Spells for Peace in Family, Family Bonding, Help with Blended Family

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon May 16, 2011 11:34 pm

If your list was that specific then it may have taken a while to manifest the right circumstances to meet this person. It does happen.

Mama Micki's Peaceful Home Honey jar is a great idea. I second it. While burning a candle on top you can burn figure candles around the honey jar in a triangle with all of them facing inwards towards the sweetness and honey. One for each of you.

beebee22 · Unread post by **beebee22** » Fri May 20, 2011 2:17 am

Thanks. I have decided to not carry out any spells as things are suppose to be as they are, and I don't want to change things, not for the worse anyway. Why rock karma. Thanks for you suggestion on readings I may look into that in the future.

moonmaiden · Unread post by **moonmaiden** » Sun May 22, 2011 6:27 pm

Yes, we are very much in love. Things are perfect actually. I was ABOUT to start a honey jar when things started to change. Actually my mother enjoys his company now. Perhaps it was because i was sending those intentions out into the world but all is good in that scenario!

sadly though i had another issue....of sorts....I have posted a NEW topic, if you two awesome people could check it out

carolann1972 · Unread post by **carolann1972** » Thu Jul 07, 2011 6:45 pm

Hi all!

I was hoping to find out if there is a way to do a "realization" spell or working to get a family member and his girlfriend to realize the wrong they are doing and make it right with out causing anything bad to happen to them.

My father in law and his girlfriend has pushed my husband and I out of the family business and they are driving all family members out of his life.

I want them both to see the wrong they are doing and make it right.

I know that his girlfriend is mis-leading and mis-representing me and my husband and other family members to my father in law. However, he is blindly letting her do so.

How can I get him to see her for what she is and what she is doing and get him and her to stop? I do not want to hurt either one of them but I do want them see that they are hurting people and make them stop.

Thank you!
Carolann

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 11:40 am

You can do a skull candle working on them using Clarity oil to get them to see the situation clearly. Influence oil would help you to push them to make amends.

Of course, you can also consider mirror boxing them so that any new negativity they create will bounce back at them, rather than effecting others around them. Reversal products would be most useful for that.

A combination of those works would also likely be very effective.

carolann1972 · Unread post by **carolann1972** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 7:18 pm

Thank you so much Devi! I will search these products and come up with something! Thank you again!

Carol

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 7:35 pm

You are most welcome. Best of luck in your work.

carolann1972 · Unread post by **carolann1972** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 7:47 pm

I did some research on Cat's Colour Symbolism In Candle Magic page and I was wondering if I should use a purple skull candle for compelling, control or commanding?

Thanks Again!
Carol

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 6:31 am

Yes, purple is what you would use for those works.

carolann1972 · Unread post by **carolann1972** » Wed Jul 13, 2011 1:05 pm

Thank you again!

Charisma · Unread post by **Charisma** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 12:54 pm

I need any advice that can be offered as to how to make a father & his daughters relationship stronger and allow love to flow into the relationship. We did court case and won (my previous topic) however the mother is creating negative thoughts to daughter doing visits which is causing a gap to come between the 2 again (she has been in our home for 8 months without a problem until THE visit). I know teens are going to be teens but this kid is heartless and only 15 (never met a kid like this 1). Should I consider doing seperation on Mother/Daughter which there is already a HUGE rift between them but I need to not allow her to have so much negative influence on her. The mother feels since daughter ran away from home to be with her dad she is choosing a side and is a traitor so she is just content with having the girl feeling torn and feeling stupid for wanting to be there but talking negative about me & my husband. I really want to see there relationship improve. He has always been there for her but her mom has her thinking just because she hate him that their daughter should to. At this point I have to say she is mentally fragile (15 yr old). And I've been told she has a invisible person she talks to from another parent that she spent the night by and it was mentioned a problem with one of the mothers many boyfriends. My intuition tells me she was molested, but I could be wrong. Any advice is welcomed??

