Spells to Influence, Overcome Resistance, and Change Someone's Mind

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Oct 09, 2011 7:33 pm

Absolutely, Saint Martha is great for this type of work.

Learning-Doing · Unread post by **Learning-Doing** » Sun Oct 09, 2011 9:01 pm

GoldenFlow7 wrote:Hi Theusurper,
Firstly your post helped to remind me of something important. I have Reiki and once you recieve your attunement you have a shield around you. I believe you can try ConjureMan Ali's suggetion or go for more loving approach because the energy is love and love conquers all. If you love him allow him to walk his path. The energy calls you. It took me one year after Reiki entered my path and beckond to me and I followed not realising it was the Energy working out my path to it. It took me across the ocean just to get my Attunement. I know when you love someone its hard but supporting him can be the greatest gift you can give him and yourself.

Blessings!

The Usurper ,

as a reiki master myself I agree with Goldenflower . once the attunement has been given to someone , yes , there is a shield around this person And Inside them because the reiki energy goes even into the DNA to transform someone . and that path can lead someone Away from those that are trying to manipulate and control them . But in respect to this forum being a LM Hoodoo forum and not Reiki , definitely seek out their products that are of a more gentle, loving nature . maybe even baths to help heal whats inside you that you feel the need to control this person? work with this person in building your love and relationship and perhaps less time trying to Dominate him, Reiki will only continue to lead him away if you do. so , in my humble opinion , LM is amazing in what they offer to help you heal You and gently bring about more Love. i adore LM's Chupparosa and Adam & eve vigil lights for this purpose .

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Oct 10, 2011 7:27 am

Resistance in a Lover (resistance-in-a-lover-t9109.html)

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Mon Oct 10, 2011 1:29 pm

I'm burning the red jumbo candle and look so beautiful, no mess the light go hight and steady. this is the 3 days and don't hear from him yet. I think is a good sing but he doesn't call yet. any advice will be good for me.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Oct 10, 2011 3:05 pm

Remain patient and let the work do its job. You may want to petition Saint Martha to shatter his reistance to you. She is more powerful than any "shield" and knows how to deal with men who play with women's hearts.

Remember to compliment your work with love and passion conjures as heavily working domination without love or sweetness will not bring you love.

Learning-Doing · Unread post by **Learning-Doing** » Mon Oct 10, 2011 3:27 pm

best of luck in your quest Usurper . patience is always best in matters of the Heart. out of respect for the forum i did not go into the true basis of Reiki , but since this is what is causing his resistance to you and you posted for help involving Reiki , its becoming Attuned Directly to Gods Power , Gods Life Force . that may very well be why he no longer responds to your work and is so resistant to it . so , the "shield" is actually considered to be Gods energy within him and that is the most powerful thing that i know of and that is what your partner is being taught in his classes .the classes hes taking might actually , in the end help him to be a better partner to you . but definitely follow CM Ali's advice . much respect to All and to this forum . i post this only to help clarify for you what process your partner is going through . the more you understand , the better plan of action you can take .

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Oct 10, 2011 6:11 pm

I've worked on reiki practitioners without any difficulty. Love shouldn't be forced and if reiki is making him a better person and leading him away from you then you should wish him well. If however you are intent on wanting this man then the works outlined will do the trick and get through to him. None are immune.

Learning-Doing · Unread post by **Learning-Doing** » Mon Oct 10, 2011 8:12 pm

my post was to inform Usurper of what might be causing her partners resistance , not doubting Hoodoo , Conjure, Rootwork or your ability or work you have done on a few Reiki practitioners CM Ali , I infact follow your posts and advice closely

. when in her own words since taking these classes and having his attunements , he has become more resistant to her work even when she calls upon the help of Saint Martha the Dominator . None are immune , I agree but I'm sure many have broken free so to speak of being worked on . yes, I am new to Hoodoo but If all domination workings kept every person to us , would there be a need for cleansing , blessing , healing and cut and clear work? So, I hope that my posts were not seen or taken by you in a negative way . Just my experience that I am sharing with Usurper on this particular subject. If i didnt believe in the power of Hoodoo, I wouldnt be here right now.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:35 am

I'm reassuring usuper, not responding to you. No need to worry that you're being misunderstood. Thanks for your perspective on reiki, now back to hoodoo.

splitpea · Unread post by **splitpea** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 8:57 am

My boyfriend and I live together, but he wants to move to another city, which puts him closer to his family but keeps me away from mine.

How can I make him listen to me or change his mind so we don't have to leave??

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 9:10 am

Your question is answered here (to-change-someone%CA%B9s-mind-t1064.html)

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Oct 14, 2011 11:46 am

From mildest to harshest: Influence, Compelling, Commanding, Controlling, Essence of Bend Over. You decide what it will take to make him do what you want. You might also try I Dominate My Man and working with St. Martha.

