed to stay semi under control most of this time because my mom was around. The problem is that my mom passed away earlier this year and since then he has gotten increasingly worse. He currently stays with my father and other brother. My father refuses to get an order of protection because he feels he is abandoning his son. He is causing so much stress in the household that he is making my father ill and I am afraid that my father will not live much longer if left in this situation. He is tearing the family apart. Some of the family no longer visit my father because of him. I would like to know what I can do to make him go away and leave the rest of us, especially my father alone. Any advice would be appreciated.

Thank you,

STH

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:52 am

When you are dealing with blood relatives it can be difficult to make them go and not return. However, Hotfoot products are where you want to start with such work:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
You also want to set up some protection around your family due to your brother's behavior:
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html
Cast Off Evil products would be helpful to your brother in getting rid of many of these issues and bad habits, especially when combined with other modalities:
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
And blood root is a good root to work with when dealing with difficult blood relations:
http://herb-magic.com/blood-root.html
Also, you may want to consider working with your mother's graveyard dirt when dealing with this situation.
http://www.luckymojo.com/graveyarddirt.html
Finally, as this deals with family and sounds complicated, and has been a pattern of behavior for a long time, you may want to seek out a reading with a professional reader and worker who can help you deal with the situation on a number of different levels. Find a list of us here: www.readersandrootworkers.org

good luck,
Bri

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:12 pm

Hello, All! Hope everyone is doing well.

Without going into too much detail, I have a problem with a friend of mine. We've been friends for a few years now and I genuinely like and care about him as a person, but lately I've noticed that he's been behaving in a very unusual fashion. Lately I've been introducing him to some of my other friends, brought him around to my various haunts, etc and he's gone out of his way to become the center of attention. Not in the usual "I'm new and want everyone to like me" sort of way, but in the "I'm going to be everyone's best friend and make sure you all love me the most" kind of way. Please don't say I'm paranoid, he's already gone out of his way to show me up at various events and in front of various circles of people, and has even gone so far as to try to poach perspective mates from me on the grounds that he rarely goes out with good men, and therefor I "owe" it to him to let him have mine. (Never minding that none of the men I've been dating are gay or bisexual, he just wants the attention.)

Anyway, I've been getting the feeling that he's been evil-eyeing me or worse, and I just want to do something to make him like he used to be: a good friend, not a frenemy. What do you all suggest?

Thanks in advance for your help!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Dec 08, 2010 10:39 am

Honestly - get rid of him. His true colors are showing, and you don't need people like that in your life. My two-cents.

Do some Stop Gossip work to make sure he doesn't stir up any trouble, and then use Banishing or Separation to get him out of your life.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Dec 08, 2010 10:55 am

I'd also advise Cut and Clear to get over your feelings for him and clear the way for new friends to come into your life.

Unread post by **KhonsuMes** » Thu Dec 09, 2010 4:46 pm

Miss Bri:

As always those are great recommendations and so I am commenting as a way to keep available for future use.

What about Run Devil Run products in this kind of situation? I am thinking it would treat the family member more harshly than Cast Off Evil - getting rid of them a la Hotfoot, not helping them overcome the deeper cause of the problems like Cast Off Evil. Does that sound like a workable variation?

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Fri Dec 10, 2010 4:13 pm

Exactly the question i had in mind about frenemy about a good friend who is a complete opposite personality in professional life. As nice as he can be in personal life, he is exactly opposite in professional life and wants to fight with each and every person. I've tried ignoring it for quite some time but I've started to feel not so nice every time I have a conversation with him. He's sort of bringing negativity in my mind & life too. I feel bad to stop talking to him so I kept using tranquility/healing products on myself since I respected the friendship but now it has started affecting me quite a bit.

Would it be ok to use Seperation products? I feel sad for him as a friend though.I feel like helping him since he's a friend but I'm scared to tell him his behavior with people is not right as he gets obsessive and angry if anyone tries to correct him. He says no one in life has ever tried to correct him.

Ms Hill · Unread post by **Ms Hill** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 12:46 pm

I have married into a family that is very "clannish". They have been working rootwork on me and my husband on and off now for about a year. When they first began, the conditions caused him to always be upset and eventually he ended up with a brain hemorrage. He is not all togethere healed, has short term memory loss and some things wrong with his body, but he is better than they expected him to be.

The family members are jealous of me and his relationship and very jealous that he no longer needs to be in the depressing situation that the rest of the family is in.

The members of his family constantly talk about him and try to make him feel inferior and will even refer to his lack of ability to remember - will characterize him as "retarded".