Charisma

double · Unread post by **double** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:53 pm

Which candle do I need to light , I am hurting from all the insult and dirty names calling/my daughter call me .
I need a Candle lited for Healing. . Her father was near death when I arrived . I want to stop thinking about the dirty name calling work from this weekend The words are stuck in my mind like tape recorder. All I wish is her dad speeds recover. I also wish her and her fiance happiness and a wonderful engagement together. I need to forget and go on with my life. after she and I discussed her father busy the night before I arrived. and I told her on the phone what she needed to do .But after I got to LA,her boyfriend was there. That is when she said he knew all the in/outs to get the paperwork done - POWER OF ATTORNEY letter etc..... so she would be in charge of dad financials and make all his medial decision. After she got the 1st piece of information need – she turn and said "he and I can handle this now". I want you to get on the plane and go hommme. I don’t need you here , he is doing all the work while you are just talking. I am the person in charge of my dads assets not you .And I also told the DR & Hospital not to give out information on my dad condition to no one including you. Insisted that I was jealous of him helping her and I didn ‘t like him. This was my second time meeting the guy. He was constantly calling her on the cell phone to see if that paperwork worked or not.
. She started cursing and screaming from the top of voices at me to leave and called me all kinds of dirty names. until I said ok, I will go OMG OMG the language and dirty names she used to insult me was terrible .All I could do is cry She drop me off at LAX where I spent the night waiting for a flight home on Monday.Tuesday, I called to see how her dad was doing. And she talked a minute and . Afterwar I got text messages back to for 5-10 min straight. Telling how embarrassed she was about my attitude. Going on about me not liking /wanting her boyfriend to help her. Well the boyfriend saw me as a threat to the CASH COW. which candle do I need to light , I .

double · Unread post by **double** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:56 pm

I left out details to get to my piont.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 8:45 pm

counseling for starters, id also cleanse the home after the visit using chinese floor wash and using peaceful home products, via oils, insense and candles. Id also consider a honey jar to sweeten her to her father to support this relationship. good luck

angel4decale · Unread post by **angel4decale** » Wed Aug 03, 2011 11:09 pm

First of all mother to mother my heart goes out to you...but it will be alright please pray and forgive your daughter, then cleanse yourself spiritually If you don't have any products on hand you can pray psalm 23 over some olive oil (i speak it into the bottle) and put seven drops into your bath water, if you don't have olive oil you can run your water then pray psalm 23 over your bath water and release the situation to GOD and just relax a moment. Here is a link to the candle page http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html I would look into a saint Jude and a reconciliation candle as well. And here is a link to the dressing oils http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html. I am not a moderator or a professional and I'm sure someone will read your post by tonight and give you better guidance, I just want to give you hope and tell you it will get better and with a little spiritual help you and your daughter will work things out.

double · Unread post by **double** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 2:59 am

thank you ,i am going to have a healing candle put on the altar and take your advise on saint Jude and a reconciliation candle as well. You guys r a great spiritual support group

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 8:15 am

Chinese Wash (http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html)
Peace Home Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html)
Honey Jar (http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html)

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Aug 04, 2011 12:47 pm

I think the best thing is to start with a reading. This is a complicate situation that need to be treated with some delicacy.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Aug 08, 2011 8:27 am

SPL-KIT-PEAC
Peaceful Home Spell Kit
$67.50

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Aug 10, 2011 7:54 am

If lucky mojo sold purple skull candles, then this would be excellent. Since they do not, you can certainly use white, and then surround the candle in a triangle formation with purple candles. Dress each free standing candle with commanding, compelling, controlling or essence of bend over oil.

tboy1977 · Unread post by **tboy1977** » Tue Aug 16, 2011 9:45 pm

This takes my breath away. My cousin and I found each other on Facebook the other day and we exchanged numbers and had a deep but good conversation tonight. I am currently staying with my grandmother and my father and my aunt (my cousin's mother) have ZERO relationship with my grandmother. My other aunt, my grandmother's youngest daughter, just came to visit. My uncle Sam, my aunt's husband, has possible renal failure. It ain't looking good. My dad and I have no relationship. I am fine with this, but I want him to see his mother. His parents reared me. Ever since Grandpa William died, the family has drifted apart. My two aunts do not speak. Basically, its a hot mess. My sister is not completely away from a jobless, using, manipulating, self-serving, jackass. And the cousin is a thieving, raping, plifering idiot.

The question, how to fix this? Can I fix this? I don't even know the whole story underneath all the negative emotions. I asked my cousin if I could ask my grandmother for permission to invite her, but she said no. OKAY? What to do?

