Prevent Lover Spouse Friend from Relocating, Moving, Travelling

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 27, 2010 8:17 am

It is not necessary to redress the candle, although some workers do. As for the distance learning program's recognition in Singapore, all distance learning programs do not say 'distance learning' on the degree which is a plus for people who do not recognize them as legit.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Dec 27, 2010 7:49 pm

White can work for influence work, red for a more love-type work.

Unread post by **ebony81** » Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:19 pm

Hello Everyone,

I would like advice on how to get my boyfriend's first duty station to be at the Army post closest to my house in North Carolina. He is currently in Maryland for his Army job training, and he does not know where he will be stationed after his training. I have LM Compelling and Essence of Bend Over Oils, along with Commanding sachet powder. I'm not sure if I should target the US Army, his command, or his unit. Can anyone suggest a spell or products to use for my situation? Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:24 pm

Is he already assigned to a unit, or is he up to pick his next duty station? My husband is Navy so I think the Army does things slightly different, but I've had some success getting the Navy to do things I've needed them to do.

Orchidclimbing · Unread post by **Orchidclimbing** » Mon Apr 25, 2011 5:14 pm

I'm asking if anyone knows a spell to keep my boyfriend from moving away. He may be offered a job in Texas (I live in Wisconsin), and I know there's a girl there who likes him. If he moves away, I fear it will doom our relationship.

Does anyone have a suggestion about a conjure I can work to keep him with me, to stop him from moving away?
(I already work a honey jar and a poppet.)

Thanks so much in advance!

lspcmplex · Unread post by **lspcmplex** » Mon Apr 25, 2011 8:16 pm

I'd suggest Stay With Me since I've had good experiences with it. My boyfriend was in the processing of moving back to California and I ordered a Stay With Me vigil and he decided not to move after all.
Good luck!

Orchidclimbing · Unread post by **Orchidclimbing** » Tue Apr 26, 2011 4:31 pm

Thanks so much! Did you ask LM to light the candle for you and do a report or did you just do one on your own?

lspcmplex · Unread post by **lspcmplex** » Sun May 01, 2011 8:06 pm

No I had Miss Bri light one for me. She's super nice and awesome!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue May 03, 2011 8:20 am

neverfit

In my experience, the most effective spellwork is done in tandem -- you do one part, typically baths and house cleansing, perhaps carrying a mojo -- and the rootworker does the rest -- making that mojo, lighting candles and praying, and other things that can be done at a distance.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

ScarlettRose · Unread post by **ScarlettRose** » Sat May 28, 2011 8:22 pm

Hello!

I'm new here and I will try to keep it short and simple. I am interested in closing someone's roads, I previously worked a lot with hoodoo but with the help of a lady I met, this was long ago. Now that I no longer have her I ended up here while searching online, I searched for all the items on LM's site and I saw a few things like oils and powders that can be used to hex or someone jinx someone but I really would need some tips on what I can do. I'm being honest here and to be a little more specific the person who's roads I want to close is my lover's. I hope to to come off as wrong or mean here, and if I am then I am very sorry. Maybe I'd have to explain a bit too much as to why I'd want to do this, but at the moment I can't, maybe when I can post again.

Please let me know as this is my chance to purchase what I need discreetly online.

Thanks in advance!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat May 28, 2011 9:46 pm

You can do several things, but I think we would need more of a better description in what you are trying to do as far as your situation.

You can work with Saint Peter and ask that he close the roads to someone.

Another thing you can work with is barberry, poppy seeds, knot weed, and some calamus if you would want to restrict them from being able to move forward on something.

A freezer spell is another method. www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

Lastly, you can do a crossing spell if you want to do something harsh.

Considering this is your lover, I think there is another possible method to work this but we cannot really know with out more information.

ScarlettRose · Unread post by **ScarlettRose** » Sun May 29, 2011 9:35 pm

Thank you so very much for your reply! I know being more descriptive would be of help but I wrote that short start because I wouldn't want to sound too long while asking for a specific thing. I got a reading and the thing is I have had to do a lot in order for things to be well between us and to finally have him with me but I have noticed that my main issue is that as he socializes with new people all the time he picks up a lot from their form of being. I don't know if I'm being very clear here, new people, new guy friends, influences, then comes in females, etc. I've worked on him in the past to attract, and I recently worked on him and his sexuality so that I can be a bit relieved when it comes to that, but I really wouldn't want to be in a situation where I would have to be dealing with him getting along with people who one way or the other cause such changes. I want to close his roads when it comes to other people so that I can be sure that there's no way in which he can be going off to parties, flirting, etc.