These people are from the deep woods of the country. They are very aggressive (always fighting), will not work, always living off the government and always trying to get others to agree of their idea of that is how everyone should think. They think everybody owes them and if you are family, you are obligated to always give them money, always let them take advantage of you.

I want to get rid of them. I have done a lot of rootwork and spells on them but they are so narcissistic that they will just deal with the troubles and get right back in there to cause trouble for others. I need something strong that will inflict mental pain and remind them that they need to stay away from trying to hurt me and my husband. And I am not against using some of the same tactics they used and cause them to hurt physically as well.

I have had a few readings this year and all of the readers have told me that these family members are contemplating other types of crossings for both of us. The readers say that the family members are very jealous of what we have and will stop at nothing - including death, to stop him from being successful. However, the readers are also always trying sell me some type of product. Normally it is protection for $100.00.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 1:20 pm

You should get a reading from an AIRR reader to find out what they have been throwing your way; otherwise, you will be throwing in the dark.
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
Look for a reader that specializes in your type of needs. You kinda get a feel when you look through the list.

In the meantime you should have some protection going for you and your family. Look into Fiery Wall of Protection found here
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
I recommend the full spellkit.

During the reading, you should ask for help with this situation. The reader will have appropriate tactics to get things cleared up. Good Luck in your findings.

I am posting a link here that describes Protection From Enemies found on the AIRR website http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... afe_Travel

Ms Hill · Unread post by **Ms Hill** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 1:36 pm

Thanks so much for the advice! I have that spell kit already and used it about 6 mths ago and I guess it is time to redo it. Do you have any suggestions on the saints that I should use since I will be using it specifically for this situation?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 2:26 pm

Saint Michael http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Dec 14, 2010 6:43 pm

I have had a few readings this year and all of the readers have told me that these family members are contemplating other types of crossings for both of us. The readers say that the family members are very jealous of what we have and will stop at nothing - including death, to stop him from being successful. However, the readers are also always trying sell me some type of product. Normally it is protection for $100.00.

I would advise you to study about the readers you consult and get to know them before spending money. You can make a good start by reading about the Code of Ethics for members of AIRR here:

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... _of_Ethics

Members of AIRR are serious about their work, consistent in their commitment to their clients -- and many of them may be hired for economicl sessions of magical coaching and teaching you spellcraft as well as, or in place of spell-casting on your behalf. Rdead about Magical Coaching here:

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... l_Coaching

Good luck.

Noele · Unread post by **Noele** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 7:39 pm

Hi all,

I have a bit of an unusual situation, and I hope that you can suggest some products/actions to help me with it.

My youngest sister, who is 21, has these "friends" who are, to put it bluntly, huge users [and losers]. My sister is a very nice girl and she CLINGS to these people even though they constantly abuse her for rides, money, food, everything. They also treat her like crap on a daily basis. As a result, little sister has no self-esteem, is always broke, and is gradually turning into a loser herself, which bugs the hell out of me because she's smart and nice and pretty and should NOT be this way. These people are also VERY immature and do things that teenagers would do, such as prank call people and decorate houses with toilet paper--despite being in their 20s. They've narrowly escaped the cops on several occasions.

My other sister and I have tried in vain to point out what these people are doing to her, but little sister refuses to listen to us and cries, saying these are her best friends. Thing is, little sister actually has other friends who are nice and mature and kind, but they all went off to other cities for college and as such aren't really around anymore. Little sister goes to a local university, and the loser friends don't go to school at all, and some of them don't even have jobs. I have no idea why she won't try to keep in closer touch with her nice friends, but she won't...

My question is, what can I do, if anything, to move these people away from her and out of her life? It really bothers me to see my sister constantly being picked on and always depressed and broke because of these so called "friends". They've eroded her self-esteem to the point that she has none anymore. Normally I would figure "well, its none of my business, they're her friends..." but true friends wouldn't be so cruel and abusive to someone. I feel like I need to do something to help her.

Whew. Sorry that was so long. Any help and/or advice is greatly appreciated! Thanks for reading.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:50 pm

You could use Cast off Evil for your sister. Please read the entire website here (http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html) because you definitely have a bumpy road ahead. Removing the friends are one thing, but your sister will have to take responsibility for her own actions now and down the road. Good Luck!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 9:34 pm

I would work with cast off evil products mentioned above, and in the mean time do some clarity, and king solomon wisdom to help her make the wise and clear decision to move on and see these so called friends for what they are. And you may want to follow up with some crucible of courage as well.

www.luckymojo.com/products-clarity.html
www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom
www.luckymojo.com/products-crucible-of-courage.html

Then I would attract some friends to her that are good and share common interests. I would write on the petition a few characteristics you want the friends to have.

www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

And lastly you can work a freezer spell to keep those friends away.

www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

Noele · Unread post by **Noele** » Mon Dec 27, 2010 2:06 pm

Thank you both for the suggestions, I have a good bit of info to mull over now!