Other ideas might be using a skull candle or a doll of him.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 10:15 am

I think Saint Martha is appropriate for this situation, but considering you have been working on this person for quite sometime perhaps you need to call in some reinforcement from another rootworker to back up your stuff. You may need to go back to the drawing board with your work as well.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 10:26 am

I agree with Mama Micki. I would try some compelling over a white skull candle in addition to working with I dominate my man. Saint Martha may help you as well. BUT i must say that this may be a temporary fix. YOu may want to get a reading to see what would be the best thing for both of you.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.com

Unread post by **Lord SP** » Sun Oct 23, 2011 1:44 pm

If its influence and not control your looking for I would suggest Bend Over....I use it sometimes as a fragrance and I must say it does have an alluring effect on the mind...From my experience with it using it for a few weeks,I say I like the way it works because it's subtle...IMO...I would just advise doing what your heart tells you where it could be a win/win for everyone involved....I mean if you comprimise maybe you could move half of the distance to both of your families,with both of you guys in the middle....Just a suggestion hope all works out well for you,darlin.......Be Blessed

Learning-Doing · Unread post by **Learning-Doing** » Sun Oct 23, 2011 10:35 pm

yes, you are right ,bk to Hoodoo CM Ali ! and i should have been more supportive to Usurpers posts and questions. and i left out that , yes, i have worked with St Martha before and shes so powerful, i was blown away . anything is possible with the right game plan !

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Mon Oct 24, 2011 9:09 pm

Will do this myself.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 2:45 pm

Actually on the spectrum of things, I would put Essence of Bend Over with Domination and Controlling *not* with Influence. Its a recipe aimed at making some bend over for you.

awlookatmenow · Unread post by **awlookatmenow** » Tue Nov 08, 2011 7:49 pm

Look I've been burning a intranquil candle on my man but he is very stubborn about everything what else could I do to get results with him with our relationship. We havent been spending a lot of time together lately

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:36 am

You should get a reading with an AIRR worker to see why you are not seeing results. http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Nov 11, 2011 10:15 pm

If he's already your man and the issue that he's not spending time when you then your issue is that you're working with the Intranquil Spirit. The Intranquil Spirit is aimed at drawnig back a wayward lover. For a person to spend more time with you, try Stay with Me or Stay at Home products, or the slightly more coercive Follow Me Boy.

For keeping a man at home, the carrot works far better than the stick. Who wants to stay in a tense environment?

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 11:16 am

Instructor threatening to fail
by 1love » Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:10 pm
Its a bad situation from the start. I've been told that my instructor has accused some of cheating on an exam. I believe that some are wrong for cheating but he's wrong for cheating them as well. He really does not teach anything he always tells us stories about things he has done in the past. For example he told of a story when he was at a party and claimed a girl as his girlfriend, he told us how someone stole from him in college, the splitting up of his marriage, his mom with Alzheimer's, his stand about the president, his Fb page, getting into fights ..etc. I really could go on but I'm not. Cheating is bad either way but not teaching is cheating your students. He should just shut up about it and move on. There are 3 classmates that I know he is referring to, I'm Not One of them but I do feel it's unfair. We go to lecture and he lectures about his life. It's crazy. He does not have a right on this one bc he really was not doing his job. So whether we read as opposed to those who don't we both are cheated. I want to shut him up. They r wrong but so is he. Need something quick bc she says he's doing something this week.
1love

Unread post by **Khi Armand** » Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:59 pm

Hi 1Love,

If I were you, I'd consider something along the lines of a Lemon Freezer Spell to "put him on ice" so to speak. He sounds like someone who shouldn't be wielding the power he has and this type of working is good for cutting off his influence and freezing his ability to cause harm.

You can read more about this type of working here: http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

You could dress your petition paper with Bend Over, Commanding, and / or Shut Up products, as well as the lemon and any thread you may use in the working. I'd also suggest using some Alum in the work to really shut him up and prevent his words from harming others.

Hope that helps!

Blessings,
Khi Armand

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Mon Nov 21, 2011 1:26 pm

Thank you for your help.

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 1:40 am

It worked completely. Thanks

blackdiamonds · Unread post by **blackdiamonds** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:19 pm

I would like to do a spell on a man to change his mind about only liking me as a friend and wanting to be my friend
I've read about skull candle and was thinking about using one of those, but am not sure what oils to use but was thinking it would probably be a controlling oil?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:38 pm

What you need is something to make him think of you in a more romantic and sexual manner. Bewitching, Follow Me Boy, and Kiss Me Quick to get him interested; Love Me, Chupparosa, Dixie Love, and/or Marriage for a long-term relationship.

blackdiamonds · Unread post by **blackdiamonds** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 5:12 pm

The thing is...he's a very stubborn man and he just wants us to be friends even though he likes me , he is attracted to me (ive had 3 readings on our situation in December) so would it be a good idea to like add controlling oil or something?