I worked a lot on him in order to bring him and it's like now that we're moving, this changes things a bit because he goes along with such people and their influences over him. I had him already calmed and stable with me, I'd just like to close his roads when it comes to this type of socializing, I don't know if you guys may find it wrong but honestly in other words I just want him to be able to talk to people but nothing more, in other words close his roads when it comes to friendships...

VERY SORRY if there's anyone who may see this as wrong.

DrXTheRebirth · Unread post by **DrXTheRebirth** » Thu Jun 02, 2011 10:01 am

It's not wrong. But I can second starsinthesky7's advice to petition St. Peter for closing roads. If you feel that he may stray I suggest using Stay With Me products.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jun 02, 2011 11:33 am

I agree stay with me products would be the way to go. I would perhaps even do a blue penis candle spell to make sure that he is not able to sleep around.

www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

You may want to look at stay at home products as well if he is doing too much socializing.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Jun 02, 2011 7:56 pm

Closing his roads may be one solution, but it may not be the right solution for a relationship situation. For example you may close his roads to his friends and his socalizing and basically forcing a change which may result in tensions within the relationship.

A reading may indicate whether this is the way to go.

Personally, I am with Starsinthesky. I think Stay With Me and Follow Me Boy products may be the way to go. The idea is to nurture his attention to be on you and so naturally remove the influence of these other people. If you want to compliment this by working at it from the other end, then a freezer jar on rivals may be of assistance.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jun 19, 2011 12:58 am

I would like to know if anyone knows or can recommend Candle(s) to PREVENT a loved one from moving away? I am desperate for any help anyone can give.

Thank you!

~ T

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Jun 19, 2011 10:37 am

Stay at Home or Stay With Me candles (or both) would answer those needs.

CAN-GLS-STAW
Stay With Me Glass-Encased Candle, Fixed
$8.50

You can order right here in the forum by clicking the blue Add To Cart button.

CAN-GLS-STAH
Stay at Home Glass-Encased Candle, Fixed
$8.50

You can order right here in the forum by clicking the blue Add To Cart button.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jun 19, 2011 3:37 pm

Thank You soo much Cat!

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 5:46 pm

I need some help with a situation I have just been saddled with.... I just found out a man that I have been "off and on" with for the past 3 years has now decided to move across the US to the East Coast (NC or VA) from California where I am.

I love this man very much and I really dont want him to go but he is going for good cause, he has a 10 year old daughter that he only gets to see a few times a year and not for very long periods of time. He wants to be near her so he can watch her grow up and be the Father she needs him to be.

While I would love for him to stay for my own selfish reasons, I know and feel that is the wrong way to go about things.

What can I do to get him to take me with him? This is the only way I can see that it is a win/win situation. I would never want to keep him from his daughter or his happiness. I just want to be a part of it.

Any help or suggestions would be very much appreciated.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 7:36 pm

Have a reading with a Member of AIRR before you move across the US!!!
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Good Luck!!!

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 7:46 pm

Thank You Miss Tammie! Is there any one in particular you would recommend?

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 7:47 pm

And I would only move if asked. But I do see your point

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 7:56 pm

I cant do that, but I will share with You that ALL Members of AIRR are wonderful!!! Read through their profiles

and find a Reader that best fits with You

!!!
Good Luck to You and Be Blessed!!!

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:07 pm

Awesome! What do you charge?

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:17 pm

I am not a Member of AIRR.
Go here:
http://readersandrootworkers.org
There are many women and men that are part of AIRR and ALL of them are qualified to answer your question.
I have met and know many of these Members and will share with You that you are in the best hands possible.Go through their profile pages

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 10:29 pm

If you cant get Hair or Fingernail Clippings from your target for a honey jar, would clothing that they have worn (dirty) suffice?

I would like to do this spell but my intended will be moving out of state (3000 mi. away) so I wouldnt be able to get hair or nails, but can get items of clothing if needed.

Thank you!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 11:16 pm

Hi, candlemagic --

First, if he has not moved yet, get the personal bodily concerns!

Second, you have described three different aspects of the same situation in three areas of the forum. I have merged your posts into one thread. We read all of the new posts and it is not helpful either to us or to yourself to re-frame the same situation in different ways in the various sub-forums. I realize that the situation is evolving rapidly, but for us to use our gifts and talents in the most effective way on your behalf, we ask you to stick to one thread, okay -- unless you are actually inquiring about Lucky Mojo spiritual supplies, which should be asked about in their respective sub-forums.