Cali_Girl · Unread post by **Cali_Girl** » Wed Jan 05, 2011 11:15 pm

I have a family member who has kind of become overwhelming for me.

Actions have been kind, but I know this person heart is black towards me.

I feel this person is only around to use me and potentially harm me. Especially want this person to stay out of my home.

What can I do to get this person away from my home and out of my life??????

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Jan 05, 2011 11:21 pm

This has been discussed at length, read the threads below.

Get rid of new unwanted person living in your home get-rid-of-new-unwanted-person-living-i ... 40s60.html
how can i stop unwanted people at my house how-can-i-stop-unwanted-people-at-my-ho ... 1s330.html

nesnah10 · Unread post by **nesnah10** » Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:07 am

Hi! I'm very new to the forum; but I have been reading posts for over a year. I have a situation that I feel goes in this area. Im from N.C. and I have been dating this guy for a while. he is the only son and has four sisters. When we first got together he was separated from his wife. 2 Years into the relatonship his family were nice to me. Before delivering our first child; I started having difficulty in my pregnancy. The delivery went well, but my daughter was very sick for the first 4 years of her life. This guy's sisters would come over to our home often to se my daughter. Their relationship towards me changed.

I got pregnant with another child 3 yrs ago;and this made one of the sisters furious. When I delivered my son; I was on the delivery table for 2 hours aftter my son arrived. I had contacted a sister before the delivery; so she could contact her brother on the job. I never recieved a call from either one. The day after the delivery; the sister informed me that she does not see me as being her brothers type. She also stated that she wanted to know what was going on with us. My boyfriend did not come to see our son until 2wks later. U could tell that he was upset about his sisters action. He was in Canada when the baby was working and he had no knowledge of the birth

4 months later; I could not walk because of a weak left leg. I began treatment with an orthopedic and got a reading. I was informed that I had been rooted; and I was told to do some work. Being new to this game; I stop the work when he came home. I have not allowed my 9yr old or my new child to go visit with their aunts. I don't know what they will do. I honestly believe that the trips to my home; the food sent, and the kindess shown at the beginning was a plot

I recently noticed that he has started straying lately; and I got another reading, I found out that the sisters are very good friends with the once ex; and that they are working together to root me. I also found out that as long as the sister have a hand in it;he strays from home. I recently ordered some candles from LM; and I ordered a mojo bag. I think I might have trouble getting the two coins with our birth year, but I will try. I thougt abot having some candles set at the altar of LM. r there any other suggestions?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 10, 2011 11:07 am

You need to get a reading from a professional rootworker concerning this matter. This is very important because you need to get some help and understand what they are infact doing to you.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

While you are waiting you need to do some thorough cleansing on you, your children, your home, and your husband.

www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

Then you are going to do some fiery wall of protection work. To protect you, your home, husband, and children.

www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

question-about-protection-spells-t10770.html

I would HIGHLY recommend you put them in a mirror box. However, you need to find out in the reading if they are hiring someone. In addition, you need to consult with a rootworker to get some instruction on how to construct a mirror box, and perhaps they can do it for you.

http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.htm ... gmirrorbox

nesnah10 · Unread post by **nesnah10** » Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:14 am

Thanks I will. I have been burning candles and taking a spiritual bath, and I don't have the pain in my legs now. The Follow-Me Boy has been very effective as well.

nesnah10 · Unread post by **nesnah10** » Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:21 am

thxs! I will. I got a reading yesterday, and I was told that things are looking up. I am burning candles and using the follow-me boy oil. He seems to be getting suspicious of what I am doing; and he will contact me atleast an hour after I come into contact with the oil. I read the forum and did a freezer spell on the frenemies, and I would like to get him to the point that he is not under his sibling influence so much; the thing is; you don't know when he will come to my home. Sometimes he is waiting for me. I had to find another location to burn my candles. I think I will get LM to burn some for me as well.

April · Unread post by **April** » Sat Jan 15, 2011 1:10 am

Hi,

I am having a difficult time. My husband's ex-wife has been giving us grief for years. We have had all sorts of financial, marital, intimacy, vehicle, job problems for years. His son refuses to reconcile with him.