PS: At least I am over my fury with my sister's boyfriend's cousin! He still needs to pay, but I want this far more......

tboy1977 · Unread post by **tboy1977** » Wed Aug 17, 2011 8:46 am

Well I got Grandma's half of it and it sounds like she didn't approve of my cousin's choice in boyfriend (there is a fire sale and poor judgment with men in our family, seriously) and the crux of the issue is she asked my grandmother for dinner and cancelled at the last minute and was upset that she couldn't re-schedule. Each one has this iron wall up. But its only non-communication and misunderstanding. If I didn't know better, knowing how tight-knit we were when we were kids, I would think some evil spell or jinx was the culprit. We are not close anymore. It's really sad. Too sad. I want to fix this, but I know it will take time, physical work and magick. Any ideas?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Aug 17, 2011 8:52 am

Well, obviously a lot of cleansing, blessing and healing need to be done. You could make a Peaceful Home honey jar, and add plenty of Blessing and King Solomon Wisdom, too. Maybe even a little Cast Off Evil.

For a situation as complicated as this, though, you might want to consult with a reader from AIRR -- the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers.

The Honey Jar Family of Magic Spells: www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Peaceful Home spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
Blessing spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
The Independent Association of Readers and Rootworkers
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

tboy1977 · Unread post by **tboy1977** » Wed Aug 17, 2011 7:22 pm

I guess I'll focus on getting the job.....then Miss Bri is going to have to work her magic........good lord. When I saw my cousin, she was like, Grandma isn't family to her. WTF? I hope hoodoo can fix this. I feel like this is going to take some Ms. Cat level magick to fix.

tboy1977 · Unread post by **tboy1977** » Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:34 pm

I found out today that although the problems underlying are PETTY and silly in the end, the emotions are strong. Just iron wills. This is a five year problem.

MissBec · Unread post by **MissBec** » Sat Aug 27, 2011 3:39 pm

I had a friend, who was nearly like a sister to me until a few years ago.

I then entered a relationship with a male friend of hers. He turned out to be abusive. During the relationship I was forced to cut off contact with her, while he still remained in contact. She did not know of the abuse, and he told her I'd made the choice to stop speaking to her and he didn't know why. When I finally got sick of being abused and beaten and left him, he told her all kinds of lies to turn her completely against me.

I haven't spoken or seen her in nearly three years now, but recently I have been thinking more about the beautiful sister-like friendship we once shared. I have tried twice to contact her recently, with no response. I would like to reconcile the friendship we once had.

There is of course the major roadblock of my ex and my ex's new girlfriend (who the old friend happens to be close with).

I was thinking a course of road-opener spells to clear obstacles and a reconciliation/return to me honey jar to restore the friendship. Is there anything anyone else would recommend? I would like to do this in a non-forceful way (if coercive magic is required in this situation, I figure the friendship isn't meant to be). As for the ex and his girlfriend roadblock, any means necessary and I can live quite comfortably with any ill effect on them.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Sat Aug 27, 2011 4:01 pm

If you are unsure if the friendship is meant to be, getting a reading on the matter is advisable. In fact, getting a reading before any undertaking most spellwork is beneficial because a reading can help indicate whether the situation is workable. I would advise you do this first.

That said, I personally don't see the point of doing road opening work as the only real obstacle to reconciling with your former friend-sister seems to be your ex and his new gf. I would focus on getting them to shut their mouths. I would work a stop gossip conjure on your ex and his new gf and, depending how destructive they continue to be, do some work to make your former friend to see the truth about the situation.

The honey jar for your former friend is a good idea. I would use that in addition to a reconciliation spell kit or vigil light. Good luck!

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

andy598 · Unread post by **andy598** » Wed Aug 31, 2011 5:07 am

Is there a quick peace remedy to bring together a family? My spouse daughter is causing problems between us by getting mad at her mother for having a relationship with me. We have been married for a short period of time and her daughter does not like me. I want to start some type of work immediately to prevent a possible breakup and calm her daughter. Her daughter is strong headed and stubborn. I have ordered a honey jar already from LM, but need to start other things immediately. Maybe a candle spell?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Aug 31, 2011 6:13 am

Try sprinkling Peace Water around the home to calm things down. You can also diffuse Peaceful Home oil in an oil burner, or burn Peaceful Home incense each day while praying for peace in your home. And then, once the Peaceful Home honey jar arrives, craft it and pray over it daily.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Aug 31, 2011 5:42 pm

Peace Water is a must have:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
Good luck, peace and Blessings!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:47 pm

In addition to Devi Spring and Miss Tammie Lee's recommendation Lucky Mojo has a Peaceful Home spellkit (http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html) designed put an end to strife in the home and settle conditions so that every family member is contented and co-operative

nyla24 · Unread post by **nyla24** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:07 am

HI in new here and would like to ask ,whats the best spell for a peacefull home environment?