Thanks for understanding.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 11:22 pm

Thanks Cat and sorry for the x-posting!

The reason it is difficult to get the bodily effects is Im never around when he trims his nails, gets a hair cut, etc.

I did find a razor in his bathroom with facial hair trimmings and collected those (not much was obtained), but he has HEAPS of dirty laundry and would be very easy for me to get socks, underwear, undershirts, etc.

He keeps a very clean house, even his garbage is tidy! Its insane really...

Would a worn piece of clothing do the trick?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 11:29 pm

The hairs from his razor are good personal concerns. His worn clothing is also good -- you can sew a doll-baby out of something like that. Do you have my book "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic"? There are dozens of ways to use personal concerns and clothing in that book.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Mon Jun 20, 2011 11:32 pm

I do have that book! I never thought about that! Thanks Cat! I do want to take your Hood Course and get Certified but one thing at a time...

Ive collected shaven hairs (mostly on pieces of tape) and put them in a jar for the moment and will use them sparingly.

I am also interested in the Nation Sack, assuming that the hairs would be an excellent addition to this?

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:50 pm

I've been very casually seeing someone for a few months now, and he's up for orders (Navy) for a new command. He wants to leave this area (my going with him wouldn't even be an option if things were stronger with us, much less at this casual level) and go to another duty station. I want him to stay here so we have the time to see where things eventually go for us. He just told me he should hear about orders next week. My question is can I use a freezer jar to freeze him here? How best should I go about it....should I command the Navy to freeze his duty station here, or freeze him directly? I have commanding and controlling and essence of bend over products. What would be best? What herbs (I have a ton) would also work in the jar? Looking to do this tonight as it's a Saturday, so any quick help will be most appreciated!

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 9:27 am

I would work on the Navy keeping him here without bodily harm or discharge. Having dealt with the Military, you have to be very careful what and how you ask for something concerning that. Lets say you cast or had a spell cast to keep him here, things that would be detrimental could happen to him and his career... He could get injured (you dont want that) and they might keep him in his geographical location, or get Discharged (Dishonorable or otherwise). You have to think about what this might do to the other person... This is his career you are dealing with. I dont mean to sound preachy or bitchy, Im speaking from experience. I was once a Military Wife and it is NOT easy by any means! They took my husband away from me just days after we were married, I did some work (Yes, I wanted him back home with me) and he ended up coming back injured to the point he almost Died. True Story! I didnt think things through, I was selfish. I should have done Protection Work and prayed he returned home safe. It didnt stop there! After when he did return home, he was bitter and just all around angry. He loved what he did and I loved him being home. Needless to say, the marriage took a turn for the worse, he was Dishonorably Discharged due to heated emotional issues with his Unit, couldnt get out of bed because he was soo depressed, had to be put on medication to cope with life, and we ended up getting a Divorce.

Please think long and hard about what could happen here.... What happened to Me may not be what would happen to you, but Please take in consideration of your Boyfriends feelings and career choice. This may be something he is passionate about and selfishly casting a spell could mean the end of his career, his happiness, and the two of you.

I would most definitely get a reading from one of the AIRR Root Workers on here to see what his feelings are about you, and what could be done without harming him and his career.

The Military is not very forgiving... and a Discharge does not look good on a Resume.

Just my 2 cents

Best of luck! and get that reading before doing anything Please!

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 12:55 pm

I'm a military wife (soon to be ex-wife as well). I am well versed in what can happen to someone. He's not about to get discharged, trust me, for any reason. And staying here wouldn't hurt his career. His rate is not locked up and subs are almost always understaffed.

Already had a reading with Miss Bri as well.

And, fyi, as long as a discharge is honorable or general, it looks just fine on a resume. It's called hitting higher tenure and not being able to re-enlist or deciding not to re-enlist, period. The vast majority of servicemen and women do not stay in for 20+ years and reach retirement.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 12:57 pm

Glad you got the reading and sorry to hear about your marriage ending... I know that is no fun. Did Miss Bri say the situation could be helped?

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 1:03 pm

She saw a good chance of me keeping him here if I did some work on the situation, and once both of our divorces are finalized a decent shot a relationship for us. I'm just trying to find the best way to go about the work for the keeping him here for his next sea duty, or at least delaying his leaving until we've had the chance to give this a solid go and see where it leads.

And yes, marriages ending are no fun. Thankfully my eventual-ex is 3000 miles away which makes it slightly more bearable. But not by much.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 1:07 pm

Oh wow... I WISH my ex was that far away! He's 30 minutes from me unfortunately

I think if I was reading it right, a Freezer Spell would freeze that person away from you??? I could be wrong about this...

I am sort of faced with a similar situation myself and was suggested the Stay With Me and Stay At Home spells. The man I am with wants to move 3000 miles away to be closer to his daughter (I cant blame him there) but I dont want him to go either. So I guess the best situation for everyone would be if I moved to be with him but he has not asked me to. So we shall see.

Let me know what happens and how it goes! Best of luck to you!!

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 1:38 pm

Yeah, I wasn't certain about freezing him away...that book of a thread about it seems to say it would, but then there's conflicting info. I had a good experience using a sugar shake jar when I was trying to make sure the ex got his geo-bachelor status out there while all of our crap is being settled. Guess I'm going to have to go with that.

If my current guy and I actually really start clicking, and he gets orders to anywhere BUT his first choice, I would totally go with him if asked. I have no desire to live where he really wants to go, and there's an old female friend/flame/wannabe flame there that I am in no mood to deal with, either. Looks like it's sugar shake time and time to move her to someone else!

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 1:58 pm

Hot Foot her away! Whats the Sugar Shake Jar?? I like the name lol... And how do you use it?

Yeah I know what you mean by moving away... I wouldnt be strongly opposed to moving to the east coast, BUT I dont know anyone there and dont have a job there either so that would be a hard situation for me. I see your concern with the "old flame" in the picture... I wouldnt be happy about that at all.

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 2:16 pm

I'm totally going to hotfoot her...but she seems like a nice person, and I know my guy..... She finds someone else she's happy with he'll stop caring.

And I call it a sugar shake jar, although I think it's just basically a sugar jar. I make it regular sugar. All dry ingredients, no water/moisture. And aside from burning vigils on it, I shake the heck out of it whenever I can. Something about the kinetic energy that comes from the shaking seems to work for me.

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:23 pm

Wow.... that sounds awesome! Im going to have to give that a try! Thanks for the info. You might want to ask one of the more experienced people on the forum about a Cut and Clear between the two of them as well. Possibly if that is done, then she would be out of his life for good?
Miss Bri would know.

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:15 pm

I've heard that you can't use Cut and Clear on another person, only yourself, so that's out.....of course there is still Hot Foot, Vinegar jars, Break up, and I learned a lovely little trick from another rootworker using photos (concerns too if you have 'em), gunpowder and cross roads!

Good thing it's 4th of July weekend..no one is going to think twice about a boom!

Unread post by **CoastsideConjure** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 6:09 pm

Awesome!!!

channyway9192 · Unread post by **channyway9192** » Sun Aug 07, 2011 10:51 am

So Saint Peter can open aaaaand close roads???? bc there is some 1 whise roafs I want to close, meaning him not getting that sgt job he applied for, his.book NOT being published and him not having any dealings w/ any and esp, potential love intrests .....he deserves to stay stuck in the same dead end job--he's a cop (that he hates) he doesn't deserve to be happy esp w/ all of the heartache he has inflicted on people....ESP ME!!!!!

Thank you Saint Expedite for being there for me

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sun Aug 07, 2011 1:19 pm

Starsinthesky7: you said to restrict them from being able to move forward or something use barberry, calamus, poppy seed and knot weed, how we can use those herbs, in a jar,petition paper with candle or what?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Aug 07, 2011 2:12 pm

Yes Channyway.

He can be worked with to close roads.

An alternative to your situation is that you can simply cross him from not getting the job.

www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html

@theusurper

You could use those herbs in a jar, and burn a candle with essence of bend over with a purple candle.

You could make a freezer packet, and put in those herbs inside the packet.

Yes you can put them on candles as well. And you can even make a baby doll packed with those herbs, and tie string around the doll bound by the hands and legs. Then hide it somewhere the target will never find it.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sun Aug 07, 2011 4:13 pm

Thank you, Starsinthesky7, i was thinking something like that, you are very helpful. May be is a silly question but can i put some personal concerns, too.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:56 pm

Yes, It is always great to use the personal concerns of the target.

SONIA123 · Unread post by **SONIA123** » Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:33 am

Hi I need some help -

This Guy x who I love has put his house up for sale and moved to a city about 12 miles away (which I happened to live in before and ALL my family is there). But I do NOT want his current house to sell (In short, if his house sells he will always be in Birmingham and sadly would affect me as a result).