We were stationed in California. My husband retired from the Air Force in 2000. We moved back to Texas. We have had problem after problem ever since we came back. His Ex lives here as well. I feel that she is responsible for all the negativity in our lives.

My husband went to college, he got his AA in Computer Networking, he has a 4.0 average, he applied for several computer positions but he never got hired, so he gave up and is now working @ a gas station. he paid child support for both his son and daughter. His son is 29 and is normal. His daughter is mentally retarded, she is 27 years old and he is still paying child support. My husband helped his ex with her college degree in education. We live paycheck to paycheck, barely making it. I have always been very nice to her. I have been courteous to her. I have never denied my husband the right to see or spend time with his kids. He never complained about paying child support, he did what was right. They have been divorced since 1993.

I'm so tired of the years of pain, sadness, poverty etc... that she has inflicted on us. I'm so glad we don't have kids, otherwise it would be so much harder on us. She has remarried but the damage on my husband and I continues.

I want to move to Las Vegas, Nevada. I want to physically move in order to start fresh. This would make it harder for her to lay tricks and harder for her to continue her spell on us. Besides I really like LV, Nevada.

Thanks so much for your help with recommendations for spiritual supplies, prayers, and other ways to help ourselves.

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Sat Jan 15, 2011 5:45 am

Hi April,
Have you had a reading done to see if work has been done on the two of you?
Otherwise I'd recommend that you do that to see if that really is the case.
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/
If you indeed have been cursed by her, then you can place her in a mirror box. But don't jump to that conclusion, even if work has been done on you it could actually been done to keep your husband and his ex fighting, by a third party. So get a reading by an AIRR reader.

Either way he might benefit from cleansing, road opener then crown of success and Steady work. To help him in his job. You can buy a uncrossing kit and a Steady work kit.

Since your husband and his son doesn't speak you can put them both in a Peaceful Home honey jar to make the relationship between them sweeter.

You can read more and order the spellkits and the honey jar here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

April · Unread post by **April** » Sat Jan 15, 2011 7:24 am

Hi,

Thanks so much for responding. I intend on getting a reading. I'm very sure it is her. She know people where we live who lay tricks and such because she told me many years ago.'My husband and I were very happy when we lived in California, but the minuite we moved back to Texas everything has gone downhill, so yes I'm positive she paid someone to do some heavy duty work. My husband retired as a E-6, and his retirement check is very little.He agreed to pay for her college degree as part of the divorce because she threatend to take 1/2 of it away if he didn't pay for her masters degree.So as you can see she is quite vindictive and a manipulater and having to deal with her since 1993 has taken it's tole on my husband and I in every area of our lives.I am going to take a look @ the readers and get a reading. Thank You so much for your help and prayers

Cali_Girl · Unread post by **Cali_Girl** » Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:28 pm

MOVED OUT TODAY!

Thanks once again Lucky Mojo.

She threatened me though, so I'm having M.I.S.C. set FWP lights.

Thank You LM!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:50 pm

Great! ...and excellent follow-up!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Mon Jan 31, 2011 9:11 pm

Great work!!!

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:06 am

yeah thanks for the follow up!

Melodymagic · Unread post by **Melodymagic** » Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:54 am

I want help to get my mother in law and the other side of my son's family out both his and my life, they very ghetto people and don't have the best morals and I don't want them to have any involvement with me or my son's life and I don't want them to influence him in anyway. So much so I wish never got married, I feel their presence ruined my wedding. I also want my husband to also become the man/husband I would like him to be. But mainly I want her completely out of our lives, her presence already causes me stress.

Please help, the sooner the better!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Feb 07, 2011 5:18 pm

Hi Melodymagic:

Well, you may not like this answer, but I'll give it to you anyway: Try your absolute best to get things sweet between your mother-in-law and yourself. You know why? She gave birth to your husband. She had a hand (perhaps the biggest hand) in making him the man you love, so there must be *something* good about her. Force a man to choose between his wife and his mother and that will turn into World War 3.

You may want to start by working a honey jar on your mother-in-law to "sweeten" her up to you. Make the old lady sweet, so she's not so nasty to you when she comes around! You can find a list of the Lucky Mojo Honey Jar products here; try the "Peaceful Home" jar:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

If you want control and hold on to your husband, you may want to try a Nation Sack, which is a special type of mojo bag only for women that allows women to be in control in a relationship with a man:

http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html

Start with sweetening your mother-in-law, and let the haters be. If they get really bad, there are plenty of ways in hoodoo to protect your home and family and banish meddlesome people.

