Spells to Prevent Protect Against Family Sex Abuse Incest Violence Assault

wasylena · Unread post by **wasylena** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:33 pm

My sister has a nanny that doesn't treat the children very well, but she has been there for years and I've tried to help out as much as I can. The nanny is living with her 50 year old boyfriend and I saw him a few months ago at my sister's house with the nanny's daughter. He was giving the nanny's 12 year old daughter a massage that seemed very inappropriate to me. I asked the nanny what his name was, but she refuses to give me his full name or where they live. They have moved twice in the past few months and I couldn't find any address under her name. Recently, I brought home my niece early from school because she was sick and I found the 50 year old boyfriend waiting inside the house. He quickly left when he saw me. My niece is a beautiful 6 year old. I told my sister what happened and she said I had no physical evidence of him doing anything and told me that it was too inconvenient to find another nanny right now. I could be wrong, but if I'm right I want to do everything I can to protect the children. I have no name or address to take to the authorities and all I really have is a very bad feeling. I continue to do a fiery wall of protection for my niece, nephew, and nanny's daughter. I did a hot foot on the nanny and the candle holder I put the black candle on cracked and broke. I was able to get a strand of the nanny's hair off of her sweater. Is there something stronger that I can use? Should I keep repeating the hot foot indefinitely? Can I do a hot foot on someone when I don't know his name and I'm never sure when he will show up? I'm willing to try any other spells you can think of for protection of all the children involved and for the nanny and her boyfriend to break up and leave, or a spell to find a way for the authorities to get involved if my gut feeling is right.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:10 pm

For protection, I love to work with Archangel Michael. He will strike down anyone that tries to harm the person you are trying to protect. Trust me he is the best. I have seen him do his work on someone, and its not nice when they try. I think st. Nicholas was a protector of children specifically.

For your sister, i would do a clarity spell on her to make her realize and believe what you are saying.

As for the nanny, and the bad boyfriend, i would definitely keep at that hot foot spell, but I would switch it to sprinkle some in the Nanny's shoes, or something of hers. For the bad boyfriend, use some cast off evil, in addition to the hot foot.

I think that you should employ different methods of the hot foot such as laying a foot trick, and putting it where you know then Nanny and the old boyfriend are going to walk, or better yet lightly in her shoes.

I love working with st martha, and she has great success for me in a number of situations, but you could employ her to help you punish him and dominate him to stay away from the house, and harming anyone.

I hope this helps some. But you have a bad feeling for a reason, and I am glad that you are doing something about it to protect the children.

wasylena · Unread post by **wasylena** » Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:06 pm

Thank you for all your help. I will definitely work on the things you suggested. I really appreciate it.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:45 pm

You can still tell the authorities what is happening. You know the name of the nanny, her place of employment, and where this man is likely to be at. (Your sister's place!) You have seen this man involved in inappropriate behaviour with a child. Let the police track him down, that's their job. Keep up the hotfoot and the protection work, but if there is any possibility of any danger towards those children, it is your duty as a family member and concerned adult to step in and involve the authorities.

wasylena · Unread post by **wasylena** » Thu Oct 22, 2009 3:53 pm

I already told my sister that I would call the police next time that I saw the nanny's boyfriend at her house. My sister told me that it is her home and he has a right to visit his girlfriend. My sister is an attorney and she told me if I called the police she would not only defend them in court, but she would also sue me for deformation of character and make sure that I never see my niece or nephew again. My sister also said that my mom and other two sisters will be banned from seeing the children because they agree with me and are supporting what I am doing. If I wasn't being threatened by my sister, I would have gone to the authorities a long time ago. I understand how easy it is to judge me when you don't know the entire situation. Please, I just need help in doing some spellwork while my hands are tied. I'm going to try the clarity spell on my sister and I'm working on the rest of the spells that starsinthesky7 has suggested, but if anyone knows of any other spells that might work, I would appreciate their input.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:39 pm

If the rest of the family will back up what you say, you really ought to go to the police. Even though it is hard. If you really, truly can't, I would jinx up that man something WICKED. Black penis candle. Goofer dust on it. Strongest work you can do against him. Pay someone to curse him if you need to.

