Heal Past Love Pain, Remove Love Blockages, Open the Road to New Love

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 28, 2010 7:39 pm

Sampson Seal Root (http://www.herb-magic.com/solomons-seal-root.html) is a great protector.

Angelic Root (http://www.herb-magic.com/angelica-root.html) enhances female powers.

Read about the properties of the various herbs here (http://www.herb-magic.com/angelica-root.html)
on the other hand, I recommend ordering a hand from LM because they are truly experts and leave no guess work.

MojoMama · Unread post by **MojoMama** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 11:13 am

Hello,

I have recently started seeing someone who was in a long-term marriage. He thought all was going well, but then she left him and their child. As a result, he relocated, and that is how we met. We went out, and hit it off very well. He now says he is confused and uncertain, but wants to still see me. There is also the issue of his kid not quite comfortable with dad dating. They split up early this year. I have ordered a Come to Me kit. What else would be good to do?

Thanks for your advice. I hope to take the course some time soon.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 12:10 pm

I would get a reading on the situation with one of the excellent readers at www.readersandrootworkers.org to kick things off--that will give you a clear idea what direction to go in as well as what pitfalls may show up along the way.
I would also recommend that you do a honey jar on the man and his child so that they are both favorably disposed towards you. He need clarity and wisdom in order to decide what to do about his wife. If she left him and they are not planning to reconcilie then he needs to file for divorce and do a cut and clear spell. She will always be a part of his life because she is the mother of his child, but assuming he decides that he does not want to try to patch things up, there is no reason why your current relationship with him need suffer due to that connection.
Good luck,
Bri

MojoMama · Unread post by **MojoMama** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 4:29 pm

Thank you, Mis Bri. He is already divorced and she lives in another state. How would I go about doing a honey jar? What should I put in it?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 5:28 pm

You definately want to start with a reading. Situations like this have too many dynamics involved to ignore.

For a honey jar you can include things like Cloves for friendship, Basil for peacful home, Rosemary to help you remain on top of this situation, Althaea for healing and similar herbs. Sweetening his kid is a gentle way of working this situation, but start with a reading definately.

MojoMama · Unread post by **MojoMama** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:47 pm

Ok, I will try that. I've got to get some money together for a reading now. Could it be done in a 30 min reading?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:54 pm

Yes, check the list posted by Miss Bri.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:44 pm

Many readers offer different options. From $10 yes-no readings and up from there and several readers have 30 minute and full hour options.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Nov 03, 2010 5:04 am

MojoMama wrote:Ok, I will try that. I've got to get some money together for a reading now. Could it be done in a 30 min reading?

Oh yes, a half hour reading is standard and you can get a lot of information in a half hour

Blessings,
Bri

MojoMama · Unread post by **MojoMama** » Fri Nov 12, 2010 2:55 pm

Well I did contact one person, but haven't heard back yet. There have been some interesting new developments, however, which make things a bit more... interesting.

There was another fellow who contacted me at about the same time. I friended him on a social media site when he sent me his link. He is very conservative minded and, well, seemed on the surface to be a person not very open to, lets just say spiritualist practices. My viewpoints on those points are very blatently put out there on my site, so I figured he'd just look it over, and go quietly on his way.

This is not the case. In fact, we have been chatting quite a bit, and, although my path and his are definitely different, he seems much more open minded than I originally thought. He is intelligent, very handsome, and seems to be an all-around great "catch."

The first guy simultaneously seems to have faded into the distance. I don't hear much from him.

I find myself very drawn to this other fellow, although we have not met. I believe I am going to try to call into the show this week so I can get some guidance. Is there a possibility with this gentleman who travels a road so differently from my own? I wonder. From my own perspective, it doesn't bother me that people don't share my viewpoint, in fact if everyone saw things the same, life would be boring. I just wonder the potential for a relationship with someone who might be averse to what I do, especially since, as he put it, he is seeking a "female role model" for his teenage daughter, and to be honest, I'm hoping to find a role model for my sons.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Nov 12, 2010 3:46 pm

personally id like to date someone who is different in some ways keeps it interesting, why would I want a clone of me, im with myself all day lol. Good luck, you can still use the honey jar on the new dude to sweeten him..though internet websites becareful and make sure the ppl are who they say ( web chat? ) check names and all that better safe then sorry. if all is lagit can burn a come to me candle or have LM set one to bring you closer.