Unread post by **Spellkiss** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 7:50 pm

hmm good post please add more suggestions i have a similar case.

blackdiamonds · Unread post by **blackdiamonds** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 7:55 pm

I just saw your post, spell kiss, sounds VERY similar to mine haha

Bellasangre14 · Unread post by **Bellasangre14** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 10:08 am

I started a couple binding spell and was waiting for the Saturday of a waning moon to work a break-up spell on my target which is tomorrow because their is obviously another woman. I've been having dreams where there are all these woman stopping me from getting close to my lover. I feel that he is not only resisting but has someone working him. I was wondering if there is something to cleanse him of whatever someone might be doing to him and make him more receptive to the work I'm doing for him. Thank you
Peace & Blessings

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:02 pm

what was your target doing in the dream? I know dream meanings are highly personal and can be hard to interpret. It doesn't sound like he's resisting to me, from what information you gave. I would see that dream as meaning there were many other women in your way when it comes to gaining this man's loyalty...In other words...there are other women...not just another woman. I would do a Nation Sack if you can get the concerns as called for in the spell. Also, maybe get a reading from one of the AIRR members to see what kind of work is needed for your situation.

Bellasangre14 · Unread post by **Bellasangre14** » Sat Feb 11, 2012 10:53 am

Thank you SweetLady...After discussing it with my best friend I realized that his mother sister and now this new woman have been working to get between us. So their are several women. I'm considering a reading. I remember reading a while back about a ritual with a glass cup over the targets picture or name paper to help protect him from other workings. I couldn't seem to find it though. Anyway have a fantastic weekend.
Peace & Blessings,
Bella

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:29 am

Nice posts.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Apr 07, 2012 12:26 pm

No, why would you want to use controlling oil? That would be something forced that probably wouldnt last long. Personally, I would go with Love me and come to me products along with bewitching. If you want that slightly dominating aspect then add some follow me boy. Cinnamon, and ginger can help spice up this friendship as well.

www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html
www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/cinnamon-powder.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/ginger-root.html

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Apr 07, 2012 6:14 pm

ConjureMan Ali posted a spell for resistance in a lover found here (candle-spells-to-overcome-resistance-in ... t9109.html)

Glaciers · Unread post by **Glaciers** » Mon May 14, 2012 4:20 pm

I have a colleague who at times seems to be like jekyl and hyde. Often she is quite arrogant and so full of herself, to the point of being snippy

. I would like for her to come off her high horse and have some humility. she thinks she's above everyone. What can i do to take her down a notch or 2? i was thinking of writing her name on paper and crossing it with "be humble" or something like that and of course putting her in my shoe.

I have her business card and have access to her office, computer, chair etc.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated as i have to deal with her often.

Thank you and blessings.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon May 14, 2012 4:50 pm

Your shoe paper is a good idea. You can also get some Clarity sachet powder and mix it with local dirt (to blend it) and sprinkle that lightly around her desk, praying that she clearly sees herself for who she is.

You can also put her name or picture in a mirror box, so that everything she does (good and evil) comes back to her.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon May 14, 2012 4:58 pm

Id love to hear some ideas on this posting. I have two coworkers who were promoted into upper positions last year and have let it get to their heads, very pompus, talk down to people, rude to workers, over work them, its like their a demagod. I personally dont put up with it but im a strong personality. yet iv been threatend to be fired twice over it lol. I normally stick up for ppl too scared to for themself. point being id love to get the yoke to fall on them, their evil deeds, words, harshness fall back on them. im thinking reversing, the mirror box, ? I know I can mess their lives up but as the other poster implied I really would prefer it to be a work related mess up, meaning it directly reflects on their job etc. thanks !!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon May 14, 2012 7:32 pm

MaryBee my thoughts are the mirror box for this situation. Its discussed in detail toward the end of this link < http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html >

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon May 14, 2012 8:38 pm

@ Glaciers

I would put this person in a sweet jar so that they are more sweet to others. You could use clove, lavender, and deer's tongue so that they will be more friendly, cooperative, and have nice talk with others.

@J82

I would use the mirror box.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue May 15, 2012 3:49 pm

thanks starr I looked it over and I definetly like it. I was wondering if anyone could answer for me this question: I was thinking of burrying the box at work where they would frequently walk by it/under it. We have planted some new plants for earth day that I care after and I could easily slip them in those places. thoughts?

