Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 6:20 am

If you have a rootworker, then you need to get some time with them and consult with them on your situation. Constantly doubting everything is killing your work, and it will probably not manifest.

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 6:53 am

Devi Spring wrote:Since these two threads - about feeding body fluids for control, and hot foot, etc - deal with the same situation, I have merged them. Amilo, now just post all questions regarding the situation with your boyfriend in this one thread, so it will be easy for forum readers to find and keep track of. Thanks!

Okey!!

Then i will

I saw that everything came out off topic...

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 7:01 am

I am glad for all help that i can get, to do something about this by myself for now.
some easy method / spell to make him move out.
as i dont have the money right now to pay my rootworker.

DelArca · Unread post by **DelArca** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 7:39 am

well, have you all talked about marriage? But you would still have to deal with his inlaws. Since you are older than him and in the better financial position perhaps you could be the one to propose. If he refuses that will be your sign that he is not ready and there is someone better out there for you. You have done your best, time to make the move and see what happens. If it doesn't work out you can get the cut and clear products and then plan what kind of new potential boyfriend you want to bring into your life.

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 8:16 am

Hi Del

yes of course we have

and he wants to movev in and also to have a baby...the things his parents.... they have always been in the way.

But we both know, we cant be with out each other and so.

He needs just the step to take to cut the bond with the family and start a life of his own and with me. As that its what he also want.
Dont know what he waits for...

He knows that i would not take him back if he did not make any progress..... and he did ...he told them about us....as he wants to life his life and all with me....told them last week, now they have gone for holiday for 2 weeks....so everything stands still....

DelArca · Unread post by **DelArca** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 8:33 am

well, if I were you, I think I would enjoy the next 2 weeks to the fullest. Use this time to grow even closer together . . . fires of love etc

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 8:39 am

i have fire of love oil

how would i use it best?

Well we have fussed a bit, not talked since yesterday.

DelArca · Unread post by **DelArca** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:00 am

Do you have reconciliation products? If you're upset with each other it would probably be better to clear that up before you turn on the seduction. Once you've made up you can anoint yourself with it like perfume, or a red candle with intent to build passion between you or however you feel lead.

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:13 am

Okey then i will do it =) i have a small red candle

I only have oils, and yes i do have reconcilation oil at home.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 11:08 am

Amilo, you're working with Miss Benedikte and gotten some great results. You went from being separated from your man to having him back in your life. He's returned to you, as you've stated yourself "he's back." Yet despite this you continue to doubt and have serious anxiety over the work you are doing. Don't you think that is completely counter-productive?

It has been less than a couple weeks since your man is back and so its only been a shortwhile since you've been applying these oils to his clothes and already you are believing they aren't working. Look at the title of your post and see the type of negativty you've introduced into your work.

Learn to apply your oils, do your prayers, with confidence and faith, and most importantly *relax.* Let the magic do its thing--don't shoot it down without even giving your work a chance.

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 11:48 am

Ali - what is counter-productive?

I know its only been a week since he came back, i dont say that it hase to show results right after i put it.
But i read that many got instant signs

And i have not seen anything

so thats of my questions.

i do have faith... im just scared.
just want him to stand still for once.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 11:50 am

Counter-productive is like when you draw a beautiful painting, but then go back and throw white-wash on it. When you do magical work then let doubt and fear undo it, that is exactly what you are doing.

If you are scared, then yes you are doubting your work. Don't gauge your results according to what you see with others. You are not them, your situation is not like there's. Simple as that.

We want to help you build the tools for success so take the wonderful advice given above. Stop worrying, do your work, and check in with your reader Miss Benedikte from time to time.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 12:19 pm

Ok, Amilo stop.

You're getting advice from random people while you have a professional like Miss Benedikte on the case. None of us here know the full situation and frankly the advice you are getting is confused. From hot footing his family, to trying to work things out. This stems from not knowing the full extent of what is going on.

For example you state that he's from a different culture, if this is so then breaking him from his family is not going to work. Both Starskinthesky, a very talented and skilled conjure woman, and Devi a professional and wise rootworker have given the same advice. Seek out your reader. Don't go around trying a dozen different things and muddle up the success you've had to this point.

Considering cultural implication, considering the close bond between mother and son, do not assume that because the in-laws are in your way that you can hot foot them or remove them from the equation. You will only be making the situation worse for your man will eventually resent you for ruining that relationship. I've seen situations like this before and when the going gets tough the guy says, "I lost my relationship with my mom because of YOU" do you want that? If so then follow the advice of hot foot and banishing.

If you want to develop a strong relationship with your man and get him to come to you then you need to make an ally out of the in-laws. They are your key to getting him to come to you. Sweeten them to you while giving him the nudge to move out and develop some independence.

People new to this tradition often toss out advice that seems like a good idea, but in reality only confuse the situation because they don't have the experience in this type of situations. This is why you've consistently been advised to talk to your reader since she knows the full situation. Hot and angry isn't always the way to go. Sometimes sweet and gentle can get a great deal done. You can't attract with vinegar.

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 3:05 pm

ConjureMan Ali- u have so right , when i read what u wrote.

i dont only have the money for my rootworker right now. thats why i try other things for now.

but what u say its true. and i dont want him to get away from his parents..thats not what i want. i want them to at least respect his choice. they dont have to accept me.

his dream as o have a big family and i want it too, but they are so mean to me and our relationship

Amilo · Unread post by **Amilo** » Wed Apr 20, 2011 8:44 am

What LM products can i use to make an easy and simple spell, to attract my boyfriend to get engage with me?

I only have the marriage oil.
Beside the spell kit, what stuff from LM can i use?

And when i want to use a candle too.

Smr13 · Unread post by **Smr13** » Wed Apr 20, 2011 3:06 pm

I want my man to be faithful & honest to me and and for us to get married and have children. I have follow me boy, come to me , love me and many other oils for love aswell as follow me boy powder. I also have pink and red candles, can any suggest how best to use them. Thank you

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Apr 20, 2011 5:32 pm

Love Me, Marriage, and Stay With Me is a good combination to get your desires.

Love Me will draw him closer and cause him to openly declare feelings of love.
Marriage will draw a proposal of marriage.
Stay With Me will draw a lasting faithful, honest and true love.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Apr 21, 2011 3:47 am

You may also want to work with Chuparrosa (http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html).

If u don't already have one going, a honey jar would be a nice way to work the relationship into the long term. As herbs for your honey jar, any of the following (amongst many others!) could be considered:

Cherry bark (http://www.herb-magic.com/cherry-bark.html)
Rose buds (http://www.herb-magic.com/rose-buds.html)
Red clover tops (http://www.herb-magic.com/clover-flower-red.html)
Raspberry leavs (http://www.herb-magic.com/raspberry-leaf.html)
Queen Elizabeth root (http://www.herb-magic.com/queen-elizabeth-powder.html)
Passion flower (http://www.herb-magic.com/passion-flower.html)
Lavender (http://www.herb-magic.com/lavender.html)
Catnip (http://www.herb-magic.com/catnip.html)
Honeysuckle (http://www.herb-magic.com/honeysuckle-flowers.html)

Divination will help you determine which are best suited to your petition.

In my own marriage, I've found that cooking lots of Indian curry works wonders

Both coriander and cumin figure prominently in Indian cuisine and both are helpful for fidelity; while the coriander and regular use of ginger help stimulate the passion in the relationship.

Smr13 · Unread post by **Smr13** » Thu Apr 21, 2011 7:35 am

Thank you all for your advice

Smr13 · Unread post by **Smr13** » Thu Apr 21, 2011 7:45 am

What can I use to make my man always be faithful

Smr13 · Unread post by **Smr13** » Thu Apr 21, 2011 1:58 pm

Me and my man live together, we've had a rocky past due to money and cheating, but we've put that behind us and we both want to get married. How can I make sure he is faithful from now on and how can I speed up the marriage side of things. All advice welcome.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Apr 21, 2011 2:04 pm

Smr13,

You have been given solid recommendation in which you have stayed similar things you want to achieve. It is against the rules to basically keep inquiring about the same thing.

Make sure you follow the advice given to you here happy-relationship-t12934.html#p70075

If you need futher assistance, you need to see about getting a reading which you can get here
www.readersandrootworkers.com

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Apr 21, 2011 8:06 pm

Read about 'Stay With Me" (http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html), designed to keep your mate from wandering or engaging in adultery. Also read about the infamous "Nation Sack" (http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html) designed to keep a man faithful and true.

Smr13 · Unread post by **Smr13** » Fri Apr 22, 2011 5:47 am

Thank you

Unread post by **carrie** » Thu May 12, 2011 5:21 am

So, I got out of a relationship (a pretty good one -- decently amicable end, though breakups are never fun) at the beginning of March. And my social life has been kind of lackluster ever since, though I did some spells to make new friends and they seem to be working and I've got some activities going. Check.

Usually, to meet men, I join activities, meet them through friends, and meet them online, all of which I've been putting myself out there for since my ex and I broke up in March.

I meet men online, but I'm not seeing anyone I like on there right now.

I meet men through friends/activities (no prospects in sight there either at the moment. The attractive men in all those activities have girlfriends!

I hate hate hate hate hate flirting with random guys.

So . . . it's been a little while (long for me, in particular, to be single without so much on the horizon -- just a handful of first dates, a two-week thing with a guy I wasn't that into and broke it off for that reason). I don't have any particular prospects or potential targets at the moment. No crushes to speak of.

I get plenty of lust attention when I go out, and I absolutely hate it. However, I am looking for a new relationship to come into my life.

I want the Universe to bring me more suitable guys. What I do want is a chance to meet more suitable men and have them interested in me as a person. And, on top of that, think I'm gorgeous and sexy, but NOT as the main focus.

What I don't want --- and I get far too much of anyway --- is more random lust-driven male attention. I don't want to increase that awful lust attention, which is already bad enough when I go out. I really am not a fan of being objectified.

I want a chance to actually get to know guys before they try to flirt with me. When a guy sees me as purely a sex object, it makes me feel really gross and when it's a long string of this, it basically ruins my whole night. I don't dress provocatively or flirt with random guys or invite that sort of attention at all. (This is not the same as a random guy coming up and trying to start an honest conversation with me. I've had that happen a few times, where it didn't feel shady, but not many.)

I know hoodoo is very sex-driven, and I do like passion, sex, etc, but I just want to tamp down that aspect and attract situations where cute, nice, smart, awesome guys actually get to know me. This hasn't been an issue before, so I've not got spellwork in my back pocket for it.

What should I use? I've been trying some things with Come to Me, but I find it I wear it, I get extra unwanted attention (more than usual) but haven't had much luck meeting new prospects.

Thanks for your help!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu May 12, 2011 6:52 am

Hoodoo isn't necessarily lust or sex-driven at all. It depends on how it's used.

Try looking into Adam & Eve, and Chupparosa product lines that are aimed at a sweet, sincere, and lasting long-term love relationship for your needs. Make a list of the qualities you want to attract, and burn candles dressed in those oils on top of it. Wear those oils as a personal scent when you go out into situations where you might meet new people.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu May 12, 2011 11:38 am

Zengirl, when you say, "I know hoodoo is very sex-driven," i think you must be living on another planet than the one i was raised on. People come here and say the strangest things about conjure -- and i would count your statement among the strangest assumptions i have heard this year.

Hoodoo is a system of magic that covers ALL of our needs -- for jobs, for protection, for spiritual cleansing, for money-getting, for love, for marriage, for help in legal matters, for success in career and job-getting, for popularity, for blessing babies and children, for fame, for luckiness, for training hunting dogs, for buying and selling real estate, for keeping pets at home, and, yes, for sexuality.

If you don't want folks lusting all over you, and require that they get to know you first, try Look Me Over Oil or Attraction Oil.

Also, if you want to lose your misconceptions about hoodoo, you could read this basic introduction:

http://luckymojo.com/hoodoohistory.html

Good luck!

Unread post by **carrie** » Fri May 13, 2011 6:22 am

Cat, I've been told by a member of your AIRR that there is very little in conjure that is 'chaste' and that is what I've found as well. I don't think you took my meaning as I intended --- more, I meant the love magic is often sex driven. Your own labels show very sexually charged images for most of the love-drawing oils. Perhaps I should say "lust" or "passion" rather than sex. (But I do think the pictures associated with every hoodoo product I've seen for love has a stronger sexual connotation than a pure love connotation, even say the Love Me products. The exception being maybe Chuparosa, which I am trying to use more.) I've already read well beyond that basic introduction (which I've read as well! And everything on your site pretty much, which is great) and have successfully used money, success, protection work for years. It's only love work where I often feel adrift.

I will try attraction, which I hadn't really tried for love so much and have heard is good for that as well.

I have Look Me Over products and find they attract WAY too much sexual attention. And the label on that bottle is pretty sexually charged! Maybe you and I have different views of what is sex-driven.

Unread post by **carrie** » Fri May 13, 2011 6:54 am

Devi Spring wrote:Hoodoo isn't necessarily lust or sex-driven at all. It depends on how it's used.

Try looking into Adam & Eve, and Chupparosa product lines that are aimed at a sweet, sincere, and lasting long-term love relationship for your needs. Make a list of the qualities you want to attract, and burn candles dressed in those oils on top of it. Wear those oils as a personal scent when you go out into situations where you might meet new people.

Thanks, Devi. I am trying to do more with Chupparosa. Maybe if I mix that with Adam & Eve and Attraction, that will be useful. Do you think Marriage Oil would be crazy to add to the mix instead of Adam & Eve, considering I have no particular target? The smell of Adam & Eve always bugs me, but I love the smell of the Marriage Oil though haven't ever tried it for myself (since I always figured you needed to actually have someone you wanted to marry and be pretty close to use it)---or could you use it just to attract "marriage material" too?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri May 13, 2011 4:31 pm

I'd take one of the more demure formulas, like Chuparrosa, and dress a matched pair of small lodestones with it. You can make that the core of a mojo bag to carry on your person, or of a love altar in your home, or even a pocket altar -- and I do love making pocket altars, myself.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri May 13, 2011 8:33 pm

Love conjure isn't only lust driven. I am not exactly sure what you mean. Love Me products can help you find someone who is willing to be a loving committed relationship, Come To Me can help make a friend into a boyfriend or girlfriend, Return to Me brings back a wayward friend, Reconciliation heals rifts between two people, Chuparrosa brings honesty and committment between two people, and Marriage products can help get a proposal.

So as you can see love products aren't so limited to lust as you may think. You can use any of these products to help you in what you want. Good luck!

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sat May 14, 2011 5:45 am

Hi Zengirl,
I do LOTS of love work for clients and I do not know who you spoke to in AIRR but I think that you were misinformed. I do have the occasional client who wants to just hook up or focus on sex but in my practice they are BY FAR in the minority. Most of my folks want a lasting, committed, relationship that will eventually lead to marriage and children--again, not everyone, but by far the majority. Direct questions about sex come up maybe 20-35% of the time, questions about commitment, long term plans, possibility of marriage/children and how to get one's partner to open up and communicate are all much more frequent. Now as to formulas--I LOVE Dixie Love for attracting solid, stable lovers especially when combined with Come to Me. I also love Dixie John for blessing relationships and families, marriage oil is very good as is plain old Love Me oil--which is anything but plain!
Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **carrie** » Sat May 14, 2011 8:31 am

I never meant that it's ONLY lust-driven. I think that's where y'all are misunderstanding me.

Just that they seem to increase lust as well (as a total love package) and very strongly do so, and that seems to be the most noticeable result. I already have an abundance of come-ons and such in that area and would actually like that aspect sort of snuffed out a bit, rather than heightened. There seems to be a sexual element to most love spells. I'm not saying lust-driven in a way that would be opposite of commitment-driven, but rather. . . they seem to increase sexual attention AS WELL AS good attention, and I don't want the sexual attention ramped up.

I use Come to Me and Love Me a lot, and I generally find some decent prospects, but I get a lot of unwanted attention at the same time and it gets exhausting to 'sift through.' Which usually means I tend to give up and stop using them before I reach success with any spell or I reverse the spell to make my life easier. I guess I want a spell that makes it easier to 'sift through' the crap. Whenever I'm objectified, I feel like crap, so I have a very low threshold for sexual attention. I don't like guys hitting on me at all, unless I know them, which makes it hard when casting love spells with no target in mind. Which is not to say I don't want to meet new men. I just don't want them commenting on or approaching me because of my beauty first.

To me, passion and lust are great, but only once I'm already in a relationship or at least already like the guy. I guess I'd like a spell that attracts these awesome men and brings them into my life FIRST, rather than just brings a ton of romantic attention, most of which seems lust driven to me since the guys don't actually know me yet. Maybe I can do something with Attraction and Chupparosa and one other oil . . . I'll think on it (maybe the Adam & Eve, or if anyone has any other ideas that are not at all sexy, that'd be good). And the lodestone idea is a good one. I have had some success working with lodestones before. Mostly, though, as I said, love work usually just frustrates me.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat May 14, 2011 9:42 am

Sounds like you need to make a list of qualities that you want in a man and then work to draw those specifically to you. Maybe work an Attraction spell kit to which you add Chupparossa oil, using the list as part of your petition.

Or, if the love work that you are doing for yourself is not drawing what you need, then you may wish to consider having a worker work on your behalf.

But remember that men are very physical creatures (as are many women), and the physical passion is what will often draw and keep the attention of good men while something deeper is taking root. However, if you are uncomfortable with sexual attention, then make sure to state that in your petitions to draw someone suitable.

Unread post by **carrie** » Tue May 17, 2011 11:21 am

Sounds like you need to make a list of qualities that you want in a man and then work to draw those specifically to you. Maybe work an Attraction spell kit to which you add Chupparossa oil, using the list as part of your petition.

Or, if the love work that you are doing for yourself is not drawing what you need, then you may wish to consider having a worker work on your behalf.

But remember that men are very physical creatures (as are many women), and the physical passion is what will often draw and keep the attention of good men while something deeper is taking root. However, if you are uncomfortable with sexual attention, then make sure to state that in your petitions to draw someone suitable.

Yes, the bolded line is particularly what bothers me. I suppose I'm particularly lost in a society where people think it's okay to express these things to near-strangers! And yes, many women think that's perfectly okay as well.

I'm not uncomfortable with sexual attention from a lover ONCE we are in a firm relationship, but I don't like it being the key motivator at the beginning. At the same time, I do want a man who's powerfully attracted to me. Just one who notices me for something else first/concurrently and focuses on that at the beginning more than lust. I suppose I detest lust until something deeper has taken root.

I'll try to work more with Attraction and Chupparossa and see what happens. I've made a list before, but that doesn't seem to help with this, as I also want a man who is passionate and sexual later on. Just not until we've established a connection.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue May 17, 2011 9:51 pm

Let's not generalize here. In the work that I've done I've never seen an proportionally unusual focus on sex and lust over other aspects of relationship. I've worked very successfully with Love Me and Come to Me products. You simply pray for someone who sees you more than a sex-object.

Write a list that includes things like a gentleman and someone who sincerely into the whole package that is you and someone who has a sense of propriety and the work will help find such a man for you.

I can understand your frustration over what can deemed as highly-sexualized interaction between people who are just getting to know one another, but know that this is not characteristic of all men, or all interactions with men. Take that into consideration with your magical work and it will bear fruit.

GoldenFlow7 · Unread post by **GoldenFlow7** » Wed May 18, 2011 5:55 pm

Hello,
I have a situation where I want to move my relationship to the next level. I have a honeyjar working with (deers tongue for marriage proposal) but all he does his talk and not act, also I cant find any spells to help me get pregnant or to make him more open to wanting to start a family now. He seems to be dragging his feet and I am ready now. Any suggestions?

Thx
GoldenFlow7

Damiana · Unread post by **Damiana** » Wed May 18, 2011 6:00 pm

Another thanks for the post! I have a question about the High John root..

Would it be alright to use the root chips/pieces in the name paper, or would one need a whole piece for this? Thanks!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu May 19, 2011 4:19 am

You need to get down the bottom of why he is dragging his feet. I would highly advise that you get a reading before trying to force this. Same thing with the family. PErsonally, I dont think you should bring a child in the world if both people do not want it. Children do not suddenly make someone to marry them, and it does not hold a relationship together. So respect his feelings of not wanting a child right now. But I would get down to that as well.

As for helping you get pregnant, you may want to see if it is a medical reason or just bad timing, and then go from there.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu May 19, 2011 6:42 am

I'm with stars. Get married first, then think about babies. If your bf does not want to get married, find someone who does. Chupparosa and Marriage products can help.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu May 19, 2011 3:18 pm

In addition to Marriage Products and Chupparosa consider Road Opener and other works aimed at breaking down the barriers and fears he may have of taking that next step. Don't force this issue, encourage it.

GoldenFlow7 · Unread post by **GoldenFlow7** » Mon May 23, 2011 2:32 pm

Thanks everyone for your response. I have had a reading done and it confirmed that is the right man,
however, he has some resistance due to "mother and trust issues." Once again thank you for your responses.

DrXTheRebirth · Unread post by **DrXTheRebirth** » Thu May 26, 2011 10:42 pm

ConjureMan does it again. This one is definitely goin in the notebook.

raysweet · Unread post by **raysweet** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:59 am

Hey folks,

I've been talking to this guy for 2 years now and he is afraid of committing to me. We're both Geminis and Ive been knowing him 13 yrs and like him since high school all in that time frame, and the last 2 years been a rough ride. One minute we're good then the next its down hill. Ive been working a honey jar on him for the past 9 months I used Adam & Eve candles, come to me and churraposa products / candles/oils.

I got a reading: he loves me and is in love with me but is afraid. In the past we both f***ed up but he won't let go of what Ive done even though I have tried to convince him differently.

He's in the entertainment industry so of course he has groupies and there is one in particular that just wont go away. I've done numerous of things to make her go away. I hot footed her, and did another work where I had to throw the work in the ocean.

Everything was fine she disappeared for a couple of months and now she's back. what the hell did I do wrong!

Is there anything else that I can do to make this situation work because I'm coming to an end with him because I'm tired of waiting but I'm in love with him and honestly I don't feel like going through the process of meeting someone new.

He says he doesn't want to lose me. I want to marry him and raise a family but I don't know how long I can continue the back and forth.

I'll take all considerations thanx

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:21 am

A combination of 'Love Me' and 'Stay With Me' will help take things to the next level. You probably should get a reading and ask what conjure will work with your guy.
Reading http://www.readersandrootwrkers.org
Love Me http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
Stay With Me http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

raysweet · Unread post by **raysweet** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 7:39 am

vinasweet wrote:Hey folks, I've been talking to this guy for 2 years now and he is afraid of committing to me. I got a reading he loves me and is in love with but is afraid.

I did get a reading

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 11:34 pm

What did your reading say? Did it say there was a strong chance of this relationship working out? Did it advise how to tackle this situation?

If the issue here is his fear and his inability to committ then focus on that. Reconciliation, Healing, Love Me, and Stay With Me are all means by which you can focus on that core issue.

Similarly Follow Me Boy will make him chase after you rather than the groupies.

For the rivals consider a freezer jar to remove them and keep them from having influence over him.

raysweet · Unread post by **raysweet** » Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:08 pm

yes conjure, it is a strong chance of this relationship working out. Now how can I combine all 4 things that you stated into one spell though?

I will be working the freezer jar today on the girl.

I am burning a red figural candle dressed with follow me boy, adam n eve, marriage and come to me oils as well as a come to me vigil candle and adam n eve vigil candle.

I just have to burn a candle on my honey jar also

Moonbabe · Unread post by **Moonbabe** » Thu Jun 09, 2011 3:16 pm

Could you use this spell in with two people? I want to remove the resistance of my target. I have worked a break up spell and a skull candle that was used for clarity, wisdom and seperation from his on and off ex. I am still burning black candles on a vinegar jar tuesdays and saturdays to keep the jar going and white candles for his clarity.

Could I work a moving spell with the black candle to remove his resistance to coming to me and another or her to remove her resistance and send her to another. Or best to focus only on him and keep working the others seperately.

Thank you

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Jun 09, 2011 8:54 pm

This work is specifically for love. Keep it away from work aimed at separating two people.

ladydawn · Unread post by **ladydawn** » Thu Jun 09, 2011 9:57 pm

things have gotten complicated between me and this guy, and i'd like to bring our relationship back to a friendship, at least for the time being. basically simplify things. any suggestions?

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Fri Jun 10, 2011 4:55 am

without knowing the details of the situation - how long has it been 'complicated', if there're other people involved, what kind of guy he is, etc. - it's rather hard for others to make recommendations. the first kind of products one would think of would be Separation, to 'break up' peacefully, but by the sound of it your relationship doesn't exactly need to be dissolved coz it hasn't been 'solid' either. if this guy is chasing after you even though you want to go, because he's confused/clingy, try Clarity and King of Solomon products for him to see the situation as it is, what he needs to do. if you don't mind him meeting another girl for now, do a drawing candle spell to draw him away from you towards an unknown, potential partner.

but maybe the simplest solution is to just talk it over with him, say things can't be the way they are now or you're not up for it for whatever reasons at this point, without burning bridges.

Moonbabe · Unread post by **Moonbabe** » Fri Jun 10, 2011 8:49 am

Thank you. I will make sure they are kept separate. I will be trying one of them tonight as I have many of the supplies

ladydawn · Unread post by **ladydawn** » Fri Jun 10, 2011 5:41 pm

well it's a bit more complicated than that. there's just a lot of tension between us because we went from friends to lovers, to friends-ish again and i want us to be friends the way we were before. he was my best guy friend before, and now i feel like i dont know how to communicate with him and we haven't spoken in a few weeks. we got in a minor fight, well i wouldnt call it a fight, i just expressed my disappointment in something he did to hurt me (wont go into details). ok it was by no means a fight, but we haven't spoken since then. before things got complicated it would have been really easy to clear the air, but when i start to have feelings for something im just waaaay overly cautious and unsure how to approach him.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Fri Jun 10, 2011 8:49 pm

if it's a good friend like that then he definitely deserves a conversation, and it sounds like you really just have to do it, rather than do spellwork to separate the two of you or anything like that.

don't know what products you have, or what you'd be willing to order. try a bit of honey on blue candles for peace first. then deer tongue's leaves, mercury oil and pink candles for communication. after that's accomplished, if you want to work a honey jar for reconciliation as friends, balm of gilead, cloves and forget-me-not are for friendship. just make sure you state that clearly in your petition.

ladydawn · Unread post by **ladydawn** » Fri Jun 10, 2011 9:14 pm

maybe some courage work for me to be be able to have that conversation? I was thinking cut and clear to remove romantic feelings, along with a healing or uncrossing vigil, then an attraction candle to attract friendship from him. what do you think of that method?

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:38 pm

Cut & clear and an egg cleansing to remove the sexual bond are usually good ideas. But be prepared that your friend may act erratic after the Cut & clear is done. He may distance himself for quite a while, or he may come chasing after you - there're times when the targets feel that cutting ties rather strongly and come running. Sometimes if the bond is just there, you'd need to do it a few times for the feelings to be gone. Or it can still be there afterwards, it really depends.

Healing would work if damage has been done to the relationship and that you see some 'acute' issues in you guys making up as friends, and only you can tell if that's called for. I'd be more inclined to use blue candles for peace/friendship, sweetening and friendship herbs in such situations. I wouldn't use Attraction coz it's rather strongly cinnamon-based, it's got a bit of 'heat' which I don't think you need at this point.

Overall it just sounds like you're afraid coz you have unresolved feelings. Maybe it's not courage, but clarity that you need which will help you find your resolve. If it's as complicated as you make it sound, I'd suggest you get a reading.

ladydawn · Unread post by **ladydawn** » Sat Jun 11, 2011 4:33 pm

ya that totally makes sense, thanks for all your help cabreillenil!

gabriella4 · Unread post by **gabriella4** » Thu Jun 16, 2011 9:22 am

Hi, my boyfriend is afraid of commitment, we are together for one year and seven months now, but he refuses to plan anything, and he doesn’t want to live together. I know he loves me, and also many times I had tarot reading; they all confirmed he loves me, but he wants to keep the relationship to a kind of teenage type.
I'm 36 and he is 34, I would like to construct a family with him, live with him, and I would like him to take all the responsibilities and the happiness of living together.
What do you suggest me to do?
I thank you for your help in advance
Ciao
Gabriella

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jun 16, 2011 9:25 am

Chuparrosa, Marriage, and Dixie Love products may help you. However if his nature is not to commit, you may be better off finding a man who is more compatible.