MojoMama · Unread post by **MojoMama** » Fri Nov 12, 2010 4:36 pm

True, and I have verified all that is verifiable. I like your perspective

Think I will do the honey jar. Can't hurt, wouldn't hurt him in any way either. I'm just looking forward to the time when I can afford to take the course.

IBube · Unread post by **IBube** » Sat Nov 13, 2010 8:53 am

I'd use Van Van oil or incense and use it to smoke a pink candle, probably a figural one. I'd write the person's name on the candle and let it burn out, offering short prayers on the candle off and on while it is burning.

I'd also be careful. When a person is confused, it's not always a good time to get involved with them. Good luck.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Nov 13, 2010 12:09 pm

Clarity products can help all parties gain clarity into the situation. It would be beneficial in such a situation where no one quite knows what they want.

BLACKCAT20 · Unread post by **BLACKCAT20** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 8:56 am

my love life is a wreck cant seem 2 meet the right 1, i tried a few spells but it wasnt what i wanted, nothing seem 2 work, now i can bring someone back 2 me, that always work, but 4 new love my spells fall short, is there a spell that really works for new love, or should i try asking a saint 4 help. thanx !

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 10:46 am

You might consider getting a reading to find out what is interfering with new love in your life. Insight could be greatly advantageous. You can get a reading at www.readersandrootworkers.org

If you have old love that may be holding you back Cut and Clear and help you start fresh.

Road Opening can also be employed to remove the blocks in your life.

Good luck!

BLACKCAT20 · Unread post by **BLACKCAT20** » Sun Nov 14, 2010 10:53 am

thank you.

SapphiraFire · Unread post by **SapphiraFire** » Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:02 pm

I recently (about a week ago) had an argument with my boyfriend and he was on the doorstep I was livid and was at the time adament that I wanted it to be over and wanted him to leave me alone.
I threw 4 eggs at his face whilst saying this. Then I closed the door. He later rung doorbell we argued he came in and stayed the night as I couldnt get rid of him. We made up the next day and he apologised for upsetting me.
We are fine now and I do NOT want us to split up I love him to bits and he does me its just from time to time I get really upset & angry at how his insensitivity & thoughtlessness lets me down. We do NOT have any serious issues & most of the time make each other very happy. I am just very hotheaded at his behaviour sometimes.
We also have a baby on the way

My HUGE worry is that eggs are used for jinxing, particularly to get rid of someone. Im well aware of the get away spell where you throw it at their house & tell them to get away. However, although I knew this I WAS NOT in anyway using the eggs for magical purposes-I did not intend to use them for magical intent on my boyfriend to get him to leave. Sure I meant the words at the time as I was furuois and at the time thought we were doomed.
I am just worried if I have done some magical harm either to him or to me- I have since this incident been ill with lethargy, sore throat, achey limbs & general eurgh feeling. I am worried whether I have done something to change his feelings towards me or that I have somehow cursed myself by throwing the eggs it was afterall my doorstep it occurred on.
I have put Dragon's Blood on my person & on the doorstep and place the eggs were thrown & said a prayer to remove the negativity of that night & to protect us. I will never do anything like this again. I really just was not thinking straight at the time & feel really bad for it.
I am really scared, especially as we have a baby on the way. Please help!!!!

xx

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 19, 2010 4:08 pm

Well, you do have a baby on the way, and I am sure that being pregnant makes you feel tired at times. Not to mention its cold and flu season. I would not worry that you curse yourself, and somehow got him to leave. You hurled the eggs out of anger. However, if you are terribly worried about it, then I would cleanse yourself, home, and him to make sure that you have removed any negative energy, and then follow that up with protection.

Again, I do not think you have too much to worry about considering that wasnt your intentions. But I would cleanse, and perhaps even get a reading if you are terribly worried..just to make sure.

TheGreyMan · Unread post by **TheGreyMan** » Mon Dec 20, 2010 9:32 am

I agree with starsinthesky7. It wasn't your intent, and it wasn't/isn't how you really feel. I think the countermeasures you have taken are more than enough to fix any harm that may have been done, and also establish your true intentions. Best of luck with the new addition to your family!

Bipa · Unread post by **Bipa** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 6:03 pm

Finally I got a reading and my rootworker recomended I do work to help the guy have some clarity and wisdom to make the wise choices

now I am unsure what products to get, should I get the king solomon and clarity oils and anoint a candle? Are those oils enough or should I get some herbs too?
and another newbie question
doing a return to me bath, how exactly does that work since we are not in physical contact?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 6:22 pm

Yes, you should get king solomon wisdom products along with clarity.

You can simply buy the lucky mojo dressed vigil lights for king solomon wisdom. There is not a fixed candle for clarity but if you scroll down you can purchase a plain white vigil light, and have them dress it for the intent of clarity. If not you can simply buy the oils and/or powder and buy some yellow offeratory or vigil candles and annoint it with the oil or powders. You dont need to get the herbs because they are already in the sachet powder and oils. For clarity you can simply by the oil or powder or both, and annoint it on a white candle.

www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
www.luckymojo.com/products-king-solomon-wisdom.html
www.luckymojo.com/products-clarity.html

Return to me is to get a lover to return to you as a lover. I mean they can return to you by physical, or digital contact (emails, instant messenger, facebook). That is for you to define how you want them to return to you.

Personally, in this case, I would not just do a bath. I would actually do a moving candle spell or you can buy a return to me vigil light.

I would actually get a come to me spell kit, and buy some return to me oil, or return to me powder and add that to the candles. This way you are getting him to come and return to you.

www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html

Bipa · Unread post by **Bipa** » Fri Jan 07, 2011 6:16 pm

thank you for you reply
I'm already working on a honey jar so I'm afraid of doing too much work
I already ordered some healing, clarity and king solomon oil for a vigil candle
and I can't make my mind if I'm ok with just this
my honey jar has catnip, juniper berries, love me oil and chupparosa oil
I was advised not to do anything manipulative or dominating

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Jan 07, 2011 10:17 pm

The products I mentioned are not dominating. Magic itself is manipulative such as manipulating and/or encouraging people's feelings, action, thoughts. But wisdom and clarity is not dominating.
Lastly, if you are afraid of doing too much work then you should probably hire someone else to do the work for you. You cannot be afraid to work for something that you want.

Bipa · Unread post by **Bipa** » Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:17 am

My problem is not to do the work myself, I was thinking maybe it was too much to be done on one target but I have ordered the come to me spell kit

my previous order has arrived now I have a few more questions about the clarity work
can I start tomorrow since this is regarding love or is it sunday the best day for this?
and dumb questions: should I write a petition on the candle? use the target's personal concerns?

Bipa · Unread post by **Bipa** » Fri Jan 14, 2011 6:21 am

a little help please

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 14, 2011 9:27 am

As starsnthesky7 said, its not too much work, to ask for clarity and wisdom to make a choice but you have to make that decision, no one else can. As for the day of week to do this work, again it is a choice; you can work any spell anytime, Friday is the day for love and money work, and Sunday the day for success work. Yes you can write a petition on the candle or on paper and place under the candle and yes you can use your target's personal concerns. What type of candle are you using?

Bipa · Unread post by **Bipa** » Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:54 pm

thanks for the reply! I have a white vigil candle to anoint clarity and king solomon wisdom oil. I will start sunday

And later I will do a come to me spell when that order arrives

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 14, 2011 8:26 pm

Good Luck in your work Bipa.

Tigerlily86 · Unread post by **Tigerlily86** » Mon Jan 17, 2011 10:58 pm

I don't necessarily want to reconnect with this guy or date him again anytime soon. But I want him to think positively about me if I ever cross his thoughts or bump into him. I don't like how I acted when we dated each other. I was really emotionally immature. So would a reconciliation candle suffice? or a road opener? a freezer spell to freeze his negative thoughts about me? I won't be able to get a reading until the end of the month. So any suggestions would be helpful in the mean time! Otherwise I'll just wait it out. Thank you.

lspcmplex · Unread post by **lspcmplex** » Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:03 am

A honey jar would probably be a good idea in getting him to think sweet thoughts about you.

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Tue Jan 18, 2011 1:07 pm

Hi, I would put him in a honey jar to sweeten him to you. It is an on-going work so it can help maintain those positive feelings should you want to try to reconnect with him in the future. If there are some negative feelings towards you, then I would include some reconciliation elements like Balm of Gilead in order to help get over those feelings. You may want to add some healing elements as well if you believe he's been hurt in the relationship and holding on to that pain. For healing I would probably use Althaea, Angelica, white rose and Lavender. If you want to foster friendship, you can add clove as well. You can try divination on the best herbs to use.

I tend to do a road opener before any work just to clear out any unforeseen obstacles but that is just me.

If you are really serious, you may want to consider a reading to discuss the best approach. http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

link on honey jars: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
thread on honey jars: honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html
link on herbs: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatherbs.html

good luck

SapphiraFire · Unread post by **SapphiraFire** » Thu Jan 20, 2011 9:41 am

Thankyou both starsinthesky7 and TheGreyMan for your kind messages. I hope you are both right

I am still ill with more things now but think its just stress.

Still I think I shall do some cleansing of the house at least. Am going to use an uncrossing wash & hope for the best. Any other suggestions for washes (house & person) or prayers? I am pagan and dont really feel comfortable with psalm's from the bible.

Kind regards

SapphiraFire xx

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Fri Jan 21, 2011 11:04 am

Hi SapphiraFire,
You can pray from your own heart, and also ask the herbs and roots that are used in your work to help you.
You can use peaceful home products or house blessing products to help the home have a good loving atmosphere.

rico69 · Unread post by **rico69** » Thu Jan 27, 2011 8:06 pm

A guy put a spell on my woman which caused my woman to cheat on me with him. I found out 6 weeks later and started the reversal spell. I also learned the guy went to a worker to cast the spell. This spell was very strong and it took several reversals to brake the spell.

Although I broke the spell and she is back with me, my lady appears to have changed mentally due to the spell. Clearing of her mind after this bad relationship is what I am seeking

I need to know what I can do to completely wipe away the thoughts she had and that are still affecting her mind. She is not the same. I want her back the way she was.

Is there such a spell to fix her up and restore her peace of mind?

Is there something we can do as a couple to reunite our fidelity again?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Jan 27, 2011 8:15 pm

Uncrossing work, Healing work, Clarity, and Reconciliation is what you are looking for.

rico69 · Unread post by **rico69** » Fri Jan 28, 2011 4:42 am

I do not see spell kits for healing work, and clarity. Where do I find this information in how to perform?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 28, 2011 6:29 am

Uncrossing Spiritual Products (http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html)
Healing Spiritual Products (http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html)
Clarity Spiritual Products (http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html)
Reconciliation Spiritual Products (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html)

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Fri Jan 28, 2011 8:29 am

Hi rico69,
Healing work can be done in many different ways. Since you might not be so used to this work you could order the uncrossing and reconciliation spellkits and vigil candles for healing and for clarity. You can back the vigil lights up by getting the same oils to use for example while giving her massage or putting some drops in her hair products. You can also have the church set the lights for you.

LM also makes dollbabies for love. You can work that doll by smoking it in the appropriate incense and praying.

TriniCherries · Unread post by **TriniCherries** » Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:12 pm

Hey everyone, I met a really nice gentleman about a month ago. He's really sweet and I'm really attracted to him, but recently he has drawn back from me because of an incident that took place involving a text message pertaining to his sexual performance.

Yes I know I screwed up big time.

But anyways I know it's really quick to jump into a relationship, but I would like to know what kind of oils, or mojo bags I can use to make things good again, better and a lot stronger than before.

I want him to not to be able to resist me and want to be around me whenever he can get the chance. I'm really not sure about candles since I do have small children and other family members around, and they are really nosy, so either an oil, a combination of oils or a really good mojo bag would be suffice.

Please help a chick out, I would like to have this person in my life and would like things to be better.