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 4:39 pm

I'm trying to get a friend to come to a trip with me that starts in a few weeks, but her family/co-workers are creating obstacles, as she is having trouble obtaining permission. They are glued to their words. What can I do to change their decision so she can come with me? Preferably to expedite...

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu May 24, 2012 4:57 pm

Use some Influence products and Road Opener (to literally "open the roads" to your friend traveling with you).

Get some Influence sachet powders, mix it with the local dirt, and sprinkle it in the path where your friend's family members walk, and pray as you do so that they will allow her to travel with you.

http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 5:03 pm

Thank you for your suggestions, MaryBee. So just the sachet powder, or would I need oils/candles, etc? The main problem is her mother...

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 5:10 pm

Also, I was thinking about the Bend over spell as well, but do not have a personal concern of the mother.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Thu May 24, 2012 5:35 pm

If the mother is the primary obstacle, you might consider putting together a honey jar on her. Along with the Influence work Mary Bee suggested, you could work a sweet jar for mom, and burn candles dressed with Influence oil on top of it. Bend Over is pretty stern work. Gentle persuasion might be easier here than a spiritual shoving match with a strong-willed person.

Regarding personal concerns: you could use a sample of her handwriting, or her picture. If your friend visits the mother at home, picking hairs out of a hairbrush is a pretty standard way to collect concerns. Barring all else, you can get by with just her name, but a stronger link is better.

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 6:03 pm

Mister Hob wrote:If the mother is the primary obstacle, you might consider putting together a honey jar on her. Along with the Influence work Mary Bee suggested, you could work a sweet jar for mom, and burn candles dressed with Influence oil on top of it. Bend Over is pretty stern work. Gentle persuasion might be easier here than a spiritual shoving match with a strong-willed person.

Regarding personal concerns: you could use a sample of her handwriting, or her picture. If your friend visits the mother at home, picking hairs out of a hairbrush is a pretty standard way to collect concerns. Barring all else, you can get by with just her name, but a stronger link is better.

Hello, I'm not sure how I would prepare this honey jar? Would the 'Influence Another Person's Mind for Good Purpose' HoneyJar kit work? For personal concerns, I do have a picture of her. She is coming to my house sometime in the second week of June, but I doubt I can snatch a strand or two of hair from her head.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu May 24, 2012 6:10 pm

That honey jar kit would absolutely be perfect for your situation. You're trying to influence her mind to a "good purpose": the good purpose of you and your friend traveling together. The personal concern of a picture is fine to use in the jar.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Thu May 24, 2012 6:36 pm

MaryBee wrote:That honey jar kit would absolutely be perfect for your situation. You're trying to influence her mind to a "good purpose": the good purpose of you and your friend traveling together. The personal concern of a picture is fine to use in the jar.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Thank you for your suggestion!! So I should discard your earlier suggestion then, or use both in conjugation (in hopes that it will be stronger and work faster)?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:14 am

You can use both suggestions! It's very common to work with multiple tricks to get the results you want

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:26 am

Roxthefox,

I would get the influence honey jar spell kit for the mother. I would definitely work a road opener vigil light with this along with a van van to change the luck she is having with her mother. You can definitely use her picture. I would buy some influence powder and dust it on some junk mail or on the porch or near the car where the mom is going to step.

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 8:41 am

Thanks for the suggestion. Actually now I feel like my friend is starting to make excuses too. What could I use for her?

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 9:07 am

A kick in the pants? Seriously, though, the question is if your friend is honestly having secong thoughts, or if the family ruckus is wearing them down. If they're starting to buckle under the strain, you could bolster them up with some Crucible of Courage or John the Conquerer work. If they're just rethinking going, the question becomes do you want them there if they don't really want to be there?

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 2:41 pm

Looks like LM has a backlOg and it will take 6 weeks. Think I'll just to make the honey jar myself

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:23 pm

Maybe this will help:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Unread post by **Lord SP** » Fri May 25, 2012 3:56 pm

If her mom has a Faceboousak page you can actually print a picture of her and use that as a personal concern just a thought.Be Blessed now....u[

roxthefox · Unread post by **roxthefox** » Fri May 25, 2012 6:48 pm

I do have a picture of her mom already, but I thought we could only use objects that are linked to that person.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 7:29 pm

The closer a personal concern is, the better. Hair, bodily fluids, nail clippings, etc. are the best, but you can get by with something hand-written by them, their picture, or even just their name, lacking anything else. The more removed from the actual person the concern is, the further you move down the potency scale. Foot-tracks are good, too, if you can capture them.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri May 25, 2012 7:32 pm

Sorry, this might help:

http://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html