Any help?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 1:30 pm

There are plenty of spells to keep a house from being vacated. They are usually worked to prevent evictions, but they might work here.

Advice on Avoiding Rental House Eviction
advice-on-avoiding-rental-house-eviction-t5601s60.html
Railroad Spikes in Magical Spells
www.luckymojo.com/railroadspike.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Fri Dec 02, 2011 8:00 pm

Hi everyone, I have quick question on which products would be more appropriate for my situation

My boyfriend can be somewhat selfish sometimes. He recently brought to my attention that hes planning on "possibly" spending his summer with a bunch of degenerate whores and drunken losers at the beach (They openly hate me and he knows i would not be able to go to this place). While I expressed concern about this choice, he didnt seem to really "get it" I feel that anyone in a serious relationship wouldnt even entertain an idea like this.

My question is : would it be more appropriate to use a clarity/wisdom candle to show him that he is indeed being selfish, and this choice would put a strain on our relationship , and that its not appropriate or MATURE for a man in his mid-thirties to be engaged in such juvenile activities. If he was single I obviously wouldnt care, but there are so many reasons i feel this is inappropriate, one being that we wouldnt see eachother all summer and second, that hed be spending time with girls who throw themselves at him and have tried to hook up with him behind my back and have openly cursed me off for no reason... and a bunch of single drunk guys who are out to hook up.

In every other aspect of our relationship things are wonderful, but I feel like if he makes this choice, our relationship will not survive it.

would a stay with me candle be more appropriate? My friends think I should probably just dump him hahaha, but Id rather not go to extremes if a little hoodoo nudge can open his eyes to his selfishness.
I Appreciate any help!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Fri Dec 02, 2011 8:56 pm

Stay With Me and Love Me products would be a good bet in this situation. I'd burn a candle of each product on his name paper, and also get the sachet powders of each product, mix them together and dress his shoes and socks while commanding out loud that he loves you alone and stays with you. You may also want to try Stay At Home products too, so he'll stay with you at home and not just stay in the relationship.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Tue Dec 06, 2011 8:25 pm

Thanks MaryBee!

SugarMagnolia4333 · Unread post by **SugarMagnolia4333** » Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:19 pm

You can bind them to thier house. Although, you should ponder why you would like to restrict others freedom, because it will come back full circle to restrict you. To bind someone to thier home grab rose petals and a small box, write there name in black ink nine times, and thier address. You take four rose thorns and stick them at the four coners ( four points to a house). Place the paper in the box, and fill the rest up with rose petals, close the box. Bury deep, by a strong oak. The peron will not leave thier home.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Mar 12, 2012 3:35 am

SugarMagnolia: There is no three fold law, karma or "spell effects coming full circle" in Hoodoo. Each practitioner decides for him or herself what is an ethical spell and how it might affect them. If Birdsong wants to bind someone to their home, it's her choice and she is responsible to God for the actions she takes. The only way a spell would "come back to hurt her" would be if the target of her work performed a Reversing spell.

Mary Bee

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Mar 12, 2012 9:50 pm

SugarMagnolia4333 wrote:Although, you should ponder why you would like to restrict others freedom, because it will come back full circle to restrict you.

As MaryBee pointed out, hoodoo is not governed by any "Threefold Law."

I can also think of several reasons why someone might want to restrict someone else's movements:

The target is planning an adulterous rendezvous.
The target is engaged in criminal activity.
The target has announced his intention to leave his spouse forever.

To bind someone to thier home grab rose petals and a small box, write there name in black ink nine times, and thier address. You take four rose thorns and stick them at the four coners ( four points to a house). Place the paper in the box, and fill the rest up with rose petals, close the box. Bury deep, by a strong oak. The peron will not leave thier home.

This sounds like a Wiccan spell, and this is a hoodoo forum. There are significant differences between the two traditions, even though Neo-Pagan spellwork has borrowed some important things from hoodoo (the use of colored candles, for instance).

Roses are used for love work and blessing work.
A more traditional form for that petition paper would be to turn it counterclockwise and write your name repeatedly over the target's name, surrounding the cross names with the phrase "stay home" written repeatedly, without lifting the pen, until the last letter joins the first. Mind you, this is not the only way to write an old-fashioned hoodoo name paper, but it is popular and powerful.
As written, this is a simple spell for making staying at home more attractive, but I find it a little unfocused. It does look like it would make staying at home more attractive, but provides no compelling reason not to leave -- places no obstacle in the way of the trip.
It's more to the point to bury the box in your backyard -- at the house of where you want to target to come and stay.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Sat Apr 14, 2012 8:45 pm

I started talking to a guy I met online in October, met him a month later, then had no contact with him because I met someone, which was a stupid mistake because I should have dated the guy I met first. I tried reconciliation work with my ex (the guy I dated after meeting my target) but I decided to stop. During this time, I stopped talking to my current guy and was set on getting back with my ex, but out of the blue, the good guy contacted me. I feel very blessed and happy that the guy who's actually right for me is back into my life after my messy situation.

He's very intelligent, ambitious, hilarious, and we're very sexually attracted to each other. We're everything each other looks for. Unfortunately, he may be getting transferred to a city four hours away! It's not definite, but his boss will let him know in a week or two. I'm bummed, because I had assumed it was something the company was doing, but he just told me that he put in a request back in January (we were not talking at the time). I told him to give an estimate, and he said it's an over fifty-percent chance that he'll be transferred, although there is no posting for that position. What can I do to stop this, or make it less likely that he will leave? He thinks it sucks too, and the position pays the same and has the same responsibility--he just wanted to live in that city, but seems unsure now.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:49 am

I would possibly do a freezer jar to stop him from going to the other state.

www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

In addition, perhaps you could get a rail road spike...or a long nail. Print out the picture of your boyfriend, on the back of the picture write his name 7 times, and then cross it with the command "stay in (your city)."and stick the nail or railroad spike through the picture. You can bury this on his property, or your property such as the backyard.

http://www.luckymojo.com/railroadspike.html

You can make a jar spell by putting the nail packet above into a jar with barberry, calamus, and licorice root. Shake the jar daily chanting that he will not leave and he will stay in the city. You can also burn a purple candle on top with commanding oil.

www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/barberry.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/licorice-root.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/calamus-root-chips.html

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Fri Aug 24, 2012 5:16 am

again with the same thought,last year in this same time he started to think to move to his country, i did everything to keep him here in USA even he got a good
federal goverment job, i worked for that,hahahaha. Now he has the same thought to move to his country and i don't want to move over there, well we have plans to go in Nov for vacations and he told me he want to start look for a house, I DON"T WANT. so i guess i have to do it again and i will. my question is , is this a negative spell i mean when i do it i have to take a hyssop bath or not and another thing any thing else i can do to keep him here. i know Miss Cat told me that i need a rootworker to do this work but before i decide i want to try my ability to do this work and i know there there many people who can help me with their
expirience. i hope hear from you people. thank you in advance.

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Thu May 16, 2013 1:29 pm

My gay friend is planning a vacation to Hawaii and other places with his female friend which I dont like. How can I stop this ?

Thanks

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu May 16, 2013 5:17 pm

sun369 --

We have learned, from your posts, that your friend is not exact;y gay, but rather bisexual and polyamorous. That is, he has sex with you and with women at the same time. In another thread (the one on tying nature) you asked about preventing him from having sex with women -- that is, a way to stop him being polyamourous.

Now you want to forestall his vacation.

If they have not bought the tickets, your choices are

1. To make them fight and quarrel. (Use Separation products.)

2. To make something come up which changes their minds. (Use Confusion products.)

If they have already bought tickets, your choices are

1. To make one or both of them ill. (Use Goofer Dust.)

2. To make one of them suffer a family crisis, such as an ill or injured family member. (Use Jinx or Crossing products.)

3. To make the ticket company or airline mess up their plans. (Use Confusion products.)

4. To create a serious political or geophysical disturbance that would make it impossible for them to go to Hawaii. (Use Black arts and Destriuction products products.)

A few of these optiona are entering "Love Me or Die" territory -- that is, spells to make this man sick so that you can prevent him stepping around with another lover.

To read the full way to make a Love Me Or Die type of work, you should purchase my book "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic." It is too complex to explain in the forum, and it is available in the book.

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I would also like to note that you continually post requests for help in the "Anointing Oils" section -- but this is not a question about anointing oils. It is a question about a situation or condition, namely putting a curse on someone's plans to travel, relocate, or move. As such, it has been merged into that portion of the board. Please be more attentive to the way the Forum is laid out -- you have been here a long time, but we have to keep moving and merging your posts because you don;t do your part, as a fair partner in this cooperative venture, and post in extant threads. I know you can do better, and i am asking you to step up to the plate and post your questions in the appropriate areas of the board.

Thanks for understanding, and good luck!