Good luck,
MaryBee

Melodymagic · Unread post by **Melodymagic** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:19 am

Thanks, but she actually did not raise him she was a teenage Mom and he was raised by his grandmother who has now passed. When in her care she had him around all kinds of negative influences and things children should not be exposed to, I do not want the same for my child. She is only now trying to have so much involvement because she is no longer with her man and is baby crazy.

Ironically all that is wrong with my husband, can be attributed to her, the way he deals with relationships, money, poor guy isn't even sure the person he is told is his father is his real father.

I don't have a problem being nice, I just have a family now and don't want my son near any of it, I have seen how the other young kids are raised and what they have been exposed too.

At times I wish I had never married him, we had a rocky way to the alter and perhaps it was a mistake and the pregnancy was a total accident because I had said I wanted to work on the marriage before having kids, I was on BC....anyhow I love my son and want the best from him and no I can't guard him 24/7 so I want to just have those influences completely gone.

luckyboi317 · Unread post by **luckyboi317** » Sat Feb 12, 2011 8:35 pm

To begin with before doing any of this if I were you I'd tell my husband that I wanted to see a family therapist together and then go in and see the therapist first to discuss your concerns and try to get the therapist to see things from your point of view so that you can bring your husband in and the therapist can talk to the two of you together and back you up. After that I'd do this:

First of all I'd say you should give your son and husband amethyst pendants, and wear one yourself after you've empowered them all, amethyst is a traditional stone used by native american healers, it takes in negative energy and transforms it into positive energy which it then gives off. Then I'd set up feng shui mirrors to shield your home from any kind of toxic energy or attacks, in addition I'd hang a bessom (witch's broom) over the inside of your doorway (after its been properly empowered) to keep out negative energy and beings, then if you can afford it I'd get two small stone lions and a stone gargoyle, the lions go on either side of the entrance to your home and the gargoyle goes above it, properly empowered they guard your home against those who would wish it ill will. Then if you have a house I would empower either citrine or white quartz crystals and bury them around the perimeter of your property, visualize and empowering them to for a magickal shield around your home that no negative energy or anyone who would disrupt or hurt your family will be able to enter. Then I'd make a mirror box sturdy enough it won't break painted black on the outside and a poppet of your mother in-law. Take the poppet, candles and mirror box off your property preferably to a very old cemetery. Surround the poppet with four black candles pierced with coffin nails and dressed with sweet grass, sea salt and banishing oil, ring all four candles and the poppet with a garland of sweet grass, holly and sea salt, hog tie the poppet with black silk ribbon, light the candles and say to the poppet "(Insert mother in-laws name) this is a prison for all your negative energy and all the negative behavior you've brought around my family. No longer will you bring my family down with you, no longer shall you negatively affect my family, if ever you come around my family you shall only display your best positive energies and attributes and you will only keep the company of positive people so long as you are in the presence of my family. If you can not be a positive influence on my family then you shall never see or speak to them again until you are able to be a force for good in their lives without any negativity. This I demand and this is how it shall be." As you let the candles burn down a while, dig a hole, as deep as you can manage, six feet is ideal but likely impractical. With the candles still lit, put the top on and seal the box shut so that its impossible to open, imagine the candles continuing to burn eternally, a cage your mother in law negative energy, then bury the box. Its best if this can be done at midnight. Then walkaway and just forget about her.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Feb 12, 2011 10:51 pm

Let's try to remain with the parameters of this forum by discussing LM products as they are used in traditional conjure and hoodoo. As such, talks of mirror shields, empowered gargoyles and such should be kept to PMs.

Not only will this keep people from being confused about what conjure is but also performs a practical function. For example, your use of sweetgrass may have some loose links with Native American funerary practices, but the link stops there. In conjure work sweetgrass is burned for peace, purification, or in honor of spirits.

For the work you've outlined we'd burn Reversal Incense, Sulphur, or something similar.

So again, if you have suggestions that are somewhat out of line with conjure practices, i.e empowering things, herbal uses that have non conjure associations etc, please keep them to a PM.

Thank you.

beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Wed Feb 16, 2011 11:55 pm

I have a relative who is meddling with my love relationship. Spreading false rumors, stalking me online trying to ruin my relationship. Speaking ill words to me. I want this person to stop bothering me and get out of my life. Please guide me on what to do to put an end to this. Thanks.

Also I want to add that this is a long distant relative who lives about 2000 miles from here.