Thanks a bunch in advance, TriniCherries

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Mon Jan 31, 2011 10:00 am

Hi TriniCherries,
First you should look in to reconciliation products to help him forgive you and reconcile.
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

After that you might look into Follow me Boy supplies to make him follow you and be more attracted to you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html

You can also get a Love Me mojo hand to build a strong love between you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatmojo.html

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jan 31, 2011 11:37 am

I would recommend a reading first to see if this is something worth pursuing, and if you can get what you want out of the situation. It is just better to know rather than wasting your time, and money.

I agree with the products above as well, and you may want to work with some fire of love, and betwitching products as wel.

www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html
www.luckymojo.com/betwitching.html

In addition, you can always get the missionary church to light candles for you.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:37 pm

Welcome to the forum TriniCherries. I agree with the reading first and if positive follow the advice given. Good Luck in your endeavor.

tayra · Unread post by **tayra** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 3:15 pm

I have a complex problem here and I although everything was going good I think I made a mistake and now I think I'm losing all what I have accomplished. Here is my story..

I have been going out with this awesome guy for almost 7 months.. He is just what I asked for and I really feel very good with him.

I had an ex before who i lived with last year and it's been now 1 year since we separated, In fact, I asked for help in this forum to get back to him but with time I realized he is not for me and I will never will want to be with him again.. he is just a bad person and doesn't make me any good to me.

So well, I met this guy we dated for a couple of months back in July but somehow after 2 months he started to being distant. We didn't lost contact because even if he didn't see each other as we used to do it. we kept sending texts till late November when everything changed (Thanks to my Honey Jar and my pinks candles.. they really worked!)

Anyway.. he changed, he started to look for me again but this time I could know and feel there were feelings envolved. We started to see each other in a every other day basis but I knew (because he was engaged and betrayed) he was afraid of being in love.

At the begining he told me he didn't have a serious relationship with me because our culture differences (as u can realized I'm not American) but then he changed and put beside this. then he told me he has feelings for me but that please I need to give him time because he is afraid of commitment and also of being hurt.

Things changed little by little, he introduce me to his friends, talk about me to everybody saying I was the best girl he has ever know and even talked to my mother over the phone, he start to send me flowers and tell me sweet things and I knew my self that I had to have all the patience because it was just a matter of time to be seriously with him. He even told me that he trusted so much in me that he could see us married in a future.

Anyway.. everything was going so perfect but this Saturday we went out with my friends (latinos as myself) we went to a place that first of all he hate.. he was kinda upset bc he didn't want to go there and he just accepted because I asked him.. we went there and I did the stupid thing ever.. I got drunk!

suddenly I saw my ex and all my friends with him.. they called and I went with them.. of course my sweet guy saw everything... and in one of my many goes to the restroom my ex stopped me and hug me.. told me a bunch of stupid things and I hug him too... but told him I was with somebody else and that even if i wish him all the best of the world is better to don't talk again. the problem was that I said all this in his ear being hugged.

it was late and the club was almost empty so I'm pretty sure he saw me.

When I went back to the table he asked my why I took 45 min in the restroom.. he was so upset with a angry face. he took me home stayed with me that night and took care about my drunkness but next morning he left early although we had plans to spent all day together.

Now I don't know what to do. I sent him a text saying sorry for getting drunk that nite and he just replied is ok you were drunk! that's it.

Now I don't know what to do because i'm afraid he won't trust me again specially with all his fear of being betrayed and hurt. I don't know if talk to him and tell him everything because I'm not 100% sure he saw me hugging my ex but i just don't want him to think bad things about me and that everything come back the way it was going before Saturday.. and of course... something to make him take the step and make the commitment of being with me in a serious relationship.

One thing I know is that he is really really attracted to me, I mean physically, and that we get along so well... and I thought maybe I can take this as an advantage and something with this.. I don't know.. maybe some skull work, or I don't know.. i just need help..

I can say.. I have his hair, his dry semen in a piece of cloth I have his dirty socks and also clean ones.. so any advice on how to use or what to do it will be really aprrecaitaed!

thanks so much in advance and i just hope everything get better =)

trish76 · Unread post by **trish76** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 4:45 pm

First off, from your post, I would suggest calming down a bit. It seems like you are freaking out and making mountains out of molehills. If he was THAT upset, I doubt he would have bothered to take you home at all or to text you back. Though you're worried about his past, projecting all that stress and the energy of yourself as though you did something wrong is going to effect him more than whatever he may or may not have seen.

Second...get a reading from one of the AIRR workers. They could tell you exactly what, if anything, needs to be done and exactly how to go about doing it. You can get a mini-reading for ten dollars. Good luck!
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

tayra · Unread post by **tayra** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:06 pm

Thanks for your reply...
I think you are right I have to calm down... and trust me I'm trying and although I'm a very positive person i don't know why I'm so upset about myself and I can't not be ok. I had a reading last week before all this had happened so I don't know if it's a good idea to have an other reading now, so soon.. Do you think a mini reading is ok? just for this situation.. can I do that?!
Maybe I also need some candle work for me as well.. don't know...

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:34 pm

In the future, please use paragraphs as when reading such long post as these it gets really hard to follow, and just plain read. In addition, I think it would be helpful to make sure stories are clear, concise, and perhaps don't require so much detail. I am not trying to be disrespectful or rude, but it will help you get the advice you as for.

I agree that you need to get a reading set up. You can get a reading at www.readersandrootworkers.org. Several readers offer 10 minute readings such as Miss Bri, Catherine, and Conjureman Ali. Look down the list of readers, and see which one you like to wrok with.

For now you can perhaps have a reconciliation candle lit until you get the reading done, or a sweet jar.

www.luckymojo.com/products-reconciliation.html
www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

You can have Missionary Independent Spiritual Church light a candle as well.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

tayra · Unread post by **tayra** » Wed Feb 02, 2011 10:26 am

I'm sorry.. my bad. I will do it for next time!
I will have my reading done this week and in the mean time will keep my honey jar working.. but if you know any other trick please let me know!
Thanks for your help!!

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:00 pm

Hi tanya,
Maybe you are too upset. You hugged a guy at a club, that's not something to go crazy about. He might have been bummed out that you got drunk and he had too take care of you, but he said it was fine. If you tell him, which I really don't see the need for. Don't make a huge deal out of it, when it really weren't. That's just my opinion offcourse and I'm not you and I wasn't there.

I suggest you keep doing the work you are doing and if you like to add more work by having the church back you up, you can do that too.
Or any other type of love work that are described here on the forum or among the HITAP pages or the Lucky mojo free spell archives found here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

You have all the personal concerns you need.If you have "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic" you can look up personal concern to read about a spell for using the dirty sock. You will roll the sock towards you to get him to come to you. Or you can make a dollbaby out of it.
If you feel too freaked out, you can off course also get a reading done as suggested.

tayra · Unread post by **tayra** » Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:05 pm

Hi.. thanks for your reply... I have the book so I'll check it out later.

I was thinking to have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church to light a candle for us but i'm not sure which one.. reconciliation, stay with me or love me?!?

I texted him today and he replied me normally that ok he will come over tonite to give some tax paper he wants me take care of... so, maybe I can take this opportunity to do some tricks before his trip..

Any ideas???

Thanks you so much for your help guys!!

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:30 pm

Since you haven't had a fight or anything I would go with Love Me. Or you can wait and see if he is angry and then do the reconciliation if he is. And the love me candle if he's not angry.

You could take the opportunity to feed him either menstrual blood if you are on your period, or urine if you're not.

I don't know what other supplies you have on hand. You can dress your privates very lightly with oil (not on the most sensitive parts) if you plan on having sex with him. Or give him massage and add love oils to the massage oil. You can dust the dust your bedsheets with powders. You can put some of those in his shoes or dress the socks of his that are clean(keep the used ones) and give back to him. Be gentle so he wont notice. Take a love bath and pray the Song of Songs.

TriniCherries · Unread post by **TriniCherries** » Tue Feb 08, 2011 11:49 am

Hey everyone, thanks so much for the responses I really appreciate all of the feedback. Fortunately things have been going really well between the two of us. We have been communicating a lot more lately and I think the attraction is really back where it's suppose to be. The only thing is that he needs to be healed from all of the past bad relationships. What can I do to help him in that transition without him knowing about it, or can I perform the ritual for him? Thanks again, TriniCherries

xanara · Unread post by **xanara** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 1:31 am

About 3 1/2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 8 years told me he has to stop seeing me. Let me preface by saying he is Muslim (from Pakistan) and I am not. His father decided in November that it was time for him to get married. And signed him up on 2 matrimonial services. He was very honest with me and reassured me that he was only going along with it to appease him. It has been a source of heated arguments for them for the last 8 months. His plan was to seem interested but not like any of the matches they came up with. And everything was going ok until about 4 weeks ago when his dad said that he wanted to go to NY to visit relatives. When they came back, my bf told me that his dad had arranged for him to meet a daughter of a friend of his aunts. At the end of the week he told me that his father had told him that I was causing him distraction. And that spending time with me was pointless because we had no future and I would bring shame to his name. And he would not be his son anymore if he decided to be with me. We talked for a very long time and both cried and he told me this is not what he wants, but his father has sacrificed everything for him. And how could he not do what his father wants? He said he wants to be with me but doesn't know what to do. I am devastated.

His father has always been kind to my face. But I have always known that he would try to come between us. I had only hoped that my bf would have stood up for us. And I totally understand the culture, so I have felt horrible knowing the pressure that was on him. I have been to a psychic but it has become very expensive and only seems to be more so, as the days go on. And I am running out of time and money. I still talk or text with him (my bf) almost daily, but it's almost like he is mentally pushed me away. I can hear the distance in his voice. He is communicating with the woman in NY daily. I believe we are meant to be together. And while I know everyone says that. This is different.

I need some advice. Please. I am sure I will need another reading, but not sure who to go to, at this point. I have been reading the hoodoo forum for a couple of weeks and even purchased a honey jar and a break up kit. But I didn't want to interfere with the work that was already started for me. So I still have them sitting here, unopened.

xanara · Unread post by **xanara** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:35 am

Thank you for finding my post.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:39 am

It sounds like this man is playing you. There may be financial or inheritance issues involved, ie. he doesn't want to be cut out of his father's will or cut off from financial support. Honestly, if he allows his family to control him, you're better off without him. Do a Cut and Clear and find a man who will give you the love and respect you deserve

artemis · Unread post by **artemis** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:52 am

Since you've been with this man for such a long time and the break up was recent I'm going to start off with the obvious and advise you to get a reading from one of the AIRR workers. Since this is such a complicated situation, I honestly would start there. When you're dealing with religion, cultural and familial concerns, the roots run really deep and even if it's a "go" it will still likely be pretty complicated. A reading/consultation will save you a lot of time and money.

I'm not sure who read you before or what kind of work they're doing, but while you're waiting to get the AIRR reading, it might be a good idea to start the honey jar for his father to start thinking kindly of you. That won't fix all this by a long shot, but it's a good start.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 8:41 am

Cut and Clear all the way as recommeded by Mama Micki:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
I'd also have a reading with a member of AIRR if you really want the answer to this issue; however, a better question might be "what new person, or road to walk, is coming up and into your life"? http://readersandrootworkers.org
I know it is hard to see right now, but when one door closes another one opens, cliche' I know, but true.
Take Care

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 8:50 am

This is a cultural issue and I agree with the posters; get a reading.

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 9:58 am

While I agree it would be good to get a reading from an AIRR worker I would not advice you to do cut and clear without doing the reading first. Your boyfriend might still choose you over his family, and there might also be a possibility of sweetening his family toward you.

If you have an AIRR worker doing rootwork for you already, you could contact them, and ask them if it's a good idea to start the honeyjar. You said you went to a psychic, I don't know if that means that they have taken on your case or if you have just had a reading done.

xanara · Unread post by **xanara** » Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:06 pm

Thanks to all that responded. This is not the first relationship that I have been in. It is however, the first time that I haven't been able to just walk away. And, my thinking was to work on his father, too. But I will have to wait until I can afford to call someone from the AIRR, to get another reading. But I can start on the honey pot.

@ svarthyndan- Thank you for understanding my situation.The reading that the psychic did, said that he was my soulmate. And he does love me but is very confused right now. My fear was, and still is, that I am going to run out of time. And I didn't want to botch anything by starting to do things myself,too. Is that possible? To get too many things going at one time? I guess I will need to get another reading to know for sure. Thanks for your thoughts.

**and yes the psychic I saw did start a case, for me. Sorry.