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Your post was split off into a new topic because it was not quite relevant to the original topic you posted it on. Protection from enemies and Peaceful Home are not quite the same thing.

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **BLindstrom** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 12:11 pm

Hello nyla24

My suggestion is to start with a home enviroment cleansing first before filling it with new positive energy.
Maybe http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbaths.html#special Chinese Wash would be what you need.

For Peaceful home spellsupplies, I suppose you have had a look at this : http://www.luckymojo.com/products-peaceful-home.html?
Usually a vigil candle prepared with oil and herbs will be a good choice.
Ofcourse there are several other ways, depending on the special needs of the different family members.

Good Luck
Miss Benedikte

nyla24 · Unread post by **nyla24** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 3:16 pm

thanks much miss benedikte will try

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 8:25 pm

Peace Water... and stock up because the Holidays are right around the corner

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
peace-water-questions-and-answers-t11260.html
Good luck and peace be with You!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 8:31 pm

I agree and a little goes a long way...

nyla24 · Unread post by **nyla24** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:50 am

thanks every1

Tavia · Unread post by **Tavia** » Fri Sep 16, 2011 3:56 am

Hello All,

Lately, my mother has been really uptight and mean towards my boyfriend. In the beginning she was nice to him, but now she is starting to dislike him for irrelevant reasons. I really do plan to go far with this guy, I really see a future with him (By the way, I'm currently working a honey spell on him too *wink*)

I don't want there to be any unnecessary drama between him and my mother down the road. Is there a way I can sweeten my mom to my boyfriend, but not in the "romantic" kind of way? If so, what specific herbs, oils, candles, and other ingredients should I use? Please help. I appreciate your feed back

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Sep 16, 2011 6:24 am

I would work a Peaceful Home honey jar on the two of them, although the herbs in the Love Me honey jar can also be used for sweetening platonic relationships as well.

Tavia · Unread post by **Tavia** » Fri Sep 16, 2011 9:33 am

Devi Spring wrote:I would work a Peaceful Home honey jar on the two of them, although the herbs in the Love Me honey jar can also be used for sweetening platonic relationships as well.

thanks so much. I def will try this

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 7:42 pm

Hello all.

I need your help please.

I would like to start a honey jar to build a good sisterly relationship with my younger sister. Throughout our life we have never been close but we are now both mothers of 2 beautiful boys and I would like to sweeten her up towards me. She is a Leo, has a very short fuse and yes, we have had our fights and long periods of not contacting each other. We do not live together.

I spent some time with her this weekend and I feel in my heart that this is a perfect time to start working her with a honey jar to get close and build a relationship.

My honey jar will contain:
1. Blood root (strengthen family ties)
2. Camphor square (clear out any ill feelings)
3. Some of her hair, some of mine
4. Basil (happy family)
5. Lavender flowers (harmony, friendship)
6. A happy picture of both of us
7. Happy Home Oil

Am I on the right track?

I have several LM oils but not sure which one to use and/or what color candle. Yellow? Orange? Van Van? Road Opening?

Thank you in advance for any ideas on how to proceed on this issue. Blessed be all.

Believe 129

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:41 am

I would use blue candles with your Peaceful Home oil on the honey jar. You could also add a vanilla bean for sweet love between the two of you. And since there have been fights and such in the past, make that you include balm of gilead buds so that past wrongs can be forgiven, hurt feelings soothed, and a new start can be possible! Those balm of gilead buds are VERY important when you're trying to reestablish a relationship.

You may just want get the Reconciliation honey jar kit, and then buy a package of Peaceful Home herbs, and a package of bloodroot. It would likely be the easiest and make sure you get exactly the herbs that you need for your case.

Best of luck!

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 3:54 am

Great suggestions by Devi and I LOVE this post! I also have a younger sister and she and I have had trouble getting along with one another in the past. She recently moved back home and we have been spending much more time together and it has been so enjoyable for both of us. To you honey jar idea I would add a whole Angelica root. Angelica is associated with both women and peace/healing. An especially lovely touch would be to take a strand of your hair and a strand of her hair and tie it around to the root--to symbolize your bond with one another.
Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:24 am

I think situations like this are more common than many of us realize. I know of at least one person who would have to do some serious cleansing first before she could do this kind of work

Miss Michaele

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 10:04 am

Thank you for you input & guidance Devi Spring, Miss Bri and Miss Michaele!

