Personal Concerns (Hair, Photo, Name, Clothing) Questions and Answers

narcissanoir · Unread post by **narcissanoir** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 7:22 pm

I do understand...I just don't have access...but I have olenty of his hair.

snake · Unread post by **snake** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 8:11 pm

If all you have is hair then you will have to do a different spell that calls for hair. Do you just want him back in your bed or do you want him back altogether?

narcissanoir · Unread post by **narcissanoir** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 8:37 pm

I want him back and to be mine only

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:23 pm

It has to be worn, not clean.

If you don't have access then work on getting access first. Start with passion inducing things like Fires of Love, Come to Me/Return to Me to help get him in bed. Once you've got him there you'll have access to sexual fluids and his under things.

narcissanoir · Unread post by **narcissanoir** » Fri Apr 01, 2011 3:19 am

Thanks everyone for your help...I will work on it.

tay123 · Unread post by **tay123** » Mon May 09, 2011 12:20 pm

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon May 09, 2011 9:01 pm

You want to get as much as you can on this girl. In conjure we work with personal concerns to help us target out intentions and magical work specifically to the person. Try to find out a name, get a photo, a dob, anything.

Without these you'll have to rely on describing her through a definition, ie: "my rival," or "so and so's girlfriend" etc.

Luvsart · Unread post by **Luvsart** » Thu May 12, 2011 2:30 pm

What if you don't have any personal concerns for spell work, say for love type work and can only get their picture and write their name on a piece of paper? Will it not be strong enough or will it be ok?

Also would an article of clothing they wore, like a robe be ok to use even though it's been washed since they wore it? Say to use it to make a dollbaby out of?

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu May 12, 2011 4:00 pm

Hi Luvsart,

My first thought was, if you can get the person's robe how come you can't get a personal concern from them? Of course I do not know if you two are living together or sleep over at their place or they sleep at yours. Though do stay open to the opportunity to get a personal concern (hair, finger nails, sexual fluids, unwashed clothes, etc.).

Having only a picture can work, though may not be as strong as if you had a personal link in the work. Consider this, could you give this item to a bloodhound to track down this person? If so you got yourself a great personal concern you can use!

Best of luck.

Luvsart · Unread post by **Luvsart** » Thu May 12, 2011 5:15 pm

Actually this person lives far away and the robe is mine, but while I visited them awhile ago they briefly had put my robe on. The only other thing I have and it's not hair or nails is a paper napkin that was given to me by him <he touched it> twisted into the shape of a rose. Pretty pitiful I know LOL but that's all I have to work with.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu May 12, 2011 6:16 pm

Luvsart wrote:Actually this person lives far away and the robe is mine, but while I visited them awhile ago they briefly had put my robe on. The only other thing I have and it's not hair or nails is a paper napkin that was given to me by him <he touched it> twisted into the shape of a rose. Pretty pitiful I know LOL but that's all I have to work with.

So, its your robe, and its been washed and presumably used by you since? Yeah that's not going to do much at all for you.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu May 12, 2011 6:24 pm

You may consider Quassia Root.

If I remember a conjure tip from a while back suggesting that if you are not able to get their hair. Now this is something I have not done so unfortunately have no feedback. Though I am sure some of the great folks on the forum can give us feedback on this.

Luvsart · Unread post by **Luvsart** » Thu May 12, 2011 7:02 pm

Thanks so much for the suggestion Pap Newt, I'm going to look into that.

Is there anything I can do with the paper napkin flower ?

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu May 12, 2011 7:15 pm

No dear, I am sorry. I mean if you have a dedicated space for this work you can place it on there though that's about it is my feeling on it.

Since the person lives far away you may want to consider writing them a letter that you have dressed with the appropriate sachet powder such as Return to Me, Love Me, etc. Of course a basic divination is always a great way to find the appropriate product to use.

You may want to consider a worker from A.I.R.R. who can do some magic coaching and guide you on action to take after having a reading on the situation.

Magickalcurios · Unread post by **Magickalcurios** » Tue May 17, 2011 2:14 pm

May I know how do I write the name paper for this spell?
Thanks so much

miziluvhoodoo · Unread post by **miziluvhoodoo** » Wed May 18, 2011 11:34 am

I read on this forum about women dressing their love candles with sexual fluids or urine. I don't masterbaite, so I don't think I would be able get any of my sexual fluids.

So, I was wondering, would it be ok for me to use my urine instead or should I try and get some of my other fluid?

Thank you!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed May 18, 2011 11:52 am

Well, sexual fluids are generally used in love and sex related work. Urine is used in protection and controlling work.

If you are still menstruating, you can use your menstrual blood to dress your love candles.

KToo · Unread post by **KToo** » Wed May 18, 2011 8:03 pm

My boyfriend used a towel at my house and left a lot of stings of pubic hair. Is there anything I can do? to make him always come back or not leave me?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed May 18, 2011 9:09 pm

You can use the public hairs as a personal concern in several domination spells.

Nation Sack http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html
Pair it with a public hair of your own and make a Honey Jar http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Stay With Me http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu May 19, 2011 4:11 am

Pubic Hair is a personal concern. You can use it in just about any spell. It helps to build a stronger link to the person. I agree with the recommendations above. I would add a baby doll to the mix which you can learn about on the forum. I would go with the honey jar and other products you may want to look at are attraction, follow me boy, come to me, love me, fire of love in addition to stay with me.

mscarib · Unread post by **mscarib** » Thu May 19, 2011 3:35 pm

So there is this guy i have been sexually intimate With and i stole his sock last time i was at his place. I have a 7 knob candle(red) and a follow me boy and do as i say oil. Can anyone recommend a love spell i can start Friday. Tomorrow i will also be scheduling a reading but in the meantime a simple follow me boy won't hurt.
Yes i want to take things further hence the reason I'll be seeking a reading , but got these lm products and don't want to waste em. I plan on buying kits once i get my reading, he is an ex , but we've always been intimate

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu May 19, 2011 4:10 pm

So.. what is your main goal from this work?

I guess you could write 7 things you want him to do on the knob candle. So perhaps you may want him to spend more time with you, come to you more sexually, etc. You can fix a name paper with your name written over his 7 times each. and then cut out a small portion of the sock and fold it inside the name paper. Then put it under the candle. Burn a knob a day, and then dispose of the remains.

I think it would be wise to wait after the reading....there is no rush.

mscarib · Unread post by **mscarib** » Thu May 19, 2011 5:42 pm

Thank you starsinthesky , my main goal is to be in a relationship with him

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu May 19, 2011 5:45 pm

Having his sock is a great accomplishment and a strong personal concern. I agree with starsnthesky7 about the reading. You can certainly use these socks in the love spell described and more...

Doll Baby (doll-baby-out-of-worn-socks-or-underwear--t12180.html)
Foot track magic (body-fluids-feet-sweat-binding-love-spell-t2843.html)

mscarib · Unread post by **mscarib** » Thu May 19, 2011 8:06 pm

Thank you guys

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 22, 2011 12:08 am

Hi:
I did some work on a love interest. He lives in New Mexico, I am in Wisconsin. I write to him, he has not written back or called. I can't get any of his personal concerns (obviously). I have sent "dressed" letters, two so far.
For the first letter, I implemented the advice from "white spells for love" regarding dressed letters, using my bath water and sexual fluids. He did not respond.
However, before this job, he was returning my mail (undressed letters), because we had a conflict.
So, I saw took ir for a "sign." (that he did not return the dressed letter.)
Most recently, I sent a card with some of my menstrual blood around the corners (not noticeable).
It is too soon to tell if it's working, as I just mailed it today!
However, I am thinking of doing a figural candle spell in which the two candles are moved incrementally closer over a period of burnings...
The trouble is, I won't have anything of his...
Can I use my "stuff" in some way to work a strong job up on him?
How effective will the figural candle work be, using only my "stuff"?
Can anyone suggest other work that could be done using only my "stuff"
Any suggestions on how to proceed in absence of a good personal concern?

TruthSeeker333 · Unread post by **TruthSeeker333** » Sun May 22, 2011 8:20 am

In cases where I'm unable to gather personal concerns from the target, I just use a photograph, and/or carve his name into the candle. Do you have access to a photograph of him?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun May 22, 2011 8:23 am

I think you should get a reading on it to see where things are going and how they will work out, and what work to do.. you did some work which should result in outcome, to hear nothing very well may be a clear indicating sign. you said you had a conflict, did you resolve it? if not try reconcilation products and road opener.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 22, 2011 2:44 pm

@ Lovelight, No I don't have any photographs of him. I asked him a while ago to send me one, when he asked me to send him one of mine.
He never got around to it, I guess...

He is convinced that I am a "witch"
and that I am! lol!
However, not in the sense that he is thinking!
So, I think he has gotten leary of sending me anything...what to do???

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sun May 22, 2011 3:57 pm

Have you tried Facebook or another online social networking site? Some people won't give someone else a photo but really have no problem with posting pictures of themselves on their Facebook or MySpace page. It's important to get at least one personal concern from the target, so do a bit of digging and try to get a pic.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 22, 2011 6:57 pm

@ The Light: Tried it already...He doesn't use facebook or myspace. I don't use twitter, but I will check.

@ j82: I guess conflict is the wrong word...searching for the right term....Misunderstanding is more like what went down. We did not fight or argue, we hardly even had a difference of opinion...We're having communication issues. I think it might be the result of the work of another.
Also, I think He thinks I lied about something, which I did not.
Instead of reconciliation I opted to do an "opening the road" and added some "clarity" incense and prayers to symbolically "clear the air" between us, and to "replace doubt and confusion with knowingness, clarity, and truth."
I do my own readings. I have read for 15 years now. The readings are positive...my main concern is how to do work without a personal concern?

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 22, 2011 7:34 pm

No luck with twitter either

I think I read that one of the roots or herbs can be substituted for the hair of your love???
does this ring a bell with anyone?
Also, I have the letters he returned...one of them was opened and taped back up and re-mailed back hahaha...
so that is something that he touched, and he obviously read the letter.
Also, I know his full name (he has an unusual/very rare middle name).I also know his DOB, His sign, and his Tribal Affiliations. (we are both Native American).
Any suggestions? Has anyone had success working with little personal concerns?
Is there any way to enhance the power of the name papers or info that you have to work with?
Is there a way to get him to send me a personal concern? maybe a photo, or letter (to capture his handwriting and signature)?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun May 22, 2011 7:46 pm

Ding ding!!!!! Quassia Root Chips http://www.herb-magic.com/quassia-chips.html

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 22, 2011 9:57 pm

Thanks jwmcclin!

DrXTheRebirth · Unread post by **DrXTheRebirth** » Thu May 26, 2011 10:40 pm

catherineyronwode wrote:Amber Lotus, this is a semen spell. That's what it is and how it works. It could also be worked with vaginal juices or menstrual blood, i am sure, but i am sorry, it is not a spell for a picture and a name.

Thank you Ms. Cat, your reply answered my question before I could ask it.

mudra · Unread post by **mudra** » Sun May 29, 2011 3:55 pm

Hi all,
I plan to do a spell that requires the target's footprint taken from a dirt. But there's no area around the house (or the place where the target works) that has dirt, every walk way is concrete and laying dirt along the path would be very obvious.

So is it OK if I just smudge a dark colored chalk under the target's shoes ( I have access to it), then just wipe off the footprint (once it's on the floor, the target lives with me) with a brown paper towel infused with the appropriate magical oil that I'm going to use in the spell? Will that be enough to capture the footprint?

If you have other ideas, tricks, suggestions, let me know, thanks!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon May 30, 2011 4:09 am

If you have access to the target's shoes, you could just trick the target's shoes instead. You can always dust the insides of the target's shoes with an appropriate hoodoo powder for whatever condition you're trying to work: Love drawing, Hot footing, Bend over, or whatever.

And if you live with her/him, even better, because you can get the target's personal concerns and use that in a spell too!

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon May 30, 2011 8:58 am

to MaryBee!

miziluvhoodoo · Unread post by **miziluvhoodoo** » Mon Jun 06, 2011 8:51 am

Hello! I would like to know, what would be the best way to use my target's worn socks for a candle spell? Thank you!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Jun 06, 2011 9:02 am

You can pull out a thread from the sole where the sweat would have been and load it into the candle, or place it underneath to link it to your target. Keep that sock! You can get a lot of use out of it by pulling small threads from the worn area.

miziluvhoodoo · Unread post by **miziluvhoodoo** » Mon Jun 06, 2011 9:38 am

Devi Spring wrote:You can pull out a thread from the sole where the sweat would have been and load it into the candle, or place it underneath to link it to your target. Keep that sock! You can get a lot of use out of it by pulling small threads from the worn area.

Thanks Devi! That's seems simple enough. BTW, I do plan to keep that sock.

BellaMars · Unread post by **BellaMars** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 10:40 am

I found a pair of my husbands sneakers that he left outside on our porch since last winter. He doesnt currently live with us as he moved out of the house a few months back.

I am working a few spells on him already, honey jar, reconciliation etc. but keep getting mixed signals from him still. Is there something I can do using these sneakers? Mind you they have been covered in snow and rain since winter.

I thought maybe something along the lines of tying the laces together into a knot and then burying them in the front of backyard to make his feet find his way home? I know there is a spell with pair of socks that is similar to this but maybe done with shoes is stronger?

Any help and ideas is appreciated.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 30, 2011 7:51 pm

See this page on foot track magic:

http://luckymojo.com/foottrack.html

and read the long section on personal concerns in my book "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic" for lots of spells utilizing shoes.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jul 01, 2011 9:38 am

To purchase cat's book, click on this link (http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooherbmagic.html)

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Jul 01, 2011 5:12 pm

Thanks for mentioning that, jwmcclin!

roguedeer · Unread post by **roguedeer** » Sat Jul 16, 2011 7:27 pm

Are personal concerns (such as fluid dried on a piece of cloth) added underneath the novena, with a petition? Does it matter where it is in relation to the petition?

Subquestion: I THINK I recall seeing somewhere that Cat said that fluids dried on pieces of cloth should/could be "reactivated" by getting them wet - should I wet the cloth before placing it under the candle?

Should I fold the cloth, or lay it flat?

I'm worried that I might overthink these things sometimes.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:02 pm

For those who have been asking about the use of names and which form of a name is "best" or "most powerful":

In ancient Medieterranean spells (Babylonian, Jewish, Greek, Coptic, Islamic, etc.), the patronymic or matronymic form of the name was used:

In the case of a man:

First-name son of first-name

In the case of a woman:

First-name daughter of first-name

Since the time of the institution of legal surnames, the use of first-name last-name has been deemed sufficient and the names of the parents need not be researched or called.

However, since in most nations a woman takes her husband's name upon marriage, this has led to confusion about which is the "right" or "best" or "most powerful" link to a married woman through her name.

In the case of a married woman, there are actually three choices of "full name":

The full birth name is: first-name, middle-name, maiden-surname.
The full current legal name is: first-name, middle-name, married-surname.
The cumulative full name is: first-name, middle-name, maiden-surname, married-surname.

You may choose any of the three, according to how you were taught or according to your own family's traditions. In my own work, i prefer the cumulative full name and, if possible, i also insert the ancient Mediterranean naming of a man's father or a woman's mother, so in the case of a married woman i might use a very complex form, such as

first-name, middle-name, maiden-surname, married-surname daughter of first-name, middle-name, maiden-surname, married-surname.

But that's just me and my Jewish magical training!

Your mileage may vary.

ElectroKid · Unread post by **ElectroKid** » Mon Aug 01, 2011 4:30 am

Hello

is it possible to compel someone or curse someone using there picture and full name? i have no date of birth.

thanks

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Aug 01, 2011 5:27 am

Hi ElectroKid:

If the picture and full name is all you have, then those are two personal concerns and should be enough of a link to work a Compelling or Commanding or Crossing (cursing) spell. There are plenty of workers who, through the strength of their faith and through their own giftedness alone, can curse or command someone using only their name. A name is very powerful.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

ElectroKid · Unread post by **ElectroKid** » Mon Aug 01, 2011 5:51 am

hello mary

yes i only have picture and full name how can i do this i mean to compel him or command him using thoese 2 personal concernes

thanks

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Aug 01, 2011 5:54 am

There is a Commanding spell kit:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-commanding.html

Or a Compelling spell kit:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-compelling.html

Or a Crossing spell kit:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-crossing.html

Since you seem to be fairly new to the practice, these kits will provide everything you need for a complete working. Of course there are MANY different tricks for commanding and compelling, but without knowing anything at all about your situation it's hard to know what would work best for your situation. So, these spell kits are your best bet!

giovanna_1530 · Unread post by **giovanna_1530** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:40 pm

Ok, I want to do crossing work on a person who has caused some serious problems in my life. The only personal concern/link I have is a sample of their handwriting in a short note. My question is that this note mentions the name of someone else, someone who I definitly do not want to be crossed. Should I worry about this, seeing as how the work is aimed at the person who's handwriting it is? I just wanted to get someone elses opinion before I proceeded.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 3:23 pm

Actually, I only use handwriting when its that individuals signature; however, this is a good question, I would think just cut that part off and use the rest.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 3:31 pm

You should just create a portion of the note. Just include a sentence or a few words that do not include the other person.

Learning-Doing · Unread post by **Learning-Doing** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:16 am

catherineyronwode wrote:Amber Lotus, this is a semen spell. That's what it is and how it works. It could also be worked with vaginal juices or menstrual blood, i am sure, but i am sorry, it is not a spell for a picture and a name.

worked with vaginal juices or menstrual blood - as in those can be used in place of the mans (targets) semen ( if you dont have it ) or use that if you wanted to do the spell on a woman instead?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:42 am

I agree, and if you need help you can always employ a rootworker to teach or do the work for you.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:58 am

If you want to use it on a woman then yes you would use the vaginal/menstrual blood.

Men do not have menstrual blood/vaginal fluids so it can't be substituted

. Basically you want to use the concerns of the target NOT your own.

theredc6 · Unread post by **theredc6** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 12:20 pm

If the spell you did is a bottle spell or the remains of a candle, then I would suggest burying it in your FRONT yard near the front door step to have the person come to you.

Bury underwear i the backyard to keep someone near.

Also, if the item is fixed (you did a spell on it and dressed it with the appropriate oils/herbs i.e. come to me, stay with me, domination, etc.) you tie it with one of your personal items and either put it in between the mattress (if you think your partner wont find it) or cut a slit in the seam of your mattress that is long enough for you to put your hand and the item through and place it there. Then sew the slit back up.

Hope I've helped

MsP · Unread post by **MsP** » Wed Aug 17, 2011 12:10 pm

Hello all i am wondering if i can use someones phone number,first name and birthday as a personal concern if that makes any sense? Ex im burning a come to me candle and write all of the above on a petition paper put it under the candle because i dont have a picture. Thanks in advance

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Aug 17, 2011 3:11 pm

Yes yes yes!!! Phone numbers, first names, birthdays collectively provide a stronger link to the individually.

To have commanding power or the upper hand in a relationship, write the target's name 3, 7 or 9 times, turn paper 90 degrees clockwise, write your name over the name of the target, the same number of times.