Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Feb 17, 2011 12:08 am

First, if you have them on facebook,myspace, or anything else...then block them or delete them from your page. This will stop the online stalking. If they are not on your page then make it private.

Second, you can do some stop gossip work on your meddling relative.

Consider getting a stop gossip spell kit to prevent them from being able to speak ill of you.
www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
www.luckymojo.com/products-stop-gossip.html

And lastly, get a freezer jar going to stop all of their actions from you.

www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Thu Feb 17, 2011 11:13 am

Thank you!!!

lavender2 · Unread post by **lavender2** » Sun Feb 27, 2011 7:20 pm

What would be most effective to keep a person at an emotional distance and keep them from causing me trouble or harming me in some way?

It's a sibling who recently moved very close by so I will have to deal with him far more often than I have in about 15 years and he's hostile and angry all the time and has always gone after me any way he can.

I've tried binding spells (I'm a Wicca with not much hoodoo knowledge) and the results were not powerful enough.

Should I use a mojo bag and if so, which would be best?

Thanks for any help.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Feb 27, 2011 7:43 pm

You can freeze the person's influence. Read about Freezer Spells here freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html Although, sometimes more is needed, such as protection, banishing or hotfooting.

Protection Spells
Banishing Supplies
Although a lot more harsh, read about Hot Foot

If you purchase the spell kits, everything you will need is included...

The differences in Banishing and Hot Foot was discussed in this post hot-foot-vs-banishing-oil-t6526.html

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Feb 27, 2011 8:55 pm

jwmcclin gave very good advice here. Best of luck to you lavender while having to go through this ordeal with family.
Take Care, and stay posted, please.

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 1:14 am

You can also take a look at the fiery wall of protection products and the spell described on that page.
You could order a complete fiery wall of protection spellkit that comes with all the supplies needed for the spell and instructions.

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

lavender2 · Unread post by **lavender2** » Tue Mar 01, 2011 3:32 am

Thank you for all the advice. Two questions: what is the difference between Hotfoot and Firey Wall of Protection? If I use a spell kit does that mean that I don't have to be in proximity of the person, that the candles can stand for him?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Mar 01, 2011 6:17 am

Hot Foot just crosses the person up in such a way that they are driven from their current place and away.

Fiery Wall of Protection is first and foremost a very strong protection work that invokes the aid of St. Michael, however the Fiery Wall spell kit does include an element that is meant to send the enemy away.

Read the links provided you above on the two formulas and kits and you'll immediately see the huge difference between the two.

Ellina · Unread post by **Ellina** » Tue Mar 15, 2011 3:26 pm

Would like to ask regarding Mother-in-Laws and family, my issue is that my husband's mother and his daughter are practically the same. My husband made that connection in his mind.. both pretty much are lazy women who expect everything to be handed to them.. therefore my husband gives everything he can to them, when they should be fending for themselves. He resents his mother, and his daughter is practically following same path. How can I stop these two from using him, asking for his money, always expecting him to do for them? How can I stop them from manipulating him. He married me and does nothing for me, and though I tend to be independent, I feel that something about all this is wrong. Is there a spell to help stop these two leeches from pulling on his heart strings and getting TVs, Cars, and his maintaining of them? Ellina

Ellina · Unread post by **Ellina** » Tue Mar 22, 2011 7:45 pm

anyone?

Ellina · Unread post by **Ellina** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 12:39 pm

Meddling seems to be the biggest problem I have. My husbands family- (ex-wife, daughter, sister and mother) are always paying attention to what is going on with us. My mother in law and his daugther hate my guts because they get money from him and are able to manipulate him. When he married me, I became their aim. I know my husband still gives them and is manipulated by them to give them what they need, and he does this behind my back... but meddling into our relationship has been the way they can stay on board manipulating him. In addition, he has this sense of duty with them, and never with me. He believes he is obligated to them, and not to me. How can I have them break away from his wallet, our relationship and his mind-set. I need him committing to our future, not to them. Ellina

Ellina · Unread post by **Ellina** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 12:42 pm

Sorry for not completing the thought.. they convinced him not to have "a baby" with me. This is ofcourse a major insult to my marriage. Now he doesn't want to try to have a child with me. How can this all be reversed and our marriage get back on track?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 1:40 pm

ellina:
You situation is of a nature that requires a proper reading.
But in general you could use a Skull candle for him and dress it with Protection products and fold the others AWAY with a name paper loaded in the bottom. You may combine this with Money Stay With Me products.
Then make a Honey Jar and add the other women and yourself, to make them sweet on you. In this jar add in their nane paper that they should support your marriage with him and they should want your marriage to produce a child.
Finally, take his measure and get yourself a Nation Sack from cat.

If this does not produce a change in about 6 months - 1 year, then you can consider crossing them up and go for a beef tounge spell.

//Dr. Johannes

rachu · Unread post by **rachu** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:00 am

hi i am new to this forum and i have been closely reading this forum for about a month now and finally decided to join!i need help as to use what to drive my brother in law away from my house. He does not stay with us but every weekend he will visit our place leaving no privacy for us and my husband also does not tell him anything in fact he encourages him to come since he is the only brother he has and even my in laws support him .its been 9 months now and me and my husband have lot of fights because of him and slowly my husband is drifiting apart from me there is kind of silence that came to our relationship and he will talk to his brother for hours togather but cannot bear me even for few minutes!

he was not like that before. we used to enjoy our company but suddenly after his brother came here things changed!this may will celebrate our 2nd marriage annversary.but i dont know whether he rembers it or not!

so i have read alot about hot foot powder and seperation powder that i can put on my brother in law so that he moves out of this town i cannot do that hotfoot spell since in night time my husband will be at home and weekends my brother also joins us any day time ritual i can perform but coul'nt find anything

please help me so that i make him move from here, he stays around 50 miles from my house hence comes over whenever he likes intruding our privacy

i wish i can move him so far that he should not come even once a year!

and also need help gain the love back of my husband.

wating for someones reply! thank you

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:52 am

I think a reading from a Member of AIRR would be most helpful:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/index.
You have a few different issues going on here, Your marriage, Your husband and the love for his brother, and the brother in law who over stays his welcome.
Start on a Honey Jar for you and your husband:
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
As for the brother in law, hotfooting is one approach and there are other methods; however, you should have a reading an determine what is justified. There are several things I could rattle off here but a reading is the way to go!
Good luck and welcome to The Forum!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:57 am

You cannot blame this on the brother in law. I see WAY more issues than just the brother in law. In addition, you cannot split apart family. They are going to be family regardless if you are there or not. So that might be a losing battle that you are trying to fight.

1. I think you need to get a reading BEFORE rushing to try and get some supplies. I think that would be more wise to do so that you are clear on what products would actually help your situation.

2. You need to get down to WHY your husband is pulling apart from you. Its bigger than your brother in law. Something else is going on in your relationshp that probably has been happening before the brother in law...you just started to notice more when he came alo

www.readersandrootworkers.com

Make sure you ask your reader to give you clear recommendations of what products you need to buy as well as what spellwork you need to do. Before leaving the reading you need to have a clear understanding of your situation, and what spellwork (and how to do it) needs to be done.

rachu · Unread post by **rachu** » Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:05 am

thank you Triplethreat and starsinthesky7 i was also thinking about consulting someone!i will do that before actly doing anythin

god bless all

jujubean · Unread post by **jujubean** » Fri Apr 29, 2011 8:29 am

I'd like to distance my partner from his sister. I'm not trying to be mean, he just has an unrealistic view of her and thinks she is perfect and nobody compares to her, which it utter stupidity. Every time they talk, which it's very often, he does it when I can't hear what they are gossiping about, this annoys me, I HATE secrets! I am sure he is only giving his side of the story most of the time anyway, and of course she will take his side and tell him what he wants to hear....making her even more perfect!

Is there something I can do to make her distance herself from him. They are so close I highly doubt that I can separate them magically. She lives overseas and he calls her constantly. I always feel like he compares me to her, he does it in a very subtle way but I know he is doing it.

Thank you for your help.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Apr 29, 2011 8:48 am

Try working some Stop Gossip on the two of them where you are concerned. Also try some Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom worked on him to help him see how that particular behavior negatively effects your relationship.

Have you tried talking to him about how his behavior makes you feel? Especially the ways in which he compares you to her? Communicating your feelings will be important.

jujubean · Unread post by **jujubean** » Fri Apr 29, 2011 11:27 am

I have Devi but he does not (or says he doesn't) see it the way I do. He is a very very stubborn man, I thought I had seen stubborn in my life but never anything like this.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Apr 29, 2011 11:32 am

In that case you might want to consider doll-baby work on him, or a skull candle in order to influence his mind and behavior.

Of course, getting a reading with a professional rootworker would also help pin-point the core issues in play and give you an individualized plan for what conjure will work best given the circumstances. http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

lavender2 · Unread post by **lavender2** » Tue May 10, 2011 1:43 pm

Thanks for the info and advice. I want to do Hot Foot but since I'm not qualified I don't feel comfortable. This summer I'm going to try Fiery Wall of Protection first. My own spells (i.e. Wicca) have so far bound him-that is kept him away but for the most part but his behavior continues and he influences other members of the family. Interestingly I had a reading last week-other than at Lily Dale I haven't gotten readings for about 12 years but I was so stressed out that I went and the reader mentioned him specifically and how I had to be very careful around him and if was possible to physically leave (where I've lived most of my life) I should. That's how bad he is.
A question: when do you go to a practitioner rather than attempting the work yourself??

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue May 10, 2011 7:29 pm

lavender
An excellent question! And some sensible answers:

When you don't have privacy to do the work;
When you are too anxious to do it;
When you don't know how to do it;
When the kind of work you need is not one of your gifts.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

lavender2 · Unread post by **lavender2** » Mon May 16, 2011 1:57 pm

Yes it does. BUT...where I live there are a fair amount of practitioners. I read most of their webpages. How in the world do I choose the right one? They are all links I got from this site so they've all been through Miss Kat's program. Do I just go by my intuition (which has been wrong!)??

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon May 16, 2011 2:56 pm

Try getting a 10 minute reading or other small inexpensive service from the 2 or 3 that you seem most drawn to. See which one you get along with the best and enjoy working with, and then choose to have the rest of your work done by them.

missunderstood · Unread post by **missunderstood** » Thu May 19, 2011 4:13 am

Ellina I can totally relate to how you are feeling and what you are suffering with your husband's lazy mother. I was actually going to post a question on what to do with my situation when I stumbled on your question and I am hoping we can get some advice on what to do.
My Situation is a little different. My bf's mom loves me, but for the past 10 years she has not worked or taken care of herself at all. She depends on my bf to do everything since his other 2 siblings have their own life. They come around once every 2 weeks. His mom also has 2 young children which she just leaves with her friends, sometimea for the entire day, so she can go hanging around and see her ex. She has 3 baby daddy's by the way and depends on child support and government assistance. As of now, her and her 2 kids live with her niece, where she does not cook, clean or honestly do anything but mooch. Now heres something important. She got lyme disease 7 years ago but was on meds and feels better and she also just said she has a small turmor near her ear that shes getting removed. Its not cancerous and she obviously doesnt pay a dime to go to the doctor or for surgeries. Honestly I felt horrible for the first week but then i overheard that she went clubbing and goes out at night. If she was really sick that she couldnt work for 10 years, then she should be home with her kids not going out and leaving responsibilities to my bf. And btw, everytime i go see her Im always the taxi. They live in NYC so when someone has a car watch out, your the new cab. Gas is expensive and by bf fills my tank when his mom wants to go joyriding. She makes us take the kids to school to. Basically she mooches off of everyone she can.
My bf is trying his hardest to be successful by going to school and working and we've talked about moving together. His mom now wants to either move to Florida or Pennsylvania and she wants him to go with her, obviously because shes needy and cant even help her kids do their hw. Be ause theres no man in her life she wants my bf to be the husband, son, brother and caretaker which is okay to a point. Shes too lazy to take action herself and has a permanent guilt trip on him bc of her 'illnesses'. I have known people that were blind or had cancer that worked full time jobs and gone to school without taking people pity. My bf feels obligated to take care of his mom and the kids and i admire that but I want help making him open his eyes and see that his mom is making him hold his life and oppurtunities when she should try helping herself instead of doing nothing all day.
Please if anyone can help with Ellina and my situation post something. Im going crazy over thia woman. Anything to open my bf's eyes and see he can still help his mom but doesnt need to move and live with her? Ive been waiting So long to move with him and am tired of his mom's situation always coming before me to the point where her needs are first. Also anything to make his mom actually get motivated to find a job and stop wallowing in self pity. This has put too much stress of my relationship and my bf doesnt deserve to have to take care of an able bodied woman that wont take care of herself. PLEASE HELP!!

lavender2 · Unread post by **lavender2** » Sun May 22, 2011 7:01 pm

Good idea thank you.

Hellokitty · Unread post by **Hellokitty** » Mon May 23, 2011 11:51 am

I don't know the best spell for this situation. So, I am NOT committed to a Banishing Spell. I'm up for any spell you suggest.

Anyway, my aunt is not mean, she's just rude. What I mean is, I have insomnia, and I'm jobless. So, I tend to sleep in the day. I really do try to sleep at night, but the insomnia keeps me from sleeping at night. It's been a lifelong problem. So, I sleep in the couch in the day time. I come from a poor family. There's not enough room in the house of an extra bed, so I get stuck sleeping in the couch. So, my aunt drops by and screams,"Hey Meek! How ya doing Meek!" I am OBVIOUSLY ASLEEP! Who screams,"Hey!" to a sleeping person. and it's like she specifically doesn't acknowledge when I'm asleep. My mom sleeps during the day, too, because she works at night, but my aunt never screams hello to my mom. But when me,"Hey Meek! How ya doing Meek!" I really do NOT want to be waken up!

That's not the only problem. Not only does she ALWAYS wake me up when I'm asleep, but lately. Like for the last year, she's been inviting all these strangers to our house. I'm thinking,"This is NOT your house anymore. You are no longer a teenager who lives here. You are a grown woman with your own place. Don't be inviting all these strangers into our house." and she doesn't inform anybody. She Never says,"I'm coming over and I'm inviting *blank* and *blank* to come with me." But she ALWAYS unexpectedly come over with all these strangers. Like one time, it was 8 PM, so I went to lock up all the doors. Next thing I know, I hear somebody banging on the door. It's my aunt with 3 other people at the house. I turned to Nana and asked,"Were you expecting company?" Nana says that "Pumpkin" never informs her when she's coming.

Not to mention that the people she invites over are "former" thieves and drug addicts. So, not only is she inviting random strangers into our home without saying ANYTHING at all to us. But these people are thieves and drug addicts. I don't by the former thing for a bit. My aunt is loud, and I keep hearing her correcting people,"No, you Used to do drugs. You don't do drugs anymore." A person should know whether they do drugs or not. You shouldn't correct people to tell them that they don't do drugs anymore.

Personally, I want a banishing. But I understand that it might be impossible because she's family so I'm open to suggestions.

Oh. and just to add, I'm not the only person upset by this. Everybody who lives here is upset. My mom calls my aunt's friends "stray cats," "strays," or "hoodlums." My nana calls "Pumkin" a "Crazy fool" and frequently tells people over the phone how she's crazy and how she's lost her mind. And most people in the family really don't want anything to do with her. Personally, I want to do a bashing person because I'm TIRED of her waking me up. But she's family so I don't know if it would work.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon May 23, 2011 9:10 pm

Sprinkle Peace Water to calm her chatoic and intrusive energies and sprinkle Barberry and Salt across your doorway to keep out unwanted guests. Broom Straws are great for that as well.

You can also put her in a honey jar to sweeten her and calm her down, but on top of the honey jar burn a figurine candle with just a pinch of Alum in its mouth to get her to stop yelling.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue May 24, 2011 4:06 am

I agree with Conjureman Ali with the sweet jar. I think it would be better to get her to calm down, and sweeten her words.

I think Conjureman Ali meant BaRberry not Bayberry. Barberry is great for "barring" or keeping away unwanted people. You may want to use knot weed as well.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue May 24, 2011 7:34 pm

Yup, Barberry. Edited, thanks.

Ellina · Unread post by **Ellina** » Tue Jun 07, 2011 11:15 am

Dear misunderstood; I just saw your note today and have not had a reply quite yet, but I've researched and started to get creative with my small spells. If anything I have learned to get rid of someone is using "hotfoot" spells. I used it on his daughter and in a matter of 30 minutes, that woman was gone from my life and house. I also put basil in my door steps to avoid any ill minded person to step in my house. Though his daughter and mother continue influencing or trying to influence our marriage, talking bad about me and so forth, or get money from him, I am using marriage spells for us, shut the fuck up and freezer spells to keep them controlled and at bay, and most importantly, at a distance. The farther away she is from my boyfriend, the less her influence. Yes, she tried using the pity card, but my love spells and "stay with me" spells have overpowered both their intentions of separating us. In your case, a good love spell for your mother in law would do so she can move on with her life. I know on this site there is one case where she does this for her husband's exwife so she could move on with her own life. I'd say, may be different situations, but if the intent is to get rid of someone or have them fall in love and move on, than they all have similar patterns and may have similar spells.

If anything, I would also get an expert to do this spell for you. There are a couple of them on the association. Sometimes when we do spells, they don't have the same effect as if an expert would. I am an amatour, but getting very good at this, and love helping people where I feel confident. I hope I was able to help. So far, these things are working for me.

Ellina · Unread post by **Ellina** » Tue Jun 07, 2011 11:30 am

Johannes, than you very much for this counsel. I just read it today. I have a couple of questions. # 1: when you say fold the name paper away, and load in the bottom, what do you mean? Fold away?? Bottom of what?? the skull candle??

#2. Can I talk to the candle and convince it to have a baby with me or urge to have one?

#3. Why is the Nation Cat important? isn't that for infidelity? Is Cat a person on this forum, or is it a specific Nation Sack associated to a feline product?

Sorry for the misunderstanding, want to get this one right. Ellina

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Jun 07, 2011 8:48 pm

Johannes said get a Nation Sack from Miss cat. It is a product made by Miss cat and her team at Lucky Mojo.

You can find it here: http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html

QematetSau · Unread post by **QematetSau** » Sat Jun 25, 2011 10:22 am

Hello,

I've tried working on the positive side with my relatives and own mother but they just can't seem to stop gossiping about me and trying to put me down. I'm fairly successful, have good looks, and I'm trying to get ahead in life to leave this negative circle. However, the negative energy, being gossip, trying to put me down emotionally about myself, etc., gets on my way. I'm currently recovering from an illness, and I can't take this negative energy anymore...it will slow my healing, actually it has. I live with my mother and the other relatives are close so I need to put a stop to their gossip and evil intentions. In a way, take their attention off me so they concentrate on someone else to trash around. I want them to stop talking negatively about me, maybe stop talking about me altogether! I'd also like to remove their negative intentions and jealousy from me, the latter especially with my mother. I'm willing to freeze, bind their mouths and thoughts, etc. Much thanks!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:39 am

While there are several rituals at your disposal, one that comes to mind is Stop Gossip (http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html) designed to put an end to harmful rumors, back biting, and slander.

Also, you mentioned freezing, here is further discussion on the topic (freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html#p72165)

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:59 am

1. Cleanse yourself. You need to cleanse yourself of the negativity and jealousy they have been throwing at you.

www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html

2. You need to do some protection work on yourself
www.luckymojo.com/products-protection.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

A protection mojo bag would be helpful as well especially when you are around them.

3. Stop gossip work.

I would go for a stop gossip spell kit, or you can go for the stop gossip honey jar kit.

www.luckymojo.com/products-stop-gossip.html

QematetSau · Unread post by **QematetSau** » Sat Jun 25, 2011 3:41 pm

Thanks ladies!

Now, I've been reading on reverse spells, and would be doing reversal on my mother and the relatives. Can I work a reversal spell on all or one at a time?

Also,

Per your recommendations, I'll be doing a series of works (this thing is big). I'd like to cleanse myself, put some protection on me, send back what they've been sending to me, and, finally, freeze their tongues, actions, etc. Is the following sequence logical?

1) Cleanse myself
2) Protection
3) Reversal
4) Freezing

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jun 26, 2011 1:40 pm

I personally would not work a reversal back on to my mother and relatives. I think it would be best to shut them up rather than turn their negativity back on them.

But yes you can work them at the same time.

Yes you can do it in that sequence but again I would replace the reversal with stop gossip. You could be doing great harm to them which is probably something you want now out of anger, but may regret it in the long run.

isisoflite · Unread post by **isisoflite** » Wed Jul 06, 2011 8:33 am

Hello: For the last six years I have been having a problem with a relative. He hires people to tear my family and I apart. I take the spells off. This time he is trying to kill one of my family members by causing a car accident. can some one tell me what to do to stop this from happening. and to stop him from attacking us over and over again. He hires people to do his work.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Jul 06, 2011 8:38 am

Get a reading to see what the best course of action would be; you may need to hire a professional rootworker to stop this man and whoever he is hiring. In the meantime continue doing Uncrossing work and back it up with Fiery Wall of Protection. Ask Archangel Michael to help you and pray Psalm 91.

isisoflite · Unread post by **isisoflite** » Wed Jul 06, 2011 11:06 am

Thank you I have did the things you have mentioned. plus more. I have an appointment to speak to someone on next week, but right I am worried about the relative getting into the car with the other relative. I fear for him if he gets into the car with him. is there anything I can do about him getting into the car with him? When I had a reading the reader confirmed a vision I had about him having an accident if they were in the car together.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 11:44 am

You can certainly pray to St. Michael to protect your relative. Take two St.Michael holy cards facing outwards and place a picture &/or personal concern (hair, nail, etc) of your relative in between them, pray strongly over it, and keep a St. Michael candle that you have prayed over lit on top of it as long as you need the strong protection. Pray over that at least once per day - 3 times if you're able.

Emma · Unread post by **Emma** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:36 am

Greetings, I've never posted to the forum before, although I've been reading through the archives quite extensively. I've seen several topics that touch on the elements of my situation but not all of them together so I thought I would take the leap and ask for help.

I was granted full custody of my son about a year ago. During that process my ex started saying slanderous things to our son about me. He was not happy with the verdict of the case and continues to try to poison my son against me. I believe wholeheartedly my ex has Narcissistic Personality Disorder and that his mental illness has a harmful impact on my son. He has latched onto our child as a constant admirer and energy source. He encourages our son to only like what he likes, to think what he thinks, to feel how he feels, without any regard for our son's existence as his own individual self. My son is a developmentally delayed teenager and believes every word his dad says and obediently emulates his attitudes and behaviors to get his father's approval. My son currently has every other weekend day visits with his father. My ex is now talking about going back to court to modify the visitations to overnight visits.
Although there are elements of gossip and court involved in this situation, I am mainly concerned that the more time my son spends with his dad- the more time he's exposed to his father's twisted way of thinking- the more he is harmed by this influence. I want to stop my ex from poisoning our son, stop him from manipulating him emotionally, dominating his life and setting back any progress my son manages to make.

I've been considering several options but I'm not sure which would be suited to this situation. Fiery Wall of Protection for my son. Hot Foot to get my ex out of this area to minimize the physical contact he has with my son. A freezer spell to stop my ex from saying harmful things or from proceeding with visitation changes. Essence of Bend Over to forcefully make my ex stop what he's saying and planning. I'm also wondering about spells involving mirroring or reversal. I'm hoping that someone outside of the situation and with more experience might be able to see to the heart of this matter and what could be done to accomplish my goals.
Thank you.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 9:35 am

I would make a doll-baby of your ex, stuff the mouth with slippery elm and alum, and then sew it shut with commands for him to no longer be able to affect your son through his speech; bind it's hands and legs with commands for him to no longer be able to affect your son through his deeds - and then put that into a mirror box with Reversal and Stop Gossip powders.

I would definitely do the Fiery Wall of Protection for your son, but you might go one step further. I would also make some kind of inconspicuous protection amulet that could be placed with your son during his visits. For instance, does he always wear the same pair of shoes? You could make, or have an AIRR member make, a protection packet of some kind that you could place under the insole inside his shoes. Does he have a backpack that he always brings with him? You could make, or have an AIRR member make, a protection mojo or similar that you could sew into his backpack some place that neither he nor your ex would like likely to notice - like at the bottom of one of the pockets.

I would also be doing cleansings on your son to help keep any and all negativity from being able to get anywhere near him - especially after a visit with the ex, and keep him clean and blessed. If you cannot get him to take spiritual baths, or if he wouldn't be open to you giving him egg cleansings, you could add some Uncrossing and Van Van to his shower gel or body wash or other toiletries.

Of course, you could always make a doll-baby of your son and work by proxy on it for these types of cleansings, and also various protective rites. I get the vision of a doll-baby of him kept in a box of protective and blessing herbs, and before his visits to the ex you take a square of cotton cloth, dress it with Fiery Wall and pray strongly over the cloth, and then wrap that around the doll to give it an extra layer of protection and Motherly love. Pray your love and for his protection over that doll and cloth every day he's not with you. You could also cleanse the doll baby at the end of each day he has visitation, as well as do things like plug its ears (so he cannot hear the negativity from the ex) and blindfold it (so he cannot be swayed by what the ex may show him or do). Just un-do those things once he comes back home again.

As to the Court Case aspect of things, hopefully you know the name of the judge that will be hearing your case? Put yourself (and your lawyer) and the judge into a Court Case honey jar. Then place your ex (and his lawyer) and the judge into a vinegar jar with Inflammatory Confusion products to cause the judge to be soured to him, and for their interactions to be heated and confusing.

Emma · Unread post by **Emma** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 3:27 pm

Thank you so much for your insightful and detailed response Devi Spring.
I spent the morning putting together a shopping list and now have the needed supplies heading my way.

imjewell · Unread post by **imjewell** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:03 pm

What your ex is doing has a name: Parental Alienation. It is a form of child abuse. Your child may be exhibiting Parental Alienation Syndrome. While you are using the good advice of forum members here, you might also search these terms and find an online support group.

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Wed Jul 20, 2011 8:36 pm

I have a family member who has a violent past. He's known to be manipulative and violent. He has even spent time in prison for sex with a minor and there has been accusations of other offenses. My concern is that my children are around my sister sometimes and this family member may eventually come around my kids when I'm not there. My question is how do I keep him away from my kids? He travels for his job alot, so, can I send him away for a long time or something or make him move? I don't have access to personal concerns of his either. The only thing I have on hand right now is protection oil for my kids, do I need to use firewall protection instead and hot foot him?

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:46 am

I think you should use the fiery wall of protection spell kit found here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wall.html

You can read about the fiery wall of protection spell here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

If I were you , I would do a divination before doing the Hot Foot work. There might be other types of work that would be better or would be recommended in addition to the work. If he is indeed dangerous it might be good to address that and try to restrict him or bring him to justice.

If you do want a reader or rootworker to help you out, you can find one here:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:08 pm

Yes, it sounds like you should also work on keeping the authorities watching out for him. That is something that can be accomplished with a Fiery Wall of Protection spell. This includes a ring of 7 candles, each of which is named for a protector. No reason why these names can't include "Child Protective Services," "Police," "Family Law Courts," or saints and spirits who are known to protect children from harm.

Fiery Wall of Protection Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

You may also want to consult an AIRR rootworker for a reading and to assist you in whatever spiritual work proves to be necessary.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:44 pm

You can also petition Archangel Michael, who is a protector of children. Pray Psalm 91.

Emma · Unread post by **Emma** » Thu Jul 21, 2011 7:31 pm

Thank you imjewell. I have found information about Parental Alienation in the past but hadn't thought of joining a support group. That's a good idea.

BlessedOne · Unread post by **BlessedOne** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:06 am

I just placed an order for the following candles (Stop Gossip, Healing, Cast off Evil) to be set at LM's altar, but I 'd like to get further advice on my situation.

My mother has cursed and sworn at the family incessantly, and this horrible behaviour has extended to people that she becomes familiar with, and has gone on for the last 40 years. Whilst she is not the sole problem in my family that has had many other problems, she has certainly contributed to a significant amount of it. I remember her standing outside my bedroom door for up to 2 hours screaming and cursing at me many times when I was younger, and she has done this to my brother and my father as well.

In the recent few years, this behaviour has gotten worse in some ways, and it culminated into a crisis amongst immediate and extended family members in the last few months.

I am really at a loss as to what to do because we have put up with her for so many years and we keep going back to being nice and filial to her always hoping against hope that she will change. This is the first time that I am going the spiritual route to attempt to manage her because I have no more tolerance for her insane behaviour. So apart from counseling, medical treatment (which I do not believe will help as I am sure that her behaviour stems from a combination of her personality and background), I would appreciate any other advice that would be able to help.

Thank you.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 3:37 am

Hmm....

She may suffer from some kind of mental disorder too...apart from her personality and background.

I would get a reading and see what is going on with her, and see if this is a psychological issue.

Next, I would reach for a tranquility products along with peaceful home, and peace water. I would opt for a sweet jar to help calm her down too.

www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html
www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

If she is angry about things have happened to her in the past, then Cut and clear may be of help to help her move on from a past with negativity.

www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

BlessedOne · Unread post by **BlessedOne** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 5:11 am

Dear starsinthesky7

Thank you for the advice. I will add the Tranquility candle to the rest of the candles that I am having set. And yes, will get the reading - didnt occur to me for some reason.

On a separate note, can you advise me: I don't seem to find the Tranquility candle under the "Candles set on our altar" link in the LM catalogue page. Is there another separate list of candle products in another page/link on LM's site? I can use the link you kindly gave me, but am asking for future reference.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 3:45 pm

I think this is what you may be looking for
http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... ility.html

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Jul 25, 2011 5:17 pm

strawberrykid wrote:I remember her standing outside my bedroom door for up to 2 hours screaming and cursing at me many times when I was younger, and she has done this to my brother and my father as well.

You know who this reminds me of? Fred Phelps. The so-called "Reverend" Fred Phelps.

Now, your mother may not be standing out in front of funeral homes holding signs plastered with evil lies, but Phelps treats his family just the way your mother has been treating your family.

Working on blessing, tranquility, sweetness and light are all very well for folks who have been made temporarily mean by hard times, but FORTY YEARS?

Seriously, FORTY YEARS?

we keep going back to being nice and filial to her always hoping against hope that she will change.

Why should she, when you cave in and give her what she wants?

Folks like this KNOW they are in the right (but they ain't) and CANNOT SEE ANY REASON to treat you any better. Their view is that the Golden Rule is for OTHER people.

Please, do the strongest protection work you can for the rest of your family. Do peace and healing work for THEM. Mix plenty of King Solomon Wisdom and Crucible of Courage into it.

And bring the law into it. Get her evaluated if you can. Get a restraining order if you need one.

Seriously, if you were my best pal, I'd be reaching for the Hot Foot.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 4:24 pm

My mother nags and starts drama too much. how do i fix this. she nags and picks fight with me all the time. im so sick and tire of this.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 4:51 pm

I would work with a honey jar. I would work with peaceful home products.

www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 6:47 pm

Sprinkling Peace Water can also help.