Devi Spring - The Reconciliation honey jar idea is great. I am hoping for a reconcilition for sure! There are actually 2 people I would like to reconcile with, my sister and a co-worker. Would I need to purchase 2 kits or can I do it in the same honey jar? Im leaning towards individual hj for each because family and work are 2 different animals...

Miss Bri - I am so happy for you and your sister and hope you continue to enjoy each other. That is awesome! I have faith in my heart that one day my sister and I will enjoy each other. Yes.
Note taken, I will wrap our hair around the root. That is such a good suggestion!

Miss Michaele - You mentioned cleansing before doing this... I just put in a LM order and bought an Uncrossing Kit last week... Im now thinking to make the honey jar after I get/use the kit. Maybe make a dolly of my sister and cleanse her too????

I am so thankful to be part of this community and have input from such wonderful people!!!!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 11:09 am

Yes, I would use two different Reconciliation kits since the two contexts are completely separate.

For the co-worker you might want to do a divination to see whether Reconciliation or Boss Fix (which can be used on co-workers as well) would be more appropriate.

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 12:45 pm

Yes. I will keep them separate...

I also thought of doing divination for the coworker issue because I dont know if there is potential to reconcile. Yesterday I sent her a text to call me ( after not speaking for about 19 months) and she has yet to respond. We didnt fight or argue, we just went different ways while I was reassigned to another office. Now I am going back to the office where she remains and DO NOT want drama or weird tension with her. Sigh!

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Fri Sep 23, 2011 12:14 pm

Hello everyone ....

My Parents have been married and living together for 26 yrs and like most couples they had thier little bikkers and arguments here and there now seems like my dad got upset/angry over a very small argument or rather a word used by my mother as she was dicussing my sisters wedding with him and since the groom side of the family was being uncooprative abt the wedding hall she said exectly these words and he snapped "they are stubborn and so are you." now my father is know to be a bit stubborn and snappy abt everything going his way and so are my sis's inlaws but after my mother said that he that he wanted a divorce (this was like abt 4 weeks ago).

he calmed down after a few days with and still would not talk to my mother but things were getting back to normal and out of nothing where no one said anything mean or wrong to him something in him snapped again and since yest he started acting up again .....

im married and dont live with my parents but i do have two sisters and they know what happend so thats how i know it ....i really want them to be happy and my mother really deserves it she has been nothing but devoted to my father all these years and it sinks my heart my dad is acting like this ....

can anyone suggest anything ....i cant do a honeyjar cause i dont have thier hair and i live too far from them and my sisters would freak if i told them abt honey jars and stuff and would not cooperate but i belive its helped me with my husband.

any thing any spell i can do on my own to help them resolve this and reconcile ....

I would really appriciate your help
Thanks

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Sep 23, 2011 1:24 pm

Hi Cindy9,

While hair is one of the better personal concerns, you can also use a picture of your parents with their full names and DOB in the honey jar. Work the jar faithfully that way and in future, when you do visit them, get the hair and add it to the honey jar.

Blessings.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Sep 23, 2011 1:57 pm

I would work some Peaceful Home (http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html) conjure...you have enough information about your parents to work this spell until you get the hairs for the Honey Jar. I would mail cards dusted with Peaceful addressed to your dad. Good Lucky.

darqueangel9 · Unread post by **darqueangel9** » Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:45 am

My niece recently had a baby by a guy no good and neither is the rest of his family. Unfortunately my family has a habit of laying down with dogs,and picking up tons of fleas. ANyway,instead of tears of joy there've been mostly tears of sorrow and anger. A rift has been placed between my niece,her parents and siblings because of the animosity they feel towards the baby's father. CPS has decided that my niece shouldn't be stripped of custodial rights,her parents are very very angry. They're also angy with me and my mom because they feel that we've been taking my neice's side. We've been helping her out because she was supposedly in a program to get a job we only wanted the baby to be with her mother. Now the rift in the family is even bigger,and my sister isn't helping matters because I now believe she has been running her mouth and playing both sides against each other. Sorry to be so long winded but my heart is breaking and I could use some advice. Thanks

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:25 pm

Hi darqueangel:

It sounds like you've been helping out your niece, either financially or in some other way, and the whole truth hasn't been told? I say this because of your statements "CPS has decided that my niece shouldn't be stripped of custodial rights, her parents are very very angry/she was supposedly in a program to get a job". Did your niece lie to you or your family or CPS, or all three? If she is being dishonest and possibly neglectful of the child, the child needs to be protected first. I would work with some Clarity products and Guardian Angel, to reveal the truth about the whole situation and to protect the niece and her child from any harm.