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:21 pm

Here in the U.S., it is not enough that he gave her a massage, unless he touched her where her bathing suit covers. No case could be made, and while CWS might give your sister a warning, they could take no legal action against her. (My mom's been a social worker since the dawn of time, and I remember my crim law and family law classes.) I'm not saying you're wrong, just saying what would likely happen if you tried to turn him in. What you can do, however, is make sure your nieces know it is absolutely okay to tell him not to touch them at all and he has no business doing so, since he is not their nanny, a doctor, etc. Since pedos rely on submission and silence from their victims, a firm "NO" and a big fuss if he does touch them might make a big difference. Also check the Megan's law website, if he IS a pedo he started long ago.

wasylena · Unread post by **wasylena** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 10:38 am

Thank you so much for the information about the CWS. I didn't know any of the laws. I have talked to my niece about touching and I will continue to talk to her. The past month she started lying to me about a lot of little things, so I'm not so sure she would be honest about something like that. In the meantime, thanks notdoriangray, I will give the black penis candle a try. Can I still do a black candle on someone when I don't know their name?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Oct 23, 2009 12:43 pm

Yes, do the black penis candle. Try to find out his name or just write (nanny's name)'s boyfriend on it or "man who is molesting (niece's name). Try to get something personal from him; that's better than a name. If not, go with what you have. Dress the candle with Black Arts oil (or some other cursing oil) and hot pepper. Read Psalm 37 three times. Make sure to dispose of the candle as far from your house as possible, preferably at a crossroads or cemetery. Take a bath in hyssop afterwards to cleanse yourself.

If you want to get rid of both of them, light a seven day black candle dressed with a cursing oil, hot pepper, and personal concerns (like the nanny's hair). Every night that the candle burns say Psalm 105.

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 9:57 am

my father beat my mother real bad a few weekends ago. he is in jail and he is crazy!

my mom fears that she and my siblings are in danger. i live in another state.

she feels that he is not going to stay put after he leaves jail.

we have discovered that a former wife left him with their children in order to escape him and he did not stay put. as a matter of fact, he found her, almost killed her, took the kids and then abandoned them.

my mom fears that he will come after her because he had always threatened he will do her harm, or harm her family if she left with the children. he always said that nobody would take the children away from him...and that if that were to happen, there would be blood.

he has a restraining order. he cant approach neither my mom nor her relatives but my mom is sure he won't obey the law.

right now, i have a picture of mom, sis, bro and me. i lighted a glass-encased candle on top of the picture. made three holes and dressed the candle with rue, basil and rosemary and fiery wall of protection oil. also made a circle around the picture with protection sachet powders.

i just want my mom and sibs to be safe and for him to leave them alone.

please help. thanks.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:09 am

Pray strongly to St. Michael at least once per day over that candle. You may wish to start a novena for her to St. Michael.

You can also read through the Fiery Wall spells listed on this page for ideas of what other work you may be able to do using your FWP oil:
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
Also, look at the protection spells from this page for other ideas:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#white

You can also think about binding your father to keep him from harming anyone:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#black

Have MISC or an AIRR worker set a Fiery Wall of Protection candle on her behalf as well to have some back-up.

Call Lucky Mojo and order the Fiery Wall kit, talk to them about the possibility of expedited shipping.

Keep a log of all his activities, and report them to the police the second he breaks his restraining order in any way shape or form.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:18 am

Jazzie, very sorry to here about current situation with your Mom and siblings. I like what you have suggested and done.
Saint Michael The Archangel would be very helpful to your family during this difficult time.
If you can, Maybe have one of the Rootworkers from the AIRR help you as "back up" work.
I can think of several things to order in addition, but the member of the AIRR not only will be able to provide you with an effective reading but will also be able to assist you in your work.
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
In addition if there is anyway for your Mom to move or better get to a "safe house"? The most important issue is that of the children and your Mom, and then the extended family.
Take Care and please let us know how your family is.

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:25 am

devi....are you jujujiggles

devi, when he started attacking her, she told me she asked st. michael to saver her and it worked. she strongly believes in him. what i think ill do is that ill tell her to continue praying to him. she is very fond of him. while i do the fiery of protection stuff. i actually have a fiery of protection mojo bag..can twist to see what i can do.

as for the binding, i didn't find anything except for hot foot powder stuff and as i said, i don't live with them. the only thing i have of him is a picture of him and his hair.
i also have goofer dust, and graveyard dirt, black candles, black arts oil, destruction oil, black salt.
crossing oil, crossing powder

not comfortable with doing negative spells against my own dad though.

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:32 am

triple...thx

she is safe now. she is with people who will take care of her. nobody knows where she is except for me and some of her relatives. so, i have no worries. except he can be dangerous.
it is hard. i dont know whether her fears are justified, that is, whether he would dare or whether he (as many abusers do) has instilled so much fear in her. but she has great intuition..so i believe her.

about ordering a rootworker, i cant afford it. this is the reason i am doing stuff on my own. im actually very adept at harmful magic but i have mixed feelings to do it against my own father. for now, im concentrating on protection.
i think ill buy her a st.michael novena candle and send it to her....

im not very good with saints. i do better with deities..

i actually have a lighted candle for my patron goddess, Yemanja. she protects women and children...so this is another thing im doing. when i did a divination, she said she was the one who will help.

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curious...

mom doesnt feel comfortable with leaving novena candles unattended.

so...it is alright if she lights the novena candle on and off?

or is it better for her to pray over small white candles (burn faster) with a holy card of st.michael?

Unread post by **Rev Ernest** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:44 am

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Good luck!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:53 am

Jazzie,

Yes she can snuff (pinch with wet fingertips) it out between times, but please tell her not to 'blow it out.' Blowing it out signifies that the spell is complete. And she certainly has the option to burn smaller candles, some people would rather burn the tea lights (short burn time), votive (sometimes up to 10 hours), 4 inch candles (2-3 hours burn time) or the tapers (6-inch varies).

I like to provide historical information when questions are asked; please read cat's online powerful information about candle magic in Hoodoo to gain a clear understanding of candle magic found here http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html

Good Luck jazzie.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 11:00 am

If you have a picture of him and his hair you can absolutely bind him! Binding to keep someone from doing harm is not a negative work, in my opinion. You don't have to hot foot him to bind him.

I would make a paper dolly putting a picture of him on the face, and taping a hair to it. Name the doll after him and baptize it calling his name and spirit into it. Then dress some red thread with Fiery Wall of Protection and then start binding up that dolly telling it that it is bound against harming others - that he cannot move against your mother or your family or anyone else, that he cannot speak against them, that he cannot act against them in any way. Fold the arms, legs, and head into the body of the dolly as you do that, wrapping the thread around it to bind it.

Momma Starr has a trick to turn that dolly upside down and then put it under a heavy rock to weigh him down and keep him motionless. I like that one for this case.
Another option would be to sandwich that dolly between two holy cards of St. Michael with St. Michael facing inwards, invoking St. Michael to keep him bound and unable to harm anyone again.

Lots of options are available to you here!

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 11:16 am

jwmcclin...thanks. it is just that i had been told to never snuff a novena candle, since it is an ongoing thing. but i think that tea candles will be perfect!

devi.

thanks for that one. ive heard of the doll baby but didnt find it under the negative spells link.
also, binding has always seemed more of a wiccan, pagan thing anyways..didn't know that binding existed in hoodoo.
quick questions. why the red thread? and why dress it with protection? to me, it seems as if these methods would be protecting him.
sorry, i trust that youre right but im trying to understand the ways...

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 11:20 am

Not blowing out is very important per jwmcclin's post. And Devi these two tips you just gave from Momma Star are EXCELLENT!!! Thank you so much!!!
jazzie will be keeping your family in my prayers and well wishes for you and the work that you are doing and will continue to do.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Oct 21, 2010 12:30 pm

Red thread is very protecting. It's binding him up and it's dressed in FIERY Wall of Protection oil so that he will be bound about by the fiery sword of St. Michael and burned if he goes to move against anyone.

Wicca is a fairly new tradition, historically speaking since it started in the 1940's - it got the bulk of its folk magic from earlier sources and then put it within their own ritual structures. But binding has roots in pretty much all ancient cultures. You hear about spirits being bound waaaaaay back when in various civilizations, and in even in the Old Testament of the Bible.

jazzie · Unread post by **jazzie** » Fri Oct 22, 2010 2:16 pm

devi, thanks.

found an answer.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:28 pm

Working with Saint Michael is the way to go with this. Place his image under a statue of St Michael or a vigil candle and ask that as Saint Michael pins the devil and casts him out that hr cast out and hold down your father.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Oct 22, 2010 9:27 pm

jazzie wrote --

"didn't know that binding existed in hoodoo."

Oh dear. You need to read up on conjure practices, hon. Tying, binding, wrapping, boxing, and nailing people down is the basis of a tremendous amount of hoodoo work. The word "binding" may be more "proper English" or "olde English" than the common Southern word "tying," but we do a lot of it, trust me.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 24, 2010 12:40 pm

Hands down, I would work with St. Michael. I have stated this before when I ask for the help of St. Michael for a client's friend who had a dangerous man stalking her even thought she had a restraining order. He violated the restraining order over and over, but he was in jail the next day when I asked for the help of St. Michael. He has not bothered the woman ever sense, and I know that St. Michael would be a definite asset in this situation if you feel comfortable working with him.

I would definitely create a doll, and bind the doll at the arms and legs to keep him tied down and away.

witchy_woman · Unread post by **witchy_woman** » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:21 am

I am new to this forum. But I wanted to wish you and your mother good luck in dealing with your father. I was in a similar situtation a long time ago. I was blessed enough to have a mother that listened to her instincts and rescued me. You mother is blessed to have you. I know things will work out for your family. I feel it in my heart. You, your mother, and sibs will be in my prayers.

colliz · Unread post by **colliz** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 10:13 am

Hi i am hoping someone can really help me or should i say my brother, 10 ago my brother changed and changed for they worst, he started beating on his gf, started smoking and gambling, not going to work stealing etc. it got so bad that he had to leave our country n moved over here in the US, cause people were looking for him. My grand mother (who is passed) once told my mom that someone did something to him, but i guess she brushed it off. Another day my mom was in the market and a lady my mother didn't know walked up to her and asked for her son, she said look him here reffering to my lil brother, but the lady said no, not that one you know which one, and asked what mess my brother has gotten himself into, that she need to take him to see someone n get him help.
Well he came up here to the US, and continued to the same path. Now once again people is looking for him but wants his life. He is engage, but beats on his gf. She said each time, they fight his eyes gets blood red, and when he sees how scared she is, he then stop and laugh. my mom had a dream that my grandmother said to her don't worry she will take care of him.
She called her uncle who is a root worker in another country and before she can say anything he said to her be been waiting on her call because of a dream he had. She told him the situation and he told her what to do to protect her self, but also told her that she can't do anything to help him, he have to want to help himself, so to just give my brother his number and he will tell him what he needs to do.Today she called her uncle back and he said he beed praying about the situation, and what he's getting back is that my brother has a dark cloud over his head, and the devil is blocking his eyes from seeing what is really going on in his life and how bad things are. so my question is: is there anything i can do to help, even if it is to aid my brother in making that call....i am scared and i really want to see him get better. Please help...someone. people is saying prepear for the worst, n i don't want to think like that.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 10:38 am

Hi colliz that's a lot going on. I recommend a reading with a member of AIRR http://readersandrootworkers.org
The reading first, ok. I recommend an objective, professional opinion outside the family. I'm not insulting your family member who is a reader, just stating that The Forum is about the products and services of Lucky Mojo. The members of AIRR are skilled, qualified and professional.
There are many things that come to mind for magical protection read this page: http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
The Fiery Wall of Protection Spell kit is on this page in the complete inventory:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
Take care and stay posted.

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 1:07 pm

I also think you should get a reading from someone else. Especially since your relative says the devil is blocking his eyes. If someone is working against your brother, they might have deliberately tried to hinder this rootworker relative to see what's going on.

The workers in AIRR can both read, offer suggestion for work you can do, and do rootwork on your behalf.
I hope you find one of them that you can work with on this.

colliz · Unread post by **colliz** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 1:09 pm

Thank you both, the root worker is not "my " relative, but i will get a reading. Thank so much.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 2:03 pm

If you feel your brother is under some undue influence then consider Uncrossing products and Run Devil Run.

Follow this up with strong protection for yourself and your mother.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-run-devil-run.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sat May 21, 2011 1:14 pm

Hey y'all!

I haven't been on this site in so long, due to life's general craziness.

However, I need some serious help, and by serious, I do mean SERIOUS.

So basically, as you can tell by the title, my cousin, who is male, is completely and utterly obsessed with me.

Since we were little children, we have always been very close friends, but as the years went on, he began to start developing feelings for me.

Now a few years ago, he tried to put the moves on me, and of course, I freaked out and rebuffed him.

After two years, I thought he'd finally given up on me, only to have him call me requesting to talk about some small matter.

I thought he'd finally come to, so I called him back and we chatted about work, friends, and such for a few minutes.

Very quickly, he changed the subject and starting talking about "Us". I thought "Oh boy, here we go again"!

He repeatedly told me that he was madly in love with me and that he wanted to be with me forever, that he didn't care we were cousins.

Mind you, this particular cousin doesn't have the best track record of mental health or healthy relationships with women.

He began to be very forceful, telling me that I will change my mind and that we can make it work. All the while, I'm growing more creeped out because he seemed to be very insistent about this. He then said he wanted to take a walk alone in the woods and "pretend" to be a couple. This was just the last straw. Every time I've seen him, he tries to draw me off alone somewhere, and after hearing about the woods, I thought to myself that the last thing I want to do with a guy this unpredictable is put myself in a lonely place with him.

Quite frankly, my sisters and friends all think that he is very dangerous and that he is obsessed.

He becomes jealous of every man in my life, he calls and emails me constantly, he alternates between begging me not to leave him to commanding me around, he tells me that I don't know my own feelings and that I need to change my mind about him.

Overall, he's just scaring the sh*t out of me (excuse my French). The worst part is, I have to see him at every family event, which sucks because I really love seeing and being with my extended family.

Is there anys sort of spell or something I could do to make him stop obsessing me? Is he possibly been hoodooed by some one?

Mind you, this crazy love business came out of left field very suddenly and very intensely.

Any advice is much appreciated.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sat May 21, 2011 1:50 pm

If your cousin has a history of mental problems, I would say that he probably hasn't been hoodooed into this kind of behavior but has simply gotten progressively worse for whatever reason. I would advise you to get a reading anyway to determine for sure. On the magical front, I would work with Fiery Wall of Protection products to protect yourself from your cousin. Additionally, you can petition Saint Michael to help with protection as he is a strong protector. You can also work to bind your cousin up to keep him from doing harm to you or any other person.

On the mundane front, I would cut off all unneeded communication with him. You may have to see him at family get togethers, but you certainly don't have to talk to him and indulge him outside of such events. Change your email address, change your phone number and tell other family members NOT to give your number or email address to him for any reason. If he does get in contact with you, simply ignore him. Try not to show him his behavior is getting to you. Start cutting him out of your life and leave him out of it until his creepy behavior ceases. You might also want to consider talking to an older family member who may be able to get him to stop.

Good luck.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sat May 21, 2011 1:52 pm

How would I go about binding him to keep him away or from harming me?
Is there a specific way I should petition Saint Michael to help with my problem?

On the mundane front as well, I have talked to other family members, but for the most part, no one knows of his obsession.
It's just plain freaky when someone calls you 15 times after you don't pick up the phone once.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sat May 21, 2011 5:03 pm

If you choose to bind him up, make a doll baby of your cousin and bind up its arms and legs with thread. For more specifics on making a doll baby for binding, do a quick forum search as it's been discussed before. As for petitioning Saint Michael, you can ask him for protection in your own words which I find works well. I always ask for general protection but if there is someone specific that is giving me problems, I ask for specific protection from that person and anything harmful they might do to me.

I've been on the receiving end of repeated phone calls, endless emails, and (my fave!) showing up unannounced - so I definitely understand what you're going through. Since this is your cousin, I believe telling other family members might be helpful. As I said before, perhaps someone in the family will talk to him and get through to him that his little fantasy is not only creepy, but not something you want to pursue. Since you have indicated that you told him this and he think you're in denial, I think that shows he not all that connected to reality and may need some professional help at some point.

In the meantime, protect yourself (both magically and in the real world) and bind him up so he can't hurt you. Good luck to you.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun May 22, 2011 1:00 am

You can try a moving candle spell to walk him towards his ideal lover if you want to be gentle. But if he's got a history of creepy behavior then consider a freezer jar.

My all time favorite involves working with two bricks which in conjure have a protective quality. Take his photo and personal concern. Write your petition on the back of the photo then make a name packet with Devil's Shoe String, Spanish Moss, Salt and similar elements. Tie with a red string and place it between to bricks to hold him down and keep him from harming you.

Good luck.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sun May 22, 2011 7:39 am

Hmmm.....That sounds like an internesting idea Conjure.
I don't think a moving candle spell will work with him, because other girls find him as creepy as I do.
Perhaps I should look into the binding spell and the freezer jar because I've worked with dollbabies before in the past and the freezer spell seems like it might work.

Light, don't you just hate the random phonecalls?

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Sun May 22, 2011 1:13 pm

As described here, you can bathe in black snake root to kill his love for you

http://www.herb-magic.com/black-snake-root.html

I would combine this with the work Conjureman Ali suggested.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun May 22, 2011 1:16 pm

Block his number and his email address. Do not speak to him. If he shows up at your house, call the cops. Get a restraining order if necessary. His being related to you does not mean you should tolerate his behavior. Pretend that he is just another guy that you might occasionally run into; you wouldn't put with his BS.

I like Conjureman Ali's brick spell. You could also sprinkle some red brick dust in front of your door. Lucky Mojo sells it; look under Mineral Curios.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sun May 22, 2011 2:10 pm

Mama Micki, would carrying a small pouch or bag of brick dust on my person while in his prescence protect me or would it only work for protecting my home?

Black Snake oil? You don't say?
I'm currently under some serious financial stress, so I'll have to wait a while before I can even think of purchasing anything.
I was told by someone, I forget who, that I can use american express gift cards instead of credit cards for online payments?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun May 22, 2011 3:32 pm

Red brick dust is usually to protect the home, but you certainly could try carrying some with you.

Lucky Mojo takes American Express, so your gift card should work.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Sun May 22, 2011 7:21 pm

Mama Micki wrote:Red brick dust is usually to protect the home, but you certainly could try carrying some with you.

I'd Stick with tradition for protections carried on the person. Use the Brick dust for your home.
Carry a mojo hand for protection or wear a protective amulet blessed with vanvan oil.
There are lots of "protective" spells/articles/etc. that can be carried on the person. You can carry a sachet in you bosom, dress your socks or undies...
whatever is in your budget.
Search the site for spells and protective supplies

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Mon May 23, 2011 2:01 pm

I am hoping to buy something of more potentcy once my bank account allows, but in the mean time, is there something quick and easy and cheap that I can do to protect myself from him?
I just recieved a phone call from him and another email expressing his undying love for me. *rolls eyes*

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Mon May 23, 2011 3:11 pm

If you're low on funds, I would recommend petitioning Saint Michael or the deity of your choice for protection. There's also a list of protection spells in the link below and throughout the forum.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/white/protection.html

You should also start blocking his emails so you don't see them at all. You can also look into blocking his number, but since I'm not sure if all providers offer such a feature on all cellphones, I would look into changing your number.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Mon May 23, 2011 4:08 pm

Bathe in Black Snake root to "kill his love for you." This advice was in another thread.
Info on how to do a magical bath can be found at:

http://www.luckymojo.com/baths.html

you should definitely block all communication from this person.
Also, let him know, calmly, and in no uncertain terms, that his communications are unwanted.

Tell him something like:
"I am asking you not to contact me. Please stop the e-mails, phone calls, text messages, etc."
"I am no longer comfortable with the communications I receive from you."
"I am changing my email address, I am going to block your phone number."
"This is not a healthy relationship."
"if you persist in trying to contact me, I will have no choice but to inform the police."
"This type of unwanted communication is harrassment and can be considered stalking, Both of which are illegal activities. You can be charged as a criminal for this type of behaviour."
End of conversation.

This is the best type of protection you can give yourself. Also, don't be afraid to follow through with the police if he does not stop.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sun May 29, 2011 9:07 am

I'm afraid of going to the police because he hasn't actually physically hurt me.
He's never really done anything other than send me creepy emails and phonecalls and try to put his arm around me and touch me a few times.
It's not that I don't want to get the authorities involved, I just feel like they won't be able to do anything with what he's done so far.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sun May 29, 2011 9:23 am

I don't think anyone is suggesting you go to the police straightaway. You should first tell him to stop communicating with you and take steps to make sure he can't reach you. If he still goes out of his way to communicate with you after you have done that, it is considered harassment. That would be when you could contact the police and file a complaint.

Hopefully it won't get that far and he'll get the hint. Just make sure you're firm in your demands and don't waiver.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Mon May 30, 2011 1:36 pm

Oh, I see.
What herbs and/or objects do you think I should use if I were to make a dollbaby of him as someone suggested?
I don't own anything of his, but I may have an old photograph or two of him.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:33 am

I made a dollbaby of my cousin using purple fabric (I didn't have any black) and I stuffed it with a petition to leave me and stop loving me.
I also stuffed it with some black pepper in the feet (hot feet?) and a photo of him.
Once I finished the dolly, I took a length of kitchen twine and "bound" up the doll, as TheLightFantastic suggested. I then stuffed him in a box under my bed.
Wouldn't you know that the day after, I get an email from him requesting we talk!

Is there anything I can do to his dolly to get him away from me? I don't know if this is related, but my housemate has claimed seeing a large black dog with blue eyes in her bedroom. She's terrified of it.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 12:34 pm

DaisyChain wrote:I made a dollbaby of my cousin using purple fabric (I didn't have any black) and I stuffed it with a petition to leave me and stop loving me.
I also stuffed it with some black pepper in the feet (hot feet?) and a photo of him.
Once I finished the dolly, I took a length of kitchen twine and "bound" up the doll, as TheLightFantastic suggested. I then stuffed him in a box under my bed.
Wouldn't you know that the day after, I get an email from him requesting we talk!

Is there anything I can do to his dolly to get him away from me?

Take the damn thing out from under your bed! Would you want him staying under there? That close to you!? Toss it into a fast running river as you pray that as the river runs so will he run out of your life and bother you no more. Or you can go to a grave and ask that they bind and hold this man down and keep him from bothering you, if you get the graves permission bury the doll about where you think the right hand is and pay the grave. I would do the latter personally. If it is the grave of an ancestor that you know would not allow his behavior in life, so much the better.

But really, under the bed is a pretty bad place to keep someone you don't want interested in you sexually.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:49 pm

Wow, thanks Turnsteel. I guess I should have thought of that beforehand!
I'm still pretty new to Conjure and I don't always get things right.

There isn't a river nearby, but I can probably get this dolly in a grave.
Does it have to be a real grave or can I dig a proxy "grave" in a field, yard, forest somewhere?

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:02 pm

DaisyChain wrote: Does it have to be a real grave or can I dig a proxy "grave" in a field, yard, forest somewhere?

A real grave.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Jun 02, 2011 7:35 am

The grave is NOT symbolic - it is real. You are enlisting the aid of the spirit of a dead person to aid you in the work. That is the essence of graveyard work. If you are going to bury the dolly at a grave, then you will want to make sure that a) the spirit agrees to help you in the way you want, and b) you properly pay the spirit for it's help.

Since you are very new to this practice, I would suggest that unless you are going to work with the grave of an ancestor, that you find a river and drive to it and dispose of the dolly that way. I know it's not the most convenient when you don't live near a river. I have driven over 2 hours to get to properly running water for ritual disposal before.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sat Jun 04, 2011 7:40 am

I have a grandfather and grandmother who are buried not too far from where I live.
I never knew my grandmother (she died shortly before I was born), so perhaps it would be best to use my grandfather's grave?

Can a creek work instead of a river?
Also, could I maybe dump "him" at a crossroads or leave him somewhere?
He's literally texting and emailing me nonstop and is insistent that we have a relationship.
Also, are there any things I can do to his dollbaby to give him a little payback before I dump him in a river or bury him?
Like, can I pin his mouth shut or do anything along those lines? I want him to regret ever targeting me.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Thu Jun 09, 2011 4:51 pm

umm...why does he have your number still?

He's literally texting and emailing me nonstop and is insistent that we have a relationship.

Change your email address, change your phone number, and even though he has not "done anything to you yet" This is harassment and even borders on stalking. Some states have anti-stalking laws, some do not. Check with your local Law enforcement agency or rape/sexual assault center. You don't have to provide a name to either if you don't want to.
Have you told him that you will contact the police if he does not stop? These are all things that are necessary if what you are saying about his behavior is the truth. You must tell him that his behavior is inappropriate, and most of all that it is UNWANTED. This is what you do in these types of situations. The best protection you can give yourself in this situation is Real World Protection, not magical. This person is not using magic against you, this person is stalking/harassing you in the real world. I wouldn't play his game by NOT calling the police. You need to set a clear and firm boundary with this person and let them know that you can and will call the police. If he still tries to contact you, then you need to follow through with calling the police.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Jun 09, 2011 7:54 pm

You have been given some of the best advice by all of the above posters for the situation you are in both magically and on the mudane front. This is a nightmare waiting to happen on both. Please, please cut off all ties, and contact local law enforcement.
Did you see what happened with the dollbaby and understand why?
Do NOT do any graveyard work!!!
Contact a Member of AIRR:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Sun Jul 17, 2011 6:49 pm

Thanks a bunch. I told him off and I threw away his dollbaby and I haven't heard from him since. Hopefully he stays gone.

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Tue Jul 19, 2011 1:22 am

Thanks for letting us know how it's going.
I'm glad to hear he is leaving you alone now.

DaisyChain · Unread post by **DaisyChain** » Tue Jul 19, 2011 6:12 am

I'm glad he is too! I have threatened him with legal action and I've talked with other members of the family about him. I think he became more scared of me once he knew I was telling his "secret" to other people in the family.
I just hope he doesn't decide to harrass or blackmail me into something, which he has done in the past. But hey, it's working for now and that's good enough for me.

plex wendy · Unread post by **plex wendy** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:58 am

Hi! My husband is very religious, and he is bullying me. He is not letting me wear what I want and is always shouting at me and the kids. He is even choosing the food we eat and won't let us watch tv or listening to music. Is there any spell i can do? We are in England; I can't get things through the post without him checking it! Help please, I can't leave him because of my family (it is very complicated).

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:10 am

How is he enforcing these "rules"? Physical violence, or at least threatening it? Go to the authorities. I don't live in the UK, but I'm pretty sure that domestic violence is not tolerated there. Most of Europe also has extensive social services and will not allow a mother and her child to live on the street, if you decide to leave.

I'm also guessing this is an arranged marriage (if I'm wrong let me know), and you are under pressure from both families to stay with him. Get help to do what is right for you and your children.