To calm and cool down the whole family from spreading gossip and trouble about you, put their names in a honey jar along with some Balm of Gilead buds, Sandalwood chips, Rosemary and Five Finger Grass (to ask for favors, asking them to play nicely!). Light white or blue candles on top of this jar daily, dress the candles with Tranquilty oil. Pray that your family starts working together peacefully and in love of God/Spirit. Once things get better, light the candles on the jar 3 times a week.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

darqueangel9 · Unread post by **darqueangel9** » Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:41 pm

Greetings Mary Bee,
Thank you for the reply. At this point I don't know what to believe. She is so enamored of the babies father. I have a feeling that she thinks the baby will keep them together and change him. She's only 19 and very naive. Even before she had the baby her mom was saying that she was going to take the baby from her. My niece is a very sweet girl whowent through a lot of emotional turmoil as a small child. Her self esteem was shattered by her mom and maternal grandmother. They used to call her Baldarina because her mom messed up her hair with relaxers. My mom and I have always been rather protective of her. She's such a sweet soul. Well any way thanks for the advice.

sunseer88 · Unread post by **sunseer88** » Mon Nov 14, 2011 9:23 pm

I hurt my sister very badly, not physically but emotionally. She is rightfully upset with me. I have worked hard to fix the issue, but recently she cut off communication, removed me from facebook, etc. We were once very close, and now she does not even want to visit the state I live in, because she is so upset with me. is there something I can do to encourage forgiveness and reconciliation with her. I know there are the basic reconciliation supplies, but just curious if anyone else has other ideas. Thanks.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Nov 15, 2011 9:06 pm

Reconciliation Spiritual Spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) can be used in this situation. It is designed to put an end to the sorrow and hostility which sometimes keeps friends, family, etc. etc. and apart. So it would idea for you to heal and re-establish your relationship with your sister.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 10:34 pm

Well... unless it is Stepford... you may have a fun loving family that may not always get along, normal but loving and sometimes dreadful.
Hello... for all those with inlaws, Moms, Dads ,Uncles, Aunts, Ex wives and ex husbands coming together for the holidays
Thankfully there is Peace Water:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
Happy Holidays!

thebrands · Unread post by **thebrands** » Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:51 pm

Hello, never been on this site before but a friend has told me about it... my husband has 2 children from a previous marriage that his ex isnt letting him speak too as he moved to Canada for work and they live in Scotland. We are wanting the children to come live with us or either her giving us permission to have them at least for summer holidays. Shes already been turned in for neglect but nothing was ever proven. We know that shes not taking that great of care of the boys but we have no way of having proof of that. Wondering what we could do to make things difficult for her that she will have to turn back to us for help. Because of what shes done taking his kids away and not letting them contact them has given him great depression and anger. I want her to pay for what shes done. We want those children back. I'm done sitting back watching my husband get more and more depressed everyday not only is it hurting him its starting to take a toll on me as well. Please help..

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Nov 27, 2011 2:58 pm

First, you need to get a lawyer, especially one who specializes in international custody issues. If the ex took the children without your husband's permission to another country, there may be legal ways to force her to come back. I have no idea are what the laws are in Canada about that, so you will need a lawyer.

You may wish to look up a reader at AIRR (http://www.readersandrootworkers.com) to get help with Court Case conjure. Marin Graves is a lawyer and rootworker and specializes in legal work conjure:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... rin_Graves

Good luck,
Mary Bee

thebrands · Unread post by **thebrands** » Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:16 pm

My husband is from Scotland himself. He moved here after seperating from his ex for work. And because he had met and married someone here and is living here in Canada and going to be applying for Residency and Citizenship, his ex won't let him speak to the children at all. She didn't take them to another country, they've always lived there. We want her to feel the same pain shes inflicting on him, and we want her to give us rights to have the kids here for holidays, and for her to take them for there medicals we need done for residency to Canada.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Nov 28, 2011 6:46 pm

Thanks for the clarification. Again, you may want to consult a reader/rootworker to help you with what may be a long or complicated legal issue. In the meantime, you can make a honey jar on the ex wife to "sweeten her up" towards your husband; put in his name paper, her name paper or picture, pictures of their kids, Balm of Gilead buds (to heal hurts), Deers Tongue leaves (to encourage communication).

Read about honey jars here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee